WHY BLACK MEN DON'T DATE BLACK WOMEN 

Loud, obnoxious, combative, over-acting drama queens, self importance, opinions based on ignorance, etc.

I love black women with a passion, just don't like the ignorant, ghetto, or the ones that's loud as hell.

Black woman sees brother that doesn’t speak Ebonics and has a job with no kids as corny or a square but she will date the nerdiest white dude and jump for joy.

White guy here. Trust me: a lot of white women got attitudes too. That's not THE reason, if there is one.

y'all some nuts, stereotypes are overrated. I love blacks girls, really all women.

You are what you attract. In order to get someone better you have to, first, BE someone better.

Let me make this clear. We have no problem dating foreign black women. It American black females. I am brasilian by birth. I have been raise in England for half my life. From my perspective, I find it easier to communicate & establish a partnership with Black women from foreign countries, than black women here in the States. For the state I reside in atm, black women do not respect intellectual, mature, successful or on the right path of success; black males. For the fact he is not a gangster or someone that the whole community want to fancy and for that you are look upon as boring and corny. On the attitude issue, from personal experience. It easier to communicate anything you are not happy with in a relationship with a foreign black woman than an American. Reason why, not all but a majority of American black female mindset to anything that suppose to be constructive criticism, is instead taken as a hurt and negative bashing. Hence leads to being told just leave then with a bunch of disrespectful remarks that were uncall for to go with it. Another point that is very important, foreign black women at a % are more thoughtful of their partner. Yes we have foreign black females who are jerks too. But it not as impacting compare to American black females. There is a huge lack of nuture in American black females persona. We are not looking for a house wife, but a woman who can understand, just as how you go through emotional, pshycial and mental discomfort. As a male we do too. In America, a black male speaking out to show he is human is label "gay, bitch-ni**a, not a man and is weak." There is no verbal or emotional respect.

Docile does not mean easy to control. Docile is the direct opposite of hostile. Bottom line, black women want to be men. ....So be that... Meanwhile, I come home to a warm Embrace, smile on a well manicured face. I'm black, my lady is White, she never holds grudges, she is always thinking of ways to make our relationship better

Stop making lip noises between words!

I'm married to a black engineer. Black love is not dead.

I love black women. This is coming from a Black man.

What I find interesting is that most black women have heard their bad attitudes are their biggest criticism, yet many of them refuse to change. Most modern black women will conform to get a career and achieve financial success but will not conform to what a man needs from them. In my opinion, the majority of the "hardships" that modern black women are, or have had to endure, come not from racism or sexism. But from bad life choices. I have found many black women who will readily bash black men for their dilemma, but upon further investigation, it was revealed that most of those women rejected good, decent men and chose " bad boys" or men who presented drama.

Nearly 89% of married black men have a black wife

I date black women

I'm engaged to a beautiful dark skinned black woman rn, she doesn't need me and she's not afraid to let me know that. I highly respect that and it's one of the reasons I fell in love with her. never wanted someone to need me, just to choose to be with me every day and she does just that. I think the "too independent" excuse is our way of saying "our self esteem is rooted in our ability to provide for our S/O and to be relied on by them because of the white misogynistic poison we've been fed since birth" and we really need to come out of that. it's extremely weak

I'm always open to date black women. I just have a hard time finding one that I'm attracted to. I can honestly say I'm hard to attract.

Black wemon have a different kind of respect for white men. U can see the difference.

I see black women more as a "bro"

Control goes both ways. Black women have been through the most, but if you look at the foundation they have changed the most....from head to toe, mentally and physically. It's this change that has shifted the aspect of black men's views of black women as a whole.

There's still good black men that loves good black women.

Black men love feminine, genteel, sweet, and kind women. Nothing more nothing less.

Hey, don't I know you from somewhere. You forgot 'weave' #3. What's wrong with being easy to get along with? Why won't black women just be easier to get along with? Back men struggle more than Black women, that's why we prefer our relationships drama free. You may think you're different, but really you're just the same. Until black women accept responsibility for their own actions (Which is one of the biggest issues with black women to me) things will never change. Those characteristics aren't stereotypes, they are truth.

