They treat being a stay at home mom like as if we're putting iron prison bars around the house. If mom doesn't have to work she can take the kids into town and do whatever and be free. Go to park, go do this and that. The more you can expose the young children to the better. The zoo, tbe playground, idk man, they can go anywhere
@@TheAnnoyingBoss this is one cause of FEMINISTic ideology that actually put women into the "victim" section of marriage. secularism is another reason for this. removing GOD in marriage is another
Yeah lol, and raising kids is the most meaningful part of many people’s lives. It’s definitely not fair to characterize it as menial “slave” labour, as one guy called it.
No, he really doesn't. As a single mom that used to be a stay-at-home mom, working is MUCH easier! Lol I mean, at my job now, after I get my work done if it's a slow night, I sit there watching movies or having long conversations with customers. I couldn't do that at home when all 3 of my kids were younger...I can hardly do that now when 2 are grown and my youngest is almost 14. Even trying to have an adult conversation is difficult with kids at home, much less housework, cooking, acting as a taxi driver, therapist, prison warden 🤣 etc..
I could not do what a housewife does, cooking three meals a day cleaning an entire home and keeping it tidy, and raising kids till the father gets home, but also a husbands job isn't easy either, he has to get a good stable job that makes enough money for a living and then come home and take the kids off the housewife for a while so she gets her break and gets to have her time. Both jobs are hard and both are impossible to do right, without the other.
@@LemonMan. Yes, you're absolutely right. I LOVED being a stay-at-home mom, but I couldn't have done it if my ex-husband didn't work as hard as he did. We had our kids young, I had just turned 18 6 days before when I got pregnant with my oldest, I worked for a while at a daycare while I was pregnant but then we decided to move, get married & we both wanted me to stay home so he got a second job. I felt horrible that he was working 2 jobs, but thankfully not long after our son was born, he began working for a construction company & made enough there to quit his second job. That would be a lot harder these days though, with prices skyrocketing. It was great for a while, we even had a second child, a baby girl, a yr & 4 months after our son....but then my ex-husband began using heavy drugs, became abusive & it all went downhill from there & I filed for divorce...and I don't even believe in divorce except for 2 reasons: abuse & infidelity. I've never remarried, our kids are now 21 & 22, but I miss my days as a stay-at-home mom & a wife so much! Well, minus the part of only having one car, anyway. The kids & I would be stuck at home unless I got up at4:30-5 am & drove him to work. No thank you! I'm still not a morning person to this day. Lol Sorry for writing a book!
"Just raising kids?" JUST??? Please tell me the boy is an orphan or had an unusual mother/guardian. The disrespect in that line is immense and worse, he doesn't even notice it.
If someone wants to continue traditional gender roles sure, but forcing someone who isn't happy with traditional gender roles is why it yes should be an option, no shouldn't be required.
The man who said “women didn’t do much rather then raising kids” doesn’t know that it’s the most important role of society. Traditional Mothers who took care of their children and raised them properly are the ones who actually made any difference to the world. Thank you mothers for your love and support🙏.
So true! It’s rare than anyone else’s work actually affects the future, nothing more than sending loving,responsible,well raised human beings into the world. And eternity?
You can tell that man has no idea what women truly want and what they derive satisfaction from. At the end of the day the only thing that makes a woman feel happy and fulfilled are her family and friends
@@YouFallenforit I agree with you generally. However, many women also have goals and passions besides family and friends that they would like to achieve to reach fulfillment in life. Originally, the point of feminism was to give women an equal chance/choice to achieve what they wanted to achieve in life like men had.
Simple don’t force gender roles and demonize those who don’t fulfill them but also don’t discount them correctly. Learn from the past & look to the future not destroy it completely.
That’s how it is in Northern Europe. They have equal opportunity and most choose traditional gender roles because they want to. We shouldn’t enforce gender roles and we shouldn’t demonize them either. Just let people do what they want with their lives.
The lie that stay at home moms are "slaves" to their husbands must have been made up by a man. My husband has set work hours, leaves the house to do physical work, answers to a boss all day, pays for my housing, my food, all the bills, all my clothes... I stay at home and make my own to do list, manage my own priorities, my own work/rest schedule... but *I'm* the slave? Really?
When the husband leaves you for another woman, you will be a slave to him and his money. You'll want to move out but won't be able to find good paying work and ultimately you'll struggle. I'm a woman and I'm very thankful I can work and build a career.
