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Iyanla helps a mom who left her family for another man. After three years away, she wants to return home. Will her wounded family take her back? (Original air date: September 29, 2012) Watch more of Iyanla: Fix My Life on the Watch OWN app: bit.ly/watchownapp
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@daisyboafo6778 2 года назад

When her husband sipped the drink whiles Iyanla scolded her was everything for me🤣🤣

@CrackberryMe 4 месяца назад

Facts

@zuritribe4844 4 месяца назад

THE SUN FACE WHEN SHE SAID " I NEED TO WORK ON ME" OMG THEY BOTH NEEDED IYANLA TO TELL HER SELF CENTERED AZ SOMETHING 🤦🏽‍♀️🤣😂

@karenmcgee1869 4 месяца назад

Everything!

@misterunknown6185 2 года назад

Iyanla didn't have to shade the dinner. "Shells and meat sauce" took me out!!!

@angelaharrison4314 Год назад

😂😂😂😂

@cierrasme Год назад

I was looking for someone else to catch this

@michelleharris9178 4 месяца назад

😂😂😂😂

@philipzanoni 4 месяца назад

😆😆😆😆😆😆

@karenmcgee1869 4 месяца назад

Lol😅😂

@cam4short Год назад

Seventh attempt??! Lady, leave this family alone 🤦🏼‍♀️

@sylviafranklin67 Год назад

Exactly. I can read through her, she isn’t genuine.

@bluecollarscholarmelrosepa5673 Год назад

@@sylviafranklin67 Hello Sylvia....My coworker who is married to a woman who left him for another man and had a baby by the other man ....He took his wife back and Raised the other mans baby.....😌

@larasky1198 4 месяца назад

She probably goes back home whenever her man puts her out.

@dorahmulinge3800 4 месяца назад

@@bluecollarscholarmelrosepa5673woooow, I reject that kind of "love" away from me

@queenchef__ 4 месяца назад

Lolol STG 😂

@brokgrl85 Год назад

Rich did not want to embarrass her on camera....he was & been done. He was trying just for his boys to heal

@kkain123 2 года назад

Iyanla was like I know they not just sitting here having dinner like nothing is wrong 🤣🤣

@TheTaurean Год назад

18:10 okay! 🤣🤣🤣 why am I here? 🧏🏽‍♂️

@JLPerryTV 4 месяца назад

That’s what you do sometimes when you are hurting… you deny the problem and the pain it causes in an attempt to be okay

@luvmeorhateme9163 4 месяца назад

That's white people for u. ( this ain't a race thing literally just facts)

@Alpha-Angel 2 года назад

When the older son cries, it hurts my heart! His crying is so innocent!

@muzimthembu453 2 года назад

The truth: she doesn't want this life. That's what the back-and-forth is about.

@JLPerryTV 11 месяцев назад

It sounds like the reverse of a selfish married person having affair. They want to stay married to their spouse but also be in a relationship with another person.

@muzimthembu453 11 месяцев назад

@@JLPerryTV Sometimes people have affairs as a way of staying in the primary relationship. If you have a spouse who is great in every arena except, say, the emotional or sexual, an affair can help you get that missing need met and therefore allowing you to stay.

@inaj27 2 года назад

I felt all that pain when Iyanla had to hold another woman’s son and hug him due to the lack of the mother’s broken soul . God Bless you Iyanla for the light you provide

@andrearidgell7350 2 года назад

Damn u nice to look at….. jus wantd to tell u tht🤩

@inaj27 2 года назад

@@andrearidgell7350 🤗 thank u

@Myflopera1 Год назад

@@andrearidgell7350 he rlly is

@RockSokki Год назад

@@andrearidgell7350 no

@MrDaRiAn21 6 месяцев назад

I felt that too…

@nqobilezondi4314 6 месяцев назад

The husband has beeeen done he just doing this for the children and I applaud him

@7crunch Год назад

She’s giving “I want my family back but only if they want me here” like she’s guilting them to want her around when she’s the one who had an affair and abandoned her life and kids. I feel like Iyanla was saying that with the cord activity. Leave them alone. Deal with your guilt on your own.

