10 months gone, engaged to new supply, 4 months after 11 years with me, all my illnesses gone and God will give me the years i lost!! Thank you, Jesus ❤🙏
Remember ladies, he cant reject you or make you feel rejected if youre not the one pursuing or chasing. Stay in your feminine role of attracting the very best.
@@basicinfo2022 yessssssss !!!!! The ones that don’t chase be the ones they stalk and obsess over . Don’t let new age religion tell you otherwise… lol 😂 they use witchcraft to get these men . The narc doesn’t stalk or obsess over ones just like them … they want ones opposite of them .
13 years with a narc. Finally went no contact 2 months ago and life has been great. Health problems went away and reconnecting with my friends and family. They will try and isolate you and bring you down to their level. Remember they always play the victim and everything is always your fault. Finally at peace.
Very true, I told myself I didn’t loose him coz he never was mine to begin with. He never allowed connection despite having a child together. It’s so strengthening to know that am not alone in this senseless situation but thank God we survived and will continue to fight for others behind us.
Yep, dropped that narc a year ago. I have the gift of goodbye! 👋 it’s an intense spiritual gift. It’s amazing that they use the same playbook. He told a family member that I was the best thing ever happened to him. Then, everything I did was a problem. So happy without him. 😊
@@erickonassis6310 When he would try to start an argument I’d simply state there you go, creating problems where none exist, then leave the room. They are so clingy, they always seek you out for attention. Complete losers.
Your videos have helped me so much for over the last few years!! It’s exhausting dealing with a narcissist and even harder when you have children with them. I’m praying for God to continue strengthening me.🙏🏾🙏🏾‼️‼️ God bless you Telsha!
I discarded him fourth of July weekend and went no contact Hes blocked EVERYWHERE No hoover attempts and I haven't seen him around anywhere. After 8 years with him, these last 3 months have been refreshing and stress free. The clarity of it all is unbelievable! I thank God for giving me the strength to leave him and continue to stay free from him.
THEY CANT GET THEY CAR STARTED WITHOUT "MY GAS... HELLO!!!! BYE NARC!!!!!! FOR EVA!!!!! I GOTTA FLY, YOU CANT BREATHE UP HERE🦅🦅🦅🦅🦅🦅THANK YOU JESUS FOR REMOVING ALL THE TOXIC WASTE FROM MY LIFE.. BEAUTIFUL SIS, GOD BLESS YOU AND THANK YOU FOR SHARING YOUR WISDOM
NO SIR I'M NOT CHASING NO ALLY CAT U GOT ME TWISTED.., LET THEM RHINO'S KEEP ROLLING AROUND IN BABY OIL 😂😂 YEAH I'M JUST OVER IT THIS QUEEN STANDING ON BUSINESS LOVE YOU QUEEN TELSHA 💞💞
Exactly what it is lol 😂 After a couple cycles, in your mind “you’re days are numbered ☺️, I’ll give you one more blow up” The reason they confused is they may have done way way worse in the past and you stayed after, typical the thing that send you out after cycles, the final event may be mid to low tiered before you disappear 🫠 They really confused at that point
I'm so glad I found your channel. Serious life-preserving info delivered with experience, a sharp wit, and a beautiful personality that lightens the heart. You are one of a kind, queen.
I played CHECKMATE on his game plan, and I went NO CONTACT and NO FEEDBACK. When he showed me his natural behind, and I saw what was behind the mask (a whole demon), I never went back. I am DONE DONE FOR EVER....
Yup...several cycles and I am done! He had a nerve to say that he cant be a narcissist...out of all the people/women in his life, why am I the only one not "acting" right! Smh....but umm why are you calling, stressing we get back together? Go to those women who love you so much! 😂 #imdone
Telsha you are 1000% on 🎯🔥! The videos you post are so similar to what I experienced with the narcissist-it gets clearer and clearer as time passes. God bless you! 🙏🏽❤️
That’s the one one you know of ! There are others and on dating apps new supply searches the best also I did was forever leave him do tht discard and forever block go no contact ! Couldn’t be happier!
