When are men and women MOST ATTRACTIVE?: peak sexual marketplace value by age 

Would you mind answering my question sir ??

@@carlosdixan112 no

Don't you think men like younger mates for youth? Looks?

I can see a huge problem with this study and with the conclusion you drew in another video. It’s problematic to compute a single attractive score across the age groups. There are many desperate professional women in their late 20’s and 30’s. Their standards are (unreasonably) high. It is very possible that they select established men in their 40’s and 50’s. The younger women probably care less and probably pick guys for fun. So men’s attractiveness peaks at 50 possibly for only women older than 28. But since there are so many of them clicking on tinder, even though their average attractiveness is lower than that of 18 year olds, their number skews the result in favor of the 50 year old established males.

It would be great to compute a pair wise score between age groups.

My buddy's dad says it's not true that women want money. "That's not true!"...he said.

​​@@Kenny-Ross They want it all. Money assets, your house, car, the kids, financial suppory, alimony. I found this out when I got taken to the cleaners in divorce. My advice, just don't get married. That way you will not end up as someone else's slave & you will be happy.

@@SunRise-ul7ko Marriage is risky. And statistics show women leave way more than men. They’re quicker to bail in relationships. It’s not being pessimistic but accepting reality. Then they’re rewarded for it.

Exactly! I start out with a few checkbook squats, follow up with a credit card roll. Then for a climax, the homeowner's deed curl! That last really makes their mouths water!

@@SunRise-ul7ko Exactly. You will end up getting divorce raped, which is worse than prison rape because you don't even get a kiss!

Good breakdown My thing is with men is why do we always start with the 18 year ago female? 18 year olds are too young for 30+ men. The starting point should be 20 to 21 in my opinion. What are we going to do with a 16,17 or 18?

Great comment! Very accurate. Women in their early 20s do NOT find 50 year old men the most desirable

​@@MDCigan Generally you would be correct in America because people have been conditioned to dates similar age is because of patriarchy accelerating men into their Prime earlier however a forty-year-old accomplished man can easily pull 20 year olds all day outside of the West where age Gap is more commonplace

@@Flyzel....interesting take. What about in porn? Or why not just move the age of consent to 21? 18 is apparently not an adult so let’s move it up

@Flyzel.... yeah, hut the thing is it depends on the age a 20 something year should and could definitely sate an 18 year I would say 31+ would be a problem but that's just me if someone isbattracted to an 18 year old just leave them alone just leave them bebits their decision and its their feeling ( s ), don't invalidate it that's why we have so many mad people across the us now,,,,. today,,,,.

Yes. It's odd that it seems so many people are hard struck on this idea that what they think is ideologically correct to them is somehow in alignment to what they want through their actions and behaviors. When it's very rarely in alignment at all.

But that doesn't mean that's necessarily what we want,.

@wisdomandy9361 but that doesn't mean that that's necessarily what we want, people who do actions and not words are not necessarily doing what they want actions doesn't mean any thingnif that's what they were told to do all their lives if it is a case of mass hysteria like whatnis going on with a lot of people jow adays with mass psychogenic illness, it doesn't mean that's what they want that is just what they're told they want it is not thatbsimple and it is not thus simple people are fed lies they're entire life yet they do what they were told especially agreeable people especially really agreeable people and so on people only know what they truly want when they're dopamine is firing on all cylinders when they're doing it not when they're not doing it when it comes to people when its not very in alignment at all that could come from many factors it just depends on the situation it does not depend on the entire idea of the situation it depends on the person if you don't have any thing to strive for you're never gonna do it really even if you want to do really it people are attracted to ideas nothing else thatbis what keeps us going nothing else our actionsbare a different totally thing you can't compare that and say actions don't alignment with what I say and or think we'll its like who are what do you want what ideas do you have it is not the thought process and the thinking that doesn't align with the actions that is the most accurate it is the thought process and the thinking that doesnt align with the ideas that is the case,,,,,. ,,,,,.

@@wisdomandy9361 a lot of people are a lso talking about what they want long term but for now they'll just do whatever until they get there that is what they're talking about a lso,,,,,. ,,,,,.

