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@beee___
@beee___ Год назад
"Stay at home and do nothing" my man obviously doesn't have kids 🤣
@TheAnnoyingBoss
@TheAnnoyingBoss Год назад
They treat being a stay at home mom like as if we're putting iron prison bars around the house. If mom doesn't have to work she can take the kids into town and do whatever and be free. Go to park, go do this and that. The more you can expose the young children to the better. The zoo, tbe playground, idk man, they can go anywhere
@studentoflife2484
@studentoflife2484 Год назад
yup, and possibly NEVER appreciates his.mother,
@studentoflife2484
@studentoflife2484 Год назад
​@@TheAnnoyingBoss this is one cause of FEMINISTic ideology that actually put women into the "victim" section of marriage. secularism is another reason for this. removing GOD in marriage is another
@awesomeapple-jt8jd
@awesomeapple-jt8jd Год назад
Yeah lol, and raising kids is the most meaningful part of many people’s lives. It’s definitely not fair to characterize it as menial “slave” labour, as one guy called it.
@metalDCM8
@metalDCM8 Год назад
@@TheAnnoyingBoss there’s a difference in choosing and being forced.
@bossyspaghetti
@bossyspaghetti Год назад
Stay at home and do nothing?? JUST raising kids?!? That boy has no idea what maintaining a household and family consists of.
@angiew2324
@angiew2324 Год назад
No, he really doesn't. As a single mom that used to be a stay-at-home mom, working is MUCH easier! Lol I mean, at my job now, after I get my work done if it's a slow night, I sit there watching movies or having long conversations with customers. I couldn't do that at home when all 3 of my kids were younger...I can hardly do that now when 2 are grown and my youngest is almost 14. Even trying to have an adult conversation is difficult with kids at home, much less housework, cooking, acting as a taxi driver, therapist, prison warden 🤣 etc..
@LemonMan.
@LemonMan. Год назад
I could not do what a housewife does, cooking three meals a day cleaning an entire home and keeping it tidy, and raising kids till the father gets home, but also a husbands job isn't easy either, he has to get a good stable job that makes enough money for a living and then come home and take the kids off the housewife for a while so she gets her break and gets to have her time. Both jobs are hard and both are impossible to do right, without the other.
@angiew2324
@angiew2324 Год назад
@@LemonMan. Yes, you're absolutely right. I LOVED being a stay-at-home mom, but I couldn't have done it if my ex-husband didn't work as hard as he did. We had our kids young, I had just turned 18 6 days before when I got pregnant with my oldest, I worked for a while at a daycare while I was pregnant but then we decided to move, get married & we both wanted me to stay home so he got a second job. I felt horrible that he was working 2 jobs, but thankfully not long after our son was born, he began working for a construction company & made enough there to quit his second job. That would be a lot harder these days though, with prices skyrocketing. It was great for a while, we even had a second child, a baby girl, a yr & 4 months after our son....but then my ex-husband began using heavy drugs, became abusive & it all went downhill from there & I filed for divorce...and I don't even believe in divorce except for 2 reasons: abuse & infidelity. I've never remarried, our kids are now 21 & 22, but I miss my days as a stay-at-home mom & a wife so much! Well, minus the part of only having one car, anyway. The kids & I would be stuck at home unless I got up at4:30-5 am & drove him to work. No thank you! I'm still not a morning person to this day. Lol Sorry for writing a book!
@rccollin7699
@rccollin7699 Год назад
​@@angiew2324you kind of always got to ask those questions of how someone became like that. It's crazy.
@angiew2324
@angiew2324 Год назад
@@rccollin7699 Became like what? The kid in the video, or my ex-husband? Lol
@BOBAGENTSMITH
@BOBAGENTSMITH Год назад
Was not expecting that answer from the woman with 'manic pixie dream girl' hair.
@shakkedjaffe4462
@shakkedjaffe4462 Год назад
"people were happier at their workplace" ma'am, women weren't allowed to work.
@Odeon1970
@Odeon1970 6 месяцев назад
Women have been allowed to work as far back as WW2, and the % of working women has just been growing ever since.
@YuzuLeMoon
@YuzuLeMoon Год назад
"Just raising kids?" JUST??? Please tell me the boy is an orphan or had an unusual mother/guardian. The disrespect in that line is immense and worse, he doesn't even notice it.
@jaxonk
@jaxonk Год назад
He probably was a feral child
@HisChildj
@HisChildj Год назад
Absolutely! To say that about the role of a devoted mother is so sad😢
@PSwayBeats
@PSwayBeats Год назад
Preach 🙌🏻
@thelastmanonearth2631
@thelastmanonearth2631 Год назад
Well he had shitty parents, I think that much is obvious.
@itsAngryKitten
@itsAngryKitten Год назад
Being a parent is THE MOST FULFILLING THING lmao no job can ever make me feel like I do for my child what the fuck 😂
@comm_nded5358
@comm_nded5358 Год назад
If someone wants to continue traditional gender roles sure, but forcing someone who isn't happy with traditional gender roles is why it yes should be an option, no shouldn't be required.
@maki2755
@maki2755 Год назад
Fax
@adnanshaikh5675
@adnanshaikh5675 Год назад
The man who said “women didn’t do much rather then raising kids” doesn’t know that it’s the most important role of society. Traditional Mothers who took care of their children and raised them properly are the ones who actually made any difference to the world. Thank you mothers for your love and support🙏.
@MajorIllustration
@MajorIllustration Год назад
So true! It’s rare than anyone else’s work actually affects the future, nothing more than sending loving,responsible,well raised human beings into the world. And eternity?
@YouFallenforit
@YouFallenforit Год назад
You can tell that man has no idea what women truly want and what they derive satisfaction from. At the end of the day the only thing that makes a woman feel happy and fulfilled are her family and friends
@poolfloaty4522
@poolfloaty4522 Год назад
@@YouFallenforit I agree with you generally. However, many women also have goals and passions besides family and friends that they would like to achieve to reach fulfillment in life. Originally, the point of feminism was to give women an equal chance/choice to achieve what they wanted to achieve in life like men had.