@S you assume husband's leave! 70/80% of the divorce is initiated by women, and it's not because of infidelity as a majority cause. The vast majority of women who have divorces also have a career and have a marriage as a conditional lifestyle on the side. Basically competing with their partner, turning everything into a conditional debate on who gets what and when. Traditional women don't get cheated on. It's because we satisfy our men and don't set unrealistic conditions because we think they're more important than unity. You sound like the type that divorces because your happiness comes first. Me me me. Good luck being single.
I feel like we shouldn’t because some women don’t want that, but we *should* normalize it again. It’s totally ok to want to stay home and care for the children, but it should also be ok to want to work and strive for a successful life.
"normalize" it's already the norm, what are you talking about? We're simply shifting away from it being the **expectation**, and ensure freedom of choice.
@@Jared_Is_Near I really don’t think it’s an expectation, especially during these times in our society. The “independent strong woman” road is really the one being pushed. My point is they should both be normalized. It shouldn’t matter.
Traditional gender roles are fine if that's what you want. With that said, it should never be the expectation EVER again because traditional gender roles do not work for all of us
Traditional gender roles must be abolished. Non traditional gender roles will never be respected until ALL genders are drafted for frontlines military service if need be.
Raising Kids, staying home for this if possible, is a Gift. Worth more than anything else. Would give arms and legs for going back to my younger self and spend more time with my kids
Yeah, you shouldn't neglect your kids. Like you said it is valuable to spend time with them but if you really rather be doing something else than raising your kids then you really shouldn't have kids in the first place. Maybe don't get married if you want to have a hard-working lifestyle rather than raising your children or just simply don't have kids.
People really think that feeding a brat and telling them to shut up and watch tv is raising kids. No, dude, raising a kid is pretty much hands on psychology training that requires A LOT of effort. There’s no “boring” unless you’re a peter pan that is always thinking about your hedonistic desires.
Completely agreed. But considering who the last speaker was, and how this was generally poised, PragerU definitely does not want anyone to truly have that freedom of choice.
@@Jared_Is_NearI think including the last speaker proved @synfyl's comment even more. It shows that even those who fall into stereotypes - those who you assume the opinion of just from looking at them - have their own opinions that may not fit the stereotype at all.
As someone who’s physically incapable of having children (sterile) I would be bored as hell as a “traditional” housewife. I don’t mind traditional roles, my parents are in that position, although like 1970s European so my mother does work but only about 20 hours, a normal work week is 37. I just took after my father and ended up as a workaholic and even if I was to prepare 3 full meals a day for my husband, and my, non existent, non fur children I’d still have a lot of time to do literally nothing Now I know “oh you could just adopt” there’s a reason why I’m not considering that option, in the traditional days you couldn’t. Either you birthed your own children or you were a “wrong” parent, still is like that today (I’m an adoptee and you don’t wanna know how often I’m asked who’s your real mother, like bitch you see that woman over there. That’s her. She just doesn’t have the same skin colour as me) Oh and surrogacy is illegal in my country, because “women shouldn’t be able to monopolise their bodies” but men are fully allowed to monetise jerking it off (sperm donations, it’s about 500$ a month for good quality sperm)
I wouldn’t say my parents have traditional roles as both my parents work desk jobs my dad does the outside work and fixes the house while my mom handles the finances and such, it works out as they are both doing things they would rather do than the other.
I think we should all just do what we want.. I’d like to have a traditional family but I’d never try and convince anyone else to be traditional. Both roles are just as important as the other. Id like to be a man worthy of a woman’s “submission” (don’t really like that word)
It's not whether we should/ shouldn't bring back gender roles. It's whether we want and/or can live that particular lifestyle. Men and women should be able to pursue whatever role they want in life. But if a couple wants to be traditional, let them. Freedom of Choice!!! I wish my wife and I could live on one income in CA. She wants to be a stay-at-home mom. But she has to work because cost of living in CA is too high for one income.
@Dolphinboi What? How does that relate to this topic? We're talking gender roles, not cross dressing. Plus making an assumption as a personal attack is incredibly immature.
