I am 70-ish, he is 41😊 He pursued me...I followed his lead. I am not wealthy...he is!! I am his queen..he is king of my heart!! God was/is our matchmaker🙏
GOD is my matchmaker too and HE has no problem with age, HE is more interested in weather two people belong together regardless of the amount of time they've been on this earth.
I am 71 and involved with a 48 year old doctor. We do love each other and have been together one year. I don’t know what will happen but he does make me happy.
Oh Shoshanna Amazing!! I'm so happy to hear this!! I'm in a relationship with someone 15 years younger than me that I'm very interested in & falling hard. He pursued me, is crazy about me. Neither of us is rich I'm more established but he is starting his career & is a very hard worker. He treats me so well, brings me gifts, takes me out & truly supports me in a way that I've never felt. I'm so glad to listen to this and have faith that it can work out. 💖💖💖💖
As a young 25 year old biracial male who’s 6’4 tall and thin, beautiful older women (milfs) in their 30’s and 40’s, make me weak in the knees and make my heart melt not gonna lie😍❤️💯. They tend to be confident chill and so loving in my experience. I can be myself around them and still have deep intellectual conversations with each other and have some wild fun. Young girls were pretty and all, but they’re too much drama and headache. I think I’m gonna keep sticking to my older ladies! I have more in common with em😃
I don't know many older women (or women in general) who appreciate the term milf, (Mothers I'd Like to Fuck) for those who don't know. We're not all mothers either. My bf is 25 and it works because we want the same things right now in life. Also happen to have the youthful look as well, it helps having both wisdom and beauty but the point is when it comes to who we love or who loves us, age isn't the biggest factor. As long as it's legal, I don't get why it's such a huge deal, men do it all the time.
@Quirini Copie Yeah but people are brainwashed to think 30 is over the hill, that is until they get there. I feel like it depends on how well people take care of their bodies, mind, spirit and genetics also help. I felt a lot older at 22 because of my life experience. Some of us age in reverse, literally looking, feeling 20 at 30+ My mother in her 50's looks like she's in her 30's and she doesn't even really try, smokes a pack a day, sleeps in makeup. lol Everything is about attitude and perspective.
Can be good match, he doesn't need more kids lol and with a younger woman that can be an issue. You can be a mother/grandma type to his kids. As long as you have fun together and care for each other why not?
@@stephanie7572 Yes..I think most younger women would not want to deal with 3 kids already..we really love each other..thats why it works..thanks..💝💝🎈🎈🐣🐦
I'm 49 and my fiance is 33. These days people stay young longer mentally and physically. We also have more opportunities to live our lives as we choose and not by outdated age expectations. Wishing you both lots of happiness.
Lovely stories here in comments. I have reservations about dating younger men but attract a lot because they usually think I'm younger than 38. I'm childfree by choice too so not much different to my 28 year old self. I would prefer an ambitious childfree entrepreneurial partner. Dating single parents didn't fit with my lifestyle - it just confirmed what I really want. Best wishes to everyone for 2022. 💕🥂🍾
At 59 I was being hit on by 21 year olds and up. At 66, I have been with a man 14 years younger for 5 years. He says the attraction was my confidence, wisdom and lack of selfishness, but he never expected to fall in love.
Yup! 59 presently and the younger men are constantly approaching. It took me aback so many times, especially when I was thinking, he'd be great for my younger daughter! 😆🤣
@@ambivalent5842 Of course.... if he is personally healthy and correctly psychological developed man. But if he isn't- he would prefer to use older "cougar- moma" cause of his psychological immaturity.
Yes!! It's shocking how mature younger guys can be. I would have never thought I would date a guy 15 years younger than me. I dated a little older, a little younger & would have NEVER thought this could work BUT - we have better conversations, amazing chemistry, open communication, he is moe caring & overall an amazing fit for me. I'm so happy to hear that other people are finding long term love in similar situations! 💖💖💖
@@charlotte5671 It's because maturity doesn't come with age like people think it's a mindset. Some men stay in a 15 year olds mindset forever while young men will have a productive mindset out of high-school. Curious how old were you both when you met😊?
I'm 67 my man is 56...neither one of us looks our age, so we look really good together. Our energies are equal, our interests the same, we were meant for each other.
