20:00 to 20:31 "you weren't allowed to ask questions" yes!!! (raises fist!!). can't ask questions. Give her a prize...most irritating thing I could not stand. I also feel it is one of the pathologies that allows so much of Christian Hypocrisy to flourish. "you have to take everything on faith...." What is faith? "you have to take that on faith too" EXACTLY!!! (slams fist!) Faith (according to the Oxford Dictionary) - strong belief in God or in the doctrines of a religion, based on spiritual apprehension rather than proof. - or belief of or "in" ANYTHING for which we have no proof. Now...apply that you have to take it on faith and you have to take FAITH on faith So, in other words... I have to have a belief in the actual concept of having no proof "itself" in order to use faith to "agree" with things that you either refuse to answer or that I am not allowed to question.......BECAUSE... ???? -- just because..... lol...smh (suddenly you feel the need to walk in the opposite direction while looking back and waving "bye")
If it’s not breaking any comfort level could you post a pic of your altar? I thought it would be fun to get an image of it as I am visually oriented though your description is evocative.
I’d be happy to. Right at the moment I’ve been under the weather for a while and I’d like to spend some time getting it nice looking first. But I’ll try to post some pics of it in the next couple weeks.
I had never heard of autogynephilia until listening to OLAO here, and hearing it described, I realized - wow, that's me. I remember being that way since childhood. Now that I realize that that is me, and now that I finally have a name for it, you know what I am going to do? The same thing I was going to do before that: make something to eat. Wash the dishes. Put on my nice pretty flannel pajamas (are they masculine, are they feminine, I don't care) and go to bed. I have some cars to work on tomorrow morning. Cars that need diagnostics work, maintenance, and repairs. That's about it. I'll put that new word in my vocabulary. Probably a good idea to write it down if I want to remember it.
Unfortunately, "autogynophilia" and "autogynophilia" have been--are being--widely used by anti-trans people to discredit and vilify transgender people, so I'd be careful about throwing those words around as if they aren't being used to hurt people.
My wife and i have been going through the same thing the last 3years , i will be sharing this video with her. She lost trust in me because i was talking to another person. And we definitely have lost intimacy since then. I have tried to regain the trust but like you said thst can be challenging.
Marriage counseling can really help with that. Like, my husband a was really against the idea, but once we went I think it really helped him feel more secure in our marriage.
Love your content. You are a free thinker. I often get misunderstood in such ways as a trans person with a religious history. So many people are reactionary simpletons, and traditional religion is honestly where most of these simple-minded people need to be. I am also beginning my occult practices, and have an altar. Thank you for your bravery and honesty as someone who experiences AAP. May I ask- do you suffer from dysphoria of any magnitude. What about your body? Best, Janine
I've never understood why people raise (indoctrinate) their children with religion. If it is so wonderful, then surely it's benefits will speak for itself, and they can choose religion when they are an adult.
My goal was to raise my kids in an environment where they would be exposed to a consistent and well thought out ethical framework. Catholicism isn’t perfect, but it does have a strong history of ethical thought and philosophy. There are days I get a little worried that my kids are only being taught the superficial concepts of Christianity and not the deeper ethical/philosophical ideas behind it. But then my husband is like, “she’s only 8” or “he’s only 6” and tells me to trust the process. Ultimately I hope that when they reach adulthood they can both think for themselves and also understand how ethics and spirituality work.
@@oakleavesandonions771 My mother was raised a Cathilic, but to her everything was guilt or sin. Perhaps for that reason she avoided any religion in the home. My first school which I attended between ages 5 and 11 was a Church of England school. Every day would start with prayers, bible readings and hyms. I recall, even at age 6, I was thinking to myself "this is all nonsense" and thought everyone else was silently in on the joke too. I assumed that everyone around me could see it was all just abunch of stories and nothing more. I was quite shocked to find out in later years that people actually believed this stuff. What a revelation! For my own children, they had not a whiff of religion in their own upbringing. Decent human values don't require such a foundation, in my opinion.
Hi, I just watched your stripper stories video, and decided to check out the rest of the catalogue... Well, obviously there's a very multifaceted story throughout, but it's quite a lot of content to get through just to work out what happened to you exactly. Is there a TL;DR somewhere of what you've been going through?
Umm… which part? My childhood I talk about on and off pretty much throughout. I went absolutely nuts for about two years just recently, and I’m actually editing a video right now summarizing what that was all about. I can’t actually remember if I ever posted a video about how I became a stripper. (It’s a fun story, so if I haven’t, I probably should lol.)
I don't know if you had bad experiences with men, probably so. And, that is sad. There are at least a few good men in life that could have made life a very wonderful thing. I wish the best for you.
I'm sorry you were hurt by people that claimed they were Christians. Unfortunately, this has happened to many people. I'm sorry that you have been so emotionally and spiritually damaged by people in your life. Best of luck.
Thank you. The good news is, I understand that there are still many good Christians in this world. I can’t be one of them, but I can still certainly respect them.
I'd argue there is no such thing as a trangender christian. But if you are by some stretch of the imagination a christian, you should pray without ceasing for Christ to deliver you from this evil and to help you feel the shame that you should feel for this sin.
@@frankp7411 Why would I want to be part of a religion when its practitioners greet me by telling me I should feel ashamed of myself? Like, if this is how you advertise to potential converts, it’s no wonder your numbers are dwindling dramatically.
There's no god fella, what youre seeing under this sun and moon is everything youll ever see. So if someone does whatever tf they wanna do to their body just like everyone does to theirs in their own way, then whatever, its their choice and people need to find a better hobby than to waste time and energy hating on each other for dumbass reasons like this
