What Is A (High-Value) Woman? 

Agreed

Precisely my thoughts 😎

Based

She also strays away from the hive mindset most women have.

nah she seems combative and very opinionated which are masculine traits. High value women are submissive and give their opinions only when asked.

Loyalty, loving god more than anyone eveb yourself And a promise to love each other forever till the say you die

True. When loyalty applies you are not only loyal to your partner but your being loyal to yourself.

Ngl I like the spongebob part it made so much sense in a random argument

More like responsibility

I LOVE BRETT MORE IN 4:20 BECAUSE SHE SAID POSITIVE LIGHT ABOUT ANDREW TATE AND MY TYPE HISTORY WAS ALL OF A SUDDEN MISTAKENING THINGS

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I also, however, believe it might be an example of the background she grew up in. One of my main issues with Brett is that while she's intelligent and beautiful she's also pretty far removed from the regular American experience... as is Pearl. They both have a sort of luxury to make these decisions to follow these ideologies because they inherently benefit from that right winged upper middle/high class pipeline. I find a lot of her ideologies relatable to a younger version of myself that hadn't experienced the world and the system for what it is quite yet. I hadn't experienced the oppression of the poverty/low income/working class because I'd grown up away from it. Having not only experienced it as a homeless youth and a young adult (I'm actually the same age as Brett I think, I'm 21 so..) but also seeing it around me in my public school experience I can understand the perspective these women and men have that Brett and it seems to be most of her followers couldn't understand because they're removed from the oppression of the systems our ancestors built. We live in a society and a time of abundance, evolution, and technology. It's not really impossible for us to start breaking free of some of our more primal ideologies to adapt to the demands our abundance from hard work has brought us to share with millions. White Americans have a serious privilege and responsibility because of that privilege to educate themselves and learn empathy for others who have less than you. Brett is no angel. She's directly profiting off of impressionable people who either relate to her or aspire to be more like her. She's not aware of a lot of complex realities that her growing platform is going to question her about because of some of the messages she promotes now. We are not animals. We are humans. We're not primal, we're evolved. We will continue to evolve everyday and outgrow these old systems that don't promote equality for all humans. Just "people" who fit a very narrow line of "person".

@vipwilms You sound insufferable.

usually very negative peiople with low self esteem.

​@@vipwilms What you say makes so much sense, I also think that she simplifies relationships a lot, although I like her point of view on several things, it is undeniable to recognize the position from which she speaks

LOL, sounds like you are looking for a man based on your description! That or a unicorn

@sanyagoel2069yes in a nutshell or a unicorn!

agreed, except the last one.

As a woman myself, I agree with those traits.

​@@floriandc5695 or me, or so many women you haven't had the chance to meet apparently

You only really need self-respect and empathy from this list. If you focus on those two the rest should easily fall into place. Thanks for being a morally just family unit in these mentally negative times

High value is not to ask single people. Ask for guidance of the ones struggling after 7 years, still faithful, but those under their own law. It's not about what makes it work, it's about how they both make it work. 10 year veteran but no one will listen to me.

You have a good father

theres a clrear diffrence... if a guy was all that but currently in a financial crisis would he find a female partner?

even more simple less than 5 bodies

Dominate the situation by removing clothing and occupying as much space as possible. Upon them giving ground make sure to press the advantage, by baring your teeth and chasing after them.

Absolutely, an incredibly good point

"You might as well like yourself. Just look at all the time you have to spend with you." - Jerry Lewis, The Nutty Professor.

I've noticed humour, even one aimed at self is good way to go. people wont just think you are full of shit and are willing to approach easier than some one who appears to sit in ivory tower. Granted I got promoted from the "ranks" so older hands know I know my business. But with new people, Humour has worked for me the best.

Exactly. My dad taught me the same thing once I was old enough to understand these concepts. A good leader, and a naturally good leader is extremely rare in the current state of the US. Keep at it, and good luck to you!!

I think the same 🙌🏼🙌🏼

Love this! I married a man who is almost my opposite but we have common ground on Christ, who is the foundation. Happily married five years

The Bible does say to be evenly yoked

Ooo I am gonna look into this book! Thanks!