I know what I deserve and wouldn't mind dying single because I've accepted that I'm not willing to put in the work to find someone compatible to me. I'm 19 and I've heard so many hurtful things that I simply don't want to open up anymore. I'm just dedicating my life to my studies and my career now. I'm a very "odd" person as in I'm a Computer Science major and a black female, I game, paint, draw, play cello and piano and I value working hard and sometimes I come off as trying too hard to be liked and the last part makes me unlikable. I don't try to be liked by everyone, I just empathize with everyone and I'm sensitive to all people's struggles. I wish I had the will to try to find someone to be with but at this point...I don't care anymore.

I think the only race that doesn't have a common issue dating within their own race is white people. A combination of media, propaganda and societal norms as a whole drove the idea into the minds of a lot of minorities that white people stand at the epicenter of beauty. All of my Asian and Hispanic friends (that includes Indian and) put white women on a pedestal, its weird. Last week my friend said he watched the movie Dope and was attracted to a black woman for the first time. Even though it's entierely dependent on the environment, races tend to grow up in similar enviornments therefore perpetuating this bias. I however don't mind this as much when looking at the idea of more interracial relationships and more diverse communities. Shouldn't be minorities flocking the same race tho lol

I date Chocolate black women.

If people would stop being so picky you’d find your true love faster.

I'm a Black man and I've always gotten the serious label attached to me by a lot of Black women. Also, I've been put in the friend zone my fair share of times by Black women; and I'm just not an in demand Black man by a lot of Black women. So, it's not that I dislike Black women but the quality of Black women I was getting wasn't to my standards so I chose to open up my dating pool to include non-Black women. I say all that to say I see Black women saying one thing about the kinds of men and Black men they want but I see them with another type of Black man.

To be honest, I would date any woman that found me attractive and easy to get along with/talk to. That being said, I have yet to meet a black woman who actually found me attractive (except for a certain person whom I didn't get the chance with as she moved out of state and moved on with her life as I did as well.) Also, the stand-offishness I've seen is a bit of a deterrent, but I don't believe that all black women are like that, I just fear it since I happen to be a very laidback, down to earth, non-confrontational kind of guy. All this being said, if I were to find a black woman who was mutually attracted to me and could keep up a good conversation (and deal with a bit of a sarcastic/smart ass sense of humor,) I'd be just fine dating her. I apologize for the large amount of text, but I just wanted to put in my opinion and make sure it was well thought out.

As a black man who dates white women exclusively I can tell you this: If black women had the same feminity and attitude that white women have, I would never look at another white woman again.

all I gotta say is this girl is very beautiful

Coming from a Mexican-American that is married to a Black women, I never cared for her to be self spoken...I respect that, some Mexican women can be way to munch into gossip and that was a complete turnoff for me, I like to keep to myself just like my wife. My wife, son, siblings and parents are the only option that matter for me.

😂pro black,but your hair is pro white

Living in victim hood is not going to get you anywhere.. take responsibility for something ..

Very excited to see you & other black women with class, keep up the great work Janice.

you can't compare black woman attitude with other woman attitude black woman are on a whole other level lol

To aggressive... Too demanding....

If negative experiences and difficult times have harden black women against black men, then why hasn't these same conditions harden black men towards black women? Without the truth there can be no healing.

5th Lip Smack in less then 3 minutes !............I'm out !

Other races tend to be more feminine

She cute as hell....

I attribute it to attitude as well. I can't even look in a Black woman's direction without her doing that annoying azz eye roll.

Im Black and I have dated Asian,South Asian,Jamaican, Surinamese,German, French, English, Greek, Italian, Latina . and I would say theres a certain type of Black woman who lives up to the stereotype given to them and use it as a shield, which I do not find attractive, All Black men, and men in general( of whatever race) want is a partner who will nurture them, encourage them. Not point out fault in them, about their hair their skin. A lot of Black women need to look at their own attitude and not point the finger of blame at their Black partners. These views are very insular, as a Black living outside the US. Not every man has to be like an American Black man or a West Indian Black man , and if you actually travel and see the diversity of black people they are not all like in the stereotypical portrayal of Blackness as seen in the states, Not all have lived in oppression and in an Apartheid country and are free to be who they want to be with no cultural pressure, or just plain reverse racism. Women are the bedrock of all men and need encouragement and a best friend. In short 'the carrot and not the stick'. And true love. Ok!

