To Hell And Back Season 1 Episode 3 

If she can reply, what does she think happened? Who was the ancestor? How was the scam planned? Where did the money that appeared in the suitcase come from? Was there someone behind the "wallpaper / boards" in the prayer room?

Mondays will never be the same again.... From here we are going to MacG....Ninjas and Chillers leave a like

The more i watch these stories, the better I comprehend the importance of avoiding dating platforms regardless of how lonely I may become.

2021 when I went public for being scammed by my Congolese baby daddy , people mocked me! I didn’t care awareness was raised! Sending love and strength to this lady, love that she’s speaking out🙏

I am based in Limpopo Province and guys here like asking “what do you for a living” I always lie and say that I am a nanny, it’s a turn off for most of them. My advice is never tell a guy you just met what you do. Just say you are a maid and when they ask you how come you look so good, just say the Mrs gave you the clothes. It’s working for me, keeps the leeches away. I was almost scammed via Facebook in 2017

Her cheeks tells me she’s really too kind and has no guard up😭😭😭…what a sweet woman

"Evil thrives when good people do nothing." I'm so glad she came and told her story. As Owamie said she's very brave and I agree. Wishing her the best going forward.

Ladies, let's suport and help others, no one is stupid. Anyone can fall prey to these scammers. Remember, they're not only in SA, they are in America, Australia, basically the whole world. My friend called her stupid and I got so hurt because, this young woman is so brave, and I love her . Go girl, keep on going, be strong. I am one of the people who are going to assist you financially ❤❤❤❤

Foreigners came here to hustle, few of them are legit

When Owamie first told us of her intention to speak to victims who have been scammed she mentioned how this is to educate women out there. All these guests bringing their stories are not stupid but brave to let us in on the kind of things people are ashamed to talk about that happen behing closed doors. Just because something has not happened to you yet does not mean your smarter, we don'tknow if we will come across this but in a different way it might not be a love scam but a business one. Lets show empathy to other women who decide to share or those women who are in our lives in the same situations. Lets be kinder to each other. Thank you Owamie for bringing to life this idea, it will help a lot of us or remind us to be careful, some are even scammed by their current husbands or family members and dont know and will wake up too late.

She seems like such a beautiful and pure soul. May she find peace and heal

Hi Jabu , am so sorry to hear that this happened to you. It could have happened to anyone, 60% of women are love scammed these days because literally men have become weak. They don't want to work, they don't want to go to school, they want soft life... Men are even giving themselves to other men for money, that's the generation of men left... I know multiple ladies, beautiful, smart and educated get love scemmed by their boyfriends, baby daddies, fiancé's and husbands.. These men can be met anywhere, church, work, malls, restaurants, funerals, weddings etc. These men have plans in place to swindle women, they don't target broke women, they target single, devorced and financially able women. I'll give you one example, in Namibia one guy impersonating to be a doctor, rents out an AMG dating women all over the country, Wears a stethoscope everyday going to work, but goes to other women's houses Engaging and proposing all of them, telling them he's a Christian and does not date, marriage only, so engagements before you meet the parents... These women took out loans to fund His lifestyle... Luckly for us, Namibia is a small populated country , everyone follows each other, and he did not go far. They exposed him on Twitter and was published in the National paper, by the way he only dated: business women, doctor, lawyers, nurses, teachers, CEOs.. To mention a few. Thank you for opening so many eyes, I hoe this video reaches a million views coz this is a loud message that needs to be heard by all women.. Women now stay with men who only need money and accomodation from their women, is that not love scammed? Love and light

You are so strong for telling your story!God will restore everything that the locust has stolen sis❤

NEVER tell a man what you believe in, especially foreigners.🤞🏽

You were hypnotized my sister this is the second time i hear such story it's sad how this foreign men come in our country and scam poor women..it's sickening and disgusting 🤢

This story is 100% like mine. Mine he was from Dawn Park but originally fron Zanzibar but immediately when I was told to resign and give a portion of my funds, that's where it ended and he was so furious, he actually turned red.

Great job Owamie and Jabu thank you for being brave and courageous you have saved a lot of women

I don't and will not judge this woman. In fact for sharing this story I feel more alert and empowered.

People also not forget that the Devil also knows the Bible end to end. This was witchcraft. Sis Jabulile I’m sorry you went through this 🙏🏽

This is such a useful channel. It is a great teaching tool. Blessings to those who were scammed. May the scammers receive the karma they deserve.