I'd say a high value woman is protected by her family, has high morals, a really bubbly positive attitude but is very pure at heart. She's also very kind and empathetic towards humanity and animals and eagerly wants to make people happy, especially the people closest to her. She is something that must be earned not bought. And of course very loyal to whoever gets to be with her in the end. She doesn't have any number of body counts, she's just patiently waiting for the right one to marry. Understanding that short-term satisfaction will end up only to be a devastating loss.

​@@cooliipie you are living in a fantasy good sir. Not every woman has to be a virgin till marriage (25-30) to be valued, that is demeaning. Imagine a girl falls in love at 18 and the relationship is great but then they brake up for some reason or other. You would say she's low value simply because she didn't wait around for you. Also also no-one man or woman can be bubbly and happy all the time. Life is not a fairly tale. And yes we should strive to make ppl we are close to happy but it is not our job and their happiness is not our responsibility, we can only support and help them.

Thanks I'm going to check this book out 😀

Damn that manipulate men part is real

All 5,372 of them?

Great traits for a friend. Not necessarily top of the list for a husband/wife...

​@@Audentior_Itomy boyfriend is my best friend. Honestly friend first and boyfriend second. Because we don't kiss 24/7 but we do spend all that time together watching things we like, playing games and going places we both enjoy. The most important is being on the same page about your core values like family, religion, children and so on. Other stuff can change

you sound like a woman, because both sexes do NOT look for the same thing at all. maybe beta males

I think more than shareable hobbies people look for having fun or laughing together. Me and my husband we don't have common hobbies , but we have the same sense of humor, I think that is what makes you have fun with somebody

Amen

Exactly!

Aww, I hope my sweetheart would say this about me. So romantic!

@@aliciabell6688 I always say things like this about her. I know in one way I am truly blessed in my life and it's my family (wife and daughter). I couldn't possibly ask for anything more. My wife is from Honduras where she grew up with nothing so she's always so grateful for everything she has. It's one of my favorite qualities she has that has definitely rubbed off on me.

Exactly, I don’t get this men vs women things it should be men + women. We are 2 halves of a coin or our Ying to our Yang so to speak. We cannot have the human race without both sexes and if you go to any tribes that are still for any intensive purposes in the Stone Age even though men are the leaders women are still considered vital and respected members of the community and everyone works as a team in order to survive and raise the next generation.

You're blessed, my Mother is a broken woman. 💔

Think that’s the crux: nobody wants to be taken advantage of, men or women (and while most of society is much more equal now, some people still hold a hard line to one side or the other and will totally take advantage of a partner)

What women don't understand about men is, we love to see your half naked picts on social media, but we would never take that girl home to meet the family as a prospect for marriage. At least a real man will not. So choose the woman you want ti be and act accordingly. A woman can be as wild as she likes, it's her right. But it's a man's right to marry who he chooses also. A woman of any real value to a man must first know her value, and act it out.

@@KatieLHall-fy1hw the equality you mentioned does not help women at all when it comes to finding a man that meets their standards. That is is you mean things like a woman having a career, money, or alot of sexual partners. Are you impressed by a man's shoe collection? Are you like, I will not date him unless he has alot of shoes. That is how men feel about your money and carreer, they could care less. They have there own, and if a woman is useing that to try to attract a "high value man" she may have better luck with a bum. But it will not help her find the man she wants. Lol Take having alot of sexual partners for example. First, the most important thing to a man is respect. Its why they choose to die on the feild of battle instead of running to safety, they couldn't live with the disrespect they would get from other men. And it starts at a young age, it's in men. Boys will dare each other to do dangerous things, if you succeed you win there respect. WITH MEN ITS ALL ABOUT RESPECT. Now imagine you are a girl who has a high body count. You and him walk down the street and you pass his freinds and other guys you slept with. He looks at them, they look at him and grin. hE knows they know he knows they slept with you.The amount of disrespect he gets from that will make him never call you again. With us, it is all about respect. And if you want a traditional man, yet you are a modern women with no traditional values, you will fail miserably at the Long term relationship game. The feminist movement is destroying women'srelationships. Women have the right to live as they please, but don't forget, men have the right to marry who they please. Women control the sex, you decide who sleeps with you, but men control the relationship, they decide who they want to marry and spend their life with. So, the best thing a woman can do is find out what the man she is after desires, and become that. Because if not, he will find one who is. And we all desire respect. It's all about respect for us. Women need to stop projecting a woman's point of view on to men. For example, most women value a man with alot of money and a good job. And these women, because they value that, will go and get a good job as I said b4, thinking it makes them more valuable to men. But in reality that's a woman's point of view. Sure , a bum will love your money, but the man you want will not. Doesn't mean you shouldn't work or have money to help make it in the world. It just means that is not what your husband values about you. If you quit, it would not change the way he feels about you at all. Yet most women will leave a man who is jobless and doesn't want to work. That's a females view of value, not a man's and they project it onto men as if a man should be impressed with your education, job ect.

