@ymarrero23 He just released you to single to encounter your true kingdom match. Don't beat yourself up over it, God has greater for you. Pray for discernment when dating, God bless you!
Just because a man let's you in his bedroom, it doesn't mean he'll let you in his heart. When you capture a man's heart, he'll ask you for your hand.👰🏽 💅🏽💍💎♥️
Boy did I learn this lesson the hard way. Three years of me nagging about why we're not married. I just got a wakeup call one day and said to myself, "Why are you doing this? Why are you trying to force yourself on someone? Why is this relationship so exhausting!?" So I said bye. Enormous weight lifted from my shoulders. Breakup hurt but walking around with this feeling that I was with a man that did not truly want me hurt much more.
@@jgee7338 I thought the same way at first. Now I know that walking away saved the rest of my life, because I'm meeting all of my goals without the dead weight of being held back. Start persuing your healthy passions and it will open a new world. Have a blessed day!
He is 1000000% correct. I’m experiencing it right now. My bf just told me he knew as soon as the first time he saw me and he is already talking about marriage and it’s only been less than 2 months. I am a living witness of what coach is saying! And it’s all God! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙏🏽
Me too. My fiance asked my to be his in less then 2 months and we had not even met in person only talking online, fast forward when I met him he put the ring on my finger and we are still madly in love..
I do agree that a man can tell if you’re the one, but I also believe that a woman should get a chance to know that man by testing the spirit to see if it’s from God or the enemy. I believe women should too confirm from God if he’s the one. Sometimes the enemy throw counterfeits before the real deal.
Facts exactly why I date with a purpose. No sex and I’m single until I’m married. May take longer but worth it I’m sure. Rids a woman of the users and abusers who plan on leaving anyway after they get their needs met and find the next. I don’t give years of my life to any man anymore. He courts me towards marriage or not within 1year...not years
Facts it doesn’t take A REAL MAN LONG to know if you’re his Wife! Anything after 2-5 years he doesn’t want marriage but only wants the benefits! A Man knows within the first 60-90 days if he wants to marry you don’t sell yourself short Sus
Someone I know who has been with her man since she was 17, and she is now 58. She even had a child with him over 30 years ago, and he moved in...in 2017. He still has NOT married her. This situation is Beyond stupid, and I would never allow a man to string me along for a year, much less 40 years.
I made this mistake and paying it for it now. 10 years before a proposal, got married, and regretted getting married. Ladies, please pay attention. Don't waste years waiting. It doesn't take long at all for a man to know in his heart that he needs a particular woman in his life. Actions speak louder then words.
Alot of men tend to throw the word marriage around when they first meet women because they think it's what she wants to hear then 10years later and your still his girlfriend 🙄 keep up that good work coach
I just want to put this out there, physical attraction is also important to women! I know it is a common held belief that men are visual people, but so are women! It is literally impossible to imagine myself being with a man that I am not physically/sexually attracted to. I literally cannot even develop feelings for them more than a friendship- now some people would automatically say that is shallow for a woman to be that way, because men are the ones who are suppose to be visual- but attraction I feel is a biological response! You like who you like!
When it's a God thing all of it will be there. Including attraction. God wants that to be there because that is part of the blessing of marriage covenant. You have to desire each other. So God first and it will all be there.
You're absolutely right. When he's serious about you, he won't let you wait. He wants to claim you and doesn't want to leave you out there with "single" status.
Gotta say this; Women, what he said? In truth YOU need to be doing. YOU get to choose, YOU decide if he's smart, funny, attractive, financially able etc. Women are QUEENS. That means a date isn't just about him judging if you're good enough for HIM, it's, is he good enough for ME. Men can be thirsty and this is where discernment and asking God to help you pick, choose and refuse comes in handy.
Amen, yes women are the choosers. Even though mean pursues a woman or choose her first. But its up to that woman rather or not she wants him. And if he's the right man for her she would choose him.
