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Two dates changed my entire life | stalking awareness 

Dasia Sade
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"how do you get the courage to do xyz?" Is my most FAQ.
I wish I could say it was all journaling and self help books.
But in actuality, it was someone feeling entitled to my life and having to stand up for myself when literally no one else would.
September marks a few things for me but it’s also the anniversary of the first time I had i really to choose myself in a very important way.
For a long time, I didn’t talk about this because I felt embarrassed, ashamed and I never wanted to be "the girl who shot someone" but it’s disingenuous and honestly disrespectful to my entire experience to move like this didn’t shape the woman I am today, the choices I make and how I interact with the world.
Losing my brother…I’m not afraid anything anymore.
I feel confident now that I’ve built up enough of a background with y’all, that this just adds more color instead of being the main focus.
Which for me, has always been and will always be:
I’m not an influencer, I am a person.
My goal has always been to hold a mirror up for you.
Whatever I am capable of, you are too.
Don’t forget to choose your life. ❤️
#gooutanddo
#stalking #storytime #stalkingawareness #chooseyourself #selfdefense #enjoylife #abrahamhicks

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@aemsiw3798
@aemsiw3798 10 месяцев назад
This is why healthy families are so important. This is why having a healthy father is so important. This is why healthy marriages are important. This is why having family involved in the “dating” process is important.
@DasiaDoesIt
@DasiaDoesIt 10 месяцев назад
You know, I completely agree with this.
@aemsiw3798
@aemsiw3798 10 месяцев назад
@DasiaDoesIt having a healthy family would have saved me a lot of trouble but thankfully everything worked out. Unfortunately that is not that case for alot of people. Thank you for sharing your experience.
@bmoore-n-life
@bmoore-n-life Год назад
This has so many deep things in it - the lack of protection of black women, the over sympathy towards white men, domestic violence…also thank you for putting his name and number its so beautiful that you did that presumably to protect others. I hope bali is beautiful you deserve it
@Adot_is_Adrienne
@Adot_is_Adrienne Год назад
Thank you for sharing your story. There's so much I want to say, but I don't want to word vomit in your comments. I know you don't know me but I'm very proud of you for continuing to build your life after such a horrific experience.
@erinlomax7048
@erinlomax7048 Год назад
Stalkers are so serious and not talked about enough.. I had one in Japan and I needed to move away because the police wouldn't help much.. I'm still in Japan and I'm always looking over my shoulder.
@nominatorchris5591
@nominatorchris5591 Год назад
Holy fucking shit. Even as a guy this is horror fuel. I would've got a 300 pound pitbull and moved to siberia if this shit happened to me. As a someone who is also black af the insane double standards from everyone that was supposed to help you is insane.
@jamesreid8638
@jamesreid8638 Месяц назад
Terrible to have to live like a fugitive when you did nothing unlawful. You are a living treasure who deserves so much better. You did the right thing.
@jennied1973
@jennied1973 Год назад
I had a equally controlling stalker too in college and it wrecked my relationships. In my case it was one date. He harassed me at school and when I publicly turned him down he chose to doxx me and put multiple ads on Craigslist/forums. He sent pictures of my house and anytime I changed numbers he have it within the hour. It was 2 years of threats and phone calls. It was awful. I wasn’t close to family at the time so I just suffered in silence.. i do look back and wish I had been tough as you. ❤
@kend1370
@kend1370 Год назад
I came across your channel learning how to roller skate and never expected to see a video like this. Thank you for raising awareness and remaining strong throughout all of that. Our justice system doesn’t do enough when it comes to stalkers and white men as perpetrators. I’m happy you were able to find peace and a solution in the end. Hoping you stay safe, strong and healthy :)
@priyawantstofly
@priyawantstofly 2 месяца назад
I read your story on Reddit and eventually reached here. I'm so sorry for all the terrible things you went through but I'm very happy to see you live your life and share your story fearlessly now. More power to you.
@Venzynt
@Venzynt Год назад
Some evils are beyond reason. In such case, the only way to stop them is with force.
@Sharkbite002
@Sharkbite002 11 месяцев назад
Dasia, thank you for posting this. I have 3 daughters that I need to show this to. Not just to show how dangerous people can be, but also to show how it’s possible to persevere through fear and be courageous when it feels like the world is not working like it’s supposed to. Thank you for being strong and courageous, but most of all for persevering.