@@JasonDaOlympian cross dressing does have to do with gender roles. It goes against them. And you’re a man so clearly you’re against the idea of men cross dressing. Men are pretty socially conservative
@Dolphinboi 1. If being a man does not mean men are against cross dressing. There are men who cross dress and ID as men because that is who they are. I have 2 friends are both men and gay and love each other. They also wear women's clothing from time to time. 2. In a very general sense, sure, men tend to lean more conservatively. But you're assuming in extremities. Just because I am a man, that doesn't make me conservative. Plenty of men are left leaning. 3. My original argument was for people to live as they please in whatever role they choose. I never said anything about cross dressing. You clearly brought it up, assumed I'm an unpleasant, arrogant individual, and I've told you otherwise.
We shouldn't negatively stigmatize traditional gender roles. It is a choice. Not slavery. Not forced. Plenty fulfilment. Honor. Why do people think a woman who chooses to stay home and raise their children is a dead end? SAH mothers have the most important "job" in the world!
That's the thing. People need to have a choice, but by saying we should go back to old gender rolls tells me that we shouldn't have a choice. My bf works as an aid to mentally disabled elementary school children, which wouldn't be classified as a man's job, I work in hydraulic fluid power, which is a messy man's job but makes a crap ton of money. His job is my hell and vice versa. We are both extremely happy in our unorthodox gender rolls.
The last kid is going to get a massive reality check from his mother & his future wife if he doesn't let go of the idea that stay-at-home moms "sit at home and do nothing" out of his head. That has to be one of the stupidest things a man could ever say...if he wants a happy marriage anyway. Lol
@@KingSpectre844 Yep! I was a stay-at-home mom when I was married until my kids started school, then I went to school again myself (I had my kids very young). For a while I was working full-time, school full-time _and_ I still tried to make sure dinner was ready & the house was clean by the time my ex-husband got home from work. Working is a piece of cake compared to staying home with the kids full-time. A stay-at-home parent's job doesn't end, it's 7 days a week, 24 hours a day whether the kids are home or not. Men don't have it easy either, and fathers are also dads 24/7, but the belittling of stay-at-home moms is annoying... especially when it's coming from your husband, or worse, your own son.
@@angiew2324 holy cow. Good on you. I (a man) had a hard enough time just trying to do work and school. From working at a school, I know that kids are rewarding, exciting, clever but tiring. You doing all of that is awesome.
This is the narrative that is being pushed down their throats while away at College. Poor kids have no idea how to think for themselves. I dare anyone to ask a new college grad to answer a critical thinking question on their own. They cannot do it where I work! But hey, they are all over the "gender discussions. " LMAOOOOO!
Im not turning this to a fight, just disagreeing with you: My entire family lives a very happy life, and none of us ever lived the traditional family life. Most of us worked, some of the men haven't, all of us had high education (the women taking higher levels of degree and succeeding better on their classes), all the female are the actual lider of the households, having their name signed on the property contract and paying most of the bills. And this doesn't mean we are all left wing liberals either, we just did what made sense, what we wanted, and whatever we could afford to do. We live happy, fullfiled lives, and non of us ever had a problem on changing roles.
People should have the choice. Not everyone is happy in their predefined gender roll. I'm a career girl in a trade profession that is 99% male, I don't want a family or to raise kids and staying at home would destroy my mental health.
Personally, I say yes. Affirming men as men and women as women is going to help everyone. Everyone deserves the same opportunities (work, education, etc) and gender roles don't conflictwith that; it's that it is hard to maintain in balance. That said, how a couple functions is up to them. Men and women can both be aggressive, competent, gentle, etc. Let the better person take on the role. Support the tradition, accept the reality.
Tradition means men go out and work and women stay home with the kids. Why does it have to be that way, why can’t some households be the opposite. It just makes no sense.
@@jamesgreen9791 I agree that the bread winner can be either, but there are certain things that cannot be changed. Only men can be fathers and husbands; only women can be mothers and wives. There are things uniquely suited to the sexes and its the traditions that help to teach and reinforce those roles that I support. At the end of the day, each household and family are different. Not all fathers will be able to work, not all women will be mothers. So I see it as an ideal but you shouldn't be judged because your's operates differently. People have neither the same lives nor circumstances.
@@cvernon5256 yeah but I just don’t get why we have any traditional values at all. Men can be any job or not have one and women can have any job or also not have one. There is absolutely no reason to assign certain genders to certain roles.
