TIPS TO A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE! (OUR PERSONAL EXPERIENCE) 

Idk what it is about these two but i missed em a lot.

watching this even tho I’m single

you can tell how much they’ve matured and learned about each other since their really old videos before having kids. mashaallah may allah protect your family always. 💕

Guys I was eating an icecream sandwich right when you both started laughing and I legit sat here choking and laughing with you guys. omg I haven't laughed this hard in ages. Another thing, Dina you were the reason I became interested in Islam 5 years ago. I took my shahada this year. Love you guys. Ramadan Mubarak

shit them laughing is like the cutest thing ever

Awe.. The way Sid looked at Dina when she said “I love it when Sid talks to me about his aspirations and personal goals.” 💕 Sending you good vibes guys!

These guys probably have no idea I even exist, Alhamdulillah they've impacted my life and my mental health soo much in positive way throughout the years, may Allah reward them, accept it their efforts and grant them the highest rank in jannah 💖

Woah guys been watching you for soooo many years! Dina got me interested in Islam, Alhumdullilah 3 yrs Muslim! Botswana subbie here xx

It's been nearly a year since your last video. I was like " 80 YEARS LATER"

I know Dina said a million times that this is only gonna be for Ramadan, but I honestly think you might wanna reconsider. The reason why we love these videos is because we get to see you interact with each other for good amount of time without interruption from kids or any other distraction. I personally learn so much from seeing you talk and interact with each other. I loved it so much when you had the podcast too. You might wanna think about something that you two can do for this channel that will give us the same experience even if it not the question thing.

Were seeing a whole new person in dina. Your last talk about kids brought life back to me. I was really struggling and to know that many parents feel how i feel made me souldier through

Sid: “I hate Tik Tok. With a passion”. Cutting him off: a Tik Tok ad

The diff levels of affectionate topic - you’re basically talking about the 5 diff love languages!

That laughing bit had me in hysterics. Best feeling in a marriage is to laugh with each other.

!!!! everyone’s favourite duo is back 🤪

I missed you two together like this honestly! And plz do a second part and one important point could The dynamics of each other’s FAMILY! I don’t know about you guys over there but it’s an issue here in South Asia and yes it’s THE ISSUE in my life..respecting each others family despite not liking them so much is so important..would be happy if you can share your experience or your thoughts on it thankssss ❤️

Everyone has different love languages you know, for some people it’s being affectionate, for others it’s acts of kindness, words of affirmation etc.

You have no idea how your relationship lights up my soul. I look up to you two when it comes to marriage and parenting. Not because I think you're perfect -cuz no one is- but because you do make the best out of it realistically. I pray you get all old and crusty together. I love you both and I'm looking forward to a part two.

The fact that you all have found what works for your audience on RU-vid, treasure that (not that you don't). I love your channel. I'm not Muslim. I'm not even religious but we have a lot of common values and morals. Not to mention, your family is SO cute! I've struggled for nearly six years to create a platform and I'm still not successful. You all are doing something right. We love the questions and thank you for doing this video. It's appreciated. Much love :-)

Sids humor cracks me up fr😂😂

Clearly you've gotten through the 7 years with laughter 🤣❤❤

Part 2. “How should we deal with the possessiveness of our partners?”

I feel like the 5 Love Languages are relevant to the part where you discuss that each one of you guys show affection differently. The languages are 1) words of affirmation 2) acts of service 3) physical touch 4) quality time 5) gifts. Usually the language that someone knows how to communicate their love with, is not the language that their partner necessarily wants or understands. It's all about understanding what it is that your partner wants and trying to communicate with them in that language, but also understanding that sometimes when your partner doesn't show you love in the way that you expect it's because their language is different and that's all they know.

"Growing up, My family/parents were like this. When I have my own family I'm going to do things differently." Has that happened for your family? Are some things difficult/impossible to change? Have you been successful at doing any thing intentionally differently than how you were brought up? Would be helpful to hear your experience, for those of us aspiring to start our own family :)

My husband is super affectionate, if it was up to him we would sleep in a single bed.... he is like that because his mother was not affectionate at all to him growing up, she was mean in fact. They way people grew up really effects how they act in a marriage..

