I’ve been left, dropped, abandoned, ignored, rejected and I was angry, I was in rage, I asked why..then I began to go within and heal my own hurt. I am the love I choose to be and attract! No more dependency because of daddy issues. Thankyou Iyanla ❤️ acceptance is healing.
Stranded. Abandoned, rejected. But I'm better person because of it. It didn't feel good at the time. I've seen them get their payback too. God is good🙂
I almost had heart attack,,, it was not the break up its the way he don it,the way he treated me toward the end,, to be dropped after I healed his soul,,, he left me for the women who cheated on him..
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My husband of 31 years left me with 1 days notice and then 2 weeks later he's in another relationship. Listening to these over and over again have helped me so much. I am so grateful thank you ♥
How are you doing today? I am going through something similar . I knew the guy 17 years off and on the last 10 years we where together. He dumped me for another and is still with her. It's a year now he left me for her and it has been so very very hard for me to move forward. I think of him everyday and then I start to think of them and it hurts so bad. I get mad at myself for missing him when he doesn't even seem to think I exists . He seems very happy with the new one. How can someone just forget everything you did for them and move on like nothing. I don't understand.
@The Queen and Her castle... . Anything right now will help so I can try to understand what happened because I will never get closure from him . I woke up this morning missing him so much and it hurts but I have to try to move forward. Thank you
@The Queen and Her castle... . Thank you for your words and your information I will definitely look at those videos. Maybe I will understand more. Like when he looked me straight into my eyes and said I love you and then he was gone he wasn't even going to tell me he was ignoring me he didn't call or see me for 4 days until I approached him and then he told me no more sleep overs I've been causal talking to another woman. Again thank you for advice I will look into Narc more.
GIRL. This video saves lives and souls. Do not feel bad about being left by someone who doesn't want you. Give all the love you gave them to yourself Be gentle with myself Talk to god Journal your egos anger Iyanla is golden with wisdom and self care I thank god for her.
I feel so broken. 2 and a half years and now this. I don’t understand how someone can promise you forever and then just leave you behind like your worthless.
Antonio DelQuan hold your head up, stick your chest out! In due time you'll be just fine! Just let it go, know that if a person leave you, they wasn't meant for you! Focus on yourself, please don't run behind them don't wonder who or if their with anyone else it's no longer your business. Do absolutely no contact. As time go on you will feel better.
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The hardest thing is loving someone that never loved you like they claimed they did...To find out at the end you were in a relationship alone they never was all in. I was with a guy from my past for 4 months I knew better but I still accepted how he was treating me...I am very angry at myself cause I knew better. I ignored the signs and red flags....I am glad I went through this it taught me alot...I am hurt like hell!!
I’m going threw the same exact thing but have been married to this person for almost 5 years. I’m sorry your going threw it but pls keep smiling and pray for peace and strength to understand there is something better.
KP Incorporated AKA Selfloveyou!! It is always like that. You ignore the red flags and then end up with the short end of the stick. But things happen for a reason and if the person didn’t leave you might not have ever left so it’s like in a way God did the work for you
FancyFrancey loveyou1st I’m in the same situation after 9 months and our first argument he left me. Told me he was too angry at my for hurting him that his feelings turn off. It was just one day from another. Is weird because I feel sad not hurt in a way relieve tbh like I knew it was there but I was trying to make it work but how he ended things show he was always with one foot out never fully invested like me.
MsMarkeila @ been there myself hun , god looks after his children..... it’s only been 6 months of getting that person out of my life , but I feel and see better . I was hurt so bad but I’m glad he wanted to leave as I know and can do better💯🙏🏾👍🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🥂💋
He told me it was over and to leave his home. I didn't ask why. I just went to my car and drove off. That was 9 years ago and from the day I drove off until now, I have not called, texted, emailed, written or anything. I have never begged anyone who didn't want me and I never ask why. Iyanla you are right, that the relationship had been going downhill way before that last day. Thanks for these lessons Iyanla.
very true what she is saying...I went through the same thing and confronted the hurt. After i was done healing my entire life changed for the better. I found love, first within MYSELF and then from a wonderful man, who treats me with the utmost respect who I will be marrying soon. Really good advise.
Alana's Take congratulations girl!!! I hope I can heal soon but it seems like I’m not. 11yrs with someone is a long time and he leaving and wanted something new and wanted to be with many women broke me. I hope o get to where u are. But it is hard when I shared a son with my ex partner.
