Understanding how a Narcissist PLAYS with your Identity 

All of the mistreatment by the narc's should be illegal and punishable by law!

I went to see a doctor after my ex told me that I am a “insufferable narcissist “. My doctor put me at ease with the words: “No narcissist worries about being a narcissist and projection is one of the narcissist’s main tools to pound others into submission.” I left it with that.

Many years ago there was a saying, that only a sane person would ever question their own sanity. You have perfectly described the battle for the soul, between the (psychopathic) Narcissist and the empathic person. I was raised by one, and I cannot stress strongly enough this #1 rule: THERE IS NO WAY OUT---untill the empathic person shuts down ALL SYMPATHY for the Narcissist! An empathic person MUST---IF THEY ARE GOING TO SURVIVE PSYCHOLOGICALLY AND PHYSICALLY---start thinking like a Narcissist in order to know how to fight them! I answer alot of questions by people on this subject who are going through Narcissistic abuse and recovery, and I find this video perfect to help them understand what they must understand to survive this battle, and will use it to refer them to. You have a brilliant mind Paula, in understanding the mind of a Narcissist! You are divinely inspired to devote your time, love, and energy in helping people understand the pure evil that they are dealing with. I know. EDUCATION is what unlocks the prison door of the mind---physically getting away from a Narcissist is not enough! Thank You, and may your angels keep you safe!

One thing that really confuses me sometimes is how most narcs seem to get fresh supply and respect , to the point where they can SEEM to be popular , despite their antics and reputation ! As an empath we are brought up to believe that by being kind , giving , open and sensitive will instantly make US popular and respected , when infact the opposite can often be true !! In reality people don't respect an open book and we can be seen as a soft touch or needy !! Therefore as a result we can often find ourselves alone , which is horribly unfair and confusing . Furthermore these traits also make us PRIME targets for any narcs , who will see that kindness as open supply ! The fact is in reality being NICE is no guarantee for ANYTHING !!! After the narc has gone we do have tendency to toughen up and more self focussed as we re-establish our true selves , which can come across as a bit self centered or even selfish ! That can make us feel guilty , but it really shouldn't ! All we are simply doing is getting back our self esteem and self respect , and toughening up with boundaries to protect ourselves , which is a VERY different to being a narcissist ! 🙏💪❤️

It's really sad, because you lose your innocence by having to start using those narcissist fight / survival tactics and ways. But yes, sadly its essential to do that.

I will point out that there is a difference between being a narcissist and self preservation. What Paula is discussing here is self preservation. In order to leave these situations, it takes a lot of effort on many levels (depending on the level of involvement). IMO, you need to put your emotions aside for this individual, focus on your own self interests and get out. That's not narcissistic. That's doing what's best for you in a toxic relationship.

wow!! I’m speechless.. you explain elegantly and calmly. While my blood is boiling and about to explode with fury and anger. But I have to be calmer. Right ?? I still can’t believe that there are creatures like this in human form. Well, I still wonder how I survive without getting crazy. One thing I know is, these people are devil in human skin, and still I survive.

Stop giving these evil empty meat suits the benefit of the doubt. The devil doesn’t deserve our empathy.

That’s the best, most accurate blow by blow description of a narcissistic relationship I’ve heard to date. Thank you 🙏

Oh Paula , this is such a good video , thank you ! The shock of it all , the awakening , the education about npd , the actions taken to protect ourselves , the overwhelming breaking of one’s heart . 3years out since the final discard and I am finally feeling stronger , excited and motivated about my future after spending over 30 years enmeshed with the covert ex husband . It takes time and is so worth it , to walk away from the narc , to finally understand .

Arguing with Idiots Is Like Playing Chess with a Pigeon... No Matter How Good You Are, the Bird Is Going to Shit on the Board and Strut Around Like It Won Anyway:

The Narcissist has negative energy. There is no good will. There is no empathy or humanity inside of these demonic creatures. It’s hard to accept that this is possible. But it is.

Dark entity indeed. If you are alienated from a child/ children please know I am covering every child that is ensnared in the narc web in daily prayer 🙏

The weaker I became the stronger he got it felt like I was falling down a hole and he was climbing over me to get out.. spot on again Paula 100% truth I lived in such guilt thinking I was the narcissist because I didn't even recognize myself anymore. the levels I had stooped to were beyond anything I had ever known I was capable of.. like I said before I had to find deep forgiveness of myself in my own actions .somehow fine forgiveness for him to be able to be free spiritually mentally and physically. I am truly inspired by you I watch your videos and I see you taking your walks living a good peaceful life I think to myself that's what I want I'm only 50 and all I want is to be healthy again and take a walk and actually enjoy nature actually be able to enjoy my grandchildren again enjoy life again your words resonate so deeply with me.....i want nothing of the narcissist anymore at all .i just want back what he robed from me ..