When you guys were talking about the different levels of affection I think you were hinting at the fact that you have different love languages :)

Video suggestion: Your hair styles are quite cute. You should do a hair styling video. It may be a sensitive topic since the whole last year headscarf thing, but whatever. Just close the comments and do a nice casual hair at home video. Or a busy mom with cute but practical hair video.

I’d like to hear more about Sids anxiety and how he deals with it, mental health talk is so important and people need to know that no matter who you are you have a battle x

It was hard not to have comments on your other channel - just wanted to say sooo happy the Ramadan vlogs are back! You guys make me sooo happy. Just keep being real and hilarious!!

Last week I was rewatching all the old questions videos and I cant tell you how much am happy that they are back :D

Missed these!! 2/3 yrs ago watching them was a routine for me in Ramadhan!! Glad they back!

This video was worth the 8 month wait lol missed them so much!!

Been watching Sid and Dina for years and I always love their content. Yaas. Always cheers me up lol

I think what is really dangerous is acutally thinking "I've changed for them, I changed according to their wishes". Like if you change for someone it'll eventually cause resentment if there happens to be a big argument where you don't feel appreciated. Think about whether your partner actually asked you to change. Or what were the reasons you feel you had to change? Was it because of a fear of loosing them? So was it actually a decision you made and now expect your partner to be thankful and grateful about? Was your motivation for changing the hope that it would make them appreciate you more? I think motivations like that can lead to a dangerous cycle of dependency and resentment. What is probably healthier, like Sid and Dina said, is making decision together, talking openly about desires, getting a little uncomfortable with each other and looking if you can navigate throught that together

Video request: you guys should take the love languages quiz!!! Second request: what to do when resentment and anger IS so strong and persistent that it is leading you to divorce?

just wanted to say I've been loving your videos over Ramadan! My first Ramadan actually, since I became a Muslim in July last year! Much love to you guys, this video had me laughing along with you both 😂

you guys are adorable mashallah. wishing you many more years happily married inshallah!

The best couple everr! Part 2 pleaseeee!:)

There is a reason you guys get asked to do these sit down Q&As all the time and that is because you have some genuine advice and perspective that you share from your life experiences. It is always so good to hear you guys discuss such topics. You seem happy mashallah. Please do a part 2!

The realest relationship convo ever! Definitely a part II. Talk about when to compromise, when to give feedback, when to let go of an expectation.

A lot of what sid was saying was to do with the 5 love languages. You have different ways of expressing love. So sids love language (how he expresses love) is different to Dina. But both are still equally affectionate you just Express it differently. You guys should read or learn about the 5 love languages you might find it interesting xx ❣

SID AND DIN are baccck😭😭

Good video guys. Sids lost a lot of weight over the years. You guys make me so nostalgic, I remeber watching youse years ago after iftaar. Makes me feel homley x

Their laughing fit, I can't 😂😂

IM SO HAPPYYYY THIS IS BACKK🥺🥺❤️❤️

Dinaaaaaa and Siddddd yeeey

Emotional support is extremely important. A couple should come home and always ask each other if they are ok? How was thier day. And if one had a stressful moment just sharing with your partner can make it go away. It is the best feeling knowing that your partner cares about you. It may be a little thing, moment in a supermarket, spilling a cup of tea on carpet, having a problem st work. But just having your partner say don't worry just ignore it. I am here can make you feel great.

I remember watching your first video as a married couple, and you’re saying that was 7 years ago I can’t believe it!!!! Mash’Allah guys, may you stay happy and healthy for many more ❤️

Do you guys even have any clue of how much we love you together😭😭😭 missed these sooooo much. So happy you’re doing videos like this, this Ramadan ❤️❤️

Love you both so much and your family! Praying Allah swt gives you and your family the best of everything in this world and the hereafter!

you guys are basically talking about the love languages at the end and yes of course we want part 2 we really missed u guyss

Great advice! I’ve been married for 17yrs ! We do all those things ! Keep having fun you two are so cute Masha Allah !

