I love how protective Loni is over the ladies. She has a really good sense of the vibe and if the conversation needs to be redirected at a moment’s notice, she does it so smoothly and in a respectful way. Loni has such a good soul.
@@barbie4170 That comment was extremely unnecessary, yes you can have your opinion but to share a comment that is purposefully hateful and attacking her because of her body is really low. Loni may never see that comment, but someone who has the same body as Loni might, that person could just be getting on track with feeling better within themselves, and your comment could have a really negative impact on someone’s life. Now, this isn’t me attacking you, as I said you have a right to your opinion, but please, could you think about how you would feel if someone said this to your mum, or you sister, or your daughter etc. You wouldn’t want someone to get that sort of comment, so please don’t give that comment out to others
Let's see how long it's gonna last.she married a rapper who was arrested for weapons ,drugs,and multiple children from diff women who were not their wives.Anytime now
@@chrisgreatness6953 I dont know much about him nor hae I heard from him till now since I joined in season 8 but I heard he's a beleiver I hope thats true because that would be good for her😊😊🙏🙏
Jeanie has been through a lot firstly she was sexually abused,her broken relationship with her mother for a decade then the divorce,😭how can she go through all this and manage to smile to the world?
omg s this bad to think i always knew since day one watching the real that she would get a divorce i dont wish bad about ppl its just you could see through the marriage
This may go down in history as one of the realest moments on The Real. This was such a real picture of their bond. It isnt just an on screen thing, these ladies are true friends.
I really meant their friendship/ bond being real. But if you wanna go there...I dont think anyone but them have the right to determine what the truth about their relationship is. So why dont we go back to minding our own business instead of jumping to conclusions?
I would like to believe so, but with the rumours surrounding Tamar getting fired and Jeannie not inviting any of them to her wedding, I find it hard to believe there that close.
I am over here crying too. She is so loving and so positive! Freddy you are going to hell in a hand basket! Be strong Jeannie. You have us loving and praying for you! This too shall pass.
I know seeing her cry was real heartbreaking. No one knows what she feels and what she's going through she's putting this out for the world to see and for people to talk about their tired of seeing her cry and this that and the third. They have no idea what a broken heart feels like obviously. Is easy for someone looking from their screen on a computer or their cell phone and saying get over it they can't control people's emotions and they didn't know what she's feeling.
Rihanna said something so deep that was so similar to this "I think a lot of people meet people and then they're dating the idea of what the person could become, and that person never shows up and then they're just mad disappointed. A person can always get better, they can always get worse, but you've got to be fine with what you met them as."
She's alway been good at that! I remember when she did the same thing when Jeannie was crying because she was sharing how her dad would secretly eat her leftovers from the trash when they were struggling.
Who’s watching this after Jeanie got engaged!!!! Yay God has a plan for your life . Don’t worry if things are not going the way you like to. Something amazing will come for you.
I love what she said. When someone shows you who they are believe them. Sooo true. And the fact that her ex always said you don’t really know who you married till you don’t get what you want. Something like that not exact words. But so so true. But she is happy now.
I love how Loni came in and started talking to help jeanie out in her emotional state. You can tell that these ladies have a true friendship. Definitely Emmy worthy.
I wish I would have known earlier that each individual person has an individual journey. I spent a lot of time comparing my life to others and I wasted a lot of time being upset because I wasn't going fast as the next person or I wasn't getting the same results.
Years from now when Jeannie is happy and blessed, she'll look back on this moment and realise that she had to go through this to get to that happy place ❤
"When people show you who they are, believe them." So, so true but hard to practice in real life. We fall for the fantasy or the illusion of someone, as opposed to who they are all the time.
I ignored my red flags and I stayed with someone for 7 years. I stayed with someone for the sake of my child at the end just so I could be stable. It wasn't worth it. I'm glad it's over now. I'm living on my own and I'm in college now earning my degree. In a few more months I will be graduating. Sometimes things like this happens in life just to make you stronger. I felt Jeannie's pain. I love this show. Such sisterhood. No fakeness.
Im in the same situation as you are. I'm only with him for our 2 children. Also because I don't have money', a place to stay, or a car. If I leave I don't my kids to struggle or suffer in the streets with me. I don't have family ot friend support. I tried living him, got back with him believing that with time the relationship will get better. We been together 7 years. But I feel I don't know him. He changed me to a person that I hate. The lawyer told me if I wait 3 more years I can get half of everything. So when I leave him atleast i will have some money. For a place while I get a job.
