honestly the best thing to do is walk away… and find someone who’s actually ready and willing for a relationship. in my experience waiting around, adapting and acting like u dont want more just leads to dissapointment, him being complacent and taking u for granted.
Honestly, if you find yourself being attracted to emotionally unavailable men, and then trying to adjust your own behavior in hopes of winning his affection, earning his love or somehow changing him (to become someone who finally feels, sees you and openly shows love for you?), then it might be a good idea to reflect on your childhood and ask yourself why you’re doing this..
Even if he is unavailable.... Nobody says you are supposed to get him as a partner, but your classy attitude and non-aggressive attitude will show him and make him remember that one day as he gains his emotional strength and willigness, its possible for him to find true purpose in relationhip no matter whether it will be with you or with some other classy woman. He will remember: I met few classy women who did show me a way, but at that time I wasnt prepared for relationship but he will feel happy that such classy good women exist, who dont punisdh him, who dont force him to be with you, but who give him option to chose from If you remain calm and classy and give him option, to believe in love, it has many values you start liking yourself for being classy calm, not pushy woman, non-judgmental woman, who is able to maintain being calm and happy for your own mental strength second it will make you realise, this way you really inspire men to change and have option, to really chose good women and nolt following some apps you will inspire other women to be classy, not pushy, not judgmental about men and their mental transformation you will increase the possibility to really attract someone who has the same attitude and mindset about relationship. and even if you wouldnt attract good guy, you know that with right mindset you may remain happy even women without man, are able to live happilly, because they have classy and nice girlfriends.
My situation now and he's in and out. Smh I'm shutting down and not putting no more effort just basic friendship. If he wants me, he needs to put in the work
With emotionally un- available guys, it's really important to talk..........about the weather. And when you want to go deep....ask him... exactly what kind of weather does he like?
I’m going through that situation now. He admitted he is hurt from his previous relationship, he scares to be in a relationship. I back out and told him to just want to be friends and not more. Not giving him more than what you cannot handle
Emotionally unavailable means he wants sex with no commitment. In reply, just cut his sex meetings, meet in public places, do nonsexual activities and have fun yourself.
Alex Tnx you a lot to be honest becouse of you I realize my mistake about relastionship I'm so needy and begging now I slowly understand kick out that kind of emotion I have
Thanks again, Alex… You helped me yesterday through one of your videos. Instant help! The table turned and I’m here now, a happy woman equipped to know herself more and find her happiness in a relationship and marriage. Thank you, please.
I've done exactly what you teach here, without knowing! When he said he need a break, he need to breathe, I said to him that I understand, that I have a lot going on in my life too, my job, my hobbies, blablabla. When we talk, we keep a light conversation. He isn't in love again, but he still talking to me, I hope he really change his mind.
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert thank you! I'm watching your videos, and I can say I've been learning more with you, than any other coach in my country, in my mother language!! 🙏🏽🙏🏽
I'm in the same situation with an avoidant man. He shows interest and initiates all calls and messages but we're not together anymore. He asked to stay friends so I'm being a good friend but he still calls and chats with me in same manner and frequency as when I was his gf. He even introduced me to his childhood besties. I am trying not to be hopeful but it's hard some days 😅😅😅
stoicism and blocking emotions are two different thigs. but its true that when you have goal, job, or household stuff, you need to focus on goal with happy emotions, love empathy gratitude and healthily resolve negative emotions by not being attached to them, which makes you feel negative emotions are short term, which makes your heart blissful.
Hi Alex Why are men so complicated they are hard work. Life itself is stressful and then to have more stress from a man. I’m just looking for a connection with a man fall in love and live happily ever after.
Soo, we have two opposite ways, how to deal with men, when they're not enough into us.. and how can we tell, if he's emotionally unavailable or just lost interest?
The worst thing to do as well is sleeping with someone and then 2 months later what you’re describing happens!! So first impressions tell me everything! Enough time to walk away!!! 😢
In this video you say one should communicate emotional things but the first video of yours I watched before this one you said to NOT communicate emotions because it will push him away.
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Hi. 8 years with unavailbe man. We broke up 1.5 month ago. He didn't even said it. He just said he had no time. 😂 I tried no contact. But we talked about giving things back. He gave last thing yesterday. What to do? He didn't want to talk. It was only 2 min. Any chances there? Or it's over for ever. It was me who always started to talk to him after break up. And it resulted in another breakup couple months later.
Hi there! I have a vide on my channel that can help you with this! I hope you find the time to check it out: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-FsSxTmIDm10.htmlsi=LxTizrqD5jvF06Mz
Ah! Thats why he called me narc , because i feel that he's really emotionally unavail. Ill flirt with him one time. Then he gets mad, exactly what he said im narc 🤣🤣, he's insane. I met him dating online. He's so sensitive turn me off , but he is really very handsome, tall, but very sensitive like woman🥴🥴
Now Couch Alex., i don't know if he will be back again . At first he was emotionally unavailable. But another girl got his timing. Introduced her his family, went to their family, ...and now he says to me that he only loves this girl that he cheated on me with. Do i really still have chance here??, Please, i need help.# I'm so much heartbroken... I can't do without him
Hi there! I'm so sorry to hear about what you're going through. I know coach Alex would love to help you with this situation but he would need to know a little more information before he helps you with this. I would highly suggest you book a coaching session with him using this link! www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/ -FRE Team
Patience is a virtue, especially in love. Each person evolves at their own pace, and pushing someone to open up before they're ready can be counterproductive. To foster an environment conducive to emotional openness, focus on creating a safe space where your partner feels supported and understood, without pressure or judgment. It's also important to communicate openly about your own needs and feelings while remaining receptive to theirs.
Hi there! I know coach Alex would love to help you with this. I hope you can book a coaching session with him using this link: www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/ -FRE Team
I do not need to help anybody with such an type of behavour. I left him i am out of this kind of man. Nobody need to put his bss ans problems to other people. Never again
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert its ok), im very very strong . Its only good for me, i tale it as a big big lessin like in highscool.☺️ but your videos is realt hjelps people and it give like a push a wake up and tale a responsibility for own life. Only i can change it like i want and like i wish☺️
Hi there! If you want one on one advice, I would highly suggest you book a coaching call with him using this link: www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/ -FRE Team