Blessed you from Jamaica. God will multiply and return unto everything you have lost

I just love how Owamie genuinely cares for her guests and puts herself in thier shoes ❤.. definitely one of the best podcasts in SA

Never trust someone who left his or her country that person really means business.

Yhoo this story struck a nerve for me. Was scammed by my ex fiance, convinced me to take a loan for him R50k and he was going to pay me my monthly repayments. He changed into something i didn't know afterwards and asked me to leave him alone to live his life. Hhhheee the depression I had, i couldn't sleep, I was breaking down in public, had to repay a loan i didn't spend a cent, i couldn't speak about it for a long time. Men really hates us 😢

I cant believe how similar our stories are, i met his "mom and uncle" in December. He was "blessed" with 20 million, each told to take 400 and give to the needy. I bailed out when he pressurised me to resign from work, he became very impatient when i didn't do so immediately!

What that guy did is called love bombing. Love bombing is a tactic in which someone “bombs” you with extreme displays of attention and affection with the intent to manipulate you. This is why he was able to scam her. What a disgusting vile human being and I hope she gets justice. She’s such a sweet lady and I hope everything goes well. It’s sad to say that most human beings don’t come with the right intentions and we have to guard our hearts. I hate it!!!

Girls in South Africa are in trouble. I don't know whether we are desperate.

Can’t stress how important it is to have a community (friends and family) you share your life with, especially about romantic partners man. They are sometimes able to pick up things we can’t because of the cloud 9 we usually in. Yoh bandla

Very informative, thank you sisters for being keepers of fellow sisters

As women we are just too desperate to be loved

My advise to to you girls is: when you do not have a circle of people you can trust around. Find a guy to talk to who is older, it can be a security guard or cleaner, it does not matter what their level of education is but guys know the guys language. They will be able to tell you when something is off very quickly and the good thing is they will not repeat the stuff you tell them cause they dont care but you will get the advise that will help you in the future, especially when starting a new relationship and you not sure if the person is legit or not, a guy will listen to the story and straight away tell you that the person is a phony or not.

Strength to you girl, proud of you for telling your story so that someone out there doesn't fall into this scam.

Thanks for sharing Jabu! I am so sorry that you have to go through this😢

Sending a virtual hug to this brave lady 🫂. Such a gentle soul 🤍

I respect you for coming out and telling your story. Walk tall Queen, you will come out of this stronger than you can ever imagine.

I can’t stop saying “yoooh chommy mara le wena😭” 😂😂😂

SABC note this comment down...you are definitely gonna be paying Owamie millions of American dollars....she is the Queen of media

Kevin (the friend) was definitely the ancestor 💔💔😪 this was a top tier scam. I'm so sorry my sister 💐💞

The same thing happened in polokwane and two people are arrested and are going to court on the 18th of December for bail application. Please come to polokwane High Court on the 18th and check if the same person

thank you for sharing this story. its an eye opener and i hope one day these scammers will be caught and face justice

I sympathise with her, as a single mum. Men can be so evil and take advantage of vulnerable women! Can you please release photos of this man! THE GENERAL PUBLIC NEED TO SEE HIS FACE

Owamie, this lady deserves justice. Can you not open some back a buddy type of account for us to contribute towards legal fees. This is injustice! The fact that the police aren’t helping is a disgrace? To say the least. Or maybe one of the ninjas could offer their legal expertise pro bono, umntu ngumntu ngabantu guys ♥️♥️

I’m really learning a lot from this series. Thanks Owami ❤️. I’m definitely playing far from these niggas with prayer rooms 🙈Yooh

My csta thanks for this channel i am learning a lot.first time viewer❤❤❤🎉

I feel so sorry for women, they are going through the most for real

It must have been tough for this women to come out with this story but it was needed. So happy she shared it with us. Women need this education.

I went through exactly the same thing but I was so stubborn and kept on asking questions and not agreeing to this bag thing. He got angry because I said no to his ancestors to come and do whatever was supposed to be done with the bag. 50% of this story is exactly like what I've experienced. I was scammed 6k . All I can say to our sister those people use muthi.

Hi I am so sorry that you went through this. This was so eye opening. I hope you find healing and may God bless you. And you are beautiful, smart and you are deserving of so much more mama❤❤.

Owamie is listening to the constructive criticism… this interview was easy to watch! Excellent work! You have the guest space to talk , no judgy eyes or comments! Beautiful!

