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Well here's the crazy thing this community LGBTQ+ they don't want to tell the negative effects of what this can do to somebody or the negativity that comes with it like as the person sees in the video or as we see in the video and then anytime someone wants to detransition The community all of a sudden becomes Judas and turns their back on the individual that is trying to reclaim themselves and yes you are correct Matt Walsh does explain these things in his video and shows both sides to this but those in that community are so close minded that they refuse to even consider looking at others experience that have gone through this kind of thing or look at anything that opposes them if you want to have an objective opinion on something you should look at it from all sides and then make a decision well this is what we're at in the world so it is what it is.
@@Slippzy The way it's been recently it is a lot of young people because they're young I don't know what they want today or tomorrow things can change at any time. The older people they've had time to think about things understand the decision they're going to make is something that Will impact them for the rest of their life and they've accepted it and they know that that is who they are and most of the time they're fine. But it just seems nowadays everyone wants to be some type of identity and they'll go to the extremes to achieve it everyone just wants to be special at least that's how I think they see it but once you realize if everyone's special then nobody is. I don't know it's sad to say it is what it is but this is where we're at right now and human history
Nope! Just like I fully thought out my transition and am so much happier years later, I’m fully evaluating the options and choosing to not subscribe to this closed-minded channel.
@@Echo024 ooh quick question if you don't mind why is it that there are videos out there that are put on RU-vid or TikTok of a person that was or had transitioned and they supported by the community but then chooses to detransition cuz maybe they regretted their decision or just input as much thought as you did into it and chose to go back the community turns their back on them. Like another example there was a comedian a trans woman that shouted out support for another comedian a black American comedian Dave Chappelle and now of course this wasn't proven but it's just the course of events because the support this person shot it out prior to this person committing suicide this person was bullied by said community for supporting Mr chappell now Mr Chappelle himself talked about this on one of his comedy specials and you know he said he can't say what actually happened cuz he doesn't know but all he knows is she gave him support the community responded negatively to it and a week later said person took her life sorry for just ranting on honestly the second one you may have not known about but the first question would be interesting to know if you have an answer for it or if you're offended by any of this line of questioning then my apologies I was really just trying to get more informed stay blessed have a great day. Sorry for the run-on sentence
Exactly! It's like when they wanted to combine all the toys and not have a boys section and a girls toys section because toys don't determine your gender. Like why mix them then if they are all neutral anyways, it's just easier to find stuff if they are organized in boy vs girl
@D12 Raging Them doing it anyways doesn't mean there wasn't any warnings. It's like every medical procedure, they tell you the risks. But since these people only value what their activist friends say of course they'll say nobody warned them.
@D12 Raging We warn people, but we get demonized as evil bigots and booted off social media. Hard to hear a warning when that warning is censored and deemed hate speech
Oh my so true, they call it hate but were warning you. get rid of these non existent struggles. for some they actually feel like there a different gender but far to many were just brought up like that. a kid becomes he is he from his environment. if the parents taught him to be a girl then he will, a lot of the times it's not even the kids, the kids are just curious about dresses and girl toys doesn't mean they wanna be a female there KIDS there curious. if a kid was curious about that white stuff those homeless men were sniffing do you go and buy tons of cocaine and tell them hey you can be a cocaine additced be who you are NO, you tell the kid that's bad drugs don't do that you don't indulge in it. people these days.
Two things can be true at once. Many ppl who've ended up detransitioning probably have seen these videos talking about detransitioning and wrote it off as hate. But there also can be ppl that don't come across the warnings at all. I have experienced something similar, for me, it was a self confidence issue, as a child I've always felt bad about being a girl, always felt a little less than. So when I came across the term 'non-binary' on the internet I thought that label would fit me and started getting my own ideas for transitioning in the future. I experienced NO opposition or encouragement from my real life nor the internet. I eventually gained more self-esteem and I didn't feel that way anymore, I'm extremely glad that I did not have to go through transitioning and detransitioning. For young people, it's very easy to mix up emotions, they're just getting no confidence and gender dysphoria mixed up.
@@marcel7734 take the advice of someone who is probably older than you. Dont ever label yourself that way....just had a conversation with someone about this. Were discussing one having anxiety or depression. This person said they realized after awhile they had labeled themselves as " somebody with anxiety." Therefore they had given themselves an excuse for not doing certain things. They had anxiety for real, but using the label had given them sort of an out. They could use said label every time an uncomfortable situation arose. If they had an uncomfortable social situation, and didnt wanna face it, they just excused themselves saying " well i am a person with anxiety, so its ok." Instead of attempting to face the situation. We, as a society, have greatly increased the use of labels and convinced many that they need a label for whatever is uncomfortable to them. You wont always be comfortable in life, but facing these situations makes you stronger and makes you who you are in the longer run. It creates your character and builds your confidence. So dont always try to label yourself. You dont need one. You are who you are and you are most likely still learning and growing. Its natural to be uncomfortable sometimes. It just doesn't always need a name or label. And if youre not a younger person, and im speaking out of turn, i do apologize. Just a bit of advice from what ive learned in my own life.
@@jinxxwhisker I’m actually not oppressed, well..not _too_ much. I’m cis and in a straight relationship. there’s actually this thing called being an ally. most people are allies these days, only the uneducated like yourself choose not to be one.
@@jinxxwhisker You have just proven that you don't know what "oppressed" actually means. Tell me why exactly someone oppressed can not call a bigot a bigot.. You are so vague in your saying, because you just don't know what you're talking about!
