To Hell And Back Season 1 Episode 4 

A round of applause for Owamie please, she is doing the most 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

First things first, this lady is so breathtakingly beautiful🥺❤️ I’m sorry that you had to go through so much Sisi. What I have learnt from this story is that: - As African parents we can do better and change the narrative, as a parent it is your responsibility to educate your children especially a girl child about Sex Education, teach them that when you engage with a man you will fall pregnant and have a child, imagine this 14 year old at the time knew nothing about the dangers and consequences of sexual activities. - Children will mess up and make mistakes but as a parent you can’t do this to your child, throw them away and allow a man to abuse them like this all in the name of punishment💔 - There is a thin line between being evil and being a strict parent, what this lady’s father did was evil and very wrong😩 In summary “Childhood traumas and underlying issues” are serious bethuna, let us be kind to each other we really don’t know what people have been through😭😭 what a painful story, your life was ruined at a very young age but we thank God that he carried you through it all🙏❤️ Sending you so much love and light🫂❤️

She makes me see how important for South Africans to be kind to all foreign nationals coming to find refuge in our country 🙏 Stronger Together ❤️

The elders failed her. I hope she can heal from the trauma and have a good life and peaceful life

The trauma that comes with having an overly strict parent where it even borders on abuse ... 💔 I wish Mandy nothing but the best from life... may she be elevated, may her blessings flow in abundance, may she be surrounded by peace, gentleness, genuine love and good people. Protect her Lord❤

Ohh Queen this is commendable ❤. You've found your lane and you are doing the most sis❤ I'm so sorry to the lady, may God bless you both🤗.

I'm glad she was able to come out of it stronger rather than sitting and blaming her father and ex husband for making life miserable

Very touching story. In my case..my mom is making me her worst enemy.. she also influenced all my family.. relatives and my siblings to hate me... I'm alone.. doing my things...it doesn't doing me any good to beg such people to live in harmony with...

The danger of telling daughters to stay in a toxic marriage 😢😢😢 am sending love to Mandy and her daughter, and prayers to her mom..

I suggest a coach/sofa for a more intimacy as the podcast is an emotional session... I'm loving the growth

Owamie, i love how you just allow the guest to speak and tell the story. You’re doing well mama❤ keep it up.

Thanks, Owamie, for bringing such stories even though I am so emotional about this story, and she is so beautiful and humble. I wish her a bright future ahead

This women is so beautiful and forgiving 🥺♥️ Kudos to you Queen Nonja 👏🏽♥️

Soon Owamie will be on a Tv. This is her calling.

12:51 yoh. That lady had ONE job, to protect a girl child and she couldn’t do it

Great job Owamie. Just a small one, please keep a box of tissues for your guests.

I hate abuse because it makes you think things are fine when they are not. She said she now has a relationship with her dad, my 2 cents is that; that’s not a relationship, dad is now just old, alone, and he has no one else!

I remember my father as a very abusive man to both my mother and us, whenever I see or hear a man abusing a woman it triggers all the trauma back

One thing about abusers they'll never say am sorry. Thank you for sharing her story.

She's really been through the most. I hope her mother is okay where she is.

We have a lot of problems to deal with in sub Saharan Africa. These stories are similar to what i have watched across other cultures. Let us work hard to build our communities and protect innocent children like this. My heart bleeds hearing these stories. Love from Cameroon and UK.

Her Father indirectly gave this man permission to abuse his daughter. I hope she knows how beautiful she is and how much her life is worth. Her daughter should never be forced to relate to this man because toxic relationships generate cycles of trauma.

Good work sis Owamie. We need stories like this so we know we are not alone in our hardships. Please provide structure to your interviews. Guide the stories using structured questions and timeline of events so the guests don't just narrate randomly. Take a few tips from Relebogiles's Unpacked series. You are going far.

First signs of trauma she remembers how young she was.... But age timelines confused me

My baby your story take me back the life my mother lived with my father i won't forget that 💔💔😭😭😭

I cant believe this,this lady is so young,matured n strong.you are a hero.much respect for u .cant believe im crying rite now

This lady was just too patient. I would have gone away to find a mokhukhu just so i am independent of this guy. He was just too "dirty" and disgusting

This thing of forcing kids to marry because they have a boyfriend is still happening

The story starts getting juicy once she starts talking about the cousin 😮

The headboy/prefect of the ninjas just arrived, please sit back, relax and enjoy, by the way, make sure you have subscribed, like and shared

Mandy hun I'm so sorry for the hardships you endured. You're strong, gorgeous and capable momma. Keep going, you're doing great. Sending you and your baby all my love ❤😊

Johhh in Zimbabwe you come back home late they will tell you to go back where you are coming from....even if you are under 18....the family toxicity is on another level

Queen Ninja. Well done! Thank you for sharing these stories. May our generation change the narrative and do better towards our children ❤

It’s such a blessing to be born to parents who are prepared to give you the right guidance in life, it’s so important. I’m so sorry you went through all of this and I wish you all the healing in abundance

Owamie, I love how you listen to our constructive inputs. You surely are goals❤ You get better at this with each episode mama🎉❤

This reminds me,that my dad,when i was getting married,he said,i must never come back from marriage,after they spent sooo much money,meaning even if i can be abused,i must never come back😢😢😢

She was about 17 or 18 when she was beaten 'cause the baby was already 3yrs

So sickening , the dad is so evil. She must stop talking to him, he dosent deserve her attention and love.

