Today we're gonna be taking a look at a TikToker who is using the death of her husband for views and to sell her book. Credit to Bush on TikTok for the deep dive Twitter: / xenoshot Twitch: / xenoshots
LOL this woman has given me second hand embarrassment. That poor minimum wage employee got trauma dumped on. Imagine having to tell the next driver, "Hey someone bought your meal for you because her husband was brutality killed."
Right? It's supposed to be a happy meal and she made it a crappy meal. That person gonna be so depressed trying to eat during their probably only 30min lunch break, over some random strangers severe, unwarranted trauma she has relentlessly unleashed on innocent victims.
Agreed! My husband and I were in the drive thru watching this video, and we immediately started cracking up!!! I said, "Could u imagine this happening to us?!" *Talk about incredibly awkward... lolololololol! I'm really soft hearted, so I would've been totally upset and remorseful with this crazy woman... lolololololol 💯
I'm calling it. She didn't know this man. She picked a random murder case and made up a story she thought she could sell. I hope she gets sued for something because this feels like it should be illegal to profit from a murder case you had no connection to.
You may be on to something with them never having met. 😃 The social media postings are free speech.. weird, but her right. I wonder about profits from a book, though. I don't know. Certainly not criminal, but civil from his family? 🤔 Even then, probably not poetry..
ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-GYKHoslvjvU.htmlsi=AgvcDmy7nVpJOoEV This Video from August the Duck actually says that she had no real connection with him, but I don’t know if the sources are correct or not. I was just linking it for curiosity’s sake.
The family has confirmed as much. They had like 1 date and she barely knew him. The family is livid as they should be, don’t blame them at all. She’s a stalker of a dead man. Also trying to monetize the brutal killing of a man she is a basic stranger to, also. Gross doesn’t quite cover it.
Yeah...she's creeping me out, especially after it was revealed that they weren't even married. I was also wondering if she had some knowledge or other involvement in the matter.
Nah.. 😄 Crazy ladies like this have been around forever. Generally harmless. We just see them now because of social media. Don't worry, kids. She's a box of rocks.
Yeah. No wonder the family is upset with this woman. She has created a fabrication to exploit a victims murder and made the whole thing about herself to profit off.
You have to face the fact that people like her are just the disease. The vaccine to her type of virus is basic parental education, rational thought, and critical thinking. There used to be the guy standing on a soap-box in town selling snake-oil, or a flimflam preacher selling a guaranteed way into the Pearly Gates. This hasn’t changed in a thousand years, it’s just a different format. It’s still the very same ignorance of the very same people themselves, that give any validation or credibility to these people.
Complete narcissistic behavior. I've lost people very close to me and sometimes I still cry over my losses. It's not my entire personality years later or forcing people to be involved in my narcissism. I hope her family gets her some help. This is a whole inappropriate level.
@@moongoddess8568 I'm not sure what grounds they would be able to sue her. Now if the police can prove she is financially gaining from this in a fraudulent way then she can be brought up on charges that way. I'm not sure what other grounds the family would have to make her shut up with her lies or stop posting about it. The judge might order a limited gag order meaning she wouldn't be allowed to talk about things or post about things that fall within certain parameters set in the order but again, I am not sure on what grounds it could be ordered. I hope someone has legal grounds somewhere so they can stop her :(
God, I used to work in fast food and when people would dump their tragic back stories on me as they paid, I would just stand there, saying "ooh nooo" and "I hope you have a better day", secretly wishing they would go tf away. I am not your therapist. I may have gone to school for psychology, but I went to become a researcher, not to sit you down on the counter and ask how your breakup or how your brothers wife's dads death affected you. In reality, I was thinking "I don't care. I don't know you and as soon as you walk away, you won't exist to me anymore. This is super uncomfortable and extremely unpleasant. Plus, I think you're extremely rude for dumping all your bullshit on a random person who barely makes enough to pay her bills just because you want some sympathy and aren't adult enough to control yourself in public. You're not even gonna tip me after making my shift so uncomfortable and bad, so f@$k you and I hope someone does this to you later, except I hope they drag it on 50 minutes longer". This lady is unbearable and evil. Not only f@%king with random employees to get sympathy to feed her addiction to attention, but then filming them as a means of getting more attention online. All while taking advantage of a man who horrifically died and putting it online for millions to gawk at while his family watches in anger. F@$K HER and everyone like her. So many are seemingly afflicted with Munchausen's syndrome or " " by proxy thanks to social media. The most despicable mental illness that I wish those who have it would get punched in the face, starting with her.
