What Japanese Girls Look For in A Guy 日本でモテる男性？ 

How to tell if a Japanese girl likes you: 1.) She doesn't

Everyone knows what kind of men Misa likes: -short, really tiny ones -sparkling yellow skin -having lovely red cheeks is a big plus -if you have a thunder looking tail it's almost a guarantee that she'll fall in love with you -being a little chubby is not a deal

MISA SENSEI, this style of teaching is actually SO GOOD. We can learn Japanese VOCABULARY, SENTENCE PATTERNS or EXPRESSIONS in context (based on the topic you're talking about), so it is a lot easier and more fun as well to learn them this way. Like instead of making a video on a certain grammar point, how about talking about something intriguing or interesting about Japan or anything relevant and then you can incorporate RELEVANT VOCABULARY, SENTENCE PATTERNS and EXPRESSIONS into it. It would be a great fun way to learn.😊👍

Went in expecting a Japanese lesson, came out with a life lesson 😩😩

I'm Canadian, I've missed the start of movies because I was holding the door to the theater open for strangers XD

Misa-sensei: I like otakus A good size portion of the audience: *detonate from sheer happiness*

I like the mix of videos. Sometimes to learn it's good to have a formal lesson, but sometimes it's good to just hear someone talk in the language and get some cultural knowledge. Like here you use the te-form, keigo, non-keigo, slang, na and i adjectives, it's great!

People: "You should just be yourself." Me: *am myself* People: "ewwwww"

Well, I imagine this topic was highly requested... Glad we’re still getting some useful vocab along the way.

Me: *wanting to relax after Japanese study* Misa: "Here's some more grammar"

Speaking from experience, while in college, I dated a beautiful young lady from Fukui. I thought we were in love. After graduation, she went back to Japan to teach English as a second language. I then followed her after summer, as I needed an additional class to graduate. A month later we broke up. 💔 True story, Bro.

I am interested in all of it, but I especially enjoy when you put the Kanji and the Hiragana the Romaji across the screen so I can try to learn the writing system too!

I love it when you do cultural pieces, like the time you read a scary Japanese story to us for Halloween, the video about "moshi moshi", why green traffic lights are called "ao" instead of "midori". Lol, the anime phrases one was good too. I've probably watched it a dozen times by now. Cultural knowledge is important for anybody who wants to visit a foreign country, to hopefully avoid meiwaku.

The best advice ever made for this kind of topic.👍👍 Misa is just unsurprisingly the best. ❤️❤️

I'm a guy who's very gentlemanly and chivalrous to his boyfriend, and it's always happily accepted. The rejection of such things in America disappoints me sometimes. It's great to hear it's appreciated in Japan!

Men's dating coaches always say never listen to women's advice on what type of men they like because it never translates to reality.

If anime has taught me anything women love men with multiple love interests. That applies to reality, right?

6:24 the ひらがな doesn’t match the 漢字! It confused me at first!! However, you are such a great teacher !! Keep it up みさ先生!

Your English language sounds great, better than mine 😅 it's impressive to hear you speak in both languages. 🤙

Thanks again for the video! To answer your question in broken Japanese: 僕の好きなタイプはいろいろあります。例えば、外でも、家でも一緒に本を読みたい人、自分の性格を毎週磨きたい人、国際平和を作りたい人、いろいろ学びたい先生、オヤジギャグが好きな人、運動を大事にしている人、一緒にビデオか教育プロジェクトをしたい人、いろんな人を助けたい人。あと、彼女の笑顔を見たら僕の心がキラキラになる人（変な日本語になっちゃったかもね）。そういう人がやっぱり好きです。もちろんその中に２つか３つの特長あれば十分です！

Yes I like it when you teach us about Japanese cultural aspects too. I think culture is just as important as learning about the language itself.

お金 is the correct answer.

Misa Sensei: I like otakus/nerds. Me: Don't do that, don't give me hope.

Great video. Please more videos about Japanese culture 👌 By the way, you wrote several times "soemeone" instead of "someone". Thanks for your hard work Misa 👍

Thanks for this video! Really need this because there's a 留学生 at my University and she's probably the prettiest human I've ever seen. Didn't want to go forward until I do some research and this was it!

Thanks for the video as always 😄 I think you could have said more in Japanese, it felt less like a lesson this time and more like regular youtube content. What I like to see in your videos are lesser known words that are used a lot. For example I keep seeing マスク熱中症 around, and hearing 自粛 on TV, but I didn't know what they meant until I asked my Japanese teacher. Stuff like that is valuable to a lot of people I think.

Misa- you have given your subscribers some of the best advice I've ever heard from ANY source, let alone a Japanese language channel. I agree with you completely. Especially- if you're with a girl- whatever you do - DON'T even THINK about looking at another woman!

