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Sierra Schultzzie, Riayn Christina & Paloma Malfavon get into the nitty gritty of being a bridesmaid, destination & childfree weddings, unexpected expenses and controversial wedding hot takes!
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Twenty Whatever features Sierra Schultzzie, Riayn Christina, & Paloma Malfavon talking candidly about navigating your 20's with your friends through different phases of life. (formerly Sierra Unfiltered)
why are there so many rules for weddings?
• why are there so many ...
0:56 all things weddings
7:32 the Bachelorette, bridal showers, $$$$
12:37 wedding logistics & etiquette
18:34 rehearsal dinners & day of wedding advice
25:08 wedding DRAMA & children at weddings
35:25 dress code drama
41:00 controversial wedding takes
50:02 fighting for funsies
56:23 concept of bridezillas/ball & chain
1:01:18 first looks, vows & shenanigans
1:04:29 drinking & hot takes
1:10:14 Woo Girl Minute!
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@Taywanee 4 месяца назад

Would’ve loved to hear P and Riayn talk about the pressure to get engaged/married in your 20s especially P being in a long term relationship

@vc5213 4 месяца назад

Ahh yes! I've definitely felt this. When you've been together for a while, people really start wondering when you're going to get engaged

@cassidy983 4 месяца назад

Yes I completely agree. Got with my husband when I was 21 and then we got married when I was 28 but dang it was rough because other peoples opinions before hand. Still thankful we waited though it was super special.

@morgandevol6218 4 месяца назад

I got married 8 months ago - no engagement party, my 4 bridesmaids and I went to Universal for my bachelorette, and we had a 65 people wedding for $6,000 (including dress, husband’s suit, rings, EVERYTHING). It’s still possible to have the wedding of your dreams without making you or your friends broke (but it does take planning and the reality check that social media is not life).

@RACHELSIGLER 4 месяца назад

Girl OG listener here: haven’t even listened to this section yet but you definitely talked about your dad wanting to be table number 1 instead of table number 2! So weird that a 25 year old in Iowa who watched your wedding vlogs/Sierra Unfiltered knows so much about your life. 😭😂💕

@Jenalamah 4 месяца назад

My favorite Riayn, "If I wanted to scream, I'd take myself out too" very true!

@AlexJosephDesigns 4 месяца назад

Me: Not planning on having a wedding any time soon Also me: Fully engaging in the wedding discourse in my room by myself 😂

@cassidy983 4 месяца назад

This episode makes me so thankful for my wedding 💛 got engaged in June, married in October, no parties, no invites, just asked 12 of our bffs and loved ones to a cabin in Colorado and got married on a mountain in 12 degrees in a snow storm with two feet of snow and then went back to the cabin and got drunk and spent the weekend together it was freaking awesome!!!

@lottietaylor7894 4 месяца назад

I remember the seating chart story from the wedding episode of Sierra unfiltered. I knew it would be this story as soon as seating plans were mentioned 😂

@Ashley-bb5ts 4 месяца назад

I would love to hear Stephen and Wes' take on that argument 😂😂😂😂😂

@kaitlynrain899 4 месяца назад

I saw this comment before she got to the story and was racking my brain trying to remember, then she mentioned her dad and it came back to me like “omg he wanted to be table 1”😂

@littletrina 4 месяца назад

I came to RU-vid to see if anyone else remembered it from Sierra Unfiltered haha!

@cristinarubio4362 4 месяца назад

Not weddings ending at 10pm 😭 I honestly think the US has so much to learn from other cultures' weddings, my wedding ended at 4 am it was the most fun. I've only been to 2 US weddings and they were low key boring. I also think the rehearsal dinner is kind of unnecessary and a waste of money.

@chidodanielle3434 4 месяца назад

Yea US weddings are so boring.