Well think about it . if there are already preconceived notions abt blk fem and males connecting as you said blk fem should try to b different. Maybe they can be more gentle more femanine? Wouldnt you believe that they are already being over masculine is toxic? Isnt toxic imbalance? Isnt imbalanced unhealthy. Isnt being unhealthy prior to anyone dealing with you representing no self love. These things are not be believed we are to know these things. If the majority blk women are like this you'll need to match their vibration by being their equally fitting/ acclimating to them. Matching an unbalanced blk fem vibration will make a blk male (or any male do two things) . 1). Be the bull headed dominant alpha to them. It would take a little bit more from you! cuz the blk fem have already assumed an alpha role. For the man to merely exist he would need to " overtly masculuinat himself" which would imbalance him further. This excessive meshing of energies would pull from his ability to have "self love" for himself into proving his self worth to an already imbalanced over masculinated woman. 2). If your a male that acclimates to them. Like how a woman would cleave to a their dominant husband. Men now do that to their wives reversing the roles. To lessen a man dominant side takes his ability to create and think for himself. This makes him unattractive to the female aaaannnnd towards himself ! This also deepens his ability to NOT have self love and connect with his one personal "sun " channel in thr man. People that dont know their power are dominanted and live inside a shell of themselves. These ppl have self hate and women are last one to see them as attractive. Now to further this discuss on how it's bad for blk women ... . Now Picture 60 to 70 percent of blk women having this level on imbalance ... And now picture blk males that same 60 to 70 percent in males but opposite the level of toxicity . cuz these man are healing. Remember these men have seen 2 to 3 generations of not being around men thru lack of fathers but also seeing imbalanced men ( our society neg call them weak men). Now this is the state of blk ppl to today. Looking at it according to vibration doesn't put it all on women But it does teach you were things originate. Self love in the " blk women " cant be found in the man's genitals or in a mans direct or indirect psyche tho these thgs will reflect a womens short comings. A man's self love also cant be found in a women's genitals or in a women's direct or indirect psyche. Cuz we continue in these things the problems in the garden of Eden or renewed in blacks over and over. Liberation comes with taking out the imbalance. And " Be balance " inside. The right and left brain. The direct and indirect channels in man must be balanced in every man and in every women. To be whole and to be complete.

I know that his has passed and now we are in Feb 2017 . We all have a lot of experiences in life ups and downs, sometimes more downs then ups . My point is this, and i am going to keep the focus on me and not take anything away from the comments made . I am a 55 year old African American male, and back in the 60s and even before then, Families of the Black culture was SPIRITUALY put together . When Black couples got married, you stayed married because you had STRONG TIEDS in the family house hold , like Big Poppa and Big Momma , Aunt Lucy and Uncle Ben . Yes there where lots of struggles doing the depression and the CIVIL RIGHTS MOMENTS , but we as a nation stuck to our values in how a Black man and a Black woman treated each other with GREAT RESPECT . My Mother and Father who is now deceased stayed Married for over 50yrs and passed away in their ripe old age . My Father passed away at 95 yrs old and then my Mom passed away at 90 yrs old . Yes i seen them had lots of struggled between them, but that is because they had to raise 13 kidds with the help of our Aunts and uncles . Man i have witness the WARMTH and COMFORT that Black couples had back in those days . So what happened ? Where is the LOVE and IMTIMACY gone to between us , even though its still around , but very little these days . We lost the STRONG HOLD of the Family values to TEACH our young children how to RESPECT one another . There are more Black men going to jail more than ever now leaving a strangle hold on his girl to take care of the kidds . Yah i have been there not knowing how to be a good FATHER to my kidds and a good MAN to my woman . T.D.Jakes Preached on it some time ago about MANERIZUMS . The woman on the other hand is going to act out according to how that man acts . She is going to act like you . If i Cheat , Guess what ? She is going to do the same thing , especially if she put all her Love and Emotions Trusting in the relationship that through thick and thin , good or bad she is there . I Screwed up long time ago with an angle because i still believed in sticking and staying in the relationship that was working very well , but me and my Drinking and Drugging got in the way of my PRECONCIEVED ideals . I Started cheating and she still continue to be with me . NO NO , she wasn't a week woman at all . The reason why she continue to stay with me is because she still was holding on to the good part of me . But eventually she left me . See i don't mind telling on me and the things i did to lose a good black woman . We lost our identity and our respect for each other, and to RAISE up real GOOD Black men and woman in our community . Remember, we are not bad people , no no , Sometimes we make bad mistakes based on how we was raised . Check this out , in most of my decisions that i made back then was based on my THINKING because i was raised up to respect woman . Hell i got 9 sisters , so yes it was my thinking that i can have more than one woman . It was also my thinking that told me to keep her in her place emotionally black mailing her . We all know how to play that Emotional play list game of letting her do all the talking about her problems and then we swoop in like buzzards having sex off the emotion drenalin . Then we get into the relationship just based off that with nothing in between . The relationship may drag on for months , perhaps years before it hits rock bottom , leaving each other with CLAW MARKS . May the GOD of WISDOM continue to Bless us to be better Mothers and Fathers and to get back the Sweetness that we, as Beautiful Black people had . GOD BLESS .