@bluecollarscholarmelrosepa5673 Год назад

Heaven Johnson u take a lovely photo...yes I like your comment 💯

@AtheneHolder 3 месяца назад

!!!!

@cher4u2day 8 месяцев назад

I could tell that the youngest son saw right through his mother. He didn’t believe her.

@stushk9 3 месяца назад

Yeah basketball buddy kept rolling his eyes like he just know she all CAPPP

@renzoandro7841 2 месяца назад

Am I the only who saw him roll his eyes at her..😮

@MsT_ThatsMe 2 месяца назад

I was hoping someone else saw this. He was completely on emotionally on insufficient funds.

@bp900 9 дней назад

Yeah he is done because he never had a mom sadly. He just saw a woman coming and going, a nanny

@NIKnakNIKKI 4 месяца назад

A black woman will heal this world.

@serpilkaddy1609 Месяц назад

I understand the depth of your comment, and I agree. I pray that your soul is happy, healthy, and well connected to our creator. All my love. X

@NIKnakNIKKI Месяц назад

@@serpilkaddy1609 Ase. 🫂

@tjmichael8773 2 года назад

moral of the story...wherever you go, there you are

@TriniNaddums Год назад

OMG You win the internet LOOOOL

@ajadomonique Год назад

This should be pinned at the top!!

@CashThat4U 4 месяца назад

My ex always said, “ No matter where you go, you take you with you.”

@brianal7143 4 месяца назад

The Wire ❤

@hopemcintosh6998 4 месяца назад

THE ABSOLUTE TRUTH!

@Addic_ 2 года назад

She gives the best hugs in the world....thats called a "mama hug"🥰

@brenale_heartsJesus 2 года назад

Iyanla went for the whole jugular this episode 😭

@nancyiaj 3 месяца назад

Yes.

@CeeTeeUSA 4 месяца назад

This episode stuck with me when I saw it almost 10 years ago. I felt for the husband and sons and didn't like her at all. I still feel the same, she only came back because she got dumped and was desperate..

@karenmurray4608 2 года назад

This woman should not have gotten married in the first place. It may sound harsh but the husband needed to divorce her. This is too much.

@Miss_Loving 3 месяца назад

Why does it sound harsh? Because you are speaking about a woman? If it were her husband who cheated and left the family, you probably wouldn't think it was harsh to say that his wife should have left him.

@dinodagreat1018 4 месяца назад

I pray Caleb finds a loving wife and loving in laws

@rymndry Год назад

When she hugged Caleb and was like “this baby is so wounded wow” it got me because I wish someone would hold me like that 😢my mother was not affectionate with me

@BroadenYourMind 4 месяца назад

Hi. I wish you love and a healed, whole heart. Sending a big mama hug.❤

@rymndry 4 месяца назад

@@BroadenYourMindI appreciate that. It’s been a year since this comment and I am still fighting sometimes

@BroadenYourMind 4 месяца назад

Hang in there.

@normalawson6050 4 месяца назад

Same here. My mother was not affectionate. However, I did eventually come to understand that she was bi-polar.

@ek2137 Год назад

He's a very good man. He deserves much, much more💐

@tyshellwashington-ratcliff4466 Год назад

I am sorry, but I don't see her leaving her husband and sons as a "mistake" babes ...that was a CHOICE.

@shai9256 4 месяца назад

6 times?! Definitely not a mistake

@latorah9570 4 месяца назад

Over here binge watching trying to heal. Little pieces from every episode. It's a process. She is so in your face raw, here get it. I don't care if you like it, feel it, process it, deal with it.

@mjohnson4568 3 месяца назад

Breakthroughs for you. 🙏🏾 ❤

@bumblebee7982 2 года назад

At the end, it's still give ME a hug, not let me give you a hug. She says this twice, each to the 2 men she hurt most. Husband is there but the look in his eye so very apprehensive. Mom was determined to draw ex back into the old, despite Iyanla's strong contradiction, telling by the way she grabs his hand. Mom returned home for her own need, not really anyone else's, hoping to receive love with nothing real to offer.