@@wisdomandy9361 people a lso do what they want out of fear because they have to in that moment or out of acceptance or whatever and they do what theybhave to in that moment and people a lso do thing in the subconscious and the conscious thosebare two different things by the way what your subconscious wants and what are conscious wants are two different things by the way which in fact if you figure out what they both want then you can figure what you want then people can figure it out in the sense that sense that that you youncan balance them out and figure out something good for yourself people's wants can conflict action trying to make it simple to put a complicated issue in to something with a simple simplicity mindset mindset eill keep you not from seeing the whole picture and messing you up,,,,,. ,,,,,.

Probably you are somewhere in the Western world, correct? Plenty of divorcees and second-divorcees. Go to Eastern Europe, for example - and dating options for a 50 year-old are very close to zero - ALL women are hitched at that age, married with children. I don't think I've ever met a 50 year-old single woman of Eastern-European origin. Other ages women - you might think? Sure...usually women in this region get married towards the end of University [which virtually ALL of them attend] or just after - meaning around the age of 23-25. So any women older than that - is already taken. The "leftovers" - trust me - are leftovers for "a" reason [actually many, many reasons, speaking from personal experience]. Women under 25? If you are 50? Don't be silly...they see you as a father-figure at best, or "creepy old man" at worse :)

Don’t do work that ruins your back, and you will be blessed in the sack.

@@ThePompeii The problem is you're looking at the *average* 50-year old man in such situations, and you have to keep in mind that the largest majority of men do *not* actively do (or have done) anything to fully maximize their potential... Just like if all you do is look at current statistics, you'd find the large majority of the population is overweight, not physically fit and on very bad diets... so mortality rates will reflect this directly. But what of the people who decides to exercise regularly and follow a heathy diet? Do they not stand a better chance at overcoming those stats on health and mortality? It's really the same exact thing here... those men who work hard to improve themselves financially, physically and socially *always* stand a much better chance at a successful dating life than *most* men who take very little to no action in these areas of life.

@@ThePompeii he is dating 25-29 year olds friend

@@davepazz580Spot on. average 50 year old person looks like trash. They never built their life and themselves

@@js77z I agree, majority have not taken care of themselves. They don’t exercise, eat like crap and get no rest. However, there are exceptions.

@@js77z a 57 year old was just named the “Sexiest Man Alive” by People Magazine.

@@js77z So you'd never give a chance to a guy like Bradley Cooper or Jared Leto? I'm sure they're gonna be crushed 😁

@@js77z So it's about personality or a number that's a deal breaker then? Brad is turning 49 this year as I am, so not really far off from 50 right

It could be that 50 is “where peak attraction occurs” not “where peak attraction is for MOST men”

@@bob15479 I mean I've read about different studies that say that men peak at around 35 from an overall attraction point of view, like they're still not old and they should have figured out their lives by then. That being said I'm almost 50 but because I look quite a bit younger I stil get to enjoy the gaze of younger women and some, not knowing my real age, have actually told me that they'd never date a guy in his 40s even because it's kind of gross and he's an old man (their words) hahah

It's important to never take any woman's words so literally, as they say a lot of things out of momentary emotion or simply to sound "proper" among people... If these women saw you with an actual young 20-something girlfriend having a great time (i.e. her status getting a boost from being your partner), trust me, they'd all quickly start re-evaluating this idea...

Truth is that men find 15-17 year old females the most attractive.

Maybe perhaps... but even so, u can't date someone that young... too immature... too unbearable at that age... not worth the trouble or time... 20s!

Of course it’s grown. He’s exactly like a career politician that’s been trained to lie or spin facts and promises things that won’t come to be real in the real would. Take a look around the next time you’re out. Do you see a world where 50 year old men have 18-24 year old females on their arm? I highly doubt it because young females don’t want old men. They want attractive guys around their own age. If you want facts, then look out in the real world. His data, his ga to only tell me, in mens private lives, they WANT females that are barely legal age for them but wanting and getting are two different things. If an old man is with a young girl, more than likely it’s for money but he’s gonna get dumped as soon as his age starts showing up with health problems. I’m not trying to burst any bubbles of hope but that all that this guy is doing… is selling hope. Selling his channel for profit. Sorry but the real world tells the real truth. Look and see for yourself

I used to listen while driving from and to work. Told some of mates who liked the idea of the content as well.

on youtube even mudbang videos have 10K subscribers. Even Andrew Tate has followers.

