WOMEN WIN this dating game: men should think twice 

Thinking of going to grad school? Check out STELLAR, my top-rated GRE self-study program based on the world's only empirically-validated test prep system. Use the code "PSYCH" for 10% off all membership plans: stellargre.com. Serial monogamy is a dating strategy that so clearly favors women that I'm consistently surprised when men voluntarily assume it for themselves. The crux of the issue is that it is much easier for the average woman to enter into a new relationship after the end of the old one than it is for the average man. Over time, this leads to significant disparities in experience and opportunity that make it more likely that a woman will end up in a relationship that serves her needs than the other way around. I'll discuss the reasons for all of this in this episode. Social Media Facebook: facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090053889622 LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/orion-taraban-070b45168/ Instagram: instagram.com/psyc.hacks Twitter: twitter.com/oriontaraban Website: oriontarabanpsyd.com Become a Psychonaut and join PsycHack's member community: ru-vid.com/show-UCSduXBjCHkLoo_y9ss2xzXwjoin Book a paid consultation: oriontarabanpsyd.com/consultations Sponsor an episode: oriontarabanpsyd.com/sponsor-an-episode Presented by Orion Taraban, Psy.D. PsycHacks provides viewers with a brief, thought-provoking video several days a week on a variety of psychological topics, inspired by his clinical practice. The intention is for the core idea contained within each video to inspire viewers to see something about themselves or their world in a slightly different light. The ultimate mission of the channel is to reduce the amount of unnecessary suffering in the world. #dating #women #relationship

Women tend to enter a new relationship BEFORE breaking it off with their SO. Monkey branching is how most women move from one partner to the next. Very rarely is a average to above average woman ever single. Just introduce yourself and she’ll decide whether she’s single or not.

I have lost count of the times my mother has been married (I know it is double digits), but she always had a new guy lined up before she pulled the trigger on a divorce. That combined with the fact that she always came out of the marriage with more money than she went into it with convinced me that marriage was a an extremely bad idea for men.

Takeaway: If you notice your wife or defacto suddenly working on her looks more, start protecting your assets.

He literally showed us a graph proving" she's not yours, it's just your turn" this man is doing God's work. Thank you

But if the men says something he gets labeled as insecure and controlling. Who on their right mind would play this disgusting game

There's a fourth reason why women win at serial monogamy: The legal system is stacked in favour of women, and thus separation and divorce is potentially financially ruinous to men. Alimony and child support (something women never have to pay) reduce men to the state of serfdom, making them an unattractive prospect to a potential new partner. A man who's sleeping in his car because his ex wife stole his house, doesn't exactly have many options in the dating game.

This modern world is driving me crazy.

I'm a serial monogamous guy. Dating multiple women is simply too much work without a big enough return. Would rather be alone. Quality over quantity. Yes, most women set up a life raft before jumping ship.

That's why men in relationship must pay attention to their partner's behavior. When there is a break up a lot of men feel blindsided and think it came out of nowhere but in fact the girls had already broken up with them weeks ago, it's just that they hadn't told them. There are pretty clear signs when your girl is getting ready to leave the relationship when you know what to look for. Like I heard someone say : "A monkey doesn't let go of a branch if it doesn't have a new one to hold on to first."

I had a GF straight up tell me she planned to leave once she got herself together.

Women postpone getting married and fewer and fewer are able to get married which is the whole point of dating for women. Being able to be part of many relationship is not what they truly want. So they do not win. They started losing against their own desires in the past few decades. Achieving their long term goals is the game they should be playing, not comparing themselves to men based on one dimension.

4:35: “A women can keep options warm that can potentially be acted on in the future.” (He’s like a brother to me. 😂😂😂)

Oh yeah, that absolutely makes sense. The trick is to value yourself and act in a way you’re proud of as opposed to allowing a woman to define you.

And this is why I live by the standard of Brefault's law. A woman often marries the lifestyle not the man which is why the man is replaceable never expect female loyalty to you but only to the incentive created by you in the relationship. Love and loyalty are male romantic constructs of the male blue pill mind.

Social media has completely changed the game, in favour of women.

This is one of the best videos I have ever watched as a 55 years old divorced man. I wish I had this knowledge of the sexual market as a young guy. It explains why my first love, could just move right on to another guy

When divorce was normalized by society all the onus of a marriage are on men, women have nothing to lose and everything to gain.

This is known as monkey branching. She doesn't let go of the current branch until after she grabs the next one. Then she lets go and swings away.

