What I wish I learned in my 20's - Privacy Over Secrecy

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@AJ-jw6yp Месяц назад

I couldn't agree more. Limit what you share of your private life. Not everyone wishes you well, and the more people know about you, the more entitled the feel to opinions about your life.

@beatricedevarenne2621 Месяц назад

Even in our own family

@marilynfarley9213 Месяц назад

Exactly.

@RocknRollDina Месяц назад

sharing was how influencers were making their money back then. Now they can just do ad and pnly make videos with paid sponsorship. but 10 yrs ago if you werent sharing real life, no one was watching. Even today, a lot of people are trying to come up on social media by oversharing. It's jsut the game. You play it for a few yrs then shut it down and only post when paid to. The TY ad revenue isnt enough anyhow, sponsored content is what really pays

@leilariley936 Месяц назад

It's the price you pay for fame...don't put your business out there,where nobody ask/push you;then when something happens...you suddenly start to 'drop words at the people who've stood by you,all these years,most of the vlogs currently are ads...and people are still committed .Attack the people coming directly for YOU!!

@CinnamonSanctuary Месяц назад

Good on you for wanting to keep things private. But I feel like influencers decide to stop sharing things right after a breakup. The pattern goes: oversharing then breakup then intense bouts of self-love, cue lots of posts about how we need to take care of number one then a YT post announcing that people are nosy, never sharing anything again etc. It’s a formula at this point, I’m seeing this everywhere for some reason!

@Rebel_Leader7 25 дней назад

Spot on! Clearly, the lifestyle influencers private life is their CAREER/BUSINESS - nine and a half times out of ten. They put it all out there, milk it for every penny they can get then jump on the privacy bandwagon when they divorce or break up because the wonderful life and illusion of authenticity they were selling and making bank from is all collapsed.

@CinnamonSanctuary 24 дня назад

@@Rebel_Leader7 You put it much more eloquently than me, absolutely agree!

@cillae8119 18 дней назад

Has she said she broke up?

@NeneBlessing 12 дней назад

Beautiful makeup looks 😍

@tendaihatoongo4433 Месяц назад

The Chicnatural is one influencer who strikes the perfect balance between sharing her life and privacy.

@Banzai026 Месяц назад

I agree!! I love her content!!

@leocadiabaptista9516 Месяц назад

Couldn’t agree more, love her as well

@providenceluyiga4488 29 дней назад

Yessss

@Flourish_today 21 день назад

I think Jenny Jenkins is also a private one. She has been private from the get go.

@suziesmith9076 20 дней назад

@@Flourish_todayshe also lost her following. You can’t start sharing all your business then suddenly stop, your audience was built on knowing what goes on with you.

@marthal8862 Месяц назад

Money Mel really has learned from the mistakes of the OGs and it’s lovely. You guys were trailblazers and you didn’t have instructions! You wrote the rule book and have now made this industry easier to navigate for the girls that came behind you and are still to come ❤

@crestarose Месяц назад

This!!

@cillae8119 18 дней назад

Facts

@moniqueclarke-w2747 Месяц назад

I always knew when my time came to be a mother, I didn’t ever want to share the most precious, transformative journey of my life so far online.

@therealmykag Месяц назад

I know people are really excited to share their kids, but please don’t post their full government name and DOB online. Identity theft can ruin their whole life. Even private accounts, never forget that 90% of victims know the perpetrator.

@kemiesther2971 Месяц назад

This definitely applies to life outside of socials, especially because I've been getting questions from family members recently about when am I going to get married and I'm just thinking I don't talk to you like that so its none of your business smh

@leiajack638 18 дней назад

I feel like it works for Mel as her brand was never about her personal life, her hubby or kids. It’s about HER style! And she has never shared anything so people don’t expect that of her. She got her following without it.

@RavenRaeRaeAlexis Месяц назад

Girl I’ve missed you! Haven’t seen a video in years, You were my favorite back like 5-6yrs ago. I’d watch your hauls everyday

@LoreBrown Месяц назад

the skin match is rude! LOL! loved that!

@peachypie3442 Месяц назад

Patricia, Patricia, Patricia! This was right on time and a true confirmation. Girl you’re successful. I’ve been with you since Day One( under another channel). Not everybody wishes you well and I have been a victim of situations like this. Now I move in silence. To hell with how people feel about it and what they have to say. I’m proud of you sis. Proud of all the Patty fam👏❤️‍🩹🙏💪

@muk9463 Месяц назад

I love this Patricia, way to go.

@stylebykatb.5661 Месяц назад

Although I have watched RU-vid for years and have consumed a lot of videos regarding folks private lives I did kinda cringe at times when I would see folks exposing very intimate details of their lives on the internet to thousands of people. It’s just not wise to expose your life to strangers in such detail - something has to be sacred, especially folks kids. I would never expose my children on the internet too many creeps out there - this video is giving some good advice more video content creators should take heed

@brendatajik6150 19 дней назад

Excellent points, Patricia. I've been watching you for over 8 years, and you've made quite a life for you and your family. Well done!😊

@veesvoyages Месяц назад

Really great topic! It's so true nowadays we need to get the balance right of what is shared online. Love this video format and concept!