☝️This here. There is no way woman thinks 54 year old Erik is more attractive than Charlie in his late 20s. Unless Erik can make shit loads of money he will be behind Charlie.

Truth

You have power over them? This is a typical example of a modern woman whose delusion is insane. You're giving your box to him and you exchange it for money. Your value goes down as well as your mental health. His value stays the same and even increases. How exactly is that more power for you? Enjoy your cats and box wine because nobodies gonna want that used hole after it's had its best years.

And??? Yes, the 18-25s are looking like mad for suggar daddies. They are still off the dating market looking for their daddies. And you know what? That is cheap and easy sex. It is their problem that they are wrecking themselves completely and that they will be completely incapable of ever having a stable relationship.

yep there is something wrong with his quick conclusion because IRL you never see 30 years of age difference in couples.

Yeah it’s clearly nonsense. I could understand 40, but 50? Nah bro.

Next year, the lake dries up

@@ThomasFoolery8 I'm 52. In the past week I had dates with women who are 21, 26, 27, and 46. The 46 year old is crazy. I'm sure old ladies would recommend her.

@@ThomasFoolery8 In the year 2000 my girlfriend explained that age 50 is the peak for a man because we must consider his increasing salary and fading looks. 35-55 is prime for a man.

@@bigneiltoo you’re lying and delusional. I’m 40 and still have a full head of hair with some grays on the side, but otherwise in shape, and I make $434k/yr now, and the quality of girls I get has dropped steadily from around age 33 when I was only making $150k/yr. Age 33ish (depending on how fast you age) is the peak for most men. Young pretty girls (which I assume we are all chasing) want a man who still looks like he can perform well in bed, that still has some money to spoil her. So even at $150k, she’ll date you if you spend most of your paycheck wining and dining her and you’re still somewhat young (early 30s). By 40, you’re literally trying to bribe them into sleeping with you since you look older and there is a smaller class of women who may go for that, but it isn’t many.

Gross.

In nature: women value men who treat them with respect and have great life together.

But peak fertility for women is from 18-22,23 and then drops. Not just 18

@@bsbsvvsshvshsyou talk about averaged value, fertility of particular women may huuugely vary, some men and women are sterile and it's not visible. Men and women e unable to asses fertility if othés just sing naked eye and senses without deep medical exams and actual attempts

@@bsbsvvsshvshs peak fertility for women is 24 creep, whats with the comments section here being filled with pedophiles? why do you males want underdeveloped bodies and faces over actual grown women?

As a long-time viewer of this PsycHacks series, I can attest that Dr. Taraban has grown pretty fearless in his truth-telling here, in the name of science. Kudos to him.

@@larryrobx Agree!

@@larryrobx I agree, but I do not believe he will be able to keep it up. I’m an academic partially destroyed by truth-telling myself, so I’m skeptical. I have been enjoying the videos, though.

@@goodlyantics.5243 That is quite unfortunate and disheartening to hear, but we need people like you and him to keep telling the truth. We cannot surrender to the idealogues.

@@joseph6243 Thank you

If they're over 30, don't look too deep into it bro, it's usually because at that age the clock starts ticking down for them and they get desperate

@@ams6454yup, they are trying to secure the bag as they say. They are looking for a retirement plan, and they know older men usually have assets and their finances in check.

