What Women ACTUALLY Notice (Tough Lesson For Intelligent Guys) 

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would be great if you started video by doing push ups or pull ups outside not you talking head

Sometimes I am surprised that how long you create content from something abstract))

Start off w/ boxing really boost convidence. For self defense, BJJ, Muay Thai, Luthwei, or Kickboxing

Very well said, man - extremely well thought out and succinct, my dude. You can always mention that skinny guys find it easier to get shredded, and bigger guys find it easier to bulk up...everyone can get an edge somewhere!

Wise words. :)

I just told this to my wife yesterday when she asked me why now we are old when you start caring for your body. The thing is i never heard this qoute from anybody before. Make me feel proud of myself to have a thought of something that socrates thought too.

@@aionwafu05 yes, Socrates is more relatable and palpable than ppl lead on. Much of his reasoning and values are commonsensical to those with sober minds. The idea you share is very powerful. You may enjoy reading the Charmades or the Symposium. Cheers

@@lukajung9051 Thanks for the recommendations

Already told thousand of years ago. Before the birth of Jesus himself.

oh and don't forget women are oppressed lol

Until they hit the wall.

Are you Italian?

Have noticed that as well. They can be essentially 'skinny fat' but as long as the all important pairs of fat bags are of the reasonable size and proportion they can generate interest without ever stepping inside a gym.

@@tamrix hitting the wall is a joke, as those women will always have guys going after them. Maybe not the man they want, but men none the less. And you can't say, just to screw, because that's what a lot of men just want anyways, even with the girls who aren't terrible.

@Karol Jeske and women what have to do with those things? you can be a respectable and successful human being w/o any women at your side.

@Karol Jeske Imagine being 40 plus with no job, education, friends, relationship.

@Hittem With The Slappa Whammy >39.9 year old

honestly cant be bothered with them anymore total waste of time

@Karol Jeske HA! You say that like a woman is gonna get him all that. Nobody can help someone who doesn't have that at that age.

This. Everything else falls into place on it's own.

Its great strategy. But sadly only when you have already good amount of experiences with dating and picking up girls

Amen brother you should want to be tour best for you and not for women

this applies to women attracting men too

@@jjkkmmmmjjib can u elaborate sir?

Facts! It also describes the Sagittarius half-man half-animal archetype in a very practical way...

Reminds me of the movie Major League 2 where Tanaka tells Cerrano, "Peaceful inside, outside WARRIOR!"

no one has a civil mind, they just convince themselves of it

What's the use of a savage body gym-bro if he's a blue pilled beta?

This is life

@@oscarchicalucena7980 women being “bad” isn’t a position taken up by red pillers, but that women are NOT the sweet, innocent little angels they’re sold to men as inherently being. Fundamental difference.

@Raja K Ghosh nah, no one ask you to go back. we ask you to go further. okay, we know what women truly wants, then what's the smart move. what do we *do* about that

@C Pryme maybe because they know there is leas likelihood of cheating with other wan?

@C Pryme You ARE the media narrative

@C Pryme lol have you ever been out of the house before? All you have to do is....look at the people around you If you see an overweight guy with a stunning woman...it’s an anomaly. It’s so abnormal that people develop a narrative to explain it. For example “he must have a lot of money”. 95 percent of the time, a fit and beautiful woman is going to have a healthy looking, lean man on her side. Channels like this would not exist if laziness were the key to prosperity with women. Sorry but someone lied to you. All you have to do is leave the house and look around and it becomes obvious. Doesn’t mean that fat guys can’t get girls. But if there were any truth at all in the fact that girls preferred out of shape men.... the entire fitness industry would cease to exist You are actually the one who has been tricked by the media. The entire modern narrative is an effort to tame men and take them down a peg and equalize everything.

Even if that's true, most is not all

@@KaydinGrace That's the point of the word "most".

I think you are hanging out with the wrong type of people.

How true!

@@KaydinGrace got it loud and clear, no person is worth my time. Not even myself.

They're fake as f

@@user-ww9ch the fakest people on the planet.