@KimberlyPinkney
@KimberlyPinkney Год назад
I caught part of this story on Instagram and was totally invested, then it was interrupted and it disappeared. I scoured the net to find it again to see what would happen. I am glad I did! What a triumph and to live to give back and appreciate your life! Wow!🎉
@jaykey1202
@jaykey1202 Год назад
Damn that shit scary sorry you had to go through that bullshit.😢
@egresham02
@egresham02 28 дней назад
Thank you for sharing your story! I ended my relationship three years ago and my ex stalked me for a little bit. He eventually stopped. I have taking a self defensive course before but I am considering martial arts. I agree with you it better to defend yourself instead of remaining in fear.
@liasanma1665
@liasanma1665 Год назад
I feel you there... I have a stalker for more than 10 years now, and there's literally nothing nobody can do, apparently. Nothing until he murders me, that is, after yeah... it's going to be good.
@JenniTulls
@JenniTulls Год назад
Sending positive and good vibes your way, Dasia. Thank God you got out of that situation. #ProtectBlackWomen
@rubypanterra.
@rubypanterra. 5 месяцев назад
Dasia, I'm glad you're still here. 🖤 🐈‍⬛
@air-ren
@air-ren 17 дней назад
I am so sorry that happened with you or with anyone. this is insanely insane stuff man...
@pieceofpeace35
@pieceofpeace35 6 дней назад
This fear is legitimately why I don't date. Also there should be an organization you can reach out to who will protect women from stalkers when the police won't do anything. Like how the black panthers created an ambulance that had doctors on it and responded to problems better than police did so they had to acknowledge them and those became our future ambulances
@robertnew8978
@robertnew8978 Год назад
Sorry you went through that. This is really wild how people feel so entitled to YOUR time, energy, & love. Sending you positive vibes!
@yumyum215
@yumyum215 Год назад
Women... please get a FIREARM! Learn how to use it. Please. I got how guns are scary and dangerous. However, when used properly, they can save your life.
@MegaBryo
@MegaBryo 15 дней назад
I’m sorry that happened to you. Nobody deserves to live in fear like that. People like that guy that are obsessed with someone crave any kind of attention they can get. Where were all his creative threats when it turned out you were more serious about being left alone then he was about terrorizing you? I’m glad you were able to resolve the situation but sad you had to go through so much to do so. Thanks for sharing and making videos that educate us. ✊🏿
@BawseBawdyworks
@BawseBawdyworks Год назад
This is a terrifying story! Thank God you had your firearm! Where is he now? How is Bali?! Thank you for sharing!
@richardschneller7674
@richardschneller7674 Месяц назад
I’m so glad you’re alright . You’re a brilliant and wonderful person. I wish the world was not so dangerous and that men were universally upright. Stay strong and keep being who you are. I hope that somehow your life is enhanced, if not by this experience, but by sharing it .
@downbytheC
@downbytheC Год назад
Wow, this is deep. Thanks for sharing
@EldritchGrimoire
@EldritchGrimoire Год назад
Absolutely horrific
@ur22much2
@ur22much2 Месяц назад
Reading his words and the way he thinks. This guy is knock down drag out crazy. Blaming her for his inability to control his emotions.
@teonaka632
@teonaka632 10 месяцев назад
The storms you have been through in life!! I used to tell my daughter, “Thieves don’t come for empty vaults.” You, my dear, are a gem, a true world changer, your gifts, compassion and love will change (and have already!) the lives of so many (to include mine!!). The enemy tried to stop you but HE who is in you is greater than he who is in the world. I’m so grateful to “meet” you, please know that the impact you are making in the lives of people is immeasurable and deeply healing. Thank you!! 💛
@wingallowingallomy3909
@wingallowingallomy3909 7 месяцев назад
Wow your story is deep, i feel bad you had to endure that horrible experience
@rockbagrz
@rockbagrz Год назад
youve come so far i cant even imagine the terror of all this stay strong and keep doing you boo
@Shaiyo5
@Shaiyo5 Год назад
Enjoy your vacation. I appreciate that you took the time to share your story.
@Carleen02
@Carleen02 Год назад
Thank you for sharing your story.💯
@ninaimajo6817
@ninaimajo6817 18 дней назад
Wow! I wanted to know you back story. Grateful you are not just safe, but cherishing your life and sharing strength with others!❤️❤️😉
@jamesn8094
@jamesn8094 Год назад
Crazy! Sending love
@Brit943
@Brit943 Год назад
thank you for sharing your story. im proud of you!