@swimgirl24 4 месяца назад

It’s just a different culture. As an American married to a European, I’ve been to weddings in the states and abroad. Personally I don’t enjoy the party until the sunrise weddings as much as the ones that ended early. I was too exhausted to enjoy myself. There was also triple the amount of drinking and people were so so drunk. Like you’d think we were at a college frat party with some of the stories I have lol. We extended our USA wedding until 12 am to accommodate my husband’s friend and family and of all the guests, no Americans stayed until the end except me and my dad. Not to bash either side but just giving context on why it is like it is. I think the party hard culture isn’t as common once you’re an “adult” and therefore the late weddings don’t make as much sense. (My husband is German so I’m also exclusively comparing German to American weddings)

@hannahwarman4394 4 месяца назад

Coming from a wedding coordinator you ain’t wrong.. gay weddings are simply ✨elite✨

@logancerullo8301 4 месяца назад

I nannied/babysat a lot as a teen and lived in a town that has a lot of wedding venues. I was hired a lot to help with the kids at weddings and then usually after food and a little dancing I’d take the kids to wherever the parents had decided on and let the adults party on. I always thought that was a good system to let kids come but not have it be too much!

@timmer13 4 месяца назад

I love that!

@Prairiewench 4 месяца назад

I recently went back and watched all of Sierra's wedding related videos because I'm a May bride. Good timing thanks!!

@themicale 4 месяца назад

As a girlie currently planning her wedding…NEED a part 2 to this!! ❤

@juliabirchfield1882 4 месяца назад

as a gay girlie- love and hugs to riayn for continuing to bring up the possibility of a gay wedding! love to feel included in a topic that queer people can sometimes be left out of!💖💖

@mlfunk 4 месяца назад

literally in the middle of planning my wedding now, truly am having a blast! but of course there is ALWAYS the family drama. Sierras pointer about taking a step back throughout her wedding day and looking at everyone is something i’m definitely going to do. ENJOY THE MOMENT! ❤ loved this episode!!

@SteffiMcK 4 месяца назад

Am I already married? Yes. Did I watch this whole video? Also yes.

@leahreed1215 4 месяца назад

I was 12 weeks pregnant at my cousin's wedding. My grandma was chomping at the bit to tell everyone there about it since we officially hit the "safe" zone then. I had to really put my foot down and i said "we are not taking away the attention from your other grandchild. You can tell everyone tomorrow but today is about them. Dont you dare." So friggin awkward!

@sarahneubert3377 4 месяца назад

We had kids at our wedding. A lot. And we hired 2 baby sitters who were in a room off the main reception area. Best decision ever. Everyone loved it. And it was the best of both worlds.

@mirablossom2672 4 месяца назад

I had an extra room at my venue for getting ready for the ceremony. After that, they tidied it up, and I asked a friend’s sister to babysit! So during the party, the kids could go downstairs and color and watch Disney movies. It was a great way to involve them, while still letting their parents have fun and keeping them away from the alcohol! There were only 4 kids there, but it was definitely worth it!

@amandaj773 4 месяца назад

I LIVED for Sierra’s wedding vlogs. The bachelorette in San Diego was EVERYTHING

@haleycastro1316 4 месяца назад

"Whatever you can be table 1 and hopefully we'll have to put another chair for your big ass ego!!" I lost it 😂

@carolmvar 4 месяца назад

fr cause i laughed out the first time she said it but then the second time it was somehow even funnier and i spat out my frosty lol

@taylerwhitaker8497 4 месяца назад

I color coordinated for my vow renewal because I didn’t like how the photos turned out for the original wedding. And everyone loved it! The photos were better and no one had stress when thinking about what to wear!

@mackenziehitch834 4 месяца назад

The pastor that was doing our wedding who was also a family friend said my step mother’s name instead of mine at the beginning, so instead of Zak and Mackenzie he said Zak and Monica.The whole room died laughing

@RubyDeanVlogs 4 месяца назад

I got engaged in December and I’m in the early stages of planning my wedding for next year ! I needed this episode because gurrlll I’m already stressed

@haleycastro1316 4 месяца назад

congrats!! 💖

@annethropologistic 4 месяца назад

We were married on New Years Day, initially because that was the ONLY date our venue had available within the timeframe that we wanted to get married, but it ended up being so cool! And we will also always have our anniversary off, and start every anniversary with a kiss at midnight. 🎉

@annaw9687 4 месяца назад

I rarely listen to podcasts but I watch this one on my TV! I love the dynamic between you guys and the conversation topics are always interesting.