You are so blessed! I haven't been in dating world since the divorce and wouldn't know what to do or act. Hope I'm that lucky like you. Enjoy every moment together.
You get an “A” for your points. As a woman now married to a man 24 years younger I can say without doubt you are correct. Confidence, knowing who you are and what you want, sharing - these are key. Also, implied in what you said are, openness (open to new experiences), a sense of curiosity from both parties. One thing you didn’t mention is a need for nurturing or to nurture/ protect. The older person in the relationship can fill a need in the younger one at first, to nurture them and protect them. And later in life, the younger one can nurture the older one. This should be discussed as it is an important role in the relationship- it fulfills Both’s needs to want to be a nurturer and provider in the relationship. Just want to throw that in. Thank you for the video. Peace ☮️👍❤️
That's beautiful. I've dated men much younger but the one I like now (who really likes me) is 19 yrs my junior! There's benefits of younger men and I'm sure a man wants a woman who knows who she is, not a shallow immature insecure girl. I'm sure the older woman/ younger man age gap is good in the bedroom too.
@@7goldglamour777 You are correct. Mental immaturity is such a cringe and irritating thing. I have no patience for that. Girls of my age and younger don't know what they want and never take things seriously. There's this older coworker of mine and i don't know if she is into me. She might be like 60 but she's aging nicely actually. Everytime she sees me, she kinda gets excited and wants a hug. I noticed she always rejects my handshakes and instead walks straight towards me for a damn hug. No joke. Lmao.. Until one time, I was minding my own business and tried to ignore her when she kept calling my name, asking me to go up to her. I tried to walk away and there she went again coming towards me and this time she ran her hand all over my ab area after wrapping me in her arms.. no lies. and I was thinking "whoa lady, calm down" Haha! Matter of fact, one time another coworker told me that woman was talking about me, saying at one point "Ooh that body.." Don't know what goes on in her mind or what are her possible intentions.
Being older is actually such a blessing, especially if you are very attractive. You can wear nice clothes and high heels without other girls starring at you as if they would like to kill you, you have more girlfriends and guys fall for you anyways, perfect life it is.
That i do agree to very hard for me to find a decent friend girl who is my age. I often find that much older people are far more nicer to me then my own age.
Salamat sa mensahe na ito. Ito'y nakapag bigay linaw sa aking kaisipan. Naunawaan ko na kung bakit nagkaroon ako ng attraction sa mas bata sa akin. Naniwala ako na hindj basihan ang edad para makaramdam ng love .❤❤❤😊
Lucky guy. There's this older coworker of mine and i don't know if she is into me. She might be like 60 but she's aging nicely actually. Everytime she sees me, she kinda gets excited and wants a hug. I noticed she always rejects my handshakes and instead walks straight towards me for a damn hug. No joke. Lmao.. Until one time, I was minding my own business and tried to ignore her when she kept calling my name, asking me to go up to her. I tried to walk away and there she went again coming towards me and this time she ran her hand all over my ab area after wrapping me in her arms.. no lies. and I was thinking "whoa lady, calm down" Haha! Matter of fact, one time another coworker told me that woman was talking about me, saying at one point "Ooh that body.." Don't know what goes on in her mind or what are her possible intentions.
Im 60 and I have more men hitting on me now than I ever did when I was younger. Men as much as 40 years younger!! I dont know what to make of it. I'm so much heavier too and they dont seem to notice. My girlfriends all tell me because they are after money, which I dont have. I think theyre just jealous! Senior ladies...dont give up!!
Most of the women in my family are married to younger men and they're all very happy. It depends on the mutual respect and understanding between two people.Keep away from the critics and judgemental people. Age is just a number.... If you love each other it's enough. As a woman I'd say if old men can date or marry a teenager, why be gender biased??
Given that men die younger and that half of them are impotent by the time they reach 60, men's obsession with younger women is illogical. It should be the other way round.
They want younger women not for sex or children but as nurse and carer, my sugar daddy is 66 we never had sex, i just stay around to take his money and cook for him, the minute the money dries up, I'm out.