I see young females allowing foreign nationals to use their bank accounts. Next thing they'll be owing SARS millions if not arrested for not being able to account for the money

Yooo cc this is a life lesson. Thank you for sharing

I feel for you. Been scammed myself... But God will deal with these scammers. Be strong. You will get through this.... Not easy. But though the grace of God. You will become stronger 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼💪🏽

Hiring a private investigator is the way to go now and dealing with them with our own communities is the only way to go....

I was scammed by my Aunt, and a business associate. I am down around R500k and I am now in the hole which is a struggle to get out off, Its a struggle at the moment so be warned people, being kind and decent is no longer the norm. The moral decay of society has gotten to the point of no return. Its downhill from here. So please be carefull out there. Dont fall for soppy stories.

I also encourage such an occurrence in Limpopo. They r everywhere. Fortunately I ran away when I was told by the ancestor to bring money to the prayer room. I wish to share my story 2, for the ladies to be aware.

My first time watching this show, im glad i watched it, i learned a lot and im greatfull because i didn't know about this kind of strategy they use.... my prayer to God is heal this beautiful lady, Strengthen her and see her out of this darkness.... May He Bless her with true love and happiness

As Women we should have a solid support network, friends and relatives that we can reach out to when meeting a new partner. Woman friends are excellent at reading / assessing character and red flags 🚩 it is very sad to see bad things happen to good people.

I like Owamie's designer...she definitely knows what she is doing

Thanks for sharing ❤ praying for you and your kids.

Its my second day i found this chanel. It only make sense now y i went thru similar experiences with ALMOST all Owamie's Guests.i relate so much otherwise i was gona b very judgemental.Woow God loves us.

We can judge and say whatever we wanna say but this is one strong woman, i envy her for who she is coz she's still going far in life and she will achieve more than what she lost.

Welldone Owamie for affording people such a platform to speak out, encouraging them and literally holding their hands through reliving such traumatic experiences . For spreading awareness and discouraging victim blaming.🎉 I salute you my queen. Both of you

Thanks for sharing this story...I have learnt a lot and it's really mind boggling how evil these scammers can be.

Sending love to this lady. You are not alone, this scam is going around. And I just hope that you heal fro the trauma.❤

Definately this man worked on the psyche of majority South Africans of believing in ancestors and rituals. They had done their home work so well

If Owamie thinks I will sit here & watch a 1hr, 25min video on being love-scammed, she is definitely right. I'm watching non-stop

So sorry to hear about your ordeal sisi. He's heartless, he even made you sing before scamming you. You've got a beautiful singing voice by the way... Remain strong, you will bounce back and don't blame yourself.

Very informative. Inam sorry for your experience sis. Thanks for sharing with us. I am sending love and light your way. I pray God give you strength and open your financial doors to settle the credit. @the host, you so beautiful and have good aura. Thanks for the show

Owamie is my spirit animal!!!! Her reactions are exactly the same as mine 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 There is no way I would’ve still slept over, after speaking to an ancestor hhhaybo 😭😭😭😂😂

I applaud her for being brave to talk about this publicly , i have lived in an apartment building where a lot of scammers live, They throw you a bait , if you are this person that is over respectful and understanding of their silly requests, you become prey… also, South Africans work with these guys, that’s why the so called ancestor could sing a Zulu song behind those boards .

The SAPS needs to be trained on how to handle new trends of crime.

I applaud you for your bravery. Sometimes even the most careful person in life can be scammed. But continue to be strong my sister. You have to live for your children

I consider myself a smart person but I know this could have easily been me. I am pathologically trusting of people, and I like to be respectful of people's beliefs...could have been me. Thank you Jabulile for sharing your story. I am so sorry this happened to you

This solidifies the fact that these people use spells haaa no way. She is such a cute, smart and independent woman. Yes sometimes we are blinded by love as women but our sister here was on spell yho. This guy was beyond evil bathong! God will deal with him and that half a million will come back tripple sis ❤

I am newbie in your channel🤗this is so informative! So many people will learn from your experience thank you for sharing

Thank you so much my sister. Msy God heals your soul. He will never be free in his heart. If you have a picture of him. Show it up so people can identify him.

