Virtue Signallers are Really Covert Narcissists - Richard Grannon (4K) | heretics. 12 

Hope people come here from my other channel too!

Read the blurb - didn't know RG regraded himself as a narcissist - (only in jest) - but Sam is the self professed NPD + .

​@@AndrewGold1yes we do😏🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

Keep calm and believe your followers will find this channel and vice versa.

​@@extradimension7356 what??

Very good!

Congratulations, sincerely. I have a friend going through the messiest possible divorce his wife can devise b/c he can't be an actor in her play anymore, and she simply doesn't understand that their biggest problem is her totally unrealistic expectations. The resulting meltdowns she's had over the smallest disagreements have been spectacular. You're like a fashion accessory, a handbag, to such a person, wholly subsumed by their needs if you don't fight like hell not to be.

Lol, are you me? I have BPD mother and older sister.

Yes, I had something so similar to your situation, this is why I'm congratulating your decision. All the best.

@@neonwind Thank you x

And the people pleaser shakes your hand and says "Hi. How am i?" 😢

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Ahahahahahaha!!!!

@@shelleykapp9637 Great reply.

No. 😁

Same here…My sibling’s daughter informs me of how her mom still behaves the same way as she did her entire life. My ex is the same, too.

Exactly. My brother is a narcissist and has figure out how to manipulate my parents because it's easy to manipulate them all I have to do is pretend to be a Christian and say my life has changed it's just pathetic at this point and I'm not gonna sit there and play the games my brother does so I stay away from them. Sounds like your teacher is right.

Funny thing is... We can already see is someone a psychopath from brain patterns and DNA. Yet we don't implement these in real life when putting people in position of power. Guess why?

@@mariahconklin4150 You say all you have to do is "pretend to be a Christian" (to please your parents), then that you're not "gonna sit there and play the games", aye? Do you even hear yourself?

@@safeeffective385wickedness Is wickedness it all leads down the same road, hurting others

@@toneyfox6328 Same with pretending to be something that you're not... it's bad/wrong and hurts others as well.

What are blocks?

@@joelhall5124 *block 1* : the area bounded by four streets in a town or suburb. "ours was the ugliest house on the block" *block 2* : the length of one side of a town block, typically as a measure of distance. "he lives a few blocks away from the museum"

@@Tusitala1967 yeah, but in London?

@@joelhall5124 Point. Maybe it's just Andrew being a heretic. ;-)

@@Tusitala1967 I've actually noticed this becoming common, using US phrases or pronunciation, and assume it's because there's a larger US audience for various RU-vidrs. It's still alien language to me, to be honest.

ARE YOU ONE

RG is !

They lie, play the victim and come away thinking they outsmarted the therapist if the therapist doesn't dispute that every bad thing that ever happened to them was someone else's fault. If the therapist does call bs even in the most diplomatic way possible they can be attacked verbally. The good, honest therapists will realise they are dealing with a Narcissist fairly soon and either pass them on to someone trained to deal with them or say there's nothing they can do for them. A bad therapist will just nod along with the hot air, getting paid until the Narcissist gets grumpy that all their problems are not being solved overnight and leaves of their own accord.

@@jelkel25 what if its matt damon from good will hunting, what will happen then prey tell Jell Kell ?

@@FelixLanzalaco Absolutely nothing as that's a fictional character.

That is hilarious!!! Thank you.

Ted talk is for narcissist...and the cultists looking for a cult to follow.

Just in case the plane stopped working…

The helping progessions are very attractive to them. Power over people & social credit.

Depends on their underlying personality, I think. Some gravitate toward helping others (for show) or donating (claiming to donate far more than they do). But others will mock those who do. And generally behave in a sociopathic unapologetic way.

Social work is an absolute hotbed of angry sociopathic woman

Oh jesus! Thats the funniest thing ive seen in months!

Clergy, nursing, social work, teaching, and, most importantly, psychology!

Who said that?

​@@stellaallbright4750I believe Andrew said Voltaire did.

Like racial equality. 'Desegregation' and 'Civil Rights' have been a disaster for the white race.

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I'm so glad! That's exactly why I say stuff like this, as I am so fed up of all of us having to pretend we're not human, and then we feel shame. We're all ridiculous! Let's celebrate that.