@@koitka2037 an oppressed person is someone who experiences unjust and harsh treatment, often due to unfair systems or societal issues, if you think youre oppressed and that we are bigots just because we try to warn you how bad transitioning can do for you, than YOU dont know the meaning of oppressed. before you try to doubt my vocabulary, check your own
When the person says, “They don’t warn you,” they aren’t talking about Matt Walsh, Ben Shapiro, {any conservative with a microphone}. They are talking about their “allies,” their doctor, their counselor, all these people who were supportive of transitioning.
For some, its about being trendy, about looking pretty, about being the most oppressed or being the most unique & unfortunately, for a few, its about being excused for your crimes with children & getting off to a fetish. (Source, Jessica Yavin & a "trans woman" who invaded spaces for woman who had miscarriages & claimed to have had one)
That is ultimately what it's about for them. This is why male to female trans people in particular end up looking like caricatures of women. They're playing a part... putting on a costume.
@@equiyazahhak2704 wow, a few people in a community act terrible and you think it applies to everyone in the community - don't comment assuming you understand when you don't...
it was literally a joke abt how most trans people question their gender lol. even if people de transition thats fine and im glad for them but its still important to he respectful to the person in the video especially if u dont know the full context ♡♡♡
I was forced to be feminine when I was little, and I hated it when I got older. I thought I was a guy, but I wasn't. I wasn't a girl either. Finding gender doesn't come with tikTok, it comes with trauma. Here's advice to people (gay, queer, trans or not) who seriously need it. You can be who you seriously want to be and I couldn't care! Everyone's human, no matter opinion or political ideology.
To these people counting how many people make this comment: whats your point? is Ryans comment any less valid because many people agree? or is he supposed to read all the comments first before he comments, so that he doesnt repeat something someone already said? or is there some other significance to this that i am missing? surely the normal response is just "i know right? " or if you get tired of replying then stop replying. its almost as if youre trying to shame or belittle people for saying this.
@@air9710 they don't listen but they blame people for their own decision despite being unsure of their own gender. FEELINGS ARE UNRELIABLE MOST OF THE TIME.
Honestly, for those who regret it, it’s not that they didn’t listen but that people told them not to listen. If they don’t regret it there’s no problem but if they do, you can tell someone should’ve stopped them. You can’t tell me all the problems they have after transitioning, every single one of them are caused by hate, really? I doubt that, of course I’m not saying there isn’t any caused by hate, I know there’s a lot, but all of them? No. I think the problem is letting young people make these big decisions because people want to be supportive and I understand that, (If I was in the situation of a parent whose kid wants to transition I would support my kid through and through, so maybe I’m hypocritical) but people have to understand that kids are stupid. Okay now this off topic but In the end the ones who profit are those supplying these surgeries, it costs money to be transgender, how does that make sense? Question for someone who’s more informed than me, is someone not truly transgender if they don’t spend lots of money on all those surgeries? How’s that fair for those who can’t pay for all that? Okay rant over.
People regret some medical procedures? What! That's crazy According to the National Library of Medicine, the regret rate for gender affirming care is around 1% (for reference the average regret rate for most surgeries is 14.4%, also according to the National Library of Medicine) While we should listen and support people who regret, we should also pay attention to the vast majority of people who don't regret. We wouldn't ban heart surgeries because their regret rate is around 25% (according to the Canadian Frailty Network). So yeah, people regret medical procedures, big suprise
You can’t compare heart surgery to gender transitioning. People who need heart surgery are critically affected as they can die from not having the surgery and the heart is a very important organ that everyone living animal needs to survive. Not to mention heart surgery can correct life threatening conditions. Gender transitioning is more of a mental issue, granted some may choose to harm themselves tragically because they don’t have access to it. But let’s not compare apples to oranges.
@@thisismyyoutubeaccount3322 Also gender affirming surgery is only done on adults so you also outed yourself as someone who doesn't know what the fuck theyre talking about
this! and also the fact that to actually get these surgeries or any kind of medical gender affirming care it takes a LONG time. it takes a very long time because doctors want to make sure you wont regret it. they dont ask if ur trans and then cut ur dick off.
@@denverlilly3669 yes, you are supposed to think about it. not doing so is called lack of impulse control. you are supposed to think before you act, especially before life changing major decisions.
@@denverlilly3669 uh yeah when it's something this drastic this isn't just smoking weed or doing some dumb innocent thing literally playing with your entire future and it's exactly why a lot of these people who transition with no thought about it end up committing suicide. these kids need help not encouragement it's so tragic
@@LK-dn2ms So how bout we help and guide them rather than just dismissing them as liberal abominations? If they're committing suicide over transitioning to the opposite gender, there's some underlying issues there. I'm not going to dismiss something out of hand simply because it's abnormal or unconventional.
Heard multiple people say that as you grow older, especially when you get to the age where your brain is fully developed, you get less insecure and learn to accept yourself. This isn’t the case for everyone, but I do think it’s important to note that in the first 30 years of someone’s life they go through so many different types of “lifestyles”. It’s just them figuring out who they are, give it time. Don’t force a lifestyle that they may not want for the rest of their life. That’s why it’s called a LIFESTYLE.