@mattmathematics3591
@mattmathematics3591 Год назад
It is however it should be only women that do that
@magistersolis.3750
@magistersolis.3750 Год назад
Simple don’t force gender roles and demonize those who don’t fulfill them but also don’t discount them correctly. Learn from the past & look to the future not destroy it completely.
@SpaceWolf21
@SpaceWolf21 Год назад
I totally agree with this outlook. you should be free to do what you want with an equal chance at it
@benjaminreed6652
@benjaminreed6652 Год назад
That’s how it is in Northern Europe. They have equal opportunity and most choose traditional gender roles because they want to. We shouldn’t enforce gender roles and we shouldn’t demonize them either. Just let people do what they want with their lives.
@Agentro-vu8tl
@Agentro-vu8tl Год назад
Agreed, let people grow without any kind of mold put onto them and let them be who they are not what they're "expected" to be
@Allplussomeminus
@Allplussomeminus Год назад
Very well balanced outlook.
@FAB1150
@FAB1150 Год назад
Yeah what the dude said
@allyv68
@allyv68 Год назад
The lie that stay at home moms are "slaves" to their husbands must have been made up by a man. My husband has set work hours, leaves the house to do physical work, answers to a boss all day, pays for my housing, my food, all the bills, all my clothes... I stay at home and make my own to do list, manage my own priorities, my own work/rest schedule... but *I'm* the slave? Really?
@carlo2766
@carlo2766 Год назад
Amen, the guy in the video left out the part where the father works for sake of the family too.
@wheatstonebridge
@wheatstonebridge Год назад
When the husband leaves you for another woman, you will be a slave to him and his money. You'll want to move out but won't be able to find good paying work and ultimately you'll struggle. I'm a woman and I'm very thankful I can work and build a career.
@littlemisscerberus
@littlemisscerberus Год назад
It’s like you guys are a team which they don’t realize you both have your jobs
@sheenamims379
@sheenamims379 Год назад
​@@carlo2766assuming the father stayed
@cyano741
@cyano741 Год назад
​@S you assume husband's leave! 70/80% of the divorce is initiated by women, and it's not because of infidelity as a majority cause. The vast majority of women who have divorces also have a career and have a marriage as a conditional lifestyle on the side. Basically competing with their partner, turning everything into a conditional debate on who gets what and when. Traditional women don't get cheated on. It's because we satisfy our men and don't set unrealistic conditions because we think they're more important than unity. You sound like the type that divorces because your happiness comes first. Me me me. Good luck being single.
@juyas6381
@juyas6381 Год назад
Let's say, we shouldnt enforce anything... let the people choose what they want xD
@Eterna_B0i
@Eterna_B0i Год назад
The most agreeable comment
@crispyclara7617
@crispyclara7617 Год назад
I feel like we shouldn’t because some women don’t want that, but we *should* normalize it again. It’s totally ok to want to stay home and care for the children, but it should also be ok to want to work and strive for a successful life.
@MajorIllustration
@MajorIllustration Год назад
“StayingHome” and raising your kids the best you can, and keeping a good home can be a successful life. It’s not one or the other.
@crispyclara7617
@crispyclara7617 Год назад
@@MajorIllustration Yes, that’s true. Maybe I phrased it a bit wrong. Point is the women should be able to choose without feeling any pressure.
@Jared_Is_Near
@Jared_Is_Near Год назад
"normalize" it's already the norm, what are you talking about? We're simply shifting away from it being the **expectation**, and ensure freedom of choice.
@crispyclara7617
@crispyclara7617 Год назад
@@Jared_Is_Near I really don’t think it’s an expectation, especially during these times in our society. The “independent strong woman” road is really the one being pushed. My point is they should both be normalized. It shouldn’t matter.
@Bexks
@Bexks Год назад
But both of those things are okay in this day and age. I agree with my fellow British girl here in general but there are exceptions to the rules.
@lindseyhensley6948
@lindseyhensley6948 Год назад
Traditional gender roles are fine if that's what you want. With that said, it should never be the expectation EVER again because traditional gender roles do not work for all of us
@Aramis___0_o
@Aramis___0_o Год назад
I agree, it’s all based off of preference
@williamstephens1850
@williamstephens1850 Год назад
That's why America is in the shape its in
@YouFallenforit
@YouFallenforit Год назад
As long as you do not expect someone else to maintain their role when you do not want to.
@unconsciouscreator3012
@unconsciouscreator3012 Год назад
Traditional gender roles must be abolished. Non traditional gender roles will never be respected until ALL genders are drafted for frontlines military service if need be.
@vincentgiasullo
@vincentgiasullo Год назад
@@williamstephens1850wym?
@derdrolftesinn
@derdrolftesinn Год назад
Raising Kids, staying home for this if possible, is a Gift. Worth more than anything else. Would give arms and legs for going back to my younger self and spend more time with my kids
@T-bone_225
@T-bone_225 Год назад
Yeah, you shouldn't neglect your kids. Like you said it is valuable to spend time with them but if you really rather be doing something else than raising your kids then you really shouldn't have kids in the first place. Maybe don't get married if you want to have a hard-working lifestyle rather than raising your children or just simply don't have kids.
@anita21569
@anita21569 Год назад
@@T-bone_225they never said they wanted to do something else
@mattmathematics3591
@mattmathematics3591 Год назад
Indeed however it should be a choice
@iagomota4649
@iagomota4649 Год назад
People really think that feeding a brat and telling them to shut up and watch tv is raising kids. No, dude, raising a kid is pretty much hands on psychology training that requires A LOT of effort. There’s no “boring” unless you’re a peter pan that is always thinking about your hedonistic desires.
@sinfyl.
@sinfyl. Год назад
This proves that everyone has their own opinion, and that there isn’t necessarily a right or wrong answer
@Jared_Is_Near
@Jared_Is_Near Год назад
Completely agreed. But considering who the last speaker was, and how this was generally poised, PragerU definitely does not want anyone to truly have that freedom of choice.
