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Walking into a hospital & leaving as an amputee: my amputation story [CC] 

Footless Jo
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Three years after losing my leg, here's the FULL story of how I became an #Amputee (twice)!
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Fourteen years of pain and failed ankle surgeries brought me to 2018, when I made the difficult decision to become a twenty-seven-year-old below-the-knee elective amputee. This channel has documented my journey adjusting to life with a visible disability as an amputee, and continues to be a haven to discuss physical and mental health!
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@FootlessJo
@FootlessJo 2 года назад
Thank you so much for listening to my story, my lovely new and old friends! 💜
@tieiatalks
@tieiatalks 2 года назад
Thank you for sharing your story!
@shrimpshromp3594
@shrimpshromp3594 2 года назад
Just found your channel yesterday and this what you’ve been through is rough, great job on powering through and rising up 💖
@IsabellaGrace2009
@IsabellaGrace2009 2 года назад
Hi jo! I hope your day today is wonderful! - Bella your online friend
@norrislavender-quit2802
@norrislavender-quit2802 2 года назад
Heyyy I love watching you💜💜💜
@mittenkitten89
@mittenkitten89 2 года назад
❤❤❤
@Dukedogdog
@Dukedogdog 2 года назад
A friend in high school had a missing leg and he alway said "I lost my leg to a bear. He ate my leg so I ate his" as his way of making light of the fact that he had serious health issues and it kept him from constantly feeling down. Sometimes it's the little jokes we need
@novanettle7497
@novanettle7497 2 года назад
My friend has a really big, bright purple mark on his forearm and I have heard him tell other people so many stories of it's origin. It's a dog bite that got really infected. He narrowly escaped a house fire. A tattoo gone wrong. Scalded his arm with boiling water when he was a kid. It's just a birthmark. He just likes telling stories 😅 he mostly confess at the end of the stories though, but sometimes he forgets 😌
@schmid1.079
@schmid1.079 2 года назад
Reminds me of a disabled friend of mine who also jokes whenever someone asks what happened. His favourite is the classic "should have seen the other guy."
@makingtechsense126
@makingtechsense126 2 года назад
There is nothing like a little fun to deal with pain. I have a long scar on my left side from my brother pushing me into a chair when I was like five or six. It was a big cut and the scar was very obvious. I would tell people I got it in a knife fight. It was more fun than telling them I was pushed into a chair that had sharp metal poking out of it.
@jcjs33
@jcjs33 2 года назад
hang in there...wow...thanks for sharing...
@donaldbarrett2267
@donaldbarrett2267 2 года назад
In June of 2019, I had an amputation below the knee on my left leg. To keep a positive attitude, I came up with some humor. I told the nurses that I was told that due to some bone infection in my ankle, some bone would have to have be removed. I told them when I came to, they had taken a whole foot (double meaning). I had a skin graft on my right foot that looked like a shark bite. I started telling people I was attacked by a shark in a local lake. When the nurses said they were doing something to my right foot, I said that was my left foot, when they corrected me, I said that was the only foot I had left.
@silasmacabre
@silasmacabre 2 года назад
That's pretty cool honestly through your very strong to go through that. I hope you have a good day today and always.
@Mtz2604
@Mtz2604 2 года назад
Taking things with humor and even laugh from our own situations is a gift. I remember when I was hospitalized for the first time in a psych ward due suicidal ideation with a plan about to be but I stopped before buying what I needed to carry out the deed and look out for help. One more time, just once more, due the immense love for my husband, my fur babies and my family. That "of you don't love yourself you can't love anyone else" BS is an absolute BS. I'm able to love the people I do with such intensity but I've never loved myself. I have my dignity and self respect because I learn it. But I never learned to love myself as much as I need to. So at the hospital some patients and me pranked the nurses for a week and they thought we were in a shared psychotic non violent episode. At the end of the week I couldn't help but to tell the head nurse (one of the best people I've ever met) that everything was a joke. We denied any question or answer any detail about the "loony" time we faked during our daily appointments with our psychiatrists and therapists. Then when I told the secret everyone laugh and I received a tiny lecture from my doc but it was damn Holy week!! We were absolutely bored. We acted out only at our tea/coffee time for half hour. Past that time (that I was all the time in charge of the scene) I gave the signal and everything was back to normal. I was a month hospitalized. I've been hospitalized 2 times in total and each time a month. The second didn't have such pranks because we were quite relaxed and I was allowed to read all I wanted and we had occupational therapy too. Psychiatric humor is kinda acid and dark but we all respect what we're going through and joke about it without targeting anyone. We joke about our own situations and the general stereotypes people have. But is awesome to crack a black psych humor joke with a doc or a nurse or even ypur therapist and see them laugh with you, because they're humans too. I loved your story!
@kiddwentcrazy
@kiddwentcrazy 2 года назад
@cewla others… as in… PLURAL?? 😰😰😰😱😱 /j
@Gumbier_Than
@Gumbier_Than Год назад
I'm glad you're alive and kicking (no pun intended). My late aunt was a double amputee below the knees. She and her son were always butting heads when I visited them. She also had this brass sword in the corner of her dining room. Four year old me thought he cut her legs off in a rage, my eldest sister nearly wet herself upon hearing this as she recalled that brass sword. My aunt actually lost her legs from a gangrenous infection due to diabetes. ☹️
@relentlessrhythm2774
@relentlessrhythm2774 Год назад
I'm glad you kept a good attitude!
@Mtz2604
@Mtz2604 2 года назад
This story is inspiring. Not because she went through this, it wasn't a choice basically. The inspiring message here is that when you have this difficult situations in your life you have 3 options: 1. Take the hard decision and then coming in terms with it, being bitter years and years to find out that carrying on with the bitterness, sadness and impotence was worse than the injury you survived. 2. Taking or not the hard decision, live with self pity and like the first option, finding out the years you lost. 3. Taking the hard decision, own the situation, give chance to your body, mind and heart to heal. Understand why this was the best option for your case and remember it each time you need to. Claim back as much as you can from your accident, injury or what lead to the amputation and go with it. In the future you'll find out you can claim more and more. Being strong and brave isn't just not feeling fear, impotence, not being tired, confused, frustrated, sad, angry and self conscious about your situation. All that is natural and is the healthiest way to allow yourself to process all this emotions and thoughts. Have questions, finding answers and coming to terms with yourself. The brave and strong part is to go through it despite all the things that can freeze you. And that's what Jo did.
@kortneykennedy7303
@kortneykennedy7303 5 месяцев назад
Do you have a massage toy for your body down that so you can use it down that
@Mtz2604
@Mtz2604 5 месяцев назад
@@kortneykennedy7303 WTF
@AsiaAsiaJa
@AsiaAsiaJa 2 года назад
When I was 5 and lying in the hospital with brain inflammation I nearly died from, I remember swarms of doctors and medical students coming in to inspect my case because nobody could figure out whether my illness was bacterial or virus-caused, and they were all like ooooh this is an unique case! such a great opportunity to study! In short, you *really* don't want to impress doctors with your screening results lmaoo
@Jemiscool123ABC
@Jemiscool123ABC 2 года назад
Something like that happend to me when I was 3 but I hit my head on something and when I got rushed my skin got pushed into my skull area doctors were like grabbing books and then came back in my room 40 minutes later from what 8 headed I had to get surgery to fix it but I got a lolipop after so it was worth it
@REDARROW_A_Personal
@REDARROW_A_Personal 2 года назад
When I was about Primary School Age my sister dropped a weighted toy in my mouth and chipped one of my two front teeth. I ended up going to the dentist and was told to go to a dental hospital. A few weeks later I was in the dental hospital to get a crown and a diffrent consultant came to do the procedure than the one we had seen before as he was covering. He then asked were the piece of tooth was, so my dad had to bring the piece that we kept in a tooth jar. Suffice to say the reason for this was this dentist had some students and he chose me to be his example to show his students on sticking in a piece of tooth. It was a fun expirence having about 5 people looking into my dry mouth, which they had to keep dry to make sure it would work properly. Altogether I was really greatful to have that tooth back in and it's still there.
@magnusbane420
@magnusbane420 2 года назад
I read on Reddit about a person whose stomach somehow formed a wall around his appendics and when he got appendicitis he apparently had it for DAYS because he wasn't in a horrible amount of pain and things seemed alright. That's the only time I imagine it's good to have every doctor in the hospital look at your scan, when they're like "How are you alive?!"