Narcissists throw a cloud of confusion around them and then they push their false reality onto those in confusion around them.

I always thought something dark was attached to him, I could feel it.

Narcissists do not feel pain or joy. I learn something new every day! Thank u Paula 🙏

" this person has shown you who they are, but you don't know who that person is" says it all👀

I knew that something was wrong and freaky from the very beginning. I kept pushing it away and the Holy Spirit kept making me more and more aware. Oh, thank you God 🙏

Hi Paula . I never usually comment but I am now . What you are saying is 💯 right . I myself feel we are in a serious spiritual warfare. All my life I’ve dealt with these empty meat suits . I mean EMPTY. I sincerely from my heart mean that there is a demonic spirits assigned to each one of us to rob as many souls from the light . To bring and dim our light to a spark . Because our light in us disturbs their demons. I’ve also noticed the increase in these last days . My advice from a spiritual understanding is pray psalm 91 . And pray the holy rosary everyday. Believe. Because when you keep prayed up . And put your whole trust in God . I mean Trust .u will always be protected. Pray daily to your guardian Angel. U will feel the peace within your heart ❤️ thank you Paula

Thank you, Paula, for this message. I thought I was becoming like my narcissistic partner, but you have indeed laid that the rest for me. I am just beginning to start on the path of a new life for myself. You do this rag-tag army of exhausted "soldiers" such a service by speaking about these things with knowledge, encouragement and compassion.

When we stand up to them we go "Supernova". Unbelievable how we shut down our empathy to get out off this evil game. When I told him to go home & grow up & refused to communicate or meet up with him again, he told me that I am cold & bitter. Lol. He was speaking of himself. They really burn down their own bridges by selfdestructing & not appreciating or respecting the good they had with us. Let them take off to whereever. They have nothing we need. Ty

Wow.... seems you really know my journey...”without a place to live” yes robbed of everything. They stop at nothing and don’t care. You’re right...they always renege and blame

That's one hell of an analysis of NPD.the 360 twist on everything, pure evil individuals and still amazes me the amount of people they suck in,especially those that you know well and how they turn against you,but then again they treat them people totally different.

Her advice and comments are golden. Honestly, no human being should be surrounded by the narcissists and flying monkeys. It is dangerous even lethal to suffer for these demonic triangulations.

I have lived this on a level that is mind blowing.. it's in my book out early next year.. now read REFLECTIONS OF THE CURSE -journey of a woman's heart..

One of friend told me that he did me a favour that he broke up with me, he was gaslighting me, criticize, making assumptions, putting me down, I am not sure if he is narcissistic, but gaslighter for sure, maybe with narcissistic traits, trying to make me feel like I am a bad person and that's why he broke up with me. That's nasty thing to do to a human being. He came across as a different person and presented himself in a different light.

I’ve been watching videos on NPD on RU-vid for about 8 years and I’m just now beginning to wake up and see how malicious my family is… it explains all of my relationships! I love your strait forwardness, thank you! 🙏🏻

Exactly. Truthteller speaks. Ain't it something that you don't even realize what's going on.

…”the gift of feeling pain and pleasure in equal measure…” 🙌🏾💫💕

She really enjoyed having me in tears, sobbing and begging for closure. Liked it way too much. In the end discard she wrote: I hope you see the nuances of the relationship. Two and a half years of everyday contact and it ended in an afternoon. Also she let me know that tears were still being shed over us not being together. However the whole ending seemed so fake and forced and unreal. And of course it had to be dramatic.

I was all ready in shock! and then in shock even more when I found out what he was. I really felt like I had a guide above me to be able to get away as swiftly as I did. It was a miracle.

We are positive energy source. We have essence. As soul we know truth we know love. We know peace. Soul in human form. Not just darkness in a meat suit. That’s what these demonic entities are. Staying in the moment. Being . That’s what the devil cannot do.