I see this is 9 mos ago . I hope you recovered. My x just left me over Xmas Holiday . It was devastating i was a good very good girlfriend but he just left and abandoned me after 3 YEARS... I wanna hurt him so bad.....
same here everyone, 2 years, my first serious relationship. i love him. but this has been creeping on us, if im honest. its just so devastating, losing all the time and the plans we made and the world we created
Man, it's hard. The negative thoughts and the "why" are strong when someone doesn't reciprocate back to you what you give to them. Slowly, I am learning to distance myself from people who simply don't care about me as much as I care about them...it's so tiring to give so much effort for crumbs in return.
Probably nothing, sometimes people just don't get it until it's too late. I am a firm believer in Karma. What you do to others will eventually come back to you.
I swear I’m a 49 year old man… I’ve never cried so much like this… watching her and listening to her videos… I’m hurt and I’m dealing with it… it’s not easy… but I’m getting through it.. the more I cry the more I’m letting out the pain I’ve been feeling for 7 years straight… I’m starting to build a new me… breaking all bad habits…
I held on for so long and the writing was on the wall. I did not make myself a priority. I am learning every hour and minute. Thank you Ms. Iyanla for your inspirational words.
@Glynis In October 2016 When the GUY LEFT ...i was HURT HEARTBROKEN & WORST OF ALL I KEPT MYSELF STUCK and this lasted 3 years and when i said ENOUGH you will not go into 2020 carrying this broken Energy...LET GO LET GO LET GO . Iyanla drops nothing but total gems....But honestly, RU-vid cured my depression and inspired me to start my own channel. It was a risk I was willing to take and I decided why not begin with documenting moving out of my Depression to Self Love stage.....and Boom I just took the leap. I am not fussed about being popular, I think its my message which is important.....but if the channel can flourish and grow then that's a BONUS!!!!. I CANNOT WAIT TO GET BACK TO MYSELF AND NORMAL ROUTINES AGAIN BUT IN THE MEANTIME AND WHATS HELPING ME REFICUS AND HEAL IS MY YT CHANNEL. I created a RU-vid Channel Documenting my Self Love Journey 2020 & Would Love For You All To See and Support My Channel. Check it Out >>>> ru-vid.com/show-UC64VqNHt4-TG7R-To31cFAg. I hope You Like It : ) and it inspires you to just TAKE THE LEAP....Do it for Yourself not for anyone else and enjoy the process. Its tough but worth it.....and as we stuck in doors we might as well kill sometime and get creative. Have a blessed Weekend xo
Lord this lady has reached depths of my soul.. everything she said is the truth this is my current situation.. she ministers from the heavens..I wish I could hug her
What a blessing. I workout in a place with mostly other women. I know that I am experiencing my own hurt and pain over the relationship that I am ending. But today, while waiting for my exercise class to start, in walks two women who I have talked to before but we don't know each other personally. Well, suddenly we were all talking about relationships and one woman begins to cry almost hysterically. Through her tears she was able to say, "I'm sorry y'all. My husband left me and moved in with another woman, TODAY!" Wooo! She was about to make me cry, shit! I just said to her, "Come on girl. Let's go outside and get some air." I said to her that this is not a new relationship between them, this was already organized. I advised her to allow herself to feel exactly how she felt and to do absolutely nothing with the anger. Don't get divorce papers. Don't call. Don't throw his stuff away. Just be still. She assured me that she wasn't going to do anything. A few minutes later I told her to put her angry energy into the workout. She said she would. Poor thing stayed in class as long as she could but as she passed me when she was leaving, she said goodnight and so did I. When I came home and settled down, I prayed for her and him. Even though I'm going through my own mess, later for my stuff; it's so minor compaired to this. Now, I had no Idea, hours ago, that I was going to come across this video. The Universe is moving and working and we don't need to do anything, really. When I see her again, I'm going to send this video to her. Especially since I'm sure that somebody prayed for me too. Please be kind to one another because you never know the pain that other people are going through. Lord, I hope her ass ain't locked up!