@Itried20takennames
@Itried20takennames 2 года назад
As someone who used to be one of those medical students or resident doctors…you are right, and there is a fine line between staff education and having 17 people crowd around your hospital bed. I would say though, it’s not done because of “this is intellectually fascinating, let’s study” but because the more a doc can see/learn in training, the better for both them and future patients - and more want to see the rarer conditions. No one wants to bother patients or make them feel on display, but likewise no one wants their own doc say “I think you have condition xx, but not totally sure…I have never seen a case of it irl before.”
@tsurugizaki
@tsurugizaki 2 года назад
When I was 10 I had a moment where I stopped breathing and had to go to hospital. I remember tons of doctors coming in to see me and examine me, and I have no idea what most of them even did. Perhaps some of them were just there to observe, haha. It turned out that I had a rare infection of two viruses at once, though unfortunately I don't remember which ones.
@davidschofield7351
@davidschofield7351 2 года назад
I am not a physical amputee, but I find your videos inspirational to me. I had 2 MAJOR brain surgeries 3 months apart in 1983, and lost a significant portion of my memory capacity in the process. I’m familiar with the relearning process, just from a different angle. Please keep posting about your journey.
@pyra9345
@pyra9345 2 года назад
Oh.What is it like?
@leftysheppey
@leftysheppey 2 года назад
I'm sorry to hear that :( I'm currently taking medication which affects my short term memory and I can't stand it, but I know it's only a temporary thing. I couldn't imagine trying to live my life like that
@stealthyplays4519
@stealthyplays4519 2 года назад
you’re strong man
@elisesmith3596
@elisesmith3596 Год назад
As a trauma/orthopaedics nurse unfortunately I’ve seen this happen to many people. I’ve subscribed to your channel to help understand my patients mindset a bit more. As someone with a non physical disability I’m able to relate to my patients in some ways but it’s great to be able to hear from someone who is not in the fresh moment of having this traumatic event happen. Thanks for the insight!
@KarolinaPietryka
@KarolinaPietryka 7 месяцев назад
Thank you for everything you do! ♥️
@bobothefool3037
@bobothefool3037 6 месяцев назад
Thank you so much for trying to educate yourself on your patients' life experiences! A lot of medical professionals don't do this, and the ones that make the extra effort to are the kind of people we need in the health field.
@alexanderschuster2585
@alexanderschuster2585 2 года назад
Can I be honest? For the first five minutes, I wondered why Jo only revealed a face of unrelenting enthusiasm towards her viewers. I was also expecting accompanying levels of sadness, poignancy and frustration at all that she had lost. But I would imagine Jo has experienced all those emotions many times over in her own private world. In the end, after watching the video in its entirety, you realise that Jo is an upbeat person and one of her strongest qualities is to triumph over adversity. So now I understand why the outward persona she projects to the world is overwhelmingly positive.
@FootlessJo
@FootlessJo 2 года назад
Hey Alexander! I wanted to thank you - so much - for this comment. The video I am releasing in a few hours actually features your comment (in a very positive way). I appreciate your honesty and your super kind words! ❤️
@harperbell8576
@harperbell8576 2 года назад
Alexander you seem like an amazing person so thank you for being a good person in the world
@FlameyClockspeed
@FlameyClockspeed 2 года назад
Positivity!
@thefinalfrontear
@thefinalfrontear 2 года назад
i’m having a hard time not being destroyed by the thought that she finally got to do the one thing she wanted to do as a kid, and it so quickly went wrong and led to decades of trauma and pain. i’m really happy she’s doing alright now and has found peace but damn. damn.
@heatherchando5873
@heatherchando5873 2 года назад
It’s life. Sometimes life can be unpredictable
@abelgomez2726
@abelgomez2726 Год назад
She needed a better surgeon, there's surgeons castration men and making them into women and they couldn't fix a simple ankle
@charlesu.farleigh3596
@charlesu.farleigh3596 10 месяцев назад
You can't look at it like that. We all have problems we're supposed to overcome. She is missing a limb, but her soul or inner strength, and ability to overcome is correspondingly larger. I lost my leg nearly 40 years ago, one semester before finishing school and starting a career. Took a year after initial injury before it was finally removed. Was bad. Horrible. But I got through it, got stronger mentally, and got a wife out of it.
@nocturnechanson
@nocturnechanson 2 года назад
My grandmother was probably the toughest person I’ve ever known. My grandfather passed away fairly young at forty. When my father was a teenager she lost her leg to cancer. She raised a family as a single mother and an amputee in the 1940’s and I can only imagine that took a lot of fortitude. 😃
@normalhuman9878
@normalhuman9878 2 года назад
Your grandma was a badass
@laid07
@laid07 Год назад
If I were to ever lose a limb larger than my small toe, or lose the usage of any limb larger than my small toe, I am going off a bridge, or building.
@Miketheike123
@Miketheike123 8 месяцев назад
@@laid07what abt toes we dont need them
@laid07
@laid07 8 месяцев назад
@@Miketheike123 They are used for balance.
@Miketheike123
@Miketheike123 8 месяцев назад
@@laid07 we dont need them anymore the weight shofted to middle
@secretzinthesnow4715
@secretzinthesnow4715 2 года назад
I am an 11 year old amputee and it is very hard especially as a kid because I was born with a horrible problem in my right leg and both of my arms that caused me to have to get them amputated when I was 6 which was very hard because I needed to deal with walking out of their with no arms and only one leg. Your story and channel is very inspiring and helpful to me as a young amputee. Thank you.
@sethwalker5867
@sethwalker5867 2 года назад
Damn. In the future prosthetics will be extremely advanced. U are very young so u just gotta wait
@pianooooo11
@pianooooo11 2 года назад
@@sethwalker5867 I really hope there is, I want to see this happen in the future
@randyjon224
@randyjon224 2 года назад
God bless you child, stay strong and keep the faith.
@royaletulips7931
@royaletulips7931 2 года назад
I-how do you even function( no offense)
@JohnGalt916
@JohnGalt916 2 года назад
Well kiddo, I want to be sweet and motivational but anytime I do that I sound rude. So I'll just say this. I never met a cool, fun, or interesting person who didn't have struggles. So I'm willing to bet you're the coolest kid in your class.
@MrsVMom
@MrsVMom 2 года назад
My husband’s grandmother lost her leg in her early 30s. She was hunting with her husband tripped and fell and shot her foot off. This was in the very early 1950’s. I think it really affected her and that she never learned to drive. She did not swim. The things that she was not able to do was very long. I believe that there was a stigma against female amputees in that time. I almost want to say she was embarrassed by it. I think it’s wonderful that people now can embrace running and living as normal and full life as anyone else. The fact that you could do a 5K is pretty great. Thank you for answering questions and not making this a taboo subject.
@HkFinn83
@HkFinn83 2 года назад
I bet she felt so silly, shooting her own foot off lol
@solar0wind
@solar0wind 2 года назад
Didn't guns have a switch or something to secure them for exact circumstances like this back then? Thinking about it, when I was in the German military, I learnt how to handle the MG3 (machine gun from WWII), and even that had some sort of switch. But I know that not all guns have that, so maybe hers didn't? It's just a weird situation to happen if you know how to handle a gun according to my very limited knowledge of guns (I don't know much more than what I learnt there because I was never that interested in guns). Maybe she was right before the shot and had the animal already in sight. In any way, it sucks that she had to go through all that stigma and limitations. :|
@MaseraSteve
@MaseraSteve 2 года назад
Never heard the stigma for lady in modern time except medieval era. And i agree with Hkfinn, more like she embarrassed by the accident. in modern time i know it's more stigmatized to male because male are supposed to do hard labor. And majority of male amputee (born or accident) are often found jobless they are perceived as laziness but not on lady though
@fighttheevilrobots3417
@fighttheevilrobots3417 2 года назад
@@MaseraSteve you really have those MRA talking points down, huh? There are absolutely stigmas against women in our society, especially women who don't have bodies that are considered acceptable or typical.
@MaseraSteve
@MaseraSteve 2 года назад
@@fighttheevilrobots3417 I literally have no idea what MRA you referring is (till I urban dictionary it) You get the idea, I never tap on activist or even religion activities. Definitely this may depend on the country and culture. I've seen plenty amputee women getting married in Jakarta, Sweden and Netherland (but most are indeed middle-upper class people from well reputed family)
@VaelynTV
@VaelynTV Год назад
Your dog totally sensed before you did that this was going to be an emotional conversation and came to support you through it. Dogs are fabulous. ❤ Loved hearing you tell your story, great job on overcoming it all and living life the way you want to.
@Dear-Rhiannon
@Dear-Rhiannon 2 года назад
3:23 As soon as you start to begin talking about what happened Sophie comes. Dogs are so amazing, real guardians that soothe the heart. Thank you for sharing your story, you're amazing!
