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Completely agree with you. I have in last 30 years been shifting homes and cities and schools and colleges due to parent's PSU job. Post retirement, my dad only gave me 1 advice for my future as I crossed 30 years - "Stay at one place for life ! "
I can very well relate to your words. Both my parents are in Group A service and I have changed 5-6 schools till class XII. As of now, all 4 members of the family are in different cities and have hardly stayed together for a few years. Even my parents haven't stayed together except for few weekends, occasions, holidays etc etc. This has also lead to many family issues and bad relations.
@@2.0JUSTDOIT This is exactly what the matrix is. The rich and powerful people always push us into such kind of paths which would lead to a never ending loop, they make everyone believe that these things are worth going after. As Amit ji said that rich never disclose their secrets of earning money and creating generational wealth. Families are not staying together anymore, it obviously increases consumerism which ultimately benefits the rich, they get richer and we live paycheck to paycheck.
@@2.0JUSTDOITwhat we can do then those belonging from lower middle class don't have any option we can't leave that job just for the welfare of our loved one. BCS in today's world it's very difficult to sustain without a job security
Sango ji, my family has been living in hyderbad since the last 3 generations, i always wanted to leave and start fresh in banglore or somewhere, where the saying is you grow in new cities, but this perspective is much needed too! thank you!
Very true. It saves a lot of money and also reduces unnecessary expenses which one has to bear if living away from family. At the end of the day, at the back of the mind, one feels that something is missing. If you don't see your kids growing and don't get involved in their day to day activities, then what is their in life.
Aaj ke zamane me agar bache ko kaamyaab karna hai toh maa baap ka financially stable hona sbse jyada jaruri hai nahi toh agar parents financially stable nahi hai toh bache par itna mentally pressure pdhta hai Aaj ke world me ki koi samajh nahi sakta hai sirf uss bache ke alava
Mai iska ek example hu.. mere padhaye bache aj 15-20 lpa per hai ..central government job me hai ..or kafi successful hai.. lekin Mai na to utha successful na hi jyada kama rha as meri family condition was not good
I am cognizant with your thoughts,, living in a place reaps unseen benefits in long term in term of relationship, community building, and sense of security. But in private job north indian are moving to South or in Pune due to one reason the salary package is high and opportunities are vast ,, in Hyderabad, Bangalore,, but again after 3-4 years they struggle as rental cost and other cost of living becomes high.. plus you lacks security, you have to face challenges alone in terms of language barrier etc,, I was in Bangalore just after graduation,, but had to come back to birth place Ghaziabad,, I am a TL in MNC in gurgaon,, earn enough good, yes it is less if I compare with package in Bangalore, Pune, Hyderabad if I would be there i could be earning 5-8lakh more, but it average out to same which I am earning in Delhi,, as I am living with family, i feel secure, i have friends to hang out with etc
Bhai pls give me insight to choose city... I'm also north Indian and working in MNC (8+ years of experience) based out in Bangalore, however thanks to COVID for WFH...now I am working from my native ( located in a town near good district, exactly 250 km from ur hometown Ghaziabad) from last 2 yeras in the same MNC...but everyday I'm keep thinking what if company asked to come Bangalore and work from office 😢... Actually I love my hometown and family and happy to work from here only... Buy at the same time I sometimes use to think what will happen when my children grow up...How my children feel when they go out for higher studies or job in other cities....
@@ashishraina5637 bhai to be honest Money is imp but after covid it is proven belongingness and closeness with family is much more important,, you can settle in Noida or in New Gurgaon,, 1) try to negotiate permanent wfh 2) find a job who provides wfh or atleast close to your native place like in Chandigarh, Noida, Gurugram has IT and non it industry cost of living is less also less salary perhaps in compare to Bangalore but you have peace of mind, people who could understand you in Hindi,and you will be close to family just 3hrs drive 3) if money is important and you can live after wfh is over, you can certainly try for Pune which is better in terms of salary, almost same as Bangalore, nearest than Bangalore , good weather and you can't have to struggle with North Indian food, language difference etc. Hope I am able to answer
@@krishnaaveersinghhada9220 Haan bhai... answer to aapka kaafi sahi lga mujhe... Agar company permanent WFH mil jaye to mai yahi apne district me hi settle ho jau...ek zameen buy krke 2-3 manjila ghar banwau aur aaram se rahu... Metro cities me rent pe rehne se to chutkara milega
You are right. My father was in transferrable job, I suffered so much that I got the fear of unknown to venture new things. My husband have chosen Chennai as a base so that our children gets the opportunity to feel settled.