The others don't look like they believe or know what they are saying, some looked confused and felt like they were just reading off what everyone else is saying 😅 nervouse and looking around. But the girl at the end is genuine and actually looks like she believes every word she says. Very confident and understands that both have a part to play and what we have now is the result of what happens when we decide. People arguing at eachother over nothing while the country is in shambles and the the ones in power are using the confusion to gain more power.
Happy house slave here. What I do is the most fulfilling for me. I love being able to be home to raise my kids myself and I'm beyond grateful to my husband for working as hard as he does so that I can. I love serving him and raising our kids. ❤️
My wife is a nurse who gave up a 6 figure salary to stay home and raise our 3 kids. She regrets nothing, and I love it too. We have so much less stress than most families with 2 parents working.
Much respect to you. I quit my PhD program to stay with my precious children. We can’t live extravagantly, but my husband works like an ox and I respect that by making a comfortable home and life within that budget, and my children get to have me.
@@ericaallisonc I bear 100% of the earning burden, fixing everything, renovations, ect. I've worked very hard to develop a skill set that allows us to do this. It did not happen by accident. We have also always lived below our means in many ways. Plenty of people have two incomes to buy new cars, have a more expensive house, or live in 'the right' zip code.
Respectfully, I don't understand this point. Forcing people to be in traditional gender roles that they don't want to be in is like gendered communism. You're arguing a conservative idea that seems to be based in force and control, which I thought was something conservatives were against...? If you want to be in these traditional gender roles go for it, but no one should be told how they need to live their life.
@@salty_fish8762 She gives me hope for the next generation, that not all of them are buying into the leftist propaganda that you need to forego parenthood to be happy and fulfilled. Working to provide for my family is the most fulfilling thing I've ever done. And nothing is more important to us than raising our children well, so my wife is happier taking care of them at home than she was a career woman. Peace.
@@C-rations2394 sure. But guess what buddy? The world doesn’t revolve around you. Not everyone is some straight middle class white dude. Some ppl are in wheel chairs and can’t work, some people are autistic and can’t work, some ppl are gay and can’t have kids. Wake up conner! It’s 2022, not everyone is like you anymore!
@@salty_fish8762 I never said that the world revolved around me, man. I just told you why the girl in the video gave me hope. also, i am not white,. and I have relatives who are crippled and autistic, but I don't get the point in bringing them up because the issue is traditional gender roles. I have a lot of gay friends and acquaintances, and most of them agree with me.
@@C-rations2394 you sure are acting like it. And really..the “I have a _ friend” excuse is old. Whether or not they agree with you they’re plain stupid seeing how they can’t fit in those traditional gender roles. And the point in bringing them up is how do you expect a man in a wheel chair to provide for his family?? Or a lesbian woman to stay at home and raise kids she can’t even have?? Make it make sense.
My mom stayed home. She loved that life. She mowed the yard, shoveled snow , did all interior and exterior painting. Made the meals from scratch. Had hobbies and lots of friends who she shopped and went to lunch with. My father was the provider with a really good income. But mom was not bored. And if she felt a bit bored she invited her neighbor friends over for coffee and cookies and chatting. Not a boring life at all.
I worked for 38 years. My children required my care for less than 20 years. If I had not worked, I would be trying fruitlessly to enter the workforce at age 43. What do you think my chances of finding a rewarding career would have been? Zero. What we need to do is adapt to and support mothers in the workforce by filling the demand for affordable childcare during and after work hours.
I disagree with the last one In my opinion, I think each person has to discover their own identity and the things they want to do with their life. I don't think others should tell you who you are and what u need to do. Each person is diferent and has their way to be happy, and that's complety ok if u don't hurt others and stuff like that.
Let's be honest here, many people and religions would love to force women back into the home even if it made them miserable. This is why I'm so vocal and a womans rights activist, so we have a chance to figure out our own happiness.
Raising kids is our most valuable job to build a meaningful family legacy. Kids need a caring mother at home and a hard-working father at the workplace. Both jobs are equally essential for that.
yes, but I don't think a woman has to be the one that stays at home and the man the one who works. I think a woman or a man can do both, or a man can stay at home and a woman can work, etc. I don't think It depends on the gender, I think everyone should be free to choose what they want to do with their life
@@rakusheru Of course, there's no force for us to be anything. We're all free. I meant the traditional gender roles bring us happiness and a sense of accomplishment in general.