Cis Chinese man here, who else is gonna think about Brett in the bath tub 2nite?

I can agree with many of those but I don't care how ambitious my partner is. I want a relaxed comfortable life not one where we push ourselves and work overly hard. Work hard enough to support ourselves but there is no need for a lavish lifestyle.

I'd say a high value woman is protected by her family, has high morals, a really bubbly positive attitude but is very pure at heart. She's also very kind and empathetic towards humanity and animals and eagerly wants to make people happy, especially the people closest to her. She is something that must be earned not bought. And of course very loyal to whoever gets to be with her in the end. She doesn't have any number of body counts, she's just patiently waiting for the right one to marry. Understanding that short-term satisfaction will end up only to be a devastating loss.

Thank you we are so undervalued lol

Basically, the woman of excellence ( also translated "valor" ) written of in Proverbs 31.

That is true actually ! I think this is what most of mens are searching for

"Definitely someone to look up to" good point

Good luck to you guys! I'm 22, met my 'high school sweetheart' at 17. Started hinting at rings now 😄

@@megalegsx that's so exciting! God's blessings to you! We are celebrating our tenth year together in May!

I trudged through the dating pool till 27 and all I can say is you missed absolutely nothing. I wish my husband and I met earlier in life because dating sucks. Especially in the age of primarily online dating. I thankfully didn’t have to go through dating in my 30’s which I am assuming it only gets worse with each passing year.

My 27yo son who is searching ....has said it's nearly impossible to find a woman who is not obsessed with WOKE/SOCIAL MEDIA ACCEPTANCE/CONSERVATIVE HATE....The woman pool for God believing/family structure and discipline is.....As he puts it "A UNICORN"

I’m considering taking up church to find someone. Sigh

Hello. I came across your comment cuz I was feeling a little beat myself and the way I look. One thing I remember is that we all can have those moments. I know I'm just some random dude on the internet and it may not mean much, but you are actually quite pretty. If you desire it, you can change your weight. It's not easy and can take time but it's quite possible. I know a lot of videos online today connect a lot of a woman's value to her ability to have children. There is so much more that women bring to men, to relationships, to other women and to society than that. You will absolutely find a man that does not need or want kids. Baggage? Well, don't we all. I know i do! haha. I believe that's life. The challenge is how well we manage and pack our bags. I hope I did not come off insensitive with any of the above. Of course I have no idea what your life is like, but from the little window in to your life that I saw from your comment, I just want some positive vibes your way. Wishing you the best.

@@ItsAZbaby I have actually lost 30kg (70lb) but I’m still larger. I will never be skinny, I’m not built like that, and I have PCOS and I’m on a medication that’s horrible for weight gain. But I can’t not take it. I’m doing my best though. I’ve been single for 12 years because dating is just too upsetting. I’ve only ever dated one guy that treated me well. The rest would be nasty to me, and one even outright abused me and tried to unalive me twice. Guys would want to sleep with me, but refused to introduce me to their friends or family because of my weight. It’s just too hard and too depressing. I’m sure there some amazing men out there…but they don’t go for me. Why would they, when they can have a skinny healthy girl without medical issues or baggage? No, it’s best that I stay on my own.

Your size doesn't affect your value. Be confident, respect yourself,ove yourself and becoming healthier will come naturally and so will relationships.

I’ve got to disagree. I believe that it’s your constructs that could also be contributing to holding you back from love…because everyone wants to date people who focus on them, are caring and nurturing, and frankly, interested in the relationship vs career only. And if these are the clear reasons why you know you don’t have love in your life then (age aside), the solution is to work on them, not avoid them by spending your time and efforts elsewhere. Unless this is how you like your life…in which case, I don’t understand why you would say you’re being held back-that implies that it’s something you want, on the other side.

