What To Do When Your Ex Tells You To Move On

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What To Do When Your Ex Tells You To Move On
In this episode, Clay Andrews talks about What To Do When Your Ex Tells You To Move On.
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@Trex7124 4 месяца назад

Respect his decision and do so. It's either him or better.

@enteblu6799 2 года назад

He wanted to meet me after 3 months. I flew to his country and we fought a lot but also had cuddles, sex and good time. He said he has feelings but is not in love. He said he was thinking about me giving me a second chance and now he said to move on.

@AyeshaKhan-dx6et Год назад

I hope you put your self respect first and did move on!

@terrykarenbauer4092 2 года назад

MOVE ON THEN…if their new relationship fails/ya know they’ll try and come back..it’s entirely up to you wether you care to be a “doormat” or have self respect and take care of yourself and move on…

@chiomaruth5105 2 года назад

It works out for me 1 got my ex lover back within 48 hours. I can help you out too Whatspp me to know how

@chiomaruth5105 2 года назад

✝2349055924559⏭⏭❤💕💕

@FortniteReportz Месяц назад

You do not always have to say no to starting over, if you think that is he only solution then you are foolish and you have not learned anything. Forgiving others IS a virtue, thus it IS self respect.

@peteranthony6015 2 года назад

Here's a sure strategy 😉 you make sure everyone knows why you broke up with your ex....and make sure they channel it back to your ex...there's no recovering back after that...works all the time...just move on...ex sums up your past relationship...look to the future 😉

@AA-qp6cw 2 года назад

:) great content bro

@charlierose5566 2 года назад

It works out for me I got my ex lover back within 48 hours. I can help you out too Whatspp me to know how

@charlierose5566 2 года назад

✝19789358886⏯⏯️⏯️ I can't believe am with my love again

@ClayAndrews 2 года назад

Glad you like it

@williamdolan7189 Год назад

I was told after coffee dates and thought things were going well and she told me to go build a happy life?

@jamesdeek7039 2 года назад

Clay help me please. She told me this at the beginning of the breakup. Then it was a rocky road of talking and not talking. She wanted us to move on with our lives. Said "how can you be in my life if you won't respect her wishes of not talking anymore" I've been in no contact for four weeks. We were together for 5 years and had a great close loving relationship. She gaslit me, blame shifted etc. Said she didn't want to give me false hope. So I gave her the breakup. It's difficult as I love her

@TSwisher 2 года назад

I dated my ex gf for 4 years and had a very close relationship, weve been broken up for 2 months now but still live together and see eachother regularly i try to give her as much space as i can but my fear of her moving on or talking to guys when im not around eats me alive. Weve gotten in fights cause i get so ancy and jelous. I wish i could control it. Cause now im at a point where i wanna make things right. But she says she wants nothing to do with me rn and wants me to move on. I find this hard to believe and want to believe she is just mad. Ive done so much for her. It breaks my heart it only takes 2 months after 4 years to move on like she is. Any advice? Is it too late for no contact? I wanna make her miss the good things about me

@Maxi-xt8qv 2 года назад

Hey James I'm in the same situation as you now. Can you please tell me what happens with you after no contact

@c.anders2746 Год назад

Lucky mate when my ex broke up with me and we lived together after 5 year relationship, she bullied me into leaving the flat after a month and found someone 3 days after I flew home on tinder

@hitmanlamar8544 7 месяцев назад

Did she come back ?

@jamesdeek7039 7 месяцев назад

@@hitmanlamar8544 haha interesting story, turns out she's in a relationship with the guy I told her to block and has been for two years, they got together a month after she left me, but the funny thing is last January, when I was in her town she spent a week with me and we hooked up the entire time. I thought she was single but apparently she was cheating on the dude she cheated on me with....with me. So my conundrum is , should I tell him.

@elimars7941 2 года назад

My ex is dating someone new,He seems happy....He actually told me I should move on.

@charlierose5566 2 года назад

✝19789358886⏯⏯️⏯️ I can't believe am with my love again

@chrisbajema8002 2 года назад

Eli I’m sorry bro, hers told me the same but that was before they started dating😮. 21 years and sneaky snakes takes the poisonous bride. Use your energies to get a better personal relationship with Jesus. He’s calling you, can you hear Him?