Women are like Banks, they ll give you credit when you dont need it

I have somewhat similar experiences. I had always trouble finding girlfriends in my teens and early 20s, and it only changed after I became a fairly well known music artist in my country that brought be most of my girlfriends. Now as a 40 year old, I still get matches (and dates) in dating apps with women from 20 to 35.

at 47 I dont feel awkward about any of my preferences. Men mature as they age

After reading "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrrion, one thing I understood is the essence of masculinity is to: • Be absolutely ruthless & unapologetic • Send invitations and not permissions • Fuck everyone & the world

Another interesting study would be how the fathers of 18 yr old girls feel about old men wanting to get inside their daughters 🤔

@@gabbsdy8741 That's not what the study says. It says that 18 years old girls and 50 years old men receives the most messages from opposite sex, of all ages, asking to go out with them. It does not say 50 years old men are messaging 18 yo girls. In fact, it says 50 years old men are the ones receiving messages, instead of the ones sending them.

@@georgedang449 that is very unlikely. Only way I could think of is thought of security that older man may provide. Even in that case I'd still never initiate contact overtly with an older man. I'm 22.

What's the youngest woman you've managed to pull?

Women don't give a sh!t about body building. Do you pay attention to them? Pay for dinners? Buy gifts?

Men age like wine, and women age like milk.

Agreed, if the 50 year old dude is low on the socio-economic scale, overweight, bald, with no swagger, no social-awareness, awqward, went through bad times that left a mark on him psychologically [1-2 divorces, and stuff like that] - not necessarily all at once or all of the above, but SOME - he won't be attractive to women

99% of men are unattractive to average woman. Women reject ALL men at first glance. It’s evolutionary and survival tactic

Sadly. I dont drink, don’t eat meat. Somehow I am fat any way (I am Polynesian). Balding. Had one disasterous relationship. I have become that creepy loser that scares women. So I just leave them alone know.

@@sleepinggorilla If this doesn't bother you, just keep leaving them alone. It's not the worst one can do. If this does bother you, change it. Nothing is hard in life with discipline and the right mindset. Losing weight is fairly simple and can be easily reached within a few months or years. Getting women might be harder or easier, dependent on your current assets (wealth, confidence, humour, knowledge, listening skills, Game skills, style and looks, ...). However, it will get easier with every experience you make. I had to learn it from 0 and tbh, I probably wouldn't have started if I knew how often my feelings would be hurt and how harsh this whole experience would become. But I kept going, learned from every experience and it became easier. After my last breakup it took me between one to two months to find an other woman with whom I could replace the regular sex. And I am certain that it will get even easier than that, as long as I keep moving forward. You shouldn't look at "the creepy loser" as a set state of yourself. We all change with every day and it is your responsibility to control the direction of this change.

HAHAHAHA

True well said

Has to be financial success because that's what eliminates the young men most of the time. They don't demonstrate competence so they aren't appealing.

Ppl actually lie on anonymous polls, because they try to convince themselves they're moral citizens. This is hard data points, not poll. It's actual messages asking someone out. The walk, not the talk.

For the most part I agree. However some controlling ladies want a younger man so they can controll him, and some older ladies want a younger man so they can get There back blown out

It took me years to learn and accept this. Good thing I’m older now (much older) 😂

I've always gone for men my own age, as have most women I know.

@@js9273 What makes a better relationship is compatibility and work.

@@nilighosh158 big age gaps are not typically compatible - and the idea that women are at their most attractive at 18 and men at 50 is for the birds.

It depends which 50-year-old guy... they're not all the same.

Women in their 20-24 are in their party phase. They're looking for "experiences" to populate their IG account to get r exposure and more "experiences". Not the same with left overs, they want long term "security".

@@mbg9650 leftovers are the result of what you said at the beginning

Bruh, you still believe underage girls are celibate? You‘re in for a rude awakening, because they‘re getting tossed around by the same men most women go for anyway. 😂

Yeah, they really should have calibrated that model to see who the 18-25 women were messaging. I got my hopes up at 50, but if it's just 35+ then pointless. I'd rather stay single and not risk the wealth I've accumulated for sloppy second-thousandth...

I think that would have been a very defined point if that was the case.

as a 26 year old woman, I hardly disagree on his take. Men in their mid 20s to mid 30s are at their peak

And without that, the other is pretty much worthless...