If we’re not warning anybody then what is this video a trans person or soon to be trans? Person comes across this and it pops in their mind. Maybe I shouldn’t transition or maybe I’m not actually a girl. Maybe I’m not actually a boy. I don’t agree with any of that because I believe DNA is DNA
I grew up on a toxic household and I was gaslit into thinking I was a boy. After moving out, my boyfriend did this amazing thing where he told me "You know, you can be a girl and still like boyish things." I was confused and didn't buy it at first because of how I was raised, but after hearing other people's stories I realized I was wrong. I realized I felt so much discomfort in my body because I wasn't a boy, I was a woman the whole time who'd been lied to.
If it took you that long then you have very low intelligence. I am nothing like my parents and think not like them. I was born with my own brain capable of thinking for myself.
I don't think that's an uncommon experience, sadly. I've seen similar things happen to my family members, but thankfully in our case, it at least wasn't our family doing it to each other. I just really hope she sees some day she isn't a man. There was a lot of beauty and meaning in her that she rejected when she transitioned, and I can still see the remnants of it in her, but it's clouded over by her desire for masculinity. It's heartbreaking.
@@liamcroatt171 It's so difficult to see things like that happen. I witnessed the same thing happen to my brother, being pressured into identifying as non binary. I have nothing against trans people and their wish to transition, that's fine, but there's such a huge difference between forcing someone to transition and truly knowing your identity
@@ArtHeartAlex Yeah, our culture angers me in that way. I understand that transitioning is often seen as a solution to intense pain and suffering on the part of the person who is transitioning, but our culture is so fixated on this solution. Whenever I see it, I can't help but think that, surely, there is a better way to help them than this. This solution seems to say, "No, there is something wrong with you right now, but if you fundamentally change who you are, you'll be better." People have protested me when I express that with the belief that they are transitioning *into* who they fundamentally are, but the body you're born with is part of that: it's not right to tell someone that their body is a defect, even if they already believe it. I just don't understand why we aren't communicating to them that they're already a masterpiece, that they don't have to radically change their bodies into something else. That's the approach we take with every other kind of insecurity with one's body, but for some reason that's not what we do here and it angers me.
@@liamcroatt171 I understand why people would rather change their body at the same time though. Something as simple as breast reduction surgery because they hurt or the person just genuinely doesn't like them. Or vice versa with someone getting implants. My thing is that it should always be up to the person. If our bodies are a masterpiece, and the person doesn't see their body as that, I 100% believe they have the right to create their own masterpiece if they're truly certain that's what they want. If I had done that I'd have hated myself forever. My solution is educate people to the fullest extent and then let them decide. Don't push it
There is no shame in detransitioning. It happens VERY rarely, and nearly EVERYONE who transitions DOES NOT regret it one bit. Also was it explicitly said that "not sure if I'm a girl" refers specifically to reverting back to "boy"?
Exactly. Many transphobes falsely believe that the regret rate for gender-affirming procedures is around 50%, when in reality it's only about 1-2%. Additionally, they often argue that trans people are pushing a 'trans agenda' on children. In truth, no one is imposing this on children. Instead, the goal is to educate them that gender dysphoria is a real condition and to promote understanding and acceptance. Also haii fellow MLM ;3.
Go & Forgive your parents especially your mother for imposing her will on you and being angry, Whatever it is you need to forgive her for do it and forgive your Father for not protecting you from your mother. It’s wrong to be angry at them they did the best they could!! Once you forgive them you will be free and all this stuff you’re going through will stop instantly once you go forgive, then God will forgive You!!
@@capeto08they legit do this. Your callous remark is just looking down on all detransistioners who have went through that. The community rips them apart.
Nobody except some aholes are gonna bully you for detransitioning, it's your body and I'm sure nobody in the trans or outside the trans community is going to bully you for making a mistake
If she somehow imitates shapiro for attention then she got a nice understandi g on how things work on yt. I cant even be mad if she intentionally imitates him cause its funny
@@agnosticmanquestionsall2409 and they will. transitioning and detransitioning is NOT the end of the world but you all act like it is. like calm down. 😑 there are real problems in the world.
@@agnosticmanquestionsall2409 no one is ADVERTISING being trans to kids. when I turn on the TV or heck, I watch RU-vid. you know what I get ads for? furniture, games, technology. you’ve been brainwashed by conservatives. being trans is not an active choice, you cannot be influenced or advertised gender dysphoria. as someone born female at birth, I don’t look at trans males and think “omg I want that” the fact you think being trans is something that can be influenced just goes to show how little you know. am I right in assuming you’re american? like there is nothing inherently desirable about being trans. I can imagine it’s a horrible feeling to feel as though your mind and body do not align. no one actively wants that. I don’t want depression or anxiety yet I have them due to my environment and simply how my brain is. on top of that, trans people have literally had to FIGHT to even exist in this world. once again, no one WANTS that. most of us want to live in peace. you’re also EXTREMELY wrong in thinking no one cares about adults who transition. trans ADULT women are constantly at the forefront of transphobia. they are constantly labelled as predators towards cisgender women. they’re literally the MAIN target of violent attacks in the trans community 💔 also trans ADULT men get ridiculed, they get told they “mutilated” themselves by getting mastectomies. do some research, my god.