Thank...I could of used you when I caught my ex on our anniversary night and in cone waking in a 22 year...she had been messing around for months...karma is real...the energy we put in does cone back...it comes back. I dodged a bullet...rather us getting married, she is now marrying the girl I caught her messing around with...crazy
😂, true. I’m laughing at the end of this message. Thanks for making me laugh. I’ve been in a relationship for 8yrs with Kendall, left me for another woman. The funny thing is that he is justifying his actions to make himself feel good for moving on with another women. Yes sisters, you have to channel your energy towards God, acceptance is one out of many steps to healing. The way we heal is so important. This process is just like an open wound. In order to make the skin look healthy during the scaring process, we must take care of it with dieting etc. hurting is part of the healing process. When we heal, we have to incorporate truth and faith for healthier skin. God bless you sisters. “No nation can rise higher than its women”
Same thing just happened to me during the xmas holiday. 3 yrs without any talking about if he wanted to work it out , he just We grew distant and NEVER let me know he was feeling like that and thats basically all i got from him after 3 yrs together happy.. I asked him to bed honest if it was another woman involved he said no but I dont know if this is true or not. Im devastated...
I can relate 3 years together and i just loss my mom a month later he starts distancing himself we didnt bring in the new year ..he stop answering my calls and he would text back after i sent like 20 texts ...i called him 3 days after my birthday which he didnt wish me a happy birthday i call him and a female answers his phone talkin about they together and After doing some digging i find out its this female i caught him texting last year ..so after all the blaming me accusing me of cheating he was pursuing someone else ...im so hurt this just happen last night ..he wont even let me come get my stuff out his house Talking bout he gon mail it to me😡😡😡😭😭😭💔💔💔
I'm sure he showed signs of not being fully present. Unfortunately we refuse to accept and acknowledge it. Prayerfully things are better for you in Jesus name.
God lead me to you Iyanla! I needed to hear this right now! My depression has been deepening after my ex broke up with me 6 months ago. Thank you thank you so very much for your advice!! Love to you ❤️❤️
My significant other just broke up with me yesterday. I really did love this person and the pain can be unbearable at times. Watching this did give me some hope. Thank you.
My partner and I had been doing great. He disappeared all day yesterday. He resurfaced with the truth. He's struggling with addiction and a job loss and he decided that the relationship was not a good idea at this time and asked me for my friendship instead, as he works on himself. In all honesty, while it hurts a little , I'm relieved he spoke his truth and I told him yes, I can be his friend and be as reasonably supportive as I can as he faces his demons. No ego here. People are free to do what they feel and if that doesn't include a relationship with an individual that so be it. Its not healthy to want someone who really doesn't want you. Its not fair to either party. I let him go easily this morning and told him I want what he feels is best for his life. I also don't want to be with someone struggling with addiction who won't get professional help. He thinks he can kick the habit on his own. He tried that before and relapsed yesterday, on his birthday. I'm praying for him but I refuse to be hurt by the break up, I'm more hurt by the addiction.
I needed to hear this my man left me for his side piece I felt like dirt I was hurt I fought to get back question everything. in the end the side piece won. it hurts but don't lose yourself ladies trust me I know. let it go it will make you lose your mind if you dont.
In October 2016 When the GUY LEFT ...i was HURT HEARTBROKEN & WORST OF ALL I KEPT MYSELF STUCK and this lasted 3 years and when i said ENOUGH you will not go into 2020 carrying this broken Energy...LET GO LET GO LET GO . Iyanla drops nothing but total gems....But honestly, RU-vid cured my depression and inspired me to start my own channel. It was a risk I was willing to take and I decided why not begin with documenting moving out of my Depression to Self Love stage.....and Boom I just took the leap. I am not fussed about being popular, I think its my message which is important.....but if the channel can flourish and grow then that's a BONUS!!!!. I CANNOT WAIT TO GET BACK TO MYSELF AND NORMAL ROUTINES AGAIN BUT IN THE MEANTIME AND WHATS HELPING ME REFICUS AND HEAL IS MY YT CHANNEL. I created a RU-vid Channel Documenting my Self Love Journey 2020 & Would Love For You All To See and Support My Channel. Check it Out >>>> ru-vid.com/show-UC64VqNHt4-TG7R-To31cFAg. I hope You Like It : ) and it inspires you to just TAKE THE LEAP....Do it for Yourself not for anyone else and enjoy the process. Its tough but worth it.....and as we stuck in doors we might as well kill sometime and get creative. Have a blessed Weekend xo
The love of my life of six years left me for his side and he married someone else now after 3years my husband of one year has left me for his other woman I blame me and iam here to stop hurting my self like that😔
Especially being left via silent treatment. I almost lost my mind, I couldn't understand how anyone would treat another this way. After 3 months I reached asking to talk and end things appropriately, promised to but never did. I had to admit this person is a horrible piece of human!
