If he doesn't contact you, it shows that there is some interest, but no REAL interest. Just keep the "no-contact" game going, ignore him and move on. Go out and be the best version of you, and it falls into place at the right time ❤️
So true. I would even take the word game out of it. No contact is not a game, it is a CHOICE on how to respond in a way that is healthiest for all involved.
If he is watching your stories and not contacting you then you need to block him immediately. Men who do this have a girl already in their lives and they are just getting off on the ego boost. My friend was telling me that men are rarely single and always have a woman in the background. Also never accept a man like this back because I speak from experience ,if they left once they will leave again and again until you stop it. Find a man that is not going to sit on your social media and be silent.
If he looks at every single one of your stories but doesn't contact you it means he's not that interested and he's seeing if you are still single in case he doesn't meet anyone else that he likes better. He's keeping his options open.
Thank you this happened to me!! And I remembered when another guy ghosted me he just stopped all together looking at my stories, or liking my Facebook status
Agreed! He's just being NOSY for shyts and giggles. I wouldn't think too deeply about it and if it bothers you that much, you could certainly BLOCK HIM from viewing your stuff.
I‘m also thinking of deleting him. We wrote 3days till he drove 120km to me in the evening. We walked around a little sea and we were holding hands and he gave me a kiss on the cheeks and he was hugging me from behind and we talked about deep shit instantly and he gave me compliments about how good i‘m lookin & how good i would smell.. i‘m insecure about myself so i took it for granted for real.. then we played a game. I should show him how to kiss for 20sec and i didn‘t want to do it althought i really had butterflies in my belly.. because a kiss is for me really special and i wanted to be sure about us.. so i would need a few more dates. He was confused but accepted.. when i told him my reasons. He brought me home and he told me that the time were passed away so easily with me by his side and he want to meet me again. Me too. At the night he wrote me that he became a headache and felt sick. I told him to just relax and becoming healthy as far as possible. He didn‘t replyed and i didn‘t wanted to message him even more. 3-4days after he was „pissed“ and said that he doesnt have feelings for me and i should drive home to him the next time. He wouldn‘t drive to me anymore. Never again. And he was supposed that i should messaged him more often. I couldnt understand his behavior. I apologized and told him how i thought about it.. that i wanted to give him time to relax and to recover and that i don‘t message again if the other one didn‘t answer before. He didn‘t answered again. (That was nov‘21). At christmas and at new year he messaged me „merry …“ and i didn‘t really wrote anything else than „thanks you too“. I asked him if we can meet in the next week. He didn‘t answered. 2weeks later or so.. he just sended me a song. Then days after he sended me another song and that he would miss me. I was so lucky and wrote him that i miss him too. And then.. nothing happened. He didn‘t answered again. It‘s Feb‘22 as you now. In this whole time we didn‘t meet again. He just watched my stories and that‘s it. i‘m so sad about the situation
I won't lie seeing him watch my stories has given me hope and it never gets me anywhere, moral of the story is ALWAYS if he wants to contact you he will. Just bc someone is viewing your stories it doesn't really mean much at the end of the day.
@@Worldhistory-123😅is it that big of a deal to give am emoji reaction? He sent this emoji on my story of my picture but this time without glasses 😍 Is it weird to say thanks 😂
Girls. Please. Don't read much into this. Us watching your stories means absolutely nothing. We scroll through Instagram that's all. And well...if we don't contact you, it means we are not interested. Men are simple. If we were interested we would show you. But don't block us or hate us for the lack of interest. Attraction cannot be forced nor should be. 🤷♂️
what if theres a time that i blocked him and he started watching all my friends stories especially if i am there? after we followed each other again he stop viewing theirs, but we doesn’t talk anymore bec he told me im not for rebound and yes we had a good start but he just broke up, but now he is my top viewer
I'm a guy and if I watch a girls stories I'm interested, I wouldn't want to watch too many stories of ppl I'm not interested in as that's giving off the wrong vibe
@@jiafei8482 I might be following you because you are my classmate or friend. Following does not mean I am romantically interested in you. I just find you a good person.
