"Who's Paying The Rent If We Move In Together?" : NdaniRealTalk S3E1 - 50/50 Rule 

Im just here to stare at Sharon Ooja's fine self...

50/50 is impractical and unfair to women. You will be contributing 50/50 in finances and when it comes to manual labor in the home you’re like 99/1 where 99% falls on the woman. Women who agree to such madness are shooting themselves in the foot. As for me, I refuse to do it. Balance is key and 50/50 is not balance. Unless we go 50/50 on chores too .

Mimi has a lotta maturity and sense...Timini and Sharon are still in the having fun phase ...Western generation has taken their brain away 😂😂😂

lol interesting Topic, i just loved Mimi more because we think alike. Very practical and realistic. Timini is a typical Nigerian man.

Love Mimi's opinions !! Why's koye quiet? ?? I feel like he has a TOTALLY different mindset & doesn't wanna stress it 😂

I love mimi already. her responses are very practical ( in her own words). I need a girl like her in my life so that we can both build an empire together.

I like Mimi - she's practical, mature and very reasonable.

At the end of the day, there's no one way to have a relationship. It all comes down to what the couple is comfortable with. There can't be that whole, only the man should.... or only the woman should..... thing anymore. There is no right way, just different ways that are right for you.

Ahh Timini fell my hand in the end ohhh. Mimi is so realistic and practical, I love her! I was expecting Koye to be more talkative lol. Sharon babyyy girl for life!

Mimi is the real MVP of this show, learnt a lot from her

Mimi issa voice of reason. Timini made both good and annyoying points. He also made the conversation interesting. Did Koye speak at all?

Timini thinks it's the mans place to have the final say concerning certain decisions but yet he believes in the 50/50 rule. To me that's contradictory.

I enjoyed it. Very silly topic but Timini made the conversation fun

i honestly loved this conversation. as for me 50/50 rule on finances for a couple is a NO. women have more expenses than men do and they are expected to do even more in a union like cooking, taking care of the house and birthing the children, Generally Women endures a lot to be honest and are always left emotionally, financially and physically drained by men. i find that a women is in her best when the bills are being taken care of by the man of the house ... men who expect to have a traditional women (the one who cooks, clean and take care of the home) should also work hard and be traditional man (PROVIDE FOR YOUR WOMAN AND CHILDREN).... Men and Women ARE NOT the same nor equal , feminism might have fooled many in thinking we are we really are not.Women, please sit firmly in your femininity and watch how things fall into place.... peace and love

I love mimi, she’s so intelligent, full of wisdom❤️❤️

Only Mimi made sense all the way. Koye, wetin happen?

Mimi's responses are top notch. Timini made the conversation fun

"What's good for gogo is good for gaga". Words I live by

I love Mimi she is so practical and rational especially that talk of moving into her house situation. My opinion if he moves in for practical reasons he will pay the rent

Me rolling my eyes at Timini's opinion.

I love Mimi’s facial expression at the end lollllll when Timini spoke about the ‘man being a man’ in relation to decision making.

In marriage each person has to give 100% all of the time. All opinions should be heard in a relationship and a decision has to be made. Both people have to compromise a little and find a middle ground, as long as ‘core principles’ are not compromised.

What is the name of the lady in green . She had some good and mature points

The guy that quoted the Bible is hilarious. Where does that exist in the Bible. In btwn, Timini and Sharon are giving us the coded Banky W and Adesuwa vibes💕💕💋

Will it be 50/50 cooking and domestic cores too as well as looking after our babies and toddlers ?

Wawuu.. Timini is just being funny..He made the show lively...sharon, I just love that lady..Mimi,very matured and always practical

Loved how logical Mimi was aswell

ugh i love this...my girl k'ola holding it down! missed you. lol shalewa and Timini are funny. mimi is is smart.

lol...love how Sharon Ooja slid in that "no" after Timini's monologue @16:11!

