Back in October I asked my gym crush out and she said…Sorry I have a boyfriend and I replied that’s ok I totally understand but added I just felt a connection (probably shouldn’t of added that) Anyway seen her 4-5 times in gym since and she ignores me or pretends not to see me and one time turned her head when we passed almost to the point of being rude! I mean flaming hell I know she has a boyfriend but is there’s a chance that much of a problem to nod your head and be civil? I make sure I’m On the opposite end of the gym now and don’t make eye contact But I must admit I do feel hurt as it’s rare I find a girl that attractive ie maybe once every 3-4 years! I’m told I’m a good looking guy who looks a lot younger I would just like to know if she at least secretly likes me back? She was in the gym today and I was amazed that she used a couple of machines near me although we didn’t make eye contact! It’s been almost 3 months now and I still feel there’s a connection there but in auras at least! I’m not desperate and I’m capable of getting other girls but I can’t seem to forget this one for some reason! What do think?
Im attracted to people introverts with some sorts of problem, the feeling of helping somebody just make me feel better, an easy thing thats starts me with mixed feelings is when i realise somebody has a “mask” and is hiding something.
People you are attracted to: 0:35 younger 1:14 older 1:40 talented and creative 2:19 lone wolves 3:01 free spirit 3:31 social butterflies 4:10 strong and silent types 4:46 nurturers 5:14 life of the party
I’m attracted to confidence above everything. Not sure what that would say about me 😅 but it’s so attractive. They don’t rely on putting others down or tearing people apart. They don’t rely on outside validation or constant compliments. I want more of that
I'm attracted to almost everything you mentioned, let's just say they all have something that attracts me. I really liked the drawings on Jungkook, it made me laugh a little😂 Are there any ARMY here💜
For me it's the trait of the person who is open minded!! If I become Friend with this person, I feel more free to express what I want and try New things@@Psych2go
People you are attracted to : Younger than you : 0:34 Older than you : 1:11 Talented and creative people : 1:39 Lone wolves : 2:18 Free spirit : 3:00 Social butterflies: 3:28 Strong and Silent : 4:10 Nurturers : 4:44 Life of the party: 5:13 Hope it helps :)
I didn't consider the youthful excitement as a reason for liking to surround myself with those younger than me, I just thought it was about the childhood I didn't get growing up
I was born in the transition of the technology age, so I was affected by that mindset. Most people around my age or older generally don't understand technology, so I reach for the younger ones 'cause they actually understand
Timestamps 1). Younger than you 0:33 2). Older than you 1:11 3). Talented and creative 1:38 4). Lone wolves 2:18 5). Free spirit 3:00 6). Social butterflies 3:29 7). Strong and silent 4:09 8). Nurturing 4:45 9). Life of the party 5:12 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
after watching this video, i now see that i prefer quiet people over more social people. i can see that im friends with a lot of people who fit the nurturer/strong and silent types, i fit in very well with the nurturer type, nice video! :)
I am attracted to talented, creative free spirits that are often the silent types, it’s already some essay about what that says about me. I love that series and I really got excited about JK performing euphoria in your video🙈
@@Psych2go I think I'm quite related to the attraction toward older, strong, silent, and nurturing partners. I grew up in a hard circumstance and barely survived. I've learned that I need someone who can lead and teach me more about how to live a much more complete life, to learn etiquette and social norms since I've never had any proper relationship with people but rather animals. I also have difficulties coping with new environments and circumstances, so I'm truly hoping for a stable, safe, and mature partner. My ex-girlfriend also had these traits. She was very hardworking, very silent, sweet, and good at listening to others. We had been besties and then I had fallen for her before we knew it. She adores my creativity and told me that my talents, knowledge, and versatility charmed her.
The "lone wolf" bit pretty much reflects my attraction to a tee. I really like shy girls, and I guess that "solving them" is part of the reason for that. It may also stem from my inferiority complex and the fact that I don't think I'm good enough for someone with a lot of friends, but whatever.
Ahhh, good insight. People do tend to go for those they see as "in their league," meaning that your attraction reflects your self-perception/self-esteem.
That's also me.... I'm a ISFJ-T, and at times, I seem quiet, alone and invested time with enjoying life to the fullest. I have no problem living by myself, because that's everyday of my life whenever I go to my classes. I can't make friends... but that's ok. Because deep down, I have family and I have God. Both are the most important people in my life, and I wouldn't give up anything for them to be a part of my life.
What the…? Almost all these traits are ones I find attractive in others! 🤯 The age-based ones are a little trickier to define, though, since I tend to project as much younger at face value than my actual age (there’s no greater compliment or confidence boost than the other person accusing you of lying for claiming to be five or more years older than they think you are 😂).
I'm always attracted to talented and creative people, I was thinking that a while ago, and after watching this video, it was confirmed to me that this is not only my observation. Every word that has been said describes me.
Jungkookie is everywhere❤🩹🥺 and my beloved SuperTuna💞. The one who drew this is definitely ARMY💜. The previous part too had the thumbnail of Koo💜. I really laugh and smile every time their drawings appear 🤍. And your videos are really great👍, following you was a nice decision, and the way you talk in a very understandable way about every topic😊💫.