As a men you can avoid a lot suffering if you put yourself, your family and career and maybe even friends depending how good they are before any girl. If she left, then you lost the 5th most important thing in your life, not that big of a deal. However if you're married, things change. Now your family comes first, that includes your wife. I hope you chose well so she does the same.

I think the difference why women break up relationships so easy is HOW they perceive men. I think for most we are an emotional experience first, then a person second. In other words, the romantic feelings are more important than the person for whom they supposedly have those feelings. And once those feelings ebb, which they inadvertently must, then it's on to the next male who has no clue. Of course they run this game until the wheels fall of in their 30s, and even the 40s. Then it's game over. Think I'm wrong, just look back at a few of your relationships. Or better yet, just ask Pamela Anderson

It seems the two options available for man will increasingly be reduced to: 1) Becoming very successful and attractive for your own happiness and enjoying women that begin to reach you, but not committing or always being ready to walk away. or 2) Being intent in following monastic level celibacy. In both cases you would be following the principle that a women is not the main goal of your life. The alternatives to those would be the guy who is moderately successful with women to the point of, for example, getting married but then caring too much for her company and suffering after divorce etc, or the man who indulges in hedonistic pleasures, such as these AI girlfriends that are beginning to appear and so on. In brief, become a chad or a monk

Women win the dating game just like the example you gave of the employee. It's a means to an end for the employer because he loses little. He had lots of employees. The employee presumably only has that one job so it means much more. The key to winning any negotiation is caring less about the outcome than your counter party. The freedom to walk away is powerful.

I agree with every thing said. I am in my sixties. I have had a number of relationships. Nearly every woman was more trouble then they were worth. Everyone moved on very very fast. A number of them reach out now to me. They are unhappy and would like for me to take them in., but i have zero interest in getting back with any of them. They had there fun, and took advantage of my feelings for them.

I remember when my ex relationship was feeling uncertain...instead rushing to her for certainty i should've gone to the gym and improved my social life. I didnt do that until i was heartbroken.

Don’t apologize for the clickbait title. Your short-form videos are well worth my time.

The best thing a man can do is keeping every woman accountable for what she does, not what she says. We need to stay in this together boys! Until the majority of men up their relationship standards, women will get away with such kind of behaviour. And until then, men are better off alone.

Growing up with my dear sister I think it gave me some insight that women often have insecurities in themselves, but, they have the confidence they can change a ”bad” or malfunctioning guy, which makes me think women function in a radically different way in how we view the opposite sex. For me, I am never looking to change anything about anyone, if she fits for me, it is right, I do not look at others as projects at all.

This became clear to me as a teenager in the early 1970s. I think psychologists, relationship counsellors, academics and many lay people knew this. But firstly, the lies, facades, pressure on males to succeed, false male pride and fake bravado, and to be seen to “be in control”, the yet to be used concept of “political correctness” to stifle conversations and the fear of the feminist discourses which victimised women as “the powerless”, meant that truthful discussion about gendered relationships didn’t and couldn’t occur.

This is also something to consider when as a man you get into a relationship with a woman: She probably just broke up with her bf a week ago, or maybe she is in the process of doing that. I always found this weird. I've noticed many women didn't seem to care that they just ended a relationship, they can move one quickly and get into a new relationship a day after. I need many days even weeks to recover from a breakup. Maybe it is because I lack effortless options.

I’ve always wondered why one of my high school classmates always managed to never stay single during her college years onwards. Yes, she was one of the pretty girls, so I thought that was the only factor, but ever since i’ve heard the term “monkey branching”, i’ve had a change in perspective. Just goes to show how much it sucks being a man. If you do what women do, it’s automatically viewed as cheating by society, but if you be an actual good man and stay faithfully loyal to the girl you’re seeing, it’s a losing game.

Been married 47+ years to the same woman. Last 15 years have been sexless and for 12 years before that only 6 to 8 times a year. At this point we are just roommates. Death can’t come to me soon enough. Hank

I did some dating in my 20s, nothing lasted longer than a year or 2 max. Once I hit 30 as a single dude, I just assumed it wasn't in the cards for me and stopped caring. Given the state of the world, I cant imagine having kids anyway, so it's fine.

Breaking things down into what your win condition is pretty necessary. For example, a man's strengths lies in their ability to play the long game with discipline and ingenuity over a long period of time such as 20 years+. This is how investment portfolios, career networks, and life skills are built. At that point, you will live the life you want I assure you.