@Odeon1970
@Odeon1970 6 месяцев назад
​@@Jared_Is_NearI think including the last speaker proved @synfyl's comment even more. It shows that even those who fall into stereotypes - those who you assume the opinion of just from looking at them - have their own opinions that may not fit the stereotype at all.
@awokenedstatefl5659
@awokenedstatefl5659 Год назад
This has to be a set up lol that last lady is Elijah Schaefer’s wife. 👀🤔👀
@tatsianabobko7231
@tatsianabobko7231 Год назад
Wearing a wig
@zeekgeek420
@zeekgeek420 Год назад
I thought so 🤣‼️🇺🇲👍💯
@Jared_Is_Near
@Jared_Is_Near Год назад
What else would you expect from "PragerU"? They're not capable of anything meaningful, just scripted content and rage bait.
@laurakastrup
@laurakastrup Год назад
As someone who’s physically incapable of having children (sterile) I would be bored as hell as a “traditional” housewife. I don’t mind traditional roles, my parents are in that position, although like 1970s European so my mother does work but only about 20 hours, a normal work week is 37. I just took after my father and ended up as a workaholic and even if I was to prepare 3 full meals a day for my husband, and my, non existent, non fur children I’d still have a lot of time to do literally nothing Now I know “oh you could just adopt” there’s a reason why I’m not considering that option, in the traditional days you couldn’t. Either you birthed your own children or you were a “wrong” parent, still is like that today (I’m an adoptee and you don’t wanna know how often I’m asked who’s your real mother, like bitch you see that woman over there. That’s her. She just doesn’t have the same skin colour as me) Oh and surrogacy is illegal in my country, because “women shouldn’t be able to monopolise their bodies” but men are fully allowed to monetise jerking it off (sperm donations, it’s about 500$ a month for good quality sperm)
@ivey1413
@ivey1413 Год назад
I wouldn’t say my parents have traditional roles as both my parents work desk jobs my dad does the outside work and fixes the house while my mom handles the finances and such, it works out as they are both doing things they would rather do than the other.
@RedMcCarl
@RedMcCarl Год назад
Women handling the finances is actually pretty traditional
@ivey1413
@ivey1413 Год назад
@@RedMcCarl I meant how they both worked desk jobs
@sheenamims379
@sheenamims379 Год назад
I would say this is pre-industrial revolution ideals, where everyone did their part on the farm. .
@lukeswain5160
@lukeswain5160 Год назад
I think we should all just do what we want.. I’d like to have a traditional family but I’d never try and convince anyone else to be traditional. Both roles are just as important as the other. Id like to be a man worthy of a woman’s “submission” (don’t really like that word)
@AberdolphLinklr
@AberdolphLinklr Год назад
An unfulfilling life, is having children you raised without government intervention? Is that serious?
@JasonDaOlympian
@JasonDaOlympian Год назад
It's not whether we should/ shouldn't bring back gender roles. It's whether we want and/or can live that particular lifestyle. Men and women should be able to pursue whatever role they want in life. But if a couple wants to be traditional, let them. Freedom of Choice!!! I wish my wife and I could live on one income in CA. She wants to be a stay-at-home mom. But she has to work because cost of living in CA is too high for one income.
@Dolphinboi
@Dolphinboi 7 месяцев назад
I just know u freak out whenever you see a guy in a dress or makeup
@JasonDaOlympian
@JasonDaOlympian 7 месяцев назад
@Dolphinboi What? How does that relate to this topic? We're talking gender roles, not cross dressing. Plus making an assumption as a personal attack is incredibly immature.
@Dolphinboi
@Dolphinboi 7 месяцев назад
@@JasonDaOlympian cross dressing does have to do with gender roles. It goes against them. And you’re a man so clearly you’re against the idea of men cross dressing. Men are pretty socially conservative
@JasonDaOlympian
@JasonDaOlympian 7 месяцев назад
@Dolphinboi 1. If being a man does not mean men are against cross dressing. There are men who cross dress and ID as men because that is who they are. I have 2 friends are both men and gay and love each other. They also wear women's clothing from time to time. 2. In a very general sense, sure, men tend to lean more conservatively. But you're assuming in extremities. Just because I am a man, that doesn't make me conservative. Plenty of men are left leaning. 3. My original argument was for people to live as they please in whatever role they choose. I never said anything about cross dressing. You clearly brought it up, assumed I'm an unpleasant, arrogant individual, and I've told you otherwise.
@maryvaladez992
@maryvaladez992 Год назад
Moms are literally raising the next generation, that's a HUGE responsibility and honor to be taken seriously.
@mattmathematics3591
@mattmathematics3591 Год назад
It sure is but dads should be equally responsible and involved
@DunestrikeMorgan
@DunestrikeMorgan Год назад
Do what the fuck you want. Its your life
@gregdavis5439
@gregdavis5439 Год назад
These people are freaking crazy suppressing women by raising a kid. That’s the most important thing that you can do in a life is to raise your kid.
@bunnybunch5782
@bunnybunch5782 Год назад
We shouldn't negatively stigmatize traditional gender roles. It is a choice. Not slavery. Not forced. Plenty fulfilment. Honor. Why do people think a woman who chooses to stay home and raise their children is a dead end? SAH mothers have the most important "job" in the world!
@rakusheru
@rakusheru Год назад
exactly, I think we should forget abt tradicional roles and just let people choose whatever they want to do with their lifes
@ericaallisonc
@ericaallisonc Год назад
That's the thing. People need to have a choice, but by saying we should go back to old gender rolls tells me that we shouldn't have a choice. My bf works as an aid to mentally disabled elementary school children, which wouldn't be classified as a man's job, I work in hydraulic fluid power, which is a messy man's job but makes a crap ton of money. His job is my hell and vice versa. We are both extremely happy in our unorthodox gender rolls.
@clauday6467
@clauday6467 Год назад
he literally said it's okay for someone if they chose to stay at home
@eli6995
@eli6995 Год назад
“a slave to their husband” lmao my wife runs the house when I get home😂
@therealdonaldtrompe
@therealdonaldtrompe Год назад
The last one sounds like a happy and smart lady : ).
