Never commented on any of her videos but this one was so crazy You better be confident in yourself to sign up to be in video like this 💀💀 watching when he made green shirt go back omg
I was in an abusive relationship for 3 years. Once I was done I was DONE. I had to make an exit plan. Once I was away from him and safe, I could deal with my emotions. I remember when I was staying at a woman's shelter and they made us go to this meeting. I remember some of the women crying and I was ANGRY. I told the staff I refused to go to those crybaby meetings. I stopped seeing myself as the victim long before I left. I channeled my anger into working on my goals. I had alot of anger for many years and it got to the point where my oldest daughter told me I was scary when I was angry. THAT broke me. Lots of parents want their kids to be fearful of them and I never wanted that. So I went to therapy. I had 2 different therapists before I found the one I have now and I've been seeing her for about 6 years. Like Dee said holding onto anger and bitterness doesn't help YOU.
Lmao that look was only because people are weird and are constantly trying to link us together even though we broke up 4 YEARS ago. Had nothing to do with my feelings about him, have no issues with that man at all. It just gets annoying when people won't let shit go lol
I wish they had mediators for these damn videos to remind them of the point like bro FOCUS they be making everything deep for no reason like golly bruh
After a breakup with my ex's I be more disappointed rather than angry. All of my ex's eventually come back apologizing months or years later and I be in a better place while they be stressed than a mf with their new partners. Got kids with a ain't shit nigga and all types of stuff. But I don't rub it in. I want everyone to find that right one for them even if it's not with me.
I knew that dude in the green shirt was going to end up in the back. He was arrogant af. People are human. One of the things that happens with us is when we're hurt we tend to mask that with anger. We villanize the other person so as long as we do THAT we don't have to look at the mistakes WE made in the relationship. We're only treated the way we ALLOW someone to treat us. That can be a hard pill to swallow especially for people who give too much in a relationship. They don't realize that you shouldn't put anyone over yourself. But life is about growth and growth is painful but worth it.