Any woman that has a plan B belongs to the streets, man. That is an integrity issue. Women like that have never truly committed to the relationship in the first place. Also, it's extremely unhealthy for anyone to get into another relationship so quickly, so that particular woman that jumps from one to another is not ready for a healthy relationship. This is not all women, though. This goes for men as well. The solution is learning to properly vet your romantic interest. Men always have options, they just don't know it, because they don't understand the power they hold. Also, women are generally the ones being chosen and approached, so this makes it easy for them, whereas the men are doing the approaching. It takes more effort to do the initiating, and if they do nothing, nothing happens for them due to them being the leaders. Also, women leave most of the time due to a loss of attraction for an extended period of time. The man gets complacent, stops being his masculine self that she fell in love with, and she loses attraction because of it. Most people don't understand that actual love and loyalty transcends romantic attraction for men and women. Love isn't just the feelings. It includes loyalty. Love is the actions that are taken, EVEN when the feelings are not there in the moment. This is not an excuse to be complacent and let ourselves go. It just means that actual love cuts through those imperfections that we all have. Most are not taught this, so they don't understand it, and they don't have an example of it. We are taught to follow our hearts in this world, and that isn't good advice. Our heart gets us into trouble, and often has us regretting our decisions. It's like being feral without any guidance. At the end of the day, we are only human. Even when we know better, making the right choices can be hard, but that is where we decide on how much integrity we have.

Every man today in the present state of affairs should remember the old saying......" ask not, for whom the bell tolls......it tolls for thee" The days of, till death marriages, are over...My parents were 50 yrs married, mom was a virgin when she met my dad. Keep in mind this generation of girls... a large portion... didn't grow up with their birth fathers in the home....revolving door mom BF's and step dads.....they point out the incarceration rates for males with just a mom raising them is astronomical but they dont expose the fact that girls without their real dads are lost.......They are scared and they use sex for its the only thing they believe in ( wrongly) that will get them what they want and need. Living life without dad at home 24/7 and just seeing dad on a few weekends to buy them gifts and take them to fun places imprints that men are there for giving gifts and fun times......not the dad that will tell you to clean up your room, be home at 10, get off your phone a do your homework, your not going out wearing those clothes......ect.

Well I’ve been divorced for well over 10yrs and my standards for a new relationship/dating are so high I haven’t met anyone who even comes close to 50% of my expectations. So I remain single and happy!

You forgot to mention that men can date for longer time. Women only have until 40's to look for partner, men can date into their 60's. My father married my mom in his late 50's and it was his second marriage and i believe his first wife, who he had 4 kids with (all around 20 year olds by the time of divorce), couldnt find another man, but he did find another woman. And this phenomenon is what pushes demand for women in their prime years, as men have more time. 20 - 40 year old women (but realistically just 20 - 35 year olds) have attention of 20 - 50/60 year old men. So even in serial monogamy some men have several wives during their lifetime and some men are left with nothing. It is what i believe is called sexual selection. World is cruel.

I'm so glad I didn't marry my ex even though she kept begging me to. 💪🏼

"On the other hand the guy is just left there holding hizdik." That was incredible.

I was taught to marry once and it took me awhile to find someone who was of the same faith who wanted to commit to one person for a lifetime. We have had many bumps in the road, but we both know that we are better people because of our commitment. Marriage isn't a sprint, but rather, a marathon and we continue to choose one another despite the fact that culture comes up with many reasons to bail. I sort of wish that more people would refuse to date anyone who is married. When I was growing up my Mother told me that married women and men were off limits because God will never send someone else's husband or wife to anyone else. She told me that breaking up a family is a serious sin and what goes around comes around. Sometimes I wonder if we need a class on the bedrock of culture: Family.

I think that graph might be true for men actually exposed to women who are appropriate for dating. I am flabbergasted at how challenging it has been in my life to be just meet real women who are appropriate for dating even though I am consistently putting myself in social environments and doing activities. So that 6 month gap ends up being a lot longer. People who are successful in dating are quite fortunate.

It also costs a lot less for women financially too to meet a new guy

This would be mean that dating multiple women for an extended period of time, then choosing the best option is the way to go

Be careful how you get em most likely that's how you'll lose em.