@umwha 6 месяцев назад

I like how the dog just wants to be included especially at 36:22

@BroadenYourMind 4 месяца назад

Yesss, so sweet❤

@biancaparedes2619 2 года назад

I hope the dad does not take her back! She made her choices! She can still be a mother to her kids though

@loumariagibbs2842 Год назад

She always wants from her family and she never ever gives to her family. 😏

@elly3837 2 года назад

I was sexually abused as a child and I know that I have no business being in a relationship until I have healed 😊💓

@RY-os9vw Год назад

I’m so sorry that you were abused and I wish you all the best in your healing journey. 💜

@loumariagibbs2842 Год назад

I’m sorry.

@maam-yj8ph Год назад

I hope you get the guidance and support you deserve. Thank you for sharing your story.

@BroadenYourMind 4 месяца назад

Sending ❤️

@nomsantuli6023 3 месяца назад

Facts me too😢😢😢

@ellenadams3371 3 месяца назад

She need to go on about her business. Leave those kids alone.

@alexwilde3227 2 года назад

I don't know why i cried when Caleb starting talking, maybe cuz i really felt how he feels

@philipzanoni 4 месяца назад

Not maybe. Truth bowl beloved

@kdeloris2225 7 месяцев назад

I love it when she says "Not On My Watch."❤

@Love1010P 3 месяца назад

Me too 😂😂😂

@cassie133 5 месяцев назад

This is her 7th time coming back... I'm shocked Iyanla is surprised the husband doesn't have warm feelings for her! The husband is having a normal reaction. Why would anyone have warm feelings towards someone who keeps jerking them around??!! And they all can sit around eating like its nothing bc it is nothing.. they expect her to leave again.

@ParisCouture Год назад

So many times in my life I've seen that the "grass isn't always greener" on the other side. We have to learn how NOT to covet what belongs to someone else: another man's wife, another woman's husband, your neighbor's big beautiful house, someone else's career, or their luxury boat and cars, etc., etc. We have to learn how to be content with our OWN blessings and not be envious of the blessings that belong to someone else, having nothing to do with us. What we are often not taught/told is that when we covet another person's blessings, we are also unwittingly coveting their curses too; curses that can not be seen from the curbside or with the naked eye looking in from the outside. I do not want another man's CURSE. I want peace to remain in my soul. I don't want anyone else's family. I love and am thankful to God for my own.

@caramelcosmo71147 Год назад

WELL SAID! That’s what you call wisdom and that only comes with age, experience, and growth!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 God Bless you 🙏🏽♥️🙏🏽♥️🙏🏽♥️🙏🏽♥️🙏🏽

@bohlalenchabeleng1370 5 месяцев назад

Powerful!

@bettykhuboni8758 4 месяца назад

Wow wow ❤❤❤❤❤❤thank u so much for this🎉❤

@sarahratliff482 2 года назад

Iyanla does God's work.

@hopemcintosh6998 4 месяца назад

Yes she does!❤

@fountainmedia4683 2 года назад

Man, Iyanla Fix My Life will definitely be missed. I mean the lady surely knows her business. I truly wish Iyanla Vanzant had chosen to continue on with this show. Unfortunately, she decided to not continue with the show. So many families benefited from watching this show, even the families at home. Families still need the professional guidance she gives that assist's them with bringing understanding and healing to their everyday lives.

@bohlalenchabeleng1370 5 месяцев назад

She discontinued the show because I guess the producers wanted to control how she did her job so she left. She can't help people with interferences.

@tishalee5400 2 года назад

Lol we wanna say she’s broken ? She ain’t dumb. She left to be with another man. Now that it didn’t work she wants to come back ! Selfish lady !!!!

@richbabe7836 Год назад

The look he gave her at the end while saying “sure we can” I almost fell in love ❤️ He’s a good man !!!

