Tony Gaskins Calls "Fake Relationship Coaches" Out By Name And It Got Heated 

Tony basically says - you can’t lead nobody where you never been !

🌺Tony Gaskins is the only male relationship guru I endorse. He has been consistent, lives what he preaches, is a man of God and is actually married. He’s scandal free. The rest of these clowns are hustling. Period. Great video ❤️

A carnal mind cannot comprehend the things of God..... It is foolishness and offensive to them ...

That "I'm 35...we do things a little differently" was so cringy. He said 35 like he is 20....and right, 35 and 39 year olds were in high school at the same time 🤣

If I don't hear nothing else, the brother said "relationships ain't the most important thing in life, eternal life is." You do not know how much that freed me up even the more being a single. Thank you

Tony is legit to me. One of the few men that calls men out and whether people like it or not, he’s a man and he knows men.

Ace feeds the Ego. Tony feeds the spirit. Tony is not making his own assumptions it’s coming straight from the Bible….. Ace was playing in Tony face but Tony handled that like a man! I love me some Tony Gaskins

Tony is the G.o.a.t. for this one. I started watching Tony when Covid hit in 2019 and he literally gave me the gems I needed to finally realize, I was in an almost 11 year, toxic relationship with a literal, ‘grown-boy’. One of (if not THEE most) toxic/abusive situations I have ever been in, but I was being lied to and gaslit to the point I thought “I” was insane. Thank you Tony. God bless❤

Redpill is about Concubines, NOT wives.

Way to go Tony. Keep speaking what God loves. THE TRUTH.

Honestly Shumake, in today’s society, most of the people dating are doing it for the wrong reasons….and wrong reasons give you wrong results.

I’m doing it God’s way completely. My fiancé and I are waiting til marriage. We’re getting married next year. All I hear ppl say is you don’t know what he’s doing.. you don’t know where he’s at all day everyday. We dated on the intention to be married. I have to keep telling myself mentally, worldly people will never understand doing it like it’s says in the Bible. The narrow road is really hard for most ppl. It’s not easy but it’s the most peace you can ever feel living in this world.

Damn I actually follow Ace on TikTok and this video open my eyes to how confused his thought process is. He does give good advice on what to look out for as a woman in men but at his core his view on relationship is warped and not rooted in purpose. Whether Christian or not morals doesn’t change its timeless.

I'm happy to see the men calling out the men. Good job to the men with real sense.

We need more men like Tony, RC and you , and break all these generational curses . I appreciate Tony for calling out his brothers and holding them accountable.

We MUST be Born-Again! No relationship will be Healthy until we have an intimate relationship with the Creator!

I love Tony! He’s the most mature and consistent relationship coach. I appreciate people who stick to the word, and walk the walk and talk the talk.

Ace is triggered because Tony is on point with his message.

Tony the truth I been rocking with him for years the devil tryna attack him because he tryna live right an do right an tell the truth ima forever support Tony he real 💯

I actually find it a breath of fresh air men talking up more on morals, values, family etc and calling out other men about having purpose when it comes to relationships.Correction is not wrong..we need more of this ❤

They’re close to the same age but Tony’s wisdom made Ace look like a little boy.

The Bible tells us we should strive for wisdom. It covers many aspects of our life especially relationships.

To be fair, Ace does give women good advice about not dating men who do not treat them right and he empowers women to not entertain low level men. So I don’t think its 100% fair to say a single person can’t offer good dating advice. Before I got married, I gave good advice and now that I’m married, I’ve elevated the advice to marriage to better the black community. I get what Tony’s saying but not all his content is centered around sex or sleeping around but helping women make better choices. Always on point Shumake 🙏🏽 so I definitely get your point for sure.

Tony Gaskins the truth. Point, Blank, Period!!!!

The problem I see is that people are pretending that HEALTHY relationships do not have a specific formula. They don't take money advice on how to maintain being a billionaire from someone that is homeless and financially irresponsible. They respect that there is a formula that works for money, but refusing to do things God's way within the formula that He gave us. Tony is correct.

Ace is not grounded in anything. Hence, he is rejecting God’s way.

If the point of dating is to meet your “person” and get married I don’t want advice from someone who is only dating. I want advice from someone who has been SUCCESSFUL at it. Show me how you were dating AND THEN got married.