@jh0347
@jh0347 Год назад
Based last woman
@angiew2324
@angiew2324 Год назад
The last kid is going to get a massive reality check from his mother & his future wife if he doesn't let go of the idea that stay-at-home moms "sit at home and do nothing" out of his head. That has to be one of the stupidest things a man could ever say...if he wants a happy marriage anyway. Lol
@KingSpectre844
@KingSpectre844 Год назад
Saying shit like "Stay at home moms don't do anything" is a pretty quick way for that same mother to give you a slap. The hell is wrong with people?
@angiew2324
@angiew2324 Год назад
@@KingSpectre844 Yep! I was a stay-at-home mom when I was married until my kids started school, then I went to school again myself (I had my kids very young). For a while I was working full-time, school full-time _and_ I still tried to make sure dinner was ready & the house was clean by the time my ex-husband got home from work. Working is a piece of cake compared to staying home with the kids full-time. A stay-at-home parent's job doesn't end, it's 7 days a week, 24 hours a day whether the kids are home or not. Men don't have it easy either, and fathers are also dads 24/7, but the belittling of stay-at-home moms is annoying... especially when it's coming from your husband, or worse, your own son.
@cvernon5256
@cvernon5256 Год назад
​@@angiew2324 holy cow. Good on you. I (a man) had a hard enough time just trying to do work and school. From working at a school, I know that kids are rewarding, exciting, clever but tiring. You doing all of that is awesome.
@jor604
@jor604 Год назад
This is the narrative that is being pushed down their throats while away at College. Poor kids have no idea how to think for themselves. I dare anyone to ask a new college grad to answer a critical thinking question on their own. They cannot do it where I work! But hey, they are all over the "gender discussions. " LMAOOOOO!
@lakeedwards6408
@lakeedwards6408 Год назад
Plus "be a slave to your husband"? Oh yeah. Instead go be a slave to a corporation.
@KillerMoth_Stumpy
@KillerMoth_Stumpy Год назад
Man that dude really said staying home and raising kids is unfulfilling
@The_Mighty_Newf
@The_Mighty_Newf Год назад
Ill guarantee everyone right now, the redhead is going to be the only one in a happy relationship
@doctoranderson2009
@doctoranderson2009 Год назад
Agreed
@alwaysnunya5036
@alwaysnunya5036 Год назад
I think that’s Elijah Schaffer’s wife Kezia
@The_cereal_vapist
@The_cereal_vapist Год назад
I’d give it to her anytime
@caimanaraujo479
@caimanaraujo479 Год назад
Im not turning this to a fight, just disagreeing with you: My entire family lives a very happy life, and none of us ever lived the traditional family life. Most of us worked, some of the men haven't, all of us had high education (the women taking higher levels of degree and succeeding better on their classes), all the female are the actual lider of the households, having their name signed on the property contract and paying most of the bills. And this doesn't mean we are all left wing liberals either, we just did what made sense, what we wanted, and whatever we could afford to do. We live happy, fullfiled lives, and non of us ever had a problem on changing roles.
@M-O-M
@M-O-M Год назад
@@alwaysnunya5036 Are you delusional? She is most definitely not his wife.
@brennentodd5657
@brennentodd5657 Год назад
The third guy has my attitude which is, do whatever tf you want I don't care as long as it don't affect me.
@rakusheru
@rakusheru Год назад
Same, while you don't hurt others then it's ok
@TheClavichord
@TheClavichord Год назад
That guy is a clueless kid
@ericaallisonc
@ericaallisonc Год назад
People should have the choice. Not everyone is happy in their predefined gender roll. I'm a career girl in a trade profession that is 99% male, I don't want a family or to raise kids and staying at home would destroy my mental health.
@cvernon5256
@cvernon5256 Год назад
Personally, I say yes. Affirming men as men and women as women is going to help everyone. Everyone deserves the same opportunities (work, education, etc) and gender roles don't conflictwith that; it's that it is hard to maintain in balance. That said, how a couple functions is up to them. Men and women can both be aggressive, competent, gentle, etc. Let the better person take on the role. Support the tradition, accept the reality.
@jamesgreen9791
@jamesgreen9791 Год назад
Tradition means men go out and work and women stay home with the kids. Why does it have to be that way, why can’t some households be the opposite. It just makes no sense.
@cvernon5256
@cvernon5256 Год назад
@@jamesgreen9791 I agree that the bread winner can be either, but there are certain things that cannot be changed. Only men can be fathers and husbands; only women can be mothers and wives. There are things uniquely suited to the sexes and its the traditions that help to teach and reinforce those roles that I support. At the end of the day, each household and family are different. Not all fathers will be able to work, not all women will be mothers. So I see it as an ideal but you shouldn't be judged because your's operates differently. People have neither the same lives nor circumstances.
@jamesgreen9791
@jamesgreen9791 Год назад
@@cvernon5256 yeah but I just don’t get why we have any traditional values at all. Men can be any job or not have one and women can have any job or also not have one. There is absolutely no reason to assign certain genders to certain roles.
@jorgecamaro1176
@jorgecamaro1176 Год назад
The others don't look like they believe or know what they are saying, some looked confused and felt like they were just reading off what everyone else is saying 😅 nervouse and looking around. But the girl at the end is genuine and actually looks like she believes every word she says. Very confident and understands that both have a part to play and what we have now is the result of what happens when we decide. People arguing at eachother over nothing while the country is in shambles and the the ones in power are using the confusion to gain more power.
@mikerevendale4810
@mikerevendale4810 Год назад
Precisely! Well said. And the last woman was likely the only one of the bunch who'd be fun and interesting to spend time around. She was full of life!
@Eterna_B0i
@Eterna_B0i Год назад
So if someone stutters on their words or has to quickly think of something to say they dont believe what their saying?