@palomamalfavon 4 месяца назад

so glad you are here 🩷

@Taywanee 4 месяца назад

The last wedding I attended I broke my foot the night before and spent the entire night in the ER. I was discharged a couple hours before the ceremony and I literally kept falling asleep during it. I then slept through the entire reception but my angel of a boyfriend kept coming up to the hotel room to bring me food (he even brought me midnight poutine)

@jjjuuullliiiaaa 4 месяца назад

i love when you guys just chat on and on, wednesday is my favorite day

@heatherschwartz607 4 месяца назад

Sierra, you mention it being awful that women order a dress a size down because they want to lose weight, but you forget to mention that you did that exact thing. You said in one of your wedding vlogs that you were nervous to try on the dress because you ordered it a size smaller because you planned to lose 15lbs. I'm not here to shame you for doing that but I think this conversation would have been much more interesting had you brought that up and talked about how your mindset has changed since then.

@whitneymandel0224 4 месяца назад

Omg do I have a story for you! So I got married (almost 2 yrs now, in June) and I had hired a makeup artist. I can do my own makeup pretty well but thought it would be nice for my bridesmaids to get pampered as well as me. So I do a trial, pretty far in advance and really liked it. On the day of my wedding, of course, everyone is running around and I’m running late to where we were all supposed to meet. To be more respectful I think to call her to let her know (also make sure she’s okay). I call and she says, “I’m on my way, I just talked to the bride and I’ll be there in 5 minutes!!” I never see or hear from her again! She disappeared into thin air!!🙈🙈😭😭

@christyrose7921 4 месяца назад

Hahaha I had the thing with everyone bringing me wine at my wedding, and I got accidentally DRUNK for the first time ever 😂😂 I thought I just fell asleep in the taxi afterwards, but apparently I blacked out & was on fire with banter with the driver 😂😂😂😂

@4hmayzing3atsyou 4 месяца назад

I have a foot issue (Morton’s neuroma) and can’t wear heels or really closed toed shoes that aren’t sneakers. So I have to wear certain types of sandals…sorry!!

@mbe4174 3 месяца назад

I just eloped two weeks ago, just my partner and I. It was magical and stress free and I really feel like it allowed us to really focus on ourselves and make it our own. We will be having a reception with family but without the pressure of personal vows or putting on a performance!

@kaitlynnogueira 4 месяца назад

LOL im planning a wedding and picking the bridal party was the drama 😂😂😂

@alainapecor2794 4 месяца назад

The only person whos allowed to swoop in and steal my moment is my baby brother, but that may just be because I can't wait for him to marry my sister in law 😂😂

@ItsmeIvyMichelle 4 месяца назад

One thing I didn’t know about but thought was really fun was my aunt at the bridal shower collected all the ribbons from the gifts and made a bouquet for the rehearsal dinner! We also had my husband come for when we opened gifts so he didn’t get left out! I also do regret ( cause I hate confrontation) my dress, the shop ordered two sizes up and by the time the fitting came I had dropped 60 pounds and I was standing in the dress it didn’t even touch me. The seamstress had a hard time making it small enough, I had to gain weight back and it was still falling down at the wedding.

@cc1526 4 месяца назад

Ya that’s an old tradition. And the old school wives tale is that every bow you break while opening gifts is how many children you’ll have… As someone who didn’t want kids, I ripped into the bows just out of spite 😆

@jennrocchi6385 4 месяца назад

The story about Sierra's dad walking super slow made me teary eyed. I can see my husband doing that with our girl one day! My dad, on the other hand, told me we could turn around and leave at any time 😂 he loves my husband but I don't think he was ready to give his oldest girl away (I'm the oldest of 3 girls)!