@@lindseymiller8165stop lying to her. if she lost weight and work on herself physically then her chances will increase. her baggage nothing will change if she holds on to them. come to terms with it and don't burden other people with it. get a psychiatrist if its difficult. love will you when you take care of yourself.

why would a man not fook many women

And trying to build each other up! Not trampling your partner down to make yourself above them!

The way I see it, a man who has the easy option to sleep around but chooses not to is significantly higher value than a man who just slings it into any hole that presents itself. Its like supply and demand, he's in high demand but not available to the general public lol.

Real men don’t like Andrew Tate. He’s a clown

@@adamwieser why

As a good Christian....i think its time for him to Convert lmao. You know whats your Job Agent.

The Bible said we shouldn’t be unequally yoked: believer and unbeliever. Praying for your husband to find Christ!

You’re wise beyond your years. My advice as a 31 year old man… don’t look just on the surface, because beauty disappears, but love, care, nurturing, support, understanding, loyalty, respect, etc. last forever

Yes, but please go live your life and experience real interactions in the real world. Don’t let the internet affect how you see the opposite gender at such a young age. I’m concerned you’re even here😭

Thx you guys I’ve dated someone now and then read these comments and you both are right

To me a High valute woman Is the opposite of woman Who cheats

You are smarter than most of the people on here. Keep thinking that. You are correct

So a what have you done for me lately type.

@@johnconnor2753 No the "life is hard and complicated, but each of us supports and helps and loves the other unconditionally no matter what because that's what marriage means" type. Lean into one another's strengths, make up for one another's weaknesses, and keep God at the center of it all to finish the race well.

personally I think its different between men and women..women want to have a high value man as a partner but thats not the case with men..to me the high value woman is the mother and the grandmother the woman with the wisdom and life experience..but who I want to f is mostly the pretty dumb young little girl who isnt wise or experienced....which is not a high value woman

saying "i want a devoted woman" is deemed a domestic abuse crime by feminists. it is considered controlling behaviour.

Failed on 1st point lol, but solid answer.

So brett

@@michaelhenar 👌

@@michaelhenar how is Brett agreeable?

loyal

Has morals

If you listen to Jordan Peterson talking about teaching people to think for themselves he says they have done studies and you cannot teach people to think for themselves. They either can do it or they cannot.

@stormmiller4886. Totally disagree. Thinking is a skill, and like any skill it can be learnt. Sure, some are better at it than others, but you can develop your thinking skills. As much as I love Jordan Peterson, he is not the only authority on thinking. As a psychologist I am sure he will tell you that if you change your thinking, you can change your behavior.

​@@Justsomenerd69 Everyone can think for themselves, many just choose not too. Jordan Peterson is right about some things but he can still be flat out wrong as well.

I understand that. Everyone is right sometimes and wrong sometimes. I just sourced him as the one I had heard it from and he said that there was research to back it. I don't know how much I believe it but I wouldn't be all that surprised it there were people that aren't all that capable of it as I see them everywhere. Most people that I see are very hive minded and only do things other people tell them are okay to do and only think the way others tell them is okay to think. I see plenty of people that don't think for themselves. @@Kitsuragi556

children cannot think for themselves sometimes, which is why it's so important to train their problem-solving abilities. We never stop growing and learning, and if it's possible for children to learn to think for themselves, of course we can too!@@Justsomenerd69

But most women prefer a man who can get multiple women instead of a virgin so that’s why the double standards exist. Men n women don’t cherish the same things

I constantly see men call themselves "alpha" because they sleep with a lot of women. An Alpha is the head of the family who guides them and protects them not someone who sleeps around then runs away.

A woman's physical attractiveness is variable, though. Very few are so gorgeous that a viper personality is overlooked. Most women are of average looks & personality raises or lowers our physical appearance. In the book "Gone With the Wind", Scarlet is introduced as "Not beautiful, but no man who was caught in the web of her charms noticed." When I read that, I wondered if this happens in real life. So I started to watch. Yes, I noticed lots of very plain women who had an entourage of men. She was charming, so they didn't notice her plain looks. But, the Bible tells us that charm can be deceptive.

Yeah. Beauty fades. That’s the sad truth. A great personality, however, doesn’t fade with age.

Which is why you date younger. So you don't worry about beauty fading. If I was single At age 50, I would still date under 30.