I kind of agree with JNice when she talks about Black men dating White women. Although White women do not have the same social hangups as many Black women, I feel that Black men limit themselves by only dating White women. For instance, I learned how to speak Spanish years ago when I was a kid. The teacher who taught it was so good it later on inspired me to learn how to say a few words in other languages such Russian and Arabic and even sign language. Many Black men can't speak Spanish nor any other language so therefore they limit their choices. I do security in a very culturally diverse high school and every morning (before the pandemic), I would be outside monitoring the morning entry I would say good morning to the foreign students in Spanish, Bengali and in Arabic. It was easy to spot the Muslim girls because of their hijabs. And although I would never, ever think of being of being flirtatious (it hasn't happened in 31 years of me being on the job), they girls would get such a delight in me speaking their language! Point being is that Black men should get out of this "dating White women" nonsense! Most of the time it's only for sex. Other than that for the most part, we have absolutely nothing in common with them.

1) you are incredibly wise and beautiful. 2) I am not a black woman. 3) I work in a position where I get to see and observe people of all race/gender/religion and economic status from the most desolate to the most privileged. Objectively I have realized this deep truth about black women. I admire them and honestly, I've never met a black woman who hasn't portrayed strength in some way. I have, however come to understand that the majority of their strength stems from a deep seeded feeling of not feeling good enough. It's a strength born out of defense. A fight to try to defend and prove their place in this world, more so than express their already rightful place in this world. I can empathize with black women. Whereas white women can never fully grasp the plight of black women, we can relate to certain feelings of inadequacy and non-belonging (within our own race). I cannot speak for other white women, but I can tell you... as a so-called 'enlightened' white woman, I hear you, I feel you, I see you and I'm behind you.

I wish everyone would just stop talking about black men dating outside their race, black women ghetto this and that, black men this black women this, I don't want even call myself black and create my own culture because I am so sick and tired of our foolish degrading each other ways, I am tired!

I've seen more black women put more black men in jail then any one else in this era let's keep it 100

I dont date black women either and im a black man. But i subscribed to u cause u pretty

If you're not being your best person nobody finds you attractive.

Black woman don't give the good black guys a chance. The white woman love the educated ambitious black brother. Life experience growing I was corny nerdy could date black woman now successful they want me now. Hahahahahahaha

Damn, you got beautiful eyes!

Not all black woman are ghetto or have attitude. They're are some black woman that are trusting and loyal.

this is boring I had to skip

I'm black and I don't date black guys because I'm just not attracted to them. I've met sweet and rly cute ones but I just don't really click with them. Also all of the ones that hit on me just wanted sex(yes I'm sure because of the direct compliments at certain parts of my body, and asking inappropriate questions) and slept around. Plus my family and friends with relationship drama or bad/toxic relationships are/were dating black guys. Btw there are more races then just black and white. Black people aren't always running to white people ya know.

Try to put yourself in the black man shoes in America you just may understand

i usually attracted to white women but not like I specifically choose to be. it is what it is ...but I dont have a problem at all dating a black women..prefer ..I feel more comfortable less scared trying to talk a black woman but I just go after whatever woman Im attracted to just don't see many cute black women where I live..And I dont see attitudes only belonging to black women ..women in general be having attitudes. .

