What NOT to Do on a FIRST DATE (Strange But True) | Dating Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

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@matboggs Год назад

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@biabarreto434 5 лет назад

No expectations before first date. That's the way I always do. The worst is when you have a date and feel a great connection with the guy, and he gives all signs he's enjoying as well. Then you get home thinking abut the night and next day you texted thanking about the time together and the guy doesn't even reply. That's freaking awful!

@keithefan3697 4 года назад

You’re not alone ^^

@jojomary5990 4 года назад

Yeah..This is so unforgetable experiencias also so painful 😭😭

@debparkinson2283 4 года назад

Jojo Mary I just think that if he doesn’t reply to your thank you text then he is not valuable enough for you. You’re only the worth and the value that you place on yourself. Well done for saying thank you ladies . It’s just right to do that .

@stacey1168 4 года назад

That just happened to me smh

@lady_insane868 4 года назад

Bia Barreto happening all the time 🤦🏻‍♀️

@Ikekel 6 лет назад

Don't get excited. Instead of getting excited switch it with gratitude. Stay present and just let the person who's in front of you Reveal them selves to you Discover them be interested in them

@joibates114 4 года назад

I am a widow in my 40s. This whole new dating fiasco is such a pain. Facial shopping what to do what not to do has become ridiculous. I just want to be me. Sitting here with my dogs is a lot more fulfilling and less stressful. I wish everyone well on their journey ❤️

@joli2511 Год назад

I am also a widow in my late 40’s. I finally went on my first online date a year ago. We are still seeing each other. I recently broke it off with him. It’s so different now. Not, only this online dating stuff, but your value really gets tested. What are you bringing to the table. If we do get serious. We both own homes. He wants me to sell and move in with him. He pays half the expenses. But, I don’t get put on the mortgage! It’s so hard to stay positive and continue to date!

@marinachoban2607 8 лет назад

Mat, you are very mature for not pushing any blame on the (mostly) boring girl you took out on a date. I respect you for taking responsibility for your own actions! Keep it up 👍

@maryreese702 4 года назад

marina choban. I know he's also handsome & respecful too.

@SatumainenOlento 4 года назад

You are talking about me!!! Lol 😂 I'm not into sports or music and like my home, but I'm nothing but boring person. Those just are not my interests...I would go to Mexico tho...

@janetf.8459 4 года назад

Ask open ended questions. What are you into?

@stevenalvarez2757 7 лет назад

KEEP YOUR EXPECTATIONS LOW, REPEAT, KEEP YOUR EXPECTATIONS LOW (about someone else).

@Me-tb8rs 7 лет назад

Wow. I literally have just been going through this. Invented an entire relationship in my head, totally disappointed. Thank you for this vid!

@ketolin5624 7 лет назад

we all do it hun ;)

@JesiWhyte 6 лет назад

Melyssa Lewis on a side note, I loooooooove your hair!

@andreatilsley1946 5 лет назад

Me too 😂 I am stopping right now

@dashabrown354 2 года назад

A whole relationship Sis. SMH I’m learning.

@saras.2173 Год назад

I do the same thing. It feels like I can’t help it.

@sinnedsaint5414 8 лет назад

Wow, I just had an epiphany with this video... I have a crazy habit of fantasizing about men I've only gone a few dates with or dated for a couple of months, and be so depressed when it doesn't work out. only because I fantasize this whole relationship in my head and not taking it for what it is. I never had anyone explain it so simply and clearly then you did. Total life changer. thank you

@wowso4 8 лет назад

Story of my life I'm already planning the wedding before even the first date happens lol I guess that's why I'm always single.

@mariamul5630 7 лет назад

Sandra Jefferson. I'm the same way. lol

@aprilredkisses 5 лет назад

Sandra Jefferson don't feel bad me too.

@MS-fj6iu 5 лет назад

Most of people are the same lo

@jelizabethpetrie6656 5 лет назад

Enjoy new encounters with no expectations n you’re often surprised. Only expect to have a new experience.

@mariamistretta3860 5 лет назад

All women do that it seems, it's so strange to not be excited or to hide it.

@svetlanavukolic8242 7 лет назад

Wow, for a very long time I haven't heard about any guy having the courage to introduce himself to a girl by coming to her table in a restaurant. Especially not when she is sitting there with her mom. What a great guy you must be!!!!