@jacquelineruple8339 Месяц назад

Yes, keep your family protected with privacy. Enjoy your PEACE. You are the influencer . You are doing wonderful enjoy Yes the chicnatural has never shown her husband etc Just be happy

@candisweets8627 Месяц назад

That skin match is insane ❤

@crestarose Месяц назад

Totally agree with this and love how private I’ve always been … it’s hard to grow a creative career though! Everyone wants to feel like they know you before they invest in you!

@ChavonJWright Месяц назад

Me, DEEP in these thirties, smashing the download button: Omg I need to hear this!!! 😅

@zona_davani Месяц назад

I’m so proud to see you in this place in your life. You started on this so young and social media influencing was untapped ground. You are one of the pioneer of this space so surely you will have gotten burnt for the ones after you to learn and for you to learn. You’re amazing Patricia. In my head you’re my bestie 😅❤

@tailsoftoulouse9458 Месяц назад

I love your videos and makeup!!

@adoremilliana Месяц назад

I know am going to love this 🥰

@CocoFrankie Месяц назад

Perfect timing ❤

@Bells2141 Месяц назад

Never been those early!! Love this ❤

@FopsyTheGreat 13 дней назад

Needed this! Thank you 🎉

@cynthiaetty3549 Месяц назад

Thank you so much,was singing Tyla Jump the other day.🥰🥰😁😁😘😘

@Ayaayaayag Месяц назад

Girl what happened to Mike ??

@SloantheBeast 3 дня назад

3/4 of my pregnancies were "secret" not just on socials but irl. I believe in "mal de ojo" people's intentions aren't always what they seem and protecting the peace of myself and my family is a non negotiable for me.

@homodeus8713 Месяц назад

So good to see you again. Algorithms are full of mischief!

@Jazeerakiko Месяц назад

So lovely And loved the makeup ❤❤❤❤❤

@QueenOyinkan 19 дней назад

Peakmill is also great at keeping her personal life private

@annalisemodeste9390 Месяц назад

This is for me🙌🏾 lords know I talk to much😅

@Nourishwithdevin Месяц назад

I so appreciate this perspective ❤️TY

@marissathomas9327 Месяц назад

Here super early ! Where tf you been lol 😂 waitttt RU-vid has not been notifying me 😭 I got a lot of catching up to do

@Ruby-kr6fh Месяц назад

In case you don't know, all of your social media links in the bio are dead, they don't go to your profiles. I tried visiting them and thought you wiped yourself off the face of the earth lol but when I googled your correct accounts came up

@RocknRollDina Месяц назад

Patti was definitely an over-sharer. That delivery vlog of Nova was wild. But we love the openness. I think the nosiness comes from people not seeing Mike and wondering if you're together. Can't be surprised when you share your hubby then dont and people wonder where has he been. part of being an influencer is being personable (to a certain degree). But I get where you're coming from. I dont even share my kids on social media thats only my friends...nope. privacy always..but im also not an influencer. But lets be real, you only make sponsored content and all your instagram content is you flexing or promoting a product. I get it, its your job, no critique..just saying

@rsmith1820 26 дней назад

And that's why I only look for Patricia every now & then. She's like a friend who you've drifted apart from but you still care. Like she said, she went from sharing EVERY aspect of her life to trying to guide us to the path of investment & wealth to material things that some of us simply can't (or don't want to) afford As a viewer from WAY back, I am happy for her growth & hope she's happy But she just told us all - as tactfully as she could... TO MIND OUR BUSINESS ABOUT HER LIFE OUTSIDE OF WHAT SHE POSTS as long as the sponsors continue to roll in funding trips & gifting items, gotta respect her gangsta.

@Mayan144 Месяц назад

Hi Patricia!!!!!

@RocknRollDina Месяц назад

But all that being said, the question is: Are you and Mike still married??...is that secret or private?

@theetravelhippie Месяц назад

spot on

@mrsroseyp109 Месяц назад

Look what y’all done did…I’ve realized that creators that I grew with have all rebranded to being more private about their lives…I understand but I’m not sure how I personally feel about it…I’m personally super private…which is why while I thought being a creator was awesome, and I wanted to do it…I also don’t think I could…but that’s why I admired your bravery which is also why you’re also more successful

@bonsaikitchen 26 дней назад

Big love from Bonsai Kitchen team. 🍴🔥🧑‍🍳

@Mabonga8 Месяц назад

She is talking about the RU-vid GOAT Peakmill 🙌🏾🙌🏾

@Taylor14Tnava Месяц назад

You do your makeup so fast 😭

@micalexandria Месяц назад

I think they do it for views, and to become in the circle of being an influencer. It's really sad! Do it for fun, to educate.

@reginadmahabirfmworldperfu211 Месяц назад

Hi Patricia how can one purchase the eyebrows pencil that you used?