@@andrewgoldheretics Aside from the grand question of what it actually means to be human in the first place; we actually don't 'need' to pretend lately because we're actively being dehumanised by our respective governments globally and it's clearly measurable and observable by all. Your guest's mask slipped briefly to reveal his authoritarian streak but there's no telling if the shame he felt was from 'letting on' or from an awareness he's been feeding too long on his own folly. It could have provided an appropriate opportunity through humility to discuss tyranny of the self were it not for your guests very sudden defensive posture. Some are more ridiculous than others, but it's the 'influencers' and those which we give political authority to which deserve close inspection. Let's not forget some have more responsibility than others to be better, and to do better. That is all. Carry on.

This is normal I think (hope).

Same here.

Oh no

Its a good point and it did take me a back. Why bother with the smile bit...if someone is dramatic enough I don't think you need to add the smile, likely the honest no or boundaries will get a reaction..they are coming from a child like place of protest to such things anyway.

I think you make a very valid and important point, and also agree with your view of this "test". (And sorry to hear you went through that - and wasn't surprised when I read that they were psychologists; as a former counsellor, and therefore having known many mental health professionals, my experience is that the mental health /therapy professions are full of sociopaths). And I find it disappointing that neither Andrew nor Richard have replied to your comment.

@@sibanought Well, I seem to have been feeling particularly peevish at their vid. The snark may have been off-putting. The net still gets under my skin sometimes.

I agree.The guy being interviewed comes accriss as passive-aggressive and walks around, triggering everyone by gaslighting them.

@@talkshitko9234 Yes, I've never been able to stomach Grannon. There's something so very 'off' about him. As a survivor of narcissistic abuse, I'm trying to listen to my gut instincts these days, and my gut says 'no thanks'.

Members of Islamic State, the SS, Red Guards, IRA, Rote Armee Fraktion, Antifa, Hamas, Sendero Luminoso, FARC/ELN, SNP, trans ideology extremists, Etc.All the same psychology.

i used to call them 'halo polishers', my mum and sis would get together and every conversation would result in them being perfect and me being a scumbag,

Self-righteous bullies would be more precise.

I prefer to use the word evil. We can make excuses with personality disorders, but at the end of the day, they know what they are doing.

Crybully has seen a lot of use, its a pretty old term.

Haha love that. I’m enjoying it so far so so much

I totally agree with you @stirlingoscar, haven't missed an episode yet on here 🤗

Yes, I agree, a great move. Enjoying this new format & guests 😊

I think this is a better match for your voracious curiosity Andrew! You will enjoy this format immensely and that will draw people in….you seem more comfortable as the interviewer……really enjoyed this video, thanks ❤

I don't understand why it needed a separate channel though. Why not keep it on the AG channel?

An example is when they say they want to do something, or try to blame you. You just smile and say "no" and watch the reaction.

Well said, a test like that could absolutely be really anxiety producing if done wrong. Smile that doesn't reach the eyes as a no is said. The scrutiny of the response. At worst it could come across as chillingly psychopathic depending on how it was done & what was being said no to.

Functional people do not fly into rages and name-calling when confronted with an irrational “out of context” no. Functional people will respond calmly, attempt to explain such as “listen, this is important because xyz/ I can appreciate why you don’t want to xyz, or even a sincere and concerned “Are you okay?”

@@31968cd You're right, except when those functional people are dysfunctional in disguise.

@@31968cd Sure, but not all dysfunctional people are narcissists. What if you perform that test on someone who, perhaps unbeknownst to you, is having a real bad day or week and their request is a means to relax and cut lose that baggage for a moment? If you don't know the context and they react badly, you assume narcissism and then risk them feeling even worse. You can't just be testing people randomly, I assume most understand that but there'll be those who don't, and they'll probably destroy a relationship or worse, because they lack the common sense or empathy to understand anothers position before testing them. I believe that is something Grannon could do more to assert, you have to have some precedent, a solid reason to test them. But then, what do you do after?

What a silly idea. So he literally goes through two or three thousand words before he will debate?

I already know all his positions so I wouldn’t need to watch him debate

We have so many narcissists in positions of power and influence, that people, from children to adults, are all being taught badly. This is by design in the west, it's all down to the globalist takeover.

Quite. That's why I'm never again going to have a dog. Not even one without b*lls.

Because they can. That’s why

What's the appropriate response behaviour to a dog licking its balls?

@@chesshooligan1282 perhaps a good anti parasite protocol.