@skatingfreak1670
@skatingfreak1670 2 года назад
Take care of your pups as well as they take care of you. If they get sick don't wait. Get them help immediately. You don't know if hours later they'll be gone.
@jefftitterington7600
@jefftitterington7600 2 года назад
Sophie doesn't know how big she is - she thinks she's a lapdog!
@ReasonMakes
@ReasonMakes 2 года назад
@@skatingfreak1670 Absolutely. They're members of the family.
@mrinvader
@mrinvader 2 года назад
i think Jo's Sophie's hero!
@thatHARVguy
@thatHARVguy 2 года назад
@@jefftitterington7600 All dogs think they're lapdogs. *looks at Fenrir*
@litaperry2524
@litaperry2524 Год назад
I am the wife of a recent amputee and I am very encouraged by this video sharing your amputation story I really think you are brave and an inspiration to other amputees. My husband is 72 years old and tried to save his foot since 2016 and has been wheelchair bound he finally got into a life or death situation with his foot due to infection and a heart attack all in one week and with support from family and friends went forward with his surgery. He came through victoriously and is being fit for his prosthetic he had his first casting last week and is going to his 3rd appointment of the fitting process. He is so excited that he has hope of walking again and you gave him hope that he too will walk soon we are hoping for Christmas as his goal. I miss being able to say hey let’s go for a walk or dance or even out to dinner because he hated to go in his wheelchair to any place so thank you Jo for sharing it means a lot to this community.
@chysmallwood2238
@chysmallwood2238 10 месяцев назад
Please oh please update everyone here about him! I pray he will be able to walk again by Christmas! That would be such a blessing and amazing Christmas gift. The best Christmas gift to dance again with your husband! Lots of healing prayers! Please let us know how it goes and if he is doing really good!!! Blessed be
@Nuxzy_
@Nuxzy_ 9 месяцев назад
I hope your husband was able to reach his goal! ♥
@meganw.8792
@meganw.8792 2 года назад
"You never want to impress Doctors with your scans" - this has been my life for the last two years! Being a medical mystery sucks! 30 yrs old and I just found out my one arm has its main artery completely blocked under my clavical and I have no pulse to that arm. 🙃 But I have absolutely no symptoms! (Other more serious artery areas have been found as well which confuse doctors but no medical reasons have been found after many many tests-but thankfully on a day tobday basis I have no symptoms)
@ZebraGirl97
@ZebraGirl97 2 года назад
Arterial Thoracic Outlet Syndrome? Your symptoms/description sounds like Thoracic Outlet Syndrome, which can affect the nerve, the subclavian vein, or the artery, or a combination of them. I have internal jugular vein compression and had my first surgery with two specialized surgeons this past March. I had no blood flow through my left internal jugular vein. The surgery removed several bones in my neck, a ligament, and lots of scar tissue, and was able to open the upper half of the vein, but the bottom half of the vein is still compressed unfortunately from my sternoclavicular muscle down to the base of my neck at the collarbone, so we're trying to figure out a plan for that. I don't know who you're seeing for your arterial condition but there's a few specialists in the countries who work with TOS and other compression syndromes. My vascular surgeons clinic has one of the leading TOS specialists in the country, his name is Dr. Annest at the Vascular Institute of the Rockies in Denver, Colorado. He does a lot of TOS surgeries as well as some on the jugular vein like mine. I hope the care you are getting is improved now! I spent two decades as a mystery patient and told I had hypochondria/conversion disorder before being diagnosed with a genetic disease at 21 and a whole host of conditions, in including the jugular compression, after that. It's really hard to be the mystery patient and the rare patient and to have no one know what is best for your care. Thinking of you and yes, impressing doctors with scans or test results often means you need specialized care and can be a nightmare.
@willtowers1532
@willtowers1532 2 года назад
woah that's kinda cool. alternatively, I'm very sorry
@arae2738
@arae2738 2 года назад
Yeah that definitely sounds like ATOS.
@meganw.8792
@meganw.8792 2 года назад
@@ZebraGirl97 I have never heard of this! I'm still in the phase of doctors are just passing me around to other specialist. Im in Canada so the doctor choices here are very frustrating. I also have a 1mm 90% narrowing in my carotid artery as well they are working on investing it. I will definitely mention this to my doctors!
@optiodecimus2690
@optiodecimus2690 2 года назад
My mother has been on kidney dialysis for the last decade - she developed low blood pressure about three years ago and constantly has to tell new doctors and nurses that 50/30 is actually pretty average for her, no she doesn't need to sit down, no she isn't going to faint, no she doesn't want to be admitted... She just walks around and goes through life with blood pressure that would see most people unconscious, no side effects, not even tiredness. The experienced nurses have just decided to let her tell them if she feels unwell - she just doesn't make medical sense. They've put her on some special hormonal medicine lately to get it up in time for surgery, and take great pleasure in now telling her they think she has high blood pressure and jokingly asking her if she wants to be admitted whenever she gets a reading over 90/40 and making fun out of the newer staff whenever they freak out over a "low" reading.
@janina8559
@janina8559 2 года назад
I shattered my ankle 5 years ago. I still have severe pain and have thought about doing the same. I am 54 yrs old now and wonder what I am waiting for. It’s the healing pain that scares me. Tysvm for sharing your story it is very helpful!
@anniek3866
@anniek3866 2 года назад
Definitely such a difficult decision to make as it's a major life change. I definitely recommend talking it through with friends, family, and your medical professionals. It can be worth it in the end if it means getting the life you want to live back
@HawkGTboy
@HawkGTboy Год назад
Ankle injuries are rough. It’s one of those joints that they can’t be reconstructed with good results.
@stringlarson1247
@stringlarson1247 Год назад
My rt. ankle got shatttered by a vicious/malicious slide tackle when I was 17. 59 now. Back then, there was no real PT like we have now. Had surgery about 8 yrs. ago. OA was bad, bone fragments, etc. Ankles are complex and any abnormality will affect knees, hips and back. If you live anywhere near a city with quality orthopedics, hopefully you can find an excellent surgeon. I've had 8+ orthopedic surgeries due to injury and/or sever OA. If you meet with a surgeon and they don't take the time to explain what images (Xray, MRI, etc.) are showing and discuss options, do be shy about finding someone with whom you feel comfortable. I hope things work out well for you.
@kenprice57
@kenprice57 Год назад
I shatterd mine in 2001 put in a cast to heal,itleft a gap in ankle another surgery with injections which became degenerative arthritis in return became so inflamed it was cooking my foot in my own skin! Litterelly! Just had amputated Standing strong,I'll get anew one good Luke to all
@simply_kendall
@simply_kendall 2 года назад
You’re such an inspiration to me. I broke my foot during my cross country season and that was hard enough. I can’t believe all the things you went through. And you’re still hear being an amazing person and showering us with your light. You always make me smile
@KrystinaTheAlien
@KrystinaTheAlien 2 года назад
I don't want to say you're inspirational, because that feels so empty and thoughtless, but lemme say, your eloquence about the various topics I've seen in your videos is amazing, and THAT is something I wish I could do with my voice vs typing. I've only been watching your videos for a couple weeks since your shorts started showing up in my shorts feed, but like...whoa. Also your intro and outro song make me so happy 🌞
@crazybadwifi7573
@crazybadwifi7573 2 года назад
You said my name
@Happyholly-jj8pi
@Happyholly-jj8pi 2 года назад
you did it! I cried all the way through this. You and your father hugging was inspirational. I am 72 and I broke my femur in the hospital the day after hip replacement. After several months of physical therapy I said this feels worse than after I first broke my leg. The therapist didn't believe me. I went to my Doctor Who didn't believe me but they did an x-ray. He said i'm so sorry this isn't healing right. We're gonna have to break your leg again, Replace the hardware,and do the whole thing over again. And that's when I got scared that it wouldn't heal again, my being 72 years old. But it did. You've given me inspiration to get off my bum and get out there and exercise! I admire you so much.
@kirstenoldale2029
@kirstenoldale2029 2 года назад
I'm so glad you recovered 😊
@Cranialdrilling
@Cranialdrilling 2 года назад
Wow that's pretty incredible at 72. I had similar injuries/surgeries related to a car accident at 31 and the recovery was no joke. Couldn't imagine doing it in my 70s. Props.
@quelikingz
@quelikingz 2 года назад
After going through years of trying to find out what condition I had, diagnostics, biopsies, treatment and side effects of medication I came to the same conclusion "it's never gonna be the same again and it's always going to be different" it was such a hard thing to accept especially when doctors think that because your are young things should just work out. I feel you. I feel better but my mind is highly wired to be reactive to the "what if." Stay strong!