I'm coming to the conclusion that women are often arbitrary and capricious when it comes to ending relationships. Additionally, I am starting to believe that women are incapable of having power over other people without abusing it as they are less capable of operating in a honor or rules based system than men. Obviously there are exceptions (Gaussian distributions exist in many areas) but if the distribution here is Gaussian, I would suspect that the the Kurtosis is negative (i.e., thin tails and most observations clustered around the Mean) and that either the Mean is more toward the solipsistic (not sure if this is the right word) or the skew is tilted toward solipsism. Asking an average woman to operate in such a manner is like asking a Golder Retriever to explain differential equations. Sure the dog may catch a ball every now and then just like a woman may act honorably on occasion. But the dog couldn't explain to you why it was catching the ball and a woman will be at pains to explain why acting honorably is important when no-one is looking or when the woman has the power to have her way. Effectively, I would suspect that the average woman has a harder time in forecasting the longer term consequences of their actions than the average man, or it's that the average man is more adept at working in teams (cue your evo-psyche hunter gatherer explanations) where all team members must be considered and provided for. I wonder if there is any data on this or it is that my observational N is too small and my personal biases are too great. On breaking up, it's one thing when it's just you two in the relationship, but its another thing when there are kids involved. On a society wide basis, the only way you are going to cure this issue is to give men the presumption of custody in family law, but I don't see that happening any time soon. For wealthier men who want kids, they should seriously consider having kids through a egg donation / surrogacy where all female parties legally waive all rights to the kids. Once you have YOUR kids, you can (if you really want - nannies are cheap) invite a woman into your life who has no parental rights to the kids, or you could just date casually. For the love of God, don't get married, have kids (vasectomy?) with any woman or let any cohabitating partner adopt the kids and make sure to have a cohabitation agreement with any woman that covers the areas that may lead to the woman to be considered a common law wife (e.g., no joint tax returns, etc.) in your jurisdiction. On a tactical basis, if you sense any issues with a girl you're dating or a job that you have, you should assume that they are 10 times worse than you think. Women and employers that want to keep you around are unambiguous. If you sense an issue, you are probably already "done." The only way you have a hope in hell of saving the situation (again you probably don't) is to quickly assume that you are done and start preparing to move on. Employers and women will "chase" you hard and fast if you were wrong and if they don't, then you are done, but at least you have a head start for what's next. Additionally (and I hate to say it because it's F'd up), women love drama and if you are supplying the drama in the relationship with her constantly trying to chase you to keep you from leaving, you both may be happier. Just a few thoughts. Edit: Added the last sentence to Para 3 and fixed some typos and clunky phrasing.

No one wins, they just get a head start. everyone ends up bitter and alone now.

"Better to live and die alone than it is to suffer the insufferable death of a thousand cuts at the hands of a woman

3-4 months into the dating app scene now.. I'm 6'5, 220lbs, 12% body fat, v taper athletic physique, great hair, decent straight white teeth, Latin, can dance salsa, in finance, know 3 languages, in a fairly large city on the West coast 0 likes, 0 matches, 0 messages on hinge, tinder, and bumble all paid subscriptions.... I must be a tall looking Gollum from Lord of the rings

My dating "line" matches the men's, not the women's.. I probably have even more space between relationships than that. As an introvert, I need lots of time by myself to recharge.. can't relationship hop, that sounds exhausting.

I can understand, when I think about men being in their purpose. While this may involve women to a certain degree, that's not always the true goal. This time alone gives men time to reflect on who they are as a person and in this life.💪🏾💯

I'm 74 and widowed for about a year. 2 years before I became wodowed 2 married women approached me for a relationship knowing I was married. I declined. Recently I'm suspecting a different married woman is making a move. I'm declining. In the last several months I've discovered the term "modern women". Those women don't appeal to me. They give themselves away with their first few words within about 20 minutes. For me being alone (without someone) doesn't mean being lonely. Being alone in the presence of someone is highly lonely.

You can abbreviate this message by asking a basic, fundamental question. Q) Why are women so scathing of men and yet so keen/adept at getting into relationships with them? A) Irrespective of what they say, it simply MUST serve their interests do so so. On balance. Ie they derive a net benefit. And in that you also have the answer to the question, why, by comparison to women, many men eventually end up just walking away from relationships altogether.

