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@zoeunlimited 11 месяцев назад

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@sippinlean277 2 дня назад

Please turn to Jesus he loves you so much and wants a relationship with you

@ahmarindungu9010 11 месяцев назад

Girl dinner looks like when moms say they’re full but the really just ate the scraps from the meal they were cooking us

@marymurphy1877 11 месяцев назад

I thought girl dinner was supposed to be our like most least effort food. like me making nachos with leftovers and calling it dinner

@gabrielalampreia 11 месяцев назад

Me too

@briannalikesbooks 11 месяцев назад

thats all the ones I’ve seen

@alfiona7951 11 месяцев назад

Same! I live alone so I relate to the quick lazy meals. I'm so confused.

@Najeetatika 11 месяцев назад

That’s what I thought it was like my girl dinner is a thing of Ben and Jerry’s that I forgot I had😭

@Akisclov 11 месяцев назад

That's literally what it is. Or just a weird combination of food that the person really likes.

@sofiii___10 11 месяцев назад

this trend started as a funny way to show what girls EAT for dinner. I remember watching this short videos and feeling represented on them because I also eat whatever I find in the fridge but sadly ‘girl dinner’ became a bunch of tiktoks showing nothing but a glass of water as dinner. Is so sad that a lot of young women think that not eating is the same as having dinner and normalize it.

@briannalikesbooks 11 месяцев назад

yea I thought it was supposed to be a funny trend not what it turned into

@StarWars_TheFan 11 месяцев назад

Ik, that’s why momma taught me how to eat😅

@MsLinoi 11 месяцев назад

Somehow these trends always turn into something toxic as soon as they get picked up by the algorithm 😅

@liilykh4n 11 месяцев назад

Somedays my girl dinner is a cigarette, a laxative powder and a jar of pickles… other days it’s a big ass sharkcoochie board. Thats the reality of girl dinners

@silh3345 11 месяцев назад

Yeah in the beginning it was just a relatable trend to show how it’s okay not to cook a full meal when you’re too lazy. As someone with adhd I often lack the attention span to make “proper” meal the original trend was very validating because I too often go for lazy dinners. I often throw some cheese on top of leftovers and heat it up in the microwave and call it dinner when I’m too lazy to cook from scratch. That’s what the girl dinner trend was intended to be about until it got over saturated by ed content.

@r.8902 11 месяцев назад

girl dinner is literally just what my depression dinners were. i dont understand why this is romanticized lol

@Justthinkitsophie 11 месяцев назад

Yeah so people leave you alone as well lol

@Likelymeesk 11 месяцев назад

Because it’s the reality of a lot of people. I cook for my entire family elaborate meals, but if I’m only cooking for myself I’ll grab a slice of ham, and some random leftover, maybe a dessert that I made earlier that week and call it a night.

@annetteareid4128 11 месяцев назад

A friend was complaining her housemate was eating an icecream for breakfast... I defo did that when I my depression was really bad

@silh3345 11 месяцев назад

Personally it’s quite similar to how I “cook” when my ADHD is extra bad which is why I actually find it somewhat validating to see others making lazy “meals”. I feel less pressured to put together “proper” meals when I’m not in the mood to do so. However I don’t like how the ed community on tiktok took the trend to show off how little they eat and find that aspect of it pretty toxic.

@Likelymeesk 11 месяцев назад

@@silh3345 at the end of the day, nobody is cooking for you, so it’s valid to eat whatever’s easier

@Niki-so6bf 11 месяцев назад

I kinda saw this trend as also being a result of the rising cost of living and not being able to afford enough groceries.

@ShawtyShmackin 11 месяцев назад

This! Thank you! Thats my case😂💯

@tymac9127 11 месяцев назад

If this is what Americans are eating then i guess we're not eating in the rest of the world 😂

@SamRabbitx 11 месяцев назад

It's literally not that deep! How many people wanna put in the effort to make themselves a whole ass meal just for themselves? I have a feeling single men eat similarly to this but they don't put nearly as much online as women do.

@mossonthenorthside 11 месяцев назад

That feels super valid as well. They kind look like college student meals!

@progamndocoisas4407 11 месяцев назад

@@tymac9127 poor Americans exist. 2nd, how do you know they're American?

@Honeyslider__ 11 месяцев назад

I think I needed a trigger warning for how much I would hear the "Girl Dinner" song.

