WHAT DOES A MAN WANT? Do Filipinas Know? 

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Men want love, consistency, reliability and honesty.

We just want a woman who is loving, caring, traditional, loyal, and will be there on your good and bad days.

1. Loyalty 2. Femininity 3. Compassion 4. Mother for our children 5. Support 6. Affectionate 7. Gradatude 8.understanding 9. A help mate 10. A loving wife.

Its truly sad that theirs not more women like this in the USA

Every man from 24 to 60 are going to be going overseas. These woman are so lovely.

These ladies are to be protected at all costs.

Passport Bros are from all races & cultures. I am 61 and found a beautiful, widowed Filipina aged 53. Just one site has tens of thousands of Filipina women of all ages looking to marry a foreign man. Many have degrees and are well educated. My lady has 2 degrees & now lives with me in Australia. She has 2 adult children and weighs 59kg (130 pounds). We belong to a Filipina church in our local area. All the adult women are Filipina who are married to Australian men. All of the Australian men in the church are divorced from Australian women. All of these men have lost their wealth and their children through the family court system. These Filipina women have given these Australian men a second chance at life, and in some cases given these men children who are raised to respect their father. The contrast is unbelievable. Another funny story. Early in our relationship I asked her what she understood about feminism. She said that she had heard the word but did not know what it meant. When I explained the effects of feminism in the West, her first response was that she now understood why there were so many foreign men in her country looking for a wife.

So refreshing and inspiring to hear women with common sense and right ethics. Bless these brilliant girls

These women are so high quality, I wish I thought about visiting The Philippines 40 years ago!

Pea, you are making a genuine contribution toward peace and unity in our world, and I doubt there is any more noble thing a person can do on earth.

Filipinas , You just gotta love them. Impressive how mature they are. Their parents must love them much since they have healthy values. All respect for their parents. I take my hat off for healthy parenthood of their children to grow up with healthy values.

I would marry any one of them. It would be an honor. "MEN WANT TO MEAN SOMETHING TO SOMEONE..." WOW! She summed it up perfectly.

It's pretty hard to fault the philinas. They are more genuine than any in America. You can see the loyalty Candace is a keeper ❤️

A traditional woman’s place is not under a man’s feet, but under his wing, by his side. A traditional man is a stable and wholesome man, who follows traditions and is always a gentleman in every situation. Neither should be controlling of the other but love and support each other creating a better life together. I retired when I was forty so I invest my time in helping my Thai wife with daily household chores like cooking, cleaning, yard work, and family matters. We can afford to travel when wanted enjoying life together. When my wife sister lost her house to a storm we built them a better home. When her brother past away without having money we paid for him to have a nice funeral. We both help family, friends, and the community the best we can without expecting anything in return. The smallest acts of kindness can create the biggest impact. I think this the is true essence of a traditional man and woman just be kind helping when you can. This is just my personnel opinion which varies with each person. Just be happy living life the best you can. I wish you all a Happy New Year.

Not everyone realizes how important this video is from the point of view of cultural studies. These conversations of Filipino ladies should be watched by students of various humanities, oriental studies, etc., because they allow you to understand the moral and cultural norms of contemporary Philippines and the way of thinking of Filipino women. This video also documents the differences between American-centric and Filipino thinking, and opens people up to understanding other perspectives. Watching this, Westerners have the opportunity to analyze and reflect on the social changes that have taken place over the last 70 years. Finally, this video, if it remains on the Internet forever, will be of great historical value in the future. Conversations like this are very uplifting, educational, and intellectually stimulating, and it's something people should watch instead of mind-numbing TikTok videos.

Dr.Phil-i-peana, Great interview! The thing that surprised me was the girls' poise, confidence, and candor, almost to the point of being assertive. They seemed to know what they wanted in a relationship and were ready to wait for the right person while simultaneously being realistic about their traditional values.

