To Hell And Back Season 1 Episode 11 

I had to share coz i saw she felt a bit embarrassed 😢 woman go through a lot💔

The power of sharing.. She realised she is not alone and that's one step into healing

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The utter disrespect from that churchmouse. How does a broke person ask for a 2nd wife? Ntando is such a beautiful person. May she find a loving husband.

Guys Ntando was being polite here yoooo hayi I looked and found the soon to be ex-husband (Imenemene elitsha ngoku ngu Masukude)..Hayi guys nooooo maan haykhona noooo!!!

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To be honest self loving doesn't guarantee how the next person sees or plans to treat you. The fact that God also allows like how he allows those we love to die, it could be possible that this was part of her life journey to teach us one day. I am certain someone getting married soon and saw this, will revisit their marriage contract.

@@thatotlhowethank you ❤

Understanding personality disorders are crucial to protect oneself because wow these folk will put you through the most. You are truly brave for sharing such a painful ordeal. I wish you healing and peace.

Yey I fully agree with you.

😂😂😂😂 Bob the builder 👷‍♀️

@@sindilemntambo9005 true sistas we are bob the builder.. all because of love..it shows that our background plays a huge part, we found ourselves blind by this scammers all in the name of what they tell us with no action in it. Karma is definitely coming for him.

I agree 100%my sister yhoo ha.a

Yooohhh I can't stop laughing.🤣🤣🤣

😂 ❤ not Bob the Builder. Love it ❤

The absolute truth!😢

So true stay away from a man who will be financially dependent on you he will drag you to his lowest level

Af if you heard me talking to my brother just yesterday. Those exact words came out of my mouth. We were discussing family issues 💯 my sister.

Amen

Here this lady!!!

We are legends😮

To us🤣🤣😂🥂

Yithi llabo❤

Cheers to us 😊

I have this irritating habit.

I beg😂😂😂

@@boldlyowamie LOL YOH!

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Hahaha, me too.The anxiety I get, even if I have to give him R100.00

😂😂sana because wow....what the F

It means that this South African man has copied this kind of scamming or coming women in South Africa from foreign nationals, thinking it's a better way to get rich quicker. Eish! I don't understand the agenda now.

The difference is the are no SAn men scamming Foreign women out there. Yes SA 🇿🇦 has their criminals

By the way , I know the story they guy he from originally 🇿🇼 Zimbabwe 🇿🇼

Anything to absolutely distance South African men from it all right? The absolute and sheer desperation for SA men to be in the clear🤣@@puseletsokhena5322 okay then. He s not South African I guess. Happy?🙄

​@puseletsokhena5322 So, his grandmother had land in SA to pass on?

🙏🙏🙏🙏 From your lips to God’s ears 🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹 thank you

I agree Owamie u doing the Lord's work 1million subbies on this channel 😊❤❤❤

Feels like you are speaking to me too. So relevant to me. Thank you!

@@nener5441 light and love to you ma'am ✨️ 💛

As it is👏🏽👏🏽

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It's a real pandemic

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Did not finish your writing we like to take mens project and desperate to be in relationship, find with no sheets leave him.

I saw that immediately hey. There's a lot of trauma in her, even her breaks in between her speech are abnormally long, it's as if she needs assurance from someone. It's sad shame, also why is she still wearing this ring? It's as though the ring is giving her some sort of assurance, or acts as a pacifier to her. Haai

@bellatalkssa405 she definitely needs a lot of love, strong positive love to build her. Her trauma goes long before she married this guy.

Spot on

Hugs and kisses to this wonderful lady😢Nobody deserves this kind of treatment

One thing I learnt about men is that they respect the slay queens more than wife material

True. Someone once told me the same thing. This thing is not simple as we think.

Exactly 💯

Sure... The charms are so strong... Am a victim

True

Very true

She has done in depth episodes with Thabani of St media or something. Think it's called podcast yabazalwane. Even the husband came through with his side of the story. Anyway, you might find her details there.

Hi Kgomotso can you assist me in a 8 year divorce battle I'm willing to share my story with you even give you my number please

Hi Kgomotso can you please assist me in an 8 year divorce battle I'm willing to share my story and number please

Dankie

I agree

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Facts!