Before I had experienced my first crushing breakups, I instictively knew it was better to not fall in love and keep my options open. Thanks for the remimder

Wow ! I can totally relate to this 100%. This is so true. You’re describing my own experience and I’m sure the experiences of so many men out there! What a world we live in! I think this is much more common in the West due to feminism

anecdote: my ex of 10 years was already with a guy before she moved out. Despite being awful to each other and the relationship already being shattered, that she was able to do this was nothing but earth shattering. i can't blame her, we both did some insidious things, but being so dishonest is something i can't relate to. all i got to say is looking back, i ignored many clear messages that it was happening. pay attention, don't let emotions curve your observations, and stay level. been single for over a decade, don't see myself returning. i'd rather make bank and get huge at the gym lol

I do agree. Some women have had very little breaks between men. I dated a lady who admitted this - she took one self imposed 2yr break. I also know some high value women that have gone years with no activity due to circumstances. I appreciate your breakdown of the reasons.

what is most concerning is that even the women in my family whom I love and trust behave much like every other type, they just hide it better, because they're of an older generation. My own mother told me in secret that she's been planning for some time to divorce my stepfather, just like she did my biological father. She doesn't drive and depends on him to take her places, so now, all of a sudden, she's convinced him that she should get her licence, but in the meantime she'll of course be making use of his taxi 🚕 services 🤣🤣🤣 It's comical, but deeply sad and disheartening. They really do all seem to see you as "usefull" or "useless"

Man you continuously have been on key with your talks. Thanks for the insight.

I’ve observed all of this at 41 I’m out of the game, I’ll only try again when I’m in the best shape of my life. Desire is started with the physical we are all judged this way first. Being not desired sucks especially when you are married.

We all as men seriously need to start talking more about solutions because this is seriously alarming and can lead to some serious consequences for men. We need to figure out a way to combat this and win at it because this is not fair and it’s going to create a lot more problems going into the future.

Pretty depressing. And I'm 31 and never been in a relationship.

I just discovered your channel a few days ago amd watched almost every video while taking notes! I can't believe how articulate amd straight to the point ypu are and how good you are at maling relevant analogies! Great content, keep up the good work! ❤️

I heard from "somewhere" that oftentimes, when a woman leaves a man, she has an "exit-strategy" that she has been planning and working on (sometimes for YEARS!). 🤷‍♂️

Concise. However, you omitted to added that it is easier to detach if you're the one seeking satisfaction, as opposed to the one expected to be creating satisfaction

Brilliant channel. I broke up with my ex and boom she’s in a new relationship 2 weeks later. 3 months later she’s in a serious relationship.

At last i have found balance and reciprocity, nothing in exchange for nothing.

I think even if a woman didn't put herself in a position to meet someone new, they still have the upper hand because if she reallllly wanted to, she can break up on a Monday and if she's halfway attractive then she will have several suitors ready to take her serious by Wednesday. While men on the other hand, he gotta go through several rejections for weeks, months before finding someone "decent". Even if he meet someone immediately, its a good chance that he behind a long list of other friends that woman already has so now your gotta work yo way up or wait yo turn

The employer-employee analogy is excellent. Just as a company will keep you on while they headhunt your replacement and then unceremoniously are you, women do the same to men. Sometimes they even have you train your replacement.

I love how much your channel has grown! I have been watching since close to the start. Appreciate the insight

Very insightful analysis, I've never thought it under this perspective but it's actually totally correct.

This stuff never gets old. But I have gotten all i can… instead of sitting in the hurt of my reality I want to move forward , learn a new skill, foster self love. While I appreciate your perspective doctor, and really like your channel. I personally think I want to live my life freely outside of the constant expectation to perform and prove myself. Furthermore, it is worth noting that women while they have 70% more availability to find a partner, they often choose a small substrata of men. The 10% to 15%, this high demand and low supply create an “inflation “ in this context is mysandry or resentment towards men. Furthering the divide and the information supporting this data. Life is short my brothers. Your manhood is not defined by how much you get laid or attract a female. Indeed, outside of the pressures of gender, you are whole and complete. Do not let anybody, much less a women that sees you as an option prohibit your self love and growth. Walk with you head high and be proud you are breathing. Gracias!

He never mentioned the rise of social media and dating apps affecting the dating market. I guarantee you if dating apps and social media vanished overnight then the dating game would go back to what it used to be standards would go back to normal and most women wouldn't have the ability to hop from man to man like they do now. The problem has always been social media, but let's be honest without it he wouldn't be making these videos

57 years old. You have put my thoughts into words. Thank you my friend. I have given up on love long ago and am happy.

Very Clear Thinking about a complicated & important topic... Yes that fits with my view of our society. 😊 👍 -70SomethingGuy

Congratulations! Your channel has really taken off recently! I love the short to the point vids.