@@jodyjingles7968 all you have to do is get a picture in your head of them being 99 crippled over hunch backs with walkers and you won't feel so bad and them still chasing the hot young chicks only they don't want to be an old man's carer
There is a lot more to this than the video says. There is one comment I read that is in a healthy long term relationship. I'm currently 54, been divorced 10 years. I have much experience dating. I went into it confident, but... ALL MEN ARE PLAYERS. I've been hit on and even dated men in their 20 & 30's, oh heck even 40's but that is normal. Younger men are very much intrigued with you. TRUE. Older women exude a confident sexuality. But, they are only in it for a time. They will not commit. Older men are not willing to commit either.. They've learned their lesson and are hell bent to not be trapped by a ball and chain again. They will date until it isn't fun and move on. The best thing you can do is not chase. God bless any woman who finds a gem. They are rare.
Yeah, it's a shame, but, it's very true. I'm almost 52, been divorced 23 years. A lot of guys in their 20 or 30s very often try to date with me, and dating with such younger guys are easy, but... that's it. They mostly cannot be life partner, sadly. I know some successful couple who are big age gap older woman and younger man, but, that is very rare. :( Anyway! Thank you for this cheering video, Jason! I hope I get the rare one!
@@chukswhodid1927 thirsty behavior is a bit creepy. Besides most of us don't want to be a teacher or mommy. We prefer a man who leads with confidence, respect and decorum
I'm 41 and married. For the past few years, I've had men as young as 22 y/o hit on me knowing my status. It even happened one time that someone suddenly touched and kissed my hand and started talking about the future with me! I told him to kick rocks 😁 Every time, my husband just laughs and says "I trust you, you can handle them". I take care of myself, but don't looklike a supermodel. So, what attracts them to me? It's my maturity, wisdom, confidence and straight talk. I'm also chill, love to laugh and feed people 😊
It’s all fair that an older woman knows what she wants and doesn’t want to play games, the younger man needs to not play games and know what he wants too.
I was married for 36 years to my first love - this ended 5 years ago and when I was brave enough to venture into dating again I was stunned at the attention I got from much younger guys. I dated a guy 23 years younger for 2 years and It was great! I’m 59 now. Surely if men can date much younger women with no worries why are older women labelled cougars if they are seeing a younger man?!! 😉
Hi becky how are you im ibrahim from egypt and im 36 years old i admire for your comment and i think is you open minded and mature wamen, It really thrills me to see a beautiful and adorable woman like you with such an amazing smile, I really would love to learn more about you but that is if you don't mind sending me a friend, request.thank👍😍❤️🌹🇪🇬
Amazing! I had one that was 10 years younger than me but a coworker manipulated our situation by gossiping and lying about me because she was jealous of our friendship . Her jealousy destroyed our friendship.
I married a 26 year old at age 40 you might and may think its ok but NOT for the long run when he starts going after women 20 years YOUNGER! while now almost 20 years later we are much older.........
I can relate so so much with all the arguments!!! I am a 36 years old male and I tend to fall in love with woman of age 50 to sometimes even 70 years old.... It is just the confidence and the easy going lifestyle that appeals so much to me. And not even that, I get weak knees from small wrinkles and a skin just a little rough... OMG I'm so weird I guess :)
We were sold a lie. To think our value decreases with age. Aging is beautiful. It’s a blessing to be alive for longer and longer. Our experiences help us shine as we age.
I dated a much younger guy (14 years) for 3 years and although there were some positive things and I did love him, it always felt unbalanced... he had two younger children, whereas, my children were near adults. He was still growing up, getting on his feet financially, and I was getting tired of always being the teacher... it was exhausting. I would date younger again, but I would take more time to find someone who is more mature.
Are you still together? I’m still raising children and the man interested in me is 21 and I’m 38. I’m so afraid because I’m not looking for a boyfriend, I actually want a partner. Idk if he’s ready for the reality of me.
I'm 42 and my guy is 19. He is more mature than most guys my own age. He pursued me relentlessly, much to my confusion, and he crashed and burned the first time when I said "I could be old enough to be your mother!". We laugh about it now. In truth I panicked that a stunning young guy was interested in short, chubby, older me and went into self sabotage mode. He didn't give up though. It's been a few months and things are really good.