I couldn’t agree more!!! These men touting this stuff on utube about women actually really wanting a man that’s much older is only for ratings! It’s like a trained politician that knows lies gets you votes! In my opinion, it’s only encouraging perverts to have a green light to go after 18 year olds. In my world, my husband wouldn’t let a 40 year old come near his daughter without repercussions! Let alone some old 50 year old man. JUST YUCK’🤢

He said it starts to decline when a woman reaches 18 which means it’s at its peak when she’s underage therefore most men like children basically that’s grimy and sad asf. Being sexually attracted to minors is just too Normalized. Too many young girls deal with SA by the hands of a grown man that knows better because things like this being seen as ok

*it’s at its peak when she’s underage therefore most men like children basically that’s grimy and sad asf.* Complete bullsh*t and you know it...

Only if you are loaded and want to be a gold digger magnet !

yes, there is no rush for a man at 34. but like Agotha said you want a woman who likes YOU not just your money. so please stay fit, energetic and youthful as you age or you will just attract scumbag women.

I think it's 30 for men. To say it's 50 is nonsense. I think this study is misleading. And the reason I say it's 30 and not 25 is simply because 25 year olds can get younger girls than 30 year olds but there is simply a larger population share of women past 22 than below within the population of women that take part in adult dating and women always want a woman who is a couple years older. In a 30 year old man's case, there are a lot of hot women in their 20s for that 30 year old man to date, even though they will be less hot than the 25 year old's options, though the 25 year old man has such a narrow slice of the population that want him. Most 19 year olds won't date a man who's 30 but 25 is fine. Most 18 year olds want a guy usually no older than 21. Most 20 year old women want a guy up to about 30 maybe. As for the 50 year old man, he's sought after most probably by women 35-50 years old, and this is an even wider age range, but who the fuck wants them? For that reason, I say it's 30 for most men. The reason I say most men is because most men never strike it rich. If they do, their options in non-sugar baby women will skyrocket but the only super young ones who will date them will be status obsessed/party girls who are more prone to using men, rather than old-fashioned romantic girls. In order to get girls romantically, even if you are rich, I think you need to meet a minimum looks threshold for women.

@@bijoubijoux5185 good analysis and i agree.

@@bijoubijoux5185 I'm seeing a trend of men believing women want younger men and women saying they always had a preference for older men. 30 is too young as it doesn't account for the natural increase in mens wealth in their later 30s to mid 50s. Look around and you'll be shocked how many young women are into older men.

as a woman, don’t be so gullible. It’s good that you feel well about your age but men’s peak is late 20s to mid 30s

In rare cases i would say +7 years is the highest most women would date

Hell no.

No they do not. I wouldn’t want a 50 year old even if I were 30.

It depends on the age of the women. They want two things: security and fun. Younger women prioritize fun. Older women prioritize security. Security = a provider, someone she knows will take care of her needs. Fun = someone who can fulfill her lust, need for experiences and adventure. Since women can’t always find the full package in one man, they attempt the following: Young women keep a main sexual relationship with the fun man, and have multiple provider orbiters on the side to string along for security. If we are talking about older women, chances are she is in a “committed” relationship with an older man, yet goes out on girls night for fun hookups to fulfill her need of fun. If you did a good job at screening women, shouldn’t worry about your partner engaging in this type of repulsive behaviors. Even though all women are capable, doesn’t mean they will all engage in repulsive behaviors, but if they, you can expect it to be one of these two. Millennia old wisdom says that all women have one hair of the devil. So one never knows really how a person might be or change. So to answer your question: Not likely at that age unless they have a kink.

Women here. Definitely not

Men are upset when they disqualify as well. even resort to physical violence & force.

​@@nstar1372I don't think using a very small and psycopathic part of the population like rapists is a genuine argument for the way most men react to rejection. Try again

Just because men want a young beautiful girl, doesn't mean she wants you. Most of the time it's about money for these young girls. I date younger men and they spoil me and have long-term relationships with them. Many women like me are killing it and we don't have to pay for it. But men can keep dreaming. My nieces are in this age of 18-25, they don't want to date their fathers, they crush on young boys and date only 1 or 2 years older.