Me too well described.

@@lew6598 minimizing contact is good... no contact if necessary! I did get into therapy. But to start I recommend the book Mother Hunger. It helped me so much. There are many books on narcissistic Mothers. You need to learn that she will NEVER change! And your boundaries need to be firm! It's so hard. I hope you find some peace. There is also a book called Psychopath Free that helped a lot in dealing with very toxic people.

I've got a twin sister and an ex husband of 13 years. I wouldn't wish them on my worst enemy.

@@mycatsnameiskaren8253 I'm sorry 😞 I will never feel quite as safe in this world after experiencing what I did with my ex. To know that there are actual predators out there that get off on breaking someone in such insidious ways. And until you've experienced it nobody can really understand it, they look at you a little crazy when you try to explain it. I held him accountable and he did two years in prison but he recently got released and it has me on edge. I don't think he'll come after me 🙏🏼 but I know they'll be another Victim, and after that, and after that. 🥺

I'm glad you've managed to heal. I'm really struggling with the abuse and alienation the mother of my daughter is using. I love my daughter so much but I can't even see her 😢

Yeah, if somebody says "no" without elaboration with a smile, in many contexts I would be immediately suspicious that this person is trying something. It really depends on context.

It IS a narcissistic move. That is why it works on narcissists. A normal person will cringe away. A narcissist will flip out!

​@@TheJustinJinteresting

I'm sure that it will get worse before it get's better. Birthing pains

What an amazing guest, man. We’ll get you back soon if you’re available. Thank you!

I’ve followed you both since the beginnings so this was a real treat

I haven't forgotten your psycopathic and unreasonable behaviour. You are a POS.

btw calling for genocide is disgusting; but the act of censoring a person from vocalising their terrible ideas comes at the cost of freedom of thought. Slavoj Žižek is a coke fiend and authoritarian globalist who would unequivocally bring back the gulags for 'wrong think' no less than Greta Thunberg. Try Jordan Peterson (and Stephen Hicks' understanding of Kant's philosophical viewpoints on The Enlightenment era) to get a sense of what being an 'individual' in the face of conformity and sociability might mean outside of the raw power dynamics of political hegemony. Nothing worth doing was ever easy after all. Humble regards.

I appreciate your vulnerability and honesty. I understand more about what is happening in society now. ​​⁠

one of my favourite ever interviews, Richard is an absolute superstar

I wish RU-vid had an audio only setting.

Yes hey!@@RachelDavies-wn7ir

@@RachelDavies-wn7irit does, you need to pay for it

Everyone is “vulnerable” and “traumatised” these days… just picture the English men complaining about all the micro aggressions in their villages caused by the Vikings.. they would have been traumatised I guess, if only they could have tweeted about it then seen their therapists..

You saved your daughters life

Your comment, is a stereotypical situation of the type of words a narcissist would string together. 1. Narcissist tend to call others narcissists, especially their victims...and then portray themselves as the victim, and their victim as the villain. While their victims tend to not do that, because the victims have been thoroughly mindfckd through gaslighting. And leaving is typically very hard for the victim, and it's usually the narcissist who leaves when the other person's no longer a benefit (and the victim begins to ask for reciprocation, says no, questions hings, etc etc). 2. Female attraction has two main components. Security and arousal. Female arousal is also triggered by dark triad traits (hence why women often fall for "asholes", convicts, drugdealers, scammers, etc). Stereotypical Nice guys lack dark triad traits and female arousal tends to eventually evaporate in their relationships (the female begins exploring options, i.e. going out, on trips, missing time, etc...while becoming more and more resentful toward the nice guy). Also, nice guys attract female narcissists like moths to a flame. In other words, if you are a female, then you're supposed to be attracted to narcissistic traits, in ways that make it not easy to leave. 3. It seems like you think narcissists are typically physically dangerous, i.e. "husband ended their family". But typically they tend to torment people close to them emotionally, gaslighting, not taking accountability or apologizing. (narcissists almost never apologize)...they tend to focus more on targetting you emotionally. Nice guys who've been tormented enough are actually more likely to do that "family ended" type of thing. 4. Something can only be diagnosed a disorder if it's interfering with your ability to live your life comfortably. Narcissists tend to be very functional (outside close relationships)...they often do very well in their careers, are dressed well, very sociable, etc. To the point where for some jobs, e.g. CEOs, wallstreet stock brokers, etc, it's. almost a requirement to be a narcissist. Also, they very rarely willing subject themselves to a test. Someone also has to score above 99 (out of 100) to be diagnosed with Narcissistic Personality Disorder...which is very rare and not something that would be "covert". This would be an incredibly extroverted, selfish, unempathic, self-centered, materialistic person who feeds on validation (sympathy from others, adoration, etc.)...they'll be severely addicted to socially media, and would rather end relationships than give up that source of validation. They're allergic to judgement (any kind of criticism) and very solipsistic. This is a pretty extreme individual thats very obvious to notice (because they live in their own little world in their head, dettached from reality) 5. Covert narcissists are not really covert. The name is misleading. Compassionate narcissist is a better description. They're the self-righteous, 'holier than thou' type. You'll definitely notice them. They typically run animal shelters, homeless shelters, NGO's, activists groups, etc...and feed of the validation of feeling "morally superior". Benign narcissists are the closest to actually being covert. Most narcissists are fun, pleasant, extroverted people, with great senses of humor, who make great party guests, as long as you dont form close relationships with them(which is going to start sucking in 3 to 6 months....not years)...they're like parasites if they manage to latch on to you....but fun people otherwise.