I've also met many black women who won't date black men. Some, not all, of the white women you are talking about have low self confidence and some of them are easy to control. I try to take one person at a time. Some black women were attracted to me as a white male who was a little bit of a bad boy but was also gentle and not trying to take advantage. Sadly though some white guys sense these dynamics and also take advantage of black women. Men of all races need to treat women better and not as objects or possessions.

love those lips

I am a black man and I have to say maybe black women need to be more open. Percentage wise there are more single black moms out there. That is because a lot of black men don't own up to their responsibility. NOW black females can scream about want to be pro black and to just date black men who probably let them down or they can be open and go with someone from another race who can provide. At the end of the day I am not here to preserve my race. I am here to preserve my happiness from whatever race offers to me. I have dated all race of women. Whoever good with me I be with her

All women are attractive to me... Does anyone agree? it's all primal. That urge that is undefined, when a woman lets you play with them and do what you want to them... when a woman let's you be in your moment with there bodies... that primal connection, i believe, has nothing to do with race. it's just great when a woman let's you enjoy them for your unexplained pleasures. I doubt someone's education is a big deal really, it's not a job interview, at least, i don't think it is. it's all primal. i think maybe we should start to unlearn somethings about life in general. love and like blah blah blah i appreciate being able to be inside of you. if i'm the only guy you let play with you, i don't mind getting you things that make play time better, make sense? but don't educated people care less for sex, anyway? sex is great. undermining the importance of sex is probably where the problem may start. i think i might appreciate a woman's body more than she appreciates her reflection. just let me play with you, i'll pay for the hip replacement (lol) if black men in general like to play in primal ways with women, just let them. problem solved. little boys want toys but sooner or later they will grow to want a woman (to play with) race has nothing to do with this... for anyone who is under 18 reading this, keep reading books get super smart. when you get old enough to get a legal opinion about things (21 years old), try to unlearn somethings to avoid these smarty pants adult problems.

Culturally we are black. I feel a lot of guys who don’t date black women have been given a pass by their mothers if you go back to history our mothers had to protect our brothers theirs sons, uncle and so on because they were being executed by our slave masters. Let us fast-forward to the present our men were never brought up to speed with who they are what their mothers endured to bring them to this future instead they assimilate they choose the easy way out then turn around and rejected the very women they owed their survival to many of whom died in protecting black men. When it came time for our men to step up and reach back for their black women they found it too hard, too much work, they began dehumanizing they in order to form an excuse as why we are not date able ( are you kidding) They were supposed to come back and secure us release us of the burden BUT instead they took the slave owners daughters it’s easier. Don’t get me wrong there are amazing black men who gets it. OMG its a level you can’t imagine. I say to those men know who and what you are you are our kings and princes but you fail to take your rightful place with black women. They need your protection and your guidance Black life have always been a struggle from the day we were taken from our home land. Many of our children took a different paths because it was easier for them to survive/hide from who they really are because it was easier but now they can’t find their way back. This new group of young men are seeking their history and are choosing black women now we white men competing with them for black women don’t get it twisted your white guys are seeking us but we get it. I know there are women who really need to get educated about who they are and what the are worth and some need emotional help but they are absolutely not the reason.

I'll give her statement a thumbs up! Black women have had to put up this tough front because they're dealing with white daddy, baby daddy drama, bills, and a host of other things. But because one, two, or three guys screwed you over doesn't mean all black men are bad. Watching black women in the morning going to work, or at work, you always have that angry look on your face that makes you seem unapproachable, which in turn makes no one want to speak to you, which makes you more bitter and the cycle keeps on going!

Love black woman and will alway do, but it's hard to find a natural, confident and supportive sister in this country. I dont need a Becky look a like ( extension, wigs, blue eye contacts etc) don't need a black becky with the good hair. I need a real sister. Even with all that I'm still not giving up on my black sisters.

I'm a middle aged white man having grown up in an almost exclusively black neighborhood. I don't like the concept of dating a woman based solely or even predominantly on race. I freely admit I might be wrong but I cannot help but feel that such an attitude is racist. Moving along, my dating/sexual preference is definitely for darker skin toned black women, particularly petite black women. ALL other factors being equal, if I have a choice among white, black, Asian, Native American, or other, I'll choose the black woman because I'll find her features most appealing. My point is why should I be criticized for a preference? I don't exclude other races...why would I even want to? So black ladies, I'm waiting.

I don't get mad when Black men like other races. I get Mad when they have to bring down the Black Woman when they say so. Same goes for Black Women Who don't like Black Men too. When someone of a different race say they Like another race, you don't really see them bringing down their race as much as we do.

Also the non black females of today are very open to black men. It’s easier for the black man to go outside his race. The non black males are slowly coming around to dating black women.