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You must be out of your mind. Dunno about men, but as a woman I look for a friend and a mate, not a leader, not a boss, not someone to support me, because I make my own money, and a man that'll choose me just because of ME, not because of my capacity to give him children

​@@Brenda-ny1gwif you aren't willing to give him children that's a deal breaker for a lot of men. Men just don't care about your education or career accomplishments. That's a masculine trait.

@@rwentfordable There's no woman or man in the Lord

The minority

I actually thought 30 was the most attractive age, especially for yougner women

@@c4blew I’m a old fart who takes good care of himself. Trust me, I get way more attention now, than when I was in my 20’s and 30’s 😂

@@sfrealestatedealmaker6001 But are you more attractive or just attracting more from larger pools?

As in older women can only go for older men anyway.

It is 38-40.

Some people are at their peak in their early twenties (for a multitude of reasons they suit youth) and then go to pieces - but this is equally true of both sexes. Slightly more for men, if anything, because they are less likely to look after themselves.

They didn't say 50 year old men pair up with 18 year old women. They said those are the years when we have the most options. And if Leonardo DiCaprio asked out an 18 year old woman in her prime she would jump at the chance. Personally, I think age 21 is prime for a woman.

​@@bigneiltoo joke /dʒəʊk/ noun a thing that someone says to cause amusement or laughter, especially a story with a funny punchline.

Spot on no joke. Nu Nu Nu N.W.O

I'm 49 and I'm dating a 22yr old. I look considerably younger than my age, therefore, people have NO idea that there's such a large age gap between us 🤣

@@handsomeX Can you actually have stimulating conversation?

to simplistic however, you can't forget that there is a taboo here, these girls have families and friends who talk, people wil see the older man as a groomer and the girl as a golddigger or in the best case as a victim. girls also realize that an older man wil also give them fewer years,... essentially yes men wil have most options when they are (fit and succesfull) 35+ .... for girls that fall within their age group or are at least over 25, an 18yo might want to taste the grey fox in the club but dating one is a whole other story

Spot on

I am 40 years old woman no kids. I never had so many 20 years old guys chase me in my life. Nowadays younger guys are completely going for older women especially if she actually doesn’t look like witch is my case. So today I can date guys in my age and younger and even 50wish because I am still young for them. On top of that I speak Portuguese (I am Brazilian) Spanish and English. The only thing we need to have when dating is not a scarcity mindset. There are fucking 7 billion people in this planet man and women are capable to find one for themselves.

@@zensleep2321 oh sure, few of them want anything serious though

@@istoppedcaring6209 I think if women know this and don't take younger men seriously it can be a lot of fun...women's libido goes up in their 40s while men's go down (we gain testosterone while men start losing it). Realistically, not many people are fit for anything serious in this day and age...not the 18 year old girl nor the 30 year old woman. So why shame people for not being in one and just let people live.

What is it that you're really asking? Personally I prefer women from my own culture, i.e. women who eat meat like I do, and who like traditional food like I do. This is extremely important for me because I don't want to be surprised by "exotic" traditions or differences in my daily life; things I don't understand, or cultural problems or confusions I have to think hard on solving. Even dating a vegetarian is a strict no-go for me. For some reason or another vegetarian women seems to really love me, but it's a hard pass because how can I ever enjoy a simple meal with such a woman? How can I raise children with such a crass moral difference in our lives? One of these women said that we could find ways around it, but sorry, I just can't. How am I supposed to enjoy simple things like family meals, when every meal has to be prepared with the added expense of having a veggie side dish? Certainly I'll be forced to eat more vegetarian too, which is just - no! That's a hard pass! Thank you! So, my woman needs to both eat meat, and be able to prepare traditional dishes. In the least those dishes need to be European, but preferably Norwegian like myself. I'm sorry if this hurts the sensibilities of some people, but the fact is, alike plays best with alike, and I just don't want to deal with a family witch completely different cultural values than my own. Instead I want a simple life, where I don't even have to consider such things, and were we can just make simple meals together, and rather than pine over whether we should have these or those things in the dish, just be done with it, and enjoy our time together instead. As such, a vegetarian, or foreign woman just increases the risk of irritants or contention in our relationship. At the very least, if I were to date a foreign woman, she'd have to _fully_ adopt my country's culture, and that's far easier to do if we already are close culturally speaking. In fact, if that's the case, I could probably try some Swedish or Danish dishes or traditions, no problem. Even Polish ones. I love Polish cooking! Because they're already very similar, and there's no confusion or possible points of contention in how things are done.

