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Jealousy and backstabbing got in the way and put an end to the partnership of popular bloggers, Six Brown Chicks. Iyanla steps in and digs deep to reveal the real truth behind their behaviour and explores the reasons why some women can't get along. (Original air date: October 12, 2012) Watch more of Iyanla: Fix My Life on the Watch OWN app: bit.ly/watchownapp
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UNLOCKED Full Episode: Iyanla Fix My Life EP105 ‘Fix My Backstabbing Friends’ | OWN
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@tshambiawhite1409 2 года назад

IDC how old these episodes are, they still hold so much weight and wisdom! I love Ms. Iyanla!♥️

@ElonNicole 2 года назад

Yesssss

@janearj2779 2 года назад

I have to rewatch them again occasionally, they are so helpful!

@mahue171 2 года назад

I actually think the older ones are so much more powerful

@elquanjahlowe7273 2 года назад

Yes indeed 💯‼️

@michaelm2207 2 года назад

I totally agree on you! Makes you think about some thangs lol

@jaricameyers3063 2 года назад

“I’m sorry you felt that way” the worst you can tell someone after YOU made them feel that way!!

@lovingmylife528 2 года назад

Yes 🙌🏽

@everydayreality.2068 Год назад

So true. It allows you to take 0 responsibility for your words or actions.

@faithjoytoe8999 Год назад

Exactly, it is a coward’s way.

@lekilabryant167 Год назад

So true. My mother apologizes to me like that. To me, that's saying that's your problem not acknowledging anything.

@alexiskeys9985 Год назад

My favorite one is: "I'm not responsible for those feelings." 🙄😒

@KrissyBlendz 2 года назад

23:58 this was the moment when Iyanla became iconic!!!! “Not on my watch!”

@parislove9723 2 года назад

💪🏿 she is not for play play..

@naomibrunson3369 2 года назад

Right

@joeylegodi3737 2 года назад

I think she is abusive and aggressive. No! I would've walked out. someone does something wrong you act crazy? Nope!

@annahjaya700 2 года назад

😂😂😂😂

@alonnimurchison5022 2 года назад

girl the way iyanla turned slowly and then hit the table I let out a little chuckle!!! sis said "NAWT ON MY WATCHHH" I LOVE IT !!!

@BrownSugaBabe757 7 месяцев назад

WHY DID THESE EPISODES STOP!??! The world needs this so bad!

@zuritribe4844 4 месяца назад

Sooo bad we need these!!!! 😢❤

@jesssocountry334 4 месяца назад

She was tired

@Butterflyyyy9 4 месяца назад

Oprah her own friend fired her

@shantechekita 3 месяца назад

It was exhausting for Iyanla muva was tired

@AshleySmith-kd8nb 3 месяца назад

Sure do

@charliest.kardasism9134 2 года назад

They should do this, with the real housewives of Atlanta 🤣

@vazyvas4712 2 года назад

That would be hilarious!

@crystalj.8678 2 года назад

This would be epic!! Lol!!

@hgo883 2 года назад

Can you imagine? I think Iyanla would leave.

@SSBMA1994 2 года назад

It didnt work on Tamar from the Real, so I doubt that this would work either

@kdeloris2225 2 года назад

Girl you just told the truth 🤣🤣🤣 now that would be musty TV 🤣

@oratilelekalakala3095 2 года назад

Iyanla has so much authentic power within her that her spirit is so pure

@ParisCouture Год назад

I've always said from day one -- Iyanla is called and chosen by God to minister, minister, minister, and set the captives free. It's completely obvious to me. ♥

@zzizahacallar 18 дней назад

❤ her

@algrina04 5 месяцев назад

I cannot believe that Brown Chicks still exists to this day This is amazing!

@heavenlygardens 4 месяца назад

I was wondering about that! This was recorded in 2012. I was thinking dang if they made it work, they'd be a force! Especially since podcasts are so big rn.

@MsSong2U 4 месяца назад

Thank you for this. I was wondering if they mended their friendship and business ties.

@Simplykiebby 2 месяца назад

@@heavenlygardensthey do! I follow their twitter

@ABlackGirlandHerCoffee Год назад

Moral of the story, we need each other. We are stronger together.

@niyah_jordan3147 2 года назад

Between her husband, then the talk with the elders…I cried the last 10 mins 😭

@miraclesblessings5044 2 года назад

I remember I watched this when it aired, I forgot how deep it got. Crying....

@kardon4996 2 года назад

The same here my dear.....

@blessed7015 2 года назад

Same...❤

@Votethepower 2 года назад

Me too.