I loved this interview because it shows how it looks when women are listened and not getting triggered. They weren't screaming, they weren't yelling over each other, they weren't trying to force their beliefs on the next person. A nice calm healthy conversation. On the pre-nup...if she's an asset as in she's bringing business in or building a business together, cool we can get a pre-nup to make sure we are BOTH protected.

Honesty, normalcy, dependability, caring, supportive, giving. Is why I got two dogs. lol

I've' been watching your videos for awhile now. Being an American male (for me at least) I had a hard time believing these women were honest and true. Our society has pushed these values so far away from us that we are skeptical and keep looking for the "catch". For some reason this video put in my mind the American culture of the 1950's when this was all the norm, so why can't it still be real? It may take awhile for me to put my guard down but I will "test the waters" in the Philippines soon thanks to Pea.

I’ve got to get my passport ready and fly out to the Philippines! Loving these traditional women.

Such a refreshing display of decency, femininity, respect - everyone talks about their opinion, there is no fighting over other people's opinions, even if they may be different - i may be hooked onto this channel hahahaha ! Merry Christmas and a happy New Year ! Cheers to more content and success to come! Great respect for the Filipino women for showing us that we can still have hope xD

Candice is adorable, with such a cute smile, and it’s cute how she has a way of avoiding making her answers personal

As a man, I've always believed a large part of my roll in life is to protect those I love (physically, monetarily, etc). A prenup is a way to protect myself and allow me to continue to protect others I love.

I'm so happy to be here now in the PH. It's only been a couple of weeks but this type of kind, generous people is why I'm here. Thanks Pea for your content.

I didn't know much about the people of the Philippines, until I started watching videos about their culture. I must say, It's a pleasant surprise knowing that God plays such a huge role in your lives. That's absolutely awesome!👍🙂

Four beautiful Filipino women that talk a lot of sense....

Part two of this interview with these three traditional Filipinas was not disappointing, Pea. I hope each of these young ladies gets the life partner that is 100% right for them. Thank you for bringing us important and informative content like this.

I love the reaction of all 3 ladies when they saw the ring bit. Total shock. When my wife and I got married we had no rings at all, to a filipina its not the most important thing. We went together and bought the rings for our first anniversary.

The lady in the yellow, I must say I love how she did not compromise on anything. BTW I love you channel.

A great interview and vlog Pea. I've just turned 56. I've been in three long term relationships in my life and my big fear about marriage here in the West is that I risk losing everything I have worked my butt off if my Western wife decides to leave me because she has the right to for any reason and take at least half of what I have built up. What I love about the values of a Filipina is the loyalty and the commitment to marriage for life. Thanks for sharing!

4 beautiful women that are feminine and respectful, can see why men are going abroad for them. Keep doing your work, it keeps the belief alive that no all women are lost.

really all I'm looking for in a woman is honesty, respect, love, and loyalty. There was a saying that a friend told me that changed my way of thinking. He said marriage is 100/100. if it's 50/50 where is the other 50/50 going? That is something I practice whole heartedly.

As I said before these three lovely young ladies are going to have a wonderful future with their attitudes. I wish them nothing but the best. Thank you Miss P another great interview on your part

Honest, faithful, communicative and accepting of my faults and willing to help me improve just as i would be.

"Why would you marry me if you had to ask me to sign a pre-nup?" Because people can change, things can go wrong in a relationship, and people can become angry with each other and separate. All too often anger turns to hate, and hateful people do hateful things, including trying to ruin other people's lives. Taking half of everything a person has ever earned is just about as hateful as you can get (short of physical violence). I've seen friends whose wives came into the relationship with nothing, contributed as little as possible to the household, then walked away with half of EVERYTHING (even things he had before they met). That is a crime in my opinion. Overall and interesting interview, Pea. Thanks for sharing it with us.