“Or when he wants to talk to me about general knowledge...” “Ah here we go” 🤦‍♂️ LMAAAOO TOOK ME OUT🤣🤣🤣 (Watch their Ramadan Day 5 vlog)

I never comment on youtube videos but.. Please make a part 2! I really enjoyed how both of you got to talk about how you guys view certain qualities and “not so qualities” of your spouse but in a respectful way. I always love to hear about how certain couples push through hardships because tbh marriage is constant effort if you want to be married happily! I got married at 19 to a bengali (im moroccan) and after almost 5 years now ive finally realized how marriage is not a one- or two -time effort kind of thing but just a succession of little efforts everyday that do make a difference and keep both people happy. Alhamdulillah we’ve been through hard times but we’ve always been good and happy with each other. And i totally agree with what sid and dina mentioned in this video! I hope you guys continue to make marriage content as we can all learn from this☺️ thanks

Guys please do a video of you reacting to your husband tag, would be so interesting to see 😂

Do THE LOVE LANGUAGE test in your next video!!! Would be interested to see the differences in your results !!

The first thing Sid said has actually been proven scientifically, there is a great article in The Atlantic called "The Secret to Love is just Kindness", and it deals with this.

Hey guys, I watched your chat about disabling comments. Just want to say great idea - whatever makes you happy and makes you enjoy what you do the most. All the love to you both, love your content as always xx

my husband’s started asking me if you’ve uploaded yet 😭 he really relates to sid when you guys talking about the deep stuff. keep it up

YAAAAAAAAAAY. Loving all the Ramadan content guys, and I’m glad you switched the comments off on the family vids for the sake of your peace 🙌🏽. Also, I’ve been married a year and 4 months, pheeeeeew it ain’t easy. When it’s good it’s amazing and when it’s bad we’re both like 😤😤, we have a lot of growing and learning to do in’sha’Allah lol. Thanks for this video, you guys are the realest and we love you for it🥰

Not true about people getting competitive with each other. It's not the competition of who gets their first in their career, couples fall apart when their ambitions are not respected or valued by the other. Successful men want a supportive wife and successful women want a supportive husband. They want the other person to compromise without providing the same.

U guys spiced up the marriage just by dropping donut.

Yesss part two It is so therapeutic Its like talking to your family members

Yaass part 2!! Can you talk about how you kept the intimacy alive? How you don't get bored?

Lmao that choking part got me 😂😂😂

I was waiting for this!! 🙌🏼❤️ Questions are back, bby!!

been watching dina since before you guys even got engaged... when Sid was just a name in videos lol so this was so heart warming to see. may God continue to bless your marriage and family x

It's love languages..... how you show love and how you want love shown to you. There are 5 different types..... that's why couples argue when they're not aware of each other's love language.... love watching you guys!!

that’s ending went from weird to cute 😊 lol gotta love Sid and Dina 🥰

I couldn’t agree with Sid more about TikTok !!! All the same moves

Very genuine advice. I have been married for almost 7 years and this is how me and my husband have coped with the ups and downs of marriage.

Yay for comments! I'm soo happy to see them happy! God is good.

Been following dina since her fb RU-vid hijab tutorials ( I dont wear hijab I just loved your face and the energy). We're the same age, got married the same year (oct) and our kids are almost the same age groups. And I'm pathan married to a pathan. All coincidental obviously ( just putting it out there) since you've been on my insta. And I feel.exactly.how.you.feel right.now.. the quarantine mom life, & just life in gen. I've never commented but youd be surprised how many people I know now are actually following you, know about you and I feel you've made it. De stress - one single vlog you post on a bad day - all these comments from people who thank you for just posting lol. That's how connected you are to your followers. Hope you achieve all your dreams. And ya will make it if ya keep at it ( oh, we ALSO moved into our own house last year haaaaaah). ♡

"WHAT WAS THE REASON? ... BUT WHAT WAS THE REASON??" I immediately got the reference 🤣

I can listen you two rant about absolutely anything for any amount of time and never get bored.