Black men are tired of the arrogance, attitude, and just the way good black men are being treated when they approach black women. A friend of mine were getting rejected so much to the point he start dating outside his race and now with a Italian female that give him the attention and time he was looking for. He always spoke about how attractive he thought black females were, but his gentleman approach was a turn down to the point that the lady he with now vibe to it and so they getting married in August. Sister want to blame others for their downfalls but have to blame yourselves for chasing the black man away.

My brothers are Hispanic and they always talk about how they run into all these pretty black women but don't ask for their number because they come off as angry and have an attitude.

She did a good job breaking down the issue, she came off as sensible and analytical. A lot of these other RU-vidrs come off with way more edge on this issue.

Attitude means the way you think. What he is talking about is the results of your thinking

I just saw your video for the first time and I found it to be very interesting about black men not dating black women and it's true that the men will say the woman is a bit too much for them and we as men need to understand the truth as to why these situations are happening and I am a single man but I do love my sistas and I will keep in touch Thank you so much

TOO IDEPENDENT : EXAMPLE- '"IF YOU CAN'T GO OUT THIS WEEKEND BECAUSE OF YOUR WORK, I GO ALONE"". SHAMING:MY EX WAS UNFAITHFULL BUT AT LEAST HE WAS MORE PLEASANT THAN YOU AND TRIED TO PLEASE MY FRIENDS. ALL YOUR FRIENDS ARE IN GOVERNMENT AND ALL YOU HAVE IS A LAW FIRM. UNAVAILABLE: I DON'T HAVE TIME NOW HONEY, I'M GONNA MEET THE GIRLSTHESE ARE TYPICAL WORDS THAT COME OUT OF THEIR MOUTH OF AFRICAN AMERICAN WOMEN. AFRICAN WOMEN ARE DIFFERENT.LET THEM GO IN PEACE.

Again black women we real brothers want you stright fucking facts.

"they" say that black men run away but honestly black women run us away and put us in situations where we have to fight for stupid reasons, we end up getting hurt physically, mentally, and spiritually. i dont mean to sound bitter but its true. very few black women are actually humble and virtuous

The main problem with black especially african american women are they confuse confidence with bad attitude. Being rude and reckless make black woman very risky and insanely tiring to date.

I have no kids...35...years old own a house........and have a island black woman...I wouldn't have settled if my wife was black American

Speaking from the perspective of a black man that has dated black and white women I find black women to be the most beautiful creation on Gods green earth aesthetically from head to toe.But most sisters give the impression they're ready for battle at a moments notice before even being confronted in that manner.Because good,straight black men are highly coveted and rare in this day and age we don't have time to go through the laborious task of sifting through rocks for black diamonds anymore when diamonds of other races with peaceful attitudes are readily available.I still desire black women most though

I am pro black, and my husband is black. A lot of black women I have come across in AMERICA I have had bad experiences with. I do agree with all the points you have addressed and can see why black women are so angry however, you are responsible for how you handle yourself regardless of your external struggles. Even if your points are valid, it does not mean that black men are obligated to date them because of their issues. Most men want submission, and softness; just as women or feminine figures would love a strong, dominant men. I think you are very beautiful by the way. I'm sure black men would miss out on you if they looked past you. personally, I only date black men and I cannot ever date a Hispanic man. I feel like black men are wayyy more powerful and dominant, soulful, passionate,aggressive.

Its about who you are compatible with, not your color. There is no loyalty in incompatibility, breakups, separation, divorce, or joint custody. Black people comprise many different countries and tribes, whom not all are compatible.

.I had one black bf that's actually had a gf who was white and a child that he was living with. I asked him about it and I was the "nagging black woman". I date outside my race and I have no problems. I'm with them for years and rarely have disagreements. If we broke up it was my choice for whatever reason. I actually still keep hope alive for my black men but it's getting hard with the media and stereotypes.

Just flying by to say i love your make-up and hair. Have a nice day xx

The attitude is true but it's never too late to change that. Be an individual not a stereotype.

How can you say women struggle more if you aren't a man and don't know what men go through.

Cheesecake Factory black women highlights the problems with a lot of modern Black women.....

I'm a confident easygoing network engineer dude. a little hood a little classy, foreign. one of the thing that seem to appeal to black women alot is my accent but every now and then I would get my ass dissed by a few sisters. black women almost think that men are comical but i go with the flow and make fun of myself but in my heart I know i wouldn't date these chicks if i was paid. im with this sweetest gorgeous cuban girl for 4 years now. here is the truth, provided she's beautiful a woman who's sweet and nice can melt the hardest heart.