Yes! Transitioning is helpful for some people to help know that they are what they transitioned to be, others it helps them realise that’s not actually who they are, either way people who transition learn something from it
@@dumb8530 well actually taking hormones or having surgery can be harmful if you're not actually Trans. That's why it's important to have therapy qnd work it out and not to just do it willy nilly.
i really hope this doesn’t happen to my friends who are trans bc it genuinely breaks my heart. i am a 27 year old man and for as long as i remember people have referred to me in female pronouns. like my whole life everyone has said “yes ma’am” or “sweet girl” or some stuff like that. i questioned so much about myself because of that but i still know i am a guy. i support anyone as long as it makes them truly the happiest, however i just know how easy it is to think “well if everyone thinks you’re a girl anyways…why not be a girl?” social aspects play a major part in it in my opinion. sorry if this was not necessary.
i have feminine features bc i look like my mom but if the whole world immediately identifies me as a girl, why not just be one then? idk i feel like society in a whole makes everything so confusing for some people but who knows. i’m not a wizard, just speaking from personal experience
There should be more conversation normalizing being confused and less conversation about figuring everything out and putting 50 thousand labels on yourself for the sake of “being woke”
part of the process of “figuring things out” is experimenting. Dysphoria doesn’t have a cure as we know it so people turn to the treatment that they think will give them some sense of relief. Sometimes they are wrong, but most times they are right. But neither should be held as taboo or anything, some people get even more dysphoria form transitioning, some get the relief they were looking for. both outcomes should be accepted and unstigmatized
@@midnight.tantrum727 THANK YOU!! If I could shake your hand I would. You are incredibly educated and know what you're talking about! -Sincerely, a trans man
That’s why I don’t deal with clowns or partake in the circus, let them do their clown shit I can give a fuck but if these clowns try to recruit my children into their circus I have a big problem with that
There's nothing wrong with transitioning or detransitioning. Some people might be forced to transition, some might later realise they are gender fluid and then figure they preferred their previous body. And other people actually feel comfortable with transitioning. Let people live their own life and make their own mistakes. Why do you care so much about peoples that shouldn't be the part of your concern? Besides, why people are trying to pick a fight between trans people and people who detransitioned? Both sides have individuals there who needs support and understandment equally. Just let people choose. Regardless of your opinion or aftermath
I am from EU. My friend had trouble to finish UNI few years ago so was offered 5x free sitting at psychologist or psychiatrist (I do not know which) by UNI - dep. of International relations. After this sittings friend dropped from school started to proclaim they are opposite gender, and became protester of everything w.h.o, w.e.f and alike orgs, despite knowing each other from kindergarden and never really showing any sight of being atracted to same gend. or showing other gend. behavior or being so pro/against some issues to protest. Yet, when we were teens, I found book from Mr. Moody. The back papers of the book, there was way to hypnotise so of course I tried this with my friend. It did not work for me, but for said friend….ugh it got ugly, friend started trashing, rolling eyes backwards and …it looked like seizure, because in hypnosys friend was in scene where said friend died in ….“previous” life?! Back to present: After psych. sitting friend started to sprout about some childhood memory which apparently let them realise they are in a wrong body….. …and every other discusion on rationality of friend s newfound identity led to agitation and even anger….like there was block put in friend psyche. But if you read some hypno-books, or even only watched shows like Inception or The Mentalist….that is exactly what hypnotiser needs, A. root memory (real/fake, older better), B. new twist in memorty/new ideology and C. blockage against erasing of new tweaked settings. The thing is, friend now NOT only prefer to pronounce themself wrongly, now dislikes 95 or more% of movies, books, other media or hobbies my friend prefered for decades, change started rapidly just days after last sitting, their writting style changed and even drawing signature is slightly different. Started with propagating euthan…, abort…., eco…., vega…. , abolish farm….and other matters while some of stances on things are against even friends own livestyle. Any reasoning led to unnatural anger. I am just sad and do not know what to do, because I am afraid friend will self - harm due to block, because that is how this blockage agitation apparently works. I am so sad and I worry I will lose my friend, but the situation is so bonkers I do not wish to be silent because my friend is not only one. I know personally teens from 13-16 yrs old from club I lead, and 3 of teens from perhaps 20 members group went trought same process of extreme change persistently proclaimed by said individuals but not supported by facts and ….surprise I know at least 2 of mentioned teens go to….psych. “Help.” Do not get me wrong, throught years and years I knew about at least 2 people, who were apparently either in wrong body or had from nappies problems with hormonal system and they always behaved like other gender, even their muscle movemements, reactions or hand genders were reall of opposite gender…but that is so different from this psych. help transitioners... and population percentage is skewed also.
Something that just isn't talked about is the number of "De-Transitioners" who regret transitioning in the first place and then try going back to their original gender. Or the suicide rate among trans people.
@@danielelias1865most of the time yes because after transitioning it is not fully de- transitional and I stead of going through pain for the rest of their lives they end it... it's sad but very true
That's not what happens. You act like doctors just chop their balls off straight away, but that's not what happens. First of all, because not all tans people want to get bottom surgery, and secondly, it takes months to years to even get the surgery
I felt like I had it figured out when I'm in highschool, especially when I'm in senior year. 10 years later looking back at that time. Everything I did was foolish and naive in retrospect.
@@agnosticmanquestionsall2409 yeah. School is a safe bubble. Most people only have a small view of much larger picture and weren't prepared for real world. The rebellious nature of teenagers don't really help the situation, in my pov.