I wish my mom would have stayed at home instead of opting out to work leaving me and my brother to be raised by daycare and television. It took me almost 20 years to repair the damage and replace the falsehoods instilled in me by my feminist mother with the truth. We need to bring back the nuclear family
I 100% disagree with the last lady, and mostly agree with the other folk (besides the JUST, that was kinda dumb lol). And thats ok! I agree with most of what this channel shows, but I'm not gonna get pissed when I start disagreeing with them, and I believe thats how everyone should act. We all have our own thoughts, and sticking by what you believe is right, on the right circumstances. (Copy and paste of me awnsering some other person in the comments to give more background to where did I get this kind of ideals) My entire family lives a very happy life, and none of us ever lived the traditional family life. Most of us worked, some of the men haven't, all of us had high education (the women taking higher levels of degree and succeeding better on their classes), all the female are the actual lider of the households, having their name signed on the property contract and paying most of the bills. And this doesn't mean we are all left wing liberals either, we just did what made sense, what we wanted, and whatever we could afford to do. We live happy, fullfiled lives, and non of us ever had a problem on changing roles.
Thank you. People who think otherwise need to go touch grass. Clearly have never left the confines of their small home towns to see the world and other ways of life. Love your name by the way, sounds pretty.
And I’d like to thank Republicans for this. Up until Reagan most families could afford to live off one income. Conservatives have destroyed the family and no blames the Democrats.
Anyone who complains about "this generation" at any time in history is a brainless pile of trash. This mindset has been happening since some of the earliest recorded history and has never once been true. Stop falling for rage bait and bump off con artists like Dennis Prager.
Running a household like that is quite the effort. That said we're way past that, I'm personally happy to see women work and attain relative safety and independence.
Nah bro the ladies should stop dying their hair like a video game. I never dyed my hair. Natural hair color is most attractive. Look at Ron DeSantis wife and tell me she would go from a 10 to a 5 if she dyed her hair neon pink or bright red bro. Melania Trump looks amazing with natural hair and not bright blue. Of course, freedom and all that. So it's not like I want to force anyone to have to do anything tbh
@@Amanda6532 - I just tried to type in a comment that was five minutes long, full of bla, bla , bla, but erased it because I can just say, ........ you’re right. Have a good night.
When raising your kids right is looked at as unfulfilling, we are screwed. I'm not saying the mom has to stay home but wow those words actually came out of his mouth
You guys do realise that women had much less occupation opportunities until the 1st World War, right? (Highly depends on the region and time period too, there are exceptions) They were considered inferior and basically, their only job was to stay home, make kids and in some cases work in agriculture, take care of animals and/or embroider. In some countries like Saudi Arabia women still don't have many rights. So stop shitting on the guy, he's not wrong. Fitting traditional gender roles is not fulfilling to people whose personalities DON'T FIT gender stereotypes and therefore we should move forward to ignoring birth gender and focusing on other people's personalities and what they can do.
It should be a matter of choice,no one should be forced to stay at home or forced to work to show oneself independent. Let everyone decide for themselves,u take care of ur own family
We live in a time where social anxiety is through the roof. Is it just a coincidence that this started around the time that traditional gender roles were demonized?
I'm in a man's job (fluid power specialist) and it's amazing. Not only is it easier to find work because of companies equal opportunity push, but the pay is better, more job security, and because I tend to look at problems differently, i get more recognition for fixing problems and having abilities most of my male counter parts lack. Adding, it's all about how you look at it and what you put in. It doesn't matter if you are male or female, every cog is equally important and shouldn't be placed into a box without determining their purpose and where they best fit.