@keisha772 2 года назад

DITTO...

@Daniellenicole566 Год назад

“When you are a visionary, people come forward to serve you, not to spite you” and that’s when it hit me 💚😩🙌🏾

@DelSunflower33 4 месяца назад

✍️ writing that one down

@keiarapayne3206 2 года назад

I’m in tears as black women we need this 🥺we need to continue to create safe spaces for one another to continue to level up in power and prayer 🙏🏾

@elly3837 2 года назад

I really need the support of my Black Si-Stars because I grew up in and still live in an all white racist town and it is absolutely horrible 😿

@lilahmarie5846 Год назад

@@elly3837 sending you strength💪🏽

@Maz-zb9uf 3 месяца назад

Really from the beginners of time we been tearing each other down nothing has change we refuse acknowledge we in the wrong

@PureNapture 3 месяца назад

I don’t trust black women enough, sorry

@saythatash 4 месяца назад

When the women bowed and received wisdom from the the wise women elders tore me down. Oh what I would do to sit in the presence of seasoned women with wisdom. Bring Iyanla back!!! Our generation of women NEED YOU!!!

@tempiedunn-pv2tf 9 дней назад

I felt it, l was in tears and the filling was so real from them all.

@samanthatheegr8 2 года назад

"You are not going to make her responsible for what came out of your mouth!" Fiyah! 🔥 🔥 🔥

@charliest.kardasism9134 2 года назад

This is where the Not on my watch, was born LMFAO

@MsRentastic 2 года назад

Lol I literally just said this.

@lovingmylife528 2 года назад

Lol 😂

@banziimavuso9974 2 года назад

She seemed so peaceful as she glanced at both ladies before she said that. THAT killed me. Lol 😂

@Ogjayfay 2 года назад

Iyanla is anointed.

@kellymarie9151 2 года назад

“Not on my watch!” will forever be iconic. OAN tho RIP Dr. Dawj.

@AngelasTravelAdventures 2 года назад

I know this is old but I cried like a baby watching this. I can so relate to the younger girl and relationships with women. All my life I've desired authentic, loving , trustworthy relationships with women and often got the opposite and ended up being hurt and betrayed. It made me aloof which comes off as anti-social but in reality, I just don't want to be hurt.

@sufundasamuels2313 2 года назад

It's really sad when something like that happens to you and it's okay to want to be empowered and exude empowerment to other women, but I've really never cared to be around a bunch of women, including my only family because I'm a firm believer in protecting my space, peace and soul from foolishness.

@variousJnames Год назад

Same! I do not trust women, starting with my own mother. It's sad because I know I've missed out on rich female friendship. But every single one has betrayed me or left me in some way

@HwasaHottieXSolarMoon Год назад

Same and I just entered my twenties

@zuritribe4844 4 месяца назад

U not alone 🤷🏽‍♀️🫶🏾🥹🥰

@zuritribe4844 4 месяца назад

@@variousJnamesI’m sorry that this happend to you!🫶🏾 I hope you find a good friend out there !!! If not hit my email!🤷🏽‍♀️ I don’t have many friends bc I don’t trust but I definitely can see the benefits of friends

@startpupsinc9758 Год назад

I'm a 47 year old single man...Strong man!!!...This was painful...powerful...and brought a genuine tear of sadness and joy...Iyanala is for real

@kristinenickley1755 4 месяца назад

I thank God that men watch Iyanla too!!😊 Take care, I am 55, & have been watching her since she was on Oprah!!❤ Kristine, San Diego, Ca.

@lonyettadunbar2920 4 месяца назад

I am such an empathetic person and these hit me so deep at times! I can definitely relate to using these videos in my singleness as a place to reflect on my inner self and path forward!!

@rainy.d7404 2 года назад

This was positively powerful. I cried myself and got a bit of healing. I'm trying to reconnect with my estranged sisters.

@irritism1227 2 года назад

🙏🏽❤

@quediantterkids7047 2 года назад

Me2

@mrs.ceeshockley9152 2 года назад

Prayers for you and your sisters

@harlem4653 2 года назад

Sis may things go in your best interest💗

@AngelasTravelAdventures 2 года назад

Me too.

@MsBari1025 2 года назад

Iyanla IS BEAST!!! Although episode 2012, her stuff as timeless as human behavior is consistent... LOVE her vibe, style, tactics, and depth. She is certainly a blessing to the world -- she definitely did her work!!