@lamp2958 2 года назад

I’m glad he realized his worth.. he should have never wanted to get back with a women who cheated and abandoned him..

@bpavilion8994 3 месяца назад

And her kids!

@evaphillips2102 Год назад

Accountability with love! This woman is a classic matriarch, she will never die.

@bestillandknow46101 2 года назад

That boy was so brave Iyanla saw right through that lady and called her out on her stuff. The Dad has to raise those boys by himself he was doing that anyway by himself because she was miserable and checked out because of her problems. This show was Amazing.

@MrBigtomtom06 4 месяца назад

The younger son is not with the bs.

@mamarha2011 2 года назад

This episode is so important for people to understand that knowledge of self is critical for any relationship to have a solid foundation. Like so many people, I went through it myself. I'm grateful for growth. Any less is a recipe for disaster. My heart aches for the healing needed for her sons. 💔

@Kim-427 2 года назад

Applause to you! I’ve gone through the same process. This isn’t a judgement but a I wish that they would statement. So many people won’t allow the process of self analyzing and cleansing to take place. And I think with many they just aren’t aware that this is needed for healing,peace and understanding in life. What many people do is think that they can just do certain behaviors. For example people think that they can just “act” like a Christian. They think that they can just start being like Christians by going to Church, Stop doing certain behaviors. And then they end up wrestling with those urges to do all the things that they just tried to stop doing. Because you haven’t been delivered and you haven’t really done the work on self. You just think you can do it because you will yourself to. Nope! It doesn’t work like that.But the work on self is really needed by us ALL. Blessings to you!

@sierrahultgren945 Год назад

Damn. I needed to hear that. Exactly what I’m realizing now as a Christian who’s been “good” on the surface her whole life while hiding her issues and doubts. I’ve never been fully honest and it’s killing me

@vanessashimoni6548 4 месяца назад

She came back 6 times and didn’t stay? Ok, I think this woman needs to stop destabilizing her family with her own needs and putting them through the wringer.

@A.Jionni Год назад

I love how Iyanla hugs people 🤎♥️

@MScoachDANI 2 года назад

So powerful, I wish I could see how they all are doing now

@tutwochengtv6768 2 года назад

Why do some of these men violate little girls honestly let alone your own child. Then manipulate and possibly passionately hate on such child victims to protect themselves 😡from their evil actions. Died and left someone damaged emotionally!

@cherolpoole7286 2 года назад

Sometimes children are so broken from sexual abuse; that they are forever broken.

@inaj27 2 года назад

@@cherolpoole7286 and become narcissist to validate and fill their voids

@karenmurray4608 2 года назад

It is so screwed up.

@Myflopera1 Год назад

Disgusting 😭😭

@specialkay4329 4 месяца назад

You'd have to go back to times beginning to ask Fathers that question.

@stephenbishop7962 2 года назад

Wow, what a formidable lady, she's taught herself to survive her own battles and puts it all together to help others with a force of powerful emotions. Brilliant.

@harryschlitz4067 2 года назад

At 11:55, The ex-husband says “He married a 20 year old Woman WITH a child already. Ok Where is Caleb’s REAL Father.??? This guy saves her and he’s being painted the villain ???? WTF.

@antjacksonjr 2 года назад

Ikr. It kinda felt she tried too hard to make that woman a victim in this situation.

@tinekae 2 года назад

Even the dog doesn’t want you back💅🏾 pathetic how hurt people HURT people

@beantehollie5335 2 года назад

I Miss the best life coach ever

@susanseales5039 2 года назад

The mother had to fix her self first..

@specialkay4329 4 месяца назад

When this little boy said " I dont kno if the woman will leave, sp Ive gotta be controlling". I got a cold chill. Wtf yall think most abusers/ killers of woman reasons are ? MOTHER'S! Im afraid for any woman who marries this boy.

@snsn7251 3 месяца назад

Yeah hope he gets counselling

@motherofthreeb6337 4 месяца назад

These parents are setting the boys up for failed relationships. 😢 Mom's narcissist.