A few thoughts (married 47 years) A relationship is continuous hard work physically, emotionally and morally and mentally . How we thought (non atheist and non church goers but 2 pure dedicated people). 1). Be honest with yourself about who you are and what will work with your beliefs. 2. Look for an honest partner that you feel will fit with you (and don’t rush into anything (including bed). 3. Once you share honesty you will have trust grow in each other. 4). As trust grows in each other, you will start growing faith in each other. Having faith in someone encompasses trust and honesty and faith (a relationship foundation ) . 5. Loyalty to each other is the next door to open (and can be a serious lead to the next one) . 6). Commitment…guided by kindness, caring, sharing with forgiveness. Hope is in everyone’s ❤….Westerners are not necessarily all rich nor well intentioned ! God Bless everyone in the future (odd statement from a guy who seldom had attended church….but it only needs 2 to form a church!!

Haha hahaha, they are all so charming and cute. I think Angie is a very amusing girl. I guess you will not have a dull moment in her company. Thank you Pea for a great vlog. ❤

Men want honesty, reliability, and sex (not necessarily in that order)! A good cook is also an asset. All the ladies were wonderful and will make someone a fine companion in the future.

Sounds like when my girlfriend and I started dating, still love hearing the same and similar answers by women like her. Every good western man needs a great supportive, loving, kind lady.

There's still hope for hardworking men who are not asking much. They are very inspiring. Thank you pea for introducing us to your culture

We are simple creatures. Stomach full. Balls empty.

So refreshing as you enter into the minds of these young ladies. Thank you for all your professional and hard work.

1. Faithfulness 2. Loyalty 3. Honestly 4. Religious Everything else flows from those qualities.

It's a great group of women I was hoping there would be a part 3

I like the video it only confirmed my thoughts. Thank you. There are 4 pretty ladies. But I would argue you 4 beautiful ladies. To be beautiful they must be with strong moral values, loyal and kindness and loving. And to show there are strong traditional ladies in this world

I forgot about part 2. Three different beautiful personalities I wish more of the young generation of my country could learn to be more like that🙏

Thanks for being so giving too Pea 😊 Interesting how religion between partners is such a conundrum even for these ladies with quite firm beliefs…it kinda explains tensions and conflicts the world over! Personally I’m a strong believer in acceptance and coexistence. I do hope you’re having a lovely Christmas Pea 🎄💜

Good evening Pea. Hope you are having a great holiday season. Let's get that algorithm going.

I remember being so confident in what I believed to be true when I was this young. Just as a fun experiment, it would be interesting see their reactions to this video 10 years from now.

A Great video explaining the heart of a true filipina. Hand on heart this particular Filipina type is 100% amazing and just as God determined it to be between male and female. I am one of many who is seeking a conventional traditional christian wife and frankly these ladies shine bright with what men want in a wife. Thankyou for sharing.

$50,000 for a ring is an absolute joke. When I went and met my wife in the Manila. We went together to pick out an engagement ring of course the people behind the counter immediately offered me a ring for 40,000 pesos. But my wife actually chose a ring that was only $35. When I went back to the US I bought us both rings. Hers was $1000 which at Christmas time was marked down 50% and mine was a $200 plain wedding band that was only 200 mark down 50% so we literally only had to spend a little over 600 bucks for our wedding rings she did not want agatti ugly huge diamond on a huge ring because she having had lived in tondo all her life didn't want to wear something gaudy that would attract attention. Her band was $500 and had a series of six small diamonds in it which still people would stare at when we were on the ferry. I would expect that most Filipino women would want just what I want which is loyalty and to take care of each other just like you would want to be taken care of. I went to the Philippines for exactly the reason that I couldn't find any loyal women in America..... Filipino women are so refreshing and reasonable in their psychology. When I told my wife and her family and friends about my previous love interests and they're psychotic episodes they could hardly believe it. They would say Oh yes they sound like they're quite psychotic

Fascinating talk! I think when a lot of people talk about 'religion;, they actually only mean the three Abrahamic faiths, Judaism, Christianity and Islam. Sometimes, Christians will talk of other 'religions' and they just mean other schools of christianity? What struck me was how mature and sensible their attitudes were in contrast to how childish many of the 'tiktok'/'twitch' obsessed people i the West are! Hope you're having the most wonderful time lovely Pea! 🥰❤

There is an innocence to these lovely young ladies and I imagine if you could fast forward 10 years or so and ask the same questions, some of their answers would be less certain. It's wonderful to be so young.