As a kid I was taught that there is no need to announce your good deeds to the world. You don't do something nice for the thanks or approval of the world, you just do it; if the recipient doesn't thank you, then that's on them; if they thank you, great; if they want to shout your praises from the rooftops, awesome. If you shout your own praise from the rooftop (like posting on social media), then you're being a vain braggart.
My great grandparents passed away tragically 16 years ago today. When it happened, a “friend” of theirs wanted to write a book about them. But like surrounding her. We told her to, politely, fuck off.
This is pretty yikes. Nothing like using a murdered loved one for profit. 💀💀💀 10 years later……..little disturbing… Prayers for the family they don’t deserve this.
A true widow will not be exploiting her deceased husband, if anything it makes you shut down and want privacy to heal and process the loss. This women legit gives me the vibes shes bragging about her loss and his death as if its a victory for her...I think she did it. This one needs a hazard/warning sign over her head asap.
I agree. Really disgusting, disturbing and so inapropriate... I'm still in a state of mourning and I just don't want to talk about it... or at least I would never share this with strangers on the internet! I'm so sad and I cry when I'm alone or at my therapist... This woman and her behavior is weird, sick in fact. Oh well... 😓 😒
It's amazing to me that anyone would use their significant other's death as something to garner "likes" and as an advertisement to sell her so called "books" ... pitiful! and shame on her!
They should investigate her closely since she's behaving like that. There was a lady on the news recently that wrote grief counselling books. She murdered her own husband so that she could write about it. People that use such traumatic events so selfishly need to be checked out in case they had something to do with it.
IF she even knew this dude, I bet she was a real stalker to that dude! She reminds me soooooo much of Jodi Arias!!! Wonder if they know who and why he was “brutally murdered” bc she fits the bill for that type of thing especially when she was never even married to him and still doing this after 10 years!! Crazy!!! I gotta go look this up now 😂
The family has confirmed as much. They had like 1 date and she barely knew him. The family is livid as they should be, don’t blame them at all. She’s a stalker of a dead man. Also trying to monetize the brutal killing of a man she is a basic stranger to, also. Gross doesn’t quite cover it.
My fiance died earlier this year and it has been insanely difficult to handle, especially online where any time I bring it up I just have to accept some people will be very rude about it. Even if he died five years ago I cannot imagine trying to monetize it. Just really bizarre and sad to watch.
I’m so sorry. I cry even just thinking about my boyfriend dying, I can’t imagine what you’re going through. I hope you have people around to support you.
Dude I work in retail, and I feel really uncomfortable when peoples cards decline and they start crying that they are having the worst month and and a line getting longer right behind them, and their personality changes when I tell them I don't really care and if I should put their stuff to the side while they get their financial situation sorted jaja
My ex-wife worked retail in the era (maybe it still happens?) where the instruction was "cut the card in half" and she did so a few times. She did not like doing it.
She definitely murdered him, literally just to get attention she has literally never gotten in her life because she has zero personality. I mean it's sad, but somehow I'm happy for the man he got away from her. He's resting in piece, so pretty much anywhere she isn't.
@@lisaperry5999that's who I thought it was at first. She was on a TV program promoting her book and cookies if I believe. And it was her who killed him.
This reminds me of the story from earlier this year where a woman on several news sites told her harrowing and heart-breaking story...for the reason why she left her soul mate after he had surgery to remove a cancer tumor in his brain. But don't fret! She also ran in a marathon in his honor earlier this year too! What an inspiring story...to be a total piece of sh*t.
I normally don't comment on your videos, but this made me livid what she is doing. 😡 And a liar on top of it. Thanks Xeno! Great commentary as usual. 👍
She is just trying to milk it for money, playing on peoples sympathy to sell her books or whatever they are, along with trying to get people to feel sorry for her. this is sad, and i feel for his family with her trying to make a buck off of their tragic loss. karma comes for everybody hopefully it comes for her soon.
It's more than just the money she could make from selling her soulless writings. That's not poetry, that's someone using words charged with energy to try and receive attention, praise, and admiration. The true poets having underwent a life experience, speaking from that meaning and touched by the creator, are able to relay through language the sense of wonder and the sublime, and with their insight create a light within the people who heard them. People seeing the power and influence garnered by these beings, craving that for themselves, learned how to imitate the effect. They became clever with their words, seeking to beguile with an agenda, instead of illuminate with unequivocal truth. That shit she spat was a foul. It's like she thought the title Juilet Lives was a genius idea for a book, and crafted a means to that end. Her words are loud and hollow, filled with meaningless conviction. She is the embodiment of 'no shame.' She has built an entire identity around this event. It defines her existence. Otherwise no one would give a damn about her, she'd just be another another lady hitting the wall. It's pretty despicable and sad at the same time.