As long as the guy is adult,nothing wrong with this relationship.Even if he is immature,you will be able to detect it and make him mature as you are in 2 years.its not a big deal.but you also know that its time for him to be a man and earn money as well as study(if he wants to continue).it will make the relationship more suitable in that large age gap.
This man...is speaking the truth...I'm in a relationship now...in and he is 29 and I'm 50. Yes...we have a 21 year age gap. And he is a Driven Man...and I'm more settled and mature..and I guess that's what he needs. He calls me his Queen...and he my King..💞
@@marianas3268 I don't really know...? You see I have really bad trust issues and he wanted me to do something with my bank and his bank and I wasn't having it. I told him I don't know you from a can of paint and you expect my to do something like that...I think that...lol So...he got mad at me and told me I was toxic and that was that.. Life taught me not to trust men..till I know them well enough..and even then I have one 👁 open...lol
I am 36 and have recently fallen for a man 9 years my junior. I can see areas where there might be conflict, but so far it has been nothing but wonderful. His passion, drive and energy are so high, and he's so positive, kind and optimistic, and I feel I'm the same way, and I haven't been able to find that in someone my age. No he can't relate when I have to take care of certain responsibilities , but he thinks it's cute and never gets needy when I have to do something without him. I adore him and I'm terrified lol. Hope this works
My bf is 9 years younger than me. He's 23 and I'm 32. He thought I was 25 when he met me. I just happen to look way younger. I could tell he was younger but figured he was about 27 or 28. When I found out I dismissed him because the age gap freaked me out. He persisted and I gave him my number not thinking anything would happen. Fast forward to today, and he's my favorite person. Somehow despite age, we just click. And I almost missed an amazing opportunity to know him because of my own insecurity. One of the reasons he loves me is because he says I don't play games and I'm very honest and confident. Nothing like any 20-something he's ever met.
I was in my 30. I didn’t know how to have a good relationship with my ex-husband so he had an affair with an older woman, we ended up to get a divorced. Now I am in early 50 independence and taking good care myself. Have a happy life with someone special.
There is always the issue of “how long will last!” One day they may take all the experience gained from us older women & leave to pursue a woman their own age to have a family etc. I have ONLY younger men chase me. Dated one once & it was the biggest emotional roller coaster of my life. Emotionally & mentally immature, can’t handle any conflict and insecure etc. I don’t think I will be doing it again that’s for sure.
I believe it’s because some women Oder women have a type of inner strength , confidence and calmness about that themselves and some men find that very attractive, some older women can see that in other older women.. older women knows who she is and knows what she is about... younger women are still learning about themselves.. it’s hard trying to get to know someone and you don’t know your damn self.
Something I've found, the older I get the younger the men vying for my attention are. I turned 48 in May and I feel more sexy, self assured and confident than ever before. I've always dated men who are 3,4 or 5 years older than me. My husband was 6 years younger. I'm an internet dater and just this week I met a 26 year old for lunch. He was completely smitten with me before we met and I thought for sure that he'd lose interest when we met. Oh no that was far from his reaction. He's keen to see me again and when I told him I'm not going to sleep with him until I feel some level of trust and know him better, he was very supportive of my decision. He is, I'd say, the exception to the rule. He's sweet, funny and kind not to mention quite mature for his age. I'm not sure if I want it to develop into anything long term, only time will tell. One day at a time.
Thank you. I was thinking of telling my 14 years younger lover that I am getting old looking and perhaps we should part ways and he can find a younger woman closer to his age. But after viewing your video. I will have a talk with him and be most confident. After all, what you say about older women are mostly true.
I was divorced after 36 years in my late 60’s. Was alone for 3 1/2 years and got on a dating site. I was amazed at how many younger men approached me. I was curious why? Most said the same thing, they felt more comfortable and intrigued and had always wanted to meet older. Some even said that’s all they want to meet. I am still adjusting to the idea but have enjoyed those I like that I meet. I am not a cougar they approach me. Frankly I really don’t care what others think about it, which helps.