@TheTaurean Год назад

Loved how the diversity was on the show in the beginning. It’s interesting seeing how other cultures mask and heal their hurt.

@antjacksonjr 2 года назад

That lady ain’t worth it. She married a nice guy who provided her a life that wasn’t being offered by the men she was really attracted to (ie marrying her even though she already had a child). I honestly can’t feel bad for anyone who willingly takes back a cheater. At some point her ex-husband had to accept that she belongs to the streets

@marilynmoney2771 2 года назад

Children love THIER mom No matter what

@Karen.AboutYou 4 месяца назад

The younger son. Shaking his head while his mom was “ telling her truth “. He was over it.

@angelaharrison4314 Год назад

Lady... Be honest... You don't wanna be a wife, mother OR alone. Go on boutcha biz. She keep coming back and he keepn takn her back bc neither want to be alone. She came and went SEVEN times??? Nah.... Glad they decided to call it quits.

@click_r3da_134 Год назад

Poor Caleb omg🥲

@neldar7 2 года назад

Her dad abusing her didn’t drive her into the arms of another man she needs to prove herself…no taking her back into the house

@a.d.morton4624 4 месяца назад

The NERVE of that chick and I’m being as nice as I possibly can, cause I wanted to call her something totally different 😂💯

@rachelle_banks Год назад

@ 15:50 there was so much tension and hurt and anger that her husband had that you can almost see it. That really got me feeling emotional on their behalf because it's like they did not want to say or express what was going on inside.

@Jimbo56286 Год назад

Iyanla does such a great job at what she does, no wonder she's a lawyer, a healing coach. She fixed many people's lives to see the big picture by showing the truth and not hiding it. After watching this episode, everyone can see the big picture here. She was a young person, single mom, married to a man she wasn't attracted too. She didn't want to live in a small town like that because she has a big city type heart and personality. She wants her life different than the typical small town wife life. So she left, because she needed to find herself in the process because she knew she didn't want life there and with the man. But she wanted to come back into their lives hopping in and out so she doesn't lose them permanently. It's a selfish move and emotional wreck she placed on her and her children but she knows all along she cannot live her life in a small town like that, and she wasn't attracted to him as a husband, and life partner thats why they were divorced. I look at her, she wasn't willing to give up her dream, her lifestyle, her vision, to live a life there.

@jazminami 2 года назад

SMH this woman is soo selfish!! The fact that she doesn’t even get it… I’m sure she left again

@kimorabeat Год назад

One of the sons allegedly did reply in the comments stating she screwed the dad and kids over financially and some other family members and dipped out again to Italy for vacay but hasn’t been back 😢

@cher4u2day 8 месяцев назад

@@kimorabeat☹️

@shanarobinson7672 4 месяца назад

@@kimorabeatoh my goodness. Are you serious!!?

@allisonschneider924 Год назад

How is all of her brilliance at the tip of her tongue at all times??!!! I love Iyanla!!!

@bohlalenchabeleng1370 5 месяцев назад

Because it's her calling.

@jenniferh.7219 2 года назад

Wow, did they stay together after this? While Iyanla is like an angel, but 48 hours is not enough! I can see her pain from her situation growing up with her parents though, not an excuse for other behavior

@mamarha2011 2 года назад

No. They didn't.

@narrstilburyxoxo4658 2 года назад

@@mamarha2011 Why? What happened?

@mamarha2011 2 года назад

@@narrstilburyxoxo4658 At the end of the video it said she moved back in to give the relationship one last try, but it didn't work out. The husband is moving forward with his life with the boys. I don't know the specifics.

@_leomartinez 2 года назад

@@narrstilburyxoxo4658 if you want specifics lmk 🤠 she came into my life by dating my dad and made a big ole mess along the way

@PrettyColorsDoe 4 месяца назад

@@_leomartinezplease spill the tea 😭 what she do?

@stephsays-503 4 месяца назад

Ma'am if you don't gon' about your business and leave those men alone, she doesn't WANT him or those kids.

@elizabethwilk9615 Год назад

Why is it that I don’t believe anything this “mom” says even to her kids.