It was sudden when I discarded that narcissist and it was a shock to him. He couldn't digest it when I discarded first. It fell on their ego and he said if that's really what I want then be it. Few weeks to it, he started messaging me saying he couldn't digest the fact that I really moved on without really contacting him. How could I get over him 😂 Then out of sudden started sending sad song links when I didn't CHASE him😂 Such creeps..make them taste their own medicine!
I rocked with it so hard I went no contact 😂that pigeon with the missing feathers won't ever hear from me again I'm out staying out the burner calls keep coming tho ignored 🤫
Thank you Tea, OCD explains why he showed up on my doorstep unannounced a few days ago. He was so flirty…yuck! I had to hide my disgust for real! I’m glad this messes with the new supply. He never told me their name and so I’m not entirely sure they exist, but either way, it sounds like they deserve each other because he claims they were/are “narcissistic crazy”! LOL now that’s justice! Thank you Jesus! ❤
Karma came quick. Uncle fool him to move in with him. Now he is homeless. His mother and grown-up children will not come to his aid. I don't call. I really don't care. He his rags now and dirty.
So true!Sis the person that my ex Narccistic-husband, left me for, was treated worse than I ,he abandoned her so fast, it still makes my head swim 🏊♀️ to this day, 5 decades later 😮
That’s exactly what I did at his first discard of me but I had started learning about narcissism so I told myself no matter what I was going to be strong and heal. When he tried to reach out a few days after I blocked him and it’s been 3 months now he’s been trying to reach me through my pastor but am not having it despite having a baby with him. Am healed, bold and standing strong, and I know I have won 😂
I don't chase nothing that is delusional and that has no connection with herself and has no capacity of human being to love anyone it is lose cause for human being Christ sake a lose hope demonic control by Satan himself no one can love anybody that is empty and in the dark period case close and she knows it period.
Hes the one who has me blocked again but for over 3 months this time.... now that i know hes a narc and closeted bi, i dont want him anymore. Im just detaching and accepting he was fake. I will laugh out loud if i see him start chasing me again lol but i think he's gone for good this time because i know hes a narc.
U won when the new or old supply has nothing on u, when I saw ,both I see why he never really showed them, I am good Being the Diva I am, I took away one of his so called bf with me, exposed him, and I let him make a real fool of himself, and tops let him know that I know he his a dirty Narc, you are so on point, So glad GOD put me in your Path Beautiful Sis, please keep up the good work.I realized I dated down
I totally enjoy seeing your entertaining personality shine through‼️Especially looking back at the earlier years (3+) when you were so methodical and reminded me of sorta like a school administrator giving a seminar😊 Not that there’s a thing wrong with that , but your videos are now on another level , and I appreciate them! I mean who else in the world describes someone as a backwards - walking giraffe!!!??? Just to try imaging that !!
My dad said go get your lady!!! I said no,I did what I did because she's did what she did ,so As far as I know she's miserable and for the streets let the new supply and her family deal with it,I had her for 8 years , nobody gone get what I had or she'll never get another me....Facts,Once you heal you see the whole picture.....she 56 and at the wall with over 15 bodies in 2 years, trying to replace me....she looks drained and it's sad...and her family finally See's her as a woman lost❤❤❤😂😂 ASE'
BACKWARDS FLYING PIGION 😂😂😂😂 THAT STATEMENT IS PRICELESS 😂😂😅😅😅 💯 PERCENT ON 🎯 FACT'S REGARDING A NARCISSISTIC PERSON ‼️😊😊😊 I AM SO HAPPY 🎉🎉🎉😂 ITHAT I WOKE UP ❗ AND JUST GOSTED THEM 😊😂😂😂. I WELCOME THE NEWS THAT THEY HAD A NEW SUPPLY 😂😂😂😂 BINGO ‼️ I WAS SO EXCITED 😊 . EVERYTHING YOU'VE SAID IS 💯 PERCENT ON 🎯 FACT'S 🌹😊.