I personally think people who just look at every one stories on their friend list are weird asf... Man or Woman I only click on stories if I’m interested in viewing them ... to sit there and watch some one story that you don’t care about ... is bizarre .... If someone is watching every single one of your stories every day ... you can’t ever say it was by mistake .... they are stalking you for a very particular reason
Yeah its weird how the guy i like can be travelling,busy schedule,catching flights,has a fully booked schedule to explore new places,has almost 2000 friends...yet makes time in between airport waits and waiting for his food at restaurants to be the very first person to check my story..lmao..just swiping through my ass lolol..Also when i posted that i was not using social media for a month i accidenlty logged back in the next day and he also hasn't logged in in 17 hours.Dude went from being online every few minutes to a stark 17 hours😭don't you have your.other 2000 friends stories to watch or is it just me..
It's just low-quality game-playing men and gullible, easily-persuaded women with low self-esteem thrown together to create one life-wasting bit of drama. That's all. Total waste of time and not worth the headache.
I think it means that he's curious about what's going on, but he already has someone so he does not want to engage or he simply is not interested enough .
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A dude who likes you will look at your story and then he also messages you. He Tries to make plans to see you. Point blank period. If it's only watching the story why would you even get excited? If a dude wants it he'll try
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This is exactly What happened to me! After a few month of him just watching every single of my stories and Never making any effort to see me, i just removed him from my instagram and facebook and decided not to let him waste anymore of my time and didn’t allow him to have access to me through watching my stories! Thank you for this video Elliot and i can confirm you are 100% right! When a guy does this he is just not interested and is just keeping you as a option or to boost his ego. Pretty lame 👎🏻
@@behappy-lg8fg better late then never. Sometimes it’s not easy removing someone you like but your self respect is worth more than that. We all deserve someone who is 💯 sure about dating us.
100! Many people say, don’t block him, it’ll make you look petty. I say the opposite, it gives you inner peace to know this toxic person doesn’t have access to you anymore.
No, you blocked him because it hurt your ego that a guy doesn't find you attractive. It's obvious resentment and if anything, it only reafirms what he thought about you in the first place and realizes he dodged a bullet by you doing that
Some guys do this who are actually interested or curious about what you’re doing. Especially if you are one of the girls in his circle of women if you know what I’m saying. Engaging in your content like sending your story back to make conversation, is a clear sign he is in some way still interested. I was dating a guy who did stuff like that and there was one point we hadn’t seen each other in a few weeks and I had posted some things in my story that was a clear depiction of what I would want my future to look like… this was around the holidays btw but anyway, he saw my stories and was blowing me up because he wanted to see me after I came from OT. We ended up having dinner and the conversation was pertaining to his future and he took some of the things that I posted in my stories and brought it up as if he was wanting the same things. Long story short, he was clearly lonely and he knows I’m a sucker for love so he played on that. I realized he wasn’t truly emotionally unavailable because he grew hot and cold right after spending two days together. Walk away from a guy like this. Don’t let him play with your mind or keep you as an option ❤️
He check my IG stories from fake account even tho he blocked me from his ig long time ago even when we were dating … less than one month of no contact he now with someone already … imagine
@@TiffanyWestNycMaybe just interested in seeing what you’re doing. They like you but not enough or they do but some things makes it impossible for you to be together
if you’ve ever watched the way guys swipe on tinder or through girls stories you wouldn’t feel special anymore 😂😂😂 if he is paying attention to your story that means he’s aware you exist every time you post and he isn’t reaching out. That should be enough to wanna move on
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So I am listening to all this advice, and the answer seems to be the same regardless of the question. In the end, I am thinking it doesn't make men sound like very upstanding creatures in general. Surely there are men out there with more scruples and human DECENCY than to knowingly play around with a woman's heart. This sounds like most men are narcs with zero empathy. I seriously hope this is not true.
It could be he is not fully over you. this is why it is best to be happly married to someone financial.stable he is doing this because it has little effort.
I think theres a difference between when your swipping thru and when they looking at every single story you post on different social media and be one of the first one to view. Sometimes staying of one social media for a while and hup on the next and will see the same person RIGHT THERE 0_O
Finally an actual answer that makes so much sense!! Thankyou for your honesty ❤❤ Brutal but I respect that so much!!! Will save alot of heartbreak and head games for alot of young women!!!