Feeling very sorry for Jeannie, she seems like she's full of love and comes across as a kind genuine person. Her life with Freddie was probably a test from God and a real man will find her soon and it will a wonderful experience for her. I'm so happy for you in advance Jeannie Mai ❤
I’ve never heard that quote before but it’s the truth. You really see people’s true colors when they don’t get what they want. And things can get really nasty or hurtful sometimes. God bless Jeannie
Freddy was wrong to say, "you really truly don't know a person until they don't get what they want", because a true man would never said to his wife like that, rather a man accept his wife as his own and together they figure out what's the God's plan for their life. I'm 23 years old and still single but I can judge, 'Freddy love for Jeannie was selfish!'
@@serenityq26 I never heard that either. But had I heard it, I don't think I'd feel the need to be so arrogant. Was that really necessary? Did it accomplish something? Well something other than making you look like a harsh person?
Looking back on this episode today and to see where Jeanie was 2 years ago compared to where she is now is amazing! She deserves the life she has! She’s winning with her new husband and baby on the way!!❤️
Am soooo happy for you Jeanie n Jezzy and she is Absolutely amazing n deep. Love my Capricorn ♑ Sister I truly cried cause I felt that in my soul.🙏🌹 Like loni said life is so precious and if you not feeling it make a change welp I know what I got to do 2022 winning circle 🔴👏🙌
Jeannie, I appreciate your honesty and transparency. Thank you for being open, it will help a lot of other women. Your pain is palpable... but I truly believe everything happens for a reason, so from this heartache something great will arise.
Jeannie is getting hotter by the minute. You're better off without him and better off without kids too. Live the single life and thank God from showing you who he really is.
I always thought 40 was old when I was younger but these ladies show me that 40 is really the beginning of your life. You have gone through all these things and you only then know exactly what you want out of life. It also helps that they're freakin gorgeous.
Jeannie is the epitome of strength! What a woman! My heart shattered when she started crying.. You can really feel her pain. Yet she's still our here bossing it every damn day! Encourage, supporting and loving others with her infectious energy, while she's dealing with her own circumstances. You'd never know she was getting divorced if you didn't know her. Always smiling! Honestly Jeannie you're such an inspiration! And we will pray for fast healing 'cos giiiiirrrrl you way too fine (inside and out) to be crying tears hunny! ❤️❤️❤️
Saying to the unmarried. Open your eyes, listen to your heart, listen to what your loved ones are saying. Don't fight your loved ones if they complain about him or her. Take time out and think about their comments/corrections. People can't see so much of the person's character. Cos love is blind. The moment you exchange those rings , people will show their true colours. Look out at RED flags. Follow your conscience. Don't marry cos you are ageing. Pray and let other people pray with you b4 you commit to a relationship. Don't make up your mind to go with that person if God says NO. Only God knows the future. Be blessed
Don't marry because you are ageing, yes! I am 28 and fed up with the "ticking clock" comments. I have yet to live 40-50 years with that person on a daily basis, so they'd better be right or none. I'd rather be single too long or forever than stuck in a miserable marriage looking at the better opportunities fly by.
I think she’s surrounding herself around positive people and keeping herself distracted rather then crying about it or being depressed sometimes taking a break can break you down even more rather then trying to NOT think about it ya know!
She’s right I swear your gut tells you everything...at the end of the day no matter how much we wanna hold on to something if it ain’t right for us we truly know so. As humans, our intuition is everything!
Jeannie is a wonderful, strong woman. She is an example to young women everywhere to stay true to who you are and dont change your views to appease no man, I'm happy she didnt have kids with him to please him, she deserves better.
This is how I feel about it also. Too many women compromise on this just to "keep a man" and then usually end up breaking up anyway. And now you have a child in tow. I think we all saw the split coming but i'm disappointed that Freddie would do her like this. All this was unnecessary. Like really? You couldn't wait until the divorce was final before you went raw in another woman? You had to have a kid right now? smh.