Name a culture outside of western culture that does not respect marriage. Ace sounds ridiculous 😢

Be honest, Ace needs to give his life to Christ. He make himself sound like he knows Him, but he denies Him in actions and truth.

Tony is just simply speaking the truth! Any one who is carnal minded will disagree and that’s fine just do it #respectfully #blessedtribe🙏

"There is money being made, but no progress being made". FACTS! Most of these dating podcast people don't even live the lives they are speaking on. They are just saying whatever is sensational enough to get them the most views.

People so worried about generational cycle of poverty when they should be worried about generational cycle of sin.

Married people of the faith constantly say marriage is uniquely attacked by the enemy. On marrying a nonbeliever Jackie Hill Perry says "marriage is hard...I don't want to construct a hard God hasn't called me to."🔥 Single people especially carnal just can't tell you about that.

I watch you and Tony because of your beliefs and you’re clear about your dedication to your wife and family. I still think about one of your videos that you had to hold your newborn the whole time and still got your message across

God working Thru Tony Gaskins , his voice really need to be heard an ppl gone attack him , anything going against him ion feel they believe in god , Tony telling the truth ion care about how he said sum

If you have Christians and non-Christians, having the same conversation, it’s not gonna be the same. You’re not gonna be on the same page.

Thank you for saying that families need two parent homes.

You can tell the strength of a man's character by his reaction to a different opinion. I used to listen to ACE metaphor.... Money gets to people's head , and it shows. The loosen their morals, they will say whatever brings in the check. When you gotta bend your values for provision, it reflects your lack of trust on our Father. I pray for our world. There is so much push back on the Bible. Why do we have to see the world continually crumble apart on all levels; BEFORE we actually accept Yahweh?

Tony Gaskins was doing relationship coaching before it was popular. He’s the real deal. Glad he’s calling out these fakes and phonies.

“The Bible tells you how to live” absolutely spot on. People don’t realize this.

This dude is delusional. Yes there are various perspectives but one of the reasons as to why things aren’t working in the dating realm is because there are too many perspectives. We literally have the blueprint (the Bible) to help steer us in the right path and yet many CHOOSE to remain in chaos. Anyone not speaking on GOD and principles is the OPP and should NEVER be trusted. 😑

I cant believe how dumb we are getting as a society

Your closing statement was so good; the enemy devil does not want to see successful marriage because it will stop his plan to bring further societal breakdowns. I never heard of these men. But you are an honorable person so I'll check out this Tony guy. Thank you for the recommendation.

I acquiesced to going with a friend to a Tonight’s Conversation in September due to being subjected to a gender war for 2+ hours. While I was impressed by the production and the large turnout, I ended up leaving during intermission. It was exactly what I was afraid it’d be, a gender war. There was some good points made, but like mentioned in the video there was no solution based content. Just a room full of people pointing fingers. I don’t believe you have to be married to give dating advice, however, there has to be some type of resolution and less sensationalism.

“Live in your truth” IS WHATS MAKING THE WORLD SICK. Times were better when we were United by the same foundation of morals & values

Tony hit the nail on the head with the dynamics of "Tonight's Conversation!" The people in the audience, I imagine, usually scratch their heads subconsciously about half the fodder the panelists dish out! Also, I love how Tony is very reserved and calm in his responses while Ace is constantly unsettled, looking for a throw down! Ace is just mad that he got found out! Tony just confused the enemy!

Tony Gaskins is a real one.

When you get to know God for real, beyond the surface of what is taught, you receive conviction. You know that you know that you know. Doing things God's way is the only way to truly prosper. Tony helped me a lot with learning men and how they think. I'm forever a supporter because of that. I agree with you Shumake, putting yourself out there and being a testament for others opens you up to spiritual attack. I'm keeping you lifted. Keep doing God's work. It's needed and appreciated. Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family. Much love💯

I’ve been learning a lot about spirit spouses and how they attack relationships especially Christians. We open portals to these demons through sexual immorality like watching porn, fornication, etc. and we need deliverance from these evil spirits.

We live in a lustful world obsessed with sex and other ungodly pleasures. People want validation that what they are doing is okay but NO you're not getting that because it will never be okay, its immoral on every level including on a spiritual level. It puts bloodlines at risk of destruction and suffering. Tony did well. There's so many women and men even children that lose their lives, every year, people commit murder just for that short moment of ungodly pleasure. I'm not Christian, I'm of a different religion. I've been watching Tony since I was 21, I'm 25 now. If it wasn't for God, my elders including Tony and a few others I'd still feel lost regarding relationships. I'd have lost myself in a man that never cared for me, appreciating the little crumbs he gave me when he felt like it, hoping one day he'd see me. By the grace of God I'm still waiting and saving myself for marriage.