@supersarah5673 5 лет назад

Exactly!

@SatumainenOlento 4 года назад

My thoughts too! That was so super impressive! And in his 20s...even more impressive!!! Just tells us what kind of guy he really is. Hope he reads these comments and feels like a man, because he should! Job well done! 😊😊😊

@lornaswasey4687 4 года назад

Hes the best

@josephgarza5590 4 года назад

So I did that and I got rejected

@Valoelify 4 года назад

@@josephgarza5590 Aww I'm sorry.. but maybe the girl had a boyfriend? That is always a possibility. You are still very brave to do that, take that with you.

@005Amergin 7 лет назад

sometimes excitement is because a great connection is so rare

@wshelby83 5 лет назад

I agree with you!!

@lornaswasey4687 4 года назад

True

@ambermiravalle5153 3 года назад

Exactly what I was thinking.

@captainswan3079 2 года назад

Yes!

@RedTango 8 лет назад

This is why you need to start with a coffee date. Cheap and quick escape.

@maryreese702 4 года назад

RedTango this is funny I have a date today & the guy wanted to go for some coffee & I’m like thinking. The exact same thing you just mentioned,, is he cheap or in case he doesn’t want to move forward at least he haven’t spend that much money on me? & I’m thinking to myself “if he only knew that I’m thinking of my paying for my food, because I chose the place & besides I’m not even planning ahead.” I'm just gonna enjoy the moment & let it flow naturally if it happens; it was meant to be & if it doesn’t oh well at least he won’t spend his money for nothing, & be all mad upset, just because it didn't go for him as planned it. Well, I'm thinking out loud here. Let's hope it will work for both of us. If it doesn't work, let's hope at least we can be good friends.

@HeartCenteredUniverse1111 4 года назад

RedTango EXACTLY!!

@shahilagh 4 года назад

RedTango that is why you miss the good ones because of this conservativeness ... instead open your eyes beforehand and choose the right person and then do the best for that person

@businesslady7840 4 года назад

When a guy invites me for coffee. I blocked them. A date with me is worth more than a freaking cup of coffee 🤷. I don't waste my time with cheap ass dude. Guy invited me to coffee. I hung up the phone. 4 days later he called me back and invited me to dinner at a 5 star restaurant. What you settle for is what you get. Had I didn't know my value. It would of have been a coffee date .

@CrystalDatingCoach 3 года назад

YES and no. If I suggest coffee. Ok. If he suggests coffee...cheap date.

@1pinchoforegano 7 лет назад

You are 100% right. Stop future tripping!

@lornaswasey4687 4 года назад

Right

@sarahnorment 6 лет назад

At a football game, at a concert, on a beach vacation?? I respect you. wow. Men only imagine me in their beds by date 3.

@user-zx5xw4yw2e 6 лет назад

Sarah Norment By date 1

@724kdr 5 лет назад

Sarah Norment story of my life

@vivianfox3794 4 года назад

Omg so true, I guess I’ll be single forever

@SatumainenOlento 4 года назад

Well, I do love to be imagined in the bed from the first sight, but it is extremely important that they understand how wonderful it would be that they would always find me there! The chance to get ME TO STAY in their bed should be their aim. Getting me to commit to them. And ONLY offering me sex is not going to keep me or impress me. Sex is available for me everywhere, so why would I stay with them? / This attitude should work with guys who are only after sex. It turns the tables around. Good luck, sisters! 😊😊😊

@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823 4 года назад

@@SatumainenOlento since when do men commit once you fling the cookie out? Steve Harvey.

@HappyPainterOT7 4 года назад

Happiness is an inside job...can’t expect it from another person...be happy within your own presence...aligned with your inner source energy.

@ReadingRhinoPress 8 лет назад

This is fantastic. I can completely relate to that low of feeling like you lost an entire relationship because you made it up inside you're own head before you guys really got to know each other. Well, lesson learned, onto the next ceramic pot!

@EricMartonelli 5 лет назад

This was actually really helpful. I have a date tomorrow and I've been overthinking non stop!

@CrystalWilliamsoncoach 8 лет назад

Thank you for the reminder about being grateful and having gratitude!! I went to a speed-dating event last week for my age group (I'm a youthful looking 50+ year old). The men looked 95!!! I was pissed and disappointed afterward and wanted my money back. I'm going to another event in 2 weeks. I KNOW the gratitude shift will work for me in the future.