@Rebecca Last year at about this same time I was going through a breakup similar to yours: silent treatment then got dumped via text. Never thought I would make it but a year later here I am laughing at it. Just want to encourage you and send you tons of love/ good vibes. This is just God redirecting you to something and someone better. Hang in there
had the same!!!!! its the most horrible thing because you have no closure. you only have whys. it hurts soooo much. i hear you... both in recovery mode. we will make it though! sending love to you!
I feel u sister I went through the same thing years ago and I almost went crazy. that guy was a horrible person and after 6 months of silent treatment he advised me to go see a shrienk. I was young and he was older and I felt used.
He left me twice in TEN years and got 2 people to call and convince me each time, that he truly loves me. I brought him back twice. He is leaving me again today- this needs closure. Thank you Lyanla, i weep when i hear your messages but i know in time, with your advice i'll be stronger and find the right one who will love and respect me and help me fulfill my dreams.
Thx Iyanla for ur wise advice. I was left by my husband of 25 years and it was very painful but I cherished my children and thought of the good times and relying on God and prayers to keep me sain. I thought I was not going to make it, but God is good. It has been 2 years now, and am still going strong. Am waiting for ur video on how to heal the children.
I have not been in a relationship since I was 38 years old when my last relationship reached its end...I am 60 now. I did not plan for this, it literally took me years to learn how to love myself, fully...not through the lense, attention, affection or approval of another but though clarity of self and self-worth. I had layers of stuff I had to work through. However, I have no regrets because it was work that had to be done sooner or later and work that only I could do. I AM GRATEFUL for all of the lessons, blessing, teachers and students...THANK YOU ALL, THANK YOU.
The funny thing is i'm good now i realized i deserved better and will get better than what i thought i needed in God's time, he will come into my life and i will be ready, until then i will enjoy everyday God gives me!!!!!!!!
I LOVE you Iyanla, I think I just got it, IT'S NOT PERSONAL, we can only control ourselves and how we respond to everyone outside ourselves!!! Don't focus on why, just pay attention to their actions and the signals they give us!!! And I've come to the conclusion that I want to love with the best of my ability those that I am connected to by nature and by choice!!!
Sad thing is I knew he no longer wanted me and I was on a no contact rule for at least one month ....the next thing I did, I am still shameful of it I showed up at his door at 6:30 am and begged him to take me back...he never replied till this very day....there signs were always there never ignore them
I NEEDED THIS LORD KNOWS I DID ❤️ 5 years I gave my all into someone I didn’t think would give up on me. He left me because of his own feelings towards me which made me feel like I was losing myself. I had signs and etc but I still wanted things to work out because my love was so strong I thought it was capable of rebuilding. I cried begged pleaded and even asked why. I couldn’t get clear answers except “I don’t want to be with someone I don’t want” I left with my dignity and he also gave me tools to help me stay strong it’s just bittersweet because as he was tearing me down he was trying to build me up. I’m a STRONG WOMAN and he knows that I will get through this like he told me “it’s never the right time to say goodbye”
Oluwasefunmi Ayorinde now I understand all the reasons why we couldn’t be together no longer as I go through My process of healing. It really takes one day at a time & genuinely very good Friends 🙏🏾❤️ And most of all God ! Life passes on ❤️ you got to keep going
@Shamanda ME too :( In October 2016 When the GUY LEFT ...i was HURT HEARTBROKEN & WORST OF ALL I KEPT MYSELF STUCK and this lasted 3 years and when i said ENOUGH you will not go into 2020 carrying this broken Energy...LET GO LET GO LET GO . Iyanla drops nothing but total gems....But honestly, RU-vid cured my depression and inspired me to start my own channel. It was a risk I was willing to take and I decided why not begin with documenting moving out of my Depression to Self Love stage.....and Boom I just took the leap. I am not fussed about being popular, I think its my message which is important.....but if the channel can flourish and grow then that's a BONUS!!!!. I CANNOT WAIT TO GET BACK TO MYSELF AND NORMAL ROUTINES AGAIN BUT IN THE MEANTIME AND WHATS HELPING ME REFICUS AND HEAL IS MY YT CHANNEL. I created a RU-vid Channel Documenting my Self Love Journey 2020 & Would Love For You All To See and Support My Channel. Check it Out >>>> ru-vid.com/show-UC64VqNHt4-TG7R-To31cFAg. I hope You Like It : ) and it inspires you to just TAKE THE LEAP....Do it for Yourself not for anyone else and enjoy the process. Its tough but worth it.....and as we stuck in doors we might as well kill sometime and get creative. Have a blessed Weekend xo
When a bad person leaves you, you have a huge sense of relief. It is funny when he thinks he left you for someone else and he has that sense of superiority thinking he won. It is funny when he finds out that you were planning to leave him for a long time. Actually he did you a favor by leaving! The funny thing is that he is in a rebound relationship with someone worse than him.