@pretoriaafro5074
@pretoriaafro5074 7 месяцев назад
I was like, "pissed in your cheerios". You are a true survivor! Thank you for sharing. WOW, 4 MONTHS B4 YOU WERE BORN.
@jasliveslife
@jasliveslife Год назад
Thank you for sharing. Proud of you. Much love.
@honeyandsungarden
@honeyandsungarden Год назад
Thank you for sharing this story we I’m so happy you are safe and living the life that you deserve!
@PerfectContradiction
@PerfectContradiction 6 месяцев назад
Yesssss, I hate that part. They first have to serve the person and it’s nerve wrecking. That is indeed scary
@bethra.flowers
@bethra.flowers Год назад
❤ Thank you so much for sharing your experience.
@user-zw9ki6lk5t
@user-zw9ki6lk5t Месяц назад
❤so glad you made it through such a horrifying experience, God, resilience, faith and resourcefulness is what kept you protected even when you didn’t feel that way, sending prayers of healing ❤️‍🩹 safety and strength upon you ❤
@secretpeace-wp6xg
@secretpeace-wp6xg 6 месяцев назад
As a kid I grew up watching the shows from investigation discovery. Although some episodes were made for the sake of entertainment it never fails amaze me the lengths people go just to have the feeling of control over someone else. The depressing reality is with many states in this country stalking is never taken seriously until the person ends up hurt or dead. The cases that come to mind when I think of stalking is the case of Leandra Ramm (Obsession Dark Desires: Season 1 Episode 5) and Lee Redmond (Stalked someone's watching: Season 2 Episode 14) This is why I always supported privacy laws and sites like Delete me because there are sick people out here and you never always know what someone is capable of doing to you until you become their target.
@hajeevibes
@hajeevibes Месяц назад
I've moved several times and out of state due to stalking...including state&local police stalking.... crazy world we live in. This can completely ISOLATE a person and I'm still in that isolation but survive because I know I'm a spirit in a body and NEVER alone AND this world is NOT reality. This type situation could also explain why so many black females are missing??? Thank you for sharing this Dasia. You are EVERYTHING. BLESSINGS! 🎉🙏🏾💚🌏💎
@ClearOpacity
@ClearOpacity 10 месяцев назад
I’m so sorry 💚. This is something people need to know. I am also in the 702. Would love to meet up to skate.
@lylyvibez
@lylyvibez 11 месяцев назад
You are so strong! I am still in awe….. I am VERY proud of you! I am so sorry you have had to live like that! 🥺
@hikaihikonoken9052
@hikaihikonoken9052 10 месяцев назад
Thanks for the share. Sorry for the trauma. Hope all challenges you meet in life from now on are far less worrisome than this frustratingly terrifying experience
@pandaunderwear
@pandaunderwear 11 месяцев назад
I can’t believe you had to go through that and I’m so proud of you for handling it like you did! Though you were completely undeserving of some bs like that. Thank goodness you protected yourself and it made you stronger. I’m so happy you’re here today to share this with us! Thank you for being so vulnerable (and generally awesome!)
@Shalondria
@Shalondria Месяц назад
Yes yes yes and yes! So proud of you! Instant subbie.
@jmay9644
@jmay9644 5 месяцев назад
✨️✨️🖤🖤🫂🫂Thank you so very much for sharing your story with us! This has hit my heart deeply. I am so sorry you had to go through all of the traumas placed before you. So many things to be said, at the same token, I understand you were chosen to experience all you did to help yourself & in helping others. So many blessings to you & loved ones daily! Lots of love, light, & grace always🫂✨️🦋🌱
@WAVYU5
@WAVYU5 28 дней назад
soon as the police talk started,i KNEW he was white.smh.
@OL_TONE
@OL_TONE День назад
I’m glad you’re ok. I see why yall don’t like men smh
@UrbanPulseOutdoors
@UrbanPulseOutdoors 7 месяцев назад
Thanks for sharing this Dasia. It's so sad that women are not protected as they should be. We have processes in place, but they're inadequate and poorly constructed. Law enforcement is not there to protect folks or prevent crimes. They exist to address crimes that have already occurred. Glad you got a piece and have become comfortable with using it. Not all 🔥arm owners are 'Murica. Most just see it as a tool for protection. Glad that devil is in prison.