@Reise Reise height shouldn’t be a deciding factor in a relationship

@@Latifa-dx2qb it shouldn’t matter about height tho. i don’t care if a girl is taller than me, if she is perfect for me, idc about height

@Joona Ahonen No, i’m just saying girls go back on themselves

Always aim for the eyes first, make sure there is no vitness and disolve the teeth and bones in acid, the rest of the body can be boiled and feed to wild animals or pets

@@doppelhelixes very interesting, thanks I Heard that pigs if big and hungry eat even the bones

@@profetaisaiah5218 same for dogs and they are easyer to get. you need to think more practical. However the teeth are still a problem

Every boy and girl should be thought not to cause violence so that people don't have to stand up for themselves.

@Sixshooter 9 yessir

Grind boys?

I don’t wanna grind on boys

sesh time lets go champ

Yeah maybe a comma between grind and boys is necessary :)

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I’m sorry to hear you had these experiences that made you feel this way, however I have to tell you that there are woman out there (me) that love to learn and listen from/to a man talking about his passion.

@@aylamg I think that I've gotten pretty unlucky and surrounded myself with the wrong people. I always read that women love a man who is passionate about the things he does but I have not experienced this. The biggest example is my ex. She hated it when I talked about something I was passionate about but Im pretty sure this was largely due to the fact that she wasn't passionate about anything.

@@2pacorwhat I haven’t found mine yet either and sometimes I get a bit jealous when seeing others knowing theirs, but that doesn’t take away my happiness for seeing them having found theirs. It mostly inspires me to keep leaning about new things and maybe finding it through that. I hope you come across your intelligent, interested and loving person!

@@aylamg Thank you. You sound like a lovely person. Best wishes to you.

@@aylamg it's strange how some people can go decades without finding something they're passionate about. Do you not know what you enjoy doing? Such as dancing, singing, reading. I've known since I was kid that I want to rock climb ever since I saw men on tv scaling walls. It took till I was 19 but I'm a rock climber now

That is the place to be. Then you become the chooser and you can select women who ACTUALLY contribute to YOUR life, instead of just benefitting her own.

Very true. The girls I was dying to have 20 years ago were no match for what is easy today.

Humblecel

Easilyknockoutcel

Yeah, I do jiujitsu. I feel confident that I can choke out or break limbs of most men.

I got stabbed from forearm.I can't do anything now so am I done then?

A man who hasn't been tested cannot be trusted. Danger recognize Danger. Team sports, gentlemen, everybody wants to be center forward and captain, not everybody gets to be center forward and captain. Knowing your role matters in all aspects of life.

I had same experience, I eventually succumbed and went from 8->15%, gotta say the sex got better if anything...

She wants the upper hand

Same. I hated it a lot. Really beautiful girls wanting guys with dad bods before they hit 18.

Odd, I never been told that directly and I've always been relatively lean and muscular, even now in my early 50s. I'm not a big guy by any stretch and have generally stayed within 175 to 185lbs at 5'10" since college and at my leanest measured 4% body fat. There was a period of several years where I lifted heavy but even then the most I weighed was 195lbs. I'm blessed with wide shoulders and a narrow waist so I don't appear too thin. I've had women stare at my chest, compliment my abs, legs and back. Freaks me out that my oldest daughter (20 yrs old) has been dating my doppelganger for 4 years now ... he is my height, lean and surprisingly ripped. I should make a side note that it is not all good ... despite being "fit" externally, I have heart problems and am constantly battling my bp and cholesterol ... I will not likely live far into retirement, a likelihood I am painfully aware of. In support of your point though, people my age "hate" me (as they will (semi)jokingly tell me) because I'm naturally lean but what I will say is that it was a real disadvantage for me when I was young and only became an advantage as I got older. Throughout my teens to maybe mid 20s, my physique and looks (cannot grow a full beard to this day) made me appear much younger than I was and I just had a very difficult time being taken seriously. The women I preferred did seem to prefer bigger, more mature looking men. A couple of caveats though ... first, I seemed to get an unusual amount of attention from much older MILFs ... which is more appealing on paper than in real life. Second .. and it's funny now but not so much at the time ... near the start of my career, the company where I worked was located adjacent to a largely LGBTQ neighborhood and I'd say I got noticed more by men than women, routinely getting hit on. I will also admit that my own wife, while never telling me that I should 'have more body fat' or being critical of my body, has a preference for large burly men over guys with my body type. That's ok, I have a preference for shorter petite blondes ... which she definitely is not, lol.

