Why Can't I Get My Ex Back? | 7 Common Reasons It Isn't Working (And How To Fix It) 

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Hi Clay. I just wanted to say a massive thank you ! Thanks to your guidance me and my ex are in relationship together. For the 1st 2 months I've been trying the nc rule and it got me even further away. This was before I came across your couching. Everything has changed from that moment. I had a better understanding of what's going through my ex's emotions, what is he thinking and most importantly how to overcome his fears to get back together. You have guided me through my journey every day , I would listen to your videos for hours. 2 days ago after long 3,5 months my ex is back and next week he is moving back in! I have done so much work on myslef thanks to you . Thank you from the bottom of my heart!

I so appreciate this video! Your videos have been SUCH A HUGE help to me!!

I have trouble stepping out of my comfort zone Clay.

My ex has a PhD in psychology. Mind games will not work on her. Whatever I do must be genuine

I think I’m forcing it on my time Clay and not having faith in the feeling.

Hi Clay, I love youe videos. You are truly q God send. I have ONE question that so far NO ONE has given me qn answer to... First I want my ex back, I love him dearly and believe he still loves me, he can be a tad stubborn.. After 1.5 yrs he ended our relationship very unjustly in February. Almost 7 months. Im blocked ev.where except regular Facebook. HOW can he come back if THere is NO COMMUNICATION BETWEEN US??? YES I did do no contact but screwed up a few times, now I have done NC for 2 solid Months, noyhing no mess ups. I dont know what to do. Please help me. He is 66 I am 64.

How do I re-connect with someone who is actively avoiding communication and has put up barriers to make that clear?

I wrote a letter of apology to my ex-wife which I read out to her, ended up with her getting super mad at me and moving in with her older brother these days (we still live together) before I read it out we could have fun together but now she's so mad at me?

I completely messed things up with my ex. He is literally only communicating with me with regards to our four month old child we share. He’s given me so much opportunities to get it right but my hormones were raging now it’s too late

My ex will reply to texts and we talk in person as we still live together. If I send him a quote about feelings/emotions or a flirty text he never responds.

Hi 👋

Months ago said she missed the memories we had but was still upset a mistake I made. Spoke to her over the weekend and didn’t want to talk and wanted to be done and she would block me but I doubt it

Absence makes the heart grow fonder do No Contact guys.

Why ? Because they are history and I have moved on with my life........................and I am absolutely loving my new life without them in it!!!!

I feel like I and my ex-girlfriend Tracci Ludwick are on opposite teams Clay.

I think my ex-girlfriend Tracci is on Avoidant Attachment Style.

I’m playing hard to get Clay with my ex-girlfriend Tracci Ludwick Clay and making her think that I’m not interested in her.

Why? Simple. They're not interested...and I've moved on ....

I don’t like my ex-girlfriend Tracci Ludwick’s old-fashioned way of thinking and dating.