@@tylerdurden3722 He was diagnosed by a professional but ofcourse Fight club fan knows best

@@tylerdurden3722 well, I guess the fact he was in the processes of getting rid of me by replacing me with his next supply was happening at the same time may have had something to do with my leaving. However, the fact I found out before he could finish his plan and being confronted (the moment the mask fell) by his docile wife was a bit of a shock for him. I spent 2 years in therapy for PTSD due to his on going harassment and financial threats while I was trying to get a divorce. My daughter, who was physically attack by him, spent the next 6 years in therapy. It took us years not experience panic attacks. So, if I didn’t put this info in my original post then I can understand you coming to your conclusion. In the end, I felt sorry for him as he is a deeply unhappy person.

​@tylerdurden3722 I thought that. There is no way that is a comment written by an actual victim its so vague and "I think I'm meant to say this". Plus the "please know" begging strangers to believe the story is a give away. I used to worry that with all the public knowledge now and videos on these people they could learn to "get away with it" better. They can't. No matter how many videos they watch or what they learn about it they STILL have no option to give themselves away. There is an epidemic now of narc females taking children away from fathers and claiming they are abusive or narcs. Some are of course but nobody checks their crap and just believes them

my mum gets very mad at me when I do or say something right , generous or caring. Last time I told her I did'nt want her to go to a retirement home and was considering making accomodations in our house for her and my dad when the time comes , it was time to have this conversation - the next day she told me all the good she thinks of me : liar, selfish, every dictator name in the book , sometimes she calls me Pol pot , sometimes musolini, sometimes H , sometimes staline, I can't even kill a spider . She does'nt allow me to be a good personn, it's been going on since childhood. I'm happy I got over it, never believed her, and became the personn I want to be, I give all the love I have to my family now, it"s okay. But it's still very painfull, I wish it was'nt.

My mum went right off when I said she was a strong person 😅. Weird. She prefers victim and wild blaming.

Same as my ex, he would complain that I wasn't complimenting enough, and if I did, which I did sincerely, he would get mad.

My first car was a Trans Am. It had the stock muffler and was rather quiet outside but loud from the floor. I often considered "upgrading" it for better sound. It makes the driver think he has more power. Glad I never did that as now I've come to hate these idiots with straight pipes, flart cans, hopped-up oil burning diesels. They love to romp on the gas when passing my house, for no reason than to make noise. Tbh, if they cant hear the exhaust as it is, its probably because it exits behind the vehicle. They should route it into the cab, and take a nap sometime.

@@TheJustinJ 😁❤️🙏

@@TheJustinJTrans Ams sound amazing. I have PTSD and don’t mind the low rumble of cars like that or Harley’s. Its the freakin Chads in some busted Honda usually that get right up on me and the muffler sounds like someone shooting a gun at me. Uuugh. They actually get girlfriends that way?! 😂

Or having loud music play everywhere you go. Every. Single. Place. Every restaurant, every store, every car, every house, every workplace. And it's never just subtle elevator music. It's obnoxious pop music, and half of it is about sex. I need the reverse of a hearing aid.

Brilliant yes. I love listening to him.