Dude, they were testing you. You failed the test.

when they stop living to please and gain validation from others and actually stat living for their selves. something thirsty and primitive minded men will never achieve so simple let them be an live your life, things could be worst.

Because we men are so desparate for mating thus the demand is already high and additional girls make it harder to mate (Low Supply). That's why the girls have negotiate power over men. Well unfortunately it's has been seen in all other animals as well so you gotta deal with it.

@@hackwithharshil4334 Yep, it's pretty much just the sex. Women figure this out very early on because it's super obvious from their point of view, while most men are in the dark about it. If men had a way to switch the need for sex off, women would be in a lot of trouble because they would lose most of their value.

Women have the children. Duh.

@@mooilife2497 that's changing soon. Scientists have made artifical eggs from stem cells. The push is for gay men to be able to have biological children. They have already created artifical wombs for sheep, won't be much of a jump to humans. When this all happens and becomes normalized, then no, women won't be having the children.

You're not the only one, i had a similar experience 😎👍

Same experience for me but for boxing , every time I stepped in the ring I was nervous. The first punch in the air and it all goes away. Mike Tyson said he wanted to run away and cry minutes before his first amateur fight and he overcame his fear and knocked the guy out quickly . Never back down

When I did Kickboxing I suddenly felt cameraderie, important and full of confidence...ball busting and joking around felt incredible good... The higher it feels "scary"...the bigger your growth will be 😎🤴🏻

Better for what? You only need ONE woman. Well more if you want STDs.

I can reasonably say I am the first and last one, and funny given the right circumstances. Yet still a virgin. Luck plays a role too, and some peoples just suck (like mine)

@@LiamNajor I can say I'm all of the above but I'm tired of hearing " you're a great guy but if you were only taller!" pfft! I'm just over these shallow people! I'm done and have just walked away. I don't care anymore! 5'8

What if you have a severely picky eater?

@@aliciamarie9704 endure... but that doesnt mean to eat stuff you're allergic to. Theres always a way.

@@ghaldurinanubios4290 My child is the picky eater. He is skinny and tall. He doesn’t have much body confidence.

@@aliciamarie9704 I love the fact your looking out for your son, wish I had a mom like that lol. Just my opinion I eat meat mainly chicken all day every day I do great I run 7 minute miles(going for 6). And work out every day no lack of energy and only sleep with 5 hours and feel great, hard to get up but 8 hours or 5 doesn’t change that. So find something healthy with lots of protein for nutrition and something in high carbs for weight gain. But tbh don’t change him if he’s tall and skinny that’s not bad maybe encourage him to work out and don’t stop motivating and supporting him to do it. Plus tall and skinny is a chick magnet, not like it matters it’s about the confidence in the end of the day being fat, skinny, muscles, no muscles. I’ve doing great in all stages lol.

@@josedlopez4100 Awesome! Good for you & thanks for the suggestions/advice.

- don't add artificial flavours/boosters ...they will dull everything in the long run - half of taste is smell - work your tounge - Dry food is not enjoying, if saliva does not flow something is not right - warm is better than cold - don't forget dessert, but don't push to excess

@@DeepInsideZettaiRyouiki I agree on hot/cold, but as a treat, ice cream can be a nice treat every now and then.

Good stuff

Lol, your last point was a bit of. I can tell you from experience, that it is You that is responsible for everyones pleasure! They want to be led to please town, they don't want to drive!

@@chadcadsonvii5258 Noooo there's a point where you can't enjoy for someone else, uyou can cook the best dish that they like but you can't put it in their mouth and enjoy it. If you're in a discovery phase, that's different but somehow, at my age that ship has sailed a long time ago and the women I meet know very well what they need for a good experience.

