TOXIC BEHAVIORS IN WOMEN

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TOXIC BEHAVIORS IN WOMEN W/ @niceandneatthepodcast
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Discussing Real Life Issues, Relationship Deal Breakers - RED FLAGS and Setting Boundaries Discussing Does Body count matter, Does Size Matter and Balancing a Relationship and Work. Everyone has boundaries and deal breakers but many times don't realize how many. Before jumping into a relationship you must recognize the things you like and dislike about a person you choose to make your partner or significant other. New episodes of Let's Talk About it every Sunday where we dive into talking about relationships, red flags, boundaries, dating advice, proper communication, therapy, romance, sex, single life, married life, celebrity, influencer and creator careers, high-value men and modern-day women, entertainment and much, much more. We will also discuss physical health, mental health, and focus on the spiritual journey as well. Beyond this season of relationships advice and friends, we will also dive into more controversial subjects. Touching on everything from the Mandela Effect to religious and political beliefs. The importance of protecting your energy and tightening your friend circle. Financial literacy and inspiring and motivating others to focus on success. Black Lives Matter and the state of society today. Podcast will be arriving to Apple Music and Spotify soon.RELATIONSHIPS, LIFE, ADVICE, DESTORM
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@Chocolate.barbie444 2 года назад

Duke is so emotionally intelligent. He's understands the value of a woman.

@LettaE 2 года назад

Duke provided a much needed balance to this conversation.

@sparkwill5337 2 года назад

He always does 🙌🏾

@i_appeal 2 года назад

@@sparkwill5337 I was going to say the same thing!

@TheLuvAngel22 2 года назад

@@sparkwill5337 I was just about to say this.

@callen9679 Год назад

Yes

@mikailahouston4511 Год назад

!!! Cause the other ones are clearly in the victim mindset

@queenqueen1053 2 года назад

I love these men . Duke definitely listens to Chanel and i bet they have good conversations because he always comes with that wisdom and not saying he can’t have these thoughts by himself but it shows they have great intentional conversations ,Jalon and Omar too. I enjoy listening to them and I’m very open to hearing their perspectives because they are so respectful and play devils advocate which i love. I love how they always want to problem solve instead of pointing fingers . I want to problem solve too

@sparkwill5337 2 года назад

We need more Duke’s

@dennesaaa 2 года назад

"Toxic behaviors come from people with negative energy.. People who aren't at peace with themselves.." WHEW. Well said Omar! I definitely agree with that one.

@goodtrouble841 2 года назад

good topic. i work in the psychology & cognitive health sphere. it’s super important to get clear on the what toxicity really is & how it shows up and affects us relationally. everything can’t be thrown into the TOXIC 🪣 bc it has an unwanted/negative affect on us, or if someone has baggage, or does things we don’t like, etc. *toxicity* stems from a negative belief system that directs our thoughts and behavior… thus negatively impacting our relational dynamics (with ourselves & others). we can’t keep throwing *this word* up against a wall & hoping it sticks to continue to dismiss away the complexities of human behavior, unresolved trauma, lack of emotional management & consequences of ineffective communication.

@Snicklez89 2 года назад

THANK YOU. I literally just left a comment saying the word toxic is the wrong word being used in this convo(and it’s being heavily overused)

@goodtrouble841 2 года назад

@@Snicklez89 🎯🎯 & y it’s important is: you can’t get the correct solution if you’ve incorrectly identified the problem.

@kalami2010 2 года назад

All of this! I was just going to comment on how overly (and incorrectly) used the word toxic is.

@JuliaRachelle 2 года назад

Thank you! Sheesh

@nobodysbusiness9916 2 года назад

Ok thank you, I think Duke was trying to help clarify what the word TOXIC entails. It was not clearly established.

@ThesolotravelBae_ 2 года назад

People who've been through stuff isnt toxic most of the time they're damage. Their behaviors stems from trauma which in return causes people to behave " subconsciously " inappropriately. It eventually becomes toxic when they are aware, it becomes a pattern and they refuse to make changes

@yulnikita 2 года назад

I like that Duke really stands on his morals and values and I like that Destorm doesn't take himself too seriously and is willing to have fun with the conversation,

@Femininewifeschool Год назад

This is why Duke is a king and a superior man. Firstly he doesn't generalise on all women second he shows understanding to women. Any man or women that starts making generalised statements about men or women needs to heal. What is it about you that attracts toxic people to the point you start generalising on a whole people. Saying negative things about women and generalising the way the host does is the same as a woman saying men are dogs. Men are not dogs ....some men are promiscuous. Likewise women are not what some of what you say they are...the women you attract because of your toxicity are ❤

@jazzmineloreal 2 года назад

Duke is holding it down in this conversation.