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That is true, to the core. They just can't deal. Some women go as far as to hide their real finances, and live within her husband's budget for this reason.

@@cosmic_sunflower3864 crazy, I can’t imagine pretending to have less than to keep someone happy.

True if you have no money to support yourself you have No business dating

😂😂@big red duvet...

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Thixo.. I didn't wanna laugh but Red Duvet.. Yho 😂

Brokeys have kids as future investments, they are counting on those kids to take care of them in the future. Also they have kids to keep you trapped, they hope you are big on family so they can make you stay while they do whatever.

@shuzashuz3038 their mentality is just twisted yoooh

I don't want to laugh 😂😂😂😂😂but a whole red Duvet man are monsters 😢

Don't cry when you find out He's been hiding things from you too.

they are using muti on her. She needs to pray hard for God to give her the strength to walk away. I am so sorry my sister God will fight for you and heal you..

She is beautiful, so calm haiii I wonder what that man is or was looking for

I think the muthi they gave her to bath with is still working on her she needs prayers to break that

And she's still wearing her marital ring 😢

That was my thought too. God is protecting me from such men by being single. Thank you Lord!

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Amen, we are not about drama any more💃💃💃 we have grown bathung 🌸🌸

This reminds me that my daughter went through almost the same scam,that affected her.the kids and my family.we need to teach our girls...

Yhoooo

Wooow 🙌🏼

I'd it possible...though?

What çourts😂😂in that banana republic

Does that work for men who provide for women too? Or it's complicated?

​@@robbylebotha😂😂😂😂😂 she won't answer

Very true

If he comes back, she's gonna take him back. I think she's a bit delulu coz why is the ring still on her finger? Why does she still use her husband's surname? I'm not judging. I pray that she realises that those things hold her back

You can say that again,she was still going to try to make things even though he crushing her heart,l feel the pain in her after all she did

She's also Xhosa and the last one I watched was also a Xhosa woman

We get manipulated in to it.

What about providing for weman?

​@williamshakur8715 "Evolutionary psychology" will give you the answer... whether you believe in "evolution" at large or not, we get proof daily that it doesn't work otherwise, mybe if we can eliminate masculinity/femininity then the conversation can change

Even if we look at it from the spiritual/religious side, your Bible depicts this and going against it is probably the reason we have lots of natural disasters 😂😂😂

Thank you Elvis 🥰🥰🥰

Thank you on behalf of females

Lol don't be,Her lies have been brought to light

😂😂 udlalile ngathi kodwa cc.

And familiar spirits can attach themselves to where we pray for things we would like so we also just receive it as though it's a prayer answered. Life...

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@@GodsFavourite2024 very true😞😞

@@GodsFavourite2024This!!! Was telling someone that the devil hears our prayers too. We must be careful out here!

So true, lack of first love (parents love) can lead to a self destructive adult. I feel the furnishing of the mkhukhu , gave the guy an impression that she can do more and more . Ppl can see our vulnerabilities, we relate using those , until healing takes place.

I feel like that’s how most women get taken for a ride. Being too naive and “sweet”. It’s not being a good person when you accept any kind of treatment from a man.

The doormats. That’s why you must cuss a man out now and then ngeke phela 😂😂😂

Good girls finish last or what do they say

Some level of madness is needed here and there just fir control

Exactly

She actually does and those derogatory comments finished her... Sad how marriage was meant to be this picture of being accepted to a certain level in communities...she already has a family...her two kids she can build a new family tree from there. Lots of us wimen go through that only through prayer that veil of deception can be broken.

She does hey. Lots of it, so that she can lose this "my husband my husband " when abperaon has done her so bad

And she still address him as "my husband"

Yeah she is still in love with that man

Me too😭😭😭I'm so angry and hurt at the same time😢

I am so Mad right now, I Hate that man. I will regret everything that he did to her.

I am so sorry you are dealing with a narcissist. I was with one for 7 years, thank God I left with my life still intact, it could have been worse. Educate yourself and leave! You will be finished by the time they are done with you.

