Youve done a lot of hard work ! I know, i just got off the dreadmill myself Its horrendous how long it takes to knock off a few lbs that doesnt want to leave 😂😂
So in the end did you toddler enjoy the chocolate egg custard more than Froot Loops? :) I think one of your kiddos said "hi youtube", Hi kiddo. lol Hope all is well!
@@overniteowl Oh, I’m sure they’d go absolutely nuts over some fruit loops if I had any. But the idea is to get them used to healthy(ish) food. So the custard is sweet, but not super sweet. I also do stuff like make sugarless apple pies and extremely carrot-y carrot cake bars.
Very sad in todays society that relationships have turned into a giant game Whatever happened to real attraction and honesty. We all want true companionship. Persuing sanity, morality✌️✌️ and prudency could get us there
Imho it's the guy that gets blamed for almost all relationship problems well here in 🇨🇦 anyways 😂😂 I suppose its instinct for us men to assume the role as protector or provider
@@zandig666 Well, I mean, that’s Canada. As for who gets blamed more, in the US, who knows? I just know that people look at single moms and shake their heads all judgy-like and think “she’s trash.” And sometimes she really is trash, and sometimes she isn’t, and that’s really not the point. The point is that you can almost never tell a deadbeat dad just by looking at him. Like, on a purely biological level, men can father a child and not even know it. Women always know it because it happens inside their bodies (whether they like it or not). And I’m not trying to make this a grand debate of “women vs men: who gets the real victim card?” I’m just trying to be fair to each side. Men have their paternity rights stomped all over, and women are frequently left with the unwanted products of sexual behaviors. (We get STIs far more easily as the receptive partner, and we often get blamed for that, too.) But, even putting those biological and sociological elements aside, women in today’s society are still quite often caught acting entitled to someone else coming in and solving their problems for them. Maybe it’s just the internet algorithm, but I’ve seen countless videos of women acting like everyone owes them everything and it’s really disgusting.
@@oakleavesandonions771 I always joke with women and say I do the exact opposite of what the internet tells me about dating. So let the cards fall how they may. Soo many people are stuck in situations they don't want to be in which is something I consciously chose to not prescribe to. I seriously think it's terrible all the videos telling men not to date single mothers. people change, make mistakes or move on. Let's all enjoy life and set a goal for mutual happiness and respect ✌️✌️👊👊✌️✌️
There's a flaw, alot of women try and "trap" a man, try and "cement" a relationship making it difficult for them to leave and will move on to a guy they can trap, trauma bond or tie themselves to in various ways.. I've been unmarried for a long time and a few women have left solely because they know I always leave an avenue out. One criteria I have is that can this woman stand on her own two feet??? It's shocking how many cannot and basically need a second income over true love and mutual respect.. I feel bad for society if people need to rely on others for their happiness.✌️✌️ that will fail,....well...upwards of 60% of the time as dictated by our divorce statistics
Hi! IDK if you need a man to take care of you or not, apparently not. But, men make much better parents if one looks at the statistics of how children turn out from single parent female adults vs male parent. The key seems to be setting boundaries and enforcing those rules. How many kids end up in prison, doing poorly in school, gangs, drugs etc. Those kinds of statistics. I am not condemning anyone on this, other than the screaming feminists, shouting their errors. As far as I am concerned, it all is what it is. No condemnation. We are all either male or female. We work together, or watch our societies collapse. I at least applaud you having babies. Many women are not doing that. The end of many nations will result from their drastically declining birth rates. Actually, N. America is still in decent shape demographically, so far. We need to work together, and children really need fathers. They really do.
I think kids can grow up fine in a single parent family but the adult has to be healthy and accept responsibility for their actions I have seen single mothers look to a man to transfer some of the burden
@@zandig666 Couple things go on there. 1, there’s always outliers and exceptions to the rule. I remember (as a stripper) so many of my coworkers getting all self righteous over statistics that children raised by single mothers fared poorly. I was always like, “Dude! If I was you, I’d want to know that. I’d want to know that my family was predisposed to trouble so I could proactively look for ways to counteract that negative effect. Burying your head in the sand solves nothing.” 2, if the child grows up seeing healthy relationship dynamics being modeled, it really counteracts those negative effects. So, for example, my husband’s dad died when he was a toddler. His grandparents played a huge role in his upbringing because his mother suddenly found herself a widow and a single mom in the same day. My husband turned out just fine. His grandfather and uncles filled that “father figure” role in his life, most especially his grandfather. The power of a strong social support network is dramatically underestimated in our culture. Because shit happens, and often it’s that social support network that stands between a person and the full brunt of life’s disasters.