Amazingly refreshing answers.. God bless the Philippines 🇵🇭. Thanks pea ❤

Why does nobody ever mention 1. Agreeableness 2. Submissiveness (will she listen to you or fight with you over every decision?) 3. Good attitude and positive outlook (don't want to be putting out emotional fires all the time) 4. Not an energy vampire

Fit, feminine, fun, cooperative, non argumentative, affectionate, supportive, loyal, motherly and desires children before 25.

It was very refreshing to hear the views of these amazing woman, loving, caring and loyal, if only more woman in the west were like this!

"What I want???" A loving sane lady...a lady who richly deserves to be fully loved... I'm an old fashioned man.... I've never been a "bad boy" and that's what most American women want... When I graduate from college and get a nice home...I'm headed for the Philippines... to get the kind of lady... I can come home to every night with a big smile on my face.... and joy in my heart.... the kind of lady who richly deserves to be fully loved.... I want the FAIRY TALE!!!

You are all amazing and deserve the best! Thank you for a great video.

How intriguing it is to hear the viewpoints of these young ladies. I have never been married and at this point maybe too old to be married, 66 years of age. I wish I would have went to the Philippines and met one of these type of ladies 20 to 25 years ago... I would be happy and content today.

May each of you young ladies find true love that lasts a lifetime. Your honesty is refreshing!

This interview was so insightful. I enjoyed the ladies point of view and felt they were honest. I personally thought Candice was the most consistent. She's a catch.

No sex before marriage is a hard sell, I mean you wouldn't buy a used car without taking it for a test ride. Sex is a big part of a relationship, and if you aren't sexually compatible, it's not going to be a happy marriage. Asking for a prenuptial is a must for me, I've worked hard in my life to buy my house, cars and so on, it's only natural to want to protect me in case it doesn't work out. There are women who will marry a rich guy and divorce him once it's profitable. Trust and love is vital, but have having a prenuptial is like an insurance.

Just a genuine loving partner. No lies ever, even if the truth hurts.

These ladies are so very genuine, it’s amazing to see this quality is still found and it’s cherished. Every woman I have seen interviewed in your videos are all this way and it’s very refreshing. I see why us American men are going to the Philippines to find someone. I would love to do this, but im really worried about being scammed. I know not everyone is like that, but it’s still a worry.

Nice girls! I think a person can believe in religious values without necessarily being religious. Just believing in the golden rule and following it is a good example.

"P," I think it is great how you are able to get these women to speak about how the Filipina's perceive themselves. How they know their bodies are temples and the amount of respect they have for themselves and marriage, etc. I have been married to a Filipina for 27 years and have two children 26, and 18. My wife has taught me to be happy with one woman, one marriage, and my now extended family. Life is better than before since I went to the Philippines. Keep spreading the word..

Respect, appreciation, femininity, and peace. We men aren't complicated.....posses these qualities and we will honor & protect you until our dying day.

Keep up the good work ladies you have your priorities straight

I was impressed with Eira.. listening to them all I appreciated their answers..but watching Eira and the fact she had standards,self respect and honesty..there was a an integrious Aura about her and I found that refreshing and it was beautiful to me.. I'm living in Australia, I'm single and if I can't find someone with those type of qualities I'd rather be alone until I do..