@kcsummer07
@kcsummer07 Год назад
Happy house slave here. What I do is the most fulfilling for me. I love being able to be home to raise my kids myself and I'm beyond grateful to my husband for working as hard as he does so that I can. I love serving him and raising our kids. ❤️
@leavemealone4556
@leavemealone4556 Год назад
Lol "happy house slave here"
@YouFallenforit
@YouFallenforit Год назад
When a wage slave and a house slave join forces... there is perfect balance
@kcsummer07
@kcsummer07 Год назад
@@YouFallenforit Yes! Exactly. It's a beautiful thing lol.
@davec.3198
@davec.3198 Год назад
My wife is a nurse who gave up a 6 figure salary to stay home and raise our 3 kids. She regrets nothing, and I love it too. We have so much less stress than most families with 2 parents working.
@ericaallisonc
@ericaallisonc Год назад
Good for you, a lot of families have to have duel income just to keep their water on.
@yanasto
@yanasto Год назад
Much respect to you. I quit my PhD program to stay with my precious children. We can’t live extravagantly, but my husband works like an ox and I respect that by making a comfortable home and life within that budget, and my children get to have me.
@greenrabbit860
@greenrabbit860 Год назад
They also end up with kids who have better attitudes and tend to be significantly more intelligent
@davec.3198
@davec.3198 Год назад
@@ericaallisonc I bear 100% of the earning burden, fixing everything, renovations, ect. I've worked very hard to develop a skill set that allows us to do this. It did not happen by accident. We have also always lived below our means in many ways. Plenty of people have two incomes to buy new cars, have a more expensive house, or live in 'the right' zip code.
@rocky8344
@rocky8344 10 месяцев назад
​@@ericaallisoncto fullfill their luxury life
@DSTmune
@DSTmune Год назад
Respectfully, I don't understand this point. Forcing people to be in traditional gender roles that they don't want to be in is like gendered communism. You're arguing a conservative idea that seems to be based in force and control, which I thought was something conservatives were against...? If you want to be in these traditional gender roles go for it, but no one should be told how they need to live their life.
@C-rations2394
@C-rations2394 Год назад
That last girl speaking is a gem. Bless her. Gives me hope. Thank you!
@salty_fish8762
@salty_fish8762 Год назад
Glad she gave you hope bcs she believes women are happier at home with the kids while you work for a family you see an hour a day.
@C-rations2394
@C-rations2394 Год назад
@@salty_fish8762 She gives me hope for the next generation, that not all of them are buying into the leftist propaganda that you need to forego parenthood to be happy and fulfilled. Working to provide for my family is the most fulfilling thing I've ever done. And nothing is more important to us than raising our children well, so my wife is happier taking care of them at home than she was a career woman. Peace.
@salty_fish8762
@salty_fish8762 Год назад
@@C-rations2394 sure. But guess what buddy? The world doesn’t revolve around you. Not everyone is some straight middle class white dude. Some ppl are in wheel chairs and can’t work, some people are autistic and can’t work, some ppl are gay and can’t have kids. Wake up conner! It’s 2022, not everyone is like you anymore!
@C-rations2394
@C-rations2394 Год назад
@@salty_fish8762 I never said that the world revolved around me, man. I just told you why the girl in the video gave me hope. also, i am not white,. and I have relatives who are crippled and autistic, but I don't get the point in bringing them up because the issue is traditional gender roles. I have a lot of gay friends and acquaintances, and most of them agree with me.
@salty_fish8762
@salty_fish8762 Год назад
@@C-rations2394 you sure are acting like it. And really..the “I have a _ friend” excuse is old. Whether or not they agree with you they’re plain stupid seeing how they can’t fit in those traditional gender roles. And the point in bringing them up is how do you expect a man in a wheel chair to provide for his family?? Or a lesbian woman to stay at home and raise kids she can’t even have?? Make it make sense.
@rg1whiteywins598
@rg1whiteywins598 Год назад
My mom stayed home. She loved that life. She mowed the yard, shoveled snow , did all interior and exterior painting. Made the meals from scratch. Had hobbies and lots of friends who she shopped and went to lunch with. My father was the provider with a really good income. But mom was not bored. And if she felt a bit bored she invited her neighbor friends over for coffee and cookies and chatting. Not a boring life at all.
@tsrocks2029
@tsrocks2029 Год назад
Sounds so wholesome 😊
@Hollycat50
@Hollycat50 Год назад
I worked for 38 years. My children required my care for less than 20 years. If I had not worked, I would be trying fruitlessly to enter the workforce at age 43. What do you think my chances of finding a rewarding career would have been? Zero. What we need to do is adapt to and support mothers in the workforce by filling the demand for affordable childcare during and after work hours.
@griffinmeier6021
@griffinmeier6021 Год назад
“When people know their identity” Something it seems everyone in this generation needs
@_papasparta_-txc-4730
@_papasparta_-txc-4730 Год назад
I'd switch that to "some people" instead of everyone given that like 99% of the generation is perfectly fine xd
@rakusheru
@rakusheru Год назад
I disagree with the last one In my opinion, I think each person has to discover their own identity and the things they want to do with their life. I don't think others should tell you who you are and what u need to do. Each person is diferent and has their way to be happy, and that's complety ok if u don't hurt others and stuff like that.
@ericaallisonc
@ericaallisonc Год назад
Let's be honest here, many people and religions would love to force women back into the home even if it made them miserable. This is why I'm so vocal and a womans rights activist, so we have a chance to figure out our own happiness.
@redsofakim
@redsofakim Год назад
Raising kids is our most valuable job to build a meaningful family legacy. Kids need a caring mother at home and a hard-working father at the workplace. Both jobs are equally essential for that.
@rakusheru
@rakusheru Год назад
yes, but I don't think a woman has to be the one that stays at home and the man the one who works. I think a woman or a man can do both, or a man can stay at home and a woman can work, etc. I don't think It depends on the gender, I think everyone should be free to choose what they want to do with their life
@shiftyFlacko
@shiftyFlacko Год назад
​​@@rakusheru Men are biologically more capable of working longer hours and at a higher level (if we're talking labor).