@jauntyfitnessNPND 2 года назад

Duke and Omar always understand the assignment! Love hearing from these men #Nice&Neat

@PourLaMourDeLargent 2 года назад

@11:00 that's when you reassure her, most cases if a woman has doubts it's because communication & trust is lacking. That's why I love Duke. He & Jalon truly understand and adore women.

@callen9679 Год назад

Yes, Jalon and Duke 🥰🥰

@jenkayokay 2 года назад

Duke represents Chanel so well! His answers are very thoughtful and honest. Okay, Naija 😂👏🏾 Anyway, I think toxic (and personally I dislike this overused term), is a behavioral pattern that someone refuses to acknowledge and improve on. It’s a characteristic that applies to your way of doing things, that is harmful to any relationship.

@ButaCthing 2 года назад

Gaslighting is definitely an old term. It’s when you try to convince someone that what they know is true is false. It’s trying to contort someone else’s reality for your own personal gain. Basically trying to make someone feel crazy

@robiec5057 2 года назад

I dont need to smell Duke to know he smells good!!

@najlamuhammad2099 Год назад

Duke is amazing but Destorm has so much maturing to do

@Femininewifeschool Год назад

DUKE IS A MAN!!!! My goodness who raised this man

@PeaceBStill81 Год назад

I love Nice & Neat. Everytime I see them on my timeline I watch it. As a AAW it’s refreshing to hear AAM speak on what we can do to keep our relationships health or get into a healthy relationship. ❤

@prettychunks1011 2 года назад

Duke gets it everytime🤗

@MadisonPettway_ Год назад

Love how the men of nice and neat didn’t refer to women was “bitches” at all when the other guy did. They’re always so classy

@Snicklez89 2 года назад

It’s Duke breaking it down so it can forever be broke. Also, i think the word toxic is the wrong word to be using and is being over used in this convo

@watchmelinerose 2 года назад

Whew, this was such a GREAT conversation. I think we all have some level of "toxicity" in us --- we're not perfect. But as Des said, we should all strive to minimize the amount of baggage we carry, and that starts with self-love.

@FollowingTheCall Год назад

"We on yo show" tickled me so bad. I'm crying at the laughter lol 😂

@ijesssparkle 2 года назад

Duke was talkin that talk 🔥🔥

@stephnwaneri7370 2 года назад

Loved it. Great conversation. I’m surprised I didn’t hear them say or talk about a woman who complains or nags a lot contributing to having toxic behaviors in a relationship.

@justbeingpumpkin.4057 2 года назад

This Episode was 🔥🔥🔥 love what these men stand for & the way they present themselves is obvious, thanks fellas!

@marybutidk Год назад

Binging my fav pod and fell in here ❤

@FollowingTheCall Год назад

20:00 DUKE SHUT THAT SHIT DOWN LMAO 🤣🤣 So me, as the conscious friend.

@Lowely10 2 года назад

39:55 is definitely a gem!!

@AbrielDelaney 2 года назад

Jalon... you say it's toxic for women to presume that their new partner is like their past partner who violated their trust and that that's toxic to project these things... but you turn around and says "nah, I don't think women do too much looking in the mirror beyond their looks," ... sounds like YOU dated a lot of shallow women and you're projecting that narrative onto all women. Would this happen to be the "young lady" you dated who said she was pretty enough to stand outside the club and get pulled in? Is this not the same as the woman assuming the man is shady? You don't hear your own hypocrisy? Additionally, the human brain is wired to protect us. It does everything in its power to prohibit pain from reoccurring, thus, taking precaution when a similar threat is perceived. That's not "toxic," that's human design. I suggest you look into that... and then look into the mirror yourself.

@LaKae444 2 года назад

Sounds personal lol

@princettastovall3204 Год назад

A whole navy seal team!😂 This is a great topic👏🏽

@authenticallyari3185 2 года назад

My motto has always been Happy Spouse. Happy House.

@brianarichard18 2 года назад

I learned so much from this. Thanks Guys❤️❤️

@shannonshanaye 2 года назад

Loved this convo!!🔥🔥

@accordingtobrittt 4 месяца назад

Jalon I think that was interesting talking about women’s hold men’s feeling hostage! Although I think that’s a good point I think men do a poor job of communicating the change in feelings and in my experience that’s what blurs the line.

@therealists6624 2 года назад

This is real dope De.🔥

@stephaniesusana1726 2 года назад

I feel like how you can inspire a man can be to having something going, something you're passionate about. Going to get it, goals and aspirations. Hustling! I feel like these a lot of woman are all about what he gonna buy me and take me out but bring nothing substantial into the relationship

@FollowingTheCall Год назад

47:15 "Start with a routine." Jalon

@abigailcazares7411 2 года назад

Minute 42:50 when the speaker talked about not feeling like they didn’t go get it. This is something women know that their love interests/ partners don’t feel either…

@newaveride3396 2 года назад

All the manosphere does is talk talk talk about women. My God is there any other topics? What about rebuilding wallstreet. How to raise productive kids? Education? Any thats actually productive? Someone point me in that direction so I can hear what men are gonna do about the state of our community.