I think if both can find each other, than trust and honesty is worth more than gold

Lovely line of questioning and honest answers. 1. Prenup-It is not a matter of Trust but for self preservation if things turn sour if it is the fault of the lady. If true selfless love as mentioned by the ladies are there,I would like to believe any guy would ensure she is well taken care off even if they need to be parted eventually. 2. God/Atheist- Does it really matter in the macro level if the man is level-headed,caring and full of love than a Sunday Christian or whatever his religion is but not really a good person.Anyway I believe positive energy attracts positive people. All the best ladies. Cheers

I've been married. I believe that 'I love you' is just as important as 'thank you'. A man that's appreciated is a man motivated to continue doing good things for his family. This is just my opinion, but feeling love and appreciation is so important to me. Yes, of course, there is loyalty, honesty and good communication. All important as well. Oh, and NO TAMPO...🙂 Never ever EVER go to bed angry.

I'd love to see you explore the prenup question a little more after they've had a opportunity to discuss the benefits with the lady lawyer you've had on your channel previously. Especially given the possibility of a large age gap relationship where there's likely to be a large difference in net worth as well.

What lovely wonderful ladies - I wish them every happiness. Thank you.

I can only speak for myself but I found my wife in the Philippines after a failed marriage that ended in divorce in the USA that made me go back in time and connecting to my roots on the farm growing up and the church. It is nearly impossible to find a woman who wants a simple happy life in the USA. Most women here are influenced by the way of life here and feminism, and unrealistic expectations and do not appreciate a gentleman. They expect to be treated right but look for men who are bad boys, who often don't even have jobs. These bad experiences with women in the USA and their unfaithfulness led me to meet my filipina wife online on Facebook and in 2019 I flew to Cebu to meet her, we got engaged and have been married since 2020. We first met in 2017. In about 5 to 6 years after I retire we plan on moving back to the Philippines. She is the best woman I've ever met

I did enjoy their responses, and the reasoning behind their logic. Whenever I got with my partner, I told her everything and what happened exactly. I wasn't always the best individual, and I owned up to my problems. Thankfully I got everything under control, and I turned my life around for the better. She told me about her past and I made sure to not do certain things, because of the way it makes her feel. I think both people need to have a sit down and talk the issues before considering whether or not this the person for them.

Just want to keep encouraging your content 😊 Hope your New Year is filled with fun and excitement!

❤ It's good to see content like this. I just recently traveled back to my home country of Canada and felt sickened by the actions of the women I saw. I feel fortunate that I now live in Taiwan. The people here are much better than those I left behind. I really worry about my nephews and pray to our Lord on their behalf.

This was a wonderful and well put together interview. I’ve never experienced what these ladies presented and it would be a dream to experience. I pray one day will be my day. Thank you for this.

The most important thing besides all the other things mentioned is a traditional women and it is confirmed by the women here, The mind set right off set it apart from western women because the average man dont have high needs just the basics denied to them.

Its refreshing to see and hear these girls have their priorities in the right place to find the right person! Its not about the gifts its about the "Love"!!!!

I'm a lucky man! I have the once in a lifetime partner who has traveled through this crazy life with me. She just happens to be a FilAm, whom I met when she was 15, and I was 16. I hope these girls get someone to love them like that.

Thank you Pea , a ten year follow up interview would be interesting to hear .

Good video and excellent questions.

As a Red Pilled/MGTOW man (Pea you may remember my old name MGTOWEH!) I have spent many hours debating this issue of what men want in a woman and obviously different men want different things. But a man who genuinely wants to get married I believe is looking for the following. 1. A Queen. What do I mean by this. I mean the role a Queen plays in relationship to her King. She should be loyal to the King, be his confidant and advisor, follow his lead, represent and respect him and the family while out in public, do not be distraction or try to be higher then the King. 2. Cheerleader. What I mean by this, its similar to the Queen where you have my back no matter what, If I'm down you bring me up, If I'm up, you help set the bar farther and push me to reach new heights. Also, you got it, cheerleaders are pretty, so look good and stay looking good (this doesn't mean a ton of makeup, I myself prefer natural beauty over makeup). Keep your man's libedo going. 3. Lover. I think this speaks for itself but will expand on a couple areas. You grow to know your man, most often times better then he may know himself. never use sex as leverage also if you find your own libedo falling.....figure out how to get it back because lack of sex will drive your man into another's arms. And when it comes to bedroom fun time be open to the discussion of trying new things to keep things fresh. Finally I don't know a man who would disagree with the following. Ladies if your horny, show it and act it and be the aggressor towards your man. You have no idea how sexy it to have your woman wanting to tear your clothes off. This is pretty much the foundation. Things like honesty, down to earth, funny - can take a joke and be a joker, non manipulative, non jealous