@naomibrunson3369 2 года назад

Amen 😭😭😭😭💯

@bellaf7774 2 года назад

Love her so much

@DJ-zd3gj Год назад

YES!!!!

@HydenNoway 2 года назад

come back Mrs Iyanla, PLEASE WE NEED YOU🤧🤧🤧

@user-hm4di1ez2c 3 месяца назад

Yes please come back

@NurseJenniferNYC 3 месяца назад

FR!😢

@princessglg1 2 месяца назад

💯💯💯

@spinjunkie8178 2 года назад

The end with the elders tore me up. I want to be a blessing to others just like Iyanla and the elders. This is how we must carry ourselves as women❤️. This episode blessed me so.

@bridgethall1065 Год назад

Very powerful...stay in peace not pieces. We all benefited from the scene with the elders. Just awesomeness. No words can really describe it.

@bellaf7774 2 года назад

When you hug someone and u hold each other and rock for a while…those are the best hugs. I’m just crying like a baby rn

@jaricameyers3063 2 года назад

Yes! My aunt always hug and rock, it feels so good!

@lesley5380 4 месяца назад

Hugs are great 🤗

@trinibarbie2161 2 года назад

NOT ON MY WATCH , NOT ON MY WATCH . it was funny at first but when I seen the clip in its entirety I actually felt why she did this

@Dream-Me 2 года назад

We don't have elders these days. We have grandma's dancing on tiktok tryna be young. Lord.

@nyaintunyaintu509 2 года назад

😂🤣😂🙏🏾laawwd have mercy !

@4knewt505 2 года назад

Right! The need to be glammas instead of grandmothers or any other bling name. I was proud the other day when my daughter said I have a classic style.

@sufundasamuels2313 2 года назад

😆😆😆....so true! It's downright embarrassing!

@dashino2839 Год назад

😅😅😅😅

@seensay2132 Год назад

Grandmothers Used to be in their 60s and well beyond that phase. Now they’re in their 30s 👀

@TheHonorableAngelinaNordstrom 2 года назад

What a powerful episode! My favorite part is when the ladies met with the elders and when the ladies supposed the on woman whose husband lost the battle with cancer. I'm still wiping tears away after this episode.

@laurielambert7593 2 года назад

PEACE, Yes, it's powerful and I shed soulful tears. The calmness and clarity that come over them was mighty. It was refreshing to see them apologize, make amends and reconcile!

@BlaqB0mbshell 2 года назад

Sadly, she passed last year. Her & her husband are reunited!

@emandaboss1 2 года назад

@@BlaqB0mbshell oh no that’s mad sad im just watching this episode n was hoping they was doin something n making a difference today…

@annetteodanga Год назад

@@BlaqB0mbshell oh noo!May she Rip

@myfriendisaac 2 года назад

6:50 That shady *”Hello”* from the both of them 🤣

@laurielambert7593 2 года назад

SEE...and I would have been petty: My reply to the forced "Hello" would have been a head nod.

@sufundasamuels2313 2 года назад

@@laurielambert7593 Yeah, a head nod or nothing at all and be set on ready if it came down to it....hell, I don't have time for foolishness!

@jroc2k 4 месяца назад

Iyanla could make the toughest women in the world breakdown

@cierapaige9139 Год назад

I wasnt expecting to receive my own therapy from this. The part about trust really struck a cord, I cried my heart out. I need a 1:1 with Mrs Iyanla

@protectedmusiclover850 2 года назад

It's spiritual. Stubborn, spirits don't want to loose us, but the anointing (not just patience) will break through all that. Iyanla fully anointed kept speaking to that distrust and the anointing BROKE THAT YOKE OF BONDAGE!

@lovingmylife528 2 года назад

Amen 🙏🏽

@tawanawilliams6296 4 месяца назад

It’s weird, they are all naturally beautiful yet they didn’t want to remove their make up and be seen

@serpilkaddy1609 2 месяца назад

I literally thought the same!

@tawanawilliams6296 Месяц назад

@@serpilkaddy1609 it kind of hurt my heart. Thank you for seeing them. So much ❤️

@serpilkaddy1609 Месяц назад

@tawanawilliams6296 Always. Just as I see your beauty too. X

@katiejohnson9366 2 года назад

Oh man I ugly cried on this one . Had to take a break just to be able to breathe through my nose again. I swear she gets me every time

@jennyoyster5054 Год назад

“NOT ON MY WATCH!” Yes ma’am.

@tcrump212IsLmbrJck_t 10 месяцев назад

Home girl with her back turned had me bawling. She was THE GUARD!