@KittySnicker 11 месяцев назад

Same here lol. I winced every time

@kianaw.8096 11 месяцев назад

i was literally thinking this 😭

@MeiKasai 11 месяцев назад

I remember when I was 25 and in a grocery store and I saw a mini-cake and went "I'm an adult. I can have that for dinner." It felt liberating. Now, I don't do that everyday but goddamn if that wasn't one of my most memorable meals. It made me feel like such a rebel. 😅

@nad-ia-8069 11 месяцев назад

I didn’t see girl’s dinner that way. For me it was a great concept, allow me to explain. As women, wifes and mothers, we are expected to cook delicious and nutritious meals for others and healthy balanced meals for ourselves. So girl’s dinner for me sounds like a rejection of norms. Normalizing eating whatever you want, no matter if it’s healthy or not, as opposed to our « duty » to cook for everyone.

@lxvezaya 11 месяцев назад

Here is the thing there are some videos where they are making it look like eating very little is normal,(for example just a gum for dinner, which I understand not eating a whole ass buffet since I don't eat a lot for dinner myself, but a gum for dinner should NOT be normalized)when it's obviously not

@nad-ia-8069 11 месяцев назад

@@lxvezaya that’s a very interesting debate. For me there’s a distinction between something that occurs a lot therefore is shown a lot and representing more of something than there actually is to purposely shift mentalities. I feel like the TikToks we saw in the video weren’t praising their small proportion nor demonizing eating a lot so I’m quite 50/50 on that matter

@selmaice 11 месяцев назад

the trend started out as a "no cooking dinner" where you just ate a bunch of random things together instead to, like you said, reject norms of women cooking all the time. but the trend has changed and been taken over by girls eating nothing/really unheathily instead of the original intent of just not cooking.

@nad-ia-8069 11 месяцев назад

@@selmaice I see !

@shreyaadani694 11 месяцев назад

yesss

@Yeodoongiiie 11 месяцев назад

that "girl dinner" song is obnoxious like make it stop 😭

@thatsydvicious 11 месяцев назад

Haha it’s going to be stuck in my head for the rest of the day

@Wolfiewolf1234 11 месяцев назад

Dude the girl dinner audio made me so uncomfortable everytime I heard it. I hate it 😭

@victoriaminjeur7856 11 месяцев назад

Same lmao 😂

@KittySnicker 11 месяцев назад

It is SO GRATING!

@transaryan 11 месяцев назад

I’m pretty sure “girl dinner” is just a joke. It’s not about normalizing unhealthy eating. It can’t be because it scrutinizes a phenomena among women that is already normal. My mom and sister have always eaten like this when they are too tired or lazy to cook. There’s literally a “guy dinner” meme where a dude moves a bunch of trash and beer cans off his bed to reveal old pizza. It’s just a joke, and the fact that its unhealthy is already presupposed by the joke.

@Orangelemon167 11 месяцев назад

A lot of ppl (Younglings) take these jokes seriously, some criticism is necessary

@madlyclumsy5910 11 месяцев назад

It started as a joke (and for most people it still is), but has gone viral and it has reached the wrong audience, they have turned the joke into a tutorial that may affect impresionable young girls who are still building their perception/knowledge of the world and their role in it. That's what's dangerous.

@L-tb9kk 11 месяцев назад

@@Orangelemon167its not our fault that people take things seriously

@MissFunky98 11 месяцев назад

As someone with depression and adhd I can follow sour arguments but girl dinner just has been too accurate in depicting my eating habits.

@rachael5807 11 месяцев назад

Right? Adhd executive dysfunction dinner

@rzgre7611 11 месяцев назад

@@rachael5807ED dinner but not the regular ed

@FiestyForce 11 месяцев назад

Same

@MelodyInTheChaos 10 месяцев назад

Same

@elinat2414 11 месяцев назад

I would say that there is a big difference between a lovely charcuterie board with crackers, fruit, meat and cheese (which is a lovely low effort dinner option if you don't want to cook), and literally eating scraps of food not sufficient for survival. Also while it is NOT healthy to go to the extreme and eat scraps, there is something to be said about modest portion sizes; especially for shorter women that aren't super physically active. As a 5'4 woman, if I eat three full meals a day, I will usually feel overfull and gain weight. Sometimes a bit of fruit or crackers is all it takes to hit the spot when I'm hungry and it's not time for a meal yet. I do not need as much food as someone that is taller and/or more physically active. Our view of portion sizes are so distorted by constantly seeing massive meals, especially when we eat out. I just don't like how Zoe is constantly smug about women not eating enough, when everyone has different nutritional and dietary needs.