Tony is 100% right. Dating coaches that are not married should not exist. The reason why is because dating coaches that are single and dating only want to talk about how to maintain yourself while you were dating. If dating is 100% for marriage then dating coaches who are dating are not coming from a Perspective of the goal being marriage. They may say that but all they can come from is a perspective of maintaining yourself while you’re dating. I’m not saying that they aren’t giving some good advice, but they are not giving advice that will lead to marriage, which is the entire point of dating.

That guy is taking it way too personally, and getting all sassy and emotional. Way to go Tony, you the man for holding it down.

🩷🩷Ppl gonna pick away at anything they don’t like. Tony seems happy and pleased with what his has been able to do for himself and his life ( rightfully so). He also would like our society to have better structure and change better that leads a life pleasing to Gods. He is Stern and like to live the way according to the Bible and doing the work. (As we all should be doing) Most ppl are not doing that. Tony VOICE NEVER CHANGE SPEAKING TO ACE OR ANY OF THE GUYS ON THE PANEL, but ACE voice was elevated speaking to him. Brother this brother that, Ace should not have taken up so much time in this segment. HARDLY initiated came off like it was plotting to have Ace online. ( that was messy) Whom ever to invite Tony on there platform should be aware of how he moves and viewpoint from online. If u don’t like it then don’t watch it and leave it for those who want the message.

I think people have to understand that most of us have never seen good men in the flesh. I know that’s actually hard to wrap your head around, but most of us haven’t interacted with a good man/father, live in the flesh. Most of their Interactions have been with abusive, sexual, angry, lying or absent men. Not by their own fault either, it’s just what they grew up In. So to see men who value women and their families, is such an abnormal thing. Like a fairytale. This is why what you’re doing is important Shumake, this is why what Tony is doing is important.There are real people that listen to you and are GIVEN hope that there are more people like you out here. And it’s not fake,‘it’s not a movie, y’all are not actors. Representation is CRITICAL in these spaces. As just you saying this, changes sooooooo many lives. Tony will reach ALOT of lives with his message. Tony will encourage a man to be a better man. A woman to trust in God for the desires of her heart, for her love,‘for her purpose, her husband. It’s much bigger than what we think it is.

Hi five Tony Gaskins I’ve been watching you for the last three years four years and you’ve been on point every time I was married to my first husband for 40 years. Our commitment was never to let anyone in between me and him not our children not our family no one. And I am waiting for my next husband because I will not be out here in the streets fornicating with people for pleasure. I’m looking for a life partner who I can share the rest of my life with. Shumake Your channel is on point too. You speak truth and you speak the Bible and that’s how you should learn the Bible by being taught by someone who is actually reading the Bible when they speak to you and layman’s terms.,

Shumake, Tony G (Uncle Tony), and RC Blake’s are the only relationship advice I will ever take. That’s all. The end

“You getting a luh too much bass in your voice” I bet the man Tony is debating with is quick to call women emotional and argumentative.

Accountability is a lost art🤦🏽‍♀️

Tony schooled him like a young brother.

I saw this live and I felt like they ambushed him with Ace Metaphor

We need children teenagers young adults, and adults to understand sex before marriage is not supposed to be if you’re having sex before marriage you have already brought a disturbance to the peace that is supposed to be a union of virginity. Both people are supposed to be clear so they have no expectations. Walking in to this lifelong commitment they’re making to each other. Oh yes, by the way marriages are lifelong commitment, if back then I know what I know today life would be different and I guess a lot of us look at this if we can go back to change one or two things. We must start holding ourselves and our families accountable for their actions that could be before marriage is wrong and people are just sharing things you can’t get rid of good conversation guys.!!!

I would love to see a conversation from you and Tony. I am living proof that Tony is the real thing . He has help me getting closer to God and I was able to get married with his wisdoms ❤❤ #much love

I just think people that are not religious should not listen to religious people that give advice because they wont take it the way its meant.