@blessed7015 2 года назад

Wow...This episode was heartbreaking, emotional, and powerful. Anointed and gifted are words that I think of when I see Ms. Iyanla do her thing. Black people, and people in general, need this type of reflection and potential healing on an ongoing basis. And, then, the world might have a chance at being a better place.

@HAI.1 2 года назад

No 1 Tip to fix backstabbing friends is: Get rid of them all and never look back.

@dayYdream2k 2 года назад

I have never cried so much from an Iyanla episode than I have for this one. My soul was touched.

@AngelasTravelAdventures 2 года назад

Mine too

@petitegirl84 8 месяцев назад

Why did she turn like that 😭 and the slamming on the table 😭💀

@beautifulest123 3 месяца назад

she be fixing my life and dont even know it

@Votethepower 2 года назад

Why does Iyanla have me crying?? I am just crying all over myself.

@4knewt505 2 года назад

They ALL looked stunning without the makeup 😍 made me think of when we wore less makeup in the 90s. They really did look natural and beautiful and I'm a woman who wears makeup. 🤔

@elsrubbishremoval6951 3 месяца назад

That "will you trust " part was so darn powerful. I felt her heart slowly opening up. Ms. Iyanla is the nona, mama, auntie and sister we all need. ❤ May God continue to bless her.

@mikeysrightleg1880 2 года назад

23:58 - That is how you use your masculine energy as a Woman, that beautiful control as soon as the blonde woman understood. Iyanla has faith that she wont do it again 💯❤️

@cmaree2 2 года назад

Would love to see where these six lovely souls are 10 years later

@rosalanijackson5827 2 года назад

It doesn’t matter how old these episodes are, life happens everyday and people are still hiding and hurting

@Shawnmyrelle 2 года назад

Im so thankful for Zondra’s humility. I learned so much just watching her respond and learn.

@sunnaharoma5517 11 месяцев назад

Just mind blown how deep her Mothership skills are!!

@Kekethegreatone Год назад

I truly believe in sisterhood. When I went through my divorce my friends held me UP. They are my sisters and my rocks. I wish to see more women loving on each other❤️🙏🏾

@skatulle 2 года назад

The talk with elders, EPIIC!!! so good

@ashs1491 2 года назад

I been out with Covid so these Oprah and iyanla episodes are perfect right now!!!!

@mayday4529 2 года назад

Get well soon👍

@Whatshaname 2 года назад

I hope you have recovered!

@4knewt505 2 года назад

That's exactly what I'm doing watching it now. Hope you recovered well

@chelleholmes1012 2 года назад

I hope your better!!

@markkinkle7038 2 года назад

Get well soon. Your mending your body and your spirit to. When you are healed, no one can stop you!

@TheMerFree 2 года назад

These women are so gorgeous without any makeup on!

@Smbeeee 3 месяца назад

Iyanla has the wisdom and heart of a hundred souls. What a treasure of a woman.

@KJ.85 2 года назад

This episode is always touching no matter how many times I've watched it. But, it's elevated knowing Dr. Dawj passed away.

@MsJellybean1111 7 месяцев назад

This is my absolute favorite episode, I can’t ever watch without crying😭

@aconi9836 2 года назад

one of favorite episodes. I love the end with the elders. sisterhood is so important and hard to find

@joyafenkhena4933 2 года назад

When Iyanla said NOT ON MY WATCH. I froze up

@bellamonroe7322 2 года назад

She’s very much giving I’ll be everyone’s Mother if I need to be vibes 😂😍

@reneewilliams7425 2 года назад

This woman is golden

@heatherjackson84 5 дней назад

Receiving the wisdom from the elders is truly underrated and strongly lacking in our communities.

@LashayneHampton 2 года назад

I wish I could have saw her reaction to not on my watch 😂 I would have fallen out my chair full of respect ✊🏾 🪑

@kdeloris2225 2 года назад

It was so beautiful watching the six brown chicks get wisdom from the elders 💝💝💝

@James.Payne. 6 месяцев назад

This is one of the best episodes of any TV show/program ever. Thanks Iyanla 🙏🏾

@Gorgeouss_Court 2 года назад

This was one of the most touching episodes I’ve seen.

@Mllascelles1 4 месяца назад

This will always be an iconic episode. It was a necessary and relavant episode.

@Averyveryy 2 года назад

This is good. Glory to God for his love. A lot of women have suffered for us to have opportunities in life as long as we put in the work. We are supposed to be humbled by that, but sometimes we get carried away by our emotions. Because we are still walking around with unsolved old issues, and act like we've got it together.