Real talk is back 😍😍😍, please help us do something about Gidi up too 😋🙏🏼👏

I pretty much love Mimi. She's speaking my heart

Pls how can I marry Timini? I'm shook at how on point his mentality is. Edit: nvm he has said he's a man too much lol

Correct me if I am wrong, but almost everybody in the Focus Group seems to be in the entertainment industry. Their responses seem not to be far from each other. They should have spread the profession so as to get different views. Anyways, good show!

Oh yeah, I just love the sync in their conversation, especially Sharon and Mimi, they're the ideal matured, realistic, forward looking women, and wife material too...Thumbs up to the host, nice show

Mimi was very realistic and I love that and for timini he sounded like those old Africa men that do claim they are the man in everything. Sharon was very interactive as well but koye was just quiet that is too bad.concerning the rule of 50/50 I don't think it possible but what am gonna say is each partner should make sure they take up responsibility and make each other feel comfortable at the end of all.thanks more vibes

Why did Koye 10 come to occupy space here? And the presenter should have drawn him into the conversation by directing questions at him. Cornelia O' Dwyer is still my favourite Real Talk presenter but I like the show and will still keep watching.

I guess we may all be used to Koyes comedy skit.... But just by watching this we can easily understand that he is on the quiet side. Or wont just talk like the others... So the host should have able to make it work and engage him more 😊

Timi we pray that too much sense will not kill you! really liked his perspective and his angle to answering the questions

Sharon: first of all I'm not dating you if you are living in your father's house Timini: bla bla bla ...btw I'm not living in my father's house. Issokayyy ☕️

I agree with Sharon. No man that is still leaving in this parents house allowed in my life. PERIOD!

😄 Our first REAL TALK epic quote for this Season, “What’s good for Gogo is always good for Gaga.” Gbammest! 👊🏽#WhatsGoodForGogoIsGoodForGaga #AreGogo&GagaTwins?

I'm just here to witness Sharon and Timini chemistry ❤

I completely share the same opinion with timini

Shout out for Mimi straight up love way of talking and expression

I love this. I can't say yes or no for the 50/50 rule, especially since I'm not old or mature enough to be in such a relationship right now, so my opinion will surely change. When you talked about the scenario of being promoted and moving to another place, I totally stood with what Sharon said "what are my options there",very intelligent. Timini said he feels it's just like every other decision but you have to let someone have the final say. I don't entirely agree with that. Moving your entire life to another country is very different from deciding where to go on weekends,or what to buy etc,this is her picking up her entire life(and the kids if there are any) and moving it for you, so I think you both should reach a decision TOGETHER. Whatever works best for you both, although she most probably will compromise. Anyways I really love this and they all spoke intelligently. Also, my respect for Mimi has quadrupled! Can't wait for more👏🏽👍🏽

Koye doesn’t like noise, see as he is listening.

That haircut on Timini is the only thing he brought around that I love and love 😍. The entire 50/50 thing with no reference to house chores and childbearing and rearing is 🚮 but then again... To every man his own 🤗

Timini is a real African man... very transparent

Mimi is so mature, practical and realistic. Timini going off and. On with points. Sharon is just going with the flow What's up with koye??

“Do what is practical” I like that 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

Timini : Mimi is the kind of girl that will take care of me when I'm broke I need a girl like mimi Sharon: EVERY GIRL WILL DO THAT EVERY GIRL WILL DO THAT 😂🏃🏾‍♀️

I could have sworn Sharon and Timini were dating. I could have sworn!

"What's good for 'Goo Goo' is also good for 'Ga Ga'".

I love my girl Sharon for dayssssssss 💕💕

The man can make final decisions IF he has genuinely taken the opinions of his woman into account! Not imposing his on her

Sharon is so amazing❤❤ everything she said is spot on

Mimi is vocalizing my thought process. totally agree

The guy with the glasses was awfully quiet... wonder why the host didn't try to sway the conversation his way... she made it so awkward to watch seeing everyone speaking and one person just ghosting away. #tough.

To be practical like mimi stated, one person will give a little more... In the end. It's fluid. It's not written in stone..