Great video. Great explanation. I completely believe this is entity driven. "They've baited you into reacting badly." I really related to this sentence and to your explanation surrounding it. Additionally, other people are not seeing what you're seeing and if you try to explain it to others (which, for the most part I would not recommend), you seem like you're the crazy one. Agree that it's definitely a spell.

it´s natural protection - selfdefence, selflove, putting Yourself firstmany Blessings & healing from Germany

Absolutely the best explanation of "healthy narcissism" I've heard on line. I've experienced the narcissistic personality in my daughter's extracurricular instructors - the best are angels but the worst can be very abusive towards the young people they rely on for narcissistic supply. Believe me, a mother bear has a responsibility to remove their child from situations where the child is abused and manipulated by these people, but the public fallout is not fun. You do ask yourself if you are in fact narcissistic in these circumstances, and I suppose the answer is yes, a healthy narcissism bent on survival for protecting the child. But the difference between healthy narcissism and psychopaths is who is targeting the child and who is protecting the child.

Wow, “Narcissists do not feel pain”, that made me see that I have always had pain and tears in my life. Now, that I’m on the path to healing, I will experience joy, as long as I don’t run in to another narcissist so I’m going to keep watching your videos. 😮

It is a nightmare...God is with us...we are blessed🧡🕯🙏🤗

Thank you for this brilliant description of the stages of narcisistic evil cycle of abuse. The pain is teaching us a life lesson. We need to humbly emrace it and protect ourselves from evil forces. God bless you❤

Nail on the head on this one. They live in the now, and the worse you get the better they get. The word narcissist gets thrown around but there’s a difference between traits and full blown NPD. It’s very specific. Hard for people to understand unless they’ve been there.

Raised by a narcissistic mother and alcoholic gambler, I was only nurtured by my grandmother, in whose house we lived. Later, I had a relationship with a narcissist, and it was re living hell again. Thank God for God, who opened my eyes back in 1980’s. Never again!. Thank you, Paula, for helping validate that these evil despicable destructive demons can happen to other people too!! Thank you!!!!

Thank you you do help me still after 3 years it is still hard some days more then other,s

Yep-as we disappear and shrink they appear better looking and happy and go out more and more-it’s so sick Out 15 months and went NC 3 days later-learning and discovering my true self again

The blessing AND the curse of being en emoath is that we can de seen , or taken advantage of being reliable , and agreeable ! Narcs will focus on this , especially when they are falling out with every else ! We can be loyal to a mad degree , often telling them what they want to hear to please them , instead of the cold hard truth about themselves , which we know would only lead to confrontation ! We can often take taken advantage of AND at the same time taken for granted ! I still remember how through pandemic and other tricky times it was always ' presumed' that I would be fine to work on , and when I had to take time off with a chest infection my bosses wee still calling me asking what was wrong and when I was coming back ! You'd think my loyalty and dedication would be appreciated in the long run , but it didn't stop then throwing the book at me later for an honest mistake ,!! The truth is as empaths we are expected to be a constant , even when the whole world around us is collapsing ! We are not supposed to disagree or EVER change or grow ! I have lost count if the number of times my ex narc tried to take the wind out of my sails every time I got ideas ' above my station ' , because of course they knew like no-one else 🤔😆😆 ! This is very toxic and dangerous , as they give us a very limited and weaker version of ourselves in order to keep us in our place and in turn it erodes any possibility of independent choice or personal growth ! We buy into this limited notion of ourselves so much it is no wonder why we feel so lost and confused post discard ! We have to start over again , not knowing who we really are , or what we a capable of achieving ! I'm here to tell all you fellow empaths out there , NEVER let ANYONE tell you that you are not allowed to change OR make your own choices ! Your decisions may not always bare fruit , may even go horribly wrong and backfire from time to time ,..but they and your life were ALWAYS YOURS 💪💕💕♥️

Standing applause Paula, 1st class Thank You.

Thank you for this video. I pray that my son sees it. He has been subjected to Emotional Abuse for many years now, and this new abuser has him ISOLATED from the whole family. My son said she is intelligent and her IQ has some merit but does NOT serve HUMANITY. So, Thank you for the explanation and I pray and hope he sees it. Still Hopeful! It is indeed difficult to imagine that a human with such skills in manipulation has so little empathy for others. These abusive intruders masquerading as ''angels''... go unnoticed to their good hearted victims. It is hard to imagine that an "Angel Halloween Costume'' can have such disastrous impact on a whole family. These wolves is sheep clothing give themselves permission in all imagined entitlement rights to hurt anyone and sometimes everyone in their path with their paranoia personality disorder driven imaginary war. And, the healthy party with empathy gets all twisted up inside to leave their own values with such self doubt that the heartless pitiful intruder is left at the CONTROL of another beautiful human being. Enlightenment and COURAGE ...is KEY! So, Thank you for your explanation! God Bless!