@RahYisrael99 Год назад

As soon as she opened her mouth I knew she was full of crap. She is for the streets literally.

@murdahmammiez 5 месяцев назад

Its the hair

@eheheh3263 2 месяца назад

@@murdahmammiez 😂😂😂 the hair???

@deronreed2945 Год назад

she's just selfish. or was. The Dad has done a great job with the boys!

@marilynmoney2771 2 года назад

With no time Iyana is bravely trying To model bring a Mom!! Amazing lady

@I.J.N Год назад

Ok this one was hard for me to watch. This mother is the most manipulative person I have ever watched! She has these two amazing boys and the husband that she leaves. Only to return to dryly ask for forgiveness and to be let back in to their lives? She is so lacking in emotion and putting on for the cameras. She is incredibly undeserving of their forgiveness and their love and support. I am so angry for her boys and the husband!!!! I would NEVER let her back into the realm of possibility to be able to hurt those boys again. She is a shame. My heart aches for her oldest son.

@k.e.8834 2 года назад

The exercise Iylana did with the family using the cord was so POWERFUL!!! I hope Amy understood this. Iylana is amazing!!!

@bettykhuboni8758 4 месяца назад

I got goosebumps, sooo AMAZING AND SPIRITUAL IN A POSITIVE WAY!!!

@thomasthetans 7 месяцев назад

I'm sorry but she should just leave and move on. Those three guys are great and their father is a good man but he deserves a better woman than her. Her past has made her manipulative and her kids are hurting because of it.

@wintermistique3399 4 месяца назад

Yeah....I don't like the mom. She just wants a place to stay. They are "safe", but she doesn't care about them.

@Sandramundy 2 года назад

Why was the other son not allowed to speak and get loved on my The Queen Iyanla? Perhaps it was edited out. I can’t get through an episode without tears. I love her!

@Ev3lyz 2 года назад

IAM Blessed with the Knowledge & Wisdom Ms.Ilyana shares in her teaching, episodes of fix my life, Books, Master classes, etc! I miss the wisdom of my Grandmother & Mother.

@ayedicko6452 2 года назад

I know this doesn't have anything to do with this whole thing but I swear the mom reminds me a little of rihanna. I don't know of it's her eyes her mimics.... does anyone else see this or just me lol

@35aturner 2 месяца назад

Mannnnn that oldest boy really broke my heart. His pain was palpable. I pray he got some good therapy and is whole now 🙏

@elizabethwilk9615 Год назад

Guys if you are watching this some family members will disappoint you but I want you to know you can change the cycle when you have a family. Also not all women will do this some of us mothers will lay down our life for our kids. Am glad at least you have your dad.

@emersonmalomar3091 4 месяца назад

WHAT A GREAT MAN THAT FATHER IS.

@lisaferrin362 2 года назад

She is so fake! Nothing genuine about her! She messed up the lives of 3 men!! She left 7 times!!! Wow!! I really feel for the boys! Caleb was clearly broken and in pain.. She couldn't " feel" relate to her own son. Such a sad episode. Iranian has so much insight

@lisaferrin362 2 года назад

Iyanla not Iranian has so much insight!!

@UnbiasedRemarks 2 месяца назад

Potentially 4 men

@JustMe-og2cb 4 месяца назад

This woman is lying about everything, including her childhood abuse very likely. I get the strong sense she said that to deceive Iyanla and to paint herself as the victim who ought not be blamed for anything she has done. Pure callous manipulation and narcissism.

@heather6994 4 месяца назад

I was thinking narcissism as well. The self-centeredness, gaslighting, future faking are classic narcissistic. Traits.

@effiepreston5650 4 месяца назад

Wow I felt the same way.

@TheTia3456 4 месяца назад

Man, I got the same feeling.

@pamelapritchett6579 3 месяца назад

I said the same thing she was to forthcoming with that information. That's usually a very difficult pain to tell anyone.

@angelicacroitoru4946 2 месяца назад

It's hard for me to imagine someone could come up with something like this.