@coffeewednesday553 Месяц назад

Mel was going through a very difficult time and she needed privacy, until the birth of the baby

@awhi3765 Месяц назад

I’m a nobody and when I was pregnant I didn’t tell a soul but family and close friends. If someone asked on social media because they heard from someone else, I would tell them. I was in my final few weeks before I ever made any comments relating to pregnancy and when I gave birth I shared a picture when my baby was christened. I’m just saying if me a nobody can value my privacy I don’t understand how public figures don’t. Fans don’t need to know your whole life. When you let them in too far it’s hard to keep them out later. Nothing wrong with holding the precious and emotional close to home.

@Flourish_today 21 день назад

Peakmill is one private woman on this youtube. No one even knew she was expecting. We saw her baby when she was about 2 years old. Even her marriage was private. In fact, she made a video saying, "i got married and had a baby"😂😂😂. People were shocked because they expected to see a 2 day old baby. The baby was 2 years old.

@cloudhi Месяц назад

Can you please elaborate on the differences of secrecy vs privacy?

@leylac3856 Месяц назад

Shes not with her husband anymore?

@naomeshylineTv Месяц назад

Hey Lady Patricia, may I have the name/link of your Rode microphone that you are using? Thank you

@JulianAlbino 18 дней назад

gorge!

@coreysbaby3691 Месяц назад

❤❤❤😊😊 it's been a while

@ndoe1200 19 дней назад

I havent watched her vlogs since pre covid. At the start of video she mentioned breakup. Did she split up with her husband ?

@balance0212 Месяц назад

Hi Sister's ❤ what is the name of the serum please? I have replayed the video multiple times and still cannot catch the name 😂😂

@anitadhm_ Месяц назад

eclair parfumeries

@theohsospontaneous Месяц назад

The brand is called cle de peau, if you screenshot the image you should be able to find it on the website :)

@lucindawise5090 Месяц назад

💯❤️❤️

@nickojunior2 Месяц назад

We back after a month 😂

@chelsaamie4664 Месяц назад

Referring to Melissa

@suziesmith9076 20 дней назад

Which Melissa?

@cillae8119 18 дней назад

The influencer your referring to isn’t the same kind of creator are you tho Pb. She also didn’t share her wedding or her show her home…

@maxinemuhammad5979 Месяц назад

❤️❤️❤️👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿😍😍😍💯💯💯💯👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿well said

@JANIQUEism Месяц назад

cool video

@beverlynadom1109 Месяц назад

She’s from Nigeria😂

@cooky75015 8 дней назад

You may actually need some time off social media. It is ok to do it. We tend to forget it as we got acustomed to share everything online. It is indeed important to live in the moment off camera

@Jointhebluezonefam 11 дней назад

It's obvious that her and her husband are not together because, as a wife myself, i would have hushed the rumor that my husband and i are no longer married. It's a quick come one guy me and Mike are locked in, and we have just decided to no longer document or post marriage on social media.

@memeeemm Месяц назад

every time you upload now it’s an ad :(

@adams8830 Месяц назад

So?

@katerinapavlou1586 Месяц назад

Cute video

@user-rl8qn1nx5s Месяц назад

She's not her authentic self any more 😊😄

@Natasha_StyleZ Месяц назад

Better Help is so good if you are looking for a therapist, really love using them. Balance is key and sharing things that you are comfortable with 🌸

@egems6088 Месяц назад

But you made money from the over sharing??? No

@theromadziba Месяц назад

She said privacy over secrecy.she didn't overshare. She showed parts of her life now and then but she made money from being a youtube sensation and investing in property.

@Nixed_66 Месяц назад

Live and learn! Yeah she made money back then, but she was younger, the Internet has changed & she has adjusted her boundaries to what keeps her real life healthy & thriving. Oversharing comes at a cost & this info is out there forever. It's kinda like sharing a nude, in the moment it was good, you liked and trusted that person, but when the relationship ends, you might have some regrets, you might not want that person having that personal photo & you can't always control what they do with it.

@oni2278 Месяц назад

@theromadziba and the "sensation" was due to her "oversharing"

@theromadziba Месяц назад

@oni2278 you mean shopping has and GRWM and product reviews

@tb22k Месяц назад

Cover ur self up 😂❤😅

@NennaLena Месяц назад

Who didn’t we know was pregnant?👀

@juliajulia1835 Месяц назад

I'm curious to know..

@Penguinpenguin23480 Месяц назад

Melissa’s wardrobe

@derrickomo8507 Месяц назад

You talk too much

@ChavonJWright Месяц назад

It's giving stalker 😮😅

@aaaangeee Месяц назад

What did you think she was gonna do instead?

@adams8830 Месяц назад

You complain too much.

@theromadziba Месяц назад

You commented with this same comment some time ago.chill

@jackiedelvalle Месяц назад

What else was she gonna do on a vlog? Dance?

@dominique2o06 Месяц назад

Good to see you even us who watched for years don't feel like we need to know all your business you've given us enough just good to see you focusing on mental and physical at the same time 🤎

@rawkid2345 Месяц назад

As an old time subbie I can’t lie I miss seeing you and model Mike lol but I definitely understand that the internet is just not the same as before 🩵🩵🩵

@princesstc987 Месяц назад

After watching a few episodes about people being stalked...the internet is definitely not the same anymore. There's people out there who get unhealthily obsessed with people they see online and they don't fear the police