But Doom is eternal

This is why you do it as if your doing it for God and of course yourself

What is for women temporary?

did you get laid after they approached you?? Cause from experience being laid back has 2 outcomes 1. if you are not attractive (my case) chicks approach you or are more receptive because they see you innocentlike and not as a threat in a friendly nonsexual way. 2. Women are receptive and it leads to sex as long as you are not that awkward in social interactions

Haha... me to...with socker or basketball ...but when it came to fights or both parties drawn blades, it was diffirent story. Some things are just bellow your dignity/interests and of woman consider this a negative, then shes low value.

The way he said it kinda cofuses me. Is there really some problem with guys that have great body but can't aim, throw or run fast? I'm far from great body but I know some great guys with great body's that are bad at throwing/aiming/running... they just lift weights

Bulk up & give 'em hell.

Some people don't have the gift. I am one of those.

I like long-range Gundam!

😂

Ore wa Gundam!!!!!!!

With the Dark side, instead of bending your being into society's expectations, you bend beings to what suit you. And cookies. We have excellent cookies.

I get it. We as males are always found lacking. This feels like a. Flavor of the month vibe.

Nailed it! Though most women don't want to admit it!

I see no lies.

bruh 1/3 of what women want is determined by genetics.

@@riglancer5473 As the old saying goes, looks do matter; especially on 1st impressions!

6years

@Reconsider your position it might not even surprise u, but she went on just 2 weeks after the breakup with a more lazy, immature, intellectual dickhead of friend of mine that only knew her because i introduced her to him through kindness. Never gonna do that again. In the retrospective, i prob was just attracted to her looks

@@symphony1966 yeah, we as men get very delusional about a woman's looks, even if they're complete assholes we only focus on that sometimes and that can very dangerous

you should have told her that she had an amazing body, but she's beginning to gain weight and it does not attract you that much

@@symphony1966 also, this isn't necessarily true to women, sadly your girl was just an idiotic asshole

@Xelbayria i can tell (from my Own experience) that this hurts so much I am sorry for him. Took me a year to get over it and Destroyed my self-esteem to a degree where it was almost nonexistent. Happily i am now in a better State, almost done with University and going to the Gym reguarly. Focussing on myself was the best desicion ever

Playing the drums, riding the bike and kickboxing does it for me.

same, I also play drums, but I don't play jazz though. I play rock and metal, the more violent genres. It gives me a play to coordinate my 4 limbs, but I can get a big sweat going.

@@Kashban you been playing the drums long dude? And do you find it benefits you in anyway in the kickboxing, like for coordination

Drummer here as well! I love to swim, but never got too confident with it! Time to work on it!

A close second is bass tuba in marching band.

Only lift if it's something you do for yourself and your own confidence, not for girls.

@@dmitrialeexev7131 Any reason is good

@@dmitrialeexev7131 Why? No one works out for themselves. They work out to get laid.

@@lylez00 I disagree , maybe at the start you do it to lose weight and have a shot but if you're good at it then you dgaf about pussy. I am a competing powerlifter and back when I first started I did it because I was fat af and wanted to lose some to be visible to women so my first year of working out was solely focused on bodybuilding but it quickly changed once I saw that my compounds lifts were growing extremely fast for my weight and lack of sports my whole life to the point where I am about to have some records under my belt. A man is the most attractive when he doesn't tryhard for women and that is a fact because it just oozes confidence and stoicism.

@@lylez00 no dude some people work out for their own health and mental improvement not to get those garden tools in bed.

Indeed, you create strenght and a good muscular weight and so the techniques of judo work even better

awesome

Not going to start a discussion about which martial art is better, but I recommend Brazilian jiu-jitsu for who's planning to start. It's one of the most effective and less tiring during a fight. Just immobilize your opponent and that's it.

@@Nyconbr It's based on judo

I do Gym and BJJ :) Did judo for couple of months at the beginning but switched to jiujitsu.

I do both and I agree.

You're mistaking intelligence for wisdom.