@rakusheru
@rakusheru Год назад
@@shiftyFlacko that might be true but I still think each men should have the option to choose if to work or do other stuff yk
@redsofakim
@redsofakim Год назад
@@rakusheru Of course, there's no force for us to be anything. We're all free. I meant the traditional gender roles bring us happiness and a sense of accomplishment in general.
@Jared_Is_Near
@Jared_Is_Near Год назад
"Meaningful family legacy" to what end? Why is it not enough to simply advance humanity into the future?
@Reeeeko2024
@Reeeeko2024 8 месяцев назад
People don’t appreciate how much work their mom puts into caring for them and all the sacrifices she makes for you.
@LEOODARTHVADER2
@LEOODARTHVADER2 Год назад
Absolutely 100% of the cases should be from the individual's choice to follow or not. Pure and simple
@mamabear9646
@mamabear9646 Год назад
The others made the redhead look sane. We're slipping to hell
@a_raichub
@a_raichub Год назад
I hate how the guy didn't comment on it. Even though he couldn't. The video placement is still bad.
@salemthorup9536
@salemthorup9536 Год назад
These people hate homemakers and full time mothers. It's disgusting.
@YouFallenforit
@YouFallenforit Год назад
I wish my mom would have stayed at home instead of opting out to work leaving me and my brother to be raised by daycare and television. It took me almost 20 years to repair the damage and replace the falsehoods instilled in me by my feminist mother with the truth. We need to bring back the nuclear family
@kingdomofvlogs3502
@kingdomofvlogs3502 5 месяцев назад
If she gets a divorce, then she'll have no choice but to work
@susansailors1716
@susansailors1716 Год назад
I don't think the traditional rolls should be forced. I know a lot of people who shouldn't be parents so if they want to work let them.
@andres.e.
@andres.e. Год назад
Molding a life is one of the most transcendental tasks there is.
@caimanaraujo479
@caimanaraujo479 Год назад
I 100% disagree with the last lady, and mostly agree with the other folk (besides the JUST, that was kinda dumb lol). And thats ok! I agree with most of what this channel shows, but I'm not gonna get pissed when I start disagreeing with them, and I believe thats how everyone should act. We all have our own thoughts, and sticking by what you believe is right, on the right circumstances. (Copy and paste of me awnsering some other person in the comments to give more background to where did I get this kind of ideals) My entire family lives a very happy life, and none of us ever lived the traditional family life. Most of us worked, some of the men haven't, all of us had high education (the women taking higher levels of degree and succeeding better on their classes), all the female are the actual lider of the households, having their name signed on the property contract and paying most of the bills. And this doesn't mean we are all left wing liberals either, we just did what made sense, what we wanted, and whatever we could afford to do. We live happy, fullfiled lives, and non of us ever had a problem on changing roles.
@ericaallisonc
@ericaallisonc Год назад
Thank you. People who think otherwise need to go touch grass. Clearly have never left the confines of their small home towns to see the world and other ways of life. Love your name by the way, sounds pretty.
@PSwayBeats
@PSwayBeats Год назад
Raising your kids is the most important thing you can do the meaning of life is having kids and raising them to be better then u
@rakusheru
@rakusheru Год назад
I don't agree, each person has their meaning of life. Yours is my meaning of life, but I respect It :)
@ericaallisonc
@ericaallisonc Год назад
Maybe your meaning, but not mine. I don't want kids and never have. My life fulfillment lies in other things and would be miserable in your version.
@shiftyFlacko
@shiftyFlacko Год назад
​@@ericaallisonc Once you grow older who will be there for you if you won't have kids?
@Eterna_B0i
@Eterna_B0i Год назад
@@shiftyFlacko and their friends
@musicsucks5843
@musicsucks5843 Год назад
No one said nothing about taking away opportunities. Just asked about gender roles
@chileminer
@chileminer Год назад
That red head was on point with her answer 👌
@briana1543
@briana1543 Год назад
Not raising your kids amd allowing ti grow up like this generation is literally destroying the world hahaha but good luck everyone!!
@sethnmarshall
@sethnmarshall Год назад
And I’d like to thank Republicans for this. Up until Reagan most families could afford to live off one income. Conservatives have destroyed the family and no blames the Democrats.
@Jared_Is_Near
@Jared_Is_Near Год назад
Anyone who complains about "this generation" at any time in history is a brainless pile of trash. This mindset has been happening since some of the earliest recorded history and has never once been true. Stop falling for rage bait and bump off con artists like Dennis Prager.
@kathleenirish
@kathleenirish Год назад
The cluelessness is only surpassed by swarmy-ness in willful ignorance
@tordlindgren2123
@tordlindgren2123 Год назад
Running a household like that is quite the effort. That said we're way past that, I'm personally happy to see women work and attain relative safety and independence.
@robbierobinson5798
@robbierobinson5798 Год назад
'I slept, and dreamed that life was beauty; I woke, and found that life was duty.'-Louisa May Alcott
@TheImapotato
@TheImapotato Год назад
A woman nowadays won't be submissive to her husband but will submissive to a boss and corporation that will replace her in a heartbeat.
@Sonali__6195
@Sonali__6195 7 месяцев назад
Because that's being called as profession. You get money, knowledge and fulfilment from working outside. Life is not meant to stay at home
@TheImapotato
@TheImapotato 7 месяцев назад
@@Sonali__6195 Your solipsism twisting into your own need. You can get all that from being a housewife
@Chopsyochops
@Chopsyochops 6 месяцев назад
I am not submissive to bosses or husband. It doesn’t bode well for me.
@hoang.allen1
@hoang.allen1 Год назад
It's up to each couple to decide what's best for them & their family.
@depdark1
@depdark1 Год назад
They can decide what they think of best for them. But the mother staying home and raising kids is the only right way
@ericaallisonc
@ericaallisonc Год назад
​@@depdark1 and this is why this will always be a battle for women. Because we have to combat people like you who only think their way is correct.