Since I met him I know he was very attracted to me. He’s someone who “don’t believe in fairytales” yet we became friends and I recognized he started being kind to me, which scares him….. he can’t understand why and chose to ignore me. I believe he’s trying to control his emotions and wanted control by trying to get me to chase him. I did not! and every 2-3 Sundays ( I think when he can’t keep himself busy) he’s looking at my WhatsApp stories. I’m standing strong because he has to learn to give in and not play with me. Follow your intuition guys
If he aint texing,or calling or not tryna make plans to see you he dont want you simple as that watching your stories means nothing it just a typical guy scrolling through his social media
This dude I met 2 years ago. He was really interested in me at first and we talked about 5 months or so. I was heartbroken at that time and talked about my ex a lot and he listened and gave me advice. I said I can't think about something serious anymore and he was upset that I said that. So we continued talking and after 5 months he literally stopped texting me or responding to my stories. Time passed now all of a sudden he likes some of my stories here and there but never my selfies. He watches all my stories and sometimes he appears on top of the viewer chart. The strange part is I accidentally checked his instagram with my fake account and his profile was not private and I saw that he sometimes hides his stories from me and that story is usually just a selfie. So I think he is still somehow interested in me but I don't get it why he don't text me or make any other move.
okay, my case is different here. what if he DOSENT FOLLOW ME but watches every single story of mine? (i have a public account) long back when I had encountered him he said it was to see if I'm doing good or not. so I don't think he is just scrolling through random stories???
A 3 year relationship. We spoke every day for three years. He broke up with me because of distance. If he is over me...why does he keep looking at my stuff?
Ive had guys do that to me and text me a year later like nothing happened.. I had one guy i really liked tht did that.. I had to end up blocking and made a fake account
advice needed.... met someone cute, really liked him, we hooked up the first night we partied and I slept over. He was super warm and sweet, even made plans to go out and eat. I left my earring behind and so he knows I want it back. But now all a sudden is not replying back no text...but watched my story on IG. WHAT DO I DO????
Would the answers be the same if you've reached out to him once and he's been watching your instagram stories every single day for the last 5 months, but he doesn't even follow you on instagram? He actively has to search for your profile in order to see your stories?
My situation is complicated. I have this friend for 4 years and we were planning on meeting each other, but he recently entered a relationship. Afterwards, he didn’t even make plans to see me. I’ve been hooked on him now. 😭
Just because a guy looks at your stories doesn’t always mean he’s possibly interested. I have a lot of the same consistent people that view my stories including guys.
If you didn’t block them, then there’s not much to it… however, if you’re not following his friends/family or anything, and you see a bunch of them suddenly in your stories or other public stuff, then *maybe* somethings going on. Otherwise, he don’t care.
I have a guy who is watching my public snap stories but we aren’t even friends on snap, and he’s not following me. So he’s searching me up just to look at them.
From being a 10 to 0. And he dumped me on silence. But I don’t understand is he keeps on watching my stories on fb and IG! He’s the 1st one who views them! And after 30 days i decided to text him that i get it and he said it’s the best for me cuz he doesn’t wanna hurt me more. I decided to block him on fb and removed him following me on IG. Hayy I still want him tho.
What if he had his friend look at your page? He neverrrrr followed me or cared about me, so I know he sent his friend to stalk me. Then next day changed his ig profile pic to our cat we shared together that’s he ended up keeping from me. Does that mean something?
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Hard pill to swallow - men are not complicated. If he doesn't text you he's either: A) shy and is afraid to text you, which is unlikely because in that case you would not think about him anyway. Girls don't like shy guys. It's also not possible if you already had a conversation. B) He's not interested in you. Which is more likely, because if you like a guy the chances are he's way out of your league abd every other girl likes him as well, and he has plenty of options. Him seeing your stories means nothing, because it ends up in his feed automatically.