@spac3cad3t
@spac3cad3t 2 года назад
“By the time I was 27” girl you’re older than 27? You look amazing, what’s your secret? You could pass for a very well spoken and confident college student
@hilariouswar
@hilariouswar 2 года назад
I also thought she was younger damn
@robrod3097
@robrod3097 2 года назад
@@hilariouswar Me too. Now let's form a group that thought she is younger and celebrate that youthful spirit she has... She's awesome !!
@powerekku
@powerekku 2 года назад
@dollhausˎ♡ˊ˗ basically, take care of yourself especially when young
@sarahsusan3753
@sarahsusan3753 2 года назад
27 IS young!
@robrod3097
@robrod3097 2 года назад
@dollhausˎ♡ˊ˗ Some time ago while through work, I met a gentleman that seemed to be in his 60s. Healthy as can be. He was 112 years old. I asked what his secret was... He said there's no secret, do whatever you wish in life. IN MODERATION. But don't ever smoke... I'll never forget the strength and command this mad had...
@katiejon17
@katiejon17 2 года назад
This was a random RU-vid suggested video and I thought “Why not? That sounds like quite a story”. I made it until your fall after the first amputation and then the tears came. Wow, what a set of circumstances. I imagine that you are helping many people through this process by not only opening up about your experience, but also by clearly showing that there can be improved quality of life afterwards. Wishing you all the best.
@parris.m
@parris.m 2 года назад
It's incredibility heartwarming and inspiring to see that despite all of this you've still manged to remain very upbeat. A true testament to your character and adaptability. I'm sure it was an incredibly difficult adjustment to make, and there were probably very dark times where you perhaps felt isolated or maybe scorned some how, but this video and by extension yourself has resonated with me. I'm happy for you that despite all of that you haven't become embittered by this experience. Thank you for sharing your story and outlook and sense of humor with us all!
@WendyRomkes
@WendyRomkes 2 года назад
Even though I already know the entire story, I still listened to it because I love listening to your storytelling ❤
@TheDankner15
@TheDankner15 2 года назад
This
@KKP7557
@KKP7557 2 года назад
In the 1950s my grandfather, a farmer, lost the lower part of his leg by accidentally stepping into spinning blades of the part of the machine that transported grain up into a silo. He didn't know his leg was gone until he went to take a step and fell over. He never felt it happen. Like you, Jo, he later experienced phantom pain. Also, the cut happened so fast his veins and arteries were sealed shut. He never needed a blood transfusion. Farm accidents are some of the worst imaginable. My grandpa went on to farm another 25 years and I thought every grandpa could take their leg off!
@stormcherry6064
@stormcherry6064 2 года назад
That's a very common kind of farm accident, too - one where people don't usually come away from!!
@wdunaway
@wdunaway 2 года назад
What did they do with the grain in the silo after the accident?
@libbymcguire
@libbymcguire 2 года назад
Every grandpa 😂❤️
@DarthAxolotl
@DarthAxolotl 2 года назад
@@wdunaway hopefully chucked it out? It would be covered in blood and leg chunks.
@brucejosefson9675
@brucejosefson9675 2 года назад
I had one of those injuries that several doctors found "interesting " and was used as a teaching example for my injuries and resulting issues because of them.... Made me feel great👌 Though I did learn some useful things
@nyl1199
@nyl1199 2 года назад
I can’t believe a emergency room turned you down after a traumatic injury. That’s horrifying. Did you ever discuss with your doctors if the delay in treatment affected the outcomes?
@thedevilsreaperx
@thedevilsreaperx 2 года назад
I don't think that would make any difference anymore. But I agree that this is horrifying. Sadly hospitals around the world are understaffed and what staff is there is overworked and underpaid. There are countries in which it's better and lots in which it's worse but i doubt there is a single country that does it right...
@starseedwarrior9240
@starseedwarrior9240 2 года назад
@Storm she lost her leg in a tornado but she’s ok and doing well in life
@CrayCrayslab
@CrayCrayslab 2 года назад
@Storm she lost her leg in a battle with a space dinosaur but she's ok and doing well in life
@kelvisaisawesome
@kelvisaisawesome 2 года назад
@Storm dude. Watch the video, she fought a shark
@rossothecrimson7
@rossothecrimson7 2 года назад
Delayed treatment definitely can determine the outcome of an injury. Doctors suck these days, just want your cash, and want you out as soon as possible. They also dont tell you nutrients/vitamins to take to help repair damaged tendons, bones, muscles.....just pure garbage.
@nayahusky
@nayahusky 2 года назад
I’ve been riding for 15 years, this made me rethink everything about how I ride. Thanks for the wake-up call
@andream9470
@andream9470 2 года назад
Just out of curiosity, what does it make you rethink? With 15 years experience, you should be a darn good rider so I'm guessing perhaps how your actions on your horse affect those around you. She also had no business being on a TB when she had zero experience galloping a horse, so that could be another consideration if you let people ride your horse(s).
@finnianheart
@finnianheart 2 года назад
@@andream9470 TBs, even OTTBs are not inherently dangerous or hot. her mistake was not having ever taken this horse out on a trail before. her friends were also at fault for leaving her (esp at a high speed) since horses are herd animals and will take off after each other. i had a fall because of the same situation. now, i was bareback, but i also had xc experience. i completely underestimated just how driven my horse (draft, not a tb) would be to take off after her friends (they had gone off first at a canter). luckily i was fine, but not everyone is. anyways, just wanted to clear up that the issue was not the fact her horse was an ottb as they already have a lot of stigma around them :(
@dingetjedinges2165
@dingetjedinges2165 2 года назад
What an inspiration! People like you help me get forward. I have crps-1 (a lot of pain for no reason) in mijn right leg and couldn't walk on it, or even stand. They said I wouldn't get out of my wheelchair, I said I would. Thanks to stories like yours. I ran a 5K years later. Never give up!
@twylenb
@twylenb 2 года назад
Hey Jo. I've always loved your content. As someone with PTSD, depression, and all that crap, it's nice to watch your content to remind myself I'm not alone. Even though I have vastly different experiences, the symptoms and thoughts are similar. Thanks for doing what you do.
@andrewryan5946
@andrewryan5946 2 года назад
Depression doesn't care about the variables. It hurts the same for everyone. Please take care of yourself, stranger
@El_Kap044
@El_Kap044 2 года назад
When I was really young I thought depression or mental health problems in general are a joke. Until I got it myself… And it’s an absolute nightmare! Waking up with fear, pain and self hatred. I wouldn’t wish this on my worst enemy. I hope you stay strong too 🙏🏼
@Midnight24435
@Midnight24435 2 года назад
Warm wishes, internet strangers. Keep weathering the storms and fighting the good fights.
@pebbles_of_fruit
@pebbles_of_fruit 2 года назад
Same!
@ronaldkoop9910
@ronaldkoop9910 2 года назад
I had a amputation on my left leg and then another weeks later, I had no circulation ,now I am healed and ready to start with my prosthetic. Your video has given me the confidence to proceed Ireally need to do this to this to regain some semblance of normalcy In my life, thank you so much for this video.
@Mehk
@Mehk 2 года назад
Sophie is so sweet. It’s like she knew you were about to tell this story and wanted to comfort you.
@normalhuman9878
@normalhuman9878 2 года назад
I have chronic joint problems and it’s so inspiring to hear how you’ve coped with your disability
@CinkSVideo
@CinkSVideo 2 года назад
Happy to see you on the other side of all the really difficult transitions and setbacks. As someone who has has 14, soon to be 15, Orthopaedic surgeries, I will offer you the advice I wished someone had given me at your age. Work on protecting your back, especially your lower back. You have spent many years already with an imbalanced gait. This translates to your back and may rear its ugly head a couple of decades down the road. Restorative and strength work for your back can go a long way to preventing these insidious problems later. On that…keep on keepin’ on.
@Tami_L96
@Tami_L96 2 года назад
I don't recall her asking for unsolicited advice from you or anyone else.