This is on the mark of what my father who is now 70 taught me. A man knows within 6mos to 1 year if he wants to marry, and might take upto 2 years to finalize it
you women you still missing a point I can tell right now you young and you done slept with a lot of different men when he submit to God a man can submit to God and accept him as their personal savior at 25 but then don't get married till he's 60 or 65 you still missing the point you young you still you still drinking your milk from a sippy cup wait till you been in this world a little longer little girl you don't know what you talking about of course he needs to submit to God I accepted my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ at an early age and I know I didn't make no mistake and he's still the head of my life but just because the man accepted his Lord and Savior Jesus Christ at 25 and 30 that don't mean he's ready for marriage because he's accepted God as his personal savior you little young girls you you start sleeping around too early and then you want to say he don't know yes he do your body is broke down physically and mentally it's broke down you're carrying a lot of emotional baggage cuz you start having sex too early so you know I was or two or maybe with too many men just because he's decided to turn his life over to Jesus and we all need to do that that doesn't mean that he's ready to marry you and submit to you he submitted his life to God that's what's wrong with you black women especially black women you sleep around too much and then you getting mad because that man chose another woman that didn't sleep around with every Tom Dick and Harry girl you still young you still drinking that milk from that sippy cup what have you spend some years in this world just because he committed his life to God and accepted God as his personal savior that doesn't mean he's ready to commit to a woman yet two different things you're young girl got to put some miles on your mind not on your body
I knew he was The One. After 1 yr, I told him, "if it's not you, just let me know, and I will move on." He proposed, and we are married. Don't leave him to decide
Speak that truth sir.... this is the story of my life.... my husband didn’t marry me until after 2 kids and I had to nag him about doing it.... I put up with a lot off of him, but now I’m setting him free, I filed for a divorce and we will finalize in April.... next time I’m gonna wait on God’s timing I thought I had him good because I was a young tender that was 14 years younger than him, (I didn’t like guys that old, he lied about his age but by the time I found out his real age I was in love)... and that didn’t mean nothing he still didn’t treat me like the love of his life.... Porn was his life, abuse, and infidelity. And now 18 years later I’m done..... I’ve moved out and now I’m moving on ..... 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
yeah I got to understand something about men they don't think like women they are men sometimes they just isolate themselves to work on themselves they know that's the woman they're going to spend the rest of their life with but they want to be the best man that they can be whether you're black or white Chinese or Mexican sometimes they ghost you for a while to work on themselves so they can be the man that you need them to be God when I buy yourself all the time to think together his thoughts to gain more strength to be able to carry on
@@thatlovegirl12 Just because a person is married and/or has kids doesnt mean they wont die alone too. Have no fear because Jesus Christ is always with us.
@@cocogomez2278 but you have have less likely chance …having kids bring grand kids .. if you raised them right ..mostly likely they will be there for you … I love how me and my sis with all our kids spends every weekend and holidays and birthdays with my mom … we all have each other bk .. it’s been plenty of times my mom needed help esp early in the am ..and I always there to help her …
Yes, I know that he is right. My husband and I met in our late twenties at work and knew right away but waited to date for 6 months. After our first date, before we were intimate, he introduced me to his family. Most people in the United States do not know this, bur being from different historical enemy groups in Canada - French Canadian and English Canadian, we were not encouraged by anyone to intermingle. Most of his family did not show up for the wedding. But Love was not hard work for us two , it was natural. And guess what, our families eventually came around and realized that we were good together and accepted us. We have been happily married for 36 years. This is how humans have behaved for millions of years. Nature rules.
Agreed. Men who want marriage, feels like he can be a husband is not doing 5-10 years. Especially if he is over 28, 30 years old. He likes the benefits without being accountable to a family.
On this note ladies please keep in mind that some men will want to marry you in less than a year be careful because alot of them have other motives, this happened to me and us both being very young I ended marrying a man who has narcissistic personality disorder and I was unaware for many years and 2 kids later ...ladies if you don't feel comfortable or ready for marriage please don't allow any man to talk you into it and pay attention to the red flags 🚩🚩
Yes you’re right! My good friend met a guy and they got married very quickly. Two years later she’s going through the worse divorce ever! He was even awarded both their rental property AND their marital home by the judge-he lied about so much stuff, charged up her business credit card-changed the locks on the house door BEFORE time was up for her to leave the marital home-just really did her very dirty.