Stalking me and misrepresent my character to slander me to other's and mutual friends, to chase married men and claim Jesus, to act superior and break up my friendships ..on and on it goes .bully me at work and then plead innocent to our boss..it's staggering how closed people's eyes are to these kinda of evil people

Coping with self-guilt - every area of my life was characterised by Narcissistic abuse. Family, friends and later on `spouse`. I lost my career, because of bullying and all the cycles of the abuse. Furthermore, this abuse was prevalent among parents, aunts, uncles and cousins. Struggled to have friends all my life. The crowning was my marriage to a Narc. Finally, I got the knowledge and I am taking action by drawing boundaries, grey rocking and removing any flying monkeys and toxic people in general. I made peace with myself, however watching life happening in front of me with a new pair of eyes and understanding makes one wise.

how you've explained this is spot on

Competitive! Yes! A strange element being present in a romance!

You are so correct, they steal you from yourself

This clip was so on target. You described him and our relationship to a tee. I have lived in such torment for 43 years. I'm now 70. Where will I go? What can I do? Retired and on SS. I dont know who I am anymore.

I'd love to hear a video about when they pretend to take active interest in figuring out what's wrong, why theres a problem in the relationship. Saying they wish they could record to see where the trigger point is, when it explodes. Getting you to write down all your childhood events and issues. Looking for therapists together. Getting others to talk with you both .. their friends.. finding that you're talking about your relationship issues with them. Etc.

Was totally trapped & exhausted. True. His supply of suppy totally surprised me and as I look back I can't believe He was capable of such pleasure in doing this. He was happier because he had so many different women giving themselves to him. I pray for them. Yes, quite a shock to finally understand. Totally shut down my empathy for him. Detached from him. My faith kept me sane. Always in a fight or flight mode. I knew who I was, I just had to become like him in a way to survive. I feel bad about that but I was in survival mode. May karma come to him. Very sad....I never want to live that life again. With God all things are possible.

Devaluation stage… yes… you are “going along” thinking everything is rosy (at first) and then EXACTLY that thought of “OH!” “What was that?” because the devaluing remark just doesn’t fit.

You have nailed it. Spot on. Thank you.

We ARE all on a scale , a SLIDING scale at that . What I believe constitutes one as befitting the label of 'Narcissist' is this : are the choices and INTENTIONS consistently self indulgent , ego based and narcissistic ? Does the behavior carry through with multiple interactions ? Is there self reflection or introspection that leads to genuine awareness and has this led to attempts to change the behavior ? ( genuinely ) And lastly does the individual or self exist and live life and interact with enough regularity as to define it as a way of life ? When I witness a person who chooses this behavior to the point that I would say narcissism defines them , I feel confident in labeling them as such . I am very much post abuse and am quite far along in my own healing so I do not often follow channels such as yours anymore but what I do always keep my eyes open for is content providers who ACTUALLY UNDERSTAND this and who are providing healing and awareness and presenting it as it actually is and I want to thank you and commend you because you DO GET IT ! It IS BOTH clinical AND spiritual . There IS awareness within them and 95,% of them DO NOT know what they are or are able to recognize or admit what they are doing as what it is . There IS something very dark that works THROUGH people who choose again and again to behave as abusers and manipulators . There is BOTH the one on one abuses and entanglements AND a much more encompassing macro entanglement between the majority of people on earth and a very few who feel entitled or have managed to leverage themselves into positions of power and authority (not every single position of power ) I am impressed and grateful that you have achieved this awareness and have chosen to share what you have come to realize with others . And YES post discard and into healing one very much may wonder if it was them . It took me a LONG time to get around this problem as I realized previous narcissistic behaviours of my own at times in the past . Eventually I freed myself by my awareness and determination to cease that type of interaction as well I realized it had been very infrequent and /or it was reactive response to abuse. I have only seen a few of your videos so it's possible you have indeed shared this as well but I eventually came to an important conclusion that perhaps you might share if you have not and that is this : narcissist self destruct .....and they get us to do the same . .. . Food for thought Ty again 👍

Everything you just said is 100% accurate to what I am going through now

This video is so accurate. It confirms the levels of evilness these types exhibit in all the while your genuineness,innocence, honesty and all that makes you as an individual is being extracted then weaponized against you

Thanks, Paula. Your gift is really appreciated. I'm still recovering from the insidious manipulator that was my wife. There's so much reprogramming of what is you and what is not. But with your help we'll get through it.