Proud of the both of you for discussing such sensitive topics with such poise... I pray that as parents we keep growing and learning to do better... we heal and are able to raise even more fruitful babies...

We do appreciate your story. We can't always avoid entering abusive relationships, but we can leave by empowering ourselves mentally, emotionally, and physically.

Sorry for all that you you, your mom and daughter went through Mandy. I hope you guys heal, especially your daughter and break this generational curse of a daughter witnessing their mom being abused.❤❤❤

Queen ninja you really did this interview like a pro girl you gave your guest a platform to take us through their story without interfering and asking the relevant questions where need be💐💐💐💐❤❤

5 star content as usual 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟

The Zimbabwean Lady is so pretty, I really wish her well in Life , the number of I come to you as a woman she had to do!!! Ladies him cheating once is enough. Indoda ejola while nishadile never gets better. Leave that toxic situation before you leave in a coffin

Owami make the most out of constructive feedback, see how this queen is icing this interviews now❤️😍😍😍 thanks for sharing this stories

It's sad, sorry you had to pass through all that, but we thank God you came out strong. It's his loss. Gal you so pretty and gorgeous stay strong

THIS STORY WAS SO HEARTBREAKING! WISHING YOU SO MUCH LOVE AND LIGHT FOR YOUR JOURNEY GOING FORWARD FOR YOU HAVE GONE THROUGH MORE THAN ANYONE SHOULD IN A LIFETIME! MAY THE UNIVERSE SHELTER YOU FROM NOW!

The hardships she went through is painful and traumatizing

Sis bekezelad too much though, I pray she finds healing 🙏🙏🙏.. I think her mum also failed her

Thank you so much for this Owamie!! I totally love that you give your guests the time and patience to express themselves without rushing and most importantly the empathy for them to develop the story. ❤❤❤ Love from London, UK 🇬🇧

Big up beautiful girl....Enkosi for sharing your story....for a little girl who left school at the age of 14....you are going to be fine...your bravery is healing...be healed.....

My sister ,you are the chosen one in the family to break this genertional curse in your family .

Nice setup. Didn’t know about this channel , don’t even know how I stumbled across it. Glad I did. Quite interesting

You are a very brave woman to share your story. Most of us women have gone through the same predicament with no help. Our zim culture has a lot to change. Once you make a mistake you become a tool for abuse from all angles. This situation can be viewed as normal. Help is a difficult word.

Owamie is living in purpose and it's gonna change and save lives. ✨️ ❤ so beautiful to watch

What a beautiful young woman ❤we are going through a lot ,Owamie keep doing a good job🙏

Mandy, you are strong. You did well leaving that monster. May God bless you and your daughter. I pray all goes well with/for your mother and that you will be together again some day. Thank you for sharing your story

I love how you let them tell their story and only ask questions for things that are not clear

Usisi omuhle kangaka going through the most...Well done mummy when I see you I will give you a hug Sis. You deserve it maarn.

I know I'm not the only one obsessing with this channel

Mandy ❤. You are such a beautiful and strong lady. You deserve so much more. When you spoke of lawyer friend I realised you might have missed opportunities coz of this experience. I wish you can go back to school coz you are still young. You can do this girl. All the best.

Wow, what a beautiful lady. Im glad you came out of this alive,I hope you find healing Mandy. Sending you all the love, light and peace that surpasses all human understandings. We love you Sis🤍 pls consider therapy for you and your beautiful daughter….❤️

This type of content is so unique owamie wow its only gonna be success from here onwards

Very good heart, Mandy, No wonder she's beautiful. She doesn't hold any grudges. As for her father, he doesn't lead by example. Stay beautiful and raise your child my dear.

Mandy you are so young and beautiful and have a caring heart which becomes a strength that many people don’t have Just take pride in your accomplishments and achievements You have a long way to go keep up the spirit and move on with your journey to uplift your academic life the future is bright for you your kid and your mum she needs you ❤

Wow !!! God bless this lady. Owamie thank you for these interviews and especially for English so, that we can all hear and learn from these stories that you share .

Wamhle umntwana wase Plumtree, model material! Inspiration from such a young lady. Kudos for all the strides that she's made.