Respectfully, most warnings are threats. You do not warn anyone, you yell at them that theyll regret it, making them (especially if young) want to rebel or feel the urge to prove themselves and their worth. It is the warnings that cloud their judgmenet MOST of the time and make them strive the path without second thought. To add onto this theorie, say they weren't warned. They would go on to feel much more liberty with their choices, not feeling pressure to prove themselves or represent a community if there was no one pressuring them. Additionally, please stop allowing two detransitioners to speak for the whole community. Same with saying one black person allowed a white person to say the n word so now we all permit it. One guy is not all of us, we all have different experiences. (Sorry for bad grammar)
My lesbian best friend in highschool was super masculine, and hated her name, so we’d call her KP instead of Katie. She was always in men’s hoodies, baggy camo pants, chain wallets, and beanies. She cut her hair boy short, and wore tight sports bras to hide her chest. She hid her natural anatomy in her clothes much like I did. It was like a save bubble of hoodie between our female anatomy and the hostile world. The last time I saw her, she was so feminine, and her girlfriend was calling her by Katie, I almost cried. I was confused at first, “Who???” She said, “Yeah, I guess I finally did the work, and I’m learning to be comfortable with who I really am.”, and she said it with a smile 💔 She was definitely the type of person that was at risk for the transgender brainwash. Even I was against femininity in high school, because it was confused with weakness & vulnerability. We both grew up in areas where life was hostile, and being a female made you a target, unless you became masculine enough to prevent it. We didn’t find familiarity in a princess mentality because nobody provided for us. We were just surviving in a horrible situation. We were taught by our fathers that females were not valuable. I’m so glad that we both found strength in our femininity in healthier environments.
I too liked chain wallets and flannel shirts. I’m glad that was the 90s cause I could just go through my phases and like what I liked. I don’t understand what’s so wrong with being a lesbian or gay man these days. If you like what you like you don’t have to transition to what you’re not to get what you like. I don’t know what is going on. So glad you and your friend are just living your best lives as who you are.
Wow, that's a really profound insight -that it can be too dangerous to be perceived as feminine. Never thought about that. I'm genuinely sorry you and your friend were trapped on that as kids. Hope you are doing well now ❤
This was my story. I dodged a bullet I always say. Would’ve been at huge risk for brainwashing. That’s why I’m so against this movement- I’m very much a woman and although I don’t wear makeup really or do my nails that’s NOT the kind of thing that makes a woman a woman
That's absolutely key. I too have taken on a more masculine persona because I wasn't allowed to be feminine during childhood and struggle even now as someone who provides for herself and doesn't have many people to have my back. Being tough is a defense mechanism.
Was fully convinced in my own mind I was trans for 6 years, turns out it was because of childhood bullying trauma, not trans anymore, got my real self back. I am myself again. Archie.
Super happy for you. We're definitely going to see tons of more detransitioners in the future. This generation was lied to, and was shoved gender ideology into their brains while they were still developing.
I think that what you don’t bother to look up is that the de-transition rate is BELLOW ONE PERCENT and at least half of that percentage re-transition because they moved to a safer environment and de-transitioned because they weren’t safe or in an excepting environment. Do your research before being transphobic and yes I am trans
dude, I’m so excited to transition. idgaf. I’m young, 5 years to go actually, but transition is my dream. i want to have a flat chest and deep voice and facial hair. i swear every video i see of a guy like me transitioning makes me cry. i wish i could transition sooner.
We really need to destigmatize de-transitioners. Some people aren’t what they thought they were at first. But since we do not define marriage by divorces, let’s not let this define the trans experience
If it turns out to not be your thing then im ok with it. People make the wrong choice sometimes and thats ok. The issue is transphobes grip hold of detransitioners who make up under 1% of trans people and use it as a reason to justify their shitty hate. And trans people hate that.
Doesn’t matter what they think they are they are not that. If I think I’m black am I actually black?? If I think I’m 16 when I’m a grown ass man does that make me 16? Absolutely not this is ridiculous that this is even a thing and all we are doing is validating peoples mental health and indoctrinating children and abusing them by transitioning kids that are as young as 2 years old
this!!! a lot of people who detransition are sadly gaslighted into thinking they truly are trans- and in this society sometimes its hard to tell. i have no issue with trans people and lgbtq is totally okay but i think it confuses people. if youre going to do something as big as transitioning you should wait until youre at least 25 to fully decide but at that point its your choice.
@@thanaily agree ! Im 15 mtf and have medically been transitioning and now I’m de transitioning because of how horrible the medication has been making me feel Ik I’m not the only one that feels this way but you don’t feel alive like you can’t process stuff around you it’s like if your brain dead and another reason is cuz I could feel my bottom at all theirs multiple reasons but it’s not worth it tbh it has ruined me mentally sm and now I’m recovering from it slowly
Why cqnt we just accept that gender roles are a thing of the past and you can act how you want. It doesnt matter how girly/boyish you are, your still you, right?
"What if I'm an ugly girl" - that was the moment he realized he just traded his manhood in for actual girl problems. 🤷🏽♀️ Wait till he realizes he still won't attract the man of his dreams cuz the anxiety only shifted and insecurity is gonna haunt him indefinitely. I can't stand the devil for this deception that is crippling these young lives and requires they maim what the Most High so delicately created.
Clearly this woman has experience with this kind of stuff, knowing that this beautiful woman was once stuck in the wrong body, and that body was named Ben Shapiro 😻 congrats on ur transition boo
I’m a gay man in mortuary school and I can tell you already that this is going to be such an issue. From the living medicine perspective, some medications are injected based on body weight (silicon injections create mass that adds to weight) and the dosage will be wrong based on what people are doing to their bodies. I’m excited for a career in thanatology to further explore on to how what you unravel now will end up in knots later.