I watched it on her facebook page and will watch it again here on yt.. I am loving her again. I got lost and stopped watching their videos. But lately, ive been catching up. Watching you again made me realize that I love Dina and her family a lot. Not gonna lie but i was dissapointed in her some decisions but i realized, what makes her happy, makes me happy. I was with her when she was still small youtuber. Maybe, i am one of the fan who got hurt.

Dina is sooooo pretty Ma’Sha’Allah Allah Humma Barik 😍🔥good lookin couple!

Very entertaining. I throughly enjoyed both of you.

May Allah always protect your marriage, I genuinely can’t get enough of y’all too❤️

You two seem so connected and genuinely enamored with each other these days. You both look so healthy and happy .

part 2 idea: how do choose your future husband?

Ive never even been on a date or talked to a girl romantically but here I am 😂

Oh my days, honestly, I love you both! Please give us a part 2. This video has helped me and my husband so much. You are saving marriages here!

It's so beautiful to see how your relationship has matured, and it's wonderful to see how you have grown together. I pray your marriage and family are blessed during this holy month. ❤️

SO HAPPY Y’ALLL BACK ALHAMDULILAH 🥺🥺😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 (only for ramadaan 🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂)

Dina, is so pretty Mashallah

Loved the video! Do a part 2, here's the things I wanna know about: More tips of a successful marriage How did you guys decide who is cooking and who is cleaning for the fam? Talk about how Sid supported Dina during her pregnancies, like how he made life easier for her? You both talked about if both people like staying at home instead of going out, and how holidays are useful for them. Can you expand on this, (even though it might be unlikely that both people are introverts in a marriage) tips for introverts? I also wanna know how married life was like when you guys lived in London, in case I may work there one day in a grad job, was it boring or more busier? And how did you make time for each other during that time in London. This might be a darker topic and I understand if you don't wanna discuss this or it might've not happened, but have any of you had an argument with your in-laws, how did you deal with that and how did the other person (who's partner was arguing with their fam) deal with it. If you luckily haven't had to experience this, what would be your advice for couples where one partner is arguing with their in-laws and the other person is stuck there. I would be grateful if you could discuss any of these in a video! Thanks! Keep up the good work!

Something about your personalities is so captivating ! Loved the video and would like a part twooooo . Ramadan Mubarak

Came back frm Dina’s channel to here!!!best feeling😇

Need a part 2!!!

I remember watching premarried Dina hijab tutorials/ modest looks/lazy doll launches since middle school. Then watching Dina get married and then have kids. Felt like I grew up with them

favourite channel ever! glad you guys are back

Sid is more grossed out by Dina’s idea of eating boggers than Dina 🤣🤣🤣

“No as in your a headache wild“ “it hasn’t been like that -has it????” Hahahahaha I love them

i have no idea why this made me cry LOL I grew up watching you guys! Dina im 27 and been watching you since you started :) Love to see you that you guys grew

Been married for 15 years. My baby will be 11 this year. You too are so real and from meeting you seriously one of the nicest couple on RU-vid. Yes! Bring the questions back! I agree. 👍 Used to listen to the videos while washing the dishes. 😊

The answer to why the food is sloppy; hes giving u a male oriented answer. Logical and straight to the point of why and how it happened plus how to prevent sloppy food in the future. And he does this to be helpful because men want to fix things, they are fixers by nature. Often women ask questions to not find an answer but to share how they felt about the situation, ie, sloppy food.

Everyone’s love language is different you just have to figure it out and work from there You can’t force anyone to change they are their own individual. different upbringing different personalities different ways of seeing things Always involve one another in decision making praise each other Never tell your parents your marital issues unless forms of abuse are happening! cuz families never forgive or forget even if you have moved on

I couldn’t say this in the vlog but before I watch this video, I want you to know that they way you parent your children and how patiently you listen to not only their needs but that of your pets too, is very commendable. I will be using you two as a model for parenthood in near future.☺️

You have no idea how eagerly I’ve beeen rewatching your Q’s videos Dina and Sid ♥️♥️ I absolutely love and adore them and the fact that you both put so much time and effort in them♥️♥️🤗🤗🤗 I would love to seee more of you both while doing this serieessssssssss♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️