@preston1382
@preston1382 Год назад
Can we just put red wigs on every red pilled woman? Would be a major W for the boys to not have to sift through the shit…
@TheAnnoyingBoss
@TheAnnoyingBoss Год назад
Nah bro the ladies should stop dying their hair like a video game. I never dyed my hair. Natural hair color is most attractive. Look at Ron DeSantis wife and tell me she would go from a 10 to a 5 if she dyed her hair neon pink or bright red bro. Melania Trump looks amazing with natural hair and not bright blue. Of course, freedom and all that. So it's not like I want to force anyone to have to do anything tbh
@user-hy8wn2oz9v
@user-hy8wn2oz9v Год назад
i attacked my keyboard to write what i wanted to write until i saw the last "hope" of mine in this video lol
@CoachTMAC
@CoachTMAC Год назад
Can anyone deny the woman at the end was way more happier.
@Amanda6532
@Amanda6532 Год назад
She said she “thinks” people would be happier. She never said she herself is living this lifestyle.
@CoachTMAC
@CoachTMAC Год назад
@@Amanda6532 - I just tried to type in a comment that was five minutes long, full of bla, bla , bla, but erased it because I can just say, ........ you’re right. Have a good night.
@Amanda6532
@Amanda6532 Год назад
@@CoachTMAC I think I’m in love. 🤣
@Eterna_B0i
@Eterna_B0i Год назад
@@Amanda6532 the guts you need to do that is impressive
@Amanda6532
@Amanda6532 Год назад
@@Eterna_B0i not really. it’s a joke with a stranger on the Internet. That’s marriage material right there though. 🤣
@reallyimnothim
@reallyimnothim Год назад
When raising your kids right is looked at as unfulfilling, we are screwed. I'm not saying the mom has to stay home but wow those words actually came out of his mouth
@JuniperGal-ek2pu
@JuniperGal-ek2pu Месяц назад
You’re only a slave if there’s a hierarchy in your marriage…
@a_raichub
@a_raichub Год назад
You guys do realise that women had much less occupation opportunities until the 1st World War, right? (Highly depends on the region and time period too, there are exceptions) They were considered inferior and basically, their only job was to stay home, make kids and in some cases work in agriculture, take care of animals and/or embroider. In some countries like Saudi Arabia women still don't have many rights. So stop shitting on the guy, he's not wrong. Fitting traditional gender roles is not fulfilling to people whose personalities DON'T FIT gender stereotypes and therefore we should move forward to ignoring birth gender and focusing on other people's personalities and what they can do.
@prafulyadav661
@prafulyadav661 Год назад
It should be a matter of choice,no one should be forced to stay at home or forced to work to show oneself independent. Let everyone decide for themselves,u take care of ur own family
@josephbarker91
@josephbarker91 Год назад
We live in a time where social anxiety is through the roof. Is it just a coincidence that this started around the time that traditional gender roles were demonized?
@Sulamenku
@Sulamenku Год назад
To the first lady, We already got equal opportunities but with different outcome. Usually negative outcome for women who choose "masculine" jobs.
@ericaallisonc
@ericaallisonc Год назад
I'm in a man's job (fluid power specialist) and it's amazing. Not only is it easier to find work because of companies equal opportunity push, but the pay is better, more job security, and because I tend to look at problems differently, i get more recognition for fixing problems and having abilities most of my male counter parts lack. Adding, it's all about how you look at it and what you put in. It doesn't matter if you are male or female, every cog is equally important and shouldn't be placed into a box without determining their purpose and where they best fit.
@johnhinkleman9757
@johnhinkleman9757 Год назад
I’ve worked hard in my career and for my achievements. My child is still my greatest joy I’ve felt.
@benjaminvasquez5826
@benjaminvasquez5826 Год назад
I was not expecting that answer from the red head, that's cool
@Marrta71
@Marrta71 Год назад
Same
@williamstdog9
@williamstdog9 Год назад
GOD THAT LAST YOUNG LADY!!! ♥️💪💪👏👏👏👏👏👏👏😭 We need MORE who think like her!!!
@yanasto
@yanasto Год назад
I quit my PhD program to homeschool my kids. I have 3, hoping God blesses me with at least 2 more.
@jennifermoody6987
@jennifermoody6987 Год назад
EVERYONE should have the right to choose how they decide to live their lives.. as long as they're not harming others, forcing/imposing their beliefs and lifestyles on others or insisting that it be allowed in schools and universities, then there is no reason everyone can't live their lives however they choose.. if someone wants to identify as transgender, non binary or whatever, then that's absolutely fine, but those people should respect those who don't believe in those things and not attempt to expect others to change biological science and facts in order to cater to their belief systems and lifestyle choices, and vice versa.. the only problem I've ever had with any of this is the fact that transgender men have imposed themselves onto women's sports, private areas, such as restrooms and locker rooms, have publicly tried to convince people that biology and scientific facts are harmful or not true, physically attack those who don't agree with what they believe and are imposing their ideologies onto children and the school systems.. children and schools should be off limits when it comes to the subject of sexuality and gender because that should be something private and personal to each child individually without social influences getting involved.. it's already difficult enough growing up naturally without having to be constantly bombarded with social ideologies that are being pushed by adults.. I'm completely aware that this is an extremely complex and controversial topic, and the majority of people who have an opinion truly believe theirs is the correct one, however I think that everyone's opinion is valid, valuable and should be taken into account, because that's how we can someday hopefully find a common ground and compromise that eventually works out for everyone involved.. the main issue I see is that so many people refuse to try to understand where the other side is coming from, or even simply just agree to disagree, and instead they resort to demanding or insisting that the other side is wrong.. that's why it would be much better if everyone could find a solution to these issues by coming together respectfully to do so, but the way things are currently, makes that seem to be a long shot.. STAY BLESSED NOT STRESSED
@ori8410
@ori8410 Год назад
I disagree with this opinion. I think people need to remember that "traditional gender roles" include that the woman HAS to have kids, do housework and be married while the man has to work. Not all women want to have kids and do housework, like myself.