My dad is 81 has worked his entire life. He still gets women 20 30 years younger that him coming on to him. Some are just being cute with the white haired guy. But some have come right out and said they were down.
Love ❤️ your hair 😍 💕 and your smile, your little guy is so freaking cute... grew up in GA we had chickens for awhile. My sister's and I were always selling eggs after church ⛪️ on Sunday to get rid of them all. We sold about 5-10 dozen each Sunday 😂
@@SweetSassyBull Do you cook for picky eaters? I’m always keeping an eye out for tips on feeding picky kids. Because I’ve tried all four of your suggestions, and all of them have been labeled as “gross” and “eww”.
Are you familiar with Rollo's take on choreplay? It's an example of negotiating desire with disastrous results. But at the end of it all, all relationships are transactional. Divorce court converts the individual circumstances into numbers.
@@moonlit85 Divorce courts also only occur when the relationship is so damaged it cannot be repaired. I think boiling relationships down to mere transactions fails to properly account for the fundamental human desire for companionship and connection which occurs in both partners.
This is the only channel I've found speaking of AGP without half the comments cheering the bravery AGPer on for uncovering the dirty truth of trans people. Unfortunately it seems the majority of those who are interested in learning about AGP are anti trans. I wonder if part of the reason why the feedback here is different is because you are female and not viewed as a "threat". In any case great content!
@@user-km6rh5wv6q 🙄 Dude, do you honestly just walk around with a sign that says “I can’t get a woman” written on your forehead? Is that a tattoo or permanent ink that you have to update occasionally when it gets smudged?
Nothing but respect for your courage to talk about these things & your complete understanding of yourself. AGP does get a bad rap because of extreme cases used as ammunition for transphobia, while at the same time gets completely dismissed as a conspiracy theory by extreme gender ideologues.. Why can't we find a middle ground that aknowleges & helps people?
I had a short period of time after a divorce when me and my buddies would hang out at a strip club. We ended up hanging out with a group of them outside of the club. It was wild couple of months! Those dancers were some of the coolest people in the world, but their lives were pure chaos for the most part.
So nobody asked, but I am 30, and I'm very slightly autistic. So slightly that most people don't realize at all, they just think I'm weird, probably. It's meant I've never been able to find a true connection with anyone. I've had friends and even a few girlfriends, but there just wasn't ever that chemistry. I learned how to act and talk but it was never me. The moment I burn out (being an introvert I have a small social battery) I start to drop the facade and people notice way more easily. My point is that I will NEVER be a smooth talker or establish enough power and resources. You can't imagine how difficult that is unless you're in the same position. I'm still a man and a human. Yet it feels as if I'm seen as neither by women. Or by men a lot of the time. While I don't care so much about that, happiness as a man does require the respect of other men, as well as the admiration of women. So after being alone since my early 20's, I'm finally starting to care less about how I should be, about behaving myself, about not expressing myself. I can only predict that as I get older, I'll open up more and start to be seen as one of those 'creepy old men' that I always despised and never wanted to be. But yeah, we can keep fertility and libido basically all our lives if we're lucky. I hopefully have at least 40 years left to not be the last of my line after countless ancestors. Imagine being that one loser who can't do what every one of your forefathers has done since the dawn of time. Since you were a fish, if you believe in evolution, and even from before that when you were some kind of basic organism. I don't know what the point of my comment is. I'm just an autistic drunkard.
@@BlueWhale1989 Have you tried any support groups for autism? Might help you find likeminded people. It really sucks when you feel like you can’t connect with the people around you.
@@oakleavesandonions771 Idk, I don't really fit in with autistic people either. It's similar to how a mixed-race person historically wasn't accepted by either side. There might be other 'mixed-race ' people but I haven't found them so far. There's nothing in life without the ability to connect and communicate. That's what it's all about. What makes it worthwhile.
@@BlueWhale1989 Sorry it’s taken me a bit of time to get back to you. I don’t know your specific symptoms, but maybe ADHD folk would be a good crowd for you. There can be a lot of symptom overlap with autism, so you might find people who have similar experiences but without the levels of intensity you sometimes see in more extreme autism cases. It’s a shot in the dark, but it might be worth a try.