I really needed this. My spouse of 10 years has cheated several times, threatened to leave me, has a serious gambling problem, works when he feels like it and tells me to get over anything that makes me upset because my feelings are not important. I have finally built up the courage to end it. My happiness comes first. I love your show!
I'm so glad I found you❤ my husband left me after 38 years of marriage for someone younger, someone he worked with, people say there must have been red flags, but honestly didn't see. Its been 2 years I'm doing better but the sadness comes and goes. I have three grown children and there my constant. Thank you for this video, so very hard to let go when you love someone that doesn't love u back and that you've loved for so many years. Thank you Iyanla❤❤❤ Norma Jean
Norma Weimer wow just wow. 38years? That must have been heart wrenching. Mine just left after 11 years and I feel sick all the time and don’t know what to do with myself. I pray all the time and try and keep it together. It’s very difficult. I just want to send you love and peace.
Norma Weimer that selfish fool, that young girl gon leave him for someone younger just watch and u will have the last laugh with that 😂 he just want to feel young and that he will never be again😂🐇
Wow is all I can say as I see what has been done to me and what I have done to others. So full right now. I appreciate this perspective. Thank you Iyanla 😊
Thank you Beloved....my friend sent this to me.Girl you are speaking everything I was thinking and needed to hear.Bless you as I realize we all are going through
Wish I heard this a month ago... my ego was bruised. But I knew the first month of our dating and 4 years later... I let him walk away with my dignity.
I have been watching videos similar to this, reading and seeking out materials of this like, and this is the Best place I have found, the best advice I’ve come across. Thank you so much Iyanla!
I cant even leave your posts/videos..whomever left you must have been scared. Your strength shines through to the world and I honestly love you for it! Also you are very youthful and I love the hair too!
This is so powerful it spoke to me in a way I could not find in all my youtube video watching and google search reading 🤦🏾....Thank you Iyanla! Thank You.
When you got to the part of giving love to yourself for the first time in weeks I felt like I could stand up again. Thank you for being so real and easy to understand. I like your honesty!
My husband went to the store for milk and got Bread instead!!! Seriouusly he left me laying here in the Floor handicapped! No income, car, food nothing!!! And a year and half I have not heard from him!!!! We had been together 17 years!!- And I'm FINE💜 actually I have not cryed a drop or even missed him HELL I had to GET BUSY!! BUT I AM SOO MUCH BETTER OFF SINCE THEN!! And I'm Great All around!!!
Debbie Kiser, I am glad you are well and I hope that each day that your life gets happier. Are u sure that he is alive? Was there an accident? Have you out a missing person report? Some people leave, because the can’t get back. Either way u have to move on, and u seem to be doing a good job!! God bless.
Definitely one of the best videos I saw about this topic. Thank you Iyanla! You have such a warm and symphatic presence. The hardest part for me is to allow feeling hurt and don't judge myself for having something done wrong or the other person being wrong. In my past relationships, I got super clingy when the other persons ended them. But meanwhile, I feel stronger just being by and loving myself which makes that break-up-process a lot more easier. And to remind myself of all that love that I can feel for another person, I could feel it for myself as well, because it comes from me, that's so important. Also shame is a strong feeling I have. Shame about being more needy, about that I did a lot while I got less and didn't want to see it. Maybe you could make a video about that someday? Would be awesome. Or the difference between feeling fear and the gut feeling, and how to distinguish them, because it's not so easy sometimes. I felt it in my gut just after the start of the relationship, that someting is "strange" or not how I want it to be. The next time, I'll give it more attention. Thank you!