@buggywuggy9044
@buggywuggy9044 2 года назад
@@Tami_L96 dude, this commenter is just concerned and wants to warn her, your comment was unprovoked and unnecessary
@XOChristianaNicole
@XOChristianaNicole 2 года назад
I really appreciate you sharing this. I have had silent kidney and adrenal/Cushing’s disease, which, caused my body to attack my knees and ankles, since I was 6; because of my, undiagnosed health issues, in combination with the stress of living in an abusive home, while unknowingly autistic - I became nearly 350lbs; while, again, unknowingly, dealing with muscle/skeletal weakness (though, being how my brain is wired - I am not always stopped or cognizant of pain). After having weight-loss surgery, and five seemingly fine years - a corrective surgery caused me to be severely disabled/bedridden/housebound, for 8yrs., up until this past year. Leaving me with quite a bit of muscle atrophy. Now, because I am dealing with nephrogenic systemic fibrosis; heavy metal toxicity, which, has caused arthritis, in my bones - on freakin’ top of everything, I have gone through, have had diagnosed, and still am in process of getting diagnosed - my knees/ankles have weakened, much more so, and my valgus knees have worsened; causing me to walk with a cane, now. Especially being, I deal with random edema. Oh! I, also, learned last year, when the doctor’s where figuring out where to place an epidural, and having difficulty - I have scoliosis. Prior to my getting sick, even with my physical disabilities - I was a barber, whom would stand for 12hrs. a day; and was known to hold my own in mosh pits. I had disabilities, though, I was so use to pain - it never stopped me (though, I would push myself, until I couldn’t even walk, because I couldn’t tell when to stop). Now that I am beginning to start to live life, again - not as confined to my home, as I once was - I’m definitely seeing (and feeling) what areas of my body really need attention; which, can be difficult for me to recognize, because I have an odd relationship with pain. I appreciate the advice to focus on my back. I’m a guitar player, also; and I was practicing, only about an hour ago - and I was noticing how much I was slouching and how weak my back was, when I attempted to stay sitting up straight, while I practice. So, I definitely take coming across your comment, as a sign that’s what I get to focus on strengthening, first and foremost. Again, it’s much appreciate; thank you.
@pierre-jean-jacques3050
@pierre-jean-jacques3050 2 года назад
Dude I feel ya when different drs start to pop in just for a peak you know you're in for another world misery! For me it was my elbow and I broke it during a cartwheel at 13 and it derailed my formerly athletic life. I cried at the end of this vid, thank you for making it, you’re incredibly inspiring!
@lb2791
@lb2791 2 года назад
A friend of mine lost his foot in an accident about a year before I first met him. They reattached it after the accident but he was in chronic pain after that and had to take serious pain meds. After a couple of years he went for the ankle fusion which finally got rid of his pain. He was a different person after that - I had known him as this grumpy closed off guy and thought that was just his personality. Turns out it was the chronic pain and he was actually very open and cheerful after it went away. I was so happy for him! I'm glad you also got to a good point (considering the circumstances).
@HkFinn83
@HkFinn83 2 года назад
Maybe you shouldn’t be so judgmental? Think about how you’d feel if you lost a foot and had people calling you an ass and a grouch, meanwhile you’re minus a foot and surrounded by judgemental people. Doesn’t sound so great does it.
@solar0wind
@solar0wind 2 года назад
@@HkFinn83 Your comment sounds at least as judgemental.
@saberg1082
@saberg1082 2 года назад
Thank you so much for sharing your story. I am a "horsegirl" too and this is the kind of thing I have nightmares about. Of course I am aware, that the chances of injuring yourself that badly are low and that accidents happen everywhere but still... Just grows my respect for the sport and encourages me to know my boundaries. I am glad that you are in a place where your can talk about this openly - surely this took a great amount of courage :)
@Ivy99999
@Ivy99999 2 года назад
I know what you mean, I've ridden for about 12+ years and I've only seen 2 injuries bad enough that someone had to be brought away from the barn. Once was when a very tiny (not young, just small stature) girl fell off a 15+ hand high horse practicing for show jumping when the horse decided at the very last second not to jump and stopped so fast the horse actually kicked the board and tripped onto her knees breaking the jump as the girl fell onto the second one behind it and wound up breaking her collar bone among other injuries. She was one of the (if not the best) students at the barn, she was one of only 3 people other than the barn owner who she allowed to try riding her prized jumper (not the horse she rode during the incident), the other was the girls equally adept but slightly less gutsy sister, and one of the coaches who exercised him. Very few people at the barn were even allowed to lead that horse it that conveys the prestiege this girl had. It shocked and sobered everybody at the barn, it was a horrible reminder that no matter good, talented, experienced or knowledgeable you were, things could still get horribly derailed. Another incident around the same time served the same purpose. A family friend who was an extremely knowledgeable, experienced and respected trainer was working with a temperamental, blind horse who was normally the sweetest horse at the barn, but would occasionally throw fits and try to throw or hurt the rider without warning or apparent reason (later figured out it was likely a sound that scared him or some former of ptsd) During one of their sessions, when she had progressed to riding him again, he had a momentary relapse and tried smashing her against the fence rails, bucking and rearing her off. The trainer had forgotten her usual leather gloves at the previous barn and was using a borrowed pair of cloth riding ones, and when she grabbed the base of the mane for stability, the hair wrapped around her fingers and acted like piano wire. It severed her ring finger almost completely through at the base. Her friend and business partner had to rush her to the hospital while she held her finger on with ice since it was mainly just skin and glove holding it together. The doctors manged to reattach it without issue and she has full use and mobility of it now, suprisingly there's not even a very noticeable scar. Terrifying reminders that the most obvious danger is not always the most concerning.
@theinvisibleneonrainbowzeb2567
@theinvisibleneonrainbowzeb2567 2 года назад
@@Ivy99999 I appreciate you and the OPs post, as well as jo for sharing the story. I was very stereotype "would-be horsegirl" lol, lived in a rural area but not near any stables, there was one a few miles away. I read every horse centred book i could, fiction and non-fiction, I bought horsey magazines with pocket money and read the small-ads in the back of horses and ponies for sale, even went to a couple of cross-country trials the 3 day events. Anytime I had birthday or christmas money I would pay for however many lessons that allowed, usually 3-4 at a time. I remember the stables closest to us, they had a sign/poster on the wall as you went to the stable block that said something like "Remember, it was a horse that brought down Superman. Ride at your own risk". Harsh but effective! I loved my twice-yearly mini session of riding classes. Used to ride a steady old plodder, Smarty, while the instructor barked baffling commands at me (like I say, had read a lot, but very little actual experience), so I'd hope Smarty would live up to his name and slowly plod his way through the instructors commands 😂 and he usually obliged. The books I'd read didn't tell me what "20 metres at A, then change reins M to C" meant! (that's probably totally wrong but it was a long time ago now!) Anyhow, one time I had an amazing opportunity, a family friend who was (still is at heart) a "horsegirl/woman", who had a horse in her early adulthood, had a sister who's kids had ponies and regular lessons and there were 2 local (to them) stables offering one day summer events like "own a horse for a day" type thing except probably with a lot more fun than the average day! One of those things as an adult that makes me think they were pretty genius, get people with horsey kids, and get THEM to pay YOU to come in early, muck out for you, clean some tack, and then give the horses some exercise before grooming them down again!! Anyway, because I attended with these other kids that knew the stables well, and thanks to a bit of book-knowledge theory, I think they thought I was more experienced than I was, but I pretty much managed to keep up. Rode a lovely Palomino who's name I don't recall. Looking back it was so chaotic at times like the "horse relay" which involved a race during which we had to swap horses etc!! We went out on a short hack and learning to canter for the first time when travelling across a large open extremely uneven field is probably NOT the wisest but it was bloody good fun! The second of these days was at a much posher private stables who catered to small groups, so it was basically me, family-friend "horsewoman", and her nieces. The plan was to tack up, do some exercises in the indoor arena, and then go out for a longer hack in the afternoon. This place was very posh, it was nice, but again, I think they thought me more competent than I actually was. I was entrusted with an absolutely beautiful horse. I think she was the tallest horse I had ridden, and also the flightiest and feistiest. All was good until mid-morning, we were in the indoor arena doing some fun exercises, when for reasons I do not know, somebody working outside rammed a metal wheelbarrow into the metal exterior wall of the indoor school. All the horses spooked, badly, and me and family friend both got thrown. Now she is super experiences, and was back then so for her to come off was a shock in itself. For me, because this wasn't technically a riding school, they didn't use "safety stirrups" (the kind where one side is rubber that gives and breaks if needed) and as I was thrown off backwards, one boot caught in the stirrup and I landed on my neck and back as one leg was caught above me still. Think I blacked for a minute, because I remember that but not the boot coming off, or the rest of me landing, or the horse taking off which all must have happened because the next memory was being told not to move when the horse ran back at me. I don't think I, or anyone else realised actually how much I hurt myself. I still have pain now, and later x-rays showed likely scarring on the bone from a previous fracture. TLDR: Wannabe Horsegirl attends childhood horse adventure, accidentally breaks neck.