@Ashley-bb5ts 4 месяца назад

Sierra the only problem with NYE party is anniversaries!! My parents were married January 1st and they hate that everything is closed or booked 😂😂😂😂

@kaitlynnogueira 4 месяца назад

my best friend was invited to the bridal shower of the girl her childhood best boy friend (that she had a crush on forever) was marrying, but then not the wedding…. horrible she was robbed of $100 bed sheets

@mrs.e3909 4 месяца назад

Important, when you are in a wedding make sure you wear a slip under your dress if it is a thin fabric and might be see through if the wedding party will be photographed outside, or will be see through on a dance floor, or during the ceremony with church lighting.

@velvetstonebraker9874 4 месяца назад

The best thing I did at my wedding was to walk MYSELF down the aisle ❤

@lalakass9041 4 месяца назад

If you wear white to my wedding I will Make sure you aren’t included in any pictures, if you’re trying to pull a power move I’ll show you a real power move.

@TattedBaker 4 месяца назад

Good Morning ladies! Listening as I cook breakfast ❤

@shaelynnemichaela 4 месяца назад

I’m sorry, 2017 was 3 years ago. 😅 when Sierra said she got married 7.5 years ago I was absolutely thinking 2013. The pandemonium stopped time for me 😂

@paigeashlyn569 4 месяца назад

sierra you definitely have told the table number story before! i remember this story but i don’t know when you told it haha

@meganc2123 4 месяца назад

my cousin just had a huge wedding on new years eve and i love it!!! like everyone was of course in the mood to party so it was just a huge open bar, dancing party!

@rainbowmal 4 месяца назад

My friend just got married and did 'cocktail attire' for the dress code, but on their website they listed some examples of what to wear which was helpful

@rebeccaernette1749 4 месяца назад

1:02:33 I loved that at the courthouse we could chose how to verify the marriage. We got like 3 options. We chose the Christian version because we're Christian. Same with our officiant, who was also my husband grandfather because he's a pastor, and married both sets of our parents which made it extra special. I loved our ceremony. I could talk for days about my wedding, it was absolutely perfect

@katevasquez5942 4 месяца назад

I'm a little bitter about weddings. I planned my dream wedding and everything was planned and ready for May 2020.....tried to postpone but it was too much so we just got married in the backyard with immediate family. I wish I could have experienced the original plan but everything happens for a reason and we took the money we were able to get back for a down payment on a house.

@wiktoriaeh8026 4 месяца назад

Best part of the week is the podcaaaaaaaaaast🎉😊

@emileeann5938 4 месяца назад

Perfect timing! I just got engaged last week

@TheAlipop13 4 месяца назад

congratulations!!!

@emileeann5938 4 месяца назад

@@TheAlipop13thank you 🤍

@AlexJosephDesigns 4 месяца назад

Congrats!!

@Jenalamah 4 месяца назад

Congrats!!

@emileeann5938 4 месяца назад

@@AlexJosephDesignsthanks!

@carolinesmith6450 4 месяца назад

Maybe I missed you saying about it (just started ep) but what about the wedding dress/outfit shopping? 👗 typically with bridesmaids, mother of the bride etc

@Stephserb 4 месяца назад

I absolutely hated doing the seating chart. My first mistake was asking people for their input. 😅 then we had people that cancelled last minute, which made some table more bare then others. It was a mightmare. Then I tried to put all the bridesmaids partners together because they had met previously. Then I had one person the day of the wedding move one of the partners to their table, so then the other partner sat alone. This was after I had already told said person why I was sitting them together. I was upset, because I felt so bad for the one partner sitting alone and he is more on the quiet side too.

@nickihaylon4244 4 месяца назад

I literally just got engaged yesterday, the day this came out! The timing!!

@riaynchristina 4 месяца назад

congratulations 🍾

@peachxtaehyung 4 месяца назад

Congratsssss!!!!

