What Makes Someone Give Up Being Single? (Feat. My Wife Audrey) 

Well said 😊

I believe in your statement “Stop trying to find ...” It relieves the anxiety and emotional states of mind when you D🚫N’T TRY.

Stop with the g-d directives, Ms Bossy.

you still need people to Be these things ...

one of the best comments I read in a long time ❤🎉

this was a great comment. Thank you!!!

Boom! This is the stuff. It comes from you first and then someone will mirror that energy.

Yessssss, Honey🏹🎯🌬️🩵

As if ppl actually know what they want...that in itself is a full life journey

yes she is!

Yes, her answers are very thoughtful and insightful. You can almost see the wheels turning in her head lol.

agreed! ❤

I think she is..

I love her too! Finally, substance and proper dissection of issues.

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It's horrific. No relationship is going to beat with the whatever to your life. You're going to have to shape your life around the relationship. This is such lazy thinking. No marriage is going to endure this kind of nonsense. Especially if they have kids.

@@TJ-kk5zf you are right , but I think Matthew meant when he said the beat of your life is your values, principles, dreams, perspective, your deep essence .

@@buda2049 I listened to several of his videos, and a lot of this stuff is very vapid and sweet to listen to but unrealistic

im old that helped me. no offense about the old comment lol

yes please ❤

I feel the same.. 😊

Yes

You will! Good luck! ❤

@@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Thank you! 🙏🏽

Like my father used to say “if you hang out with wolves, you learn how to howl” or something like that 😅

Sounds like they left their current gfs though?

@@XPrincess30 No - they are all married to them. They just needed to see a peer take the plunge.

@@tek3freakthat’s encouraging ❤

Imagine finding out that your boyfriend married you not because he loves you, but only because his friends were getting married 💀 The kind of man who does that is likely the kind of man who follows the crowd (no mind of his own) got bored and lonely without them. He wanted the equivalent of a pet or a "forever bro" that wasn't going to leave easily. You might argue, "well, he could've just made new friends who partied!" People don't realize that finding friends is incredibly difficult and it only gets harder as you age. In high school one of our coaches was telling us that was the reason he got married...bc his friends were. The man was "weird" with female students and we found out their relationship was not good. Anyway, the dude's boredom, loneliness and/or peer pressure was alot stronger than his interest in you. It's not a flex that your man married you bc his friends were getting married. Let's not make this a healthy normal thing to let fly. Don't let yourself, your sister, your daughter accept this as, "oh, it's just a normal-man thing." It's not.

Yes, she's great !

She looks Latina!

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You're right ! I felt the same. And as a french person, I can say that her English should makes us proud. 🙂

She's French?

good luck, this is the year! ❤

As rare as hens teeth..or a needle in a haystack.

That's so great to hear! It can be difficult to keep faith, but it's so worth it.❤ I'm excited about you eventually getting what you deserve!

i’ve also been watching since 2016 as an 18 year old just starting out in the dating world. i’m now 26 with a husband and 2 kids! i’d love to see more content aimed at married couples trying to keep the romance alive.

@@drownziWhere the heck are y’all finding these men 😅

Under a mulberry bush. The probability of their marriages lasting is quite low..

Noone is perfect

I would watch that! ❤

truth ❤

The issue is they take no accountability and don't do the work. They throw themselves into work for material gain /survival. And are on auto pilot...

Have more strict standards, pre vet before you meet him in person (if its an online date), ask the tough questions maybe upfront or on date two (if you want to keep first date more about fun and being lighthearted). ( Plan on asking 2 to 3 tough questions per date, so as to not overwhelm a man). I am 44 and still single, and I look back on the dead end connections I had accross time and wishing it was different. In retrospect most men were emotionally unavailable that I dated. The thing is it doesn't just majically happen to a man that he likes you for more than physicality.( He may have never had any intentions to grow into a relationship from the get go.) Best case scenario is to confirm his intentions from the very beginning of the connection (preferably date 1) and watch his behavior over time to see if it feels like he is backing up his intent for a solid relationship by putting in some effort. I wasnt one to speak up too much when I was younger because I did not want to make the man uncomfortable. I also had 'it will happen when it happens' mentality, which as you can see can leave you in mid 40s and still having never found a commitment ready male.

Nothing happens just like that. The culture in England in dating is bad. My advice? Travel, go to different places, do not restrict yourself just to Europe. There are really lovely men out there, just not very many in England. Even Scotland is much better :)

Stop sleeping with them without a 💍

Your in your mid 20s. Still very young. I'd go older with men... your dealing with adolescents. It was the same for me when I was your age. Think outside the box.. I'm not going to lie, it is very bleak but remember you have time on your side. Be incredibly discerning.

Always speak up and be blunt especially with men. And drop them quickly too if not up to your standards. It's a hard slog..and not really worth the effort 🤣

Must've been a dismissive avoidant

I feel you. I wouldn't call myself senior just yet, but I am 46 and that is certainly my near future and wholeheartedly agree that I do not want to be a cook and maid for anyone but my friends and family, who I don't see everyday. I think that kind of mad ability to love a man is lost after 25. I still remember how I felt about the first man I loved for real and sadly I never felt like that ever since. I did pursue relationships, but at every turn of years I felt it was less and less worth it. Have a toxic one-night-stand in my 30's to thank for at least having had a son. And especially after being a mother, I felt the most unconditional love ever to this day. Only regret is I couldn't give my son a happy family, but I did my absolute best to make HIM feel loved every single day. Again, after having a son, I couldn't care less about having another go at any man, younger or older. Audrey says it's rare to find long lasting relationships in your 20s. To me that's like saying a relationship can last when it is founded in gray boring compromise. I clearly remember contemplating my first love and wondering how lovely he would look all wrinkly, toothless and old. I never felt like that ever again. So yes, looking at my senior years as a very selfish old spinster who missed the relationship bus in her youth and got lucky to at least know the supreme love of having a child.

So very true- being someones cook and maid! Ive been that for 4 years and have had enough of it. 46yo is still a relatively young age in this era and you can still look great with some effort!

The only love is between a mother and her child. The rest is infatuation.