I'm attracted to people who show genuine interest in me as a person. I mean, sure, some of these traits I do find attractive, but at the end of the day, just show me that you actually care. That's all I really want in a partner 😅
🍃 Great video as always! If I can give a suggestion for futures content: “what people you attract says about you”. I think just as much as we are attracted to certain types of people, like these 2 parts disclosed well, we attract different types of people as well. And if you can develop on the aspect that, sometimes, the people we attract doesn’t match with the people we are attracted to. And possible reasons for that. 😊
I loved the bts references. I've been a subscriber for a quite but never came across with this video until now, it was nice to see. Definitely identified with people attracted to talented and skillful people 🤭💜
I am attracted to talented and creative people, lone wolves and free spirits. All the reasons why I might be attracted to them are true. However, even though I am attracted to younger people, according to what you said I should definitely give a chance to older people x') but that's scary!!
I entered this channel for mental health and to know myself better, found out that the other factor that made me start looking and take care of my mental health is here as well, BTS 😂 I💜U psy2go
I'm attracted to people with a great sense of humor. As long as they can make me laugh, consider me blind because I couldn't care less what you look like as long as I'm gigglin 😂😂
@@Psych2go I didn't know how to answer this question without showing you what made me laugh uncontrollably so I'm uploading a short video right now to my channel so that you can laugh with me 😂🤍
Aww, 1:53 ¡¡Supertuna Jin!!! ¡Sí, amo a las personas creativas! Que lindo detalle que consideren a los bangtannies, mas cuando los extrañamos tanto. :')
Definitely drawn too someone whos like a mix of Talented, Creative, Lone Wolf, free spirited, stong and silence who would be very nurturing in the relationship once they open up.
@@Psych2go someone said they felt the same, and it's kind of a weird thing to say the least, as it's out of the ordinary i think, I'm attracted to ppl i used to hate or despise (even w celebs or fictional characters lmao)
Always loved older people; they never put me down or make me feel bad like kids in my school did. Most of my friends are in their 40s and 50s and I am only 25.
i m attracted to younger people because i m the mature , the protective , the healing one and my love language is taking care of the other one , even tho i m the weaker one physically . i have a mother like aura , that would be the reason , not that i am playful or youthful , i m actually calm and protective.
▪︎ Toxic: nope ▪︎ Detached/Unattainable: nope ▪︎ Xerox of my Father: nope (The same applies for Xerox of my Mother.) ▪︎ My Junior: commonly ▪︎ My Senior: sometimes ▪︎ Bad Boy: sometimes ▪︎ Talented: commonly ▪︎ Life of the Party: sometimes ▪︎ Social Butterfly: sometimes ▪︎ Strong and Silent: sometimes ▪︎ Lone Wolf: occasionally ▪︎ Free Spirit: sometimes ▪︎ Nurturing: if it comes with more immediate appeal (e.g. "Talented" or "Life of the Party")
*Fictional Characters:* Want what I can’t have which brings a certain level of comfort because that way I can’t be rejected and don’t ever need to deal with confronting your feelings. Scared of intimacy, scared of dependency. Oh and probably a romantic who is disappointed by the state of dating and relationships
I think there is a significant difference between what we want and what we are drawn to. For example, I want someone who is social, but I usually end up with lone wolves. What the description of being drawn to a lone wolf is relates to me much more than the social one. Sometimes you can't really choose who attracts you.
Absolutely, attraction can be complex and often defies our conscious preferences. It's interesting how the heart has its own compass. What do you think it is about lone wolves that draws you in despite the initial preference for social individuals?
You're amazed by smartness. And you want to feel less smarter than a person you like. That will make you feel protected, comfortable, feel that you have someone you can rely on. It's also a sign of your own high intelligence and that you're kinda fed up with stupidity around you. If you were in the environment of many very smart people for a long time, you would feel less attracted by the smartness itself and start to notice other characteristics. But it doesn't mean you would suddenly like stupidity 😅 you will just feel less stressed around ... less intelligent people.
@olyabutorina6869 I know I'm somewhat smart, but I'm not really fed up with people who aren't as smart (unless they're mean for no reason) but I do find myself enamored with people as smart as or smarter than me because it's really fun to have someone else around with a perspective I can trust. It's also not specifically intelligence that I'm attracted to. It seems it's, for lack of a better term, a prerequisite for me to be attracted than anything else.
I have a feeling, your magnet only activates when you get more personal time with them no? Because that's what I get, I'm comfortable and open when it's more one on one time. Seems that most people I get that oppertunity with me are charmed.