Same thing happened to me! Married at 18, now 24 two kids. He ruined my mental health. Take lots of time with who you're dating and cut off those who aren't serious about you. Save yourself!
Divorce isn’t a sin. If adultery is involved you are free to divorce. A man is to love his wife as Christ love the church and even gave himself for it. God wouldn’t expect you to stay in a marriage where one is being physically abused or mistreated. God ordain marriage. Whom God put together let no man put asunder.
Matthew 19:6 “So then, they are no longer two but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate.” It’s imperative we are mating with God ordain individuals. Divorce isn’t a sin. Some times, we move too fast in life not listening to Gods will and end up with the wrong mates. (Free will) all things works for our good, so they’ll be that lesson until you find that God mate.
@@yolandacox1096 yes death does set you free, but also a marriage can be dissolved due to adultery. Anyone who divorces his wife must give her a certificate of divorce. But if anyone who divorces his wife, EXCEPT for marital unfaithfulness, causes her to become an adulteress and anyone who marries the divorced woman commits adultery. Matthew chapter 5:31-32
I never believed it until i experienced it for myself ... It's true ...! You will think you're in a fairytale because as a woman you can't understand how he can be so sure and its refreshing to see a man know EXACTLY what he wants💯
Me too, but you should believe. Never stop trusting God. Continue working on your projects, and when you least expect it, it will happen. Don't be too anxious, just continue to trust God.
Christina Mancuso continue to pray and remain steadfast. The LORD has heard your prayers and your Godly husband will find you.This is for everyone praying for a Godly spouse.
On March 28, 2016, I went to the gym in my apartment complex and I saw a guy. We talk for a bit, than he gave me his number and told me to call him so he would have my number and we could be gym partners. He walked me home and asked if he could come in, I said sure. I've NEVER allowed strangers in my house but there were peace in my heart. He asked me if I prayed. I asked him what does he mean because I've learned NEVER tell a man things because they could act off it. He told me he was praying for God to send him his wife for 3 weeks. Dude, I too was praying for 3 weeks for God to work on my husband (he didn't know that). He asked me to be his gf within 1 hour of meeting each other. 3 days later he asked my dad for my hands in marriage. He told me he first saw me 3 weeks prior when I came into his restaurant and the first time he saw me he got a vision that I was his wife. Also, that when he would take a break to come talk and get my number, I had left after I received my food. I'm getting Jamaican background and he's Persian. We have a 4 year old son together (he's so handsome). I always prayed, the one that God has for me would not ask me for my number because guys always did everyday and idk I knew they only wanted s** My first ex husband asked me within 2 weeks, but I let him go because we were unequally yoked. Didn't know because we were in the honeymoon stage and living in different countries, plus we had gotten married with in 4 months. I've also been engaged 4 times prior. I always knew my worth, and most importantly I DON'T believe in fornication.
This is SO true. When I’ve asked my boyfriend in the past why he chose me he said that from the moment we had our first conversation he knew because he said he could see I was very kindhearted. It shocked me because I thought it was just a simple conversation, but for him he said that’s how he knew he wanted to be with me. Everything you said I agree with 100% Men will know you’re the one pretty early on, it might take a little time to finalize it but if they know you are they’ll be moving towards finalizing it early on.
I stayed married for thirty years because I wanted to honor my wedding vows. Too bad for my ex he didn't want to honor his as well. While the breakup was difficult, I'm so much better off and happier without him. If you're with the wrong person, it will drain the life right out of you.
I was with my husband 3 months when he told me about the wedding plans here we are 22 years later and he's my everything and I know I'm his everything with the best of friends with praying partners with lovers we're everything to each I wouldn't trade him for nothing in this world
Been 2 years off and on, I finally broke things off! This man been making empty promises and not showing growth! I refuse to be with anyone whi isn't doing any self work!! Just talking about wanting to do better, be better, I can be better is not actually showing! He always said his intentions were good and that whenever he tries to do better, it always fails! I told him that intentions are actions! If you want to be a better man, do that and try! If you wanna get a job, work towards that!! I need more than just words!!! Show me!!
