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sir, so should we give a false Address if we live in a Wealthy Area / Place etc , because even the Rent in such places is high then the monthly salary , in such case what do you suggest,? the Boss will get the above info anyhow if he wishes to
I have seen a lot of people in offices want to have a family-like culture at the workplace to feel good where they can laugh and share things, have lunch in groups, taking relationships beyond offices etc etc. not realising that it is super toxic for them in the long run and for the company as well. There is a big need to understand that we all have a family at home and our focus must be to enhance those personal relationships and treat the office team like a wor team only. Working together in harmony for projects and supporting each other to achieve targets is needed but anything beyond that is not required.
Right. Very well said. Working together means all have same goal in terms of project delivery or etc. not that ppl come to personal life and exploit things.
This is what I keep telling my husband. Never call colleagues and boss home for a party. Never tell them you have staff at home or that your wife is a housewife because she hates corporate culture and has no plan of being part of it. He told everything to his previous two bosses and never got a decent raise or promotion inspite of being an excellent performer.
This guy is absolute 💎, corporate jealousy is 100%, my rule of thumb is we are collages and nothing more than that, we share work relationship, no gossip,no hanging out, no parties unless it's a corporate event. My small advice would be don't even carry your i phone, just have a 15-20k Android smartphone, and a simple watch (no expensive watch). Build your world privately, much ❤
@@Vizorfambe normal and kind to one who will be confirming your senior. Don't reveal much. Do work maybe sometime and tell them what you have done after it's done. It's always good to tell ki kya kaam kia hai. Because in corporate everything needs to be told what is to be shown.
I strongly agree with this, I shared too much with my coworker about a few things that i have, sometimes I lent money that was way more than my salary with just a phone call, sometimes i was being kind and paid the dinner bill. & when the time came for the hikes & appraisals while discussing with my manager it was being said like why do you need a hike at all. you have everything. So just keep your private life extremely private.
Sir you are right absolutely. I never thought this deep but since the start of my school days and even in university, I never disclosed about my family and status because I come from a privileged and educated family with good income and assets. Throughout my education in school or university, I was surrounded with people coming from humble or less privileged households. I have had many experiences of people raising their eyebrows in shock when they got to know my background and some giving weird stares as nobody would be able to deduce it with my looks and simplicity. When in university, the people in my inner circle obviously came to know about it, they always tried to make some kind of joke or taunt related to it and I could very well sense from where it is coming as they come from very humble backgrounds, this was the main reason I never wanted anyone to know about it. Your "I didn't mean it" video really exposes the truth about people, they say whatever is in their heart and then say that they never meant it or it was just a joke.
So the conclusion is "Accha chal raha ho, to bura waqt chalra aisa batao, Agar Bura waqt ho to aur bura karke batao". Only money is our friend ,Relative , Collegue
excellent content sir. I have felt this 'privileged' curse. I am from Delhi from birth (1981). In my office most were from Bihar and they often used to gang me up. That time I didn't realized that why those were things happened only with me, but now I have started realizing. Your this video was further helpful in making me realize the same.
Agree Guruji... Facts generating biases... biases generating actions... very difficult to remain undisturbed and not considering biases while decision making.👍
Beautiful video , not only boss or office mates , also relatives are jealous and insecure about your richness , personal matters .Stay calm be smart 😊🙏💐
Sir, the other way is also detrimental… if you tell them u r in need of money in life n you need that job… they give you more work … since they know u won’t quit …
Bilkul sahi kaha aapne !!!! Boss ke saath saath coluegue bhi jealousy rakhte hai if you got your education from very good college / live in posh area / father is well off! My colleague frnd was many times targeted asking '' tere papa ka toh business hai tumhe job karne ki kya zaroorat hai ''.
100% agree to this point and I have gone through this in my early phase of career . This matters a lot if you have an Indian boss in abroad as well . Also don’t add your colleagues and bosses on your social media handles as well 🙏
I never used to tell any such things to my PhD supervisor but I dressed well, better than many other PhD students. At the time when my stipend tenure got over, he asked me to work without any stipend saying I do not look like from poor family and there would not be any financial issue in my life.
Problem is that we are still in developing stage and most of them are still in to be successful or below that phase.. so they are jealous of each other and want the other person to go down.. humbleness comes with success.. thats why its gud to be around successful ppl once you are successful
Agree 100% on not disclosing your wealth to any one else other than your closest family like wife and children. Beyond that it becomes a pain in some form or the other! Coming to the office -- except some real friends which is very rare.. in an office environment which is by design created to be competitive - it is best to keep your personal life FAR AWAY!!
Yes . jealousy is universal. I earn for myself, teacher ,writter ,multi talented, strong from mother side.All my close friends want to attain my type of personality ,but showing indifferent and jealousy is so strong among ladies ,that I keep my acchivments secret.
I totally agree with you on this never ever tell about your family wealth but what I feel is if we show them as if we are from very humble background then they may start taking advantage of it thinking we can do anything with this person as he has no other options even if we Harass him he will not leave the job.