Omg... This is horrible. Damn, my heart goes out to his family. I really couldn't imagine the grief that they have to endure, along with ignoring someone like this woman...
If you milk a loved one's passing like this, they were never a loved one. They were nothing but an opportunity to make cash after their passing. They never meant anything to you. You didn't love them. You tolerated them until they were somewhat useful to you, even in death.
Well at least she's not as bad as Kouri Richins who wrote a children's book on grief for her kids who lost their father to an overdose which became a best seller, only later to be found guilty of his murder.
The family has confirmed as much. They had like 1 date and she barely knew him. The family is livid as they should be, don’t blame them at all. She’s a stalker of a dead man. Also trying to monetize the brutal killing of a man she is a basic stranger to, also. Gross doesn’t quite cover it.
If I was a drive through employee and some chick cried while telling me she is paying for the cars order behind her because her husband was murdered, I would absolutely not let those feelings/vibes be put on another customer who is just trying to order some food!! Nor would I give them a damn letter, I would simply tell them that the person in front of them paid for their order and have a beautiful, blessed day!!
I hope they have the right person behind bars for the homicide of her “husband”… I’m getting some Jodi Arias vibes. How does she have a letter ready to give to the car behind her? Did she just have this feeling that somebody behind her was going to be military? Does she have a bunch of pre-filled letters to spread her loving kindness? This is sick and if I was her ex-boyfriend’s family I’d be furious. She’s a narcissist to the extreme! I hope her books bomb I’m sorry not sorry but this is cruel to his family and other families of victims and completely disrespectful to the man who was killed.
I'm SPEECHLESS! Ironically I live in Miami, Fl & 30yrs ago my ACTUAL FACTUAL husband & I were Carjacked on my way home from work @ MIA Airport & he was shot twice. He in fact lived 2 more years B4 passing away. HOWEVER, other than this I'VE NEVER spoken about it randomly & even WORSE I was 8mnths pregnant and STILL NEVER tried getting ANYTHING out of his death. Idk Gen X just DOESN'T ROLL THAT WAY 🙄 Good LAWD get a LIFE. These people DON'T WANT TO GET A JOB, SMH. That's all I could do after that happened to me bc I had a NEWBORN. I HATE SOCIAL MEDIA & ESPECIALLY CCP CHINA'S POISONOUS CANCER that is TikTok 😡 It's RUINING today's youth & I wish it'd be BANNED . . . Your's Truly Gen X Woman Mom and Wife ☮️♥️🇺🇸🙏🕊️
The lows people go to just for a dollar never ceases to amaze me. She keeps saying “most gruesome homicide in Florida” as if they’re keywords for promo. Zero photos of them together. Zero mentions of her or him on either socials around the time he was “brutally murdered” yet she’s all giddy about things she enjoys on social media. How is she this upset today which is 10+ years from the tragedy yet seems completely fine closer to the actual date.
It’s like that one coworker who completes a task and needs to be acknowledged for it. She wasn’t married, so screw it. I just want my Egg McMuffin. You’re blocking the drive-thru!
I just visited her TikTok account and she's getting totally blasted in the comments on her videos. I'm honestly surprised she hasnt deleted the comments or turned off comment altogether. I'd love to see Robert's family send her a cease and desist at a minimum, and possibly sue her for fraud and emotional distress. She's exploiting and prolonging their pain, and there's a special place in hell for people like her.
I don't see any problem with someone making content about a loved ones passing if it's about helping others with the grieving process or if it's to bring awareness to drunk driving or fentanyl etc. Etc. But content like hers is so cringe and is clearly entirely self serving which makes it that much more cringe. It only takes watching a 1 or 2 of her or anyone's videos to really get a feel for their motives...and people like her are whats wrong with society. She should be ashamed honestly.
In Florida we have the Baker Act which is for mental health emergencies, and the Marchment Act which is for drug use. Looks like we need a third one now for disturbing the peace. Co-opting a dead man's story and upsetting his estate/living relatives has to be illegal or should be. But this state is so concerned about library books kids don't even read anyway.
Maybe she thinks he’s her “spiritual husband” if that’s even a thing. It’s the most messed up thing I’ve ever seen and I wonder if his family is able to send her a cease and desist letter of some kind.