@mucnagow2 7 лет назад

You totally cracked me up with this video. When I was young & dating, I always preferred the first date to be an activity rather than eating. I loved it when the man had a plan to do something other than eat.

@Irene-gq4jr 6 лет назад

So funny and so true. Two months after the official end of a dead relationship I decided to get out and enjoy life, joined a dating website and went on four dates in 2 weeks. First three were nice guys but not for me. By date no. 4 I'd calmed down. He was pretty laid back, conversation flowed and coffee turned into dinner. Months later he confessed that when we met he thought I was out of his league and relaxed more thinking he had no chance. We got engaged just over a year later :-)

@MaryTheresa1986 Год назад

Congratulations! I hope everything is going well.

@Irene-gq4jr Год назад

@@MaryTheresa1986 Thank you sweetie! Six and a half years later we are still together and stronger than ever.

@ghadirshahin8667 8 лет назад

Omg!! I can't believe it so so true. I've had crush on someone for long long time. And i started to build this image of a perfect relationship with my dream guy! And as days go by i dream more and more and more, till actually i got to talk to him to find him way far from the image i had for him in my mind. That got me upset and very disappointed for long time!! Thanks for the video you are awesome

@edelweissj.191 2 года назад

6 years later I find this video and Mat let met tell you, you are hilarious! 1000% true. It happens to me exactly this week : massive excitement. And then: oh no this ain't going anywhere. Connection before excitement!

@Justicejamesb 5 лет назад

Holy crap dude, you just explained my situation that happened to me like 6 yrs. ago... I haven't been out since. Man, bro., you're good!

@AlyniaR 8 лет назад

You have the best approach to explaining scarcity and gratitude than anyone I've heard. Thank you!

@salliea2304 3 года назад

Matthew- going on my first date tonight after divorce. This is exactly what I needed to hear. I started following Abraham Hicks this year and your message brings this to a really grounded practical level. You are the best relationship/dating expert out there! Thank you!

@MsPeasandhoney13 8 лет назад

Yes, I am always in a state of gratefulness.....you can never be sad if you live with gratitude. However, A good rule is talk to the person on the phone first or meet for coffee...You could have found out in a15 min phone call what took you 100 bucks Too cute you are.

@nvthequeen2001 8 лет назад

Exactly! Most everything can be found out in a 15 minute phone call & coffee meet up. Instead people would rather prolong the inevitable with text messages.😑😳

@HoneyNohio1 8 лет назад

+Mathew Boggs who should contact after the first date? male or female?

@kyle9406 7 лет назад

Arе уоооu mаking thееееseeее mistakes with уour mаn? twitter.com/7ae7786e46a556526/status/804693412402241537 Whаt NОТ tо dо оn а FIRSТ DАТЕ Strаngе but Тrue

@MelissaACook 7 лет назад

A Soulmate’s Connection>> facebook.com/Obsession-Formula-876103079199598/?sk=app_337680106275807 I’ll reveal the three psychological loopholes that will make a man fantasize about spending the rest of his life with you. (You need to know this).....

@boomerangsruckflug8513 6 лет назад

I anyway prefer to meet a man live. It's okay for a coffee but I want to see his face, his smile and body language too besides having a conversation.

@MatthewCoast 6 лет назад

Thank you for making this video! I appreciate all of the advice. Keep up the good work!

@RM80 6 лет назад

Wow.. everything you said was so sincere and makes complete sense! Dating with the perspective you suggest makes the whole dating process a lot more positive and provides an opportunity to learn about communication skills, but most importantly, about yourself! Sending out positive vibrations is the best way to go because it'll definitely come back to you! Thank you very much for sharing this advice.. you're so insightful!

@juliandranl5424 7 лет назад

How true!!! All disappointments do come from fantasy ,futuring and planning dates ahead!

@teresakinyari5189 7 лет назад

This video has just given me the exact advice I was looking for. I thank God that I found it.

@untamedblu 8 лет назад

Solid advice. Thank you! I can definitely apply this to my dating mindset. So appreciative!

@GhislaineBeauce 8 лет назад

Thank you for being so honest, I've definitely been there, and it's refreshing and reassuring to know that guys do it too!!