@LotusesGalaxyOcean 11 месяцев назад

I don’t think she is smug personally. Its more the issue that this trend is a bad idea for most. Just as an example myself I could not do those charcuterie boards shown.I am 5” 6” and a healthy weight. I am not very active right now. I would essentially need several slices of bread and probably a very large chunk of cheese and meats to get full or even kind of close to full. I am a pretty everyday average height and weight. So looking at the size of those boards I would probably need to triple them in portion even if I was looking at a reasonable sized one that she showed. I find this trend creepy also because I have become very aware of how different foods make me feel due to their nutrition. Everyone has different requirements but to me it is about how easy these meals would be to do in an unhealthy way. It defeats the point because to me what would make sense is very simple easy meals that still taste good. Stuff that is a great hack so that people can keep on hand for lazy days. For example sometimes I will cook a large pot of rice and then keep it in the fridge. If I cannot decide what I want to cook I can easily add cheese, eggs and vegetables to that and make a bowl of it for dinner by just microwaving it. Oatmeal cup muffins, a few boiled eggs and a some fruit…. You get what I mean. Solutions that naturally encourage healthy delicious choices is what I don’t see much of in this trend.

@dotcom3015 11 месяцев назад

@@LotusesGalaxyOcean I agree more with swell entertainments take on girl dinner. It’s hard to take Zoe unlimited’s diet videos seriously after watching the trolleybolley video about her hypocrisy

@stalemouldybread 10 месяцев назад

nah i see it too every video of hers has this overly confident kinda borderline superiority complex about anything and everything diet related which made me not watch her stuff anymore lmao

@zsannab.2157 11 месяцев назад

I can't go to bed hungry, but I also can't sleep well if I eat junk before going to bed. As someone who lost weight because of health reasons, I think that having some ham and vegetables or fruits for dinner is perfectly fine.

@LeilaleilaZ 11 месяцев назад

Thank youuu

@MelodyInTheChaos 10 месяцев назад

Yeah I don't believe in eating big heavy meals. It's just not healthy. Espeically as we get older. If I eat a lot close to bedtime I get horrible heartburn. I go by my grandparents mantra "eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a pauper" also I interment fast so I typically just don't have dinner.

@Mr.WalterH.WhiteSr. Месяц назад

I mean that is fine because it has nutrients and protein but only eating some crackers provides little to no nutrients for food. I don’t eat that much for dinner because of stomach issues but you still should eat something that provides nutrients

@SamRabbitx 11 месяцев назад

I think people read WAY too far into girl dinner. It literally was just a way to document how women eat when we can't be bothered to cook a full ass meal. If I don't cook for me and my husband, you bet your ass I'm eating an apple cheese and some Pringles. I'm far too lazy to make myself an entire actual meal. I think commentary girlies like Zoe and a couple of others have put waaaayyyy too much meaning into it. It's stupid and silly. It's not patriarchal, it's not women fighting to survive. It's literally not that deep This also feels low key shamey to women who are too lazy to make 3 full meals for themselves every day. Let girls be lazy.

@radiosilenve 11 месяцев назад

i’ve only been on kpop tiktok for the past few months and have only heard of ‘girl dinner’ as a way to call someone hot, but the way this actual trend is developing is quite disturbing

@elzx876 11 месяцев назад

Social media first convinced an entire generation of women that we all need to eat just 1,300 calories no matter what our size and height is, now this??

@user-tv2iq9kd9q 11 месяцев назад

Already 30 years ago we had diet books with 1000 calorie menus and this is also what was published in women's newspapers, I think today there is more awareness that it is not healthy

@elzx876 11 месяцев назад

@@user-tv2iq9kd9q I wasn’t aware of these 30 year old 1000 calorie diet books, thank you for sharing this. Sadly, I’m not at all surprised. There is more awareness that it’s not healthy, and it’s easier to find resources online to educate people on what’s actually healthy, but I worry these low calorie diets that are far below most women’s BMR are becoming so normalised that more and more women aren’t questioning it.

@MelodyInTheChaos 10 месяцев назад

Nope not social media. This is nothing new. 30 years ago I was convinced I had to be under 1,000 calories by the magazines, books etc. It has always been pushed for decades and decades that women are supposed to eat very little.

@laweafome528 11 месяцев назад

The trend is NOT shaming anybody. it's just a joke of being too lazy to cook a proper meal.