@kebman good example. Foreign depends in your perspective. Behavior is what I'm talking about but food is one good example.

That’s really what this study is saying.

@@LemurKrazy It's also pointing out men never care about a woman making more money. Single moms send their girls off to college so mommy can be a Cougar with the 30 something guys who traditionally would have married her daughter.

waht about sexual experience, leadership role, life experience?

@@WhateverWhateverwtghvh Yes, those are definitely high up there.

@@dr.jenniferma3914 yes so its not just money, a 20 year old that makes 6/7 figures still aint shi**.

I guess this is why Sex and the City shows women not pursing marriage and being happy as spinsters to their grave, right?

@@Vkob Hi! Well, I don’t know too much about that show but one thing I’ve observed: by the time a woman is old, she’s taken care of a husband, children, her own parents, her husband’s parents, and usually some neighbors or friends of her parents. No regrets, of course it feels good to take care of others but when we’re old it’s finally time to do some things for ourselves. I love everyone I’ve helped but it sure is nice to finally have my life back and I can do things I’ve always wanted to do.

the least happy demographic is actually middle aged single women. so your anecdotes dont represent the population

Yes and No. Some older single women don't appear very happy and don't adjust for age or attitudes. Some of course are happy and content. Comes to down to perspective and mindset.

@@LisaMarie-eh7upyou’re far overvaluing your contributions.

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Ha ha - 100%!

Is it because you feel like a huge weights been lifted off your back? Like no more pressure, time or energy wasted on a futile game that’s yielded no results?

@@y_limit_yourself yes exactly

Try learning basic punctuation before lecturing us on maturity.

what's maturity got to do with attractiveness, exactly?

@@ThePompeiiand what’s money got to do with attractiveness? Attractiveness is a whole package. If you can’t form an emotional connection, which requires maturity compatibility, you will be turned off. Same for a rich man that lacks in looks, personality or whatever matters to the woman he deals with.

the comment section is basically filled with peodphiles and there is no evidence to prove that an 18yo is the most attractive, this man and his subscribers simply are peodphiles, had the legal age been lower, you'd see ''13 year olds are the most attractive'' shit, its crazy how e have grown males attracted to highschool students than to actual grown woman, a man who'd go after an 18yo will go younger and that's sad, we got predators before gta 6 man

You're the man

I feel the same way. 35 is the limit. I’m 54, by the way.

You’re lacking education in that matter and are showing your misogyny. Women can have children after 35. Most women I know gave birth in their 30s where they were more stable. However, men have a risk of birth defects increase after 30. This means even if your wife is younger, you still have a higher chance to have a child with autism and other disorders and diseases and if you started your family late, you won’t even have the energy or enough years left to take care of the kid. Your family-starting expiry date isn’t 85. That’s delusional and selfish to the poor children. Please learn modern medicine before listening to Andrew Tate style podcasts.