Jeannie...despite seeing you crying (hurting)... you've never looked more beautiful. You are keeping it real being honest (raw)/transparent. That's "real", that's beautiful. You can help so many people who are going through this. But you better be prepared b/c something better is heading your way :)
for her too be PURE and talk abt the RAW parts of love and divorce, is amazing a woman may need that RIGHT now, we never kno until the light shines on it
Freddy is still a 🐍 Should’ve never done my girl Jeannie dirty like that smh EDIT: If you guys want to know what happened go check out Day time tea time RU-vid channel, she made 2 videos about it and with LOTS of deets ☕️🐸
I think he cheated on her because he's currently in a new relationship and their expecting. And the timeline doesn't add up. Jeannie also said there were other things besides not wanting kids. But she hasn't revealed them yet
One of the main things for the divorce was that Jeannie was always public with not wanting children , however Freddy did. He was pressuring her into starting a family so left for another woman and immediately had a baby
Congratulations Jeanie on your engagement....... not long ago you where heart broken and going through so much heart break, now look at you!! You are happy, engaged and have a bright future ahead of you! So happy for you and Jeezy!! And to everyone out there going through a hard time, hang in there! As you can see things change❤❤❤
My wife was in a 12 year marriage with an abusive husband; I came along right place right time... 15 years later and she is my everything!!! My Wife, My Love, My best friend...
Wow. I feel for her and gained so much respect for her. I can not even share my honest feelings about love with my friends and she does it on television.
I know your a strong grown woman but to see you crying like this makes me feel sad. I hope you'll find your right one very soon, because I want to see you falling in love again and be genuinely happy.
I would disagree. In this particular instance, his love for her was eventually trumped by his desire for fatherhood. This appears to be the only reason he cheated/left her. Had she been amenable to bearing his children, will he have left her after 10 years? I would believe not.
Jeannie Mai, you deserve the world and THEN some. I can just tell she's a genuine and loving person and it hurts me when I see great people hurt. Wishing you brighter days. God bless you
Larissa Yossa that makes it worst, this happened to me before. Like Jeannie I am a Capricorn and mad loyal, it was so hard for me to believe he was cheating because I loved and believe in him so much. I definitely feel her pain.
comfort adams wow am Capricorn and ex husband cheated on me too.We had 2 kids and it was a very toughed divorce but thank God I moved on with my kids and it’s hard and am really feeling Jennie and what she is going through cos I was there before very hard and the one you never though would changed or cheated but life goes on.After 5 years of my divorce I never though I could love someone again but now I have a very wonderful guy who loves me and my kids and we are together now.Life is amazing and precious
mariama sonko I am so glad you are in a wonderful relationship now. After 5 years with someone who lied and broke me in so many ways I can say, I also found love again and I am happy.
Seeing the pain Jeannie was in then and looking at her absolutely glowing now. I could not be happier for her, she's been through hell and to be in a place where she feels so loved and ready to be a mama is just beautiful to see! The glow up!
Rasta Buggie They BOTH went into the marriage agreeing that they didn’t want children. It was Freddy who changed his stance on becoming a father the last 3 years of them being married. She was still adamant about not wanting any. He chose to stay and she wasn’t going to have a kid for somebody else if that’s not what she wanted. So how did she waste 10 years of his life again?
Jazzy P Freddie “wasted” his own life, and probably got resentful over the years towards Jeanie because he was mad at himself. Good riddens, he got his kid and now Jeanie can actually be happy and be with someone who appreciates her and actually RESPECTS her decision.
Tanya B People change, it’s called life, they loved eachother. But she was right when she said, “you don’t really know a person until they don’t get what they want”. I hope she’ll eventually find her happiness, she’s still healing.
This was one of the BEST episodes. I know this is The Real, but this was the REALIST. My heart went out to Jeannie as she stripped herself bare about her divorce. It's time to say, "BOY...BYE!!!"
@@evilevie2000 keep believing that. She using this platform to destroy Freddy character. Everyone knew Jeannie didn't love freddy. Everytime u saw Freddy on the real he look like someone took his manhood
Anisa J yes he did. He knew the girl he was with for years. He since 2015 has been liking her insta pictures and commenting on her posts. And 7 months before Jeannie revealed they was getting a divorce Freddy and Jeannie went on a trip and fredddys current girlfriend was there too. She was freddys side chick and now girlfriend
Looks better- physically and through how she looks!!! She is MORE VIBRANT than ever- and I didn't think that was possible. She is a viking. She is a warrior woman!!!
I echo that! nobody taught me how real life was gon be, everything was peaches and cream..Now I have 3 girls oldest are 11 and 13 and u better believe I stay in their heads about education first. I met their dad at 14 had my oldest at 18 and its been a real lesson.
@@camara1194 when they are in the early stage of divorce, Freddy got a gf and was expecting a child. So they were saying that he may have "cheated" on Jeannie to get to know his current gf and got her pregnant because Jeannie just got divorced like a year ago. This, I found by searching his Instagram and doing some searches online. But I'm not sure if that's is the only thing that Jeannie is crying about because she also mentioned money in this clip, maybe he wants to sell their house that they lived in. Idk because I don't follow the show that closely.