I Knew a guy years ago who was slowly going through the change, back then it took years, not minutes. I didn't see him for a few years, then one day I saw him and he was dressed back as a man. We had a good chat and he said that he'd spent a lot of time talking to someone and they came to realise that he didn't actually want to be a woman, it was something that had happened to him that made him think that he wanted to be female. I'm just happy that he's happy now and that he hadn't got too far along.
"They don't tell you" I think this person by "they" means other queer people because you're not gonna talk to a conservative when you're thinking about transitioning
I’m a trans man and when I see people like this who arent 100% sure or dont give off real trans vibes I try to warn them but then Im called a bigot and all this other shit lmfao
Conservative here. First one of my good friends Clark he use to be Caitlin. So can we stop with assuming that conservatives are all the same. We are not. Just as I understand everyone is different. Second I wouldn't talk to a conservative either about this because they're not qualified to help someone with this type of decision. Like I wouldn't go to a Democrat for a breast exam I would go to a doctor in that medical field. Please just stop saying nonsense bc this is the very reason why people on the right call yall idiots. Critical thinking is what most of them are asking that yall do. All I'm saying is yes talking to people that have done this is a good thing but people are different and will have different experiences so don't use their experience as a test of what another's will be like. You should always go to a few medical professionals for information never just one. I would even go to one who doesn't believe in this bc they are more likely to tell you all the cons of it all. I would also speak with a therapist about this so if you unsure they can help sort out all your thoughts about it and give you a good foundation of everything that comes with it mentally. Just be smart and don't dismiss what you don't want to hear bc of who is saying it.
It is their choice to be who they are, and they are not clowns for having regret for transitioning and asking questions, and panicking because they are not comfortable with how they look, sound, or even maybe act. And don't misgender someone if you are not sure of their gender. If they aren't sure they are a girl. Then you can't just automatically be sure that they are a boy. It takes time for people to know who they are. And it isn't awful for them to de-transition. We need to support people who de-transition and also transition. Because they are always going to be PEOPLE. like us. ❤
Does regret happen? Yes Should we ban anyone else from making a decision of themselves? No Is detransitioning often found to be connected to the victim being outcasted by those around them, leading them to detransition? Yes
@@mr.mclibtard5015 I am not a sheep, I just know that de-transitions are the exception, not the norm, and are often caused by external rather than internal factors.
@@imjustbarelygettingstarted7352 I am talking about what I consider medical malpractice the people who usually regret transitioning in the first place not everyone regrets it
@@imjustbarelygettingstarted7352when the mentslly ill patient comes in and says im having a delusion im the other gender and the doctor recommends sex change hormones and surgery. That is 100% malpratice.
I know someone that’s taking testosterone and wants to be a man but doesn’t want a penis. I’m so done with this world. If you want to be a man so badly wouldn’t you want to have what makes you a man? It’s definetly not a real penis even if the surgery is done of course.
I know someone that’s taking testosterone and wants to be a man but doesn’t want a penis. I’m so done with this world. If you want to be a man so badly wouldn’t you want to have what makes you a man? It’s definetly not a real penis even if the surgery is done of course.
No I don't think so. I think it was a hope the he would be pretty, but it seems to me that he had much more serious issues he was trying to solve that were a lot less shallow, and unfortunately he chose a way that ended up really harming him.
@@liamparkos7830 I never said he regretted it, but what I said still stands. There were serious issues at play here that were not shallow, and he chose a way to resolve those issues that ended up harming him, which was transitioning; and it really isn't his fault that such a route was taken. I still stand by all of that. I've seen the same thing happen with multiple people in my personal life and they don't regret it either. I'm not just saying it without any foreknowledge.
@@liamcroatt171 first of all you’re using incorrect pronouns biological sex doesn’t determine them also the treatment for gender dysphoria which has been statistically proven to be effective at reducing suicide rates
@@liamparkos7830 I acknowledge the benefits of this method of treatment. My frustrations come from the lack of acknowledgement of the harmful nature it otherwise bears. That said, you and I are at a stark disagreement about what determines man from woman. Anything other than the body of the individual is a recent development in some people's understanding, and it's one I find erroneous. It seems to me that there would be much fewer people needing treatment at all if we had a more realistic understanding of the nature of men and women. The body may be what makes you one or the other, but there is a deeper nature there and if it were recognized, this in my opinion would be a more manageable issue. The view that there is a distinction between sex and gender and the consequences of that view, from my perspective, have stripped away the inherent dignity of manhood and of womanhood and made them less beautiful. People seem to have reduced them down to the superficial, and with the introduction of concepts like gender identity, it has been detrimental.
Girl if someone is trans you call them by what they transitioned to not by their birth gender and you need to stop picking on people keep it in your head and move on
@@blbrryy I mean, I'm not fully denying that. But if I had the choice to transition I'd just be grateful I could. Not all biological men are pretty not all trans men are. It's a fact of life.
I feel like theyre not explicitly saying they're wanting to detransition. For all we know, they might be non-binary instead. I don't think the tiktok is explicitly saying anything about regretting transitioning, they're just questioning their gender.