I can definitely relate. Heck, it is even hard to find a friend with such qualities! If I met someone like you on my campus I would 100% want to be friends (I study at Temple uni at present)

Very good comment, can relate, too. The "problem" I see in modern redpill community, is the whole dating down, lowering standards. I find that "high quality woman" is something totally different for me, than for most men I know. And it is OK, of course, everyone got their own perspective and goals. I went after low hanging fruit once or twice, experienced it, thank you, never again. Personally, when I hear some of my friends bragging about experiences with women, my reaction is "bro, I am amazed that you can put so much effort to learn game and tricks for mediocre girls". Like dude, seriously, all that self-improvement to hunt some 5/10 boring, entitled, lazy creature?

This is accurate. Perfectionism and Hero Complex often follow gifted people.

@@SerekWaniliowy900 Yeah, I have the same thoughts sometimes as well. I also tend to think that there really is no point in going into a relationship, unless there are prospects of it lasting a lifetime. It might be just me, but what is the point in dating for like a year, which so many people seem to do? You hardly even get to know the person properly in that time, I'd say. Nevertheless, I still think it's good to stay optimistic, whether it's hard or not. I'm sure these girls exist, somewhere!

If you have enough space at your residence I recommend considering purchasing a heavy bag. It's not the same as using at a gym but it can be a reasonable substitute. I used to have one in my room.

Train at home. Stop being lazy

@@Fernandotulumtrainer solo trainings are rubbish tbh...the way you get better is by sparrings with others and u cant do it at home by yourself...

Yep :(

@@Lukasz.Kaa09 lol you get to improve your cardio and stay sharpe. Don’t use that as excuse. And yes I practice. And yes I teach people. Don’t be lazy

actually its 3 ;D, visible from the outside: 1.money&status , 2.muscular body 3. not visiblue from the outside, big cock. But girls chat a lot.

3. sucess with other women. if they dont see you with others they think there is something wrong with you

1. face,body,height 2. money/status 3. preselected by other women 4. confidence 5. social skills

@@ShowMeYoBoob Can't imagine even getting one of those

@The Meowing Kitty that's you. You are being a sopisilistic woman. You don't speak for all women.

@doorn roos True, women are more open-minded to spirituality I think. Alles goed?

I agree. Meditation has improved my mind body connection. I am less in my head and more in my body.

@doorn roos Oh really, what an interesting discrepancy. Altijd goed om een gelijkgestemde Nederlander op youtube te zien.

@@DivineLogos yoga is not just stretching. That is the bastardized western form of yoga and is close to nearly completely useless. Yoga means union with god, and there are various forms of such as Raja Yoga, Karma Yoga, Bhakti Yoga etc.. Women harp on about spirituality yet unironically at these yoga retreats have no problems "hooking up" with a guy breaking one of the core precepts of yoga, which is celibacy.

@@jamestucker4800 Yeah I know, real yoga is different. When you do it the traditional way, like also practicing celibacy, it becomes much more beneficial in my experience.

Now just throw in some light MMA sprinkled with some boxing/kickboxing to get stress out of your system and you are in the right path. These can develop your anger management skills and help you deal with your inherent aggression, specially if you find a gym with a good teacher and good fighting buddies.

I agree. Things like handstanding, balancing, etc. are great and achieving them is amazing experience.

Calisthenics does not trump weight training. It's all about individual goals and both weightlifting and calisthenics have their places.

@@Supreme_Lobster This guy is right and so is Deji D.

@@zerothehero123 yes you're right but if the goal is functional ability, body building is the most useless excercise. Lifting heavy weights with compound movements is great though. But it doesn't compare. A lat pulldown machine can't come close to developing the ability to do a pull up. The instability aspect of bodyweight training, especially with gym rings, gets at the heart of what Alexander is talking about. Too much weight training movements and equipment stabilizes you and locks you in place. It's too isolating and you can generally only work on a single plane.

All it takes is one idiot not paying attention and you're done for. I'll stick with my dirt bikes. Ride safe and watch your 6.