@biohazard8883 2 года назад

@@chrisbajema8002 you keep enforcing your own ideals on everyone. This ain't the right place to talk about your beliefs

@acemany1126 2 года назад

Then that's what you do Eli, move on!! Never be a door mat for someone who don't give a shit about you. FACTS!!

@chrisbajema8002 2 года назад

@@biohazard8883 I don’t push nothing. I merely asked if he could hear it. Can you too ??

@hleroklite 2 года назад

Think shes dating someone else. She says she doesn't want to be more than friends

@deeluton86 2 года назад

10 years two kids been broke up 6 months at first she reached out but i wasn’t feeling her at the time now the tables have turned she tells me to move on and keep it about the kids

@timmyblock6785 Год назад

Update

@timmyblock6785 Год назад

Update

@deeluton86 Год назад

@@timmyblock6785 a year and a half this chick is still trying to get me jealous all kinds of shit but we in a better space then before it gets to her that she can’t get a reaction out of me. I’m just focused on my career and providing for my kids if it’s meant to be it’ll happen if not it is what it is

@jennifertaylor9864 Год назад

Clay, you're sophisticated looking in your prescription lenses 🤓

@ClayAndrews Год назад

Thanks, Jennifer. :-)

@jennifertaylor9864 Год назад

@@ClayAndrews You're welcome on the sincere compliment. All your other subscribers were venting & ranting on this older upload of yours. However, you've taught me so much on "your way of being." Got to be present, got to be present 😂 No one else really noticed or acknowledged you or the present moment at the time this was uploaded. 😂

@gavwillams7018 2 года назад

My ex came out of a 1 year rebound was heartbroken and was ringing me and shes starting to show her true feelings for me now but she hides it. She views my stories etc and posts when we are in the SAME area or same place so that I see. Now ive asked her out she said no and no is still her answer and now completely blocks me. But im alright ive been healed. But she really confueses me. A rejection will nevr hurt me. Its fine im cool dw guys. But im tryna honest figure her out. Its like she loves me still and wants me but then she says she doesnt wanna be w someone from her past and we have bad past history but we are able to have good convos together well decent, i can sense her happiness talking to me. She asks me how i am etc and brings up a lot of past shit. So im confused she even said the other day for the first time she said “you can still care about someone from a distance”

@chiomaruth5105 2 года назад

It works out for me 1 got my ex lover back within 48 hours. I can help you out too Whatspp me to know how

@dnpaker84 2 года назад

She is confused about her feelings.. No matter what she say.. She is scared and confused.. Just be yourself 100%.. Being honest with you.. Women are unpredictable.

@gavwillams7018 2 года назад

@@dnpaker84 i thought the same bro, because we had our last convo and she got really emotional and she couldn’t decide whether she wanted me back but she said she loves me and leaving it to God. Im happy and sad at the same time

@dnpaker84 2 года назад

@@gavwillams7018 Yeah.. Same here

@mohitharsana42 5 месяцев назад

i dont know what are you saying i saw your crisis video you said you should ask directly if you want us to be together or you should say like ill move on if you will not take action

@ClayAndrews 5 месяцев назад

I understand, and direct communication is indeed important. If you're seeking clarity on the relationship, consider expressing your feelings openly. You might say something like, "I value our connection and need to know if there's potential for us to be together. If not, I need to move forward for my own well-being. Can we discuss this openly?". This is just an example as to how we communicate things with sensitivity in a more effective way. Honest and authentic communication can lead to a clearer understanding between both parties. I hope this helps.

@jeanpaulfelix4095 2 года назад

Answer without looking at Video : Move on and transform yourself. Get in the gym you lazy sack of sh%$. Go into your fortress of solitude and come out as superman. Next time she sees you in 2 months you will be a new man. She will want you back but remember its not going to work. After you split again move on for good! Find a new love.

@rachelann5049 2 года назад

Its been 6months since my bf broke up with me,is there still hope that I could possibly get back with him...?