@anneliese883 4 месяца назад

I love you girls so much!! I look forward to this podcast every Wednesday!! It is such a joy and always makes me laugh! 💗

@palomamalfavon 4 месяца назад

ily !! 🩷 so glad u are here

@mirandafaiths 4 месяца назад

lovedddd this episode!!! glad to have all this knowledge for my fast ass friends. i have an engagement party this saturday so now i feel more prepared

@livinglegallyblind713 4 месяца назад

My husband and i will be celebrating 20 years of marriage in 2025. We were on a very tight budget. Our venue was free, my mom made all the dresses, my aunt did all the flowers, and my inlaws did mens attire and odds and ends. We have pictures others took during that day… but no professional ones. Only thing i wish we had. The biggest thing was it was a backyard wedding… and we got a freak rain storm… so in many of our photos you can see tarps over flowers. Also, want to add her. My family planned my shower which was a surprise…. But it was planned on a day where i got an infusion of medication, so i was not fully aware after 6 hours of an IV and Benadryl on top of that. I have no pictures and dont remember it a ton…. But would have been nice if somebody checked my schedule.

@AnpanofBread 4 месяца назад

lmao this is pertinent timing, i'm attending a wedding next week

@riaynchristina 4 месяца назад

i hope it’s beautiful and also lit!!

@AnpanofBread 4 месяца назад

@riaynchristina it's my best friend's so it definitely will be! Thank you!

@Brookefree23 4 месяца назад

i so appreciate Riayn bringing up queer weddings

@cc1526 4 месяца назад

Sierra ILY truly but I’m 100% team dad on that argument. If he was paying for the wedding, it is only appropriate that he be table 1. The guests who are paying for most of the wedding are the guests of honor behind the bride and groom so they should be table 1. I also feel like it was a tiny request compared to what most parents who pay for the wedding ask. Like why not just make your family odds and steven’s even instead? Like just flip it? Honestly you’re lucky he even continued to pay for everything after the ego comment like I could never say that to my dad and get away with it I wouldn’t even be mad at him for that cause dang 😅

@ShannonMoffitt-lk7fl 4 месяца назад

I'm currently planning my wedding, no we did not have an engagement party. I have no idea if we do any bachelor/ette party, but if we do it'll be something joint. Our venue is an air bnb, we are doing a small two tier (or one real one fake tiered cake) that's solely for photos because I hate Cake. Instead I want a cookie desert table. Also a taco bar, because cookies and tacos are my favorite food. I plan on buying my own wedding dress, and designing all invitations/stationary as well

@UnderToWonder 4 месяца назад

I got married on Thursday, the 31st of October (Halloween). I wore a black dress and the only other people there were my parents. It was at a registry office (I guess the UK equivalent of the courthouse maybe?), and I couldn't have had anything better. We don't really have many friends or family, I'm Autistic and couldn't think of anything worse than being centre of attention and people looking at me, plus it cost us less than £500 including rings, outfits etc. So, I'm a huge advocate for getting married, not having a wedding. The thousands and thousands it costs, the stress and drama and etiquette required for essentially a party just isn't worth it to me. However, if people don't have to worry about money and they have friends and family to celebrate them, it makes sense. Especially taking into consideration that saying about weddings and funerals! Oh also, obviously no engagement party, no bridal shower (I think these are more of an American tradition that is seeping into the UK like Prom did) and no hen do etc!

@heathneeks 4 месяца назад

I was invited to the bachelorette party but not the wedding 😂

@Ashley-bb5ts 4 месяца назад

I was at a bridal shower and half the girls didnt have an invite and were asking about it... it was so awkward 😬

@haleycastro1316 4 месяца назад

omg wtf

@halfcentaur8 4 месяца назад

My hot take is that there is nothing wrong with a big wedding, but if you can't afford that, have the wedding you can afford and don't feel pressured to do it like everyone else. I do think that there is still some etiquette that should be followed though, like don't cut corners by trying to make the guests pay for themselves or not serving food. Second hot take is no pay, no say. If you don't want to invite your MIL's cousins, co-workers, and all her friends, don't take her money. But if someone else is contributing to the wedding they kind of do have a say in it. So if you have a dramatic and controlling family member who will override your decisions on the location, flowers, cake, etc, seriously consider if you want to accept their money if it means they will be involved in the planning process. Personally, we had a small

@christinacarranza4211 4 месяца назад

Omg I love this episode!! It’s perfect timing, lol. I’m officially 7months from getting married!