@@dominick6131 And if you are in a serious relationship, this woman is still goint to hit 50 and looks old. Stop being so superficial or else you will end up alone

Agreed!

I thought you weren’t supposed to “fear the lord”. he doesn’t want you to fear him, right?. Unless it’s a metaphor. I never understood that phrase, can you explain it? :)

I can't with you people, I am sorry, I don't want to offend, but you guys live in la la land. People are flawed, for you to be noble and dignified as you have described, you will need some life experiences, made some mistakes, learned from them. Have you ever been really challenged to claim you are wise, dignified and noble at heart? You will only know if you got high value partner next to you when you both have been challenged and life, thrown all sorts of pain and difficulties and came out of it stronger.

@@Soggycigarettesss fear in this sense would be the same way one would fear their parents or boss. A healthy respect and understanding of their power and authority.

@@Soggycigarettesss fear of the Lord interpretation means "to have (beginning of) wisdom" or "understanding"

Wrong. A high value woman isn't necessarily those things.

Nah even a sl*t will love you if you pay money, doesn't make her high value

Nah, all those women’s are high value, but not all high value women are

alright. but that could be like every woman. all women are naturally nurturing and love to love so i dont necessarily get this. Why would YOU choose the one woman out of the 4billion on the planet. What's so special about her, if there's nothing than reconsider why you chose her in the first place? Was it because of looks? Because that doesn't make you a very high-value man if you think that's gonna make you love her or make you happy for the rest of your life. You don't have to be a mother to be high-value, or a wife, or a daughter, or a friend. You can just be a good person and be high-value. That's really all that matters.

Definitely not.

Respect does not mean obedience it is earned. And men are not your father

@@johnconnor2753 correct.

@Jason Bourne you are so not educated it hurts

i agree(with rizz)(btw, im over 6 foot(with rizz))

@Jason Bourne this is a good question, thank you! Now, all of what I said in my original comment aside, I don’t want to be a wife that just sits there and lets her husband do all of the work. That would be taking advantage of him and in and of itself, disrespectful to him. Given that it should be a partnership, I want to give him the same respect and support that he gives me. When he’s too tired to take care of other things, or even himself, I’ll step in and help him as well. I think when people say “50/50” I personally take that to mean a give and take situation which is not how it should be. If my husband is doing his best, and on any given day his best is 20%, I as the wife should give 80%, and vice versa, yknow? It should be a mutually supportive relationship. I won’t sit there and insist my husband do everything. I’ll cook, clean, learn how to do things that I might have to do without solely relying on him, find a job to help with finances if he needs more support there too. Essentially I guess what I’m getting at is that I’ll take care of what is necessary to also provide a home for him too. I don’t ever want it to be one-sided.

do you guys have a traditional household or nah?

This is the most wholesome thing I’ve ever read in a comment

Hmm did you get married when she was 28 or so?

i want my husband to describe me like this ❤

future*

That blond guy just wanted to be confrontational.

That was nice.

I love the concept of the channel. Discovered it recently and instantly subscribed.

Brett cooper, will you marry me?

@Thomas me opening my eyes everyday after waking up realizing the leftist ideology is still going strong 😂😂

@@olenchka with that color of hair I'm skeptical

@@johnconnor2753 so making assumptions based off my HAIR colour ?!?. First off , leftists don’t OWN colourful hair. I can be an Individual. Also if you read my RU-vid bio , you will see I’m actually currently growing it out because yes , I’m done with it . With the face piercings . With the tattoos. Because people like you and comments like this I just can’t stand it . And I don’t even blame you , I fully blame the crazy woke leftists. But yeah I am growing it out to my natural colour

@@johnconnor2753 it is a 2 year process :/ trust me I’m done with it . I look in the mirror and absolutely hate it

If you turn it off and go out side its not so bad

@@crazychase98 Nah, I feel like the internet portrayal has been pretty accurate to how far everything here has fallen into insanity. (At least in my corner of the world.) Absolute chaos, and near impossible to even have a conversation about *anything* (in real life) without risking your job, relationships... Everything.

@@crazychase98 we live in a propaganda state run by corporations like big pharma and the military industrial complex. and the fbi is running social media. to say its not so bad is very ignorant

She isn’t as real as you think.