@amymiles1135 3 года назад

Love it. I’ve been freaking out all day over a date tonight. I’m far more grounded after listening to this perspective. I am very grateful for my life, no matter how this date goes. 🙏🏻

@healthroads 4 года назад

Wise words to live by. I appreciate the principles taught here and in many of your videos. Bless you and am grateful to have found your channel!

@nataliehilton7739 5 лет назад

Your take on relationships are amazing. Thank you!

@opyone252 5 лет назад

When an introvert meet an extrovert :-)

@industryliaison 2 года назад

You know what that tip about gratitude and staying present is such good advice. That’s a great reminder for me

@PINK912611 8 лет назад

Mat you are so wise! Thank you for this! I will always remember this insight

@sharonpetersen8033 8 лет назад

I love this one. It can apply to things like the job search as well. Thanks, Matthew!

@marwa.emad2206 8 лет назад

I'm grateful as I can watch you and learn from you, Mat. Thank you.

@yt7377 3 года назад

OMG! Thank you! This is one of the best videos I've seen with an advice for a first date!!!

@vlj9013 5 лет назад

Thank you! Don't futurize things, stay in the presence and see the person reveal themselves rather than focus on what you want

@Cutenerdywoman 7 лет назад

I recently had a first date where it was so awkward because I was so nervous I barely said a word. luckily he was willing to give me a second date..and tonight will be our third. he still makes me nervous..But we are working through it. I think I make him nervous too.

@abelcerrillo2162 5 лет назад

Lisa Johnsen hey so are u still dating the guy?

@briannady6100 5 лет назад

Omg. You're lucky he still asked for a second and even a 3rd date. I also had my FIRST date 4 days ago. What happened? I M E S S E D UP. Just because of nervousness. 😣

@suzib9331 4 года назад

Hey Matt, this was hilarious. Your description of what happened to you was so entertaining and so true! I laughed so much. I loved it! Thank you for this video and these wise reminders. Suzi x

@AlineBora 8 лет назад

Hey Matt, I just found your youtube channel and I'm loving all of your advices! Thank you man! I can't believe you actually had the guts to go talk to this girl while she was with her aunt and mother... The world need more man like this today. Because it's really hard to see a man nowadays come and talk to the girl. Sometimes I go out, I notice that the guy is looking but he never comes over.

@davidsalazar295 8 лет назад

now this video hit me like a truck. I'm 3 hours close on going on a first date with a beautiful, cute woman... and yeah, i built a whole relationship on my mind... well... I'll let you know the wedding date =D

@yangeaseyang5439 8 лет назад

So how was your date?

@yangeaseyang5439 8 лет назад

+David Salazar What??? Did I judt hear a guy complaining a girl who just looks for sex? 😂😂😂 I thought it was the dream of guys, all the benefits but no responsibility. I am a girl so I dont know a whole lot about guys.

@davidsalazar295 8 лет назад

+yangease yang yeah, i have friends like that, well. i need a girl who respect herself. i mean, sex is good but is not the only thing that matters.

@yangeaseyang5439 8 лет назад

+David Salazar Hahaha I was just kidding. Sorry if it offened you. I know that men are human beings who have felings too!

@davidsalazar295 8 лет назад

+yangease yang we should talk more :) facebook.com/Est.S.7

@anthonyscott16 4 года назад

Sounds like well thought out and effective advice Mathew. Thanks for sharing your perspective.

@veronikapetrova5320 7 лет назад

Dear, I am taking notes of all you tell to us. I appreciate you and your advices. Big pleasure to have you in youtube.

@GowithKelly 6 лет назад

You really are spot on! Not just with romantic advice, but life in general!! Thanks for another amazing video

@michaelamatejkova2585 5 лет назад

You explain things so easily and so understantable. Thank you for that.

@corgisrule21 4 года назад

“Not a music fan”...you’re a saint for even asking a question beyond that. Someone who doesn’t like music is dead inside and I have no use for them in my daily life. 😐😂

@duplessey-monicwalker5819 8 лет назад

AMAZING...thank you so much for sharing your gifts!! It is truly appreciated!

@conniecrueldad9233 7 лет назад

Thanks Mat I'm so grateful that I have this opportunity to hear your advice. and suggestions.