Thanks so much Jason! You said you hoped your viewers would feel more confident after watching this & about 4 minutes in-that's exactly what it did! I feel a greater sense of empowerment and feel more assured that I do in fact have a lot of advantages over my competitors! And have a lot to offer a younger man. Thank you so much! 🙏
I don't think there's ultimately anything to worry about. This is a good video to watch if a young man is interested in you and you need encouragement. But look. It's always going to be something. How many young women are out there right now struggling to get a commitment? Or are floundering in a new marriage? Best to just learn to date, love, and let go with grace. Your relationship status is only one part of your life and it is always subject to change. So best to just relax and allow God's will (not religious btw but there's no better way to say that).
I'm 56, and this 20ish guy that work's at Walgreen's nearly faint's when he see's me. and, forget about trying to have a coherent conversation. He is so adorable. Younger men have alway's loved older women.
I`M 52 years old woman and I love the attention of younger men...they love being treated like a King they deserve they are... and I adore them treating me like the lady I am.....
At the end of the day, there has to be initial attraction. I’m 36 and I take care of myself, a lot of people who don’t know me think I’m 27 or 28, and I’ve recently attracted a 27 year old man! 9 years younger than me! First there has to be physical attraction, then the rest comes after. Do you like each others character, personality, sense of humor, kindness? It’s a process of elimination and no one starts backwards, because without physical attraction I just don’t see how sex can work. I tried to be with a man who was perfect for me but I’m just not physically attracted to him and sex with him was daunting.
@@melishamaraj9668 I am getting 38 years old this year and the guy I have been seeing he is getting 30 years old. I like him a lot but he mentioned about my age last time. Because by the time he wanted kids maybe I can't have anymore 😭😔
That is exactly the case. I am 53, I look more like 40. Started dating a 30 year old pro golf player. He pursued me endlessly in the beginning. We had amazing chemistry and did a lot things together. One day we became distant after bringing me flowers for Valentine's day. I decided to break it off, he told me he wanted to concentrate on his golf career and his life was confusing. Immaturity at it's best.
I had my 67th birthday yesterday and i attracted my 45 year old partner by talking in a confident manner and by showing and talking about my life's experiences with him! He thinks me a smart, beautiful inside and out, loyal and confident woman who he thinks will be there for him as he navigates through life's difficulties! We are getting married despite his management team (yes he's a professional) disagreeing with him. They've tried and failed to split us up and he's very determined to marry me! We both are aware of the pitfalls involved but we are both in a committed relationship and at last his manager and 3 agents are finally ready to admit that my presence around him could after all be benefitial to his acting career going forward! We are both very happy together! 😊
This makes since to me..still,I think I safer being my oun, I don't want to get used and kicked to the curb by any man old or young,to old for pitty games,good luck to you all in your relationships and I really mean that.
Thought the same -older men can have kids till they die older woman cant and I think that gives us a lesser playing field to be dumped in the long run - we don't have the options a like an older man in the dating pool .!
I have an online LDR online,he is half my age! He is madly in love with me,I am a very self confident woman,self made & love who I am! Thank u so much👍😘❤️🌹
So great, thank you for this video. I am 42 and dating men in their 20s. I love them, they are so beautiful and they love me. I am astonished that they are attracted to me, but they are chasing me a lot. Recently, I met the most beautiful guy I have ever seen and he is really into me.
Claudia Pires you sound sad, bitter and jaded, projecting your life experiences/fears onto others. Girl, get a grip I have plenty of friends who are happily married to younger guys and the younger men are the ones with money before you come with that 😂
Strange how you speak about them in plural. They are beautiful and they love you. You are looking for a fling? Or a life partner? You obviously value youth and beauty. I am 43, recently divorced, and never in my life would I date somebody younger. I tried with a guy who was 38 and very attractive indeed, but he bored me to death, he didn't have imagination in bed and after a while I stopped liking him. Young men just don't have the experience and wisdom that I find attractive in men. I like men in their late 40s, early 50s. I can learn from them.
Hi sara how are you today im ibrahim from egypt and im 36 years old I work marketing engineer in American company in egypt and i think is you open minded, mature and attractive woman, It really thrills me to see a beautiful and adorable woman like you with such an amazing smile, I really would love to learn more about you but that is if you don't mind sending me a friend, request.thank🌹😍👍❤️🇪🇬
I wrote about my girlfriend who is the older women in my life. We're still together almost 2 years. She has astonished those who come to know her. She's absolutely the only women I'll ever want or need. She's 20 years older than me!, And I'm in my 40's.