@@MrCool144 😂😂

@@MrCool144 You are the type of dude that would have everything you could ever have emotionally, mentally and physically, and still find something to b!tch about.

@@FabulosoSpray prove it

@@MrCool144 look at your channel, that says everything about you without speaking a word. Maybe you'll find a pair beyond the ice wall. Good luck

Jesus was stripped naked in front of hundreds of roman soldiers. He was mocked, spit on and tortured. He voluntarily subjected himself to this shame and humiliation to take away your shame and your guilt. He conquered it all at the cross. He took away all your sins and offers the free gift of his righteousness in return. As impossible as it seems, you are totally and completely forgiven. ❤

@@eltyo340 ugh shut up

Great comment. And well done. You do matter. What you say & do does matter. Keep working on yourself, so you can inspire others to improve themselves too. Not now, if u don't feel ready, but in the future.

Sorry there are so many "sl*t shamers out there who want women with an unblemished past, yet they themselves are not Virgins.

I'm right there with you. When we know better we do better.

My guy friends, and I, ask ourselves the same thing about women. Seems like most nowadays aren't looking for commitment, due to the major shifts in our cultural focus.

Couldnt tell if the question was rhetorical or not, I don't want a relationship because the next one I want to be my last. And a quality, SINGLE girl hasnt presented themselves to me in over 3 years. Im not going to try and take someone else's girlfriend. She's out their somewhere, and i will find her eventually. Best i can do is to keep working on myself. Im tired of the games, im tired of the trash. It isnt worth it

Can I ask you, are you a man or a woman? I am curious about it. I agree with your opinion

Except man keep going for looks

@@libelinhaa2079 not true. I have been working several years as a make up artist for models, so I know many incredibly beautifull models who had so much problems with man, being used or not being able to have a long term healthy relationship. And I know woman not so good looking who got great husbands. How do you explain this if all that matters are the looks? Then all models would be in happy relationships. I can tell you many many of them are single and emotionally struggling. If you think its all about the meat you have a very poor understanding of human beings. I am not saying looks doesn't matter but there are a tome of psychological aspects involved on it, when a man likes a woman. To start with , some man marry woman who have psychological qualities similar to their mothers. So if it was all about the meat and it was that simply, psychologist and therapist wouldn't find any correlation between the parents a man has and the woman he chooses. But there is. Also as a woman who has 4 brothers, I have seen their girlfriends, and the one they ended up crazy in love with or ended up marrying haven't been necessarily the most good looking one. Some man they use the excuse that " woman just go for rich guys" to explain why their love life is not going well. Some woman do the same just they say for man its all about the looks.. The truth is, the reasons are always much deeper and if you honestly look around you will see it. Also, being single doesn't't invalidate you as a person. You can be the best person ever and be single. But if you don't address the deeper reasons why, and keep thinking that it is just the other gender's fault because they are shallow... Then you may miss having an awesome love story, just because you didn't address the psychological blockages coming from your childhood which may be the real blockage for not having love in your life, and which can be easily removable. This is just a friendly advice. I wish you happiness

@@YFL.111 that's why so many man seek woman on Instagram because they can see all of their philological traits. Obviously I'm not saying all man are the same but a large percentage will go for young girls who all look very similar

@@libelinhaa2079 I don't know what country you live in maybe it is like that in America but in my country, I never ever met a guy through instagram or know anyone who met somebody in this way. Also again this may be something from my culture but few woman I know show their full body on instagram. Also, you completely missed my point.

weaker vessel? wtf

I am in the same boat as you. 39, never married or have kids, few bad relationships. To echo to what you mentioned, the lack of self confidence and also, the high pressure from society to be married by a certain age as a female, with the constant reminder of the biological clock ticking. I also cross "conservative " men who have the same opinions. But what I often ask myself if, what makes his conservative. Is it just the typical adjectives that describe someone as a conservative. A real man will not look at a woman for her age, rather he will get to know her for who she is, and vice versa. He will be a man of God. Many of these conservative men think that if they have a little more masculinity in them , that identifies them as a conservative. Use your discernment wisely. The right will notice your value, and fight for you (and vice versa). it doesnt go one way

Go passport bro. Grab someone out of country. There’s a very low probability you’ll get anyone around here that’s gonna work out nowadays, sadly. Between all the “traditional dating” with low success rate. Just get that money and retire early or similar or just grab someone out of country and come back