@juliabermudez7316
@juliabermudez7316 9 месяцев назад
This is the best video I've had the chance to watch in the past, I don't know, weeks? I got here because I wanted to roller skate, I never tried it, but I watch videos of it on my living room, funny right? Thank you.
@CCanimz
@CCanimz 11 месяцев назад
that's a sick weirdo. also I know this isn't about the video but I see your channel is very helpful for me starting to roller skate but also you say many things about girls, so im just wondering if boys are allowed to roller skate because I feel im weird if its just for girls. Anyone else is free to comment and tell me an answer if that's ok. Thanks!
@moco3624
@moco3624 Год назад
The guy is now spending 15yrs in prison for stalking a second person while he was out on parole. Some people never learn.
@RaeTechDigital
@RaeTechDigital Месяц назад
name him/shame him...
@rawilayasharahlayahawashii4056
Only if he was blk.
@KatrinaCardell
@KatrinaCardell 6 дней назад
I'm sorry??? The detective????? Saying he seems like a nice guy???????????? Is it their first day on the force?!
@Tony-mn7vo
@Tony-mn7vo Месяц назад
Knew he was white.
@powerhouse2024
@powerhouse2024 4 месяца назад
West 4B movement all the way. The way forward is away from men in all ways.
@wingallowingallomy3909
@wingallowingallomy3909 7 месяцев назад
Don’t post you number online especially not on youtube after you been through that
@gurdietwentysix6499
@gurdietwentysix6499 26 дней назад
I’m glad ur ok though.. But…
@gurdietwentysix6499
@gurdietwentysix6499 26 дней назад
I wanna kno More… ❤
@gurdietwentysix6499
@gurdietwentysix6499 26 дней назад
Well at least I kno.. I will never get 2date u.. Lil Buddy fucked it up for everyone on the internet.. 😢
@coffinbirthcutie9126
@coffinbirthcutie9126 Год назад
@collectivethoughts1379
@collectivethoughts1379 22 дня назад
Well im glad after all that processing and reasoning that you got a firearm. Listen, the Indians and people of color would have gotten firearms too if they knew what was coming. Moral of the story life has good and bad , you will experience it all.. and everything in life is a tool including guns.
@busymike
@busymike 10 месяцев назад
I mean….That’s what happens when you 🛌 wench it up. You probably noticed he was loony very early on, but that desire for mixed kids and 👱🏻‍♂️validation was too strong, so you ignored it and let it get that far. Happens all the time. There are many stories of 👩🏿‍🦰 losing their lives to a 👱🏻‍♂️ they thought they had a chance with. The problem with people of your type is you think you’re the “quirky” 👩🏿‍🦰 and that makes you special and grants you access to 👱🏻‍♂️. The only thing it’s going to get you is the nutty people. Normal, mentally healthy 👱🏻‍♂️ aren’t interested in dating 👩🏿‍🦰 . Hate to break it to ya. This was your wakeup call. You learned about the dangers of 👱🏻‍♂️worshipping, and how you have no allies if you find yourself in a bad situation with one.🤷‍♀️
@DasiaDoesIt
@DasiaDoesIt 10 месяцев назад
The most prolific serial killer in America was a black man who almost exclusively went after black women. I wish you healing. I am sorry for whatever weight you are carrying right now. You didn't deserve it. Hope you have a happy Sunday.
@busymike
@busymike 10 месяцев назад
@@DasiaDoesIt When did this become about “serial killers”? You are using red herrings to distract from what I just said. Was it a black male who stalked and terrorized you or a 👱🏻‍♂️? Hmm It’s interesting how quick you throw black men under the bus to defend 👱🏻‍♂️ and save face. Just goes to show that what I said was accurate. I’m sure your black brother (RIP) and black father appreciate your comments.
@steadydropnem
@steadydropnem 5 месяцев назад
what in the heck are you even talking about? just running your mouth trying justify some dude because the color of his skin is the same as yours and he was an obsessive weirdo. Sounds like your bitter at this Lady because you probably do the same weirdo behavior to women SMH shame on you bro
@lilmama375
@lilmama375 Месяц назад
Wait. So you think that 'normal, mentally healthy 👨🏼' even exist??? 😂🤯
@lilmama375
@lilmama375 Месяц назад
@busymike...Although I enjoy this utuber/influencer/content creator, her channel, and her style. Hell I even wish her well. I also can't help but to agree with both of your comments 1000%.
@orion3511
@orion3511 Месяц назад
You are an incredibly strong person 🙏
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