I have another year til I’m 30. I’ve started to realize something for years. That every woman I’ve dated are around my age are full of games. They just go for the men’s wallet instead of receiving true authentic and real love. When I see Women that are 5-10 years older than me, they’re more understandable and more mature. I’m starting to find 5-10 year older women very attractive. If she makes more money than I or she don’t, I’m not going after her money. I want to have an actual relationship with someone who has the same interest of my heart and will except me for who I am no matter who and what I am.
Hi all, I have started dating a 50 year old, 20 years my junior. He said when he met me, that my photo on line, didn't do me justice. At this point in time, I am just enjoying being around this kind, respectful man. I have never experienced these traits in other men. Maybe, I was meant to meet someone like him. I don't know what is in the future, just taking things day by day. He is a great father to his children 15 and 12. Loved reading the comments. Paris
@@marincuculic1020 Hi Marin, I didn't hear from him after a number of dates and thought that was it. I always left it to him to contact me, especially after he saw that I had mobility problems. I still do and have not wanted to go under the knife. On the 12th August just past (2022), I received a message and on the 19th he drove up from the coast to meet me close to my home for breakfast and greeted me with a kiss. It was as if we never parted. He couldn't stop looking at me across the table and I loved looking into his blue eyes. He held my hand as he walked me to my car three hours later and when I got in, planted a few kisses on my lips. He blew a kiss and waved as I drove off. We are going to meet again soon. I have no idea where this is going, all I know is that I love his company, the way he treats me and makes me feel. I am a very confident woman, outgoing, happy and feminine...he may like these traits. In any case, I am not needy, nor will I chase him...I could imagine such a man in my life. If not him, I absolutely know now who I am looking for. Thanks for asking. Paris
This is 100% true ...i am 57 and every single man that date me or are interested are all 25-38 never older!!?? Its shocking to me i was married 26 years and i divorced 2 yrs ago and was very surprised by this ...
Hi alicia how are you im ibrahim from egypt and im 36 years old I work and i admire for your comment and i think is you open minded, mature and attractive, woman, It really thrills me to see a beautiful and adorable woman like you with such an amazing smile, I really would love to learn more about you but that is if you don't mind sending me a friend, request.thank😍❤️👍🌹🇪🇬
@@Earthomo I disagree with you on this.. With so much , hate in the world today..How can you look on love in a bad way...? Age ain't nothing but a number. Its how you feel about that person that counts...and if it is love...well how can you say that is wrong? I mean..the guy was 18 when they meant...and at that age he is a man..a very young man...but a man..never the less.. I'm myself is dating a younger guy..he is 29 and I'm 50..and I couldn't be happier..😊
@@pamelamark3609 for me, I wouldn't be comfortable with 18 years old. That just too hard to process. That's only few years older than my son's age! Took me almost 2 years to finally comfortable with someone 10 years younger. I was 35 and he's 25, and at that time it really felt way too awkward for me, but not him. He wouldn't give up, so 13 years later. If he were any younger than 25, I don't think I can go through with the intimacy without feeling disgusted. I'm sorry, not intend to judge anyone by any mean other than speaking for my self. To each their own.
I noticed with myself that it was a content of what I was talking about as opposed to how honest I was. You can be honest but what is thepurpose? Is it to belittle them or encourage them to do better? Ask yourself that whenever you're about to say something with no filter. When men knows that women will support and stand up for them they will fight for that woman no matter what other guys say. That's the beauty of femininity.men are taught to tear each other down whenever they step outside the box. While men are putting each other down, women are taught to build. That's why we're so valuable to men. Men get tired of being torn down all the time. That's why they know that they need us. They will respect demanding gentleness and kindness.
I am 20 years old from Florida and I’m looking for an older wife 50 up I don’t care about weight/wrinkles/or satellite I find that attractive. I don’t feel the women my age are mature enough for me. I need to find my mommy😩🫶🏽👁️
You are correct. I have been dating a man 20 years younger for 3 years. I am 54 currently. (Not all smooth) but for the most part your accurate on reasons to date a younger man.
I'm 26 years old. I've been hit on by someone as young as 20 years old. I never realized that these younger men of this generation seem to know what they want more than the guys my own age.