Democracy is the absolute worst form of “pimpin”….

That’s a great question to ask in the vetting of a woman. “How many of the relationships that youve been in, have been ended by you?” And “why did you end them?” If all her relationships have been ended by her and it wasn’t because of her cheated or was abusive, be skeptical moving forward. Not saying don’t date her, but definitely watch her behavior and actions more closely.

This is all very fascinating. Thank you! I’m running the numbers in my head and something jumps out. Based on what you’re saying, it would seem overall that more women are in relationships than men. So, it would stand to reason that for these numbers to work out, there must be cases where multiple women are in a relationship with the same man. This would make sense as the dating app world exhibits the same behavior. That is, the upper percentile of high-value men date multiple women. I would think this situation would be rather frustrating and upsetting for women. I’m not sure what’s worse. Not being able to find a mate in the first place, or easily finding one but then having to deal with cheating. I think I might rather go with the former, truth be told. Thank you for an excellent video.

They literally have many options waiting in line while they're in a relationship

Interesting…and certainly true. The good thing for men is…women need a man for their „next best relationship“ (excluding gay women of course) 😅. My advice: men completely relax about relationships with women!! Mostly they’re worse than you imagine they are…depending also strongly on the woman they can be way more boring, requiring unnecessary compromises and costing freedom and money! For a real man …a woman can hardly be more than the icing on the cake…never the cake itself!!

One of the best channel ever

I love this, I realized this is college. A girl would date a guy, dump him then date another within months. That's when I became Red Pilled

Thank you brother! I could’ve used your wisdom 30 years ago…but still valuable now. We’ve got to boost your channel up. This information is too valuable to too many people. Keep it up.

That’s no surprise because the man knows his next relationship might months if not years away. So unless the current relationship is really bad the man is really hesitant to breakup. Most men cannot hop from one relationship to another one. Most guys will go 6, 12,24, 36+ months in between relationships

This is why it's always good to Spin plates no matter what

This was a very interesting and funny episode, Orian. I would make a part B describing what happens after the so called "first dating period", that is in the 20s. I am 53, single, no kids, just broke up from a 4 years relationship and the dating game looks so different now compared to my 20s and the 30s, when social interaction and women availability was so much more than nowadays. The Nr. 1 lesson I take from this video is "men take whatever is available". This has happened to me a few times, ie. starting a relationship not fully convinced that this is the right person or, worse, that I am really attracted to her. This leads to nothing good in the long term.

If you get a hint that something’s off. Dump her first. She will come back, especially if you beat her to the punch.

We need to hold our standards high, men.

Its pretty amazing the insights Orion has. I remember the first time he said women looking to move on first go to the gym. I remember back to when I got divorced about 12 years ago. Right before we divorced my wife, you guessed it, went to the gym.

This was broken down so thoroughly!

Let me tell you something... As a woman I deffenetly do NOT feel like a winner in this current dating environment. In fact, quite the opposite. I think when one gender looses, both of them do. That is unfortunate, because like most people, I do desire to get married and have children, but I have yet to met someone who would take dating seriously and have marriage as an end goal. So I would say that us women, who are serious about life-long commitment have a very rough time right now. Now excuse me, I'm gonna cry in lonliness😢😭

The core of a relationship for a man is to become powerful as hell so that the female you're in a relationship with will never ever want to break up or mess with you anyway possible. Any other ways of looking at relationships will devour a man and lead to mentally and financially costly breakups. So, be the center of your own world without allowing any woman to have the power to move you out of your ground.

Absolutely true Dr. I was trapped and cheated, lied and betrayed, I am healing, Thank you.

Yes it fits perfectly with my experience. I won't make the same mistake again, my time is better served working on myself.

This is gold. And this is also why I will never EVER get into a relationship again. I only want to be with women who are into me and sadly this means when they are cheating.

I'm glad I gave up all aspirations of dating.

Such a great breakdown

Totally agree with our host 100%. I will say all relationships I've had the women asked me out first, and all but one 40 years ago I ended first.

Solid content as usual. Would you consider doing a video about privilege? Specifically, I recently heard the expression that "privilege is invisible to those who have it" applied to beautiful women and handsome men being two of the most privileged types of people in modern day, with beautiful women being argued to be the most privileged people ever. I am curious to hear some of your thoughts on this idea as it seems to align with this video topic and others I have seen so far.