@@BlueWhale1989 I wish I knew more. I have ADHD, but a lot of people think I have autism (I’ve checked. I really don’t.) But the symptom crossover is real. I’m very prone to hyper fixations and hyperfocus, which seems to be more commonly talked about with autism. But I’m also horribly disorganized, incapable of following a routine or schedule, and “time blind”, which are all very ADHD. I wish you the very best of luck. If ADHD folks aren’t really meshing well with you, and you are prone to hyper fixation, I suppose there’s always clubs or groups that are devoted to that thing (fly fishing, bird watching, model train building, etc.) Again, best of luck to you. :)
Even as young man I didn't torture myself as strip clubs. Whenever I did manage to bag a stripper into sucks the cost was just phenomenal. I had unbelievable fun with multiple escorts in Fort Lauderdale in 1990. I mean a ridiculous about of fun. We're talking beautiful girls and their girlfriends and toys and all sets of other Shenanigans 4 hours sometimes days at a time in some of the finder hotels and resorts in Fort Lauderdale and Boca Raton. Some of the girls that were sent to me were a real drag but a select few woud just be stunning and incredible in threesomes and Foursomes in bed . I would spend quite a bit of time and money with them and be all the much happier for it. Great times. Most strippers. No dancing. Just what I wanted, sweaty adventurous sex with at least three girls Plus toys.
The Aging Sportsman's Club is the name of my organization. When you age and your looks fade you learn how to treat women better and make them laugh. It's a skill I wish I had when I was younger. And I make it all about the girl when we're doing the nasty. If she doesn't have several real orgasms, then I don't cum either. I have failed. But I rarely fail. Having a girl in the throes of a massive convulsive orgasm with a dildo in her pussy in my medium-sized cock in her ass will set me off like a cherry bomb. Cumming at nearly the exact same time is something I wish I had paid attention to more in early life. There's nothing like it. I live for that now. Everybody is a huge winner. It's usually her third or fourth and largest orgasm. I'm not having fun unless I'm watching a woman in the throes of face melting orgasms. I can't believe I was so stupid nor to have to even thought about that many times when I was younger. I apologize to all of you out there. But I am making it up now in spades. Many happy young girls out there right now! I'm only happy when they're happy
News Flash. Your a stripper. Old blokes that probably don't get any at home are going to attend. Young blokes too, and maybe even a dangerous predator. Choose your career, but don't whinge about it if it goes pear shaped or unsavoury. I didn't watch your video after 33 seconds. So just my opinion. Not sure if anyone else thinks the same.
@@Crimson_Skull52 I’ve had so many men on here get bitterly angry at me, and call me all sorts of horrible things, solely because I went out on dates with guys, decided I wasn’t interested, and didn’t go on a second date. It’s sort of hilarious.
@@oakleavesandonions771 I think it cause they were deceiving themselves. As long as you stay in truth most things won’t bother you. It’s difficult to be caught off guard
You're a gifted storyteller. I hear it in your videos. You make a series of what seem like digressions, but they all build toward your final point, and in a completely conversational, off-the-cuff way. I'll bet your novels are eminently readable, with what you can do in a 15-20 minute video on RU-vid writ large, and on high-quality paper. The moment of tenderness between you and your new baby was really touching.
Your 2nd time with the ‘once in a lifetime opportunity’ proposition is interesting in that you learned to respond with your rejection promptly to not upset your customer. It’s funny that the 2nd guy offering it still remains mad when his proposition gets rejected so in a way you still lose. The 3rd guy is a more warped derivative of the first 2 men’s proposition. Essentially all the men wanted exclusive companionship from you which is interesting.
@@jus-tinkin With the first two, there was no right answer except, “Yes.” (Probably followed by an “I’d love to, I’ve been dreaming of this my whole life.”)
My thoughts after watching : its valuable to treasure optimism that like an old growth forest, people can live more or less gracefully and that applies to women with more years, as well. Individuals go beyond simply, "instinct bound" however, a spiritual skeptic who sees no greater plan, seeks no greater plan, and enjoys agnostic debates about whether or not God is real or science rules, may only stay in stagnation. I personally think that a persons energy above age has influence over attractiveness. I found the words making sense od men prioritizing only young fertile women uncomfortable to listen to. It felt too instict driven, and too broadly defining of feminine value. Not an example suppose, i would want to teach a daughter, should i have one. It sets up a girl to define herself based on a scientic mysticism that she is most beautiful in her 20s. Beauty is way beyond all that glitters, and a youthful appearance of a 20 something yr old. Men who are driven by that same scientific mysticism are probably often disenchanted, anarchistic hearted alcohol and othet drug dependants who want a little p***** and s** to pass the time. Older women are so much more than "grannies" in my paradigm i have grown up with and I'm 35. Never considered myself a "granny fetishizer" and ive avoided drugs and alcohol throughout my life. S**, pleasure, is great, gracefully and with progrssionalism and hygene. I recommend learning about Deborah Sundahls work, a s** educator and feminine empowerment by s** author. You look super hot, beautiful to my eyes. Bet you are a lovely artist. - Big Daddy. Lol