@Ivy99999
@Ivy99999 2 года назад
@@theinvisibleneonrainbowzeb2567 Woah, that's crazy! The riding schools around here are pretty strict, even most barns are. Every single barn I've ever boarded my horse at made me and anyone I wanted to bring on the property sign waiver (as did the school) pretty much acknowledging that horses and farms are dangerous yadda yadda, as well as one for anyone who wanted to ride my horse other than me. My school had 2-3 beginner horses, and unless the owner had seen you ride before or trusted your experience you had to have at least one lesson on them before moving on the other horses. These ones were chosen because of how calm and bomb-proof they were, probably helped by the fact that they were older lol. They only had one set of actual safety stirrups though, and out of the two times I saw people fall from it, they only deployed once. But the owner was very stringent on safety and if you didn't have appropriate or approved boots, helmet, etc she provided ones to borrow, and if you didn't have ones she'd accept and couldn't fit in the lenders she refused to let you on the horse. In my opinion western stirrups are probably some of the worst for getting stuck in. I was also the stereotypical crazy horse girl, dozens of books and magazines, movies, documentaries and shows, anytime there was a pony ride at a fair I went, I still have the wall trim paper, curtains and blanket from when my parents redid my room like that, I've lost the sheet set though. I've gotten rid of most of the statues over the years too lol.
@theinvisibleneonrainbowzeb2567
@theinvisibleneonrainbowzeb2567 2 года назад
@@Ivy99999 Thank you for actually reading my stupidly long oversharing comment! Yeah, looking back as an adult the 2 "adventure" days, I don't think they'd pass risk assessment now. Probably. The local stables to where I lived were pretty good, made you sign and parents sign an acknowledgement of risk type form every time before you even got near the horses, but i don't know with the other 2. Still now decades later though the biggest question I have is why the hell did the person either push or allow the wheelbarrow to hit the wall, and with such force, the sudden noise was massive, I mean I spooked as well as the horses! Anyone working at a place like that should know better!!
@evil1by1
@evil1by1 2 года назад
It's really not a small risk. By statistics horse riding I'd more dangerous than a motorcycle. I myself ruined my career, fell off a 12h pony and suffered a spinal fracture from L1- C7 ( from T9 up it was just hairline). My cousin crushed the box forming her ankle when a horse reared and flipped over backwards on her. She almost lost her foot too but it was saved with a significant limp. I know 2 people who have been killed and numerous other people who broke noses, shoulders, hands, toes, ribs etc
@ams4490
@ams4490 2 года назад
What a rollercoaster ride. Your running story had me tearing up! Glad it worked out for you in the end.
@myrandamiller91
@myrandamiller91 Год назад
I am not an amputee, but I am a disabled 31 year old and I relate so much to the forced relationship with disability and aides to that disability. I have Service Animals (which is great for my needs) and although I love my furry sidekicks, I really wish there was more acceptance of disability and aides in our society. Having disability aides of any type paints a giant "What's wrong with you?" target on me because outwardly I look "normal". It's obnoxious to be constantly questioned and (more than I care to admit) ridiculed for being unapologetically myself. Watching your videos and shorts offers a different perspective and I love that, because even though I have other disabled friends, most of them have similar issues as me, and it's cool to get to know (in a way, at least) another person my age who deals with different things but has a similar outlook to life. So thank you for sharing parts of your life and thank you as well for being unapologetically yourself.
@nicola6234
@nicola6234 2 года назад
This was such an awesome story, thanks for sharing. My husband broke both his ankles in an accident years ago and will most likely have to have at least one leg amputated in the future. He lives in constant pain. This gave me so much hope for the future for if/when that time comes, thank you 💛
@snklpchan8990
@snklpchan8990 2 года назад
Her confidence is phenomenal. I'm getting chills just looking at her and there she is talking about it like it's no big deal. Respect👏🏽
@mikespangler2489
@mikespangler2489 9 месяцев назад
You have been through more than anyone should have to endure. I am really inspired with your attitude at dealing with this. I pray that you are blessed with a long healthy life full of love, peace and joy.
@ameliasparkles13
@ameliasparkles13 2 года назад
I don’t get sick of hearing your story! I like that you’re able to finally share the part about the negligence and hardships associated directly with that now. Thanks for always being a positive boost when I need it!
@shadowweaver3693
@shadowweaver3693 2 года назад
All this because of one fall off a horse. Crazy. You're so strong and inspiring
@kittypewpew
@kittypewpew 2 года назад
Some people die falling off a horse
@antcommander1367
@antcommander1367 2 года назад
the deadliest animal of australia. Which kinda suprised me, when i 1st heard thar.
@DarthAxolotl
@DarthAxolotl 2 года назад
Getting thrown off an ex race horse at full gallop (especially forward where the horse can fall into you), she's lucky to be alive.
@raymondbrown940
@raymondbrown940 Месяц назад
Wow... That is an amazing story of perseverance. Thank you for sharing it and for reminding me of an old friend. Many, many years ago, I was in college at NMSU and there was a double amputee in our study group, Mike. Mike worked in a furniture factory. I believe he lost the lower parts of both legs in Vietnam. He went through some rough times after that. But, he picked himself up and used his VA benefits and GI Bill to go back to college. I didn't even know that he was an amputee for the first few months that I knew him because he handled his prosthetics so well. We had an exam prep all-nighter and were joking about not showering and needing to change cloths and he said that at least he wouldn't have to change his socks or worry about foot odor. I asked him why he was so special and didn't have to worry about those things and he knocked one of his prosthetics against the other and said it was because wood and fiberglass don't stink. That's how I found out. Anyway... God bless you, Mike. I know you're at least in your 70's now because you were older than me. I hope life has been good to you, brother. I still think about you some times as being one of the bravest people I've known and really wish we had kept in touch.
@atreq
@atreq 2 года назад
"That is something that has always been very empowering to me, knowing that I made that decision and I'm gonna take responsibility for whatever comes after it." This is actually something I needed to hear.
@obiwann785
@obiwann785 4 месяца назад
That bit got me too 🩷
@christinecannibal844
@christinecannibal844 2 года назад
I cried like a baby watching you hug your dad. That was the sweetest. It made me think of my dad. I think it hit me a little extra hard because my dad raised me and my little brothers alone, and he's always been the only person I can count on. I'm glad you can walk and run and do fun things again ❤️❤️ I can't imagine living in pain for that long.
@heidic527
@heidic527 10 месяцев назад
OMG I got choked up there and cried a little too. Every day I contemplate this decision for myself. It's hard to know what the right decision is for myself. Thank you for sharing, I'm certain I'm not the only person you are helping by being so vulnerable and sharing such an intimate piece of yourself on the internet, which is sadly not always a kind place.
@missmollyc
@missmollyc 2 года назад
Jo, thank you so much for sharing your story, and thank you SO much for putting closed captions on this video! Myself and others with limited or no hearing really appreciate being able to enjoy this content.
@MoonlightThequadrobist
@MoonlightThequadrobist 2 года назад
❤️
@CrayCrayslab
@CrayCrayslab 2 года назад
I always try to caption my videos (it's on a different channel) but can I just ask if you've been affected by RU-vid removing community closed captions? I loved writing them and it's just so frustrating. I sometimes watch videos with auto captions and they're dogshit unless you're watching a video essay where a person is trying to talk clearly. No need to reply if you don't want to, I've just never had the chance to ask, take care
@missmollyc
@missmollyc 2 года назад
@@CrayCrayslab Yes, it’s extremely frustrating that community CCs were removed. Auto-generated subtitles are very unreliable and makes it very difficult to watch videos that do not have CCs entered by the creator. I wish youtube would bring them back.
@willowmaiden9905
@willowmaiden9905 2 года назад
Thank you for telling your story! I’m visually impaired and slowly loosing my sight, I’ve had many surgeries trying to fix, repair and lengthen the time I can see, and it’s very tiring to keep holding onto something that only getting worse. I won’t lie, loosing my sight would be like loosing a part of me, I won’t be able to do most of the things I enjoy doing, and one day I might forget my own family’s faces. I appreciate hearing your story, and in a way making me and I’m sure a few people less lonely. Thank you again and may you be blessed.
@redhatpat9387
@redhatpat9387 2 года назад
You might want to check out this RU-vidr - Molly Burke (ru-vid.comfeatured). She lost her sight to Retinitis Pigmentosa at the age of 14, but like Jo, it has NOT slowed her down even a little bit. I think you would learn a lot from her channel.