@lovingmylife528 2 года назад

This comment 💛🙌🏽

@tamekawhitney2049 4 месяца назад

Saving this to my “subconscious training” playlist! My soul needed this desperately. “Suffer or trust me” is a tool I’ll use to hold myself accountable from this day forward

@LeanneRichardson-ix7zt 3 месяца назад

Wow! My family needs this lady! We have so much of hurt going on in our lives we need to heal. This lady is gifted and anointed at what she does... I Love her so much! I've been watching her for years.

@tannsmithp 2 года назад

Wow. Shared this. Powerful in so many ways. Thank u! Praying for the lady who lost her husband and for the health and success of this group.

@melstrr564 4 месяца назад

I’m laying here BAWLING 😭. This episode was genuinely sooo healing to watch. I don’t think any Iyanla episode had me crying this much- just beautiful

@karyndutton8154 3 месяца назад

OMG!!! To be in the presence of elders. I am in tears from this episode. It is a blessing

@Cindy.P 8 дней назад

Iyanla is such a gift. A huge inspiration. Thank you God for giving us Ms Vanzant.

@aaronobryan9715 Год назад

I rewatch this episode a lot…it’s so honest…I hope they finally got to cherish one another…

@cindyharris5442 4 месяца назад

I’ve watched this several times and I cry each time. I’m a hospice nurse. This is so beautiful.

@rebeccabaron1348 3 месяца назад

This was the most emotional and beautiful episode I have watched. The circle of wise women got me.

@tomm.amonde9369 2 года назад

Iyanya. Please continue what you are doing. It is powerful. I'm glued and can't get enough. Plenty people are hurting. They need more of Iyanla's counselling and positive energy.

@jacquelinebrantley208 3 месяца назад

I forgot how good this show was. This episode in particular. I cried the first I saw, and it brought me to tears today. Iyanla is wonderful!

@nyghtnyx 10 месяцев назад

wow to think I found my way here through a meme, only to end up watching the entire episode and bawling my eyes out-this hits home and is so beautiful watch to this day 🙏🏽❤️

@tyruseaves6569 Год назад

I believe that this is breaking the yoke and allowing her to feel the heartache and pain and God is using Iyanla to give her strength.

@Lyvnlyfe 3 месяца назад

This episode I felt to my core. Cried through it all. I understand the distance,hurt and loss of friendship. I am going to make some calls. I miss my friends from loss of communication and life changes. Thank you ladies for being vulnerable.

@ngalajeroline2366 29 дней назад

This is one of the most emotional episodes I have ever watched.

@Walterlopes80 2 года назад

One of the most beautiful thing I've seen on this platform

@andreaholmes5697 24 дня назад

I could sit at Iyanla’s feet all day and just glean from her wealth of knowledge and wisdom.

@TiaRamey Год назад

The best episode I’ve seen so far. I cried my eyes out. Powerful.

@maryjaneondeck7925 Год назад

the young ones face when iyanla was talking was priceless,,,,you baby girl to bring your voice

@yashicascarebrook6851 Год назад

This was such a tear jerker but so worth it. Kudos to all involved for doing the work! Love one another❤

@MadameBumblebee 2 года назад

Now, I'm crying. I wasn't expecting that. And Chicago girls, woo. We take some work but I'm glad they had this time.

@sophiapope7590 2 года назад

Now this episode BROKE me down!!! This was a beautiful experience!!!

@Nana1959. 2 года назад

When you're saying " them " and not putting yourself in when it's a group; red flags!Zondra really felt bad, good work!

@shawnyjohnson4456 Год назад

I've watched this particular episode a few times already and it makes think of my grandmother because I wish I could still talk to her and seek her counsel especially now.

@Ellie80681 4 месяца назад

This had me crying 😭 I’m so proud of these ladies. Iyana is such a beautiful soul. This one really showed me how deep she gets.

@FullyAware___ 2 года назад

This was such a beautiful inspiring strong message these women are amazing all of them and very brave of them to face everything and own their stuff I love Iyanna!!! Thank for this💜💜💜 I definitely cried

@ExceptionalLex Год назад

This is by far the best episode I've ever seen.

@andrewc.2952 2 года назад

Thank you Ms. V for speaking healing words. That is not something I say easily. Thank you.

@leogoddess2473 2 года назад

I have soo much admiration to your gift the world so full of unnecessary pain..we need healing to be open and able to receive ❤ LOVE!!!! And I feel it as an empath.... I wish to be blessed with meeting you one day Mrs. Iyanla ❤💜🙏