I followed your advice on accident (wasn’t emotionally ready to be in a relationship with the guy) right when his interest in me peaked. I dated other people and realized I wanted to see him again, and lucky for me he was still interested in me. It’s been over the span of 8 months, but since January we have been talking more frequently and going out on dates. Coming up on our 6th date...and I think we’re both developing feelings. He pays for meals, he opens doors, we naturally laugh at each other’s jokes and touch etc. The key was dating other people and working on my self-confidence/hobbies. By taking it slow and not being too invested in the beginning I’ve had the most success because normally I care too much and I don’t get past the third date! ❤️
A R he is good. Also check out mark rosemfeld. They are my two favorites. I use to love Matthew hussey but I’ve moved to the more real Elliot Scott and Mark Rosenfeld
I love you Elliot Scott... been a fan since day 1. You keep it real unlike most, and I respect that. For every person that doesnt like you there’s 10 others that do. Dont ever change bro
A man may show incredible interest at first because he's operating off of fantasy, not reality. After all, he still doesn't know who exactly he is dealing with. When some of the realities sleeps in, his interests may drop drastically as his ladylove was not exactly what he imagined.
You're the first one, OUT OF ALL of these videos who has really helped me understand my current situation with the person I'm talking to. I need to just chill out and focus on having fun.
You're already famous lol for "orbiting", "provide & satisfy", and "investing resources". I really hope to see your book published & inside of a book store.
You might be my favorite dating coach, I think. I’m still playing the field a bit and enjoy being single, but you’re doing a good job. I appreciate your advice and your commentary brings me a warm smile
I'm in a relationship and I'm happy. But as relationships progress, I still like to keep learning. I just love watching your videos because I love the way you express yourself. You always keep it real and explains things in simple terms so we can let all this info sink in.
I absolutely love this video. You are so real and I f*#$king love your advice! Your humor is great. Keep up the fantastic work and I will recommend you to every woman I know. Thanks Elliott!
Dang! im glad ive found your channel.... you are the most acurate dating adviser ive ever heard....all you said is true...it does really makes sense...
Thank you so much. It’s so hard to find videos that don’t talk about physical contact stuff, which does me no good. My guy doesn’t do that because he’s kind of shy and takes things slow, which i exactly what your video talked about. So again, thanks.
OMG, he's doing all of this. I let him do the chasing and it's worked. He really shy and he used to back away if i was forward even very low key. He's investing over time and now tells me things , such as he's comfortable with me and likes to talk with me. Every a.m. and p.m. we text good morning and good night. He says he can't sleep without it or his day isn't complete. The other day he said I bet you didn't think you'd still be doing this. LOL We have a lot of laughs too.
I just wanna say thank you. Your a human male trying to help us ladies! I appreciate you and all the common sense stuff you actually say. Yes we might know it but it goes futher hearing it from a guy. My male friends , comfuse me So your the perfect alternative. Keep up the good work!
You're my favorite dating coach Elliot Scott. And I love you too. You're so cute in a nerdy but crazy cussin' kinda cute way. Thanks for breaking things down for me.
Hi Elliot. Your advices are extraordinary! This guy that I like somehow gives a little bit of each of these signs, but I don't know what should I do to be in a relationship with him. He has never been in a relationship before and we are in the same group of friends for almost a year. Can you please make a video on this topic (about the guys that don't have a lot of experience with women) or give an advice if I should be the one to confess?
You know what is frustrating. When you ask for a healthy relationship and the guy you like like mad about just got out of a relationship and his building a foundation with you but very slowly.
Genevieve Reindl Elliot talks about rebound relationships. If he has been out of a relationship for 3 months or less, Elliot says he’s likely emotionally unavailable and u may need to move on
I love all your advices, I learn so much from them. Always so honest, it makes me realize what I do wrong and what I need to work on. Love it can get enough of the.
Don't give up on life and the universe I know of a great man who helped you me fix my broken hear beat relationship and everything was restored to pormal in days without delay
My first day seeing any of this dudes videos, and wtf. Cool af! I’m liking his advise, and so far everything makes sense. This is like the third video I’ve watched, and he’s fuckin right so far!
It makes me feel uncomfortable when guys want to go really fast and not take things slow. I have run into guys on Tinder that want to know a whole bunch of personal stuff about me right away and want to meet up right away. I want to get to know this total stranger first before I meet him or jump into things. Especially if its someone I met on Tinder!
one thing I realized, is if you want a guy to keep his interest you must must must allow him to miss you which is creating some needed space, otherwise, someone will get taken advantage of real quick
Don't give up on life and the universe I know of a great man who helped you me fix my broken hear beat relationship and everything was restored to pormal in days without delay
Hey hey !! I enjoy your channel 💎 If you have time can you make videos on how to beat guys at their own toxic games. I'm not interested in dating guys, or being their girlfriend but I do want to know ways to take their poison and shoot back into their own veins. For example: 1) when they are subtly being manipulative with questions offensively and making you play defence, how can you turn it around and put them on the defence? 2) gas lighting. When you confront them about their bullshit behaviour and they tell you that you are out of line, or say "I don't know what you're talking about?" Guys are *****. And what about sharehouses? Living with guys in share houses? Have you done a video in that?? And also have you ever done a video on ways guys "feed" off women? How they find girls around them and just try to use them to feed their own egos?? And don't give any thought about the girls well being. I fucking hate guys, I don't want to date those assholes I just want to fucking destroy them. But legally. Without jail time. Thanks.
Hehehe - you made me smile when your spelling got funky *wink wink* :P These four reasons are simple and yet so many women don't seem to know the thing about why girls fall in love. Girls fall deeply in love when a man is willing to share his resources, be it time, money, ability to listen and help solve your problems, making you dinner etc. I know I do at least. I read it many years ago... about the chemistry of love. It's how I know if a guy is seriously into me or not, especially over time. When he makes an effort, 6, 12,18 months in, I know I am under his skin for real. It's like buying stocks - you don't always know what you get into, but if you're lucky they keep giving dividends... 😉 Actually it could be pretty fun to write a blog post about stocks and dating someday in the future I think... *thinking smiley*
I have a question, I hope you answer. I’m texting a guy from Uni and he texts every few days. And we were talking about a tv show, and he says I should watch this other one and that he has the box set if I’d like to watch it sometime? And I wasn’t sure what he meant by that. Did he mean I could borrow it or he wants to watch it with me. Because I showed some friends and they said it’s to borrow, a couple say he likes me, and another said he’s letting me decide. Please let me know what he means :)
The woman doesn't choose to leave, he makes her. Personally she shouldn't have slept with him but that's the way it goes. I don't like people saying put out. i don't get it, seems so sexist and shows no respect.