@tannajoy_ 11 месяцев назад

The sleep for dinner is a economic thing more than a ed thing. I’ve never had sleep for dinner because I wanted to, but I understand what you are getting at. We should all watch how we say things cause the kids are watching.

@xxxarimaxxx 11 месяцев назад

No way I'm ever eating orange juice cereal for dinner💀

@stephiem09612 11 месяцев назад

Nah cause actually I'm Puerto Rican and have a fast metabolism but I eat like crazy

@alfiona7951 11 месяцев назад

I live alone I'm not gonna cook a 3 course meal. I just ate instant noodles and an egg and I'm good. I 'm also a poor I can't afford to cook like a woman who has 3 kids. This trend was just for fun! Girls who just wanna eat a lazy meal that takes 2 mins to cook cuz they're lazy. Am I the only one who saw it this way?!

@HighAsHeckPriestess 11 месяцев назад

I guess it's because there's a difference between eating a lazy meal and a person who thinks a glass of water qualifies as a meal.

@alfiona7951 11 месяцев назад

@@HighAsHeckPriestess Ok that makes a lot more sense cuz I didn't notice the crazy diet ppl took over the trend. Ugh this was the only trend that spoke to my laziness & now it's been Highjacked! It used to be so innocent and dumb.

@FromXytoz 11 месяцев назад

Yeah that’s why Zoe mentioned in the the video that this trend can have good interactions but it’s also important to question, then why is the “boy dinner” and “husband meal” being stereotyped much more nutritious and healthy?

@juspa8284 11 месяцев назад

it's not that deep, nobody's making y'all eat like this😭😭

@mossonthenorthside 11 месяцев назад

As an autistic. I felt seen by girl dinner at first. It was nice to see that others had the same kind of food as me sometimes. Cause most of the time, unless someone is cooking for me. All I can manage is to just pile on my safe foods cause those calories are better than no calories. Sometimes it's hard to eat but we all need to be doing our best to nourish ourselves. Even if it doesn't look the same for everyone 😊

@MelodyInTheChaos 10 месяцев назад

Yep. I have autism and adhd and this how I've always eaten. I see nothing wrong of it.

@blackspace007 11 месяцев назад

I'm becoming more and more convinced that this newer generation is mentally unstable/ It's not just stress from the shit society puts on everyone. It's all this weird new crap they create.

@pinkroses135 10 месяцев назад

Something

@lkf8799 11 месяцев назад

I eat like that when I don't feel like cooking. Definitely eat cereal for dinner when it's too hot in the summer. It's picnic food.

@NightshadeGoddess 11 месяцев назад

What they eat as a dinner is my snack for in-between meals, i'd feel starved if I ate that little...

@mii-sanch.939 10 месяцев назад

Eventually, once you're so hungry, you don't feel hungry anymore, just tired...

@percivallavoie4415 11 месяцев назад

Lmao am I the only one who finds the sound-byte soooooo annoying 😂

@annas3076 11 месяцев назад

Its soooo annoying

@KittySnicker 11 месяцев назад

It’s ridiculously irritating

@HighAsHeckPriestess 11 месяцев назад

Its neurotypical folks with shitty self esteem who ruined the trend. Neurodivergent girl dinner makes sense. Im autistic and i struggle with depression. Some days im too depressed to eat a good meal, sometimes i just dont have the energy to cook when ive been masking all day. Some food textures and smells are nope even if i like the taste, so i go weeks without a vegetable.

@anarchyneverdies3567 11 месяцев назад

I’ve found some good recipes to disguise veggies so my very picky kid will eat them- shredded carrots (I buy them shredded) in meatloaf, chicken nuggets that ares either plant based or the ones with chicken and veggies mixed, potatoes with veggies like squash or something mixed in, etc. I have to Google recipes every time but it’s really helpful if you don’t want to taste or feel something

@cma.ksiezycowa 11 месяцев назад

Yea, honestly "girl dinner" was relatable to me bc i struggle with executive disfunction due to ADHD, and i'm tired very often. I though it was GIRL dinner simply bc a girl created the first video, i don't think it was supposed to reflect gender stereotypes or encourage disordered eating. I thought it was supposed to be funny relatable video, representing a moment in life everybody experience (more or less often than others). I had no idea ppl started comining it with diet culture ugh

@LoveBlackIvy 11 месяцев назад

" neurodivergent girl dinner makes sense" how can you gatekeep throwing random things together and calling it a meal, it's not inherently autistic. Go touch some grass right this instant. Everyone gets too tired to cook sometimes, go into the world and find some common sense. Ruining a trend my ass like no one cares that much about tiktok.