@managerspoop4354
@managerspoop4354 2 года назад
I hope a miracle happens to you and will heal your sight! be healthy and may you be blessed.
@willowmaiden9905
@willowmaiden9905 2 года назад
@@redhatpat9387 Thank you for your suggestion! I’ve heard of her, truly an amazing individual.
@redhatpat9387
@redhatpat9387 2 года назад
@@willowmaiden9905 It is totally amazing what she has done with her life and all of the out of the ordinary (for a blind person) things she has done - including sky diving! She is very outspoken about people with disabilities and speaks out against discrimination and bullying, etc. But most of all, and probably the best reason for you to check her out, is how she relays the need to accept who you are and do your best with your life. (And you'll love her [guide] dog and her cat too)
@silliestslugonearth
@silliestslugonearth 2 года назад
i wish you the best, stay strong!!
@just_trinn
@just_trinn 2 года назад
Wow. You deserve the support of the world. You have been through so much and yet you are still so strong and grateful and kind. This is such an incredible and inspiring story. ❤️
@RooEq
@RooEq 2 года назад
I can’t believe a person can be that strong you are a special person and I can’t believe how brave you are!
@scottbrady5213
@scottbrady5213 2 года назад
Your energy. Your vibe. Your beauty. I watch you selfishly bc you amaze me. Your strength, humor, are inspiring. Can only imagine how many lives you’ve affected with your story. I watch everything you post bc your so positive and effervescent and addicting. Just saw a recent post about your curiosity if your husband would have fallen for you the amputee? He saw the real you. You amaze daily. Inspire even more. Wish I knew someone half as inspiring as you. Love you mean it!
@civili666
@civili666 2 года назад
This was Inspirational to say the least. Amazing attitude and I'm sure this will help a lot of people in same situation. Thank you for sharing!
@carfan6466
@carfan6466 2 года назад
Everything this young lady went through and she is still so positive. What a woman
@g_way
@g_way 2 года назад
I definitely teared up at the end hearing about how you were finally able to do all the things you weren’t able to before. To me, amputations had always been some emergency surgery type deal, reserved for big accidents or something - it never occurred to me that it’s a huge decision for some dealing with chronic pain or the like. I know a little more about the world now. Thanks for sharing your story!
@bumblebee3295
@bumblebee3295 Год назад
Blink those tears back Jo- I cried for you! You totally answered my question in your other video. Hope my question didn’t sound off in any way- I was just curious. So happy for the space your are in at this moment in time. Again, you are amazing!
@nillavanilla5405
@nillavanilla5405 2 года назад
You are such an awesome person, you bring a calm, friendly feeling to your videos. I look forward to each video you post!!
@katiebell1873
@katiebell1873 2 года назад
Thank you so much for sharing your story! I am not an amputee, and I know our stories are vastly different. But I feel like I can relate to you. I was diagnosed with a chronic heart condition when I was 12, and it was definitely a life changer. The simple things in your life, like running, aren't so simple anymore. It was so frustrating to see easy, everyday actions, and think "I should be able to do that", when in reality I couldn't anymore. Learning how to adjust your life is really hard and takes a lot prayers and perseverance! I feel like my story was shared through yours. So thank you. (I may have cried a little. Just maybe!)
@Fjongan
@Fjongan 8 месяцев назад
RU-vid algorithm brought me here. I must say that you tell your life story in a way that you really can relate to what has happened to you. Of course it’s impossible yo fully grasp what you have been through- I can’t. That you for sharing your story.
@mz_daisy6701
@mz_daisy6701 2 года назад
Ohhhh, your an inspiration! When you were able to run again, i had tears streaming down my face, and i don't even know you! My baby niece was like" don't cry....why are you saddddd??? Offering a hug....really, from the bottom of my heart, God bless you! I have no doubt that you can do anything you set your mind and heart to do.
@adriangarcia8238
@adriangarcia8238 2 года назад
Thank you. As a recent BK amputee I needed to hear and feel your positivity. You didn’t lose a leg.. u gained a better understanding of the quality of life.
@lauren3173
@lauren3173 4 месяца назад
You are a complete stranger to me. Well, a little less so now that I’ve watched this video. I’ve just been hanging out watching videos on RU-vid about different people and the diversity of life experiences. I happened upon your video and it seemed cool to learn about someone new. And here I am crying along with you when you’re talking about running for the first time. You did that. You worked hard for that. Good on you!
@JennaGetsCreative
@JennaGetsCreative 2 года назад
I've been following your channel for years, I've heard this all before, and I still teared up with you. Thank you for sharing your story and shedding light on this sort of situation, because you're absolutely right, people don't know about this sort of reason for amputation, just like people don't realize PTSD doesn't have to come from war either (which I also know you know and help to spread knowledge about.)
@toryleeann8528
@toryleeann8528 2 года назад
I didn't expect to cry today, especially at a random stranger's story on RU-vid! You're so inspiring and relatable. Thank you for sharing. ❤
@phantomjosh2148
@phantomjosh2148 2 года назад
You’re pretty 😊
@toryleeann8528
@toryleeann8528 2 года назад
@@phantomjosh2148 thank you
@BonjourMonAmi11
@BonjourMonAmi11 2 года назад
I can’t wait to have that feeling too. I used to be a runner when I was younger. Used to do a mile in 4 min 10secs but now I can’t even force a run without pain, going to the Orthopedic office this Friday. Thank you for doing these videos. They help a lot
@kristinaarp9144
@kristinaarp9144 2 года назад
I was fine until you crossed the finish line into your dad's arms. 😭😭😭 I can't imagine how incredibly proud he was in that moment. Glad I found your channel.
@rileymccune6845
@rileymccune6845 2 года назад
My pastor when I was like 8 was an amputee. In one VBS skit, he did a very elaborate (and very fake) retelling of how he lost his leg to a gator which ended with a jump scare where he swung his prosthetic around his head. To which the entire gymnasium of small children burst into hysterics. It was hilarious (and terrifying😂). So that was my first experience with an amputee as a child!
@johnfleming5470
@johnfleming5470 8 месяцев назад
My sister lost her leg from MS and lymphedema. She wanted a wooden peg leg, an eye patch and a parrot. Never complained about what a raw deal she got in life. You remind me of her. I can’t give you a higher compliment
@sofiabriones9221
@sofiabriones9221 2 года назад
One of your RU-vid shorts or something came up randomly and I loved you lol this is my first time watching a full video of yours. I don't know you but I started tearing up when you were running in therapy and in the parking lot but when you crossed the finish line at the marathon, the tears came lol I'm so proud of you! I know, I'm no one to you so this probably doesn't matter to you at all(understandably lol) but just to hear your story and know about you, you're incredible...it's hard to hear about but life is hard, you know? I'm glad you kept going and didn't give up, it definitely wasn't easy(I mean, I can only imagine). Glad you keep telling your story. You're amazing. Wish we were friends, you're so freaking cool.
@emilydelaportilla2829
@emilydelaportilla2829 2 года назад
I can’t believe I’ve been here long enough to hear the story in full in one video! You’re a rockstar, Jo! I’m so happy to be a part of your internet friend group!
@MusicGal672
@MusicGal672 Год назад
I’m not an amputee, but I am chronically ill, so I understand a future full of question marks. I totally teared up at you running the 5k, and I can’t wait for my worth it moment ❤
@littlefootinalaska6253
@littlefootinalaska6253 Год назад
Hang in there!
@tariqmezeik
@tariqmezeik 2 года назад
You are a hero . I’m really sorry for what happened to you as a kid. And really happy for you that you took back control in your life. I wish you an amazing life.
@Lissi2233
@Lissi2233 2 года назад
You are such an inspiring person! Thank you so much for telling your story!! I know chronicle pain very well, because i have fibromyalgie since 8 years, every day, every hour, every second to be in pain is a very difficult task. I am glad so see you with this big smile and with your joy of life, i am very amazed!!!!
@brendahuntley9377
@brendahuntley9377 2 года назад
Hey Joe, you are a true “Superstar” My dad lost his leg and most of his arm during the war. Yes I am a 65 year old and mother of Two adult daughters. The war I speak of is the Second World War. I never knew my father with all functioning limbs. “man” could he ever fly in the water with that huge flipper ! . Again sweet Joe … You ROCK 😘 😽✨
@danielle9074
@danielle9074 2 года назад
I've seen you run across that parking lot at least three times, AND the video of your 5k, and I don't know you in real life. But it still makes me tear up. Congratulations again on the 5k. Thanks for making me feel less alone in the struggle, and for making me smile with your success,.
