Understanding Mr. Goodbar 

When I was younger I would always get the “if you wasn’t a lil kid you’d be my boyfriend” and other aggressive/ flirtatious gestures from a lot of my moms grown friends. At the time I was too young to understand that they were being dead serious. I’m 20 now and those same women are always advancing on me.

That immunity toward beauty is key

I had several encounters with older women when I was a teenager (80s). Tbh I really didn't know what was going on. The shit always felt strange so I would pull away from it. As a teenager I was the most clueless, no-game havinest dude on the planet but because of my looks, build and laid back demeanor I never had a problem attracting the opposite sex. One of my boys, now 6-years old is autistic. Physically he's pretty much my clone. I already know at some point he will be taken advantage of. My other son, his twin, is not-autistic. I've already been talking to them about what to look out for but as far as my autistic son you never know what's getting through.

I can see this man in myself even though i finished a degree in Computer Engineering. But i am very creative guy so i always figure out things to do/say. Thing is, computer engineer is the last thing think when they see me, because they think all engineers are ugly nerds with glasses, slouching back and skinny. I lift weight and have an attractive, walk with confidence etc. What i learnt in life is that you should do your best to look the best (the things you have control over) & know alot about everything and more. People are ALWAYS surprised by me (in a good way).

You have helped me put my whole life into perspective, I don’t find it hard to accept the truth, but sheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeshh man. Honestly don’t know where to go from here

My mom was/is a SUPER square. I got vibes from her friends, shortly after those same women would disappear. I think my mom was steering them away

Some what describes my life when I reflect all the way up to date just turned 29

You invented a paradigm destroying term for me: "he was Immune to Beauty"

This explains alot. I grew up in a home where my Dad was in and out of my mother's life. He was with lots of women. My mom on the other hand was chasing after him or making him jealous.

Bro, Good one, I grew up with my late parents. Im 43 my brother is 8years older then me. Your 100% correct when I was 15 girls college women and older women really gave me play late 80s and 90s it was not taboo to have those experiences especially student teacher's aids etc. The job especially in the office was a whole new world.

Tony had to forgive his mother, like Jesse Lee Peterson says!

Good drop... Can't wait for that pick up artist video

Yeah Tony's prob is in all of us from issues with child hood (select )or from rejection(non select) it varies and that's true about the looks when your handsome or pretty ppl think that God/the universe could not make you this attractive and smart as well that's just to much in one pot but they don't know that makes them lose points never judge a book by its cover you may miss a diamond on the outside and in.......also my first baby sitter took advantage of me I was 10 and she was 18 ppl think it's just men who are predators but God is good as soon as she was about to stick it in my mom came to pick me up litterally lol our life is a movie we need to really see if like that we are a one of one it's beautiful to walk the journey once you see the trails from woman to money is about God grooming you then you learn from your struggles from have a mama like tony or going through loneyless and finding ya self it's all for ya personal testimony when you make it 💯💯💯

A friend of mine was married to a goodbar who is Muslim and she divorced him