Keep speaking up Tony🔥

You and Tony are the truth!❤

I have had plenty of single friends in my life that have tried to push advice about marriage on me and mine. Married 17 years and together 20. Let me tell you something. Those friends have had so many men and women come thru our lives. I can't even remember all they names. If I would have took the advice I would be right where they wanted me to be single and alone just like them. Absolutely not!! Marriage isn't for the weak. It takes work, selflessness, and morals.

I don’t agree 100% with Tony on this one…although dating for marriage is the goal, that doesn’t mean every advice from a single person is invalid. Plus a married person is not even in the dating world, so sometimes their advice may even be outdated ..dating in the 90’s and dating now are two completely different things . But i also see the other side to it and understand how taking advice from a single person who has never been married can look silly when marriage is your goal 😅

A friend invited me out to Ace Metaphor show and I was not move at all and the same when I see his reels. The show was sold out but I just didn’t get the hype. It’s a money move for him.

*Being married does not automatically make you a good person to speak to about successful marriages.* My ex-husband and I were married for 15 years and at the 15-year mark, he cheated. Never said he was smart... But he would have had 15 years of "successful marriage" under his belt.. Until the day he didn't.

Tony definitely prevailed during this interview. The Holy Spirit is with him and Ace couldn’t handle it at all!

Man I’m so glad to see this. I feel like a bunch hit dogs get to hollering when tony speaks and to finally see another real grown up man appreciate what tony does is so necessary 🙌🏽

There is a dating coach that I used to follow, but I noticed more and more that he is pandering and he is always pushing his books for people to buy or saying things that women want to hear. I also noticed that some of these dating coaches are not married and are giving all this advice. I am using discernment as to which dating advice to listen to.

Shumake, TG and RC Blakes are the only 3 men I take seriously. The sole reason is because they live their life off of biblical principles and they're honest about their past and how they learned from it. Keep speaking truth 👏👏👏

Ouuuu this is a good topic. I unfollowed him a while back after realizing his message became about how superior he is to EVERYONE and the degrading of his supporters for profit. I appreciate his transparency for sure with exposing the mind games men play that a lot of women were oblivious to. I feel like he’s over sharing in some areas and really needs to learn what to and to not share. Also to stay on topic with his message and maintain his professionalism. The same thing god blesses you with can be taken away.

Tony isn't any better. Who is anyone to call themselves relationship guru's and experts? He is only qualified to speak on his experience. You're already losing by claiming to be an expert at anything. Everyone doesn't have the same interests, intentions or desires. Tony makes some valid points but an expert??

We wanna do it our own way yet the one who created marriage already told us how to do it the right way then wanna complain 🥴🤷🏽‍♀️ and I say we cause I been there

Quite frankly I'm not intrested in American unmarried men constantly beating me over the head with relationship advice.

TG…though the words sound right, there is something in my spirit that doesn’t feel right about him. Idk why. I’ve seen him around a lot and even quoted him years ago. For the most part, Ace’s speaking points are realistic advice for this society. All sin is equal. I dislike Christians sitting back judging others for sinning differently than them.

Go Tony!!!!

Tony ATE that up and left NO crumbs!!! You shall know a tree by the fruit that it bears!

I never heard Ace give dating advice he usually tell women specifically what to look for in a relationship. To avoid red flags, what to look for as a red flag. Don’t be gullible for the 1st man that says “I love you.” Love you 1st, heal so you can be be loved and know how to love. I never heard him give advice. Even on his show he doesn’t give advice. He asks a lot of questions. They should invite Tony to their show because real people do be asking real questions. It’s one female on there and a light skin brother be speaking facts.

Ok … I had to delete my comment because I kept listening. I get it now. Dang Ace. Do I believe God can send advice from anyone?… yes, and his word to speaks to that. You guys have to really start studying your word and the true interpretation of it. But we have to stop promoting what is not of God. Dating and having sex with those you are dating is wrong. You will pay for it. You can choose to do life the way you want, but you can’t choose the consequences.

Tony is literally the only genuine MAINSTREAM “Coach” out there… I have seen it all, had famous coaches slip into my inbox trying to holler years ago, when I was single. Tony is the truth and that’s why a lot of these others in the same sector hate him

Tony so real so bold!! Honestly he GOD SENT

ACE is legit. he shares healthy perspectives & principles to women to prepare them to get to self worth and value BEFORE preparing to be a wife. a lot of religious platforms skip this vital education & folks end up married but unhappy and seeking divorce. but to group ACE into red pill or folks that talk ppl out of marriage to settle for relationships is defamatory, ignorant & unfair. if you haven’t listened to ACE and his content, specifically, then your perspective is ill informed.