@marilynmoney2771 2 года назад

I don't think other Than my own narcissistic mom Have I ever seen a more Selfish human

@bumblebee7982 2 года назад

Family dynamic ~ The family is there for her. I knew this when they all went out to the car to get her, the husband even opening the car door for her. Thinking this is really strange.

@hops79 Год назад

33:20 ish point when iylana explains why the mom yells and berates her son, she says "she couldn't give you what she didn't have"... and I feel like I want her to do an entire series on that. It fascinates me to the point that I honestly don't believe it when she says "I didn't realize I was to you the way my mother was to me"... I wish I could say "what did you think? When you punched him, yelled and put him down - what did you honestly think was going on? You were breaking patterns?" I just don't get it. I think ppl do know. They just don't. Because it's hard. It's too simplified to say "you can't give what you've never had" because that's just not true.... I never had the love I give my son today, I had to do SO much self work to get here - giving him unconditional love, a love I never experienced. I know it's hard, because I'm doing it.

@Illuminatibby Год назад

Yeah i feel like theres more behind that statement and it would be interesting to see her elaborate on it.

@Amber14333 11 месяцев назад

But thats the point she didn't know what she wasn't taught AND never attempted to teach herself so she could be better fkr her kids. Like you are. Denial is a strong jail for the mind. I am in self healing now but my daughter is 11 my son is 5. And I see patterns from my own mother and not because I wanted to be that way but because I had that learned behavior. I specifically said I wouldn't do things my mom did but here I am. Without that self awareness and desire to change and want to heal, it's pointless. The human mind is just so complicated especially how you are made through your experiences and trauma.

@bohlalenchabeleng1370 5 месяцев назад

That's exactly the point. You're able to offer your kids love because you worked on yourself and found a new way of being so you're able to offer something different. She couldn't offer something she didn't have. Her cup wasn't empty but it was filled with rage and anger so that's what poured out.

@hops79 5 месяцев назад

Is it honestly that hard to offer your kids love? Or just, not beat them? It can't be that hard

@YouCantSeeMee4 3 месяца назад

How can you not melt for those babies?? I just don’t see how you could leave that love behind

@nikkeeiwilliams77 Год назад

She chose to leave got DUMPED!!!!!!! and now you want to come back she thought the grass was greener on the other side but she got over there and Saw it was a dirty- swamp the man she left for didn't take her seriously because she cheated with him she will cheat on him.

@bluecollarscholarmelrosepa5673 Год назад

Nikkeei Williams💯🏆🇺🇲 I agree with your comment🌹

@michellemargagliotti8035 4 месяца назад

I don’t think she knows what she wants. She needs to work on herself, stay in contact with her kids, and find herself. She needs to fix herself. It’s not her kids job to heal her. Dad should move on and find happiness with his boys.

@Her_Self.. Месяц назад

Every man that has hugged Iyanla immediately becomes like a little child suckling. They embrace her as if their life depends on it. She indeed is a healer. 😢😢❤❤

@user-lx3il1nj2u 3 месяца назад

This woman is about herself she comes first in her world

@laurencaulton103 2 года назад

She's revealing abuse and there are no years? Iyanla, how can you believe this?

@murdahmammiez 5 месяцев назад

No years?

@marilynmoney2771 2 года назад

This is so my mother No 💜 HEART except for herself

@RY-os9vw Год назад

I’m sorry to hear that 💔😔

@specialkay4329 4 месяца назад

Damn. Are you and Mom having any kinda relationship? Have you any children? Do they? This has to be the hardest thing to get thru. Is your fam ok?

@sophiethorpe3622 2 года назад

These 2 people are doomed! They’re speaking a different language, from a different place, in a different time.

@got2bjosh 2 года назад

28:07-28:22 Yet another truth bomb!

@Mary-tj1bi Год назад

Get a divorce,let it go,your heart ain't in it and you can't force it,let it go so all of you can live in peace,foreally,can't force her,it's not there!

@shai9256 4 месяца назад

Iyanna’s hugs would break me down!!!