UPDATE 2 : (UPDATE 1 MENTIONED IN THE VIDEO) I want to thank a lot of you for extending support and help. This has been a horrible week that just kept on getting worse. I do not blame my wife for believing Jess. Jess seemed to be a changed person from the girl I broke up 7 years ago. I felt bad about her being in an abusive marriage for almost 3 years with a narcissistic husband. She got her life back together, was doing great with her work and also started her own business. She had me rooting for her too and I was proud of her journey. I could see why my wife liked her. After Jess sent photos to my wife, I tried every possible thing to prove that the pictures were fake. I showed them to three acquaintances who told me that they can help me. None of them were able to find any inconsistences with the photos. I also called my parents and my friend who I met during that trip. My mom saw the photo and recognized that the gym photo was taken in the YMCA gym where my parents go. She remembered that I used their guest passes during that visit. My friend also identified the park where the music festival photo was taken. He confirmed that we had gone there during my visit for a Christmas tree lighting ceremony. Things were just getting really confusing as how photos exist between Jess and I at these venues. Jess on the other hand was comforting my wife telling she did not imply anything when she sent her the photos. She said that she was married at that time, and we just ran into each other a couple of times during that visit. Jess was telling my wife to not overthink the photos and I must have forgotten that we ran into each other. What calmed my wife down a bit was my mom talking to her and telling her that in no world would I hang out with Jess after all the stuff that happened during our breakup. Things got really messy and there was a reason why she was blocked across everything. My wife agreed with her and told me to just let it go. However, it was just a horrible feeling as I did not have any real proof that this was fake, and I was just waiting for the other shoe to drop anytime. I finally caught a huge break last night. My wife decided to not go to her painting night with Jess and friends yesterday and told me she just wants to be left alone and wants to read. I wanted to sit with her, but she told me to go and play with my friends as she wanted to be alone. During our gaming session, I told my 3 closest friends what happened and how there are photos of me and Jess at locations that I actually visited during that trip. The session turned into them bashing Jess (old stories) and how manipulative she is. After our gaming session was over, my friend Jim called me on phone and told me he wanted to talk about something important about Jess. He asked me if I was alone, as he did not want Olivia to listen in. I told him I need to go to a different room. I put my phone on speaker and went in our bedroom where Olivia was sitting and prompted her to stay quiet. Jim told me that he has been in contact with Jess for 3 years ago. He said that she was still married but was planning to leave her husband. They knew each other because Jess was my GF all thru college. The initial conversations were just catching up and Jess complaining about her husband. He told me Jess inquired about me a few times as she had learned I got engaged to Olivia around that time. He said that they have been talking for a while now. Jess also told him about the coincidence that Olivia was in her painting group and how she met me few months ago when I went to pick up Olivia. She told Jim that Olivia came to her birthday and was heavily drinking and flirting with guys. She even sent him few pictures. There were a few with Jess and Olivia together, and then Olivia hugging and kissing a guy on his cheeks. I asked him to forward me the photos and he sent them to me on Discord. Jess told him that I am still the same insecure guy and must be tracking Olivia as I showed up at the bar at 10 pm like a parent to pick Olivia. Jess did not know that Olivia had called me from the restroom to pick her up. Jess made a joke to Jim about how ironic it is that I broke up with Jess because she loved to party and now, I am married to a party girl. I asked Jim why he did not share those pictures with me before. He said that he did not want to stir the pot in my marriage without knowing all the details. I was really mad at Jim at this point and asked him what else did he tell Jess about me. He said not a lot and they barely talked about me. However, Jess was obsessed with Olivia and would badmouth her a lot. So, Jim might have told her a bit about Olivia like what she does, where she works, etc. I asked Jim did he ever tell Jess about our game nights, and he said he has and how Olivia complains about being bored. I told Jim to not tell Jess about our conversation. Jim asked me if I not tell anyone that he and Jess are in contact. He said that his wife might get the wrong idea and he just wanted to reach out because things seem to get really weird in my life. Olivia was listening to everything and staring in disbelief at the photos that Jim shared. As soon as I hung up the phone, she started explaining to me that these were the same guys that Jess called to their table and were buying them drinks. However, she never even stood next to them, let alone hug or kiss them. She also pointed out that her apple watch in the photo was on her wrong wrist. She was also spooked out that Jess knew about her for almost 3 years, and there was no way she did not recognize her when she joined the painting group. Olivia was also pissed at Jim for talking to Jess and backstabbing me for so many years. She pointed out the fact that Jim was missing for one day when he and his family visited us last year. Jim was gone for the entire day and came home late at night because he had to work from his office in our city. 15 minutes after our conversation, Jess messaged my wife and told her that they missed her at the painting night, and she will see her next week. Her level of deceit really gave us chills and Olivia was really worried. Olivia wants to go no contact with Jess, but I am worried that it may not be enough. I also still don't know how Jess knows about what I did when I visited my parents in 2019 and all the locations I went to. I also don't know who else Jess is talking to and sending Olivia's fake photos to show her in bad light. It's really unnerving and I am just thinking about how I should confront Jess and make sure she never bothers us again. Thanks again for all the help from the community and your messages really helped me keep my sanity during this rough week. ***************** LIKE & SUBSCRIBE
Thanks for the update! Don't get why Jim didnt want Olivia to hear what he had to say, and don't get any OP is so mad at Jim. It's not like he was trying to sabotage their marriage; in fact, he was trying to not cause issues by not sending him the pics
@@verygooddeal4436Imagine your spouse cheating on you and your friend knowing for years + having evidence of it without telling you. Wouldn't you be mad too? The photos are fake by the looks of it, but Jim doesn't know that.