@felicitylerouge 7 лет назад

This is my favourite video of yours, so far (and I watched a lot). Thank you, Mat. How valuable to come from gratitude (abundance), instead of excitement (certainty). This was a great new distinction for me - and I'm grateful :)

@carolecote4142 5 лет назад

I absolutely loved this video and I really needed to hear this ! I totally agree about the difference in our energy level with excitement vs gratitude !! I’m sure this will help me on my next first date!! Thanks Mat ! I like your open conscience and spiritual level of coaching !

@theblueflame6958 Год назад

You’re absolutely right Bro. This is good advice. I’ve known this for a while. It took me a long time to figure it out but when I finally arrived at the answer, it was so obvious.

@yvettepolanco3368 7 лет назад

Excellent advice!! Matthew, you are AMAZING!! :D

@karinahhhhhhh 7 лет назад

Thanks so much!! I loved your analogies and the story too! I can definitely relate with you, so I'll take this advice to heart :)

@FunkyBruja 5 лет назад

What an excellent video with great information. Thank you so much.

@CecilyJamelia 5 лет назад

You're very blessed Matthew. Thank you for sharing!

@Threepinkrosesstudio 8 лет назад

What great advice! Thanks for sharing that. I love the concept of embracing the feeling of gratitude. We have so much to be grateful for that we do not think about a lot of the time. It has always impacted me when I see people who are like that--thankful and appreciative.

@FreeRangeBuddhas 8 лет назад

hahahaha This guy is so smart and hilarious! definitely wise words and something I need to keep in mind. Thank you Mathew!

@jwilcox4726 Год назад

sure he is smart as a fox in a hen house he is. you ain't go me fooled son. Nope I see your true colors shining through. BEWARE of this smooth talker ladies. Get verified first off Mr. Boggs.

@mamtazmalik6854 2 года назад

Just what I needed to hear. It definitely makes sense and I will take this video and practice.

@kathyinspired1824 8 лет назад

On Point! So amazing how accurate this video is. without even having made it to the date I found myself future rising about someone I met online and we hit it off but it fizzled before the first date because the conversation on the phone didn't match my expectations. following the experience I have just today met someone else and we have planned a date for tomorrow. this has brought my head out of the clouds and I am able to appreciate getting to know him without unrealistic expectations that are not based on who he really is.. very inspiring thanks

@tammyhead4101 2 года назад

Love this. Great feedback. You are hilarious!

@debraawe1968 8 лет назад

Matt, this is really helpful. I'm seeing somebody now, and we were only acquaintances a couple years ago. And i realized i had this "future" planned out for us and a wedding speech and all that embarrassing stuff. I am so glad you tackled this.

@ataylor9612 5 лет назад

Thank you so much for this video. I found it very informative both from a man's and a woman's perspective. GREAT JOB!

@charlinegauthier-tremblay6745 8 лет назад

I just discovered you ! Thank you so much for sharing your views and experiences... Awesome ! I look forward to watching some more !!

@mariannebickerton6944 4 года назад

Wise counsel. Thank you.

@MissLivena 8 лет назад

It's great you are using gestures to illustrate everything you are saying. For me it makes super easy to understand and follow through.

@daniellekoslowski1364 5 лет назад

That was so accurate , we all have done that. Not anymore. Thanks Matthew! I adore your videos! Personality and presence too.

@sharonviquezsolano 6 лет назад

it is very nice when people make videos about real life experiences

@myathetmon773 4 года назад

Thank you. You remind me to be gratitude. Now I understand how I can feel "abundant of love".

@kasashimusonda534 2 года назад

I love this. This is so settling. Leaves you walking out with your head up regardless of the outcome of the date

@tracysutton1056 8 лет назад

I love listening to Matt talk. He is a great speaker! I also think he has a great message and I love that he is so much like me and helps me understand myself and some of the mistakes I make in life. Thank you Matthew!

@alohaleslie9407 6 лет назад

Aloha Mat! This is wonderful. The one thing (out of many) I picked up from you is creating the state of awesome state of gratitude. This may sound off the subject, but when faced with two cancers, I became very conscious about the necessity of feeling gratitude every day. A very deep part of me felt that would be a huge part of my healing, not only from cancer, but from fear about potential outcome (death). Gratitude, IMO, is the highest vibration in our precious Universe. Its capacity to heal us from physical, emotional, and mental traumas, is absolutely amazing. I'm so very Grateful for you in that you have lovingly, humorously, and creatively shared your gifts of understanding our authentic Selves and healthy relationships with all of us. Mahalo nui... :)

@vivianfox3794 4 года назад

Omg, this is one of the best advice ever. Thank you so much for opening my eyes. I love this perspective 😍

@leahmayne3031 8 лет назад

THANK YOU! A whole new spin on creation that I just LOVED.