The love of my life passed away in April of this year. We had a love stronger than we've ever had with anyone. I took him for granted and now I wish everyday that I hadn't & that I could have him back in my life. I miss him terribly. He will always be in my heart. Rest In Heaven Jerry. I still love you so much baby! ❤❤
I wish i could tell this broken hearted and hurt Jeannie that in a year or so you will find a man, fall madly in love with him, change the way you see the world, redefine love and most importantly that you will become pregnant with your first child and know the joy of being secure in love. That 2 years later we will all marvel at God's hand on her life and the many blessings he has bestowed upon her. Her story gives me hope!
Seeing Jeanie cry breaks my heart, I feel for her, went through the same thing except 17yrs of marriage & with children Involved 😭 thank goodness she did not have kids with the man! On a positive note, it's good to see that Jeannie has a lot of love and support from friends & family. Healing comes with time.
Jeanie was so brave to share how she really felt. Ladies don’t confuse being strong with not having feelings. It doesn’t mean you are weak if you hurt. It means you are a beautiful lady with feelings. It’s best to cry and get it out and help your healing process.
This is so off topic, but it’s so crazy how one persons energy & presence effects a group as whole. Ever since Tamar has gone, they are so much more understanding and respectful of each other. I discovered their true selves only after Tamar left. Tamar’s energy and presence caused so much negativity and grudges towards each other, leaving them not trust each other, pick sides and just not act like themselves. Whoever decided that Tamar needed to go, THANK YOU.
What a bunch of wasted years and energy. Well, YEAH shes hurt! 👀She loved him. To add insult to injury, she JUST found out that the man she recently divorced, JUST had a baby by another woman. The timing doesn't add up. They were still married while the other woman was pregnant. Its HOW he did it. Deception is real.
You are all right, she didn’t want kids, he did. And she said before the reason for the divorce was that. She didn’t wanna hold him back. BUT, he got the other woman pregnant while he and Jeannie were still together. THATS the problem.
Danielle Cleary I believe they were in the process of a divorce when he got with the woman and him and Jeannie were already divorced when the other got pregnant they had been separated for a long time
THE WAY YOU GET HIM IS THE WAY YOU WILL LOOSE HIM.. Jeanie hunny you will rise and find your happiness because you did it the right way you where honest from the start and by the interviews and math adding up to how many months that girl is he didn't do all things right. He will struggle when you are happy but it won't hurt you anymore because you will be over it and hopefully with one great man😍 The girl new he was married so karma will come even if you don't wish it on them but it's life it WILL happen, God sees everything.
I’m have a really hard time going through my divorce right now and this specific girl chat came to mind. When Jeannie says “you truly don’t know a person until they don’t get what they want” it really hits home. I never thought my relationship would end the way it did, I don’t even recognize my partner (well, ex) at this point in life. I really feel Jeannie’s pain here but seeing where she is now in life gives me so much hope! I truly miss this show so much but I’m grateful for clips like these! ❤️
She’s getting a divorce now and her husband filed not her I hope she didn’t carry that toxicity they say be careful if you don’t heal from what hurt you….you will bleed 🩸 on someone who didn’t cut you 😢
She was sexually abused and her mother not supporting her for 8 years???? That is the biggest hurt.Then to have a parasite for a husband for 10 years!!!!.Girl you are a strong woman but to see you break down there shows that you hide your feelings and hurt inside.You are a champion.
I wish I would have listed to my gut sooner in a past relationship.Your intuition is ALWAYS right ladies! I used to try and justify my ex’s BS excuses and accepted the empty apologies. But it was the love that I had for him that made me blind and I accepted things that I normally wouldn’t have. I’m talking from my personal experience and not about the speculation around her marriage. But yes ladies please trust your intuition because if something doesn’t feel right, it’s because it’s NOT. I want us to learn from others so we don’t have to make those same mistakes.
Thank God Jeannie did not have a child with Freddy. I saw the likes and inappropriate (for a married man) comments he left under Linsey's Instagram posts since January of last year. Like damn could he really not just keep his cheating ways strictly to her DM? He has no shame :(
California Cation I heard people actually did comment under a post on his IG and it got so bad he was deleting comments until he just deleted his comment section completely.
@@averixu4836 i saw ones fr june they divorce oct, saying "u look cute" "one of my fav pic" etc...i read it and got hurt for jeanie. It just sucks bc freddy seem nice but he started to resent her and his babymama n total country white girl and freddy prolly didnt like how jeanie went for swag. Opposite dont always attract. He resent her. But yes the comments were "lookin cute"
