I used to stand outside the subway station for my mom to pick me up from work at the station. Everyday I used to see this man pick up his wife. He would park his car, get out of the driver seat take his wife purse place it on the backseat and open the door for his wife to sit down everyday!! He could easily just stay in the seat and let his wife get in. I said to myself wow!! That is a man.
I was married to a 50/50 man. I was miserable. He cared about himself, not me. I am now dating a provider, protector, and prayer warrior. I am very glad God has blessed me to meet my Boaz.
If your life with a man becomes more stressful , more chaos , more issues versus when you was single ... that means it’s time to BOUNCE. Period. A man only supposed to be a PLUS in your life ladies. . Otherwise WHY IS HE IN YOUR LIFE??? Anybody that comes into your life is only supposed to add value to you if you have real self love. If he’s bringing you down .. LEAVE. Control your feelings and emotions and learn to leave. ❤️❤️
Amen to all you are saying. When I dated my now deceased husband, I never asked him for anything. He looked after me even though I was an independent working woman with 2 children. If he saw the need, he took care of it. Kept the grass cut. washed my car, checked to see if I needed gas in car or if car needed oil change or tires rotated. He gave me money just because incase I needed it. This was a real Godly man . After one and a half years, we were married. It lasted for 21 and a half years before that covid19 invaded his body. Now ask me if I will settle for less..NO!
My mother is married to a man who wants half on the bills. He is not the ideal husband for her. And, as a single woman I am learning so much about some men are. I'm not scared of commitment but learning to choose my husband wisely.
My father is a grown boy. It's taken a lot if work to change the way I view myself as a woman and how I am supposed to be treated by a man. I refuse to be with a grown boy for the rest of my life.
That's exactly how it feels too, like you are a trash can to him after he disrespects you and then wants to be intimate. Greatful that I am no longer in that relationship.
You right. My ex husband told me to go get my own motor oil changed after I asked him to do it for me then turned around days later and asked me to do his car. Learned my lesson quick.
Like Coach Rod stated if you go on a date and the guy says 50/50 on the date, tell him it's not going to work. If you aren't sure how he will react in person for safety reasons wait until you are away from him and tell him over the phone and not in person.
Thing is: I am seeing that the majority of the men where I am are exactly like this...but people are still blaming and shaming women for being single...claiming something is wrong with the woman. It is as if people want u to put up with all of that still! Just to say u have a man! Why ?? Many marriages end in divorce because of these reasons and others. I never want to divorce. And the pickings are SLIM TO NONE with all these behaviours out here!!!!
I was dating a guy who text/asked me to come over his house @10 pm. I was like, something's wrong w/ my tire and may need air. Truth to God, this guy text/says" there's a 24hr tire shop on I-610. 😳 I knew then he wasn't the ONE
Level of care is something I pay a lot attention to. If man does not project a strong sense of support and loving consideration towards me I am out. Point. Blank. Period.
Thank you for your great advice. Found you a few days ago and your videos are great! Don't think I ever came across a real man and I am in my 40s.........been single forever!!!
Wow this guy is an absolute diamond, I have literally never had a man that would take initiative like that, even my child's Father I had to organise everything. Ugh. This is eye opening.
These men need to stop comming for you with their nonsense. Alot of women did not grow up in the home with A Father..or any males for that matter in their life wheither that be an uncle, big brother, or grandFather, therefore..have NO idea how to inner act with men. On account of this, many women are abused and taken advantage of; this relationship councelor is showing women how to rid themselfves of abuse. Your content of Advice is so appreciated; Coach Rod.
Love your message of REAL MEN, but don't go to prison for anyone. If a woman is real, she will admit she will not be around when you get out. There are lines and I draw one of them at going to prison. NOT!! You can't help your legacy from prison. Other than that, great message.🙏🏼
Thank you Coach Rod for this message! I'm going through a divorce right now because I was called out of my name after 16 years. All in the same sentence he told me he hated me. I'm being told by him that I should forgive him. I told him if he would say that what else is he capable of?? It has been hard to walk away but I had to. To me that was the ultimate disrespect!! I packed my bags and was gone when he got home from work the same day. I do believe if he did it once he'll do it again. God help your women in this hour🙏🏽🙏🏽 God bless you Coach Rod
@@coachrod8324 Amen. I receive that. When I told him I was filing for a divorce I told him I still loved him but couldn't go forward with the marriage. This has been a hard decision I had to make but it had to be done. Thank you!
My grandma never pumped her own gas. My grandfather always did. She didn't even know how. Lol... I still look for that quality in a guy... But rarely find it.
You just gained yourself a subscriber 🙌🏼. It took a bad experience for me to really look at who are MEN vs. Grown boys! I try to teach the few girlfriends I have the difference when they come to me about their personal drama. Everyone doesn't get it, but I'll tell you this, I can spot a real man almost instantly after a few conversations. I do take care of myself and my son, but I take notice to an offer of help/supportive if I'm in a bind. I don't have an ounce of patience for grown boys 🚫.
This is reminds me when I asked a guy to buy a bar soap. He refused and didn't like to do anything. He don't want nothing in life. He was grown boy who like to drink and hang with bunch of grown boys. He lost a good paying job. He left me for drug headed female. I was glad he gone and never looked back. All praises to the Most High📖🙏🏾👑
Did he say “he will have a prison ministry?” This is the type of man that will definitely have a Queen that will truly respect, love and admire him all her loyal days. And she will submit.
Outstanding Coach Rod. 👏👏👏👏👏👏 I felt this in my heart. I'm sure many women feel the same, but if I had watched you when I was young I wouldn't have made many mistakes. But God's grace has gotten me through and I'm better for it.
You Spoke the truth in this video alot of women are settling just to say they have a man but a real man wouldn’t watch u struggle they gone want to build with you or at least help you if he really care for you 😍💯
Awesome video!! Loved it ❤️ Coming from a fatherless background I appreciate everything you said. THIS INSIGHT NEEDS TO REACH THE MASSES!!! THANK YOU SIR❤️
Hey Coach Rod you be definitely on point !!! Everything you described is exactly what I've been taught in church. This video was very inspiring to me. I took some good notes too !!! Ladies, this man knows what he is talking about. Listen to Him !!!! Peace, Lisa
Man with a plan and initiative, while taking my feelings and comfort in consideration. Make my life easier!!!🎯🎯🎯🎯 Accepting my influnce in his decisions and life. Encouraging my growth.
Brother these are incredibly valuable pieces of wisdom for me as a 25 year old single man. I love my parents greatly, but there was never any advice or teachings about anything in regards to how to be a man and how to treat women in marriage/committed relationship. I have alot of work to do in growing up. Praise God hes been moving.
I was dating a guy and asked him to come over and hang some pictures/lil stuff around the house. 😆He dropped me off a tool set 🧰 basically saying do it yourself 😳. I knew then he wasn't the ONE