People give them a pass because they view them as harmless eccentrics.My way is to not give them attention.

Ahhh here we go, the victim olympics… everyone you don’t like is a “narcissist”, just because people like what they look like doesn’t mean you need to get jealous, just means you need grow up and get yourself a backbone!

@@razadaza9651 you know nothing about this , or me. I dislike plenty of people who are not narcissistic. I was just referencing this example as it is apt for the topic of the video. I have a backbone thank you.

@@jonntischnabel I know what makes you “miserable” you already spilled your guts in your victim olympics show.. I think you haven’t really understood a lot of the podcast.. everyone is throwing the word narcissist around these last few years.. listen stop blaming other people and take accountability.. life is hard for everyone, grow a backbone please

Is it just me or is there something suspiciously narcissistic about this comment? Is the phrase “is it me or…..” suspiciously narcissistic? Fck it!! It’s too bloody hard at this time of the morning.

Therapist in practicum here and I can tell you clients sometimes misquote us. More than once have clients told me: "I told them Lynncrf said X/Y/Z" and I never said any such thing but they wanted to be able to use me in support of their aims. It's usually not maladaptive, but sometimes it is.

He lied

No how we behave is our own actions...when I go hiking I yell at the bikers that's on me lol so I don't go hiking anymore so that I don't be an ahole. See my actions and no one wants to be around an angry person but the hiking trail is not for me too many people. You can't make someone behave in a certain way my boyfriend has also used that toxic response and I'm sure I have also. Sorry you went through that.

Woah that is wise!!

The faultiest one is the enabler, who finds excuses for the unforgiveable. I can't agree more, but not always easy to know that's your role in a relationship! Six years after leaving my marriage, I finally see it for what it was! I didn't recognise I had a narçissist marriage until quite recently. It's helpful that I now know I can do some work to deal with my weakness re: being attracted to a series of narcissist men. Pre-conditioned to it by my up-bringing I suspect! An 'empath' inclined to wanting to help the 'poor narcissists of this world's! It's sad really!!! 😮😢

@@MaryannMouritz-ir1oj you found the right reason but you blame the false cause. or maybe you are. I have the same experience, and of course we are caught in the karpman's triangle, but this is the consequence, not the cause. if I let all these happen it's because I needed love and attention. I didn't want to loose that supply from my husband so I found excuses for his wrongdoings. I didn't want to confront him because I was afraid to loose his love. I didn't know he just played me and didn't love me even for a minute. the supposed love I protected didn't exist. I reacted like this because of my narcissist parents: didn't have love while growing up, so I hopped I'd find it in my marriage. I was ready to do anything for that. anything. even enabling the unforgivable. one of my friends (also a narc's victim) told me: as long as you will try to replace your parent's love by someone else's, you'll be a narc's victim. because this need of yours create a vulnerability in your defense mechanism. you must embrace the fact that you will never get that love back. what your parents didn't give you cannot be replaced. it's lost forever. you must embrace it and go on. this helped me a lot, so I thought it can help you too. we have no choice but go on with our wounds and our unfulfilled needs. and if you really want to be happy, your first step is to recognize what you did wrong and why you did it wrong. I am not saying you are guilty of something. I am saying you have to face your flaws the harshest way if you don't want other people to use it against you. it's sad, but it's the world we are living in.

Same here! I have both autism and ADHD. Sometimes people thought I was a bit pretentious but I always say " oh no, I'm much too beautiful to need to be pretentious!" Works every time!!

Ooh these types find older age hard as they lose their power over men and have nothing of value to offer to society…

How about “mental masterbation” or are you too “narcissistic” for that? Who knows?

Narcissism is a new age social construct theory to put evil for good and good for evil. This video has nothing to do with classic psychology. You see how loosely narcissism is thrown around these days? Everything one does or doesn't is tied to "narcissim". It's the bread and butter of these podcaster wanna be "doctors". It's a crafty tool.

you are welcome - I can't tell you how proud I am of this one, he was brilliant

Me too

Well… a sympathy comment here is it? Listen to Richard carefully now… we don’t want victim olympics here

He is very self confident in his views. He's a blowhard though. He talks about Freud all the time for instance. A cocaine using, misogynistic "therapist" from the late 1800's whose ideas were unscientific and largely discredited now. Plus grannon is always taking about the "shadow" when he mentioned Freud. The shadow side is a concept from a contemporary of Freud, called Carl Jung. Don't fall for grannon's narcissistic self aggrandisement. Listen to him if you must, but take everything he says with a large grain of salt. He doesn't know nearly as much as he makes it seem that he does. He's had many RU-vid channels and many "specialisms" but seems to officially shed his old ones and creates a new persona. This is just his latest one. How do you think he knows so much about narcissism.... Maybe it's because he's a narcissisist and thrives on the energy he gets from views on RU-vid 🤣🤦🏻‍♀️ He'll lap up your adoration!