Shumake you said it best when you said God is not the author of confusion.

I smell the Ego of Tony here, and it isn't fragrant but moreso odiforous. Ace speaks to those who are interested in navigating pass the scum and muck of dating, which is often perpetuated by degenerate Males seeking to take advantage of Women...especially Younger Women. He holds those who behave in a decietful opportunistic energy accountable for their actions by educating those who may be new to the games or ruminating over a past hurt. Ace is legit in my opinion. The world is filled with many people who are experiencing Life through many different lenses. Tony Gaskins does not have the Supreme Wisdom to guide anyone out of their Trials & Tribulations any more than Ace does. The difference is that Ace isn't posturing himself to be anyone's Saviour. He knows who he is, and is using his personal skill and education to help people move forward in a healthier way by spotting the Agents of Chaos missioned to challenge their path. That is what we all do, if we are on a Journey of Healing... We teach others how to move better, wiser, with more intention. Ace may not wave The Flag of Christianity, and so what?! He isn't in competition with God, yet he is doing more to educate people, especially Women, about the designs of devilish Males than other Black Men on Social Media. Seems as if Tony is wanting Ace (and those who respect Ace) to submit to his brand just off GP. That is ego based motivated. There is room for Ace & Tony to do what they do, and people are allowed to appreciate them both or cherry pick from guide points as they see fit to help them in their personal lives regarding advisement. Ace nor Tony are God in totality, yet God exist within us all. God is Omnipresent, which means God exists beyond the man-made structure of ANY religion, person, place, or thing. However, if Christianity is the pathway that resonates with you the most on your personal journey as your move towards the Higher Consciousness, so be it. The Devil knows The Bible better than any of us, however, all we need is the Faith of a Mustard Seed to overcome any obstacle it may lay in our path. Ace is giving out the tools of Wisdom he has in order to help others obtain the restoration they need for where they are in their present state of mind. What's wrong with that?

i don’t know or watch tonight’s conversations but he is spicy! 🌶️ 🌶️🌶️🌶️🌶️🌶️🌶️

I used to be addicted to watching Ace and fell off listening to him because he can be too boisterous and passionate for me. Every now and then he does hit the nail on the head. I won’t discredit him as a whole. However, aside from Ace there are many relationship coaches on the internet who are scorned people struggling with singleness and trying to conform people to their “red flag” only messages. They haven’t healed themselves. It can be a bit much. Discernment is important on these platforms. Plus their topics and messages can be in conflict with the word like Shumake stated.

What people do not understand is that sex is marriage. Consummation is the act, no marriage if no sex. “and they twain shall be one flesh: so then they are no more twain, but one flesh.” ‭‭Mark‬ ‭10‬:‭8‬ ‭KJV‬‬

I agree with Tony.

Strive for wisdom though our lord Jesus Christ ❤

Thank God for men like you and Tony who are not only thinking about whats in their pants and their pockets but about the future of our community. Blessings on both of your lives as you bless and guide other men and make a difference!

TG states the truth.

I see a man of God vs a worldly man. The Bible says that the darkness can’t comprehend the light, that’s why he doesn’t understand people. Godly women need a Godly man, you’ll know them by their actions (fruit-Bible). Ladies, the less you speak, God will allow them to tell on themselves unknowingly to them😂. God’s path over everything ❤

I watch and listen to you Shumake and Gaskin. You both are the real deal ❤❤❤❤.

I like tony and his message but what if everything is by design? Meaning, we are meant to go through challenges in life to learn certain lessons. There just some who will fall short and maybe they were meant to. There’s balance that exist. We need evil to justify good. We can’t save them all. Just focus on the ones who want to improve their life and relationships.

I have never thought of it like that nor was I taught that dating is principle based.. I’m glad I watched this bc it gives me a new perspective on things

Tony has always been honest and he stands on what’s right. I like Ace but Tony is the real deal.

Most marriages are not healthy and happy. It is ridiculous to think that only married people's advice is valid for dating. Tony is not educated in counselling and psychology yet he gives relationship advice. You do not have to be qualified to give good advice.