Literally how it is. But the MOST important thing that shouldn’t be ignored is physical attractions. You’ll have an easier time if you’re a 5 and up and a good personality. 5 and below requires more patience. Dating is still a bit different these days though. So you’ve got to go on date with people genuinely looking to have fun instead of the ones focused on hot button dating topics like wealth and value.
Dating apps are super easy when you’re attractive. It’s basically like Instagram but you know at least half the women on there actually want to meet somebody.
I think the idea is that on IG or Twitter you can run into someone you’re interested in and then shoot, were as dating apps ppl are there SPECIFICALLY to shoot which then has this air of thirst attached to it.
If you are looking for love messaging girls isn’t thirsty you white kids ruined the word “thirsty “ I used to only hear hood people say that word “thirsty “
I used to pay for tinder back in 2020- 2021. I spent about 250. (100 for a yearly black membership and other miscellaneous boosts). I smashed 1 chick on there 😂 ate the groceries and everything, she still ghosted me 😂😂😂 had one girl arrive to my place and leave immediately after. She say my apartment was trash 😂
Whistle blowers have admitted that these apps are designed to keep desperate men scrolling and scrolling hoping they'll find a match. They make fake bot accounts to make dudes feel like their wanted so they'll keep spending money on apps.
Hilarious the first ad I got for this was a bumble ad, but yea screw dating apps no one ik has had any luck on em besides one friend but his situation was like a one in a million
The best place to meet women in your 20s is college because in most collages, women outnumber men. As long as you are just a normal guy, not being creepy in your pursuit, you'll find someone.
@@j.e3336that’s def weird, and mainly just for you. Most people share the sentiment of college meeting people is just way easier. And this is in all fields. In academic relationships, social relationships, romantic relationships, because you are surrounding yourself with so many people- if you’re not clicking, you might just not be trying
Congrats dude. I honestly feel like If I switch up my commitment on my profile, I’ll get even more matches lol. I’m doing well for someone that is listed as casual, so I honestly wonder what the other outcomes will give me.
I knew a lot of people in college (20-25 age range) who were using dating apps. Not all of them were having good luck forming steady relationships, but it was an average way people were meeting each other.
Anyone peep Shawn's really thoughtful and mature perspectives recently? I feel like his reactions and takes are so much more nuanced recently, I respect it. Alot less trash talk, negative talk unless he's playing a game.
Same I found my current partner on tinder years ago and I definitely got lucky! It worked for me but I had a lot of duds before meeting them. Honestly wouldn’t recommend it 😅
Gonna preface what I'm about to say with the following: I take a lot of stuff at face value, or people at their word. When it comes to dating apps, I am actually used to seeing women I come across say they aren't there for anything casual in the slightest, and want something more long term. Probably about 60% of profiles I run into, accounting for unused/fake/spam profiles. Perhaps the perception is affected by the area I'm in, the fact I've been using the app for years so pretty sure the algorithms are running against me like usual, but that's what I've seen over the years. And to be honest, nothing wrong with that. More power to those who aren't looking for short term. Just is tough for me because that's what I'm looking for, so I got to keep looking.
Honestly, it’s one of those “don’t put all your eggs in one basket” things. I used dating apps throughout college, I dated some women from them, met some through friends, or some just on my own at events and such. Then I got lucky and found my amazing gf on hinge and we’ve been together almost a year now and planning to move in together after the 1 year mark. The thing is, you just don’t take it seriously, just live your life, and it’ll happen. Regardless if it’s a dating app or not.
Not true at all. Based on what I'm hearing is that you are more extroverted so people naturally will gravitate to you. If you aren't as extroverted, you can go out to events or talk to people, and people just don't fool with you as much. So you have to force it by cold approaching/dating apps or else you stay single
1 in 4 adults are reportedly lonely, not just men specifically, most people are suffering from late stage capitalism, price of living going up and pay isn’t, we’re broke and tired
It’s important to note that if you are a 5 and up out of 10, with a good personality, then online dating is very easy. That reality can’t be ignored, because these dating apps make everyone feel like there’s someone out there for everyone. It’s true, but what isn’t mentioned is how much harder it is for those who aren’t as physically attractive. I don’t struggle, but I see people within the dating sphere that do, because they go into it not realizing, that they are the ones who are going to have to be patient.
First 2 ads after clicking on this video were for Bumble and some other dating app saying "People think dating apps are dead, but they are just using the wrong dating app!" 😭😭😭 Video started talking about Tinder, next ad was about Tinder 😮💨
Met my wife on hinge haha It’s good generally but don’t have your expectations too high I used to meet my girlfriends from parties or from friends, I tried hinge for the first time for a month and eventually met my wife there. I feel like the women on hinge are more serious and actually look for relationships. Don’t use tinder if you’re looking for a relationship, it’s trash. Never tried bumble before, it looks dumb.
school n work are mad questionable. if that shit dont work out in school you might be stuck in class with them or some other awkward situation because of ur proximity to them. you could hook up at a party and they could be in different classes than you so that might be alright, but maybe less common schoolwork to talk about. work is so much worse than school. if shit goes bad, at work you are stuck with that person. you are also trying to make a living and now you got to deal with potential suitors too. there's a reason why people hook up at bars and clubs and shit like mixers. its the same proximity that school and work have but the point of these places is to have fun and get to know each other.