My family member her ex hubby tried to do this ones she was on pension he came back trying to get half of her money lol she threatened him nd told him she will deal with him the African way or hire killers 😂😂😂 lol the coward got scared and left imagine after so many years of divorce he came back just for her mula

His teachings are so valuable 🙏

I agree with you RC Blake's is a wonderful Catalist for women period , so you learn how you should vet a Man.

Everyday after work i watch him . Learning a lot

Im in my 40s and im thankful for RC Blake's teachings...

Female slave conditioning as he would say.. it needs to be broken.

The way you always comment sometimes more than once. Please accept your award 🏆😂...

@@spesh22 I accept my fellow Ninja, thank you so much ☺️

Busy taking notes danko

I get angry when a man asks for money….😢

I almost had a heart attack,I hate that man but I don't know him yhooo am boiling

​@@moe_ramz me too bra

Me too I will never ever agree with my money 😂😂😂😂

Its like some of us Women we are so Stranded and so Lonely to buy Love.hw can l look for another mans child whilst he can even look after me.moreover you were the husband in yr marriage whilst he was Sowing children out there

Better than Government 🤣 😂

Eish yah 😢

Therapy IS greatly needed!

She doesn't love herself ,I hope she will learn to love herself . We love better and see ourselves in better places ,when we first love ourselves . She's soooo beautiful I pray that she loves herself to know that she can live without that husband. Remember you attract who you are ,if your not whole you'll attract messy friends and lovers . Let's love ourselves women please I beg 🙏

Marriage is not scary. Marrying the wrong person is scary.

watch out for men in their thirties or above who will come sniffing your way to control you

Woman go through a lot especially when you have no family 💔

Thank you❤

Exactly... parasites aka vultures can smell your weakness from far away then they use them against you

Yheeeey 😮 i was jaw dropped the whole time

@@boldlyowamie I can imagine Owamie. Yooooooo *claps once*

Yhooooo

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂nawe manje! Your yooohs are depleted. That took me out. And I'm absolutely stealing it. I had to laugh in the middle of this serious issue

Another hit of an episode Owamie. Guys nenzenjalo ngama likes and subscribtions! 🌻🌻🌻

Thats true gowing up iwas daddy s girl I watched how my dad treated my mom coz she grew up without a father figure it was too much sumtyms his girlfriend will visit I told myself kguri no man will scam me

I think it's more lack of self love ❤😂😂😂and the man are manipulative cause they can spot the weakness in you 😂

Me! 😂😂😂😂😂

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Am hiding my phone I can't wait for lunch

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We learn ❤

Immediately please 😢

@@hlurilemaluleke5355 And stop crying on tiktok everyday

Very true. We should end the normalisation of women paying bills. And these broke men are love bombers so we need to make sure we are able to see and pay attention to the signs. Most importantly, like you said, as black people we really need to normalise the parent/ child conversion about dating. Because when parents don’t guide their children, they fall in the hands of worse people who will define for them what dating is also get away with a lot of bad things just because we can’t not talk to our parents about relationships. Because dating a man that makes you pay for everything, cheats on you and beats you up and then continuing to marry him is a sign of something seriously wrong with your self esteem, your knowledge of what you should and shouldn’t accept in relationships and a lack of standards and boundaries. Not in a judgemental way but that is the truth. And many of us women really struggle with boundaries and standards because of the lack of information and other more serious childhood traumas. 😢

Sprinkle Sprinkle😂😂

If you do not know your worth, if you do not know who you are & where you going (with a plan to get there) with no boundaries you are highly in danger.

@@LindokuhleM_SI love her lol

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I also think it will be easy for her to take him back. It's like she has been hypnotized into loving this guy no matter what.

@@maytshifularo5415 deeply tooted childhood traumas and trauma bonds can make you stay in such situations. I think more than anything she needs to attend therapy and be off social media for a period of time

​@@maytshifularo5415Bewitched is the word.. 😮😮😮

I couldn't keep up 😮. This was a fast-paced marriage. So much happened within such a short period of time. I have never seen someone under a spell but this woman was or is still under a spell. There is no how😡!! Giving someone a lift and money after they they point blank told you that they don't love you. Anever.