I think the less experienced a man is with women, the more keen he is to be with and commit to someone who fascinates him. Men in their 30s and above who have had so much experience dating women, have been in an out of relationships, have had their hearts broken multiple times etc are the ones who are always confused about what and who they want. Older men tend to come with a lot of women-related baggage, whereas younger men who go for older women don't.
@@spirit_queen With your logic older women would also have men-related baggage, so why would a younger man without baggage go after an older woman with baggage when he can go for a younger woman without baggage also? Older women also have decreased beauty, fertility, and tend to be more masculine from having lived life much longer. Doesn't sound like a good bargain.
Oh wow, i was little confused because i am 39 and my guy is 23. He purposed me i was thinking may be he has attraction. After read this i believe this is not wrong. We have feeling each other , and deep connection.
@@neharehani8938 suddenly, he met me, afterthat I felt like he is my soulmate. I explained him everything . I do not like cheating. He is real lovely and nice man.
am 35yrs old ma man is 30yrs old and he is a blessing to me am not lucky dating older men....well am just blessed..may be bcuz I look younger and am not a liability 🇨🇲
thx for this ..i needed to hear this as my soulmate is 30yrs younger and at times i feel like letting him have a life without me even though he feels hurt and i feel devastated when i bring it up.. and then i just say stuff the haters who are they to judge my heart ..He makes me feel who i am ..
Hey All, younger men are the best! I hear that stupid comment from a lot of people that men only want younger women (girls). That isn't true. Younger men do like and even love older women. I am a young 56 and have dated men up to 18 years younger than me. The only thing I would like to align with is if they are looking for a hook-up or an actual relationship without their own children. Jason please have more videos on this topic! I do not want to beat around the bush for sure. I hate all the lies and I want a MAN that wants an older woman with her own biz, classy, completely has a life with children, and grandchildren, friends,hobbies, past careers, passion, etc; and wants that great connection with a younger man that wants that commitment.
Unfortunately, if you are wanting to date them. Their family and friends may not be ok with it. The "Cougar" term is so disrespectful and used a lot. It's not at all what I want to be labeled as, when I am friends with younger guys. My goal is friendship, not sex.
My goal with a younger guy is a relationship with romance without sex, as I am asexual in sexual orientation and proudly a younger hetero-asexual cougar, not a heterosexual cougar as I am asexual in sexual orientation. I like the term asexual cougar for me, as I don't want to attract older guys and feel confident, powerful, and strong. Which is what this word represents to me.
By far your best video yet! .....We are Strong Confident Secure Butterflies who have transformed from the insecure cocoons of our 20's & 30's! Please release more content related to this.... Bravo!!
I'm 57 years old, and this past year I've been working on my confidence and self identity... and my dating life is awesome! I'm moving to Istanbul next month and I'm attracted to Turkish men. While I've been in Turkey on vacation, I've dated MANY men. Attractive. Fun. Intelligent. And... they are about 15-20 years YOUNGER than I am. I'm 57... most men are 37-41 years old. And it's because of the knowledge from Attracting Great Guys, that I have been able to achieve this. Looks... the first 30%. It gets you noticed. The rest... is confidence, and showing what you have to offer that the younger woman doesn't have because of lack of life experience.
Seekingthemiddle Way Have you been to Turkey? Islam is the most popular religion, but in western Turkey, many don't practice. There are many beautiful, beautiful! Younger Turkish women.... but their mindset is very different. Turkish men want women who are confident, and are not needy and clingy. I am Muslim myself, and I try to blend in. So, I'm not that exotic. I feel it fit in more with Turkish culture than in American culture. I know what I want, what I don't want, and I'm not afraid to say it to a man. Once I started to do this, for every man I turned away, 2 more show up. It's all about mental positioning and mental Law of Attraction.
Oscar Williamson Thank you for the compliment! That is very sweet of you. Putting yourself out there, being endearing like this, and a handsome face... you should have no problem getting a high quality woman! Best of luck to you.
This is truth I have always attracted younger men and their comments to me confirm they are seeking wisdom and a seasoned woman without the drama Presently in a relationship with a high profile man decades younger He has proposed ! Our biggest challenge is the prejudicial attitude of others .