@mtndewmslayer2564
@mtndewmslayer2564 Год назад
At this point we can’t really return to the tradition of stay at home moms since the cost of raising a family usually takes two working parents these days.
@YouFallenforit
@YouFallenforit Год назад
That's what happens when you double the workforce overnight demand and wages get cut in half
@goko8813
@goko8813 Год назад
Well I didn't expect that last answer😮
@apersonontheinternet915
@apersonontheinternet915 Год назад
I want to be a stay at home mum. The guy that said that life is an unfulfilled life really annoys me because what's better then putting all of your focus on the best things in your life, your family! I would feel very fulfilled and it's so annoying that people look down on people who feel like that.
@annmariebarratt4213
@annmariebarratt4213 Год назад
I think everybody puts a different meaning to ‘Traditional’🤔🤔🤔 Maybe that’s why you get so many different answers
@starbirds2464
@starbirds2464 7 месяцев назад
The last chick is a massive W. "We respxect women, not bitches" -thomas Shelby
@landofbosses7844
@landofbosses7844 Год назад
The kids would definitely be a lot happier. It's sad how many kids don't really have parents because they both work full-time jobs and have no energy for their children when they're off
@sethnmarshall
@sethnmarshall Год назад
Well you’re supporting the party that took that away. The moment Reagan introduced his facist ideas is when people were forced both parents to work. He took middle class jobs and made them low income jobs.
@landofbosses7844
@landofbosses7844 Год назад
@@sethnmarshall what are you talking about? 🤣 What party am I supporting by sharing an opinion in the comments on RU-vid? How was that pro Reagan and fascist? 😂
@Joel_Mullins06
@Joel_Mullins06 Год назад
"Finally, some good fu%&ing food" - Gordon Ramsay
@abbasgamer260
@abbasgamer260 Год назад
That redhead is a keeper .
@kimberlypatterson3568
@kimberlypatterson3568 Год назад
I LOVE being a stay at home wife, partner and friend to my husband! Our home is always organized and clean, we always work together to keep up the yard and house but “I” elected to primarily take care of the inside of the house because I ENJOY IT. I love coming home when we’ve been away because I have had the time to create a HOME! Our home is a little slice of Heaven. I primarily prepare taxes, pay bills and always have a ton of errands to run. I love my life and am proud to be my husband’s life partner. I am VERY fulfilled and am learning to play the cello. We travel and entertain a lot. We are very happy. Don’t allow someone to tell you keeping a home is somehow oppressive, that’s just a lie. I worked outside the home for 29 years coming home exhausted and stressed out. Now, my time and energy is dedicated to US and our benefit. 👍🏼
@michaelp.5460
@michaelp.5460 Год назад
God bless the red headed lady with glasses. She's absolutely 💯 right!
@ElRey_Congo
@ElRey_Congo Год назад
She nailed it at the end
@lenorbluff7923
@lenorbluff7923 Год назад
This red hair girl has such a good point lmao
@jessalove3344
@jessalove3344 Год назад
Stay at home Mum here. Not a slave to my husband and I feel more fulfilled now than I ever have. I feel incredibly lucky that I get to raise my babies instead of working to pay a daycare to do it.
@jnl8389
@jnl8389 Год назад
Most family seem to still have those gender roles and are happy that way
@pennythpmas5787
@pennythpmas5787 Год назад
Children of the world say, Yes Mommy, we need U at Home!
@thelibyanplzcomeback
@thelibyanplzcomeback Год назад
Why is the red-haired girl going to college if she likes gender roles?
@angelsh0t
@angelsh0t Год назад
Honestly I'm a bit iffy about gender roles. I believe that all should be given equal opportunities to have success in whatever the individual wants, regardless of gender. I also believe that there are biological roles that better suit males vs females and vice versa. Example: Men are generically stronger than women or women are better at planning things out.
@colorlessoz
@colorlessoz Год назад
I remember many nights awake and crying because I felt so stupid and a failure because I didn't know what I wanted to do for my life and where to work and stuff and then I got married and I became the stay at home wife and my husband who knew from a young age EXACTLY what he wanted to and where to go with his career and life. And now I am pregnant and I have never been happier and healthier mentally and physically and I know when we have our kid I will be perfect for raising them. Cuz I was made for that.
@johnrambo2367
@johnrambo2367 Год назад
Traditional roles were a good thing since it fits the average traits of men and women. I am not saying that any specific biological sex can't do anything more for there have been examples of traditional roles that changed suddenly such as women in factories making war technology in WW2. Not everything is sexist because most fit in a specific role. Women make good mother and men make good father's. Mother's are loving and are not slaves to their husband and provide for a family in a nurturing setting. Men can be but are not generally as nurturing as a mother can be they are better with constructivism and maintaining outside balance within the home. Both are key for a good loving family because a true man and woman would not overstep each other and find each other not necessarily as equals but as two halves needed to complete a puzzle working in harmony with their differences
@maryhensley2597
@maryhensley2597 Год назад
This guy's mom must be so proud of his lame answer!
@tesslynam8124
@tesslynam8124 Год назад
Is that Kez “queen fetus” Schaffer?????!!!!!
@firemech911
@firemech911 Год назад
What are the odds of someone who sounds, looks, and has the same ideals of Kez not being Kez. Pretty sure that’s her. I wonder how old this video actually is. I thought there would have been more people in the comments who would have recognized her.
@sofiacastillofernandez1081
@sofiacastillofernandez1081 Год назад
It's about freedom, people should be able to choose what they want to do for a living, whether it's working or staying at home. Every couple and every person is different
@kimghanson
@kimghanson Год назад
Yes, the slavery that men suffer through trying to keep their woman happy is one of the saddest things about traditional gender roles.
@YouFallenforit
@YouFallenforit Год назад
It's kind of ironic that women think feminism freed them but what it really did was unshackle the men from the financial burden and placed women in the very shackles the men where released from. Possibly the most damaging ideology to ever be sold by politicians to the American public
@garywilson2556
@garywilson2556 Год назад
Raising your own kids is extremely important.
@P455w0rds
@P455w0rds Год назад
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