I will not chase them. They can put themselves on the bookcase and stay there. I will not put up with the mess. I will put my focus on better. No more letters from them and others. I'm not interested. Bye! Yes, I said it.
I have not and will not chase anyone I only chase Father God Elohim and his son Jesus Christ my Lord and savior those dusty weirdos don't deserve to be chased ever thankful I got out of delulu land 😊🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
He said have a blessed life now he calling my phone from star 67 and getting no answer. I don’t answer not one blocked call ever. Deleted his number from my phone blocked everywhere
…. Going thru this NOWWWWW ! I could go a whole day without calling him and he’ll call me when the day is over and be like “why yeen call me all day “ 🤣🤣🤣🤣 bro SIT DOWNNN and now he’s resorting to stalking and obsession . ATP , I don’t care 🤷🏽♀️ 🤣 IT.IS .A. GAME. it’s almost like I feel like I’m turning into a narcissist lowkey ….🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
My ex narcissist and I were in a 2 yr relationship. There was a bunch of him discarding me and me chasing. Im an Empath. I didn’t know he was a narcissist at the time. We broke up for a yr but I remained friends with him. I met someone else and moved on. After my new relationship ended. My ex decided he missed me and apologized for all the wrong he did to me. He wanted a second chance. I told him”well,I just got out of a relationship and I’m still getting over that”. He was pissed. lol He said”well I didn’t expect you to be with anyone else so soon”. I said”well what did you think I was going to do”? 😂 He was fit to be tied. Don’t you know he told me he didn’t want to see me anymore? I said”ok” and went home. lol 4 days later he texts me crying and carrying on about how he should’nt have acted like that blah blah. I still didn’t know he was a narc. I forgave him and we slowly worked our way back into a relationship. Started exactly the way it did the first time. The love bombing ,then the devaluing leading up to the discard. I recognized the pattern so when he got to the devaluing I stood up for myself and dumped him. He said he missed how I used to be and said I was better back then. I said”oh when I was begging you,I was better ?”He used to ghost me for days to punish me,knowing I hated it whenever I got out of line. This time after I dumped him,neither one of us texted. Two weeks went by. I knew he was mad because I didn’t chase.THEN I came across your videos. 😂 You are a life saver. ❤I started watching all of you videos on narcissist,what they do,etc….. it was then I realized what I was dealing with. Our WHOLE relationship made sense after that. After 2 weeks of the silence between us passed,I finally reached out and told him he needs to go to therapy if he wanted this relationship to work. I said I can’t be the only one working on myself. He responded “After two weeks have passed I’ve decided we should just stay apart. I was pissed because I realized all that time I wasted on him because I didn’t know who he truly was. Even remaining friends with him after our breakup. And then being foolish enough to get back with him after that 2 yrs of narcissistic abuse I endured from him. I think he thought I was going to run over to his house and try to save the relationship like I used to do after he discarded me. Nope. I packed up everything he ever gave me and everything that reminded me of him. I don’t care if it was a receipt from a date we went on,in the box it went,with a note that read” I didn’t want to throw your money in the trash. Do not look for me. EVER. “ That was 3 days ago. Im DONE! Thank you thank you thank you for you content. I don’t think I would’ve ever figured it out without your videos. ❤❤❤❤You are saving alot of lives and sparing many broken hearts.
I rocked with all of it. He told me at the end don’t ask him about his private life. No need GOD showed me in the nightmares. I believe GOD, n I don’t chase. 9 yrs private life smh. Ok plse stop trying to Hoover me. I saw the eyes turn black n I heard the voice change. Thank GOD I didn’t chase. As I walked away I said I know my worth n never looked bk. Grieved cuz I was confused, but baby once GOD sent Ms. Telsha my way. healing began 4 yrs n.c. I could care less what that 🪳 is doing.
Chase nothing "nada". He's on a walker and a cane. No disrespect to the elderly. He told my daughter " I'm getting your mama back." His health and mind has declined rapidly.
2:25 reminds me of Hannah on Love is Blind. She faked her personality to hook Nick and then started belittling him lol i think she only wanted to be famous.