Lot of girls don't want to marry in the same city..they want to stay away from in laws and girls parents also prefer girl stays not in the same city but works in big city, earns for herself...the guy wants to come back to old city but girls and girls parents are planning to shift to big city post marriage to support their daughter
Sir you are right, this is true, 15 years ago nobody was there to tell you what is good, being a government servant I know all the points very well, it is not a small thing to relocate the home, your family, friends, will be left behind at the end you are alone, no money no relations and everybody will think that we are enjoying life
Kaafi sahi baat kahi hai. Base to ek hi hona chahye. At 32, I felt I've become too rigid and mei move nahi kr sakta hu kahin bhi (I'd an option to move to bangalore) . Per apka pespective sun kr laga raha hai mei rigid nahi hu ye normal hai.
My father and husband both were in defence. Now that we have retired and settled, as I compare myself to my college types and i compare tje kids, i feel we are far more adaptable , smarter and non judgemental.
Absolutely correct, I can relate as I grown up in 4 cities as father was working with CO-op bank. Rajkot, Surat, Anand and Pune. Family wants to stay now at Rajkot however I want to move to Surat permanently as i completed my schooling from there. Guruji is also right on driving skills in Gujarat. we have worst traffic sense.
I totally agree with you Sirji. I am working in a PSU Bank. Frequently changing locations is taxing, financially as well as emotionally. Living away from your beloved ones is very difficult. Maintaining more than one establishment is expensive also.
was a bit confused..but now keeping.lumbai as base with 44 yrs of base makes sense and the wholenecosystenm developed is supportive.. huge professional and growth opportunities a big plus factor with education..water ..electricity.. retail market and healthcare
Guruji, Bilkul sahi. I took vrs at age of 47 and stayed in one place for last 15 yrs and achieved a lot thoughvnotbfifnanciallybbut from children's education and marriage of daughter and settlement of my son professionally.
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I so much want to do this in my life. Life seems to go haphazardly when you are changing your location almost every year. It is most difficult when you have a family to shift along with you. btw I m working in a PSU bank. Does anyone relate themselves to this.
I completely agree with your points however I think it is not always practical to stay back in your base city. I too wanted to stay in Pune only but opportunities have led me to a foreign country where I am staying for last few years. But I still feel Pune is my base city where I'll go to when I go back to India, may be when my kids are big enough to join school.
Just last week i was thinking that i switched 5 schools in 12 years, and that has had an effect on how i make relationships, partnership, friends in my life now.
Interesting subject, well explained. Thanks sir! One request to not compare your topics with others, they simply get fame when you quote them 😋 you're unique your regulars already appreciate it and thankful.🙏
Believe me we as nuclear family gave a thought about it and considered these same factors then reached to the decision that relocation for 30% to 40% growth in career
Sir kindly share your thoughts for those who are in IT industry (Primary office location is Bangalore) but doing WFH from their native place (like small town/district) and they are quite happy with WFH...
Base location kya ek tier 3 city ho sakta? Asking for people doing work from home setup and partner doing government job which is fixed in the city ???
Sir with all due respect, pls concentrate on yourself and your family. If you are worried about the whole world, im afraid you haven't understood what guruji has been trying to say
Can you please give clarity on how to survive in the workplace where some of the employees are overly enthusiastic, which makes other employees' lives terrible
Its not always true ... we left India and have lived in 3 cities and 10 flats abroad since the last 10 years . Yet both of us today can say we own homes in both countries and are more secure than our friends & siblings who stayed back . But also the process of transformation was quite intense and painful .Sometimes we had doubts in our mind during the journey . With hardships also came many blessings.
Pvt sector mein wahi grow karta hai Jo mobile hai. Nahin to co mein aap ki haalat Ghar ki murgi daal barabar ho jayegi. Haan jab children 9th ya board class mein ho jaaye tab unke padai par impact soch kar decision lo. Generally middle class do not change location of family unless children complete their acadmic year.