@theuscivicsnerd7070 11 месяцев назад

Whenever I see girl dinner it’s usually random shit that doesn’t match which we’ve all been there. This video could possibly be true to some extent for some.

@jaedenloydmaldives 11 месяцев назад

Why do people gotta make a mountain out of a molehill

@sarahbecker6431 11 месяцев назад

#girldinner more like ✨depression dinner✨ aka the first three ingredients you found in the cupboard

@tressymart 11 месяцев назад

or the sleeping for dinner tho

@theMyRadiowasTaken 11 месяцев назад

yes that is the fucking point.

@chewy_mochiiart 11 месяцев назад

I feel like every trend that happens in tiktok is either degenerate right from the start, or eventually would turn that way. WHY is that?

@whoryouu7984 11 месяцев назад

Zoe usually your opinions are easy to agree to, but you have to understand that it is not that deep. This is just a trend that is there to be funny and to be a good way for girls to just like jog around like oh guys don’t understand because it’s a girls dinner it’s just funny why are you making something that supposed to be a comedy something political or some very specific view stop this is not a good take.

@theladyofthelake1331 10 месяцев назад

No but what you said about the shame of eating “too much” felt so true. Because I often feel like that, like when my mom or brother or boyfriend are not hungry I feel SO ASHAMED for craving food or for wanting dessert or something sweet or whatever.

@cheesecakej2840 11 месяцев назад

Girl dinner is also about being very tired and not able to cook

@user-ww9yx3fb6x 11 месяцев назад

I understand Zoe's point, as this trend can be a bad influence on young girls and encourage disordered eating. However - as someone that does "girl dinner" type of meals pretty often out of laziness and is shamed for it, it's reassuring to see other people doing the same thing! The point is not to promote nor encourage eating this way everyday, but just show that it's okay to not always eat a perfectly balanced home cooked meal. Tbh we should just stop being obsessed with food. Just nourish our body according to our wants / needs and stop comparing ourselves to others. Having a healthy relationship with food is NOT about eating healthy foods. It's about enjoying your food, regardless of what people or society think, or if that food is healthy or unhealthy.

@lalailm 11 месяцев назад

I swear, tiktok will never run out of content bc people will never stop looking for a way to call anything “problematic”

@SamRabbitx 11 месяцев назад

Literally.

@MelodyInTheChaos 10 месяцев назад

Everyone is a victim of everything on social media. Apparently. I've always eaten like this. So what. Sometimes it's healthy like a couple eggs and broccoli and sometimes it's some corn chips with hummus or cheese. Either way it's not healthy for anyone to eat huge meals.

@PapaGinzer 11 месяцев назад

If this is the disturbing trend to you I’m sorry but the internet isn’t for you in the slightest

@mimijaynee 11 месяцев назад

I miss at the start of the trend it was usually just a random assortment of food that doesn’t really go together but you have it anyway😭

@virtualsocialretreat8234 11 месяцев назад

"normalizing unhealthy eating"? i thought that was the norm already... i feel like you could've just said something like " these are examples of non-nutritious food choices, however funny they may be in this context". that's the message, isn't it? i guess it doesn't sound as sophisticated

@Sponjosita 11 месяцев назад

Just what I thought with girl dinner, that the only thing I saw was people damaging their bodies, eating poorly, a lot of sodium, few nutrients, a lot of sugar.

@remekhalifa5416 11 месяцев назад

yes and honestly the sound is the most disturbing thing in this trend

@batterypowers-j2d 11 месяцев назад

Im recovering from an eating disorder, and zoes vids always remind me to stay on the right track, even if eating makes me feel guilty.

@moonieri 11 месяцев назад

I thought the girl dinner trend was just funnily bad dinner ideas

@PapaGinzer 11 месяцев назад

It is, people take things WAY to far

@tessn1114 11 месяцев назад

I hate the girl dinner audio. It's so annoying

@aimeewells1886 11 месяцев назад

Thought this trend was just meant to showcase our depression meals 😭

@feemetsnor 10 месяцев назад

I also found this trend disrurbing and depressing, glad to see I'm not alone

@SpringSpark 11 месяцев назад

I think you are stretching it. I can't fathom how obviously making fun of a messy snack can be "normalizing" it. Especially how mocking the sound is.