Its definitely important to acknowledge detransitioners and give credence to thr immense undertaking that is transitioning. It isn't for everyone, and it is unfortunate how many people regret it. It is equally important to NOT use detransitioners as fodder for developing a transphobic narrative. For every to detransitioner there are dozens of trans people who's lives are dramatically improved by transitioning. The reason y'all get labeled "transphobe" is because you refuse to address this issue without plugging in your obviously transphobic rhetoric.
There is a simple solution to all of this if your son or daughter says 'Mom Dad I want to change my gender' Tell your kids there is no way to change your gender you are what God made you and he doesn't make mistakes.
the sad thing is that when these people try speaking out about their regrets and hardships..they are shouted down, silenced, and ridiculed for dare defying the "status quo"
You mean the status quo that creates such a hard gender-binary that people feel pressured into conforming to only two major groups instead of encouraging the individual to find their personal comforts? Pretty sure that problem isn't caused by trans people. As far as I've seen, the 'status quo' for LGBT+ folk in general is very Enby-friendly.
There was no caption saying she regrets it, this is a symptom of body/gender dysmorphia. It has to do with body image, it’s clear she wanted to transition but feels she looks like a man. I had a trans roommate who would get severely depressed because people would touch his “breasts” and constantly misgender him. Therefore, questioning body image and feeling disgusting in your own skin. It’s good to talk about the gender debate, I just urge you to look deeper into what it means to be a trans person and not as a means of fulfilling a single agenda of “dismantling” the trans community
No. We gotta call it for what it is and STOP! people and help them before they take pills. I do not care what anyone says when it comes to helping those that volunteer to be a guinea pig to the government. It's already too late for them
I think for many it isn’t about dismantling the trans community. Just the influences in place that are pushing transgenderism on a large audience of young, often emotionally vulnerable people. Mainly I worry about population. Many are against the idea of having kids, many are transitioning and losing reproductive abilities, many are getting vasectomies. Not to mention the growing risk of governments controlling fertility as technology advances.
@@JFrench98 Mate, transgenderism is the last reason why people are not having children. Mainly, it's because this world cares about profit, not families. Having a family puts you at a financian disadvantage, sometimes even at risk. And many don't want to bring a child into a world that's as fucked up as this because they fear they can't protect them and that they'll have to suffer the consequences for the last generation's decisions (like the impact of climate change). Additionally, the world's mental health has dropped in the past decades, especially in the young generations. Many don't feel capable of raising a child properly or know that they aren't able to do so. You can actually still have children when you transition, through adoption or through freezing your eggs or sperm. If not, sperm donors are a thing and they are currently trying to transfer wombs from cis women into trans women (from women who gave up their wombs willingly). The main problem really is that it's bloody expensive to have children. And the world's only getting more expensive.
When you make a tik tok video and put it out there for all to see, don't be surprised if it gets commented on. But go ahead and message Brett an approved list of topics she's allowed to talk about.
I think that she’s trying to stop people from saying “you didn’t warn us” because in truth she is essentially warning us right now. She has many episodes about this sorta thing
When she said “glad they figured it out” I think she meant she’s glad they’ve realized who they are and are coming to terms with it. I don’t think she meant that part offensively
They really are. This just goes to show that changing the outside won’t “fix” whatever is going on on the inside. People who get excessive cosmetic procedures done are never satisfied with themselves so they keep doing more and more in hopes that one day they’ll be perfect and _feel_ perfect. Transitioning is a more extreme version of that. But the sad part is that unlike body dysmorphia, gender dysphoria isn’t being treated as a mental illness even though it is and the decision to transition can have devastating, irreversible consequences. How anyone can support this, especially for younger people whose brains are still developing, is beyond me.
@@vinny- You are. You're delusional if you think a surgery/transitioning or going on pills for some time will change anything about yourself. The problem's in your head, not in your body.
@@vinny- 2 percent, that is the regret rate which is about 750.000 people. Still a quiet big number but when you compare it to 7 billion people, well... These transphobic “people” ım ashamed of calling them one, are trying to give people an image like they are that helpful aunt to trans people all this time and warned them about everything like theyre the perfect polyanna or something,(specifically on this videos comment section cuz content changes their behavior apperantly) clearly a disorder if you ask me.
@@imnotpix isn’t** being told there’s life long consequences to hormones for minors is not violence. Being told that you’re to take the time to get to know yourself as a minor and make an informed decision about it later on is not hatred. It’s protecting trans kids which is what yall want right
What so sad is that the number one thing I see in common with the detransition stories is the immense social pressure involved in the choice and how all their trans buddies turn in them.
@@anaunaga5471 Some people have gender dysphoria worse than others, and for those people transitioning helps but of course before reaching that stage, therapy / counseling comes first, so we can determine just how bad your gender dysphoria is
@@samuelhowie4543 Not all trans people are like that, but yeah I don't agree with people rushing transition because this CAN leave permanent changes to your physical body
@@gilangzaidan8454 the problem is the "doctors" who help them aren't looking to help them end the ideation, they actively affirm the "trans" ideation. Meaning they have way less of a chance to reject altering their bodies as a maladaptive coping mechanism to "solve" underlying deep seated psychological issues. They'll never find out why they wanted to transition in the first place...spoiler alert: it's not because they are truly "trans" as that isn't something real on a genetic level
But that’s the person mind set… yes no one is making them do it but it’s the fear of changing of what people will say, people will do and what any place that doesn’t support transgender people. Its the fear of people hating them.