I’ve had this issue where like they would always just look at my shit , never spoke and would always UNFOLLOW. Then literally just follow again to do it again. I was sorta sick of it so I followed them ( they followed back) and the next day I literally unfollowed them and remove me from my followers. Was blocked by the very next dayyyy and deactivated their account. WILDDDDD
My narc ex ignored me for weeks, she never answered my call and when she texted back she always said she was busy. She treated me like garbage and discarded me saying the relationship will not work out cuz she didn't have time for me, she wanted to focus on her job but also she blamed me for my reaction to her behaviour (which was horrible) i tried to convince her to give us second chance but she refused and kept ignoring me and one day she replied saying i shouod move on and find a better person than her and now i'm blocked on what's app however not on Messenger. What does that mean? Will she ever come back?
I said "hi" to a girl and she never responded. And then on Valentines day I was working at a flower shop and I had to deliver some flowers with a co-worker but we got lost on the way. So we parked. And then I saw her walking with another guy all smiling. So I never asked her again. I still follow her and she follows me. And we watch eachothers stories, but I ain't begging and I'm not going to be her last option. So even if eventually she responds and I'm interested, I'm not getting with her cause my ego says no.
My thing is we are exes and there's an extremely strong bond there. Absolutely sex is what it is Caz that's all it can be right now anyway due to our circumstances but he's also pretty straight forward about it and shows he cares in a way
What about if they don’t follow you, but still watch all your stories? Me and my ex don’t follow each other since the breakup, but he watches my stories everyday i post..
That means he’s keeping tabs to see if you’re still single. He wants to know if you’re still available to him for if/when he decides to spin the block. I’ve had guys who I cut off early on after noticing red flags still physically type my name in daily to see if i posted stories. Could also be a bit of regret too if you cut them off due to their own stupidity and they find out you’re actually the real deal
I had to laugh because I am playing these exact games with someone.. I know it really means nothing but it was kinda fun for a while.. I've gotten less interested with it as time goes on.. I mean who wouldn't ..but as long as no one is getting hurt who cares haha
You’re funny, real funny actually cause as long as you’re playing games with someone, you’re not respecting them. And besides that, a lot of people don’t realize this, but there really are no “games” in the dating world.
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@@jae4073 The original commenter is hoping it's a green flag that he misses her, I quess? Bet her ex doesn't know she can tell who watched her story. I didn't know that in my first years on IG, lol
Why does he watch my stories if we even not friends on instagram? My profile is public but we are not following each other no more (I blocked him then unblocked him). I can not watch his stories bc his account is private and im not requesting him lol. I’m not that desperate. But why still go to my page and look at my story, why go through all that ?
I would post me having dinner at a restaurant, and the guy I was seeing would say that he can cook, are I would post my hot ass fitness coach and talk about how a wonderful guy he is, so my friend would say I’m about to workout knowing damn well he’s not.
I have her watching my shit daily , i don't watch her stopped actually for about over a month now completely, but i do manage to kinda make out what her stories are about in the little preview bubble, with that being said, I'm a sucker for selfies her at least (her face is what I like the most physically) she just recently (yesterday not 24 yet tho) posted one which I'm not gonna lie want to see (she doesn't post herself much but when she does man sure it's a sight for sore eyes), should I watch this one snap of hers? (With no intention of talking of course well at least not me starting a conversation) i was thinking more of taking a screenshot (and see where it goes from there) maybe that will make her say something actually, idk it's all on my mind yes but im sure you get my idea, also i wanna mention that we stopped talking/seeing each other cuz of thirds (both sides) although I not seeing anyone at the moment but her it's unclear she told me she would get back to me (eventually) when she solves her stuff with her third i kept my word of not reaching out until she does but like i mentioned it's been over a month and it's possible that she's over with her third or maybe not, she told me when she does she wants to get to know each better than ever before and to take it slow (her relationships haven't been the best hence why she's in the situation she's in), so going back to the screenshot part should I go outta my way and watch the selfie in her story and maybe screenshot it, again i haven't seen her stories since out last encounter (one month) but she does look at mine everyday I'm sure she knows i don't look at her stories, sorry for the long comment but a bit of insight would be much appreciated thank you so much