Hi Paula....this is perfectly explained....you have a gift.

The narcissism protects them from any shame or blame.......and the cycle is what they live for. Unbelievable,it all makes sense

Perfect stage by stage reply of any narc/supply relationship. It is to a 'T'. Thanks Paula, love your videos. 💚

This is exactly what I've been struggling to express but you've explained it and saved me!

Excellent description..

Men are figuring this out, reconnection to the nervous system, will help with the anxiety, staying focused on daily activities and changing subconscious thoughts associated with them has helped me start rebuilding on a solid foundation internally. Men and women are different with rebuilding with the same issues. I appreciate your incite. Thank you

Yes, all of the above!

I feel like this is the most consummate video on narcissism I've come across . You really hit the nail on the head ..

This unfortunately is also my story. It’s been 4 years and I’m left with debilitating anxiety and live in perpetual fear. I’m raising our two children with no choice but to live in a house that’s in his name as I was never allowed on the mortgage. I never imagined such a hell.

God gave me the knowledge I suffered until I had enough. “ sick and tired of being sick and tired”. I stumbled across the word narcissist and went online. That’s where my journey began of healing and realized I’m NOT an empty evil person like the x , I became grateful for being who I am. I am positive energy source. I am free to enjoy every moment .

Well, all the empathy and everything attached to that which is your heart is thrown back at you

That thought of "Oh" what was that? Yep,I totally understand that moment with every single narc in my lifetime

Hi Paula: It's uncanny how accurate you are with this stuff. I've also learned that there is a scale too, and in the middle is the healthy balance of empathy and Self preservation against evil. Unfortunately for us, as the empath, we've given that right up for the other person, looking for another to validate us at the very core of our existence 😢. We didn't have a healthy environment growing up, so we used our intuition to feel how to be safe in an imbalanced way. If you have to question if you're the narcissist, then certainly you aren't one, but because you gave into self preservation mode it's uncomfortable as that's not our modus operandi. We have to do the work and change in order to come to center and be balanced. It's difficult to do as most aren't comfortable with the change. It takes a lot of introspection and hard work to get there. If you don't want to change, then it's better to stay single and not get involved in relationships. Unfortunately this leaves us lonely as we crave unity with another human being as God created us to be in relationships. Jesus wants us in relationship with Him and he will never do that to us as he won't take advantage of us, but wants to give us his essence! That selfless sacrifice was made only once by Him and you can see the result (crucifixion or self sacrifice). It's easy to see what He did on the cross but the only one we are to make that sacrifice to is God Himself and crucify the flesh with its lusts and desires. Satan tries to usurp and pervert that principle and use it for His own glory 😤. That's why Satan uses lust and not love, as he lacks love. Unfortunately we get hooked on the addiction of hormones and confuse it with love, and get our brains 🧠 🙃 hijacked! Oh the craziness of it all!

very accurate, they can almost tip your mind into insanity, and that would be a big win to them, lifetime of these people have physically and mentally worn me down, living a isolated life with just enough interaction thats required to survive

Thankyou Paula, This Is Spot On

i think now you may be right ..there is a dark energy

Your channel is a God send when one catches omeself ruminating. The struggle is real

Ms Paula ,u are so beautiful ,I almost cried at this video,because all that u spoke on in this one,I went threw in that manner,and I thank God I held on to knowing that I being a warrior of Gods and his word said no one could take me away from him,I believed with all my heart and kept reminding myself of it,regardless of the anxiety and faint I felt,It felt like covid which I overcame as well while going threw narrcisist abuse,this video showed me where iam at today in my freedom from this dark demonic evil succubus bed bug vampire. I AM SO GRATEFUL FOR YOUR LOVE N PRESENCE ON THIS EARTH

Thankyou for healing me, much love to you x

I think it really is a "spell"

Thank you So much lovely, Wise Paula. This was INCREDIBLY healing for me with a Covert (community religious) narcissistic mother. I'm now 61!!! Ijust couldn't shake off the Selfblame from decades of gaslighting, triangulation etc etc etc& with 3 siblings; she had a Field Day!!! Im now just 4 months complete No Contact. In the end it was either her or me...I Had to leave. Thanks Again.XXX jude ❤🧡💛💜💙❤🧡