Or maybe using the label "husband" turns up the sympathy dial a few notches. It's disgusting. I recall a lady who got famous for her "bravery" following the loss of her husband in the twin towers on 9/11.. except it never happened. People are gross.
She could easily say surviving family member or getting through the loss of a loved one. She doesn't have to say what happened over and over again in order to make a brand off of it. There are families that have been destroyed by violent crime so there's definitely a place for it, but you don't have to sell it like that, selling it on shock, which is not the right approach
As a minimum wage cashier I have actually had a customers randomly tell me about their sons tragic lethal car accident among many other random things from various different people.
My bestfriend Linda was murdered on Jan.15.2001...22yrs later I can barely talk about it...EVERYBODY deals with death & losing somebody nobody is exempt.
Remember when SpongeBob ripped his pants and his catchphrase became, “BECAUSE I RIPPED MY PANTS!” - all I hear coming from her now is, “BECAUSE MY HUSBAND’S DEAD!”
You outdid yourself on your commentary. I had to keep stopping the video from laughing so hard. This woman needs some serious psychiatric intervention- her ability to sob like that at will is frightening. I guess there have always been lots of people like this in the world, but now there’s no escaping them because of social media.
She’s playing Braveheart/titanic soundtracks on her videos. His poor family! and she thinks she’s psychic, “if there’s anybody that you have lost and I think there is, she sees you. she’s watching you and she loves you!” the worker: “okay”
Honestly her not even being actually married to the victim actually makes everything make so much more sense. No real widow/survivor/person whos lost someone close to them would ever do something so cheesey, disrespectful, or exploitative of someones death like this. Also the poetry literally sucks. She gives big jodie arias vibes. Scary
I'd be willing to bet nothing "brutally" happened to her husband. He probably passed away from natural causes or something simple but she's just exaggerating for clout. 🤔
THANK YOU FOR MAKING A VIDEO ON THIS OMG. a smaller channel HuesJr2 made one as well, you guys are the only people i found that talked about this topic
Smfh this is absolutely disgusting. I actually went through a trauma where I found my boyfriend dead on his living room floor after I woke up (spent the night at his house but he got sick the night before so he slept on the couch) I woke up & literally found him on my own & this happened in 2020.i could never in my entire life use that to get any type of internet clout & if she was really grieving then she wouldn't dare do this. I couldn't ever even imagine hurting his family like that, they're trying to heal too & anyone who's ever really lost someone that they loved would know not to do something like this. So freaking disgusting!!
The internet definitely brought out the creepiest and most despicable of humanity. Some people will go to any lengths for attention and use tragedy for monetary gane... both women and men!! They just use it in different ways.... descusting any way you put it. I couldn't imagine useing any of the people I loved who have died as a means to gane for myself in any way! These people are sickening and it's obvious. If you've genuinely lost someone and are having a really hard time I get it but expressing that at the drive thru while recording it all because it's planned out is descusting!!!! Make a video in there memory that actually has there face in it more than yours... at least try to show it's about them and not you.🤔🤔🤔🤮🤢🤮🤢🤮🤢🤮🤢🤮🤢🤮🤢🤮🤢
Two family members were murdered in the late 80s, and ever since then, I make sure to pay for people's meals at drive-thrus every day. It really makes a difference.
This is completely unrelated to the big picture but her drive thru rant and paying for the car behind her reminded me of something I think may help the reader find a little hope in humanity again... I used to work at Taco Bell. Sometimes someone would pay for the car behind them and maybe the second car would do it too. Never more than 2 or 3 in a row though, except one time. That night was awesome! The first one paid for the car behind. We informed car 2. They were grateful and passed it on. Next car same. Then another, and another and still another. It became almost a game for us. It lasted over an hour and only a few asked how much the next one cost. Most didn't care, just paid without knowing until after. There were several whose orders were under $10 but since theirs got paid, they were instead spending $20, even $30 for the next car. In total, this chain consisted of 40 something cars! The one who broke the chain was unfortunately not a very kind person. He didn't come across as someone who could afford to continue it, but even if he could, he didn't even seem grateful that his was paid for. It was a sad ending to an amazing chain of kindness and love! I later learned of a Dairy Queen in Minnesota that had a chain so long it made the news! Over 900 cars paid for the next one. Here's a link to that in case anyone is interested: www.cnn.com/2020/12/09/us/pay-it-forward-dairy-queen-trnd/index.html