How stunning and brave you are, I'm sure we will build statues in your honor because as we all know political activism is always pure and can never promote something bad; Nazism, Communism, racial theory, and all the political activists that championed them deserve respect because after all like you said, it's hard work.

A disproportionate number of psychiatrists, therapists, and others are narcissists. Having an educated public undermines these narcissists' unfair and undue control.

They are not going to out themselves and derail their gravy train.

@@bristolcorvid8894 I have a neighbour a few doors done who is a Therapist. Most of the neighbours are fine. He however is incredibly selfish and devious. Causing a real inconvenience and potential threat to life for others. Unbelievable for someone you would think would be caring.

They're intraspecies? Can you please elaborate as I'm genuinely trying to understand this phenomenon.

@@rachelcoisnacoillte6023 He means predators who prey upon their own species. Like humans.

Could you tell me approximately where that moment was in the conversation?

What does being American have anything to do with it ?

Megan Markle? That lady who thinks she's black?

I didn't like her from the very first time I saw her and heard her. I am an INFJ and can spot dark tirade trait people easily. They just give a bad feeling. Her smiles seem very insincere, often not reaching her eyes. She appears to try to hard. To try to seem too compassionate. Then the interview in Africa. She seemed so fake. The tears, the thank you for asking how I am. All too much and too fake. My mom and I had never talked about her but the day after the wedding my mom said she just didn't like her and I agreed.

@@richardk6659 Perhaps you’ve heard of the “ugly American”? As I’ve said, I’m American and now also Australian and the first time I went overseas in my early 20s, I noticed how much Americans speak, and how many more questions we ask than other people in tours. I was somewhat embarrassed by some of the louder tourists and began to notice that it seemed to be consistently Americans. I found myself curbing my enthusiasm and brashness while I was overseas. In my mid 20s I married and immigrated to Australia and became involved in an American women’s charity. This gave me the opportunity to speak with other Americans and compare notes about how we felt we fit in. Many were also married to Australians. I found that older people didn’t like Americans very much and after I had lived there for a number of years people forgot that I was American, and they would say unfavorable things about Americans and America, while being unguarded, and this gave me insight into how we were viewed. Of course I also had Australian family and they were not hesitant to knock American culture, American politics, the American economy, etc. So when Harry and MM were interviewed for their engagement, I realized how much older she was than the age I was when I immigrated. I noticed how she did not let Harry speak much. She seemed brash and I couldn’t imagine her fitting into a very structured and ancient institution. Many of the Australians I knew early in my time when I moved here were recent immigrants from the UK. Some were first or second generation Australians and much of the language and customs of Australia I believe are quite similar. Knowing what I was like when I began as an immigrant and what I have become, I could not imagine her being able to put her ego aside and learn from those around her. She was 10 years older than I was when I left America and I had a very strong impression that she would not be able to remain in the UK. I didn’t think she could be flexible enough to fit in as well as keep her mouth shut and listen and learn. In my mind, she would be the typical “ugly American“. It was only by sitting back, watching and learning that I ultimately was able to accept my new home, adopted family and make a very happy life for myself and my children. I love Australia and Australians. It was a wonderful decision, and I feel very fortunate that I had the opportunity.

Well there you have it. I don’t mind phones I mind dating apps

Thanks so much! I put so much into this, and the next six episodes. Hope you’ll enjoy them too.

Aw thank you! I think it's about building a channel with a viewer base that thrives on quality. My previous channel thrived more on sensation, so I created this one to be closer to my passion! Hope you keep enjoying.

​@@andrewgoldhereticsI like your other channel aswell, because it isn't you who's making it sensational. You always try to look at all sides. It's more the ppl who are watching and commenting who sensationalise, although not all of them thank goodness 🤗

Delicate balance is an art. I also suffered long standing psychological pain. During covid I'd become an activist in the truth movement and in many ways rightly so, but the temptations to project ones pain and inner voids onto any situation is great. But to speak truth about wicked things without attaching one's pains to it, making it into a personal drama, is a noble thing.