I'm 51 and he's 39. He persued me because he says he's attracted to my maturity and I know what I want and am not afraid to say it. He makes me feel energetic and lighthearted.
Yes! Great for him. Mental maturity is actually very important. Girls my age or younger never take anything serious or don't know what they want. There's this older coworker of mine and i don't know if she is into me. She might be like 60 but she's aging nicely actually. Everytime she sees me, she kinda gets excited and wants a hug. I noticed she always rejects my handshakes and instead walks straight towards me for a damn hug. No joke. Lmao.. Until one time, I was minding my own business and tried to ignore her when she kept calling my name, asking me to go up to her. I tried to walk away and there she went again coming towards me and this time she ran her hand all over my ab area after wrapping me in her arms.. no lies. and I was thinking "whoa lady, calm down" Haha! Matter of fact, one time another coworker told me that woman was talking about me, saying at one point "Ooh that body.." Don't know what goes on in her mind or what are her possible intentions.
I am 47 and he is 34 .. he doesn't know that I am older than him. I look young so .. I don't know what he will say about my age.. we are not lovers yet but I don't think it's a good thing to go further tho :(
Honestly I had relationship with tons of older women when I was younger. Lost my virginity to a older woman who was 20 years older then me. My wife she's gonna be 47 and I will be 36 and we have 4 kids together and we've been together since 2015 and the thing is she also doesn't look like her age. Unless people who know us personally they'll know our age gap because she use to be my teacher. Since we moved away from my old area back in 2019 our neighbours and people around us thinking me and my wife are the same age. Men I know are scared of being with older women because they're afraid of commitment because they see me have kids with a older women and they get cold feeted. I mean back when I was a teen most of the older women just wanted fun and games even though I enjoyed it I still treated it like a relationship like making them breakfast, bringing them presents and I was a teen so I didn't have money but I was involved with older women that even like within a few days or weeks it was their birthday so I gave them presents behind closed doors. I grew in the 2000s with older women so the older women I was with where more mature but men who are much younger then me if they were having relationships with older women it would probably be the ages of close to me but woman my age most of them are influence on social media like Instagram and back when I was with older women they didn't have social media or smart phones to be on the phone 24/7. But the days of approaching older women with confidence is probably not there anymore. It's more likely they DM them on social media
@@ayseoncel6541 Lol Girl, no fear. You are beautiful woman. I'd be lucky if I was him. However, There's this older coworker of mine and i don't know if she is into me. She might be like 60 but she's aging nicely actually. Everytime she sees me, she kinda gets excited and wants a hug. I noticed she always rejects my handshakes and instead walks straight towards me for a damn hug. No joke. Lmao.. Until one time, I was minding my own business and tried to ignore her when she kept calling my name, asking me to go up to her. I tried to walk away and there she went again coming towards me and this time she ran her hand all over my ab area after wrapping me in her arms.. no lies. and I was thinking "whoa lady, calm down" Haha! Matter of fact, one time another coworker told me that woman was talking about me, saying at one point "Ooh that body.." Don't know what goes on in her mind or what are her possible intentions.
I’m 27 now and my partner is almost 36 , I have never be attracted physically and mentally to young female even when I was teenager I always loved to be with Women in their 30s they are this sexiest of all , confident and know what they want the most importantly they look like real woman
As usual Jason, this was right on point 💯.I've always attracted younger men but now that I'm getting older, the age gap is getting bigger! 15 years and more. I think it's because I look much younger and because I've worked hard to develop most of the traits you mentioned in your video. I definitely believe age is just a number, and thank you so much for another succinct, classy and wise video. BTW, you don't look or sound tired at all! 💪🎯😎
I’m 41, I started dating younger men at 35. Now I’m finally ready to have kids, and I found an amazing 25 year old man to do it with. He is adventurous and great with kids, the sex is amazing and I help him grow while he helps me be soft & feminine. We have shared values and that’s something hard to find at any age.
You are too busy trying to be with another person. Why can't you just enjoy your life and be your own best company. Until then it does not matter what age you are you will never have a successful relationship. Who cares what age just stop settling and feeling incomplete with out another person by your side. Just enjoy your life alone and when one comes then make sure they are worthy.