@@verygooddeal4436 Because he idly stood by and let Jess badmouth both OP and Olivia while claiming to be OP's friend, and also knowing all the shit OP and Jess went through? He's a terrible "friend" for them.
100% guaranteed. OP is a moron to seemingly not even consider that logical explanation as to how those photos even exist. If Olivia won't listen to his side of the story and if she doesn't believe that the photos are photoshopped then it's already over between OP and Olivia, they just don't know it yet. If she doesn't trust him and treats him poorly then what is he even fighting for? That's not a marriage worth saving. Just cut your losses.
@@mannydcbianco I read OP's comments and he's considering it as a possibility. He's trying to find ways to prove that the photos are photoshopped and show them to his wife
@@Cherry_Pie_Slice Thank you for that update! I'm glad he's considering the obvious, because I don't think he mentioned that logical explanation anywhere in the above story.
Why do people want to be friends with someone that encourages them to cheat? Are they stupid? I truly don’t get it. Unless you are in a toxic terrible marriage, anyone that wants you to cheat is just a danger to your life.
Hmm, so many things are wrong with Jess that I'd move to the other side of the country just to be safe. However, what you can do is fake a divorce and see what Jesse will do. Keep a recorder on both of you and see if she'll try to get back together with you or try to corrupt your wife.
Have a conversation with your wife that you and Jess never met after breakup and is up to her if she believe you and want to stay married, or she believe Jess and be divorced...this way or another you or Jess will be removed from her life, its up to her
mate, she has photo evidence, which if we take the husbands word at face value then they are false, but now its up to him to prove its false, not to mention they didn't sleep together and the wife just appears to be upset he lied to her, not that she doesn't "trust" him.
@@collwyr nope. It is never to the accused party to prove themselves innocent. Again, she doesn't trust him (putting it in quotations changes nothing, little dude) so he should drop her.
@@VRDejaVu LMAO...... the ex stated a fact and provided evidence of said fact, if this was a court of law the defendant isn't going to be like "bruh, trust me, it aint legit" and expect to just get away with it. you are also putting way to much emphasis on "trust" like suddenly she doesn't trust him not to cheat on her, nothing in the video stated that, she was just upset in her eyes he'd rather lie about a chance plantonic meeting with an ex than be up front about it, little dude.
@@collwyr OP literally states it in the comments so you can chill, little dude. OP himself says you are wrong. Now, feel free to go look for your azz that rolled off into the sunset. Its also cool to see i struck a nerve there... Well, as the saying goes: Imitation is the greatest form of flattery mediocrity can pay to greatness.
Update : A lot of people are messaging me in DM offering to review the pictures. I appreciate your help. I am not comfortable sharing the fake photos online with strangers. I am going to have an acquaintance who is a photographer look at them today. I had two people who are digital artists look at them so far and both of them told me they cannot identify anything wrong with the photos. Also, another thing I learned after talking to a friend yesterday was the music concert venue (from the pictures) was a park near my parent's suburb and I did indeed go there with my friend for Christmas tree event. He also confirmed to my wife that he was with me all the time and we never met Jess there. He also shared two photos from his camera roll that showed me wearing a different t-shirt than the photo that Jess shared. My mom confirmed that the gym photo was taken in an exercise room from the YMCA my parents go to. My mom reminded me that I did use their guest passes during that trip. I have no idea what is going on TBH.