My auntie had grown up children at 45 and got a divorce. She decided that she doesn't what to be alone and found a wonderful husband a few years older, who is very generous, they got a dog, she retired early started painting and is happy. There will be someone for you, you just have to keep looking

Here's my advice to take or leave as you see fit, in case it helps at all: If you aren't having luck meeting someone organically in your everyday life, don't be afraid to try dating apps. I tried just waiting for something to happen in my life for a while because I thought that would be better than ending up on a dating site, but after a while decided that wasn't working. Obviously avoid the sleazy hookup apps, but maybe try to look for one that's geared more toward people wanting something lasting. I met my husband on one a few years ago and can't imagine finding someone more suited to build my life with. If you make an honest profile that states who you are and what you're looking for, there are still good people looking for other good people in the world. I was upfront on my profile about wanting to find someone to settle down with, I listed my religious beliefs and my political leaning because I knew I wouldn't settle for someone I'd have to disagree with on fundamental things. I was also worried about putting myself out there, but I think finding the right person was worth being rejected a few times. Don't abandon your convictions and the person who is drawn to those convictions will find you even if the rest of the world isn't seeing you. Other than that, you are already doing the right thing by knowing your value, that seems to be half the battle for a lot of people.

Yep. Men my age want 20 year olds. But if I date an older man I’m looking at having to care for a sick and dying husband by the time I hit late 40’s/early 50’s. I’ve never been married and I don’t have kids. I work hard as a nurse, I invest a lot of money into my appearance, I volunteer, I’m funny and cheeky and full of life. But I’m considered low value because I’m fat and 35.

Gosh, the simping is strong with this one. I haven't crafted a comment quite like this since my teen years.

@@Marco_My_Words I appreciate the self-awareness

😂 This made me laugh, thanks! 💛 But I dont think its simping. As a woman, I also admire Brett and think she is amazing. 🌞

The simp is unreal on all of her videos. You don't even stand out, so no worries!

Bro was doing backflips on it

This! Thats why I cant mess with that Andrew Tate stuff relationships are are a partnerships and there places where i lack and she makes up for it and vice versa. For example my gf is better than me at budgeting so thats an example of something she would take the lead in or be able to teach me something about.

@@ihateanimebutonlywhenitiso7227 Yah, i also understand that my example of a High-Value women is rare and Tate highlights examples of those who have different understandings of what is a high value partner to them. I especially feel said for those that think all their value to the relationship is sex.

Cis Chinese man here, who else is gonna think about Brett in the bath tub 2nite?

@@ihateanimebutonlywhenitiso7227 you let yo gurl dominate you oh hellw nag

but are you guys traditional in dynamics or nah?

Probably mostly doing it cause there is a camera. So he's like omg it's my time to shine. Let me use my buzzwords I studied

He says so much yet says absolutely nothing..basically what all these people do.

Tbf it's wrong to eliminate someone from the gene pool cuz you know they're wrong. A lawyer told me so.

Yessir

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I was hoping someone else thought of this as well.

PREACH IT! Amen

Eve and Delilah

@@johnconnor2753 why come on here and be a demon?

@@chu123TIN why perpetrate a lie?

where have all the cowboys gone? They certainly aren't on college campuses

I'm glad you think of your relationship as a team rather than a competition.

And what does he do? 😂😂😂😂 Just work and be lazy? You work, do every chore imaginable and take care of him. Sounds like you have a man baby 😂😂

@@asshole_by_nature sounds like ur a bit salty that u will never have a caring partner

@@BeastGotClipped I'm already married babe but hell I'm glad that I'm lesbian and didn't marry a man baby who can't do anything on his own and make the women do everything. Creatures like that are the worst next to incels 😆 And if he let's his women do absolutely everything including working than he can't care that much 🤣

then just ask what are your " desired traits of a long term partner" instead of making it sound like you are picking a woman out of a catalog. I'd like the "High value one please"

@@SerenaHung Hindsight is 20/20. There were times where he tried to clarify(ie he talked about what men look for in a long term partner), but I'm not sure he was fully understanding where the miscommunication was occurring, so he struggled to get past that. He got a little better at framing it near the end of his video, which he does acknowledge. Doesn't really help that the more precise question is rather long to be putting on the sign he's wearing.