@newaveride3396 Год назад

@jeremiah dorsett no it doesn’t. Men and women shouldn’t even be focused on each other. All your efforts should be on building. Then the relationship stuff will fall in place.

@JuliaRachelle 2 года назад

Ok so on “baggage” everyone will forever have their “baggage” with them. I’m assuming you are referring to people who have been through trauma in the past and therefore they will bring it into the relationship, BUT that will never change. People will forever live with their traumas! You obviously can work on them daily for the rest of your life but people will forever have these issues, also depending on the level of trauma. Asking someone who’s used to a habitual liar and emotional abuser, they will not be able to trust easily when they get into a new relationship or start seeing someone, they will be on their TOES, and pull back a few times for much longer than someone who never went through something like that. I HIGHLY advise all of you to research trauma and how it effects the brain and the long terms effects it has. Gaslighting is very real and is no joke. It really fucks with people. I’m a person who dealt with EXTREME emotional and sexual abuse and I’m actively working on bettering myself and it’s very hard. People nowadays overuse these trauma terms but they still are very real and more people need to study them.

@titilayothegreat Год назад

I never let my friends influence me period

@CreatingTheAdams 2 года назад

I want to move to LA so mad but it hard when you have a family

@Diamond-ot5fm 2 года назад

I moved to a whole another state with no family by myself with two kids anything is possible

@CreatingTheAdams 2 года назад

Anything is possible but it hard even in this state take care of four girls and my wife it hard

@Diamond-ot5fm 2 года назад

@@CreatingTheAdams Like I said , anything is possible . It won’t be easy but you’ll be happy you did it .

@Ria19907 2 года назад

The guy in white kinda favor Wanyá Morris :)

@FollowingTheCall Год назад

49:13 Lets Go Omar lol Im like "speak up" lol run that shit

@jaylaav1166 2 года назад

I’m just saying, your words gotta match your actions.

@sonicboomkj 2 года назад

Great episode.

@najaerogerd309 2 года назад

Dope conversation

@sangtutang3333 2 года назад

Yes love it.

@sparkwill5337 2 года назад

Duke is MVP!!! I love him and Chanel

@dirilisertugrul6122 2 года назад

Love it

@FollowingTheCall Год назад

44:22 COME ON JALON, HE/SHE WASN'T DOING ENOUGH. I apologize, but I'm not inspired.

@AminaKarimovna 2 года назад

Love the episode but gaslighting is emotional manipulation and thank god we have the term and awareness around it! Hope you guy can research it too so its not bad out to be a jokeee

@808micks 2 года назад

YO WASS GOOD!

@rubyjacobs2383 2 года назад

The host has a nasty mouth but he said it, he’s from the gutter. He also tells the other guys she put you up to say that? He’s toxic like he said women are, when you say stupid stuff the finger is pointing back at you! Apparently he’s not all that known because look how many people have even watched.

@trethemc1074 2 года назад

Idk he’s just being entertaining also u have no idea who this man is look up destrom on all platforms he’s pretty well known. P.S did you even listen to the whole podcast?

@therealists6624 2 года назад

Mxm man stop hatin’

@myluxurythoughts3178 2 года назад

I was thinking exact the same. You can be joking around or not, it not always comes from a positive place.

@estherphillip Год назад

well said

@izarawanjiru Год назад

For pizza go to Italy 🇮🇹 that's the best ❤ interesting Broadcast

@jaylaav1166 2 года назад

How can y’all rely your motivation and inspiration in your woman?? It’s not fair, I’m sorry,

@FollowingTheCall Год назад

53:04 DUKE

@loveafrica97 2 года назад

Ontario, Canada???

@SHANNEL805 2 года назад

The term "gaslighting" has always been around its not new...it is in the dictionary and you can google the word.

@PourLaMourDeLargent 2 года назад

Happy Spouse, Happy House.

@alexandriamfuta5731 2 года назад

Could someone elaborate on why a woman should inspire him?

@EJS1490 2 года назад

if y’all are in a good place financially often times that is the only thing that you have to offer to a woman, y’all not even emotionally intelligent but you on here talkin about womens potential to be toxic, y’all bring the bare minimum regularly. Is every woman amazing and perfect absolutely not, but a lot of the things you bring up as issues is gaslighting ass shit that y’all do to us and we are reacting to it

@robiec5057 2 года назад

Gaslighting goes wayyy back 1960s at least