I like a mix of these videos, honestly. The grammar videos are really interesting from a linguistics point of view, but various cultures have always fascinated me as well, so both are good! As far as the type of women I like...honestly anyone who is fun to talk to, comfortable about being themselves, and likes to geek out about similar things that I like (comics/video games/art/ cooking etc.) is great. As far as appearance goes I like so many different things that I don't really have a "type" per se, though I agree that cleanliness is important.

Good-Looking, Tall, High Income, Tall. Kaiba boi got it all!

Hey Miss! As a girl, I found this video fascinating because it highlights different qualities that Japanese girls value. I’m from the US so it’s really cool to get a glimpse of this part of Japanese culture.

Enjoyed the video! Lucky boyfriend for having misa-san as his girlfriend :) I find her voice cute, soothing and lovable.

I like those type of videos where you talk about things that are kinda different in Japan than in the west. So, keep it up! がんばって！

This was great so how about the opposite like: "What is Scary for Japanese Girls" ? I think you have a good insight into the general Japanese female phyche and that is rare to hear about for most English speakers/ Japanese learners. Thank you! :3

"Something to talk too" SAME! It's quite a turn down trying to get into a conversation with a girl that is not quite able to talk about what she likes (to do, also). And this comes from a shy nerd guy. There's not so many opportunities to flex or practice my social skills and then bumping into someone difficult to speak with? Though I'm quite vocal about developing social skills and compassion, makes you a better listener an even when you get into a discussion you can ride them better. And so much useful in your workplace/with your clients!

I think this is what every girl likes globally.. But this is helpful. Domo Arigatou 😃

Ooh wow i never realized moteru (モテる is different from motteiru (持っている), i always thought it was like a playful way to use the word carry, as if you carry a lot, like you have ' got it going on' 😂 good to know

The moment you said, that japanese people like hard workers: What do they say about the phrase "work smarter not harder" and is there a japanese equivalent? I saw many statistics that Japan, has one of the least productivity/workhour used /paid.

Hooray - the Pokemons are back! Arinomama Misa desu ne! If you read these comments Misa then what would be really helpful would be to see some actual Japanese (from manga, or Twitter, or whatever) and then explain it, so we can try to get used to understanding it. Thank you!

please post more videos like this one! it’s more like learning new words than grammar (which is good as well) and it’s definitely fun to watch anyway, that was interesting.

A little variety never hurts. And your still teaching but in a fun way.

Kenichi wa Misa San. You make learning humorous. Algud, love your style. Arigatou go zai mas

Culture and language lessons are equally amazing. Just keep doing what you’re doing!

I love a mix of everything, language lessons, cultural, and/or hobby.

Being yourself might make it harder to find a relationship, but it will make the relationship you find stronger as they like you for who you are, and not you for who you are pretending to be.

As a male in his mid-thirties, 90% of this stuff is what I look for in a girl that I'm physically attracted to. The only exception is being "really enthusiastic about her job" because the job market right now is tougher than ever.

There are a few world-according-to-Misa moments in this video. I would be interested to see some more of this :)

I like seeing this kind of information as a language lesson. I can imagine this being a common conversation topic.

I love both grammar and culture videos! Everytime i’m learning a ton

Your hair looks really nice ❤️

Oh gosh.evenshe try to teach in this content too.you are adorable and bestest japanese teaching channel in youtube after japanesepod101 i reckon.

Hello,this is the first time I comment a video of yours I really like your kind but funny easygoing tone. Thanks for your lessons. Anyway just wanted to say hi.

This is very interesting. Thanks!

Konichi wa Misa San. Great topic and delivery. Learn the language and the custom they go together. You're a 🌟 Misa San. Arigatou gozai masu.

And yes. I also liked this style of teaching the Japanese language, with vocabulary and phrases related to the topic you are talking about.. I give a %% approval.

この偉大なビデオが嫌いに押したボタンの人に恥ずかしいはずだ。とにかく、時間を割いて別の教育用ビデオを提供してくれてありがとう。ミサ先生の詳細でわかりやすい説明にして見て身につけるやまほどがある。ミサ先生が教えてくれたフレーズの一つを使って、『どうやってそれを聴くか』返事をもらった。おまけにそれらを使用する方法に関するミサの役立つアドバイスは一流だと思いますよね。大分に役立つので、ビデオの作成とリリースを続けてお願い致します。

I like a mature, caring,loyal and stable man. No ,most girls like rich man, Who'll gift them often in Japan🇯🇵.

Thank you for this video! I really like videos that teach a lot of vocabulary. It is often difficult to know if a word is used commonly or if it sounds strange to native speakers. It seems many language textbooks and study apps teach words and phrases that are not common.

i love learning about japanese culture and people, as well as the grammar lessons!

Your teaching are so awesome, after watching your video, my English improved a lot.ありがとうございました。今私の趣味はみさのビデオお見ることです。

Please post more videos like this!! Also, please make a video of how native tokyo speakers speak as compared to how textbook speakers speak! :) thank youuuu

expect cringe from the comment section and you won't be disappointed

I would like videos on cultural aspects combined with some Japanese like you used in this one.