@Rose-rj1kh 4 месяца назад

I love this podcast literally the only podcast u listen to ❤❤❤❤❤

@riaynchristina 4 месяца назад

ILYSM 🩵

@ln8267 4 месяца назад

I did the first look and honestly it’s so worth it. I don’t recommend doing the aisle thing like we had our own moment he cried. We have photos of just the two of us of him seeing my dress and video like it’s so worth it to do a first look, and you got so many photos before hand

@rebachick94 4 месяца назад

Im pretty sure sierra told the story about her dad during Skylar and sierra’s podcast about their weddings.

@stylingwithsamantha 3 месяца назад

This is so nice to listen to! I'm planning my wedding right now and have only been to my parents wedding in a park when I was 5! And one backyard wedding as an adult! I have no clue what to plan for my own! I'm like idk just a location and we should be good right?? I didn't know so much went into it!!!

@AuthorTinaMoss 4 месяца назад

I was so against the first look, but ultimately decided to do it. And wow! Best thing I did. Having that moment with just my husband, and the closest people to us, able to congratulate us right after, and then get all the pictures out of the way? Perfect. It allowed us to be so free and didn’t take anything away from that walking down the aisle moment either. Highly recommend. 💖

@cocakelady 4 месяца назад

I have a hot take - I've been married 34 years so an ilder viewer. I think the emphasis on all the parties/celebrations is misplaced. The important thing is the marriage, not the wedding, reception/party, etc etc. There's no need to feel like u need to spend soooo much money because everyone else does. It'll be a special day no matter how much $ u spend, just make sure to do some personal touches and you'll remember it forever!

@jessimigliozzi7422 4 месяца назад

My wedding was the best day of my life but also so much family drama that is just wild. What I will share is that I had an aunt who got engaged before me and INSISTED on getting married before me so rushed her own wedding just to accomplish that. Then when I didn’t want to do what she wanted at my wedding, she left in a huff.

@amberchapman2021 4 месяца назад

My husband and I actually used Amazon for everything for our wedding. My dress, my shoes, the decorations. Everything. We had such a small budget that Amazon became our best friend.

@kirstenholder7270 4 месяца назад

I designed my wedding dress to have a removable skirt so I could dance with the children, but like Paloma said, the relationship to the children makes it different, I wanted to hang with them tooo..

@karolinakowalska6339 11 дней назад

Wedding finishing at 10pm 😶 Thats when it properly starts for us! (Polish person here 👋). I wish for you girls to one day have an opportunity to be invited for an eastern european wedding, it would blow your mind!

@autumnssssss 4 месяца назад

this is called "why are there so many rules for weddings?" but this entire episode is sierra talking about what youre supposed to do for a wedding.....?

@andrewandsarah13 4 месяца назад

Wedding hot takes from a 2023 bride: -You don’t have to pay for an open bar to have a good time. We had a variety of nonalcoholic drinks and a large quantity of diy sangria (my fave) to save money & to limit temptation for some loved ones that struggle with sobriety. -Having kids at my wedding made it more fun! No one was self conscious about getting on the dance floor because the kids were out there ALL night long. They even made me friendship bracelets for in lieu of wedding gifts

@kirstenholder7270 4 месяца назад

We planned a bunch of moments for us to appreciate our wedding, it was really important given the time, money, and emotional investment. We wanted to make sure to enjoy it. During the cocktail hour, we were across the lake taking pictures, and sat on a bench for a bit to watch our guests playing lawn games and enjoying the canapes and cocktails. Still my favorite memory from that day

@katelynhoover9774 4 месяца назад

I’m usually so chill about weddings and totally fine with whatever people want, but we had a weird situation recently. We have friends that are getting married soon and they are keeping it really small we may not get invited. I totally understood either way, I wasn’t going to be mad if we didn’t get invited. Well the invite came and my husband was invited but not me. I understand plus ones getting cut to keep the guest list down and the groom is primarily friends with my husband, but I am friends with both the bride and the groom too. Ultimately I know it’s their day and I’m really not that upset about it, it just felt like an odd way to cut the guest list.