@AliciaWeatherholt 11 месяцев назад

i thought girl dinner was a bunch of snacks you make that has the same calories as dinner but isnt a real meal. Usually eaten when you dont feel like cooking and in front of the tv and not all at once, but one right after the other when you get up from the couch when you're watching tv. and i wasnt against the tread. i saw it to be like eating chips, five minutes later some slices of cheese, ten minutes later some fruit, etc. had no idea people were using it as an excuse to post eating disorder (junkarexic) content. if you eat a bunch of snacks that fills you up and isn't only empty calories, i dont see it as much of a problem unless you do it everyday. when i was getting on disability checks, they essentially asked me if i ate girl dinner or not. the exact question was something like: "when you eat, do you eat snacks, make frozen dinners, sandwiches, or fully made meals with many courses?" and i almost got denied my disability payment because i make sandwiches and cook dried pasta for dinner most nights. i mistook girl dinner for disabled behavior.

@kateemma22 11 месяцев назад

Everything on the internet starts fun and then turns dangerous.

@staymylife8 11 месяцев назад

What I saw of "Girl dinner" was basically people eating nothing and then others making fun of those people and eating unhealthily (not really alot of food still). I saw one person make buldak ramen wirh corn cheese which was at least a complete meal though.

@kellye.5678 11 месяцев назад

That girl dinner song is so irritating it was hard to get through the video 😭 how to ppl binge watch them

@ariadnavallejogarcia3496 11 месяцев назад

As someone who had anorexia, the Sleeping beauty diet is a reality that many people in the ED community use constantly to lose weight

@lindadavid4403 11 месяцев назад

That’s soo dramatic. Who hasn’t had a girl dinner. If I’m not really hungry or I am lazy af I would just eat vegetables and boiled eggs, some kind of sweet. Food doesn’t have to be always nutritious. It’s just one small part of a full day. Mums are queens of girl dinners. Some ppl love cracker or microwave food. Usually the food hits. Even just drinking water can be totally okay, if you know you aren’t really hungry, just mouthy.

@genevievejenkins-wu6rg 11 месяцев назад

this reminds me of a very specific feeling that i've felt whenever i'm in public sharing a meal w/a mixed group of guys and girls and seconds are offered, and in those situations every woman in the room balks; then i ask my friends about it later and they all say they felt bad taking seconds? like what? this should not be so relatable.

@we.genuinely.think2882 11 месяцев назад

I know that this isn't the point of this video or of what this trend has sadly become, but where I'm from it's totally normal to only have a cooked warm meal for lunch and then bread with cheese in the evening. Now that I don't live at home anymore it's easier for me to cook in the evening and have a warm dinner but that means I'll have my cheese bread for lunch. That has nothing to do with cutting calories or anything, it's just how most people eat here 😅 (I remember when I went to the US with my family and after three weeks of only really greesy burgers and pizza because everything else was so expensive, we all craved some black bread with good cheese)

@bekaeast7346 11 месяцев назад

Srry dude it’s not actually a trend, it’s more so something a lot of women already did without knowing it was common. I live in communal living and this summer I noticed basically all the women would make girl dinners pretty often and I never saw a man find a random assortment of things. I ever had to explain girl dinner to quite a few women that we’re eating girl dinners, because they didn’t know about it they just do it already

@SamRabbitx 11 месяцев назад

Like. It literally isn't that deep.

@victoriaminjeur7856 11 месяцев назад

Ik it’s not that serious. If you don’t mind me asking what kind of communal living do you live in?

@Canev821 11 месяцев назад

Does it have to do with people not getting married or have boyfriends they need to cook for

@bekaeast7346 10 месяцев назад

@@victoriaminjeur7856 I do seasonal work at rafting companies so I live in these little camps with a whole bunch of ppl around my age

@bekaeast7346 10 месяцев назад

@@SamRabbitx that’s what I was saying, we just do it, it’s not some big Ed misogynistic deal

@Tallimme 11 месяцев назад

Sorry but BH sponsorship is a dealbreaker.

@kellye.5678 11 месяцев назад

It’s so interesting that you had the opposite experience with food shaming. I feel like for me I’ve always been naturally thin so even if I eat a large amount of food for my size, it’s “never enough” to anyone. It’s like people expect to me to eat like a 200 lbs man to prove that im not naturally thin since they believe I’m thin because I starve myself. It got really bad because I would stuff myself until I wanted to throw up to avoid comments like “you didn’t finish your food thats why you’re so skinny”. Like American portions are huge im sorry I can’t finish it? I’ll bring it home and get hungry again in a few hours and eat it though lol. It took me quite awhile to just eat until I’m full and stop being worried about peoples comments.