​@@ana-pq3cs I’m lacking education? Girl, you just picked a fight with the wrong scholar… Clearly you’re the one lacking education in the matter and showing your hysteric misandry. So yes, _please_ get educated! Or, you know… Just stop spreading anti-family lies because your claims are based on exactly ZERO evidence. Normally I would attribute such woefully bad interpretation of “science” to misunderstanding, but you clearly have ill faith, and so I can only conclude that you’re lying. Perhaps because you’re a bitter, middle aged woman who never settled for the man she really deserves? Meanwhile I was out partying with 20-somethings yesterday and had great fun. So, please allow me to mansplain this for you in detail! The surveys and tests done say nothing about the health of the male sperm. Instead they only take account of the father’s age-without even mentioning the age of the mothers-which is already a dubious reason for making such surveys in the first place. Instead you made the cardinal mistake of ASSUMING that the women in those studies are necessarily 35 years or younger, which there is ZERO proof of. So, please get your facts straight! If the studies also took account of the age of women, which tends to be older when the father also gets older, then the whole study would fall apart. Why? _Because the adverse causational correlation between female age and disorders and birth defects in new-born babies is already PROVEN._ (!) This means that the papers made on the fathers age are at best a victim of _cum hoc ergo propter hoc._ I mean, you’re so educated, so you already know what that means without googling right? For everyone else, It means that the studies on men’s age in relation to birth defects in babies is completely bunk and bs. Your entire claim is resting on the false assumption that there’s a higher chance of genetic defects in older men’s sperm, except there’s no proof of that. The only thing those “scientific” surveys desperately try to hide, is the fact that older _women_ tend to have more complications during and after birth than men. So, here’s a pepper grinder for you. Now go tend to your cats.

Actually menopause hits when andropause hits, around 45 which is your age. After age 35 quality of eggs declines, just like men 's sperm quality declines; men older than 35 carry a higher risk of giving the woman kids with autism, schizophrenia, bipolar disorders. Sperm banks usually refuse men sperm when it's older than 35... Also chronological age is different than biological age, and women tend to age better than men, because women are on top of the anti aging game. Think nutrition, exercise, proper sleep, no smoking, no alcohol. Men have a lot of addictions, porn, alcohol, bad life hygiene. Finally, women freeze their eggs and can use sperm banks - men can't raise kids without a woman. And if you remain resentful, and act shitty to her, she can divorce you and you end up in a worst situation.

For the older man, as long as he's getting sex there is no practical difference between the two...

It's all relative anyway...

I would have said 25 as well; many 18 year olds still haven't physically matured or filled out properly.

All that is true about attractiveness, but keep in mind that even the most unattractive woman in her 20's will *still* have that edge of having her reproductive "energy" on her side... a 30's or 40's super-hot woman just isn't going to have that.

"Men marry women hoping they'll never change... women marry men they hope will change"

Not much except that one doesn't sleep with multiple men and one does. One doesn't belong to a red light district and one does.

You can make that argument. However, it's probably more true (and less inflammatory) to argue that there's a transactional element to all relationships. Selling your time for sex is just a different flavor of "prostitution" than selling your sex for money.

You answered your own question. One is direct the other indirect. Do you know why other women refer to a regular woman who has frequent and many partners as " cheap"? Because even they, perhaps consciously know they're all selling the same thing. So if one waits for an expensive diamond ring and multiple dates and dinners she's not considered cheap, yet the one that does it for fun or after a McDonald's meal and a walk through the park is. They're all selling, just some ask for a higher price, some are direct and indirect, but they're all selling.

@@psychacks I agree with you my only problem is that when you point this out most women get upset . Great video anyways!

@@modickens1272 great comment

Being in your 30s you can easily date girls that are above 25.

What I prefer at 45 becomes moot when priority number one is getting children before I become geriatric. Or well, I do have a clear preference for Western women, but I guess at my age I can't be choosy. On the other hand, it feels like such a cop out to find a wife in Asia. Also due to cultural reasons. I want to be able to enjoy a Western culture with my wife, and preferably a Norwegian one, where we can all be one happy family, enjoying lutefisk and fårikål together, without ever having to question other cultural differences than the strictly political.

Women are well-known for saying such things *before* making exceptions for themselves later... these generalized statements are pretty meaningless in the real world.

every woman like a young man,but they make a compromise for money and security,They afraid to be with younger man,its risky ,Women like financial security and emotional too.But 59 year old man is not on peak,for sure

good for you. I have personally known many 20s women who liked older men.

Yea an 18 yea role can, in facts it optimum

an 18 year old is a baby.

@@dr.jenniferma3914 Nope. Older women need to stop trying to infantilize the competition. 😂

you talk on womans behalf. you have no manhood . you are lowering your own values

Sorry, if I am sad, I talk even worse English.