Owame, I just want to thank you and thank this specific guest for sharing her story here in this platform. I hope she sees this comment. By sharing her story she saved my life and money from being scammed probably by the same people she fell in their hands TODAY!!!! It’s God’s grace that I watched her story last week only to meet a handsome gentleman who just made me meet his uncle and there we were in a prayer room, similar story to your guest’ story. The relationship ends as in right now. Thank you mtakama for saving my life and my money. May God continue to use your story. You’re a selfless human being.a woman of God indeed 🙏🏽🙏🏽🩷

Owami thank you so much for this podcast. The lady narrated her story so well, she seems like a very humble lady and didn’t deserve any of this ❤

I like what Owamie said, no matter how smart you think you are, if you’re operating from a point of lack of info they MAY outsmart you. It’s many heads coming together to scam you (one person). I commend ppl that come out to share. I hope this woman pulls through and come out of this stronger.

Enjoying this so much and also loving the views. Thank you fellow ninjas for always having Owamie’s back 🥰

Jabu I’m so sorry for your loss your story brought years to my eyes. You are so strong and keep showing up for your kids much love and hope for the best for you. You are such a beautiful person inside out 🌸💖strength to you sis 💖

I loved this interview, your maturity and allowing the guest to speak her mind ❤

My heart goes out to this lady.

I am so sorry for this ordeal. Thanks for your bravery to share your story. I resonate with your story, it happened to me, God will take you through. 🙏 . Thanks Owami for this story, I have learnt a lot. Jabu stay strong sisi, these people use strong umurhi and they are heartless. You will bounce back. I pray for healing 🙏. stay strong.🎉🎉

Thank you for sharing your story so we women can be warned, I've learnt so much from this. You're such a beautiful woman inside and out and this guy preyed on your innocence. I trust that God will restore all that you lost and will bless your life abundantly.

Yooh Jesu i'm in tears, divorcees can be so vulnerable. Ladies we in trouble thank you Owamie we are learning so much from your podcast

The story is exactly the same as my colleague, This is a network, they operate everywhere in my colleagues case they suggested she sells the house and furniture and she refused, she also had the same feeling of being hijacked and dint save him from his car trouble. We just watched show and we were both in tears she feels a bit better naw, she is still paying off the debts even naw. She also got a similar response from police a silent laugh. Stay strong your kids need you. From Limpopo

I'm so sorry my sister. I pray that you heal with time by God's grace. Lesson learned, by you and by us who are listening and watching. I'm sure you are wiser now. Lots of hugs. Praying with you. May God bless your mom for praying for you, more grace and more strength upon her.❤❤❤

Thanks to the lady for sharing the story, your a strong woman. To female police officers, I don't know whats wrong with you, you don't act like your at work not professional at all. When I was physically abused by my ex boyfriend this female police officer came to the scene and they were about 6 of them. If I can still remember it was four males two females and in that four males the other two males were junior police officers. The female police officer actually said, this one is struggling in love, she asked the junior police officer to help me in the love department as I was struggling 😏

I was reluctant to read the comments cos I thought many would insult Jabulile and mock her. I am happy to see the kind words people have shared. Jabulile phephisa. Im happy you are still working, God will restore all you have lost ❤️

Eish Owamie . . . this is honestly empowering and will impact many lives. Grateful for the guests' courage. Love tends to break down our walls and doubts. No one should ever feel stupid when they fall victim because these syndicates are meticulous and well resourced. I forsee support groups and safe spaces spurring out of this and perhaps in future our government taking such crimes more seriously. 💯🙏

RSA should have a group of Ladys Lawyers who represent nd fight for ladys who get frauded infact unfairness for Ladys.

Shes beautiful ❤❤ i love u cc. The debt will finish and it was a way fr us to learn through u.. much love cc. Man has realised that we long fr stability an marriage an they use that against us.arg sies.

There’s a lady from KZN who went though the exact same thing he made her quit her job and took her pension fund 😢 Kuzodlula Sisi I hope God blesses you 10x more

Wow this is a different kind of way to scam to scam someone, it could be that they used evil spirits to make her agree to everything, I feel for you Ninja and so sorry this happened to you.

Thank you for sharing your story, its so eye opening and creating awesomeness for other women to not fall for this scam. Thanks queen , you are so beautiful and humble 💗

This was so sad to watch so sorry sis😢... thank you for educating us.❤ heal and be strong ❤

Beautiful lady. With a genuine heart. What she lost the universe will replenish ten fold

Dear God, please protect us from evil spirits, sivule amehlo sibone izinto ezingekho ryt, the world is evil 👏👏👏

This is touching ancestors Dnt communicate that way responding each other and they Dnt come daily like this 😢