@juliette6035 11 месяцев назад

okay but a good bowl of buttered pasta makes a perfect girl dinner every once in a while

@faresa7365 11 месяцев назад

My intro to girl dinner was pictures of Jungkook with caption 'girl dinner' I think that's what I prefer for girl dinner lol

@wnabeperfect 10 месяцев назад

You got it all wrong...

@atinymulti 11 месяцев назад

my girl dinner consists of eating nothing and only looking at hot kpop idols 😂

@terig8974 11 месяцев назад

It's not so much that these dinners are too low in calories. Most modern people aren't physically active enough to require a lot of calories. It's that they don't contain enough nutrients, especially protein. You don't have to be a boy to eat #boydinner.

@e_wonderment6618 11 месяцев назад

I actually cook for myself. When i'm busy i eat leftovers from the day before. No Girl dinner here 🤔 just food. That's it 😆 weird world out there.

@PhoenixTV109 11 месяцев назад

Lets not make fun of the ones that choose not to eat as much as others for their own personal reasons just because it makes you feel insecure about the amount your eating

@jkseraphim4 5 месяцев назад

Sleep for dinner is really when you're so poor you have no food in your home that you have to sleep to forget your hunger. It's very sad😢

@Wooble_Deathnote 11 месяцев назад

These people are trying to make having an ED aesthetic...is isn't and can do serious damage..I know

@duckswangoose 11 месяцев назад

My girl dinner was a sloppy joe and a protein shake. 😊 honestly, though, overeating is very easy to do in our household, so making the effort to eat a can of veg, apple sauce, and moving my body is me trying to take better of myself.

@kristenp1606 11 месяцев назад

For me, spending my time cooking is not about necessity, I’m purely driven by the joy that I get when someone loves a dish that I made for them.

@microwavedcaprisun3972 11 месяцев назад

This is not what girls dinner is supposed to be it was supposed to normalize throwing together a half baked meal every once in a while to take a break from cooking properly without shame, but it’s turned into some thing that’s definitely not that not what it supposed to be yet another positive wholesome trend ruined

@nameless9851 11 месяцев назад

you should call it college student dinner

@katherineberg4555 11 месяцев назад

Maybe I'm the minority here. I love Zoes videos, but girl dinner is only a problem if you're doing something like intermittent fasting. It's fine if you eat well regularly and one night you're not too hungry and you just wanna snack. It's really not that deep.

@seriouslywhatever1031 11 месяцев назад

Mom dinner when you can't afford to feed yourself and your kids. Girl dinner when healthy food is so expensive and you're burnt out from societal pressure to fit in a narrow box of womenhood. Girl dinner when you've been at work all day, cleaned, ran errands, exercised, showered and have no energy to put together anything sensible you turn to high calorie snacks and call it a day.

@MoonNoverseG 11 месяцев назад

and here's me who thought the "girl dinner" trend is abt girls thirsting over hot men

@sophiaisabelle0227 11 месяцев назад

We appreciate your insights on this matter. You'll always have our support.

@kristenp1606 11 месяцев назад

I’m very guilty of cooking for my boyfriend only. If it were just for me I probably wouldn’t cook at all, even though I generally like to cook. It says something not so great that he is worth the effort but I’m not. I consider myself a feminist, but I need to examine why I feel this way.

@neptxnetips 11 месяцев назад

im so glad someone finally spoke up about this bc this trend never sat right with me

@laholidev 11 месяцев назад

I just realized I was watching while eating a DIY lunchable😅 For a snack. Until I’m full. But I still like the irony of it

@syeaahhhh 11 месяцев назад

As a kpop fan, i just saw chan edits with that sound 💀💀

@dianalira551 11 месяцев назад

Girl…that is NOT Mexican food 😒

@kaia1373 11 месяцев назад

let people have fun, especially since you're a girl yourself!!! this is a fun thing for girls to make videos of, some people eat something small and others eat a lot of junk food but you don't know what they had for breakfast and for lunch, it could be something with tons of nutrients and plenty of food for them. let people eat what they want, who cares if it doesn't have nutrients? people eat junk all the time and the foods that OTHERS eat does not affect you. maybe make content with something positive to say??