Sir, I would like to add one point. For ladies, they should not disclose in office if they are staying with in-laws. Then boss expects her to stay after hours and work overtime without OT perks. She will have headaches/Kalesh at both places.
YES, everyone wants to be rich or successful, but until you are not the mindset is that other rich and successful people are bad and arrogant and exploit others. This needs to change. There is a good and bad side to everybody and every situation. Everyone has their own struggle.
@@ClarityForYouth yes saw complete video and if my package is known to my Boss then he start jealous. Like now i have new Boss and he is jealous because of my work expertise and package. As per your other video i stop telling people my income but can’t hide from my Boss.
Ekdam Sahi baat bole aapne,Mera Boss puche,Father kya karte he; toh maine sach bataya ki wo heart patient hone ke karan kuch nahi karte aur hamare ghar jo rent me laga he usi ke karan near about 35k House rent mil jata he usi se aur mere salary se ghar chalta he.Itne me unko Kya jealousy ho gaya wo mera Travelling allowance Pass karna band kar diye.Jab maine pucha toh Woh suddenly gussa ho kar bole jab tumhara rental income 35k mil jata he toh tumhe Allowance ki kya jarurat he. Sirf itna bhi nahi kuch kuch boss toh itna chote nature ke hote he ki mera height jyada he aur unka kam he,mey achhe brand ka pehenta hun toh unhe issme bhi dikkat hota he.Yeh sab chije unke Peon se baat karne se mujhe pata chala
Agreed, topic is very relatable and most people in metro cities suffering from it. Pls make these type of videos how to respond people in certain situations
Disclose it to ones who are already at similar level. Everyone is selfish and smart now a days. People judge and make friends based on financial status. If you show you are poor you will have poor friends circle. Also its natural human tendency to make contacts with people who are doing good in life. A wealthy man and a begger can be friends in movies only. Billu barber. Having said that, there is certain level of satisfaction and peace when you make people jealous. For the same reason, people buy expensive car and build bigger homes. Personally I enjoy it when people get jealous. It indicates I am on the right track.
This video pertains to Indian bosses, correct? Yes , I agree with you! To tell you, I had repeated similar mistake I past, not bragging myself as a wealthy or from extremely affluent family, but from well to do, I could get this contrast as I have studied in the US and can easily spot differences ... haha in US, sometimes employee car and bosses car is same😅, any ways, you mentioned ' Rohit' and my name is same too, coincidence!
Sir Agree with what you said.Hamare yahaan log abh bhi socialist vichardhara ke hain, Bollywood filmo mein bhi paise walon chor gunde badmash dikhaya gaya,garibon ka khoon chusne wala.
My colleague told my managers I'm buying a home (small one though) in a good locality. My north Indian managers face fell down & he mentioned how come I can afford it at relatively younger age (34) while he was on the verge of retirement living nearby. I had barely mentioned that I've to go for documentation purpose of my home. My colleague chose to earn a brownie point.
Really needed this i have faced in all my jobs as i have a wealthy husband so all the colluges,bosses have never valued my work or thought of paying me well compared to low performance by other ppl as they always thought isko kya jarurat hae ye toha timepass ke leye job kar rahe hoge So never ever let people know about your financial background
I really appreciate your work and experience,You are really a life changer . I don't know what to call you, My Sir, my uncle, My guide, My uncle. You are all in single Package. Keep your work going on.
Sir iss topic pe tho mein ab dhayan rakhuga... But iss video ka solution bi bano part-2.... Agr sb pta hai boss ko aur colleagues ko tho uska kya kre... Thanks
Absolutely right , not even one's privillage but his/ her own problems / constraints are used as leverage to take advantage or favour some one in bosses good books.
yes absolutely correct and thanks for the video/topic! Also, this information about the privileged background has got an inverse/negative effect on the appraisal interview by the end of the year. This means the hard work will NEVER EVER get noticed as stated by yourself!!
Sir.....I have no words to say. I completely agree to you. I have faced this personally at my workplace. Being low key at work, is the only way to have a successful and peaceful life. 💯💯✅
yes! tell your boss, you create problems for your professional growth. tell your relatives, create problems for your personal/social life. that believe coming form western school of thought that "never ask a man how much you earn" is very important to teach to new graduates!
Sahi hai bilkul. Log jalte hain. Mere dady ka paas zyada paisa tha isliye mere sasur ne apni jaidaad se sabko zyada diya mere pati ko apne sab baccho se kam diya hamesha aur seva barabar karwai 😢
Each and every statement of urs is true in this video rather I should say eternal truth of life mere to relatives or friends b jalte hai kahi vacation ki pick ya beti k school dance ki video FB pe upload karti hu to koi like and comment hini karta jalan ki wajah se office mein to kitna ye sab hota or b zyada jalan hoti sabko
Sir, I'm waiting for my next job placement n uske bad apke happiness courses... I'm publicly thanking you via this msg tht u changed my life! I had toxic in-laws maine unko apna banane k liye kafi efforts kiye or apni shadi k starting k kuch years barbad kr daale.. thanks to implementing ur logic wo toxic to hai abhi bhi but ab me cope kr chuki hu. I'm really grateful to u 😊