@brianlawliss1080
@brianlawliss1080 Год назад
Just started to follow you, because of your Alexa commercial, Being a Christian, I have started to pray for you, and am wishing you that God Will bless you abundantly !
@tattoodude8946
@tattoodude8946 2 года назад
This randomly popped up on my page and I felt compelled to tell you that you are an awesome person. You exude positivity in the face of adversity and I commend you for that. I'm sure the struggles you went through were many and trying but to see this vibrant individual on the other side of all that, makes me happy. Also, it goes to show that we should never take anything for granted - life can change in an instant and one must embrace every moment to its fullest. Love yourself always!
@leo_valdez6026
@leo_valdez6026 2 года назад
The tears came when you crossed that 5km finish line. I’m so happy for you Jo. Thanks for sharing your story ❤️
@giuliagiannini15
@giuliagiannini15 2 года назад
Listening to your story I was so frustrated. This journey must have been so painful. Thank you for sharing this with us, strangers on the internet! It shows how resilient we can be, when we want to defend our right to fully live our life! And you are an impressive example of resilience and strength. Never lose that!
@exvaxmama
@exvaxmama 2 года назад
Seeing you and your dad run together thru those sunflowers aww I lost it! Your story is so captivating and the way you seem to handle everything is just beyond amazing. GOD bless you Jo!
@ChampagneHoneybee
@ChampagneHoneybee 2 года назад
As a fellow horse girl, I’m so sorry to hear that your dream soon turned into a nightmare. Thank you for sharing your story, keep shining! 💖
@bonsaitomato8290
@bonsaitomato8290 2 года назад
Thanks for sharing your story, I have a similar story. I’m an art handler and I fell 20 feet off a ladder onto a concrete floor and the ladder which fell with me crushed my ankle. It took me a year to walk again with only a minor limp and just as I thought life was returning to normal I got my first staph infection in my foot. Pain so bad it was unimaginable. In the hospital for two days on an antibiotic IV drip and an MRI showed that I had collapsed a whole series of veins limiting the blood flow to my foot. After a few months of recovery I got another infection, and then another, and another, and another. Basically in 20 years since my accident I’ve had an infection about once every year , a couple came close to killing me. Now I suffer with chronic neuropathy in my leg, if I have a long day on my feet the next day I’m out of commission for at least a day or three. I’ve seen specialist after specialist and I have been offered lots of treatments. I even considered having a nerve deadening device implanted into my lower spine to kill the pain but it’s costly and only lasts for 10 years before the battery needs to be replaced, plus they tell me that nerves are irrational and there’s no guarantee it would work. So I get by, I have a bunch of walking stability boots which are very much like you described walking with a prosthetic leg, I get so tired walking around with it. The only cool thing about it is I can pull off walking with an awesomely carve cane really well. Lots of swag. 😂 I watched your video because I’ve been considering amputation for serval years now when I can no longer handle the pain anymore. I’ve discussed it with doctors who normally advise against it but in my case they say it’s something to consider when I’m older to guard against an infection in my old age that might finally do me in. Thanks for sharing what it’s like , it calms me to know their is life after you lose your leg.
@seganaleqa
@seganaleqa 2 года назад
I’m new here, I only found you a few weeks ago. Thank you for sharing your story and running this amazing channel. I’ve always been curious about amputees, but was always told it was rude to discuss it with a person. You are fulfilling my curiosity by explaining all these things in such a positive way. I love all of the content you share, and thank you again. Sending lots of love from Canada. 💜🇨🇦
@nanners829
@nanners829 2 года назад
Jo, your attitude & sense of humor is amazing! I now it helped me when I went through 30 days in the hospital, came close to checking out for life 3 or 4 times. I went to the hospital with a 5 cm mass in my right lung. Then a 2nd one popped up i a few days. Yay, no cancer! But 9 more days before I got discharged from a nasty case of pneumonia & getting really septic. I don't remember much, but I Was told I joked around too much. I guess I was the only one amused. Two weeks later still hazy, lI get the pet scan. A few days later I get called in for the follow up. It was much faster than I thought & it was a Thursday. Friday I asked so what's next. He said I needed surgery within the next 2 weeks, the sooner the better. My lil mass grew into a really bad abscess. He refered me to someone outside of our plan... I saw him the next day & surgery was Tuesday. Long story short my body filed with pockets of air, both lungs collapsed, vent for a night, went home after 20 days, minus the lower lobe of my right lung. But the doctor said he was genuinely inspired by my attitude & joking all of the way. As by body was rapidly expanding I said, look, paint me purple, I'm Violet Beauregard - from Willy Wonka. And that's what I love about your spirit!
@EmelynAmoo
@EmelynAmoo 8 месяцев назад
You are absolutely inspiring. The fighting through your accident, that 5k you ran, just wow. I have always been scared of loosing a limb, but now as I watch this video, the difference between what I thought it would be like. What a power woman you are. Keep up the amazing work love!!♡
@howardmiller4631
@howardmiller4631 2 года назад
Hi I had a below knee amputation in early july at 57 years old. You story is so beautiful. Its so good to hear how other people cope with this life changing event. I usually tell people I don't know that I stepped on an old rusted out bear trap. Take ❤
@Andrie85
@Andrie85 2 года назад
Thank you for sharing your story with us. I think it’s important that when stories are being shared the origin of what lead someone down a path is told too. Very inspiring.
@alexflosho
@alexflosho 2 года назад
With the way you described the “I should get an amputation” sounds like it took a similar amount of time as me trying to choose which computer to get
@kavitadeva
@kavitadeva 2 года назад
I can't imagine the physical and mental agony when the first amputation did not work. So many procedures so much unknown. Thanks for Sharing what it all involved. You truly are courageous and brave. Youve had to grieve who you once were. Not an easy process. Take Care Jo.
@sarahific1713
@sarahific1713 2 года назад
My dads an amputee. You came up on my fyp and decided to check you out. That video I sent to my dad and said "look what came up on my fyp". I felt so proud(no idea why) to share it with him. He becamean amputee at the start of civic and it was really hard cuz we couldn't go see him in the hospital. He just now tells people he lost his leg cuz he got the second shot. Lol
@laid07
@laid07 Год назад
If I were to ever lose a limb larger than my small toe, or lose the usage of any limb larger than my small toe, I am going off a bridge, or building.
@annaburns2865
@annaburns2865 2 года назад
Omg. How do you stay so positive? As a depressed person life can be fine and I will be down in the dumps. I have come to learn that it’s own disease/mental illness. But you seriously inspire me to keep going. Losing hope can be really hard. But when hope is restored it can be really nice. There are Angels all around us. Thank you for sharing your story.
@TheCreativeVictor
@TheCreativeVictor 2 года назад
You are honestly a warrior. You looked fear directly in the face and showed it who's boss. Thank you for sharing your story. ❤️
@aetherstarry4966
@aetherstarry4966 2 года назад
im crying so bad actually. You're such a strong woman.
@xaenon
@xaenon Месяц назад
You are my hero, darlin. Your positivity and drive are just amazing.
@whiterabbitserpentshand5645
@whiterabbitserpentshand5645 2 года назад
You're a good role model, you managed to get through having a limb removed! I can't imagine how hard that must have been. You took that leap of faith and made it!
@MyBleedingInk
@MyBleedingInk 2 года назад
So I'm one of the 50,000 that have found you in the last week, and I watched this video and HOLY CRAP YOU'RE IN COLORADO???? Me too! Yay. 😊 But also, I related to a lot of what you said. I'm not an amputee but I was born with Spina Bifida and so I am familiar with hospitals and surgeries and all that. Also just wanna say that yeah, not all amputations are "dramatic." Friend of mine, also with SB, had his leg amputated, after years and years of a pressure sore JUST. NOT. HEALING!!! He tried so much stuff, but finally decided to just chop it off in his 40s. Anyway, nice meeting you and looking forward to watching more videos. 😊
@howardross1154
@howardross1154 8 месяцев назад
My friend saw one of your shorts and he said i should check you out.Once i started watching I couldn't stop because our mental thought is so alike. I never lost a limb but i was in the Marines and i went through some (es ach ey tee) and had similar thoughts.Either way your still beautiful with one foot which is so perfect and I encourage you to live your life to the fullest.
@brianstraight9308
@brianstraight9308 2 года назад
"Or be able to take my dog on a W-A--L-K which I'm not going to say because she's sitting right here." Says "walk" a couple sentences later, dog doesn't react. ;) Love you Jo, keep being strong.
@painnkiller9917
@painnkiller9917 2 года назад
I had a knee dislocation and a ligament got torn out and I faced many problems it was too hard for me. you are really an inspiration. Hats off to you
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