You should consider becoming a agony aunt: you're a natural at it ;D I love all your videos, but it was one of those that do not fit in your usual formats (like this one), that convinced me to follow you and become a patreon. I wonder if you can guess which one.

一途な人！一度も聞いたことがない言葉だと思う！新しい単語を教えてくれてありがとう！Btw I think in the subtitles you had 'earnest' spelt 'ernest'. Thank you for such an awesome video, Misa! :D

this is a good way to learn adjectives, thx!. Please do one from the guys point of view :)

I've also noticed that it's important to have humility in Japan. I feel like Americans are trained to be subtle self promoters while Japanese people are more naturally humble and differential. I could see it being a turn off in an American guy were a little too self promoting. For example, when given a compliment in English, it's common to say "thank you" and acknowledge the compliment. In Japanese, it seems more common to say something along the lines if "えややや" or "no, no, no" - meaning that the recipient of the compliment is not worthy of praise.

Yes, please do make more videos like this. But I don't mean videos that are mostly about dating though. Just more glimpses into everyday life in Japan.

Yes, please! Videos on Japanese culture are a great idea. I'm just starting with the beginner videos and there's SO MUCH to get through and practice, so some focused on culture would be a great way to kind of take a break now and again.

I think this is a great idea and wonderful video! Please do more videos where you are teaching Japanese through explaining certain elements of Japanese life/customs/culture. And yes more videos on grammar please!

More like this please!

Very useful, thanks again for your hard work.

Cultural aspects, with a big of learning along the way as you did with this video, was the perfect delivery of a lesson. Keep up the good work! I've been listening for several years now and greatly appreciate your work.

Very enlightening video for me (an American guy). I like the style of video, Misa, because we can learn some Japanese language while also learning more about Japanese culture and people. And, of course, knowing more about Japanese culture helps one to better communicate when in Japan. Misa, I hope you never change! My daughter and I both love your channel :)

Good presentation with fun !

very different video this one. Thank you a lot for that insight. Seems that you have a notable philosophical side ("don't change yourself for another person"). I'm impressed! For me all your recommendations lead to one point: japanese women like the educated people.

This video was cool! I enjoyed this kind of video, it was nice that you still were teaching Japanese words and slang at the same time.

I like this mix of learning more about japanese culture at the same time as practicing Japanese listening and reading! Two birds, one stone! Merci Misa-sensei !

More cultural videos, please みささん

I would say that while it's true that it's not a good thing to be "fake" (i.e. pretending to change), it is a good idea to try to change oneself for the better where possible. So making sure to stay in shape, learning useful skills and advancing professionally are a good idea no matter your gender if you aim to impress potential partners.

Hey Misa! Talk about Japanese guys ! 😉 what they like too..

This video is going to blow up.

awesome video. but can you try too make a video about daily conversation? sort of like, how has your day been, what have you done today. Thank you.

Very appreciated Ms Misa 's great effort to provide us such a funny and user-friendly way to learn Japanese, big difference with other video.. excellent

Thanks for how you did this video. I have seen many previously that just give specific types, and seems to give people expectations of needing to change. I'm glad you reinforced that being yourself is better, and more important. Thanks!

Your English is so good!! And your hair is red wow!!!!

Mostly common sense. Really, really good video!! Really hope to see more videos like this!

"I like men who are otakus" *sees a bunch of pokemon and digimon plushes on her bed Huh... I never knew that. lol jk jk

whenever i see titles like that i always start to think japanese girls are their own species

She’s not like other girls. さすが、みさ先生。いつも私たちに教えてくれてありがとうございましたー。

With all due respect, it seems like they don't look for any of them according to demographic stats, and that it's mutual. Sorry to be rube. If there is a better way to say unpleasant things, i wish i knew it. Seems like anytime you learn little girl how to read and then demand young women to choose between a family and a career, the demography crumbles. It happens in Germany, Italy, Japan and a list of developed countries with a cultural intolerance to working mothers and no family policy. I like Japanese culture a lot, with anime and food mainly, and it makes me sad to think that it could be mostly gone in 50 years because a culture cannot survive the people who has it, nor can a language. Thanks for your work and your videos.

Now I know what to listen to at work.... !! Thinks...

I like girls that are cheerful and who enjoy reading.

This is a great video! I would like to have a video where you talk more about yourself and things and experiences that you have had in your past, like important life events.

I like the grammar, but I like the cultural stuff more. Both is good. i like both.

I love both grammar videos and curiosity videos! They're interesting and great for vocabulary :) these are great after a grammar heavy lesson!

Very Good video with culture aspect and words & grammar aspect!!!ありがとうございました❗

I like this kind of video. I also like your usual content. Please keep up your awesome content coming :)

I'd love such materials like this one - about culture and customs in Japan :) this is not only interesting but also helps a lot with language :)

This is the most important video.

Hardworkers...huh... Yup, I'm not cut out for this.