Im a woman in my mid thirties who had 11 marriage proposals and finally married at 25. I enjoy helping young girls navigate how to achieve their "ultimate goal of marriage". My grandmother told me "if you want to have 'fun' date a man in his 20s. If you want to get 'married' date a man in his thirties". Looking back I can see what she meant. Few men that age are mature enough for marriage and most in their 20s are NOT seeking it. Men in their thirties have usually grown bored with clubs and bars and their friends have started families by 30-35 years old. I tell girls if they want sex tell them "not without a ring on my finger" and watch nearly every man run while the one who genuinely cares for you will stay. From the time I was 18 to the time I was 25, 11 men were willing to "put a ring on it" so for girls saying it's ridiculous to require a man to propose, turns out those eleven men were more than willing
if these 11 men proposed to that young lady they had sex with her that's what they did 11 men and then by the time a woman gets 25 and 30 or 35 if she's sleeping with every man she go out with girl your quality of sex is going to decline by the time it's time to think about marriage 11 men wanted they just wanted to get into your pants I'm just going to be totally honest with you that's the reason I don't think women should be marrying at 25 thinking about who you may want your lifelong partner to be I think that's healthy but not marrying that 25 no cuz eventually she's going to get jealous of her single friend right ladies right girl that's some 1959 advice from some old grandma they're probably passed away at 95 that stuff don't work today tell me 11 me and girl please tell me and just wanted to have some intimacy with you just because a man sleep with you don't mean he want to spend the rest of his life with you you got to have you got to take care of your body physically and mentally and women want to think so what I slept with 300 400 men one woman told me over a thousand men he's not going to know yes he is girl you got too many miles on that that body and I hate to tell you A lot of times those type of women get picked last if ever because the intimacy with it's not good it's not good quality intimacy with that man and I owe them a tour man will know if you got too many miles on your physical body he knows and I'm going to leave it at that because we want to keep it decent and in order so you got to think about all this when you be sleeping with all these different men because then a lot of times they bring an STDs and a lot of times the men don't even know it's there a lot of that stuff lies dormant in men so it's got to be more than just about the intimacy part of a relationship with a mature man Trust and Believe
@@welshlady212000 lol you're onto something. I guess sex in exchange for marriage proposal is not something I would take as good advice when it leads to 11 failed engagements. I hope she did not mean that because that's a lot of baggage one would have to deal with.
Dating is so complicated but I finally realized the old fashioned way is the only way and if a man truly wants you he will never put him self in a position to lose you they start off being your dream come true then shortly after your worst nightmare😮
My egoistic ex told me that he was not ready 4 commitment/marriage 2 me. In the first place that was the farthest from my thought. I'm very happy single and a lone wolf. Amen
Finally someone speaking the truth on marriage, too many misconceptions, fantasies and delusions about marriage and what it is. Too many people settle and too many unhappy!!
Can't agree with you more well said. I came out of 2 years of the crap relationship you spoken about including the porn ! He was emotionally unavailable. Just met my king on the first date he spoke about marriage!you are so right! Thank you so much for explaining this ! Well said he was like omg !
We ve been together for 8 years.. we married in 2020. Now i asked for divorce. I left our house in July 2022. Wasnt the right one. Im dating now a guy that always liked me, but i never gave him a chance. He s talking about marriage in a couple a months. Now its clear, i understand what you re saying!
Yes he’s right!!! I met a man a few weeks ago and he’s already talking marriage and about how he believes we can workout any issues together!!! We aren’t rushing but he has this in his mind already
I know a few chics that had to give their dude the clock. 1 of my classmates left her bf of 8 years. He finally married her in 2019 and bought them a house.
I skipped town and moved across the world 🌎 and my husband came chasing me down to marry me but he wasn’t faithful but kept the appearance up smh I lost 7 ring sets I didn’t care he kept buying the he ring sets but wouldn’t be faithful smh 🤦🏿♀️