If I marry, I will make sure that everyone is protected, that includes legal and financial protection for my asawa ko. Especially as an older expat there is a responsibility to lookout for the future of the lady who gives you her youthful years and cares for you. So a "prenuptial" should not be a one-way deal... Happy New Year, Pea!! Joe

Sometimes the ladies sound the same - until you ask the right question. Thanks for asking the right questions. I can see that it's very important for me to stay clear about getting to know a woman in depth for me to be happy in the long term.

I hit the jackpot ! She checked all the boxes and then some. God is good!

Its so nice to see that while they were already doing 10 times more than a western woman, thinking about the person they were to marry, they were still able to go even further with the prenup talk

What a wonderful group of beautiful, wholesome, intelligent and compassionate women (you included, Pea), unafraid to show their feminine side. Filipinas have such a positive attitude towards all aspects of life, and that trait is amazingly attractive to westerners such as myself. I'd love to see a group of women aged 30-35+ years under the same conditions as this video. Thanks for the insight, Pea!

In most states where engagement rings are considered conditional gifts, the recipient remains the owner of the ring only if the condition of marriage is met. In most cases, the ring goes back to the purchaser if the couple breaks up. This is the reason I have a Filipino wife. Its about Love, Happiness and family.

I could understand their position on religion as my Filipina wife was a Baptist when we got married, and I was searching as I had just left a religious cult. She had a Baptist visit us after we arrived in the States, and I soon also became a Baptist.

Dear Pea, I am a subscriber of yours however i have never commented on any of your topics. I would like to say that your knowledge of English and customs is extraordinary! I was watching your video here and wanted to comment on the atheist questiuons you asked the ladies. First of all thank you for including those questions because it is important to know the mindset of others. Worldwide percentages of atheists are: Sweden 80% , Norway 72% , Vietnam 81% Japan 65% Europe 12%, US 9%...... so as you can see atheiests are out there. I am one myself. also I would like to tell you that your little skits at the end of your videos are frickin hilarious!!!! keep up the good work !! MW

Hello Pea, I have learned that ALL Religions are corrupt to some degree. I AM a Christian but I don't attend the gatherings of any organized religions. I AM a 69 year old Canadian male and am very Spiritual, God is a part of every human's heart and soul. We can all talk directly to God and Jesus Christ any day/night, anywhere, anytime and we don't need a building (church) or a Priest/Minister or Rabbi to talk with our Creator. I have travelled to the Philippines' and love the people, culture, climate, affordability and the ladies there. I have friends from the Subic Bay area. I work with and respect very many Canadian (Filipinos' and Filipinas'). I watch your very informative, real, humorous shows and love the approach that you take to deliver your clear much needed messages. Keep up the great work. I'll be watching. Regards, A true Canadian admirer.

A real man wants a good hearted loyal woman. Appreciates when he does something good and doesnt take it for granted. I'm the kind of man who will bring his woman a glass of wine while she is in the shower.

Some people think that you can't have good morals without religion which is totally not true. Anyway if you have respect for your partner's beliefs or non-beliefs then you should be fine.

You do great interviews Pea! It is so good to see what Philipina women are like. I have been married for 45 years and this is what my wife was and is like today. I don't think I could be on the dating scene today with the way American women are today. Thanks again Pea and keep these great videos coming!

Filipinas are just very kind, honest, and lovely people for the most part! And Ayra, furthest woman from you, is just so openly honest and down to earth! I can't believe she's not married Pea...or even you for that matter. You such a sincere person as well. All the ladies are so sweet Pea. What city is this interview being held?