@lizzyleefree1593 10 месяцев назад

Eating something for dinner is better than eating nothing. No one is saying "girl dinner" should be for every meal and like every eating trend it is taken too far by those with disordered eating. However, as a wife and mother who grew up with very traditional gender roles, the girl dinner trend removed the guilt I had in not cooking a full family meal every night, despite my husband and child being able to make food. When I'm anxious, exhausted, or just low spoons in general I relish in the ease and instant gratification of just assembling comforting snacks and ingredients into a meal. I eat girl dinner the same way as I eat all my meals, intuitively and until I'm satisfied. Sometimes I want a hugh bowl of pasta with salad and dessert, others all im really craving are berries, string cheese, and chips- especially if I had a heavy meal earlier in the day. Having a small meal every once in a while is not disordered eating if you're being true to your bodie's needs in that moment.

@CreateXSGACHA 7 месяцев назад

Do you think you could do a video on fashion tips on how to style with color and styling casual clothes? I really like your style.😊

@gabriellafritz2312 11 месяцев назад

"#girl dinner?, More like girl you need to eat some dinner...a lot of you have eating disorders"- that's one of the girl dinner reaction qoutes I saw. I thought girl dinner was like..a mix of low effort meals and depression meals ..like sometimes it's a joke about how you don't have to be cooking everyday and other times it's showing the toll depression can have on your appetite and how recently we tend to ROMANTICISE our lives (including the mental illnesses that come with it) and how harmful it can be to view a problem that way. ✨#Girl dinner✨ but it's water and a bag of peanuts..like- . Thanks for doing a vid on this topic. ❤ Insightful to say the least fr.

@boulet555 11 месяцев назад

From my perspective as a young adult woman, I don't see this trend as normalized rather its highlighting the impact of mental health on making food or even people's affordability to eat healthier. While 'girl dinner' is inherently gendered I've seen men and nb's prepare the same sort of meal - either because they aren't equipped to take care of themselves or because of the above mentioned reasons (well I guess the first one can also be applied to women as well). While I do see that some people can think that its normalized, then every food tiktok should have a warning before all food videos suggesting it is indeed a food video that may or may not be considered or trigger an ED. PS - I did grow up throughout the early 2000s when EDs were and alarmingly still are romanticized to get this gross, unhealthy 'chic'. My grandfather also escaped starvation-like conditions in his home country so now its a compliment to eat a lot of food.

@truecrimespree9868 11 месяцев назад

My feed shows girl dinners of all sides or canned goods or a thousand snackies… I question some people’s feeds and hope they curate better

@Winggggz 11 месяцев назад

*These trends need to be stopped*

@khadijahbegum3546 11 месяцев назад

NO! I actually luv it so NO😂

@xxxarimaxxx 11 месяцев назад

@StarWars_TheFan 11 месяцев назад

Yes, this needs to stop

@DolceFarnienteABC123 11 месяцев назад

I thought 'girl dinner' was an 'eggplant emoji'.

@michime7860 11 месяцев назад

How are people not fainting by eating so less? Please don't starve! Health is important

@bellac6311 11 месяцев назад

thats what the sleepfordinner version is💀

@victoriaminjeur7856 11 месяцев назад

Man this is not that serious and it’s a joke for the most part. I can see what you’re saying about it being impressionable for VERY young young girls I don’t think it’s gonna do any damage and most girls who are posting little snacks saying it’s their girl dinner I HIGHLY doubt that’s all they actually ate. It’s social media everything on there isn’t real. Come on. And also this trend is not that serious or large.

@what_equals_42 11 месяцев назад

I feel like something that was meant to be a satire on low-effort meals became co-opted into the ongoing discourse between society's image of the ideal (skinny, dainty) woman and the reality, which is that we are human beings who require sufficient nutrition. It seems that anything that can be influenced by societal standards, is- every time I've seen a food trend emerge, it has been adopted and altered in some way by the eating disorder crowd, who always drag things into one or another extreme end of the metaphorical sliding scale. Perhaps instead of relabeling meals as "Girl Dinner" and then applying and rewarding new expectations to that, we should stick to dance trends.

@zerda209 11 месяцев назад

As a bar assist "girl dinner" is funny because most of the time on a busy friday night when youre starving you end up eating pieces of garnish to get through the night 😂

@nikkiw 24 дня назад

the cheese and crackers plate for girl dinner is cracking me up!😂 this is one of my HUSBANDS favorite dinners. ill cook for the kids, and he'll still just have a craving for that, so he "snacks" and gets full while we're all eating meats veggies and a carb since i like balanced meals. im always telling him that's not a real meal, especially considering he's a big muscular guy.