@@pacisco5151 most women dont relate to you how you actually act, they just use their imagination of how they think you will act then relate to you with that false picture in their mind. this is why they are almost always wrong when the say "men..."
1. They meet you on a dating app 2. They tell you how gorgeous you are 3. They beg you to get on wattsapp 4. They talk to you for a few days they learn you are educated and well off 5. They ask you for money 3 days later 6. Truth is… you enjoy hearing them beg and reject them more! 5. Don’t let them tell you they love you on day one without telling them they are fkn strange!
I'm not used to seeing young, intelligent and brilliant men. This man is intelligent. I'm not talking about school degree, I'm talking about "Common sense" aka WISDOM.
I vowed if not my brother, my son or my father, its a no no. Im dating a guy I'm about to break up with cos he just turned me off asking me for money for bundles ooh my tokens,. Am so fed up with these kind of boys
Keep searching until you find the man that is an adult and can treat you as the queen you are. Don't give up until you find him. Don't settle for a a little boy.
I was fool offered money and bought things for guy was involved for 4 months. But ended up being a taker and prove the people pleaser in me. I want to believe the lesson in blessing warning me guard my heart.
Only NAKED truth is here.....I love this guy and he impacts my life in a priceless way...Still single @29years old knowing am worth and living a life full of joy....
I am needy, therefore I seek people who need me. That’s where I am opening myself up to be taken advantage of…… Find the source of that neediness ! wow 😮 THAT was a powerful statement!! Spared me YEARS of therapy
when a guy ask me for money my heart drops like damn.... I just wanted something real or bare minimum something to pass time by but now its ruined. You asked for money its over. I cant even play with him now
ushago in me some two years back made think giving money to a man often is love so i now know it was foolishness. hahaaa. I helped someone pay school fees for short courses, i footed his bills every time he took me for a date, send some cash to his village people, gave him money for rent in fact my school fees yaani call all sorts of help. The day he got a well paying job, I got no treat ,no nothing just to be paid back by him marrying another lady. wueeeh i have so much to teach other people
Thats foolishness sometimes not everything Benjamin talks makes sense kwa ground,,I was unable to access my salary for 6months and my girl used to send me something cash wakati nimekwama kabisa
Hello am new here and thank a lot coz you guys have really help me big for the past year 2020 UpTo 2022 I was blind not to see that the man I loved he never loved me but just wanted to use me.... keep giving him money when he was in need until the time I was in need too but he did not help me back...he is married and an having a child with him... thank God after knowing he is married I walk out from his life and am doing better with my child without him
I like the show,listening live from Wilson airport,have been coned with a man we met online he visited stayed for sometime,then he claimed that his business is stuck nimpee doo aende arudi ,till date no communication since I gave 2k only men men!!!
I think Zulu is speaking about my life I went through this in the name of his family loves me and deep inside they knew their son is useless I suffered 10yrs
Weee am just watching this now. My goodness if I remember what I went through with a guy back in 2016_2017 it was Baad. I was I Lebanon o had net this guy while back here in Kenya,so while there by i would send him money my goodness,I came back even gave him my tablet only to realize that it spoiled after two days and guess in whose hands? Another woman hands
This man who pretended to be in love with me, happens to have asked me for a loan clamming he had an emergency which was a lie, i ended up sending him 55 k now it's almost two years he never paid back n ended up marrying my friend. He's a lawyer by profession n i feel so disappointed coz I can't report him since we never signed anywhere n he's influencial
That girl was never your friend and God will punish him for his sins against you. You seem innocent and kind. I am kind too but I NEVER give men money no matter how much I love him. My dad never took money from a woman lol
You’ll get back double what you’ve lost. Just don’t do it again, ok? I’ve done stupid stuff like that too because I really liked this guy and I lacked self esteem. Get close to Jesus, understand you are beautiful, God can give you someone who will make you forget the hurt you’ve dealt with. You’ll be okay my sister
Woi I just dated one for along tym always lending him cash nijipate tena nilie 😢ts Soo sad imgn ladies ts not worth it ..from experience Danks zulu for this
His advice seems good, get rid of those bad guys who don't improve your life and treat you well. They don't deserve you! They are bad, bad, bad, you deserve a man who you benefit from, and doesn't want to be a vampire to you.
Am in this situation i wld wish to quit though he has something under loan and he has refused to let it go coz he knows thats the only thing that can keep me near him is object untill we clear the loan thats the only way i can be free though i need help mentally coz i got no one i can open to coz he keep sending them away and ruin the relationship between me and them
I was giving my bf money he ended up never giving me back my money stealing more money from me ,he said he did it because he wanted me to have to call him,he still has feelings for his ex he didnt keep a job the whole time we were together and at the end i brought him a laptop so he can go to school and get his own money he still live with me i am very emotionally stressed out. but when i tell him he say he going move he always have a problem so he cant really move he got fired and his car blew up on christmas (it really did i wasnt with him i saw the video).
Mr Zuma believes and knows what he is saying... I can see him speaking to me. I can feel his energy. 😂😂😂 He can not deal with the level of ignorance in women. To him it's FOOLISHNESS!
Hahaha he just knows how a man's mind thinks and knows the mind games that we can play. His advice is good... in America too, I love this interview, haha. Get rid of the bad guys unless is serves you in some way, otherwise... get rid of them!!
It felt nice to reject men for once! But it’s hard when u already were involved with him. And when u like him. But I wrote how he scammed me all over his facebook account so people can see it :)