@isabellapresley7614 Год назад

Mat I love your comedy take on this! Thank you for this vulnerability!

@jeannettemiller1188 3 года назад

Love how you parlayed harmony, gratefulness and abundance in the present moment. 🙏🥳💝

@lianaryzewski1653 5 лет назад

Hi Math! Thanks a lot for your vídeos! They are really helpful to keep me focus on the right way to act, deal with my emotions and, of course, get a better results on my romantic life.

@catrionahegarty1106 6 лет назад

Hey Matt. I am so glad I found you. You are the first Dating coach that is making any sense to me. I am enjoying discovering your videos. This video is very real to me I do this all the time. I always expect the unexpected all the time. I have lost so many potential relationships that I think that I over thought everyrhing. now I see a new side of things and dating. thank you. I thought I was the only person that thought this way. So I am gonna stay grateful and enjoy the moment

@karen3520 2 года назад

Have just discovered your videos and am enjoying them, thank you Mat for the great advice.

@xxxTANYAxx 7 лет назад

It is most refreshing to have happened upon your videos by chance, here on RU-vid! Wishing you well, and every happiness... Tanya (all the way from London, England)

@AniaBumba 8 лет назад

Hi Mathew, thank you for posting this video. The way you explain things is just brilliant. What I find the most interesting is that I can actually apply the things you say to many other situations in life, not only first dates. A job interview is a great example of a situation where people get very excited, fantasise about the new job, count the money they will make and even start spending the money in their minds but then very often comes a disappointment. After few interviews like that people are fed up. I know, I've been there. Your tips are great though and I am going to try to change my way of thinking when I get the next job interview. Thank you again.

@keddy5627 8 лет назад

Mat--I cannot believe how simple and profound the truths are in this video. I have always approached a date with great excitement, often projecting future events, and eventually disappointment, just as you mentioned. I had not made the excitement/scarcity connection at all but I definitely make it now! I had always thought that "of course, I am excited; why wouldn't I be?" but it does reek of desperation that someone is at last asking me out...ugh! In the future, I will prepare for each date with a gratitude list of my own life's accomplishments, relationships, and material blessings...your ministry is powerful! Thank you!

@YO_SOY_Stella_369 3 года назад

Love this! Gratitude and stay in the present.

@lirradelatorre7372 4 года назад

This is a heartwarming advice that makes you feel happy by just listening to the idea of it. Thanks

@lucreciatex 4 года назад

What a great content Matthew thanks for your amazing work. I'm no even dating but I come to your channel to check your videos because I always find in your content something that helps me to build a better me. Thanks

@dawnmedley1485 2 года назад

Amazing!!! Spot on advice!!

@silvaveg1498 8 лет назад

One of the best advice I've ever heard!!! not only for love & relationship but for all aspects in life!!! Brilliant ;)

@89shiella 5 лет назад

Omg. This makes so much sense. I was smiling the whole time.

@anac.7565 5 лет назад

💕 loved it. Simple and absolutely brilliant your way ... Thanks.☺

@borncrazynotstupid 6 лет назад

Very helpful. Thank you so much for your perspective.

@SonshineGirl001 6 лет назад

Excellent! I needed that! I am a very enthusiastic, positive person in general, so I thought excitement was a good thing. I am soooo GRATEFUL you set me straight! :)

@lauraacheson7281 4 года назад

Great funny story!! Thanks for sharing! Interesting arrangement of books on shelves behind you.

@Amyrealestatedubai Год назад

Thanks a lot for the video. I also faced the same feeling of expectation

@Christine_G129 4 года назад

I am 100% guilty of futurizing. Now that you put it out there like this, I realize why I'm feeling so down after a first date. I really have to be mindful and grateful in the future! Great video and you now have a new subscriber!

@BBboingfreckles13 3 года назад

You are honestly so funny, I literally LOL while I watch your videos! Haha. But this is really great advise and just the way you speak is so eloquent and well thought out. Thanks for your videos!!