@ruthhelen8876 2 года назад

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@ruthhelen8876 2 года назад

Whatspp Him for help

@ruthhelen8876 2 года назад

➕15626005682⏯⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ I can't believe am with my love again

@scottfoster4548 2 года назад

Forget these other spam replies. I'm a real guy and I'll speak on this one... First, think about what your relationship entailed, good times and bad times, and that will at least give you a foundation to anchor yourself to. Of those 6 months, how many good times have you had with him vs. all the nights of crying and beating yourself down? When my ex-wife left me, (for my friend), and took my kids, I did NOT handle it well. The depression was so bad I found myself slipping into old habits I had resolved to give up. Drugs, self-harm, fast women for meaningless sex, etc. It doesn't work. None of that shit works, and I'm not trying to be defeatist saying this, but it's over. Compare how many good days they are having and have had against the bad days and sleepless nights you've had. I'll venture to say that it's probably a fucked up ratio, and THAT is the point. Why them and not you? Why are you crying while they're laughing? Why can't you sleep while they can with their new interest next to them? In all likelihood they're getting their kicks in without a thought about you, because they know you're hurt. They know you want them back, and they probably figure once they scratch that itch, they can go back to you with no problems. Take my word, it'll happen and initially it might make you feel better, but really think about the mindset someone has to have to blatantly fuck you over knowing that they can do it again and again because you let them. That's what we call a sociopath. Its gonna hurt REAL bad letting them go for good, but they let you go first, so fuck em. It will take time to get your confidence back, and as much as we all love sex, you're going to have to let that idea go for a bit because the option is worse than the outcome. I'll be real with you, and pardon my word choice, but I fucking love to fuck. I do, and I won't deny that if asked. It has been a little over 2 years since my ex left me, and I haven't had any kind of intimacy or intercourse at all since then, and that makes me feel like shit. Makes me feel that I gotta go hook up with someone to validate myself. If that's what you want to do, then go do it, and I'm dead serious about that! Have sex because YOU want to, not because you feel you HAVE to, or that you HAVE to project that image so your ex realizes what they lost. It wont be easy because it shouldn't be easy, but its doable. Keep your head up and keep going. You got this!

@aminakesi8123 Год назад

My ex got married but want me as a friend should I accept his request 🤔

@KellyMichaelsTV Год назад

@jessicalong6011 Год назад

@pankusharma4570 Год назад

Noooooo

@oliviamalito2605 2 года назад

is there no hope to getting them back if they’re saying this to you rn?

@ruthhelen8876 2 года назад

Whatspp Him for help He is the best when it came to recovery relationship

@ruthhelen8876 2 года назад

➕15626005682⏯⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ I can't believe am with my love again

@jammies6228 2 года назад

@arefashionista Год назад

I don’t think so :(

@PiscesSun_Capricornrising Год назад

He told me this during an unexpected breakup. He didnt tell me he had any concerns, just vomited this during the break up. 1. we were about to move in together the next month 2. he said that i needed to initiate more affection and it was my fault. Started naming off miniscule things amd claimed he didnt believe i liked him 🤯 even when i reassured he said no you don't 3. "gave me permission" to block delete him and move on. He literally said "you can move on" There was no solution in his eyes. I felt it was an easy fix. But he spent 20min claiming i wasnt into him. Said maybe we could be friends. Then said it was ok if i moved forward. Spent 10 seconds saying maybe he wasnt mentally ready. It was the only part i felt was true. But in the end after i told him it was premature and solvable, I let him go. I apologized, just in case, but im now no contact after this mindf*ck

@TheVladimirFN Год назад

if you did most of the things right, then it's probably that he isn't in his masculine energy or can't access it at all in this stage of life, so he is really frustrated with himself. Sounds esoteric, but it was like that with me in my early days, when I've pretty much got a girl 100% hooked, but in reality I was too unsure of myself as a man, so I acted feminine and of course being like that didn't yield the results I craved, and it led me to resentment and frustration, which naturally manifested in me turning the girl off. Him blaming you for not liking him is probably the manifestation of his frustration for not being able to enable you to show him love the way he wants. Though it could also be your responsibility partially, but I don't know the full story really. I guess most of the time men or women are this destructive in a relationship, it's situations such as these: not being able to play your role properly, and then just giving up on the relationship by doing something reckless to vent their anger/resentment/frustration.