@paulamujica4164 4 месяца назад

When you guys talked about a mother in law wearing white to a wedding i immediatly thought of queen Elizabeth hahahah

@natasharam3187 4 месяца назад

You guys ever been to an Indian wedding? My wedding had 4 days straight of events and you need a new outfit each day. Even going as a guest is like being the bride. I did my shower and Bachelorette before. So it was alot and alot of $$ 😂

@Taywanee 4 месяца назад

I went to one and I thought the appetizers were the dinner and by the time dinner was served I was too full to eat it 😂😂😂 I didn’t know dinner was served so late! It was such a fun dance floor though

@natasharam3187 4 месяца назад

@@Taywanee 🤣🤣🤣🤣

@riaynchristina 4 месяца назад

omggg i’m waiting to go to one! 😍

@Ashley-bb5ts 4 месяца назад

I got married 11 years ago and my mom was like Palomas' mom. She had more opinions about dress code than I did 😂 A huge one, was that she didnt want me to add my colors to the invitation because then people try to match the wedding colors. Is that a thing? Has anyone else experienced that. I couldn't care less either way, but my mom was so upset. She said it was like they were trying to incorporate themselves into the bridal party. My colors were sage and navy blue.

@bryselbows 4 месяца назад

It’s so funny seeing different generations not know or understand the rules. I had to explain to my grandma that you’re not supposed to wear white to a wedding. The next day she decided that’s silly and wore white to my aunts wedding!!

@Emily._.Dickey 4 месяца назад

My husband and I would have loved just having a very small and inimate wedding. However, our families started planning for a big wedding the second we got engaged and we got roped into it and our original plans didn't feel like an option anymore. I was also told multiple times that our day wasn't about us, it was about our guests and I think it's important to remember that the main purpose of a wedding is the marriage. Yes you are bringing two families together, but it's okay to make the day about yourselves, you don't have to cater to the wants of everyone else. So while I look back on my wedding with happy memories, I also flashback to the frustration and stress of trying to please everyone, we were very much a "whatever happens, happens" couple, we didn't stress about a lot of the small details but everyone else did and it was so overwhelming getting bombarded with questions and ideas on details that at the end of the day no one would remember. And I hated the idea of "it's the bride's day!" I shot down so many people who told me that because I felt my husband's ideas and wants were just as important. It felt like everyone was walking on eggshells to keep me happy when in reality I just wanted to marry my best friend and couldn't have cared less about everything that was going on outside of that.

@sadiefrye995 3 месяца назад

Sorry I'm late but here's my wedding hot take: under the right conditions, proposing at someone's wedding is actually a great idea. You just have to be strategic about it. Obviously ask the couple if they're ok with it first. If either of them show hesitation about it, just don't bother. Then come up with a plan. I've seen those videos where the bride is about to do the bouquet toss and instead of throwing it, she turns around and hands it to one of the single ladies, and then the guy proposes. I think that's so sweet. It's like sharing the love from the newlyweds to the soon-to-be newlyweds. Then the party can continue and everyone can celebrate together. At this point, the married couple just had their ceremony to be all about them and it's halfway through the reception. Why not keep the good vibes going?

@achangeofeve2511 4 месяца назад

I really hope you guys do a live event in SD or LA some day ❤

@alexisrivera1187 4 месяца назад

I’m married, and for the bridal shower my mom threw us a “wedding shower” because we did a destination wedding. For anyone who couldn’t go to the wedding they came to our shower and it was Co-Ed. Just an idea for anyone planning! 😊

@andreavigil3227 4 месяца назад

Idk when but I’ve heard this table #1 fight!!! Maybe like a really old wedding recap vlog or something lol. You’re better than me sierra I would NOT have messed up my evens and odds system!!!