He was very very interested and even wanted to see me, calling me wifey material. I ended up moving and told him I needed some time. I really did want to see him but I can’t rn. He continued to show interest and text me daily. He was just more on the dry side. Surface level conversation. I hated that about him. I really wanted us to get to know each other better as I started to like him. Yeah didn’t really get far. He stopped texting me and now it’s been 6 days. Yeah I don’t ever text or chase a man first. He told me he would call twice on diff times and just didn’t. Dry as hell. Lost interest but it still sucks bc I did start to like him. I’m guessing he didn’t want to wait for me. He himself said he’s impatient. I’m guessing he went with an easy girl. Yet he still watches my stories within mins. He wasn’t my type (he gives fck boy type) (he swears he’s not and wants a wife) but I know we wouldn’t work out bc I’ve never partied and he clearly does. I know it’s stupid but I did start to like him and was willing to see if he actually meant what he said about showing me he was different and proving himself. Told me all these things at first just for him to end up being dry as hell and now hasn’t reached out. I just hate that I ended up liking him this much when I know I shouldn’t… I’ve only had one bf and I’m 25 😂 I’m very selective bc I get attached quick. I could have been with many many men but I know my worth 😭 it still sucks that I can’t stop thinking about him. It hurts to know he prob just played me. I shouldn’t of told him I liked him back 😭😭
I blocked my ex and he creates fake accounts to look at my social media. It's been 5 years since he left and we only dated for 8 months. He also dumped me and then got into another long term relationship 3 months later. Dude is still in this relationship. Why is he still looking at my social media? Why does he even care? Why does he remember my name? You'd think he'd forget or not give a shit after awhile. I don't even care anymore, I'm sure super curious as to why he's still doing this nonsense
It's not that he just watches my stories, it's that he likes all of them and all my posts. Tonight he liked and reacted with an emoji. It was only last week he cried and said a relationship with me was not what he wanted. Seems odd to immediately and continually interact even on social media with someone you JUST dumped. I would not give anyone attention or engage with them if I had no feelings and I knew they did. Watching stories maybe, but liking every one of them and now reacting.? It makes me upset because I'm trying to move on and yet here I am watching videos trying to decipher his weird ass behavior. I'm 9 days NC
Even if I posted over 600 status in a few days and he watched all of them my homeboy watched like 4 and was like bye😂😂 the guy I like watched all of them
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My ex would always look at my social media right before he’d return. He was a good man unfortunately we wanting different things he wanted marriage and I did too but wanted kids. He also was a bit clingy and had no friends which I felt suffocated because I wanted time with my friends too and he wanted me to like all his hobbies too but I didn’t. I’m a woman I don’t like watching sports and I don’t care to play golf and he didn’t understand that it’s okay that we don’t enjoy every hobby the other has. I find it was him missing me but ultimately after a year I had to let him go. My Guy best friend and I had a disagreement. He had been so sensitive about what I’d say lately and I asked him what was up? He would act hot and cold but unfortunately was honest about whatever he’s feeling and I’ve been no contact for 5 days. I developed feelings for him and was still kind to him however it seems he did too but didn’t know how to manage it and was kinda acting like a a-hole so I pulled away never telling him how I feel due to his behavior and he’s suddenly watching my stories and before he never did that. Time will tell.
Not true lol. Two exes stalked my YT to read my posts, and have written me about what I've posted. And one ex viewed my stories as an alt before requesting to follow once I cut them off. Then again they came back when I made my profile private, requesting to follow. Your ex may be following you through anonymous viewers (and can, when your profile is set to public) but once you turn it to private, monitor your incoming requests and viewers bc if he's specifically looking for you and what you're up to, he'll find ways.
I'm not going to waste my time liking every single post if I'm not into a guy...I don't understand that logic. I don't wanna lead someone on that I'm not into...it makes no sense. And...every guy and every relationship is different.
HE IS NOT ON SOME OF OUR FRIENDS LIST! I removed him & he still views! It’s not swiping through. He does it periodically over several months now. It’s annoying af…. (sorry replying to some of the comments, not the helpful youtuber❤)
How about when he tells you he hates talking on the phone and texting, but yet he is always responding to girls comments on IG and leaving hearts and kissy faces 🙄
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He chooses what he likes and what he profits more out of and I believe sometimes they take what they already have for granted ( like you ). I think people put you where they want to have you and nothing changes that other than they themselves. I hope that you do not put up with this for too long. I believe he is nice guy telling you things that sound reasonable but it still puts you in a bad spot. I think you deserve more from any man you are with. Dry for the lengthy message just talking out of experiences.