EVERYONE should have the right to choose how they decide to live their lives.. as long as they're not harming others, forcing/imposing their beliefs and lifestyles on others or insisting that it be allowed in schools and universities, then there is no reason everyone can't live their lives however they choose.. if someone wants to identify as transgender, non binary or whatever, then that's absolutely fine, but those people should respect those who don't believe in those things and not attempt to expect others to change biological science and facts in order to cater to their belief systems and lifestyle choices, and vice versa.. the only problem I've ever had with any of this is the fact that transgender men have imposed themselves onto women's sports, private areas, such as restrooms and locker rooms, have publicly tried to convince people that biology and scientific facts are harmful or not true, physically attack those who don't agree with what they believe and are imposing their ideologies onto children and the school systems.. children and schools should be off limits when it comes to the subject of sexuality and gender because that should be something private and personal to each child individually without social influences getting involved.. it's already difficult enough growing up naturally without having to be constantly bombarded with social ideologies that are being pushed by adults.. I'm completely aware that this is an extremely complex and controversial topic, and the majority of people who have an opinion truly believe theirs is the correct one, however I think that everyone's opinion is valid, valuable and should be taken into account, because that's how we can someday hopefully find a common ground and compromise that eventually works out for everyone involved.. the main issue I see is that so many people refuse to try to understand where the other side is coming from, or even simply just agree to disagree, and instead they resort to demanding or insisting that the other side is wrong.. that's why it would be much better if everyone could find a solution to these issues by coming together respectfully to do so, but the way things are currently, makes that seem to be a long shot.. STAY BLESSED NOT STRESSED
I disagree with this opinion. I think people need to remember that "traditional gender roles" include that the woman HAS to have kids, do housework and be married while the man has to work. Not all women want to have kids and do housework, like myself.
At this point we can’t really return to the tradition of stay at home moms since the cost of raising a family usually takes two working parents these days.
I want to be a stay at home mum. The guy that said that life is an unfulfilled life really annoys me because what's better then putting all of your focus on the best things in your life, your family! I would feel very fulfilled and it's so annoying that people look down on people who feel like that.
The kids would definitely be a lot happier. It's sad how many kids don't really have parents because they both work full-time jobs and have no energy for their children when they're off
Well you’re supporting the party that took that away. The moment Reagan introduced his facist ideas is when people were forced both parents to work. He took middle class jobs and made them low income jobs.
@@sethnmarshall what are you talking about? 🤣 What party am I supporting by sharing an opinion in the comments on RU-vid? How was that pro Reagan and fascist? 😂
I LOVE being a stay at home wife, partner and friend to my husband! Our home is always organized and clean, we always work together to keep up the yard and house but “I” elected to primarily take care of the inside of the house because I ENJOY IT. I love coming home when we’ve been away because I have had the time to create a HOME! Our home is a little slice of Heaven. I primarily prepare taxes, pay bills and always have a ton of errands to run. I love my life and am proud to be my husband’s life partner. I am VERY fulfilled and am learning to play the cello. We travel and entertain a lot. We are very happy. Don’t allow someone to tell you keeping a home is somehow oppressive, that’s just a lie. I worked outside the home for 29 years coming home exhausted and stressed out. Now, my time and energy is dedicated to US and our benefit. 👍🏼
Stay at home Mum here. Not a slave to my husband and I feel more fulfilled now than I ever have. I feel incredibly lucky that I get to raise my babies instead of working to pay a daycare to do it.
Honestly I'm a bit iffy about gender roles. I believe that all should be given equal opportunities to have success in whatever the individual wants, regardless of gender. I also believe that there are biological roles that better suit males vs females and vice versa. Example: Men are generically stronger than women or women are better at planning things out.
I remember many nights awake and crying because I felt so stupid and a failure because I didn't know what I wanted to do for my life and where to work and stuff and then I got married and I became the stay at home wife and my husband who knew from a young age EXACTLY what he wanted to and where to go with his career and life. And now I am pregnant and I have never been happier and healthier mentally and physically and I know when we have our kid I will be perfect for raising them. Cuz I was made for that.
Traditional roles were a good thing since it fits the average traits of men and women. I am not saying that any specific biological sex can't do anything more for there have been examples of traditional roles that changed suddenly such as women in factories making war technology in WW2. Not everything is sexist because most fit in a specific role. Women make good mother and men make good father's. Mother's are loving and are not slaves to their husband and provide for a family in a nurturing setting. Men can be but are not generally as nurturing as a mother can be they are better with constructivism and maintaining outside balance within the home. Both are key for a good loving family because a true man and woman would not overstep each other and find each other not necessarily as equals but as two halves needed to complete a puzzle working in harmony with their differences
What are the odds of someone who sounds, looks, and has the same ideals of Kez not being Kez. Pretty sure that’s her. I wonder how old this video actually is. I thought there would have been more people in the comments who would have recognized her.
It's about freedom, people should be able to choose what they want to do for a living, whether it's working or staying at home. Every couple and every person is different
It's kind of ironic that women think feminism freed them but what it really did was unshackle the men from the financial burden and placed women in the very shackles the men where released from. Possibly the most damaging ideology to ever be sold by politicians to the American public