Iyanla thank you for this share. Your empathy compassion and wisdom are sooo needed and appreciated. I pray I begin to find a circle of people I can have these types of open heart conversations with without the judgement of how our egos can take over sometimes when not kept in check. Honor my hurt...that is something I've never considered doing. I stumbled upon this because I am being called by my spirit to address and heal my wounds with my father who was not physically present for me in my life. In some ways I feel as if he is the one who left me and although I have taken the steps to forgive him and I have I recognize I was feeling "stuck" in not knowing what to do with my own trauma of the pain.
I needed to hear this! Although it was my desire to get closure from him I now realize that my closure is knowing who I am and who I was in my entire relationship. I didn't lower my standards just because he showed me in so many ways that he did not value me as his wife or mother of his children. Now I need to shift my focus and see why I stayed and put up with the nonsense for so long. Thank you so much for this video!!!!!!!
Thank you, Iyanla. For the past two weeks, and as I approach my 60th birthday, I've embraced the mantra, "I'm healing" and have been working toward spiritual decluttering; putting out the trash of the last decade of my life. I'm finally healing from a sudden break up and this video is clarifying how to put the final pieces of my heart back into place. I did see and hear whispers in my soul that the relationship wasn't as "magical" as I was spinning it to be and am meditating on what I did with that "knowing". Today I looked into the mirror and said, "The love I gave is the love that I AM. And I REFUSE to want to be in a place where I'm not wanted, honored, treasured, and respected and where my love cannot be returned in FULL measure." It's now my new practice as I continue to heal and move forward. Looking up, looking out, and being love & light. Peace & blessings to you. 💗
I’m glad I listened to this because this is so accurate in my life . The question “ Why “ will run you crazy ! I started to question myself . It’s not easy ! But I will get through this ! Thanks IYANLA:)
I cannot believe last year this time I was heartbroken and then A friend of mine told me about this woman and send to me her videos. only I can say my dear thank you so much to make me stronger God bless you
I am so sorry to hear that Jack. That women wasn't for you ! Take you time and grieve ❤️ Stay strong. A Men left me a few days ago and told me one of the reasons was: how unattractive it made me that i was grieving over my sister who died young 2 years ago. He told me i never was his priority because of my sister... that statement was really hard to swallow it hit me like a rock. This men was so insecure. He himself was still after his first love and didn't had much feelings for me in the first place, but that women is still alive that's the very big difference (he sometimes acted like you could compare the two situations) but instead of leaving him, i stayed and tried my best to be what he wanted and that was a big mistake. Jack i wish you all the best. Your mother would be proud of you ❤️
@@soleil7259 Think you for the kind words but more importantly thanks for sharing your story and your pain. I wish you the best that life has to offer!! Take care & be safe.
Just started listening to your life lessons and I'm sooo thankful for your words of wisdom. I been hurting for years and finally took the stand to let go of a person. That love was draining my energy. Letting go already made me feel better and hearing you confirms that I made the right decision. Time for me to love and heal myself.
My husband of 10 left me for another woman and he kelped playing games with me saying he would come back home. Meanwhile he said he was just telling me that cause I was calling acting suicidal. I was....my ego got the best of me and I wanted to confront the new lady to tell her he tried to play both of us. I gotta move on and let this mess go. Im so agree I been played by a man I supported for 10 years. I gotta get this out my head and move the heck on. Thanks Iyanla
In the same boat,no contact to the new lady she probably knows most don't care there are women/men out here targeting married people look we put the work in these people took and used what they could and found what they want,in the end she got a puy together piece of shit, we have to move forward count it all on joy there's something out there first heal you 💯 💪 🙏🙌 because they jumped off the ledge doesn't mean you go jumping behind them,let them drown you go back to the foundation and start repairing it within you...
Day 3 and I needed to hear ALL of this as I begin to pick up the pieces of my life! It’s funny how my breakup had taught me sooooooo much about myself! And while the pain is gutrenching, I am going to be alright! I’ve learned and accepted that the relationship was seasonal and the lessons it was supposed to teach me! I’ll cry but they are definitely healing tears! This video was right on time as I was already journaling this morning!!!