@@allisk8001 Well "What women do men tend to choose" is exactly one word or 5 letters longer than "What is a high value woman"? So, no, I think this is not about hindsight (evaluating the value of someone by the way the opposite gender wants them to be tells you a lot about this persons views) but about trying to be click-baity bt then screwing up because of it.

​@@Smiuley Did you even watch his video? It is absolutely a hindsight issue. Poster design isn't just about phrase length, but also phrase readability and recognition. People take shortcuts when reading and clump words together, generally prioritizing familiar phrases, nouns, and verbs. People are already familiar with "High value man/woman" and "What is a woman" so putting the two together is easy to read and the important part is easy to spot. (fyi, the back of his sign says "What is a high value man" too). "What women do men tend to choose" is a messy sentence and is not as "iconic". Where is the important part? It's harder to find the emphasis. "Women men choose" is not a concise collection of words. Therefore, people won't bother to address it. It doesn't help him in the goal to spark a discussion and find common ground. (You also managed to completely misunderstand his point too. It's more about the values a partner should hold(loyalty, honesty, work ethic), and less about an evaluation or measurement of worth.) I understand why he would choose what he did for the sign, but it was poor wording to set up this particular discussion with.

@@allisk8001 Then he could have gone with "What women do you like?" or sth. Obviously, being a "high value women/man" isn't as common of phrase as you make it out to be. Otherwise it would have been understood by everyone. But it wasn't.

Till women quite cheating at higher rates then men. I will not take women seriously in anyway. Cheating or not so its doesn't matter

it's called evolutionary biology dude its not cheating--a man spreads his speed a woman gets the best seed from the best man hence stronger kids----dont fight evolutionary biology as the leftist progressive feminists are trying to do.

High value man is defined by women, they determine who is most desirable. Women want exceptional men, but that comes at a cost.

@@Hatrimn I'm not defined by no women .. I can't agree with that. Because her values maybe less than my own. There no such thing as an expectational man or women ,concidering we are all flawed. That doesn't come with a high cost but unrealistic expectation.

@@deliriouswhome1 You can believe whatever you want about yourself but if you don't have more dating options than the average man, then you are not a high value man. Women pursue certain types of men over the rest, therefore they determine who is high value.

I'd say a high value woman is protected by her family, has high morals, a really bubbly positive attitude but is very pure at heart. She's also very kind and empathetic towards humanity and animals and eagerly wants to make people happy, especially the people closest to her. She is something that must be earned not bought. And of course very loyal to whoever gets to be with her in the end. She doesn't have any number of body counts, she's just patiently waiting for the right one to marry. Understanding that short-term satisfaction will end up only to be a devastating loss.

I did read it and agree with every single word except for you being ugly. THANK YOU for writing my exact thoughts.

Honestly, I don't think many people know exactly what they want these days lol also wants can change as people get older, especially in the earlier years of adulthood (20-30ish). People underestimate that..🤨🤨 I feel like the "high value" stuff can get to people's heads... Yea we should always try to better ourselves and do better than settling down with a bum. However, we shouldn't hold unrealistic standards for ourselves or others. Nobody is perfect, people are always going to have flaws, some baggage and a couple of failed dreams... Hello it's 2023 and everyone is at least a little crazy!!!😵‍💫😵‍💫😂😂😂 At the end of the day, high value is what you make it😉😉

what do you mean Brett "protects her value?" Like Hailee Steinfield protecting her value? And how does a Man "protect his value'? Or is there a double standard with whose value is "protected"?

so only young women are high value? as soon as you're 30 you're worthless? damn.

How to stop being an Incel. Step 1: don't call a woman you like "high value," because that implies that she could lose that "high value." She's not a steak.

I'd say a high value woman is protected by her family, has high morals, a really bubbly positive attitude but is very pure at heart. She's also very kind and empathetic towards humanity and animals and eagerly wants to make people happy, especially the people closest to her. She is something that must be earned not bought. And of course very loyal to whoever gets to be with her in the end. She doesn't have any number of body counts, she's just patiently waiting for the right one to marry. Understanding that short-term satisfaction will end up only to be a devastating loss.

@@cooliipie just tell her she has these things but don't tell she's a "high value woman" and what kind of body count are you allowed to get away with, since she apparently can only have a zero count, good luck finding that in anyone over 12 in 2023