​@@Mika-El-an activist in "the truth movement" ?!!? - I'm guessing that translates as "trying to force wacko conspiracy theories onto the sane people" ?

“Original”? Hey..?

@@razadaza9651 do you know I guess you’re right I mean I wasn’t there when he was a bouncer I bet he had fans then. 🙃

@@noklarok he provides valuable self defense principles based on mastery of physical and psychological defense skills from decades of work study and thought. Competencies in client care are not only obtained through a degree, there are also many licensures which are client contact based. Long response short he has the client hours and success to back what he is saying, and his practices are successful and helping people to care about their own invest interest. So I will. Thanks.

Borderline and narcissism are not the same disorder. Can have both at the same time. Same cluster. Not all borderlines are narcs though.

often a huge overlap though. The few borderlines I've known all seemed to be pretty narcissistic. Like REALLY lol. Although I can see how they could exist alone@@JustinaJayne

Love that! Thank you

As a New Zealander, I have to agree with your final statement. Blatant racism against white people and blatant misandry have become absolutely rampant here.

Hmm sounds like you didn’t really listen to Richard… what did he say about liking these podcasts?

​@@razadaza9651I don't enjoy the taste of medicine or like the feeling of a needle in my arm. Yet it still sooths

Thanks for tuning in Victoria!

Worrisome? Why?

Glad you enjoyed it!

You lived how many years and came to see sanity from a so called narcissism guru?

@nildaluridriiguiz - In modern times, most people lack the ability to speak truth. Are you one of those individuals?

@@Michelle-xm6no it depends what you define as truth. It seems like you've already made up your mind. Therefore, I don't need to cast my pearls to swine. I hope that is enough to answer your asinine question....

@nikdaluzridriguez - I simply asked a question. It is you who made insults in both your comments. Of course no need to answer my question, as you already have.

Soul sucking? I guess you had a gun to your head and was in chains in a basement

Chill out mate. You don’t sound particularly kind right now. It’s Christmas GOOD WILL TO ALL PEEPS 🎄

You miss his deeper self.

You are not the only one that think she is obnoxious....many people including me feel the same way.

I see what you mean. I work with ND kids. It’s hard for little kids with autism to label emotions. Biting is a sensory thing. I bet the environment he was in was way too over sensory or there was something physically bothering him. I have ADHD and I’m sure a lot of people thought I was narcissist and applied sign 2 “yawning at your story”. I mask because I’m always scared that the person thinks I don’t care and I don’t want to hurt their feelings. It’s happened a few times when I wasn’t diagnosed and not masking, of family or friends storming off because I changed subject and it seemed unrelated to them. Often I was listening but in my head it got me thinking of something else, and it got me think of something else, and it got me think of something else etc. I dislike small talk too. I want to get the task done because my focus won’t be great if it drags on. I’m direct and I have such a hard time with “sugarcoating” and I don’t understand when people don’t simply say things. I don’t know Greta enough but I know that she doesn’t fly planes and crossed the Atlantic on a small boat. That’s not something any celebrity giving environmentalist speeches does. Like when Dicaprio flew in a private jet to accept an environmental reward … 😆 I think she’s a love child of narcissists and being used in the end.

@@msch7620 i think that you would fit right in with the Dutch. We don't like to sugercoat things, we like efficiency and purpose and yes we are very direct in our actions and words.

@@jolandafrijlink6103 I’m French brought up by Italians. The mess. 😂 I love the Netherlands. When I was younger I wanted to live in Leiden. I live in Anglo-saxon Canada. Girl, it’s terrible with them. They like boasting that they are so polite and they are like the Brits x10. I mask my trait and say “I’m French” but I already struggled in my own country with communication and social cues.

@@msch7620 😁😁 so it is your " get out of jail pass" when you say you are French...poor French they already have the reputation of being stuck up. Leiden one of the oldest cities and also has the oldest university of the netherlands. I follow a canadian sheep farmer her name is Sandy Brock very educational on how she runs her farm.

Thank you! I’ve always made this a priority - too many presenters are focussed on sounding clever, so I want to make sure everyone can understand.

Our pleasure! I love these thoughtful comments too, thank you