Good to hear that ur making a difference but don't even wait take up a class. I was 280 in January and took up Brazilian jiu jitsu and now im at 230. With a decent diet, you'll get fit in no time. And bjj is all about leverage and momentum so its the most practical martial art for the body. A couple months and u can take on most normal ppl in an altercation. Its a life changer.

BJJ and Muai Thai are great, learn striking, movement etc

It sound like bullshit to me. I fell god in my skin and that doesn't get me any girls. I don't even understand this relationship with your body, trust etc. It's your body. You can't have more relationship with your body, you are stuck in it and you know what you can do so how can't have trust in it?

After getting some treatment for some health problems (found I had some food allergies), I got back into Kenpo at 250lbs. Eight months later I was down to 210. Still fat, but not like I was. So two things were going on. I had to change my diet, which took out a lot of carbs. And I got regular exercise to gain muscle and burn the fat off. In beginner martial arts, you don't need to be fit when you start. That will come as a consequence of the work you put into it.

Nonsense. I’ve had this worse then you could imagine. The gym will literally rewire your brain ( neuroplasticity ) for all the development potential you had stunted. Now this doesn’t mean it’s permanent. Any trigger will relapse you based on past coping strategies. This is why you have to keep pushing to grow physically. But you’re right about the mind expanding “journeys” otherwise the gym and physicality become their own coping mechanism. All this to say, you can heal, friend. I believe in you

@@jjh2k224 I think that's what's happened for me. The gym has become a coping mechanism. Like after I'm done at the gym I'm back in bed. I have no desire to do anything else but sleep after a workout. Trying to heal, but you know how it is - 1 step forward, 2 steps back, 3 steps forward, 2 steps back, etc. Thank you for the kind words :)

That is a valid point. I have had a similar experience growing up and it affected my ability to socialize immensely. I've personally done a lot of mental and physical work on myself to the point it is noticeable. I have had relationships when I thought it was not possible, and I can talk my way through conversations now. However, there is still that disconnect. That feeling that something is 'off' or that I am the odd one out. Not every conversation goes as planned, some girls still get the ick look if I am myself. The process of healing takes a very long time, so be patient and enjoy the small victories along the way. Going to the gym even as a form of meditation will help alot and is a fantastic base for believing in yourself as said in the video.

I discovered I am neuro diverse since childhood...a neuro motor endocrine hormonal developmental disability....could water and snow ski but anything else I was so clumsy. At 66 y/o still divorced from my body even after years of yoga , water aerobics etc...you can shift it some but at a certain point in life its important to accept what is and make the most of what is. thank you for your comments Mr Shao

Where did you take these guys may have " develop mental neurological" issues? These guys at most are just sedentary without muscular memory after years without getting any phisical exercise. Once they exercise, work out, they'll get some muscle and get to have a better mind-body connection.

I played world of warcraft growing up And yes, I am probably mere months away from killing myself

Don't have much evidence as to why, but don't, if you still can.

just go to the gym and workout for an hour, its not hard. i dont like it necessarily but i manage to do it everyday

Swimming and any type of martial arts require the most coordination and are fun sports.

Ah the good ol' reliable run from the cops

underrated comment.

You gonna start eating soon? Fasting for a year and a half straight seems a little dangerous 8)

You sound like you and me could switch lives for a while and nobody would notice it's so similar.

Easily the best way to engage with the opposite sex. I'm not very social but I can understand the importance of mastering this kind of female dominated environment

@@hectormejia5090 oh it's female majority, but it's certainly not female dominated.

Best comment ever!

If you want a steak you need a job. You don't have to have it but you'll be hungry. I'm sure you know this but still decide to type all that out.

Work for your true partner that'll share every second of your life : yourself

Well because everyone should work on themselves, anybody who goes "ehhh I work out for myself not for women" is probably lying

@@saifullahkhalid286 That's silly... It all depends on the dudes mind set. 💪

Ok weird fantasies you have.

Especially in boxing. Rhythm in boxing is next after technique. Then stamina. Watch "Golovkin leading the dance"

Stay strong brother 😁

Es lebe Preußen!

cool!