Ive had two recent experiences with black women. First my co-worker, a black female asked me a question while I was on the phone. I told her twice Id be happy to talk after my call. She kept going while I was ON THE PHONE and so I told her a 3rd time in a direct yet respectful tone, I would be happy to help but she would have to wait. When i was done, I gave her my attention and she immediately turned her back and said she'd take care of it, she then turned and said she thought I was being offensive. I asked her if she considered her behaviour offensive.....with that she got loud, threatened me with harm and even invited me to take it outside. She has since lodge a complaint with HR about my disrespectful tone and Im now on paid leave. Thank goodness I have sufficient witnesses men and women to back me up. Second. My ex said she needed a break and would like me to take our son for a few hrs. I said sure. She was fine until I said "you drop him off to me and Ill bring him back when you are done". Her argument? He is my son and I should be willing to come and get him. Black men vary on alot of things but I consistently hear cooperation and respect as the two things Black men want the most and which is in short supply from Black women.

Often times it is about how open you are to do what they (the black man) wants you to do sexually. Some black women are with it and some are not.

It's too bad that negative dysfunctional relationships are being equated with race. people are people. good and bad exist in all of humanity.

When I went to high school, there was this one girl, I was always nice to her and she would always accept my nice gestures, but she was always mean to me and talk behind my back. One day I had enough of her loud and rude behaviors so I confronted her....and this is her words...." I just don't like you"...nothing I did or nothing I said.... she was like that to couple of people I know....her attitude towards people just stunk.

One recurring theme is that black women have children out of wedlock and father's are incarcerated. Men in general are trending away from single mothers. That's a measurement of making bad decisions. Single women without children are always a better option. Black women or any woman with kids are going to find it more difficult.

No other race of women can make me feel the way she can. I love my black weman and I pray for them... AMAN

Close your eyes and touch a person. Do you feel a black person or white person or do you feel a human being not defined by color ? The perception of color is only limited only by what you see and not by what you feel. We are all the same because we all " FEEL " EACH OTHER THE SAME WAY.

Generalisation is the easy way to deal with the complexity of all day matters .

i date them all. I am a black male. I have a brain. We are all human. When a woman has the qualities that I want in a wife and mother, hopefully she will want me as well and we can get this thing going. I don't seek out any color in particular.

and black men go through WAAAAAY more then black women and I love y'all but we ain't been tripping like y'all

Hello sista.. great vid... I am a black man currently engaged to a Mexican woman and we are happy.... I often get asked about this and my answer is simple.... I love my black queens but I am also human.... ethnic backgrounds don't really matter to me however with the sistas one of four reasons is what either kept them away from me or vice versa... 1. they were already involved with someone. 2. they claim that I was too nerdy n not hood enough 3. I had too much hood n not enough nerd 4. They were gay... I understand that everyone has a preference on their potential mate or social circle, but dont dawg me cuz id rather listen to metallica over 3 6 mafia one day then listen to Michael Jackson the next or wanna fight one day and keep my ass inside the next.... great vid u r smart as u r beautiful keep em comin

Some women try to act hard or man-like. When we say attitude, yes that is vague. But it is the explosive irrational behavior.

Most videos are about what guys can do to be more attractive while I find that most Women are absolutely clueless about what is attractive to Men. Since Tinder I know way to many Women that don't work on themselves anymore because they think it's the other person and very few reflect on themselves and their actions. Social media also silences Men's opinions for fear of being singled out so Women are living in a time that are setting themselves up for failure and place all the blame on Men when in reality they need to be looking in the mirror and working on themselves. This is why dating is out of control because of the illusion of so many people to date when there are very few that are actually compatible relationship material. Personally and respect matters to Men.

I find it hilarious that people keep pushing this rhetoric of BM abandoning large groups of children to be raised by the state. When 50% of BM ages 25 - 40 are single and don't have children out of wedlock. I, an educated BM (veteran military and law enforcement) am a part of that 50%. I got a vasectomy when I was 22, and I don't have plans to reserve the procedure. Honestly, until Black American "Culture" changes I won't contemplate bringing a child into this world. When I explained my grievances to my girlfriend who is Filipino/Singaporean she was heartbroken, but she understood.