The 50/50 rule will be great if the man can carry the pregnancy for 4 and half months...I will give him the last term to delivery😂😂😂

They all grown but, the one with the mature mentality and wisdom is Mimi. Sharon and Timini are going with the flow, what feels good right now ( might be fun first, until reality hits )

Wonder why koye didn't get involved as much into the conversation. Love the show though.......good topic

I agree with timini. The man is the leader and while you may not always agree, the man makes the final decision

timini's voice uussshhh !!, great conversation and i agree with sharon; love is sharing and u shld be able to compensate each other cus 50-50 doesnt always work in case one doesnt have at one point !!!

I am actually that Timini could actually say his mind on the man having the final decision without feeling like people would come back at him.

I love this show and thumbs up to Timini I know men who feel relaxed when they get support in finances, it all has to do with communication and agreement but i don't think i'll want to open up on my finances when marriage sets in. Team Sharon

I came here to watch Sharon and I'm not disappointed. But, Mimi issa voice of reason

I love the conversation. My husband and I are married professionald I feel 50/50 individual to different couples.

as for me, "what's good for googo is also good for gaga"

The same timini said "this is not the 70s" when it came to the man footing all the bills. Yet he is making comments like "I'm the man, the decision is final" you keep contradicting yourself. In this 2018? Lol u sir are a jokester. Being a man does not automatically equate to having sense

love this show!! The host looks mad familiar

Dear Ndani tv we need you to start a show for Sharoon, mimi, abimbola, bisola and timini .......they will be interesting host for people to watch.Thanks in advance

I love the lady in green. Very matured and real.

Lol a 50/50 home is never a peaceful home. They have the highest divorce rates. Women prefer a provider. That will never change 😴

Bring these guys back for more episode i really loved this so much xxx

Timini ooo! You're a superstar

I believe in the 50/50 rule to the extent that it promotes equality in relationships. In terms of finances however, I feel the income of both parties should be considered.

Addressing Real Life issues. I Love it

love timini’s hair and i can’t watch koye w/o thinking of his character so i laugh whenever I see him

Totally enjoyed this episode, love love the new host and the guests as well ...till next time

Sharon is so serious😂😂😂

When I see Sharon aka Shalewa and her boyfriend does that mean skinny girl in transit is coming any time soon

That man in the yellow shirt is definitely a miser.

Interesting discussion. Monthly allowance.......hmmmmm

What's good for go-go is also good for ga-ga

50/50 rule is ok. As long as we also split chores 50/50. If am cleaning this week he's cleaning next week..

Is like it’s the man that believe they should pay and the ladies want to split the bill... Thank God for the advanced thinking of nowadays

I think they should have flipped that promotion question and said what if the woman gets a promotion paying her how ever many times more and she has to relocate, what then will the guy be as understanding that you love your job and you've been working hard for this and its your dream?

Mimi is so smart and mature!

Enjoyed every bit of it Anyways, 50/50 is a no no for me. Awesome one people.... Awesome

Loved thisss! Great engaging convo. Sharonnnnn! You are looking sooo sweet sis! What closureee?!

I totally enjoyed watching this

Do you notice Timini looks at Sharon when He talks, same with Sharon

Anything that works for you

when the presenter said the bible said he who finds a wife. did you guys talk on marriage or relationship.

I don't expect my man to pay the house bill all by himself, we'll pay it together. For me 50/50 means we are paying the bills together but you also have to cook n clean. If you want 50/50. We are gg all the way. You cannot expect me to pay everything half with you and you're not lifting a finger, not even to wash your own clothing. I think that it should be sth ya'll negotiate, whatever fits the couple but for me this is how it would be.

If you are a man like Timini who agrees to the 50-50 rule and still have the African mentality of him being The Man, the head of the family that has the final say, there will always be problems in the marriage because he has two conflicting mariatal personality. If you want to have the final say you take full responsibility like the men in the 80s do.

Sharon + timini= 😍

why the hell is timini contradicting himself ? you want to be the man make all the decision but when its time to pay the rent you opt for a 50-50...being a man and in charges means being able to give your lady security...

can timini just keep quiet lmao and koye is probably just like wo e ma ko ba mi