God Bless you.. He’s always watching over us even when we don’t realize it..❤

The love and empathy shown in these stories is beautiful, this space allows guests to be comfortable with being vulnerable and it really shows why we need to be determined to be kind to one another every single day ❤. Thank you❤

Tjo! This is beyond heartbreaking 💔 may everything be in your favor and that of your daughter.

You very right sisi parents destroy our lives because of their stupid strict especially Zimbabwean dads are the worst nxaaaaaa am very sorry sisi you know I cried so hard pls take care of your daughter❤

God Bless my daughter. God saw you sorrows and has set you fee. The wrong shall face his on consequences.

What a gorgeous gorgeous hun❤...sorry you had to go through such malov,thank God he carried you through and you came up stronger...enkosi Owam for this platform, soo informative and educational ❤

Beautiful attire Ninja, you are doing very well mugal ❤ Mandy she's pretty too but I wish she could have conducted her story in her language to express herself more and it is a very sad story indeed. She went through a lot at her early age. Keep it up Ninja we are behind you to support you mbokodo❤ I feel sorry for Mandy and be strong girl. We all learn through hard times all in the name of love dearest and you know what??? He is a loser ❤❤

Oooh my dear I've been there, I can i feel the pain too, the situation you're in, pls ask God to give you strength, I promise you'll make it without that man, he will come crawling, God is grateful ❤

Our Queen is showing up..🎉🎉🎉doing all she can for us..even when her plate is full, she still shows up..keep it up danki Queen Ninja

The effort owamie has put in this show ❤🎉

May God bless you Mandy you really went through a lot but God was and still is with you girl ❤❤❤❤

What a story. I feel for this young lady(my first daughter’s age). I pray that God Almighty with comfort you and bless you beyond your imagination.

Heartbreaking story. You are beautiful Mandy. Wishing you nothing but the best in life. You deserve all the good things in life nana.

Hi Mandy. I wish you all the healing. Your story is very touching. I am so sorry that you had to go through so much abuse. You did not deserve all of this treatment. I wish you happiness, joy and prosperity. Lots of love sister❤❤

Ooh my dear I wished you were here to give you a big hug, bcz you are the warrior, and some are quite about abuse, owame thank you for that , brave woman ❤❤❤❤

Umuhle sisi.Definitely can relate. Some girls were raped impregnated and chased from home. Some commited suicide out of desperation.Our parents didn't know better, at all.

Wow, I like the direction your podcast is going. Please if you can get your speakers to also feel comfortable expressing themselves in their languages would make their messages resonate even stronger, I know it maybe costly interms of getting a translator and edit in subtitles so for that, I don't mind I would join and pay a member fee for this channel.❤😊

Run for your life that is deep my sisters thank you ladies❤

God will grant you peace all round . I love her courage . This program is very educative

😢😢shuuu there's a too much pain in her voice.

Owami... I have a story as well. But not in JHB/SA

I see this channel growing very big ❤❤Owamie you doing great

No man is worth going to prison for. May God continue to heal and guide you Always 🙏🏾

Some parents are too strict as if they were not young it seems they didn't learn anything from their own mistake s as a mother my self i refuse strict parenting method wishing you the best ❤️ 🇳🇦

Sis please be strong, you are not your history and not what you went through. You are a beautiful girl with a beautiful and educational story ❤

Sisi you're strong enough to stand on your own. Thanks for sharing.

❤what a beautiful soul may you find peace and God bless your hand so that everything you touch prosper

I thoroughly enjoyed this episode, I learnt a lot and it was really entertaining

Sending love and healing to Mandy she’s beautiful she didn’t have to experience this pain

We honestly have to be better parents than our parents were. Some of these customs are soooo backdated and really won't work in today's world. The world has so many pressures now and life has become hard. Back then a girl child would be chucked to the boy's home no matter then age because people were self sufficient and life demanded very little and was simpler. As time goes, your daughter get pregnant look for a baby sitter and send her right back to schooled before she becomes abused by the guy responsible and experience what Mandy experienced. At the end of the day the girl child is the one who'll probably end up being the single parent looking after that child anyways. Better equipped than thrown to the wolves.

Wooooow that’s exactly what the father of my children does aw my goodness I’m shocked!!! Even the dreaming😂😂 sometimes calling in the middle of the night stating bad dreams about the children and asking to come and ‘pray’ for them 😂😂 yet he won’t step up to his responsibilities. I remember asking myself where do all these dreams come from and even what’s the point of giving someone like this dreams about children he doesn’t take care of. Well done my dear I know what you’ve been the!! Keep focused God shall remain your strength ❤❤❤

Yhooo this lady is strong❤Thank you sis owami for this content❤

Yoh..very heart breaking..im so glad that mama Vanessa is now okay and shes still fighting for her child..but i also think she shouldnt force her child to have a relationship with her dad..that guy can go to the nearest hell..hes going to traumatize mntwana