1. I'm not young, I just have higher basal metabolic rate than younger generations who overindulged themselves. 2. I'm not old, most people just keep guessing my chronological age younger than my actual age by at least 10 years 3. I'm not talented, I just believe any skill can be improved with intentional hardwork. 4. I'm not a lone wolf, I just prefer to work on myself while I don't like conformity. 5. I'm free spirited insofar that I practice discipline equals freedom. 6. I'm sociable insofar that I'm approachable and confrontational. 7. I'm strong enough that I speak what's necessary, not what others' wanted to hear. 8. I'll remind others on how to take better care of themselves, I don't live their lives. 9. I'm the life of the party insofar that I'm not afraid to make a strong impression.
i just noticed a pattern in my irl or celebrity crushes, they're always extrovert guys who are charismatic and funny, but at the same time they have this creative, sensitive and calm side i believe i like this type of guys bc i'm very shy, awkward and quiet around people, but i'm also very anxious most of the time and i always have a need for comfort and calmness
I do seem to be attracted to 2 general types: people older than me + 1) lone wolves + strong silent type + free spirit or + 2) free spirit + social butterfly
I was like "mmm no, I don't feel attracted to any of these"... until lone wolves appeared 😳😳 I even blushed while watching this, it absolutely resumes almost all my likes. BUT I thinks there's a fine line between feeling attracted to that kind of people and the ones that are less interested in us (the first video). Before therapy I kind of confused both having the feel of "challenge" of getting them to open up to me, but on that time it was a challenge of getting them "love me". Now, after therapy, I can see the difference ❤
This was awesome I guess im drawn to nurturers cause I am drawn to reliable people and empathetic people also strong and silent types What they say about me I am still thinking about it usually they want me to take the leadership role cause im reliable but I am gonna ask one of my friends to give you a little more detail on what they think
@@Psych2goHi I might be late but I will right now I've been hesitant because I'm very closed off with things I like but watching your videos gives me new perspectives each time just watched the Valentine's one today and it was super informative and hopeful I'm currently studying psychology and I get very excited when their are topics that are being thought at the same time sending love to the psych team wishing you all well ❤
"Like attracts like" - just remember, just because they are like you doesn't mean they are going to be "the one." Most long-lasting relationships and marriages are often people who tend to be on the other side of the spectrums, yet share the SAME BELIEFS AND VALUES.
I'm attracted to older guys who's talented and also strong and quiet. I could feel the warmth of their presence and just talking with them like deep conversation or smth. I also like the maturity, I feel secure around those kind of people. +Nurturers.
Which is true as I myself have always been a hermit and trying to not be in the way or a burden. I am not a leader but enjoy company, quiet, emotional support and I want someone who can drag me out yet will be fine as I want to be share life and costs so I want to get this dinner or grocery trip since I offered. It’s hard expressing what I want with someone who won’t take initiative in life or has a desire and drive to learn and care which is how a relationship of 12 years ended because she wouldn’t better herself be it learn to drive or get above a job she was comfortable with but hates.
@@Remi-Toruzenyou have no right to be emotionally dependent on a woman and socially dysfunctional while telling her how she should be evolving. First off, if she was comfortable at the job, then mind your fckin business. Maybe she had something she was hoping to get out of stayin that made it worth it to her. She has the right to prioritize her comfort. It’s a job. Not a passion. Driving? That’s not even a skill everyone has and totally depends on if you had to drive her everywhere and if there were transportation options around your city. If there were, then you were just pressuring her to have the skill because YOU saw it as a necessity. People don’t have to to accept that and you don’t come out sounding good in this equation. You want to be a hermit and have someone be all supporting for you and keep you company, but then you can’t match it. Support isn’t dictating and ultimatums. And it’s always some dude who isn’t that impressive being overbearing to compensate for what he lacks through his poor female partner. You seem like the issue in that relationship. If all you have to offer is telling someone what to do while they’re expected to be quiet, emotionally supportive, company for you then you’re not worth being with. You should work on your social skills and leveling yourself up so you can focus on you more than what someone else does, and stop treating women like therapists. That’s not our job. You’re supposed to have a whole support system and it doesn’t start with us. You learn coping skills, have a therapist if needed, spirituality, family, friends, figure it out
Me being attracted to social butterflies but also someone who's the strong silent type lol. Some of these types can cross over. I like how social butterflies can easily form bond but strong silent types are dependable. I'm attracted to both aspects.
i cant blame tony soprano now for his opinion on gary cooper 😭 that strong, silent type being those whose actions speak more than words is literally so attractive. even the older ones who can guide you through anything MAN they have my heart
I love aspiring confident people some categories include rash dumb but kind hearted angry short temper but keeps no grudges loud and helpful .cant just stand people who stand like a statue when something happens.❤
older, talented and creative, social butterflies, and nurturers were mine ! honestly if someone had all those qualities we need to get married immediately jejdj
My couple combination is my boyfriend a lonewolf that's strong and silent and I'm his anxiety indusing free spirit, talented and creative nurterer girlfriend, Our relationship is like a theme park ride 😂
I'm attracted to nurturing free spirits above all. Essentially, I'm lookin for someone who mirrors the most important aspects of my personality. Unfortunately, that seems to be a rather scarce combination to find.
I didnt really know what type of people I was attracted to. But as soon as you started talking about being attracted to lone wolves. I realisede that the person im attracted to right know is a lone wolf and the more you explained why it felt like you described exactly why im attracted to this person.