It's so fffd up I can not see how I'm the blame for family issues when I'm 7th out of 8 children. People in my family think because I lived close by, in the same town as mum that I recieved special treatment, therefore when their relationship with the parent doesn't work out its because I'm in favour, if only they knew!! Now both of the narc parents are deceased and I'm still to blame for more than I realised with one sister being a psychopathic liar who has embroidered her lies to be my doing! A younger sister is so demented by the lies, believes her and I'm so hated yet I defended them to my complaining parents as why should I be "special" which I screamed at my father, how dare you tell me I'm special, I don't want to be special!! They are insane, dead, yet I have no leg to stand on in defence though I do have God, thankfully.. When you get this far down the line and seen what happens you learn to go along to get along but it does hurt to see them hurting as if another war starts, it will be me!

Love you Paula!! You’ve helped me so much!!

Thank you so much for explaining this so well Paula. I have worried so much that I am the narcissist because I have had to "play the game "for the last year or so simply to survive. It was such a relief to hear that narcissists would never ruminate on such things as I do. I now understand that this is just a stage I am going through and part of the process for me to get stronger and get away from him somehow. I am making my plans very slowly and have started to pack some of my things and hide them. I feel so bad about it most of the time, but I also am more and more convinced that I have to go if I am to live, because it feels like I am slowly dying more everyday. He always goes out every day for hours and hours and if I ask where he has been for so long, he just lies to me and says that he has been at the shops just like he said. Shopping does not take that long, he thinks I am so dumb. If I question him too much he gets angry. Is this normal? Am I too suspicious?

At three years old, l had a dream where l was drowning in a canal lined thickly with reeds on either side. My mom, dad and both sisters were standing on a bridge happily waving back, as if to say "Bye, you're on your own." The terror l felt has stayed with me all my life. (53 years.) Two years ago, after a nasty falling out with my one narc sister and dad, (mom passed away 4 years ago), and finding out my other sister lied about something l never did, to cover her arse, l ended up in Guyhirn, Cambridgeshire, after spending lockdown with my dad in South Africa. There are reed- lined canals everywhere, just like in my dream! I guess the dream prepared me to absorb the impact of my situation. l had no knowledge of narc. abuse, till recently, but l can at least stop being haunted by that dream. I can accept my fate better.

The one thing that they will fight for is there possessions or there material things.!! It's the only thing they don't want to loose. Thats the truth.

Fabulous once again Paula 👏👏👏👏

Took me almost dying to find that out.

You hit the nail on the head. Everything you said was my experience totally to the time i found a place to permanently live but am still connected but divorced and trying to complete the end soon. Thank uou so very much for explaining what all this means which was my life perfectly with the narcisist. I am still struggling to heal and with the grace of God I WILL HEAL. THANK YOU

The narcissist I crossed paths with was a therapist in the psych ward I was in(voluntarily). The first time I saw her she looked at me with hostility. So odd. I now know that opening up to her was a big mistake.

This was sooo good, great job!

I could write a book......but to simplify my comment all I have to say is Spot On!

Wow. You are describing my life with her. Amazing to see this put into words.

Thank you so much Paula such a strong and comforting message 💕💯🙏

Oh my goodness! I ruminated endlessly...Condemned myself for it but could not understand why I could not stop.

You help keep me sane! Thank you!!

Absolutely brilliant explanation Paula. Thank you again 💓

The non molestation order I have applied goes to court on Monday and I have spent the last 2 days worrying that I have done something evil by exposing the truth of him, 16 years of it and I am still concerned that I didn't try hard enough , thankyou Paula, you have settled me ❤️🙏

Thankyou for doing this video, when alot of the Narcissisticly abused come to me, this is what they struggle with, the things they hid did to get away , because they aren't evil they really struggle with themselves over this One session they realised it is perfectly normal behaviour guilt goes they can start healing themselves My issue as is most the people that come to me was I had no Narcissist traits in me none at all, Was completely selfless all about giving Uplifting life all life Believed everyone was good wanted good wanted to help Uplift others too I don't believe that anymore in fact I now KNOW it's not true, once I understood this learnt this valuable lesson I was not sent another Narcissist in any form ✌🤔💖

thank you. your insights are spot on and very profound. keep up the great work.