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Timestamps: 0:48 1. Appreciative: Listening to appreciate 1:15 2. Comprehensive: Listening to learn content 2:13 3. Empathetic: Listening for emotions and connection 3:23 4. Critical: Listening to scruitize a message
Coach, Emerson said, ‘Everyone is my superior in one way or another and in that I learn from them.’ I say, ‘I love to listen to other’s fun stories enough to ask appropriate probing questions.’ I listen to learn, to show respect/love and share joy. Of course, I only listen to stories about Family, Occupation or Recreation - FOR. G-D hasn’t blessed me with enough time to listen to things that don’t matter. And there is little that matters more than the people around me at each moment. But, I am also a big fan of Will Rodgers, 'Everything is funny when it's not happening to you.' And it is even better when I can help those around me find 'funny' in the hardships in their lives. G-D didn't promise us an easy life. He only promised to help get us through the hard parts with blessings on the backside. Uphill is hard. Downhill is easy. Oh, well. Might as have 'funny' as long as you're on the road. Chris
Very informative stuff! I find that I use different listening for different situations. For instance, empathetic when I need to pay attention more to HOW they say something than WHAT they say. But sometimes need to just have comprehensive listening when I'm being told something I need to remember. Good stuff!
Thanks, Mike. I'd love to talk about learning to use two cameras more effectively in terms of white balance, exposure, etc. Seems like slight differences at the beginning required lots of tinkering afterward to make it look close. I have some ideas but would love your get your tips.
Coach Alex, thank you for this video, you helped me with my study on Effective Listening for my online classes during this Pandemic in where everyone has to adjust. I'm a College student and thank you again.
Thank you for even thinking about making a video on 4 different types of listening! No wonder I've had a hard time listening effectively in certain situations... the listening required when I'm talking to friend is not the same as listening to an instructor and vice versa.
Glad it was helpful, Val. I'm glad you're enjoying the videos. I have to other videos suggestions (they might overlap a bit with these but they'll still be helpful). 1. Is the Active Listening Skills video I did a few months ago, and the other is the Empathetic Listing Skills video. They both will give you another round of exposure to these ideas and help make you a great listener.
Sir, have been watching a number of your video postings. Like many other who have posted comments, I too am taking a class. Listening and communication are upcoming soon. I am doing my own due diligence in this are outside of class and beyond our textbook. My comment is towards the end of this where you state your Practical Applications. I feel if you chose to update this video at a later date that you are encouraged to mention uplifting other persons. By that I mean to uplift persons who are in the background so-to-speak and are left out at times of recognition. The immense gratitude by uplifting those persons and validating their contribution is immense. If I can boldly ask you to create a video ghosting other persons in a business or personal setting. I would like to see how you approach this very important and relevant topic.
It was very good listening to your videos. I have learnt alot on this 4 types of listening. I think i have to develop comprehensive listening. For instance, empathetic listening when I need to pay attention more to connect or emphasize emotions of people. And sometimes need to be appreciative listening when I'm being told something I need to remember which it has no pressure on me....✌🥰
I believe its impotant to use all these types of listening when interacting with people, especially so if these people are new in your life yet you intend to build a strong, long lasting, intimate relationship.
excuse me sir.. I'm student at university and the types of listening I got are ,;competitive listening and active listening (only two types of listening)..
Critical listening means Something we can listen and give ans immediately like judge judge always do critical listening to take a immediate decision And you described wrong about critical listening.
Why grade 8 Study proposive communication.. while a I'm studying that at my grade 12 and second year college. Now I'm doing a grade 8 module. Weird DEDPED WEIRD.
It depends on how you slice it. The four in the video are four common ones but there are others. Sometimes, they might take one type of listening and break it down into smaller parts. But, the answer is, it depends. There's no one right way to explain them.
The list in the video is always the way I cover it. Other people slice it up differently. If I were you, I'd just google the term you're interested in. I'm not planning a video on discriminative listening.