Most people have some fear involving transitioning because it is hard it suks it hurts theres alot of people who will treat u like shit and there's always the chance it won't turn out how u want maybe u won't get the body u want from just transitioning cuz u have to put in work and alot of people don't get that
@@kokolatte825 my point is that my fear isn't invalid just because its not currently happening. im not scared of heights BECAUSE im being forced, i just am. op's point however is invalid by making it sound like being trans automatically means you have to transition, or that transitioning is something that is forced upon you. you see what i mean?
Bro. This is not how shit works. I’m a young trans guy and got my first binder two months ago. I still suffer from heavy dysphoria daily but yk what? I push through it because generally trans people are way more respectful and kind since we were all really vulnerable at the start.
Looking at this kinda shit gets u depressed so I recommend not looking at it, trust. Whatever’s going on for u doesn’t need to be anybody’s else’s business unless u consent and dont mind it. U do what feels right, u feel how u feel don’t let ppl define how u feel for u in technical and unethical terms. U got this dude❤
“No we do warn you” this part hit so hard lol, professionals and ordinary people alike have been talking about the possibility of regret for at least a decade and that’s the whole reason the process takes so long so that they know someone’s ready- they literally have to go through therapy for months before being able to transition yet somehow never made themselves actually consider that they’d still have gender identity struggles regardless which gender they were able to present as
They are children. Children in their teens till mid twenties claim they know more than adults and refuse to listen. They think you’re making choices to make them mad and that’s it.
I had a therapist that told me I was a man in a woman's body. She based her argument on my love of sport and that I used to be a tom boy. She tried to influence me when I was at my most vulnerable and I was angry. I put a complaint in about her and before you start coming for me, I am a woman. I have never been confused and I was annoyed at this woman who tried to tell me, over 2 sessions, that I was confused about my gender. I stopped seeing her and actually found a therapist that helped me face my childhood trauma rather than trying to persuade me to change gender. It does make me worry that all these people that are struggling with their gender identity are being coerced into that way of thinking. 🤔😢
I remember reading somewhere that transitioning used to take years. Why did that change? Why the rush? First, the patient had to be examined by 3 psychiatrists. That took about 3 years. Then, s/he had to live as the opposite sex for 3 years. Then, the hormone treatment started. Then, surgery a few years later and it took several surgeries over several years to get to the finished product. That seems reasonable to avoid a tragic mistake.
20 years ago when I was a psychiatric nurse it WAS treated as a mental health condition. Now it's encouraged to be accepted the same as sexuality by sticking it on the end of lqb. It's not a sexuality it's a deep self loathing and closer to a personality disorder in my opinion because of the identity disturbance, and now we have men in our toilets and a chunk of them are transvestites who get a sexual kick out of it.
the percentage of people who regret gender affirming care is less than people who get knee surgery. but we don’t tell people they shouldn’t get knee surgery or share propaganda against knee surgery? why do u think that is?..
Or is it the thought that they think they are "ugly" or gonna be "ugly" as the other gender when transitioned? If you're not feeling like the other gender then don't do that stuff
The "they don't warn you" makes it hard for me to sympathize with them. Because they were too busy calling everyone haters to actually listen to anyone's advice. And now they're complaining that they were never warned. At least acknowledge that _you_ are at fault because _you_ didn't listen.
Yes to that if they were adults. But kids are being prayed on by doctors, teachers, school counselors…. People they look up to. And they get rushed through the process before they can change their minds. They are being told this is what you need to do to fix the problem. I have learned way more about this subject than I ever planned in knowing, by watching people like Candace and Blaire White. It seems like the people we entrust our kids to are more interested in indoctrination these days, than they are teaching them what they need to know to graduate highschool
Just don't mess with your body prior to completing your puberty. Hormones mess with your brain structure. When my body starts changing due to puberty, I tried clinging to my prepubescent physical form. I wear binders because I don't care for boobs. Not to mention, pretending to be a boy so I can play rougher games are harder with curvier shape. A few time growing up I wanted to be a boy because I saw that boys had it easier. But by the time I'm in my late teen, I had learned to embrace my feminine body, boobs and all. I remember these phases because it is important to remember instead of ignoring it because one day, a teenager will become confuse because change is scary and changing your shape is scarier. Someone needs to be there to explain that it is alright to be confused but don't settle because no matter how smart teens are, they don't know better. Not until they enter the workforce and figure out who and what they really in the bigger world outside school because the school isn't the world.
Every desire not conducive to your survival is a desire you are sold. Transgenderism falls under said umbrella. Do not become a “transgender”. You don’t even know what desires live in you as a full grown adult. You can’t even identify a clear cause as to why you want to be transgender except for an emotion. And as we know, feelings come and go. Feelings are subjective. You were simply castrated with your own consent because the elites need some form of a population control method. Have faith in god and this will not happen.
It's not about gender,it's contentment that's the issue,and no matter how much surgery they have when they look in the mirror they'll never see what they want to see because that only ever existed in their head, they'll never be content,they can't be.
@@cierrahubers pretransition i had a lot of problems. post transition i have neutral to positive feelings about my body. whatever insecurities i have are easy to shrug off now
The thing is, I hate how they say they don’t look like a girl or feel like one,who in the right mind taught them how you should act or look to be a girl or a guy? We’re all human and have our own looks and things we like
My cousin is a girl who is transitioning into a boy because so many people online were pressuring her into doing it. She was perfectly content being a girl until everyone started telling her she should change. Now she's trying to convince herself to be a boy, and she isn't happy anymore. It's really sad.