I've noticed that people are significantly more likely to ghost you even after the first or second date if you meet on fating apps, that shit sucks so much like at least be honest and say youre not interested holy shit
If 2 people are committed it can absolutely work problem is no seems to be these days which means it cannot work until ppl change habits to commit to one another
I think where u live matters too. If u in a big city it is gonna be a lot easier bc there a lot more to do. But if u live in like a town that’s a different story. A lot harder to meet ppl
@@firstlast9846the other apps mentioned in this vid are owned by the same ppl. They’re pretty much predatory towards men in general, ugly or not. They pretty much force you to pay cuz it’ll say you have xx matches yet you can’t see any of them til you get the premium service. Without the service, you could swipe forever and never see these matches (once I had about 70-80 matches yet I swiped so much that I had no more matches left in my area, yet still had 70-80 matches??). Hinge doesn’t do that bs they seem pretty legit. Either way it’s better to just try to meet women in person
Hinge at first hits you with all the good-looking women in your area, then they got you and show you all the big, ugly women. After you get past that for a week, Hinge works pretty well
I did a social experiment, I went on tinder and didn’t get any matches from girls I’m Tall I’m 6’1 I’m not even bad looking either, after I changed my tinder sexuality to gay and immediately got matches from guys smh I guess I gotta take better pictures?
I tried it but most of the time folks sometimes get anxious and think too much or you end up with a bot and no response. I met most of my partners in person through social interaction in my younger years. I would say you do you if it works hey by all means goes for it, but be respectful. Don’t be a deprived human.
Hinge should be called unhinged 😂. Traveling to find love is a terrible idea because if u click 1 of y'all gotta change their entire lives and move to be with the other. Or it's gonna be a long distance relationship and who's got time for that??
I know a girl that really liked me since college and we were texting consistently until recently when I fumbled it by opening up to her a lil too much (I think). She was perfect. Fml💀
Bro how is bumble extra work for women if they only open with "Hello" or "Hey", just use them as a different source of people but all apps are basically the same
Dating Apps are the weirdest dates I've ever had in life, and all ,y real long-term relationships just happened. Anything planned or dating apps, the Lady's expectations were Arranged marriage or Trick-Daddy Sugar Baby Shit to me.
@@MrSupersayian4goku I never said serious lol I said wanna meet and interact. Aka they want to have fun, be casual, find someone etc very few are on there just to match and never go past the attention of knowing ppl are interested. A lot of women are on there to get followers or boost their confidence. I guess one can argue that a guy who just wants to hook up is ultimately boosting his ego/confidence in some way.
because the 7,6,5’s rate themselves on a number scale of attractiveness like a crazy person instead of the so called 8 or 9’s think if themselves as just cool people and are so confident in their beings that they attract confident girls. You only…barely…attract insecure shy women for a reason and its all you and it has nothing to do with your looks. “ugly” dudes get play all the time. it could be you. look inwards and work on yourself and you’ll become more attractive naturally.
Dating apps these days are mostly hookup apps. That's what %90 of all these apps are, with some exceptions of course, so it's honestly not worth the squeeze. Meeting women through mutual friends or joining some kind of club or physical activity where you're around the same people regularly is the best way. The digital age (and simps) has fucked the game up These apps are really designed to capitalize on lonely men.
It just depends on what you’re looking for and what your expectations are imo. You really have to go into it not expecting anything and look for the least lol.
"20 I think you have many options" nah, You KNOW you do. Why tf are you on a dating app? Get off the phone and go talk to people. Succeed or fail. It's better than hiding behind a screen.
I struggle with anxiety, chronic depression, and I have autism...I tried to talk to people but I know they don't like me or only hang out because they feel bad for me. I have made one friend ao far at work but all we say is "Hi" then continue working and she and I never have time to go anywhere outside of work because we both work long hours and our feet are always hurting everyday. We can't even get ourselves to go and walk on our offdays, we both in the bed. I overheard this freind in the break room talking about me saying "She is past slow, she's not normal slow" and laughing about my mental illness. Making freinds and talking to people never seems to work out for me and I'm 19 btw.
3:24 and this is where we gone see Shawn downfall, he gone put his trust in a 304 here in the states and she’ll ruin his life. Gotta change that mindset bro
@@intermediate212he isn't lying bro. It's crazy how people can have so many different experiences and expect them to be smiliar. In my own life, I never had women approach me first and I been to co concerts, bars, parties and travel. If I wanted a woman, I always had to approach first
@@ShawnCeeLIVE yes I have spoken to many women and I’m not lying. I’ve always made the first move, not them. It’s very VERY rare that a woman makes the first move
@@intermediate212 dude I live in Miami. I always approach women first. Women rarely approach a man. It’s possible that it can happen but it’s almost never happens. Women prefer the man to make the first move