@Taywanee 4 месяца назад

I think her old podcast with Skylar

@danaology. 4 месяца назад

Hot take: I hate weddings 😂 I love the ceremony, but I find receptions so boring (though I do love speeches!) I don’t drink and I find the dancing cringey, I just wanna go home. The food is often so mediocre too!

@jay-wt5xb 4 месяца назад

It would have been nice for Sierra to use herself as an example since she bought her wedding dress in a smaller size, she could have talked about how it made her feel and how she would make different choices today.

@rebeccaernette1749 4 месяца назад

I loved my wedding last year, the only rule i had was "dont show up in white and bring a change of clothes." Cause we had our reception at a pavillion at a park with a baseball field. 9:49 my whole kitchen is practically from my bridal shower, i am so grateful for that because it saved us so much money, and mine and his family is amazing. The only items we paid for in the kitchen were an extra knife, a trash can, and a microwave. 27:24 Im the oldest of 9 grandchildren, i was 18 when i got married, there wasnt alcohol specifically at my wedding because of it, but people brought it in their cars. I love kids, and i wanted them at my wedding becsuse i love all my little cousins and i loved seeing all his younger cousins, hes also the oldest grandchild, so we wanted kids there.

@xtheaceofspades 4 месяца назад

This episode is so funny to me as a Brit … open bars are just not a thing here! Also … You get engaged, then it’s the stag/hen party before the wedding (Batchelor/ette) and the wedding day! No showers or anything! I eloped with 13 family members and had a reception a couple of months later for speeches, food, drinks and a band! We paid for wine for the table but otherwise there were 3 bars that people took full advantage of!

@salo81 4 месяца назад

Hi from Germany! I am 42 and been married 21 years and our wedding was so low maintaince and we loved it. A few years ago I was at my god daughters wedding and they planned so much stuff and it was huge. I thought to myself "Wow, what a stressfull time that last year must have been for them?" I don't know if that really is the purposeof a wedding - but I'm kinda old, what do I know? My kids are 18, 16 and 12 and god knows what they will be up to, when they eventually marry someday.

@eveliendesaegher6677 4 месяца назад

This episode makes me so happy that in Belgium it’s not that complicated. Here it’s just the bachelorette party and the wedding, no engagement party, bridal shower, rehearsal… I love it in theory and love to celebrate love but damn, I would be so stressed to plan all of that 😂

@ShannonMoffitt-lk7fl 4 месяца назад

My dress code is "summer semi formal" and I will most definitely be linking a Pinterest board with inspo pics for everyone no matter their preference in clothing

@nataliehagins 4 месяца назад

2024 bride here! I’ve been so stressed planning, I loved this pod episode giving me some good laughs 🤣 love you guys!

@kirstenholder7270 4 месяца назад

Wowah, that way you ladies are encouraging me to start making video essays hahaha. I paid for my own bachelorette party but didn't know I was paying for it till the weightier brought me the bill while everyone was still eating. I didn't want to make it awkward, so I just paid.... it was rough

@WeirdlyAli 4 месяца назад

I'm in the beginning stages of planning my wedding and have such mixed feelings on so many aspects

@madisonchristensen5565 4 месяца назад

I’d love to hear your opinions on showers for elopements! My fiancé and I are having a micro destination wedding with our closest family this month, but we had a couple’s shower to celebrate with everyone that we would have had a wedding with. My mom threw the shower but I lowkey felt guilty for having people there that weren’t invited to the wedding.

@rachelkibler5812 4 месяца назад

My sister just got married in October (she’s 21). I am so excited to hear yallls takes on all things weddings

@megand576 4 месяца назад

My husband and I went to his old roommates’ wedding. His old roommate forgot to tell him there was a dress code color- everyone to wear either deep green, burgundy, navy or black. I showed up in HOT PINK! I was mortified as I work in the wedding industry and know how frustrating this moment is- especially for photos. So I made sure to hide in all photos and ended up getting wasted to cope 🤣🤦🏼‍♀️